I think this is the sheer catalyst for CHANGE & SELF-GROWTH for both men and women. Time and time again I see men losing respect for women who stayed in a crummy relationship with them. And when the woman finally leaves after staying TOO LONG, it doesn't bring about the change and self-growth she had hoped in that man. -Most women being nurturers and caregivers by nature, find it nearly IMPOSSIBLE to walk away from a man, especially between 0-6 months time line. -Most men being hunters and competitive by nature, find it nearly IMPOSSIBLE to change their stubborn and set ways. -Therefore this pushes the limits of BOTH men and women, as they have to RISE UP and FIGHT against the "human nature". In my opinion, this proves, that of course walking away matters....BUT walking away EARLY boosts effectiveness to trigger the much-needed CHANGE & SELF-GROWTH.
Wow that’s deep! When you said you won’t even do business with a man that is not married and faithful to his wife! That speaks of you character because you are 100% right if a man can’t be faithful and honest with his wife, how can he be honest and faithful to anyone else. How you treat your wife/husband speaks volumes to a persons character! I love this!
You have to be willing to lose a man in order to keep him!!! So true Tony, and also be willing to lose a man permanently, & not lose yourself by keeping him!
It's not that we don't like hearing about being a man's influence; it's a very nice thought and feeling. We just HATE it that the man NEEDS a woman's influence in order to treat her properly. 😕 Like he really won't do it on his own no matter if he's taught to do that because of the fact that if he can get away with doing less, he will. It's just really sad to hear that. 🙁
That is why women should raise their standards and keep their legs closed. Do it Gods way and God will send you the man for you. We can't blame men anymore. You attract who you are .the right man will raise up to your standards if you're the woman he wants. But you have to have standards and the first step is waiting until marriage for sex
@@ruru9400 o ok sorry for the misunderstanding ❤️a lot of men weren't taught .My brother is bad with women and I think the root cause is because our father wasn't around. He still hasn't forgiven my father because of it and won't even talk to him . My dad was the same way with women and mad with his father. My dad just reconciled with his dad at 48 years old. It's mainly a generational thing that runs in the bloodline . I think once my brother forgives my dad he can start to heal from his wounds .
•Man Mature when he FINDS his relationship with GOD • Man Mature LEARN lessons from LOSES/his MISTAKES •Man Mature when he takes FULL Responsibility for his ACTIONS •Man Mature when he MEETS his Wife..NOT A WOMEN
That is the real problem in family right.Woman mature earlier than man.When man meet All the four criteria then a man is matured.Woman maturity is not depend on all four factor because it ia built inside of her
@@lilkathytaylor this is the reason why red Pill content nowadays are trending around the world.When a man is in a relationship as boyfriend the looks are the most important thing.But when it come to marriage and a commitment, then maturity,money and status becoming the first priority.
I think women need to ask themselves some HARD QUESTIONS like : a) Why is a woman NOT "fed up" with a man's bad behaviour in TWO STRIKES. b) Why does it take 10 strikes to LEAVE a man? c) Why is it so hard for women to leave a man EARLY? d) Why do you care that if you leave, another woman will put up with him? e) What kind of PAST hurt, pain, betrayal are we suppressing, by TOLERATING a man's bad behaviour? f) What are we women doing to heal from our past hurt, pain betrayal?
I believe I know part of the reason. Baby boomer Mother's have fed their daughters the wrong information about men. In their day they stayed through some nonsense because of various reasons primarily financial. They tell you things like all men lie, all men cheat.. That's conditioning to put up with poor behavior. Once we learn better we can do better. I have more to speak on this but I have to get back to work. Lol I'm learning better!!
Just left Jill Scott concert and was in the uber checking to see if Tony had a new video up for the day! I was so crunk when I saw it AND it is 53 minutes! My Friday night treat that is calorie free. Thanks brother!
A woman is the second self of God. It's a loosing battle when a woman fights against her nature. It's a loosing battle when a man fights against a woman that knows who God intended for her to be.
