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A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 6 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Parting ways with someone you deeply cherish is an agonizing experience. I understand firsthand, having encountered a parallel situation at the end of my 7 year relationship. Driven by an unyielding determination, I explored every avenue to salvage our bond. Seeking guidance from a spiritual counselor proved pivotal, as their intervention played a crucial role in rekindling our love.
*Men often stress over texting too much or waiting for responses, but if she’s into you, she’ll show it through her actions. Don’t overthink it - let things unfold naturally!*
The more i watch your videos the more positive i feel about the outcome of my current breakup, whatever it will be. I just don't really care anymore if we get back together or not and that's thanks to your videos !
0:43 my rule with women is, ALWAYS stay at least 2 steps BEHIND her. So if she steps back you also step back to keep those 2 steps behind her. She contact twice then I contact her once, etc.
These are honestly great videos. You're laying things out in such a clear and direct way that is compelling and hopeful. Please keep doing what you're doing
Of course she will. That goes both ways. If there is a genuine interest one way or another, people will initiate contact. If you find yourself in a position where it is only you who are calling, texting or suggesting any form of contact, then it is time to move on.
@@ElevateMyRelationships : I've already kept it pretty straight forward. I am flagging my interest, but I never chase any woman, and I don't play mind games either. If she stay silent, so do I. The world would be a better place if people just played less games with each other.
@@makingwaves1239 yes I totally agree. The stuff I teach in my videos isn’t games, but I have found that understanding women and what makes them tick allows you to take the proper actions to help raise attraction. Some girls call it games, but the reality is a lot of them don’t even know how their emotions work. Not being condescending, it’s true. Same way they say they want this this and that but react positively to different actions. Totally agree, I’m not about games I’m about knowledge and measured actions with it which is best for both the man and women :) Glad you don’t chase; confidence is solid.
@@ElevateMyRelationships "I've already kept it pretty straight forward" should be "I've always kept it pretty straight forward", but my intended meaning was clear anyway I guess.
It’s more so if you treated them right and it was an actually good relationship then yes you more than likely will hear from your ex eventually. It took my ex 3 months till she reached out. I was 100 percent sure no contact wouldn’t work with her but as more time went on I felt okay if I never heard from her again. Then it becomes really easy
Christine you are awesome. Can you make a video about a crush on a coworker I don’t want to ask her out because if she doesn’t have mutual interest then it will become awkward the work Environment
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
@@alektanno680I have a theory. If you're an older man (mid 20s or older), you're likely to keep the company of similarly aged people. This could even include people significantly older than you by way of your professional connections. In that world, every lady you meet, either a co worker, or a co worker's wife, or a client, or a client's wife etc. is married. And that's nothing to say of the ladies, likely mid 20s and older, you match with on dating apps or through connections by way of friends going as far back as your childhood. Now it should not be surprising that _all_ of the women in this age range are married, as a good number of women settle down in their 20s because women want to have the social and physical protections that a marriage brings, and they are no longer young enough to continue to get those protections from their aging fathers, or even their mothers. What this also means is that in order to meet those relationship goals before hitting a certain age these women make compromises with regard to their choice of mate (Mr. Right now vs. Mr. Right). So they have a husband that makes or can make decent money, loves them, spends time with them, gives them kids even, but a husband they are not particularly attracted to, if at all. Now that these women have secured themselves 'starter' husbands to take care of those basic needs, they then continue the hunt for relationships and situationships with other men to fulfil their unserved romantic desires. So if you're a somewhat attractive man above a certain age you're likely to run into women who want to engage with you even their though they are almost always by default engaged to another.
She cleared things up but created excuses for things she never mentioned up close but only through text. Said i did things she was bothered about, but nothing really happened the way she described it. I don't think she will come back because she also did not have any feelings as i did clearly since her way of ending things between us was way too serious, unlike the chat we used to have before her attitude got this way.
2:46 "It doesn't matter why." Actually it does matter, if the woman doesn't know why she is doing it. So many people float through life not knowing why they are doing things. They just go through the motions with no control over their situation. Knowledge and awareness are the keys to understanding behavior. It's the why that matters.
From the perspective of a woman as a person, it is important to know and understand this for yourself. From the perspective of her man, it doesn't matter. I won't be able to force my girlfriend to think about what she does, why she does it, and what she really wants, because it's all part of her own personality, not me.
The 'places' I like to go is home. All the things I like are here. Not much of an opportunity to meet new women. The biggest reason I am single? Not going out and meeting new people. I just don't feel compelled to do it.
Ok then you are literally causing your own problems. Your belief that you have everything you need at home is misguided and myopic. Humans are communal and you are being selfish by cutting yourself off from people. When you make yourself available to others it is good for them and good for you. You have things they need and they have things you need as well. And from the sound of it you need a lot.
