Will a man wait??
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It’s not a coincidence that the men chasing me & wanting to marry me are men I’ve never slept with. There’s power in keeping your legs closed. Growing up I never had anyone to tell me that so I had to learn this the hard way on my own
Same here
How old are you? Abstinence past 40 seems like very few unequally yoked.
@@hillaryconsultingservices I am not 40 & I do not have kids
Amen. You're telling the truth. When I kept my legs closed with thie one dude, she got angry with me because he wasn't in control of the relationship.
And this is why I did NOT have sex with someone .
I started dating my now husband at 16. I told him he have to wait until I was 18 and he did...we been married almost 18yrs in March. The right man will wait.
Sherran T yes the right man will wait.
What I got from this is that there are wayyyyy too many people together in situationships built from lust who truly do not love each other. The waiting is truly the weeding out process 🙏🏽
yes dodging dust as long as i can !
This is so true! I hate when people say only 1% of men will wait .. I was dating a guy for 3 years and rededicated my life to Christ and wanted to practice celibacy to do things Gods way and he kept pressuring me and was trying to justify fornication because he’s not strong in his faith and decided to cut me off. I guess this was Gods way of protecting me
Girl I’m not religious but that’s exactly what it is! You guys weren’t compatible once u gave your life to Christ & he knew that. He was trying to get the 🐱 & dip, leaving u emotional unstable probably. God protected u from the heartache trust me 💯🙏🏽 He definitely wasn’t trying to marry
Absolutely Gods way of protecting you!
You should have cut him after year one when he didn’t ask to marry you. The other two years he was just wasting your time sis.
LOL, did you to point that out@@Joylove329
I’m almost 30 & still a virgin. Thank you for always giving us the real! The Lord called me to repentance on the very night that I was going to sell my body to pay for college. God is faithful. Thank you again for this.
Eboni Armstrong God bless you for being obedient & staying true to what you believe. Blessings to you lady.
A 30 year old black female that's a virgin that's truly amazing.
Good for you! A friend of mine waited and was a virgin when she married at 30. She met a wonderful man who treats her like a queen 12 years later they are still going strong. Always remember you are the prize!!!
@@marishalewis484 You go girl! That is amazing!
Very encouraging. I'm 28 and still a virgin too. Keep going !
Nobody:
Tony: “Point Blank Periyod”!
I_Been_ A_Boss 😂😂😂 you know his sayings to well
I_Been_ A_Boss 😭😭😭
I_Been_ A_Boss Haaaaaa 😂😂👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Lol so true!! Also,
Nobody:
Tony: “Spread eagle!”
Stay off your baack 😂😂 He be speaking the whole truth but he is funny lol
All u need is time...and everyone reveals themselves.
Shakrat Dosunmu amen
true and powerful
@@mikakamikazi5674 Wow so true wisdom words!
Amen
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Tony you are right. Just because they go And get it else where doesn’t mean it’s good sex. So he can wait and he will wait when he really want you. He will crave you. Prob should make a video on how to get a man to fall in love without having sex on the table. Talk convo topics and date suggestions. ladies you can use your feminine energy and intelligence to hold a man’s attention. It’s very empowering
LaFenice Forbes thank you 😊
I agree !!
“The man for you will wait.”
“If you don’t give it to him, and you’re the one, he doesn’t want it from anybody else.”
We need to tell ourselves this DAILY!
Period!
@@saywhatondat you forgot the point blank part lol
That's a scary but enlightened reality; one true way to save time
Thank you
Keeping your legs closed is a lifestyle and mindset shift, NOT trendy.
it is a POWER
@@MzSoulll Yes Sis! It definitely is...a Super Power.
The power of the P!
@@cherh Hey Sis 👋🏼. 💪🏽
Anointed Stilettos yes and amen!
Yep...some will wait but for how long though 🤔...a lot of men will get sexual frustrated as the months go by...even if YOU ARE THE ONE for them...self discipline and self control is what these men are missing then...
we seriously need shirts with his slogan on it “Point. Blank. Periyod! “. I’d buy it in a heartbeat 😂.
Yes! The girly tee would be cute!