Well I was always taught that people try to slide their truth in JUST.....soooo MISS.Cassandra Thank you for JUST being a cool understanding person ...Be Blessed
Tony, I totally agree about when a man is 100% committed to his marriage that there are really no real problems in the marriage. I have always said this. Sadly, my ex husband never understood this.
We just have to be strong and love ourselves. Men will mature when they choose... They need Jesus and their wife... do you and He'll show up, trust God's timing
U have to understand that it does a lot of damage to a woman's heart and self esteem when it seems like she is always good enough to be slept with but yet she never seems to be any guy wife. It's really degrading and hurtful
What helped me was to stop sleeping with them, that helps you weed out the riff raff and see the man that likes you for you and not what you can give him. Now that is something to build on! May God continue to bless you and give you peace until he puts you in the path of your husband. 🙏
Well.....honestly, 100% of women are "good enough" to sleep with in men's eyes 🤷♀️. However, becoming selfless, empathetic and considerate to a WOMAN...... That's not on MOST men's agenda, not even to their WIFE! I'm pretty sure you know a married man or 2 that you could bag. So being a man's wife doesn't necessarily means he values & respects you.
Tony and RC Blake is the only men I listen too. Tony is my big brother and RC Is like a father. The Father Daughter Talk and Tony’s books are life saving Godly advice. Others won’t even show or talk about the relationship they’re in.
I know, He absolutely goes above and beyond. Man it's crazy, He's one of the many couple of men that are spreading God's Word along with the truth about some men.
Abisola Abiodun Like Tony always says be the best mother you can be to her. When he comes back evaluate the situation. If he’s being a consistent father because he’s changed that’s great. If he’s making empty promises to the child then you should stop the contact because it can ruin her emotionally.
Boy without you, I'd be so depressed.. Everytime I feel my heart recalling and replaying the hurt and the deception that I've been through in the past 7 years It makes me so depressed. I just turn on one of your podcasts and I might have to listen to two or three or four of them before it dragged me out of that state of mind but I'm so grateful for you It's so so grateful for you I'm so grateful for you. My heart hurt so so so bad it feel like a gulf ball stuck in my throat. For some reason With this break up my heart hurts but I can't cry. It's been 2 weeks since I left and I haven't cried and usually I'm crying and lost and vgo running right back to the distruction...
@Sehkan Chance; Stay strong..! I’m in the process of divorcing my abuser after 20 years. Why did I allow myself to be treated this way for so long. I almost lost myself but thank God I finally found the strength to leave..I’m still yet to forgive myself but with God, I’ll begin to heal. You are not alone in this...many women are.. May God help us all.
Good for you. 4 years ago when I threatened to leave, mine started going to church, taking marriage counseling and all. Just to start becoming the same way again. Not cheating, but lack of other things that I need. 2020 will be a great change to me.
Tony is really telling the truth. Don’t ever be afraid to lose a man. My kids father cheated and left me for another woman. Weeks later after we broken up, he tried to come back and I turned him downed. Mine u that was the second time he cheated on me. Fast forward I met a new man. He told me that I was going to be his wife. He is nothing like my kids father. My kids love him. I realized that my kids father wasn’t the one for me when he couldn’t tell me what he wanted to do with himself. Ladies, a man is supposed to lead and if he keep do that, then you don’t need to be with him.
Tony, when I listen to your messages they do not go void. I am blessed by all of the godly, educated, Information that I received from you. I thank God for you and using you as one of HIS vessels to bring the good news, to HIS daughters. God is allowing you to plant the seed into women who are looking for a husband after God’s own heart and to live a happy life. I do not take you or your work for granted. You could be doing other things like being with your wife and sons, but you sacrifice time from them to give to others so that we/I might learn, and get the knowledge, and I thank you for that. So, Sir and ma’am, please get out of your feelings and listen to the truth of these lessons. Be blessed🙏🏽. (I put this at the end so that you will know I listened to the entire hour of the lesson) 😊 smile
Goodness... Gracious! It's sad that some men and women can't understand that there are people who are genuinely happy in their marriages! Happy 13, Mr. and Mrs. Gaskins!
I had to replay this video I missed some of what you said because I was crying ,after watching this and I had to let him know and holding him accountable now I'm willing to loose him the ball is in his court.