Before we met each other she told me on the phone that she wants friendship, then when we had our first weekend together we had a sexual romantic thing going on. She started everything. After that weekend, she pulled back and told me that she wanted to be free and stay friends with me. I sent that message and went no contact. After a month she reached out to me and she was upset that i distanced myself and specially, when i broke her ego telling her that she is not my priority anymore or important to me and repeated for the third time to her that we can't be friends, because we've never had this status. She was about ready to leave forever, she wished me good luck on her long message. I told her that she needs to relax and we are in contact but like a roller-coaster mode until today. We still doing circles because she wants the friendship without pushing though. She accepts my flirting even if sometimes turn out to be very sexy and more! Wtf is wrong with her! Wtf wants that woman from me?
Had a lady that said she really liked me, drew me iin, physically showed it, but was texting sporadically, then finally ghosting me. I gave up. Haven't had a response in over 3 weeks, so guess she doesn't like me. Doesn't matter now because I already have another lady.
Well that’s the thing with many coaches from one day to another they change their narrative depending of the context… so at some points it can be hella confusing, but I believe it vary from people to people and what you’re going through…
@@GoldGollumthe best context is that women’s feelings develop at a slower pace (my last video explains the science behind it), so with that knowledge you have to act accordingly. I used to make alllll the mistakes, so spent a lot of time learning :)
@@jeffreyexposito3803100%, my last video talks about that. Gotta understand the pace of women being slower. Have to let them build. You make a great point, if the guy is overly needy or try to get them out too quickly after the first date, the women back off. Also if you talk about yourself too much on the date, the goal is to get the women to talk about themselves, leaving more mystery about you :)
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A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 6 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Parting ways with someone you deeply cherish is an agonizing experience. I understand firsthand, having encountered a parallel situation at the end of my 7 year relationship. Driven by an unyielding determination, I explored every avenue to salvage our bond. Seeking guidance from a spiritual counselor proved pivotal, as their intervention played a crucial role in rekindling our love.
That's fascinating! How did you come across a spiritual counselor, and what's the best way for me to contact her?
Meet Suzanne Ann Walters, an outstanding spiritual counselor with the power to restore your relationship with your ex.
I'm grateful for this valuable information; I've just taken a moment to find her online.
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I like your advices, you are a smart woman
The more i watch your videos the more positive i feel about the outcome of my current breakup, whatever it will be. I just don't really care anymore if we get back together or not and that's thanks to your videos !
0:43 my rule with women is, ALWAYS stay at least 2 steps BEHIND her. So if she steps back you also step back to keep those 2 steps behind her. She contact twice then I contact her once, etc.
Best Coach ever!
These are honestly great videos. You're laying things out in such a clear and direct way that is compelling and hopeful. Please keep doing what you're doing
Of course she will. That goes both ways. If there is a genuine interest one way or another, people will initiate contact. If you find yourself in a position where it is only you who are calling, texting or suggesting any form of contact, then it is time to move on.
100% but you have to let a women wonder about you
@@ElevateMyRelationships : I've already kept it pretty straight forward. I am flagging my interest, but I never chase any woman, and I don't play mind games either. If she stay silent, so do I. The world would be a better place if people just played less games with each other.
@@makingwaves1239 yes I totally agree. The stuff I teach in my videos isn’t games, but I have found that understanding women and what makes them tick allows you to take the proper actions to help raise attraction. Some girls call it games, but the reality is a lot of them don’t even know how their emotions work. Not being condescending, it’s true. Same way they say they want this this and that but react positively to different actions.
Totally agree, I’m not about games I’m about knowledge and measured actions with it which is best for both the man and women :)
Glad you don’t chase; confidence is solid.
@@ElevateMyRelationships "I've already kept it pretty straight forward" should be "I've always kept it pretty straight forward", but my intended meaning was clear anyway I guess.
It’s more so if you treated them right and it was an actually good relationship then yes you more than likely will hear from your ex eventually. It took my ex 3 months till she reached out. I was 100 percent sure no contact wouldn’t work with her but as more time went on I felt okay if I never heard from her again. Then it becomes really easy
Christine you are awesome. Can you make a video about a crush on a coworker I don’t want to ask her out because if she doesn’t have mutual interest then it will become awkward the work Environment
Thank you for the advice. I was about to send her a lovebug and a barbershop quartet but now i've cancelled it
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
Why didnt you find another one?
0:12 yes she WILL. I have had more than enough experiences as proof.
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Only married ones contact me. That is totally wrong. 😒
@@alektanno680I have a theory.
If you're an older man (mid 20s or older), you're likely to keep the company of similarly aged people. This could even include people significantly older than you by way of your professional connections.
In that world, every lady you meet, either a co worker, or a co worker's wife, or a client, or a client's wife etc. is married. And that's nothing to say of the ladies, likely mid 20s and older, you match with on dating apps or through connections by way of friends going as far back as your childhood.