You hear meeee??? 😂😂
Angelique B. Yeeessss!!!!
@@bridgettesweeney9809 EXACTLY -- I CAN HEAR THAT RINGING IN MY EAR
I'd buy it in a heartbeat too! Point Blank Periyod!!!
Yes! If he sincerely cares about you, he will honor, respect, love and wait for you.
I truly believe this. The right and respectable man will wait.
I never understand why women reveal every thought. Just walk and use discernment. “You will know them by their fruits”. Wait to see what they produce (action).. Be graceful about it. I think women tell men their agenda because they want them to pass the test because they are tired of being lonely. I’m not giving you a cheat sheet when it comes to character. Some differences are worth a convo but virtue I won’t teach. I want to know the real you. Therefore i walk gracefully and quietly. And pray for discernment whilst dating. Never been a time that the holy spirit did not provide. Simply Calm your spirit and guard your heart. Be anxious for nothing. Be blessed! ❤️
Very very very well said!!!!!!!
THIS! ♥️♥️♥️
Amen. Thank you
Ameen!
Wish I heard that way back before... Wow what you said spoke to me.
I’m in my 30s and still a Virgin. It’s really hard because most men try to break you down.
Jessica McCall They try to break you down to their advantage. But don’t focus on what they say or do. Focus on what will get you to where you want. Focus on your values and goals
What if he asks me “wait, are you a virgin?” Then what do I say?
@A D Well thats really just none of his business. I feel like that question is similar to asking about medical history or finances. Its really none of anyone's business!
They try to break you down in general. Smh
@@mellead8727 u can say why are u asking me that? Why are u? He’ll say blah blah u say oh okay. If he ask again u can say I’ll tell u another time.
Believe me, no man will wait if he’s isn’t serious about you. I know a man who can recite every scripture in the bible and is one of the BIGGEST heathens I know 😅. Be Blessed. Thank you. This message was so important to the collective right now😇
Jacob in the Bible wait 7 years for Rachel..and work another 7 to marry her after been trick to marry Leah who he wasn't attractive. So if a man really love you he will Sacrifice him time and self for you. Love waits.
He was not attracted. To Leah but he kept her pregant.
@@TopHat_VR828 yep because back in those days having many children especially boys was high honor.
@@lilkathytaylor what honor is in having a bunch of kids by a man that does not want you..
@@TopHat_VR828 look up the history about Jewish traditions. Not saying I agree with it and the Lord goes against tradition that was birth through culture depends where you from. What's normal to us is not normal to other countries. 🤷♀️
@@lilkathytaylor i am very familiar. I am speaking about the principle of it she was not happy and she knew that man cared for Rachel more so she firgured the more sons she produced the more he would love her and that was not the case.. Nothing new under the sun. Women still to this day will compete with another women by having babies by a man and he don't love them. Imagine knowing you only had him cause your dad tricked the man not cause u was his first choice..
Brother Tony you’re 100% faithful to your queen because you’re afraid of God , the Higher Power
Because he LOVES THE LORD. Tony has said over a hundred times seems like, "my wife doesn't have the power to change a strand of hair on my head" . But because he follows the teachings of CHRIST JESUS who has the power to do all things, he is faithful to the lord JESUS CHRIST
If the love is real he will wait 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️
"The devil knows the Bible."
Thank you for this video. Unfortunately for me I learned this the hard way, a part of me is still hurting but with God I'm getting better every day.
My favorite part of this video "If you don't give it to him & you're the one he doesn't want it from anybody else". Thanks! Be blessed!
@@tiffanydiggs7625 💯😀👏
Yes, that truly resonated with me.
Desoray Williams thru might want it from you the most but a lot of them will still settle for that release from someone willing. I’m sure Jay Z loves Beyoncé but he still cheated.
@@shea88barbie Beyonce is probably not the one we don't know what's going on behind the scenes.
"Don't get yourself dirty trying to wrestle with a pig" 🤣🤣🤣🤣I'm stealing this big brother🤣.
Anointed Stilettos 🤦🏿♂️
@@jdilla7142 You can't tell me that wasn't hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣It was but at the same time I’m guilty 😔😔
That part!!!