Love how you said, “I GET to call my wife” That’s how it should be. Thank you for these videos. They are the reason I have the strength to walk away from a grown boy. Maybe he’ll change, maybe he won’t. Either way, thank you.
Your imitation of the women that don’t wanna listen to you is hilarious. 😆🤣 Some of the things you explain is hard to hear but when you have humility as a woman I’m grateful to be able to take in this knowledge. 🙌🏾
Thank you for telling us about a man 3rd leg!! I don't have a 3rd leg so I didn't know men had it so bad. I'm going to keep praying, taking your wisdom and trusting God using discernment that I will be bless with a man who will be faithful. Thank you Tony for your wisdom!
Men do as much to women as we allow them to. Let’s stand our grounds ladies and let these men work there way up. Afterall we are queens so we should be treated as such.
A man's morals and values will push him to be a better person. If it was planted in him from a young age and even if he may stray going into teen or adulthood he may contemplate deeply about how he is living
I have no problems letting go and letting god. I’m willing to risk it all!! What is meant for me will be, no matter what. Letting go will show if he’s the one, because he’ll come back ready and with no games. Be blessed!
Be blessed! What a powerful message. “ You have to be willing to lose a man, in order to keep him” -Tony gaskins. Mr. Gaskins again I thank you for changing the world. Your purpose is great, keep on keeping on brother! Thank you
Ladies, hustle in your single life. Love yourself more than anyone else could imagine and the "right" Man will work for you! Don't waste time with immature Men. They come in ALL ages and sizes. Know Your Worth and do not settle!! Easier said than done but your Heart, Mind and Soul will thank you later! Hustle and build on your own until a Worthy Man comes along. Low lying fruit is easy to find and a complete waste of time. A good Soul is rare but will be worth it all!! 😉😘💗 Be Blessed!
These grown boys need to stop!! Thank you Tony for the gems you give, because I was able to see the true nasty colors of a grown boy recently. I study your content and take notes....the work speaks for itself. I have learned to "inspect what I expect". And I make sure to discern spiritual things by not operating in the flesh. Ladies be careful when dealing with certain men, some of them are certifiably insane....you can look up arrest info, but not medical records....
Always learning from Mr Tony Gaskins. I've started my business after reading single is not a curse 4 years ago and I've been abstinent for almost 4 years. Your message is real and I am so grateful for all that you do. Your book really changed my life. Keep it up!!!
Be Blessed... Thanks Tony these are words to live by.. I wasn’t afraid to hold him accountable and with doing so, I lost him. I saw the “ Instagram live “ right before I viewed this!
I learn something new every video , and I'm 70 years old! Thank you , You have quite a sense of humor , and you can talk a chicken off a bone! In a very good way !
This is all pure facts! It takes awhile to really be accountable for our part in allowing it but it’s true. The material gain and business ethic doesn’t make the maturity of a real man
I just want to give thanks and commend Tony for what he does. It takes a very wise person to realize what he did in his life and how it worked out was the exception and speak from that place. Many people are the exception but don’t realize it and speak like their experience is the rule. Thanks again Tony.
Soo good. I have def been there trying to unlock a lock that wasn't mine. Glad I learned early. I know how to walk away now 💯 Be blessed & thank God for the calling on your life!
Big brother you are so true. I have for the longest said that thinking a person is going to come into a relationship acting like a grown person should act is not the case fail me every time so I've come to realize that you have to put your foot down in a respectful and as a matter of a fact way of what you're not going to tolerate and let it be that. Be blessed!💚💚💚💚Z
Tony ,I was not expecting this , this was like I was in my own personal coaching session and you spoke the truth this video right here made me cry the truth hurts , I know now what I need to do even if he keeps walking. Be blessed.. Thank you so much Tony
OMG I just love his videos!!💗 I laugh and AMEN his words at the same time!!! But WHY would someone give a👎🏾 thumbs down 👎🏾?? I guess those that he are hitting home with🤷🏽♀️. Keep telling the TRUTH TONY. We alllll need this good WORD. Such a WISE young man!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Thanks for mentioning “the 3rd leg”. My Momma use to tell me as a young woman, you have the power, “ALL WOMEN DO”. His 3rd leg is his weakness, don’t let it be yours, ya hear me!!!!( in my Tony Gaskins voice😁).