Now it should not be surprising that _all_ of the women in this age range are married, as a good number of women settle down in their 20s because women want to have the social and physical protections that a marriage brings, and they are no longer young enough to continue to get those protections from their aging fathers, or even their mothers.
What this also means is that in order to meet those relationship goals before hitting a certain age these women make compromises with regard to their choice of mate (Mr. Right now vs. Mr. Right). So they have a husband that makes or can make decent money, loves them, spends time with them, gives them kids even, but a husband they are not particularly attracted to, if at all.
Now that these women have secured themselves 'starter' husbands to take care of those basic needs, they then continue the hunt for relationships and situationships with other men to fulfil their unserved romantic desires.
So if you're a somewhat attractive man above a certain age you're likely to run into women who want to engage with you even their though they are almost always by default engaged to another.
They try to monkey branch
She cleared things up but created excuses for things she never mentioned up close but only through text. Said i did things she was bothered about, but nothing really happened the way she described it. I don't think she will come back because she also did not have any feelings as i did clearly since her way of ending things between us was way too serious, unlike the chat we used to have before her attitude got this way.
I think accepting her again is against my dignity since she did that unless she shows maturity of understanding that she destroyed me emotionally.
2:46 "It doesn't matter why." Actually it does matter, if the woman doesn't know why she is doing it. So many people float through life not knowing why they are doing things. They just go through the motions with no control over their situation. Knowledge and awareness are the keys to understanding behavior. It's the why that matters.
From the perspective of a woman as a person, it is important to know and understand this for yourself. From the perspective of her man, it doesn't matter. I won't be able to force my girlfriend to think about what she does, why she does it, and what she really wants, because it's all part of her own personality, not me.
The 'places' I like to go is home. All the things I like are here. Not much of an opportunity to meet new women. The biggest reason I am single? Not going out and meeting new people. I just don't feel compelled to do it.
Ok then you are literally causing your own problems. Your belief that you have everything you need at home is misguided and myopic. Humans are communal and you are being selfish by cutting yourself off from people. When you make yourself available to others it is good for them and good for you. You have things they need and they have things you need as well. And from the sound of it you need a lot.
Before we met each other she told me on the phone that she wants friendship, then when we had our first weekend together we had a sexual romantic thing going on. She started everything. After that weekend, she pulled back and told me that she wanted to be free and stay friends with me. I sent that message and went no contact. After a month she reached out to me and she was upset that i distanced myself and specially, when i broke her ego telling her that she is not my priority anymore or important to me and repeated for the third time to her that we can't be friends, because we've never had this status. She was about ready to leave forever, she wished me good luck on her long message. I told her that she needs to relax and we are in contact but like a roller-coaster mode until today. We still doing circles because she wants the friendship without pushing though. She accepts my flirting even if sometimes turn out to be very sexy and more!
Wtf is wrong with her!
Wtf wants that woman from me?
Had a lady that said she really liked me, drew me iin, physically showed it, but was texting sporadically, then finally ghosting me.
I gave up. Haven't had a response in over 3 weeks, so guess she doesn't like me. Doesn't matter now because I already have another lady.
She has somebody
The title of your last video is quite contradictory to this one 🤨
Eventually.....is too late
Why haven’t you contacted me?? 😭
First, she says women won't message you if they like you, now she says women will contact you if they like you.....
There better strategy to it than that. It’s about controlling the space a bit :)
Bro she’s a Woman. Mic drop
At some point people will not understand her message because its coming from a women lol😅
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She doesn’t contact me so she doesn’t like me.
Your last video was literally "Women don´t text men they like"...
Gotta get the YT algorithm pay.😂
Well that’s the thing with many coaches from one day to another they change their narrative depending of the context… so at some points it can be hella confusing, but I believe it vary from people to people and what you’re going through…
@@GoldGollumthe best context is that women’s feelings develop at a slower pace (my last video explains the science behind it), so with that knowledge you have to act accordingly. I used to make alllll the mistakes, so spent a lot of time learning :)
@@P.90.603lol
Congrats, you realized they're quacks.
I like ya ; & i'm in contact baby! ha ha💕
If she consciously likes you, her subconscious mind will stop her from contacting you 😂
😂😂😂
Ur specs🙂 reminds me of her
It's really humorous.sort of a Cat and Mouse sort of thing!tr
I’ve had several dates with women recently, they ghost me ….
Are you acting needy? Sometimes women just aren't attracted to you. It happens to everyone. It's pretty much a numbers game.
@@jeffreyexposito3803100%, my last video talks about that. Gotta understand the pace of women being slower. Have to let them build.
You make a great point, if the guy is overly needy or try to get them out too quickly after the first date, the women back off. Also if you talk about yourself too much on the date, the goal is to get the women to talk about themselves, leaving more mystery about you :)
will she contact me even if we dont follow each other on gram?
maybe
Sound
Respectfully men dating advise from a women is a bad idea and then add a lesbian women is so far from normal.
Not if she's the guy in the relationship😂