@@jdilla7142 Shoot! We all have been 🤷🏽♀️. You're not alone.
I’ve been tested lately by both my exes! & the answer is still NO!!! I can tell one of them have a soul tie & I know it’s hard bc it’s hard for me to but he immature & disrespectful , I can’t go back to him...
When he started imitating Christian women on the first date 🤣🤣😭 Tony you are a riot! 😆👏🏾
Listening to you, has made me slow all the way down. Stop talking start listening. Shifting the mindset and use discernment
If the love is real, they’ll wait.
Tony, I have been listening to your messages for a while and I'm not sure what happened between last week and today, but this really resonated with me. I have actually lost all desire to lay with a man who hasn't fully committed to me that I can't feel the real love between us. Thank you brother for your words of wisdom. I now have the strength and conviction within my spirit to effortlessly say no until ALL my requirements are met. God bless you and your family.
What if he asks me “wait, are you a virgin?” Then what do I say?
Beautifully written. Right there with you!! ❤
Yes some men wait...My brother has been dating this woman for 3 years and he is waiting because she is still a virgin plus he is not cheating on her...
When u value yourself men will wait but if u promiscuous we won't.
MY FRIEND WAITED TWO YEARS HER GUY LEFT MARRIED ANOTHER THEY HAPPY SHE SAD. THE GUY WANTED TO MARRY HER. BE MINDFUL SOME MEN TODAY WAITING FOREVER ISN'T REALISTIC. THIS GUY MOVED ON AND MARRIED SOMEONE ELSE. SO I WAS A MAN WILL WAIT WITH AN EXPECTATION BUT HE JUST MAY HAVE AN END DATE!
!! Plus I thought I heard him say those men who don't wait never really loved the woman and/or was not the one!!
What if he asks me “wait, are you a virgin?” Then what do I say?
@@mellead8727 Tell him "that's a very personal question. I'm not comfortable discussing that with you"
@@carsandrajones7596 That man never loved your friend he was lying to her. If he actually loved her he would have waited.
Told a dude a month in I wasn't giving my body until marriage. The very next day I was: "sis"
Lesson learned 🤐😀
Lol Sis
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A few decades ago it was assumed by a man that he would have to wait until marriage for sex. Men had no choice but to respect women because women for the most part respected themselves. My husband waited until marriage to have my body and I wouldn't change a thing.
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How did you fight the temptation? Did you pray?
I was born in the wrong generation 😭
@@jazzy9282 I’ve been dating my current partner for about 2 months and we decided we would wait a bit to visit each other’s homes
That’s beautiful Angela ❤
I was recently speaking with a male family member. He said all these girls out her saying "they christians" then turn around and give it up to me, lol. Yeah, right "I thought you were so saved." Tony just said that wow! Real talk ladies listen to him, he is telling the truth.....Periodt❗
"You want what you want not what you need..." 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
"Listen to me you gotta want who wants you...a man of good character"
Be blessed!
Be blessed. I made the mistake of telling guys I’m waiting too early before they got to know me. You’re right, they left because they didn’t know me! Lesson learned. Thank you !
What if he asks me “wait, are you a virgin?” Then what do I say?
@@mellead8727 tell him you're not answering that question, its private. If you havent been dating that long, then he doesn't need to know your business & u dont have to tell him private stuff like that.
What if he ask about previous dates/relationships and you've never had them?
Same here.
Ladies listen to what he is saying with a receptive ear. Its not very often you get this realness into how and why a man thinks the way he does. Be smart.
I loved this gave me real encouragement about the man for me will wait.
Say that Tony, good information. I am 62 years old and my ex-husband told me 5 years ago he was no longer in love with me. But he had love for me. Trust me he showed it with the infidelity and among others things. If I would have known what I know now. I would have left him 5 years ago. Thank you again , for educating ladies on mans character traits.