Tony, the way that you let God work through you is nothing short of a miracle!! You're living, breathing proof that any man can redeem himself. It's beautiful to watch. Can't wait for the network!!
Be blessed. Thank you Tony for the enlightenment. A man will mature when and for who he wants to. It’s that simple. No need to complicate this concept.
Tony your insights into the male mind are invaluable. You always make sense and make me step out of myself and into his shoes. Its stops me reacting to him off the cuff. Also I have a 1 year old son. So your videos are preparing me on how to raise a great young man please god. Thank you
Mr. Gaskins I just have to deal with a grown boy come back, got emotional for a second , listening 🎧 to this videos gave me the strength to put myself together thank you.
Thank you for making this video. I’ve been with my husband for 20 years and I am still figuring him out. You open my eyes to things that I thought were not that serious. Also it is making me look at my relationship with my son and my influence on his life and he’s a teenager and that I have to keep on him so he can be the best man he can be.
Really appreciated this video.... it’s just sad that fathers don’t tell their kids this truth and watch them make these same mistakes when they could have the knowledge and do better......I’m divorced now 2 years and you have really helped me in my healing process...... 🗣thanks a million Tony🙏🏽🙏🏽
BE BLESSED.... Mr. Gaskins I am empowered by this truthful teaching and enlightened. Their is so much to gleam from if one has ears to hear and act upon what you are receiving. I'll leave you with this.... "You teach people (male or female) how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop and what you reinforce." Again, God bless you and I'm in agreement with your vision in being that BILLIONAIRE who will be able to air ALL of your teachings. AMEN!!!
Love this ❤️❤️❤️ I’ve allowed the unthinkable things from a boy man and after I allowed him to constantly hurt me I had to learn to hold myself accountable for what I let him do to me. I had to learn the hard way unnecessarily but the greatest thing of all I LEARNED!
We as women play a vital role but the man must fear and respect his creator. A man matures when he learns from his mistakes, accept full responsibility You are on fire !! Please don’t let satan stop you from giving us what is needed. Be blessed!!
I was waiting on my TG video for the day....yes. I look forward to these videos. They are like protein shakes for the mind, spirit and soul...I watch one a day cause you have like, 300 of em on TH-cam.
Be blessed! I watched the entire video! Love to hear that you and your wife still get excited to talk to each and spend time together! Been watching you late at night after work lately, but look forward to watching every night before bed. Thank you for serving God.
I truly enjoyed this video! I have a teenage son that I unfortunately raise singly. Although we are truly blessed with great male mentors in his/our lives. I've introduced him to some of your material Tony because not only do you speak so passionately about your faith, love and relationships but also importantly; respect, selflove and manhood. Thanks for sharing your gift with us! God bless
Tony you have confirmed and a lot of times clarified what God has revealed to me through experience, prayer and scripture. You are God's voice on this. I wish I had a "TONY GASKINS" to teach me back in the day. But all things have worked together for my good! I will be recommending your videos to young women that I know! May you and your wife continue to reflect God's love for his Church!
My experience is that guys just keep it moving and keep going down the line until he finds a goofy. They don't turn around and come to the conclusion of the good that is right in front of them
I love that you give us the male perspective because you are absolutely right! We are unable to understand a man’s view, body etc. This is why those of us in the blessed tribe listen attentively! We are trying to learn and comprehend so that we can become better and understand the men that God has for us
“Be willing to lose a man in order to keep him. A man does not change until he’s pushed to the edge.”
I think this is the sheer catalyst for CHANGE & SELF-GROWTH for both men and women.
Time and time again I see men losing respect for women who stayed in a crummy relationship with them. And when the woman finally leaves after staying TOO LONG, it doesn't bring about the change and self-growth she had hoped in that man.
-Most women being nurturers and caregivers by nature, find it nearly IMPOSSIBLE to walk away from a man, especially between 0-6 months time line.
