I liked her more than me. I have limited my interactions with her the past 2-3 months and I only talk to her or text her whenever she reaches out first. I do not engage first anymore and we go days now between interactions until she reaches out. I am dating and actively engaging with new girls now and trying to move on and grow from your advice and videos Christine. I am not chasing anyone anymore or trying to hard.
@@oluwadamilolabello5430 Hell yes! Christine is a great coach cause her stuff works. I backed off and now this girl texts me first or engages with me first and I keep things short and I match her effort and context. And I think it is allowing her the space she needs, that I did not always give her before, and by not talking every day, we build some suspense and curiosity of each other. So I recommend doing what Christine coaches in this clip cause it works!
I remember when my ex chased and fell in love with me. I really enjoyed that time, where I didn't do too much, being myself, and mysterious to my ex was one of the reasons why she loved me. Now four years later I've been blocked, and now I'm in no contact with her.
Very good video. Guys who have chronic problems with their relationships suffer from limerence a lot of the times, that is the attraction to emotionally unavailable women ; these guys have an inability to connect emotionally or feel a woman's connection.
This girl I dated, I made sure she knew she had to earn me. Every time we spent together had a spark between us, but despite her showing more interest in a guy than I've ever seen (she told everyone at work we were seeing eachother, acted like a shy young girl around me, her pupils dilates insanely, can't stop looking at me and whatnot) she still went with another guy who has nothing on me. Even now, she still shows signs of interest at work despite being with someone else and she denied it when I asked what that was about. I told her that I enjoyed spending time with her learning about her, but I never showed too much interest. I don't know where it went wrong. Not that I'd want a woman who's not into me, but I really thought there was something between us and her behaviour says different than her words do.
U also cant not show any interest. Men also gotta make a move. A light back touch when shes in the way. Or walking her out from work. Or invite her out. Too much of the "step back" and they just move on. That happened not too long with me. Even having drinks and stuff i waited, for her move. She made the move. I saw it. But she would back out of it Many times over months. But they were so subtle. And that annoys me too. Those are Avoidant type girls. Now im talking to someone who genuinely asks for selfies. And doesnt "shy" from expressing her desire for me. Its night and day. Best of luck
@@graz_d4723 we've been in no contact for 7 months. She recently started speaking to me again at work, that's where I asked her why but she said it was nothing so I took it she only wanted attention so now I'm gonna go back into no contact. Unless she has something to tell me, I'm not gonna give her attention. She played me so I'm not gonna act like nothing happened.
@@FlightyWolfwood Believe me, she knew I was interested in seeing her more. I did tell her I wanted to know more about her because I liked what I had been seeing thus far and I also invited her on a few occasions after our first date (at her place) but she declined all of them because she was already with her other guy (she didn't tell me).
How about just communicating like adults instead of all the runarounds and indirect signaling and all that BS. How about: “I like you” or “I’m in love with you” directly and that’s it? - just wait for the right moment, and trust me you’ll know when the right moment is.
You have more than earned me Christine❤!❤!❤! I know it's "pride month", but please reconsider that life style. I would be so much better for U, while U maintain a close friendship with your girl. Your very soul is at stake over this Christine, so let me help U fall for me!❤!❤!❤!❤!❤!❤!❤
I liked her more than me. I have limited my interactions with her the past 2-3 months and I only talk to her or text her whenever she reaches out first. I do not engage first anymore and we go days now between interactions until she reaches out. I am dating and actively engaging with new girls now and trying to move on and grow from your advice and videos Christine. I am not chasing anyone anymore or trying to hard.
How did it go?
Is she putting more efforts?
@@oluwadamilolabello5430 Hell yes! Christine is a great coach cause her stuff works. I backed off and now this girl texts me first or engages with me first and I keep things short and I match her effort and context. And I think it is allowing her the space she needs, that I did not always give her before, and by not talking every day, we build some suspense and curiosity of each other. So I recommend doing what Christine coaches in this clip cause it works!
Any updates?
I remember when my ex chased and fell in love with me. I really enjoyed that time, where I didn't do too much, being myself, and mysterious to my ex was one of the reasons why she loved me. Now four years later I've been blocked, and now I'm in no contact with her.
Very good video. Guys who have chronic problems with their relationships suffer from limerence a lot of the times, that is the attraction to emotionally unavailable women ; these guys have an inability to connect emotionally or feel a woman's connection.
I'm like that with friends too.
Wise advice.
Great advice as always..
But what if she read the same advice, and also pretends not to be interested?
Lessons learnt
This girl I dated, I made sure she knew she had to earn me. Every time we spent together had a spark between us, but despite her showing more interest in a guy than I've ever seen (she told everyone at work we were seeing eachother, acted like a shy young girl around me, her pupils dilates insanely, can't stop looking at me and whatnot) she still went with another guy who has nothing on me.
Even now, she still shows signs of interest at work despite being with someone else and she denied it when I asked what that was about.
I told her that I enjoyed spending time with her learning about her, but I never showed too much interest. I don't know where it went wrong. Not that I'd want a woman who's not into me, but I really thought there was something between us and her behaviour says different than her words do.
i am in similar situation. donno what's in their head.
My advice would be to stop speaking to her. They don't like that
U also cant not show any interest. Men also gotta make a move. A light back touch when shes in the way. Or walking her out from work. Or invite her out. Too much of the "step back" and they just move on. That happened not too long with me. Even having drinks and stuff i waited, for her move. She made the move. I saw it. But she would back out of it Many times over months. But they were so subtle. And that annoys me too. Those are Avoidant type girls. Now im talking to someone who genuinely asks for selfies. And doesnt "shy" from expressing her desire for me. Its night and day. Best of luck
@@graz_d4723 we've been in no contact for 7 months. She recently started speaking to me again at work, that's where I asked her why but she said it was nothing so I took it she only wanted attention so now I'm gonna go back into no contact. Unless she has something to tell me, I'm not gonna give her attention. She played me so I'm not gonna act like nothing happened.
@@FlightyWolfwood Believe me, she knew I was interested in seeing her more. I did tell her I wanted to know more about her because I liked what I had been seeing thus far and I also invited her on a few occasions after our first date (at her place) but she declined all of them because she was already with her other guy (she didn't tell me).
As a 41 year old turd, I don't think any of this applies to me anymore but I do think your advice is valid for younger guys.
You always give solid advice.
you look like christina ricci (compliment)
simp
I knew she reminded me of someone lol
How about just communicating like adults instead of all the runarounds and indirect signaling and all that BS. How about: “I like you” or “I’m in love with you” directly and that’s it? - just wait for the right moment, and trust me you’ll know when the right moment is.
"I’m in love with you" is what simps say before getting brutally rejected.
Sadly that's not how the world works. I also learnt the hard way. It's sad but it is what it is.
This doesn't work tho because if I like a girl, I have to approach her and convince her to date me...???
so it's a really really lovely thing when a woman falls in love with you.
give us a break, lol.
Haha ! A much welcomed break lol
That’s what the whole waiting until marriage was about. Men have sex with anyone . Marriage that’s different.
You have more than earned me Christine❤!❤!❤! I know it's "pride month", but please reconsider that life style. I would be so much better for U, while U maintain a close friendship with your girl. Your very soul is at stake over this Christine, so let me help U fall for me!❤!❤!❤!❤!❤!❤!❤