Nephew Tony is dropping some Gems. Ladies make a decision to love yourself. A man will go elsewhere to get it because (you are not the one). "She ain't cracked the Bible since the Bible been a Bible" ....not a play-play Christian...lol
Tony you are Gods gift to women. I’m a 61 year young woman recently divorced after 30 years of marriage. I could not understand why my now ex-husband never seemed settled into our marriage. No matter how and what I tried, I realized he just wasn’t in to me. It wasn’t until I started listening to your videos over the past 3 months that I now understand. He loved me, he wasn’t in love with me. Your video on “a mans character” amongst others brought that revelation, closure and clarity. Thank you young man, keep empowering woman to make more informed choices, and what self care really means. I am practicing self care on my journey to healing. I can truly say that your video’s are a part of that journey! Thank you and God bless you and your beautiful wife and family.
🤗 Wishing you all the best and success on your self love journey. You are blessed!
Deborah, I echo , the same. I to in the 60 over club, and 25 years marriage and experienced the same situation. Tony , brought light to my eyes. I could not understand the back forth . Now I know
May Lord Bless You, Give You His Peace and Heal your inner wounds❤️💝
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”You A Play Play Christian” 😆😆😂
🙏🏽Be Blessed🙏🏽
Thank u Tony. You've literally been my bestfriend everyday for the last 2 weeks. While I cook, clean, drive, and take my dinner break with! May God continue showering you and your family with blessings and may he continue sharing his message thru u for me❤ Thank u
Tony is the only relationship coach I watch. The things he says are genuine and are indeed true as I listen and observe what he says.
He's the only one I watch too. He's the real deal.
Yes I feel it in my spirit that he’s real!!
Bria Ly
Ditto!
Take a listen to " R C Blakes " he's the real deal as well.
Aye I be cracking jokes and laughing but I swear a guy told me something today & I had to apply Tony’s advice to the situation. It really gave me peace and feel empowered that I made a decision to respect myself enough to stop wasting my time and believe that I got it just the way somebody like it WITHOUT compromising my values.
Haha... in all honesty the guy told me something he didn’t like and I was dead set on changing it until I heard Tony say “ That’s not your HUUSSSSBAND, YOU HEAR MEEEEEEH!” 😂😂😂😂I was like Thank You.. NEXT! His advice be LEGIT!
Felecia Powell I’m hollering 😂😂😂 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿. Tbh it’s a peace that we can have now. No more debating or considering anything. It’s cut and dry just like that. It’s either this or it’s not. If it’s not it’s goodbye. No more wasted time.
😁Haha, good for you! When you start seeing in live & in living color it's hilarious. Sorry to this man
🤣🤣 don't Tony be sayin it JUST like that...YOU HEAR MEEEEEEH 🤣🤣🤣🥰
Be blessed...Thank you for sharing your experience Felicia. It is great to hear an interaction that depicts the wise advice being applied and working. LISS - SON - TO - MEEH! 🙂🎚❤️
We are. We hear you. God bless
Kenisha Perkins Yass girl I was like NO .. BLANK.POINT. PERIOOOD ! 😩😅😅Adios 👋🏾 sir
Your words are so refreshing, and the fact that your not advertising that it’s all okay to still have sex while not being married like some other coaches talk about. I know where I’m coming for now on
Yes A Man Who Love or In Love With You Will Wait. I'm A Witness.
Even if she has a child? 🤔
Yes, indeed.
"She ain't cracked a Bible since the Bible been the Bible"... 🤣😂🤣😭😭😭😭🤣😂🤣
Lisa McCall 💀🤣😂
He said ok freaky deaky. Spread eagle 😭😭 Tony be keeping it all the way real! ‼️💯
Took me OUTTTTT!!! 😂😂😂 Haven’t heard that phrase in so long lol. Tony alright with me.
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Jasmine Carter
He had me laughing so hard...this is how virgin talks. 😂😂😂
Right! Bruh said all virgins talk proper🙄😂😂
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I think its important for women to know to stop putting it in a man's hands to choose you. Yes a man is supposed to find his wife, but women have got to stop creating an upper hand for a man to even think that you are his option and not his choice. Keep in mind that we haveto make a decision on him too. Its not all up to him. If a man tells you you're his wife but God says no. You better get ghost and stop playing. A proposal does not mean he's your husband. Girl bii!
Man I would love to talk too Tony! I just learned about him maybe 5 or 6 days ago. This man speaking truth. I've watched so many videos since. Thank God I stumbled upon this man.
"A man will wait if he feels like she is the one." Point blank perioooood... in my TG voice* 🤣
Ikr 💖 when he says that and “listen to me now " ... I now find myself saying it when I talk about and share his videos
Tony if you had Daughters they would have a Great Father preparing them for the trickery out here. Thank you.
True, what Good Father. I appreciate the truth he is sharing. Blessings Sister.
My sister and I need some merch that says... “listen to me now”
🤣🤣 Right
Christina Arebalo 😂
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Be blessed TGaskins! Once again always on point.
Thank God I know my worth as a woman!!. Please help the ones that dont Lord!!
Tony you are so right!!! The man for you will wait for you!
Yessss
Be blessed . Thank you for continuing to show up and encourage us !
Be Blessed🙌
Thank you Tony
Ladies, always be willing to walk away. A man should come up to meet your standards.
Absolutely
LizzyLewis walking away is so valuable. No matter how hard it is or how much it hurts love yourself enough to know when it’s time to go.
@@marishalewis484 Yes!!!!
I had to give you a hand wave of witness when you were talking about loving someone and have bad sex. Someone told me that once about one of their ex spouses. The first thought that came to my mind was, “you didn’t love them”. Love is patient and kind. If you love someone you’re going to work with them to get it right for the both of you.
Be Blessed! This video is gold!🙌
Be BLESSED! Thank you Tony. You're continuously in my prayers brother.
Be blessed! I’m a proud member of the keeping my legs close tribe for 2020
Lol not just for 2020
@@riorio-rt1oq I'm trying to keep lock shut for 2021 lol
@@MissShauntae look I been in the club 4 yrs and going on 5 I’m with you on this
@@MissShauntae we have the same name also how cool
Women really just don't know what to say on dates anymore lol because I need to know what woman goes on a first date and starts asking about bible verses and telling a man she's waiting before marriage🤦🏾♀️ if a man brings up anything sexual on the first date or too soon. I shut down the entire situation. There's way more things to talk about.
Yes agree. I hope Tony sees this cause I asked the same thing. Its a turn off and im willing to walk away but most men will do this . Its his nature . Do you think its possible to divert the conversation in a possitive aspect ?
@@beauphomasterpiece3795 I wouldn't want to divert the conversation at that point because he has already shown me his intentions. I simply say "sorry, but I don't engage in these types of conversation with strangers" then he's getting blocked and deleted 😂
@@Bgrace15 😂😂😂😂 that's why I love my sistas. Y'all keep it real. Taking that quote!
@@Bgrace15 i guess im under the impression that a man is gonna try anyway. Its a matter of when. Even a good man can fall short.
@@beauphomasterpiece3795 I'd like to believe there's a man out there that won't try... Well, atleast not on the first date or too soon 😭
You spoke the truth! Thank you for your honesty!! We as women needed to hear this!
be blessed brother tony. thank you for sharing this.
Mannnnn Tony you are a blessing ! You have been ministering all year since 2019 long , these titles are always on POINT! I can hear you talk 2 hours or more about whatever. Thank youuuuuuuuuu keep it up I’m listening all the way from Hattiesburg, Ms
Lyn Mariah z
He's been dropping these jewels way before. He's truly GOD SENT
Tammara Mencias yes I'm sure he has🙌🏾✨
I been listening to this brother since 2013 👐🏼
@@m.norwood7827 same here
"try the spirit by the Spirit"... "instead of all these stupid questions". That makes sense, I'm glad you mentioned that, because sometimes we aren't trying to be stupid or too much we just don't know better and or how to go about seeing if it's truly a man of God. Some of us just truly truly want a man of God and after becoming saved and being "new" to only wanting to get to know men of God (now), the dating/conversing is new as saved women.
Be blessed. I appreciate your perspective so much!
Be blessed... I must listen to this video over and over again ✌🏽
Yes. If Joseph had the will power to wait for Mary to deliver Jesus, a man today should not have too much of a problem waiting today. Be Blessed, Be Safe.
Eternity With Christ
That’s right. Thanks 🙏 for sharing this, sooo true. Be Blessed, Be Safe 😇
Honey Joseph never touched virgin Mary even after she delivered our lord Jesus Christ. Or the church was not going to call her the Virgin Mary until today
The testing is real when you are waiting and have changed your mindset. We want what we don’t need and what we need we don’t want. All the time. PERIODDD!! Real stuff you putting out on hear Bro. Tony and it’s helping us who wants to be helped. Be Blessed!!
Be blessed! Thank You soo much for this message. I really enjoyed this and learned alot!
Thank you for these daily gems. Be blessed!
I'm Screaming 😂 TG Talking about them Women who ain't worth the Lint in your pocket......and them spreading eagle 🦅🦅🦅
Father lol
I’m dealing with a Scorpio 😳 we moving so Slowly.... we will see if he’ll Wait Legs Closed Eyes Open be Blessed Tony!!
Ashley Goodrich I am a Scorpio woman dating a Scorpio man and we both decided to wait till marriage. If he sees you as the one, he will wait despite the fact that “we are known to have a high sex drive”! Be blessed my sister and keep pushing!!! 💪🏽
Thank you for this, truly blessed to listen to this
Be blessed brother. This is an on time message for me☺ thank you for sowing into us.
Be Blessed!🙏🏽. Actions speak louder than words. Men need to listen to this lesson as well so that they will know that it takes a Godly man with character, and truly wanting to be married for the right reasons and not just want to find a wife. She should be that “Diamond “in the rough and he can see that and honestly wait, no matter how long it takes and stay abstinent until he knows she is the one, and fall in love and then he will know that she is wife material and need to examine himself to see if he is husband material, then true love will flourish from there.💕
Only man willing to wait is a man who has full belief in god and follows that path
Preach sister!
Be blessed! This is food for my soul💯💯 And you are very funny, but very informative!
You preached this message today!! I listened a few days ago, came back twice to re-listen. I rewinded this message while I was working on my three B’s/ Body.
You betta keep telling the truth
Tonyyyyyy!!!!! This video had me rolling 🤣🤣🤣🤣....shundo ralalala🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣...she ain't open the bible since the bible was the bible🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
I appreciate you making these videos got out a toxic relationship and these videos are really helpful.
LaFenice Forbes thank you 🙏🏽
Tony Gaskins Be blessed!🙏🏻 This was my FAVORITE video to date!♥️
HUGE sign on my end. Thank you Lord! He will surely wait by respecting the culture of the relationship that you both agreed upon...IF 👏🏿you 👏🏿the 👏🏿one. 👏🏿
Amen! As a man I appreciate your wisdom.
Be Blessed. Always telling us the truth. Thank you
Be blessed. I really enjoyed this message.
"He went elsewhere to get it because you're not the one" that 4:00 minute mark....be blessed 💫
Cher H mannnnnnnnn. That’s all that needed to be said!
Facts
@@nikkirowland fact! I was all in at that point lol
@@Glamrocs hey bestie! ❤👋🏾😊
Cher H Hey boo
They lying they lying 😂😂😂😂😂I hear it😂😂😂😍.. Heyyyy.. yasssss stubbornness
Mannn, Tony is the truth!! Not only does he drop the knowledge he is a comedian as well! You hear me??? Loll Thanks Tony! Be blessed🙏🏽🙏🏽
Be BLESSED Tony. I am with you until the end!
Where does he get his sayings from. He’s so funny 😂 🤣🤣 Tony you the funniest
Dating right now, we haven't talked directly about waiting, but we have been dating for abt 2 months. no sex.
Thank you! This was awesome! Been listening to you and truly appreciated your personal life example which builds your credibility even more saying" It is possible" Bless you!
BEEN BLESSED stay till the end every video
Video was so real on all levels
Be blessed y’all!! You was on point with this one Tony!
Thank You Tony I Truly Appreciate It What Your Doing Man. God Bless You.
Be blessed! Deeply grateful for your videos Tony