-Most men being hunters and competitive by nature, find it nearly IMPOSSIBLE to change their stubborn and set ways.
-Therefore this pushes the limits of BOTH men and women, as they have to RISE UP and FIGHT against the "human nature".
In my opinion, this proves, that of course walking away matters....BUT walking away EARLY boosts effectiveness to trigger the much-needed CHANGE & SELF-GROWTH.
Rebecca Romain yes sis! ♥️
@shawtty but if the woman is not a mans wife does it really matter he wasn’t gonna be influenced anyway.... right??
We are talking about a man who is basically of good character.
“You have to be willing to lose a man to keep him.” 🙌🏾
Amen, that is so true!!!
Netta C. Thats major! We have to be willing to walk away.
Momma Tish1 yessss!!
Marisha Lewis exactly!
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Wow that’s deep! When you said you won’t even do business with a man that is not married and faithful to his wife! That speaks of you character because you are 100% right if a man can’t be faithful and honest with his wife, how can he be honest and faithful to anyone else. How you treat your wife/husband speaks volumes to a persons character! I love this!
Yeah, I was surprised to hear him say this. Very respectable.
Yes but how would he know for sure though if it's just a business partner.. a married man who cheats on his wife most likely tries to keep it a secret
Deep!
He will act right and change for Jesus and for the Women he WANTS. Point Blank PeriotD
Exactly
LoL per-re-yard....lol
Woman
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You have to be willing to lose a man in order to keep him!!! So true Tony, and also be willing to lose a man permanently, & not lose yourself by keeping him!
Demetria Calvin So true!! Leaving is vital, as hard as it is we have to do it.
Facts
It's Friday & payday but I rather stay home and get new knowledge from God. God bless you Tony.
Lady SaySo Amen lady!
Real Talk!!!
It's not that we don't like hearing about being a man's influence; it's a very nice thought and feeling. We just HATE it that the man NEEDS a woman's influence in order to treat her properly. 😕 Like he really won't do it on his own no matter if he's taught to do that because of the fact that if he can get away with doing less, he will. It's just really sad to hear that. 🙁
That is why women should raise their standards and keep their legs closed. Do it Gods way and God will send you the man for you. We can't blame men anymore. You attract who you are .the right man will raise up to your standards if you're the woman he wants. But you have to have standards and the first step is waiting until marriage for sex
BINGO
It's sad that a lot of women hate to hear the truth
@@helenabailey40 that's not what I'm referring to, but you are right about having standards and keeping the legs closed.
@@ruru9400 o ok sorry for the misunderstanding ❤️a lot of men weren't taught .My brother is bad with women and I think the root cause is because our father wasn't around. He still hasn't forgiven my father because of it and won't even talk to him . My dad was the same way with women and mad with his father. My dad just reconciled with his dad at 48 years old. It's mainly a generational thing that runs in the bloodline . I think once my brother forgives my dad he can start to heal from his wounds .
•Man Mature when he FINDS his relationship with GOD
• Man Mature LEARN lessons from LOSES/his MISTAKES
•Man Mature when he takes FULL Responsibility for his ACTIONS
•Man Mature when he MEETS his Wife..NOT A WOMEN
That is the real problem in family right.Woman mature earlier than man.When man meet All the four criteria then a man is matured.Woman maturity is not depend on all four factor because it ia built inside of her
@@rizalukman7982 Yes The Lord knew that hahah that's why he created a help meet/women.. wife/mother/sister. women are important in a man's life.
@@lilkathytaylor this is the reason why red Pill content nowadays are trending around the world.When a man is in a relationship as boyfriend the looks are the most important thing.But when it come to marriage and a commitment, then maturity,money and status becoming the first priority.
I think women need to ask themselves some HARD QUESTIONS like :
a) Why is a woman NOT "fed up" with a man's bad behaviour in TWO STRIKES.
b) Why does it take 10 strikes to LEAVE a man?
c) Why is it so hard for women to leave a man EARLY?
d) Why do you care that if you leave, another woman will put up with him?
e) What kind of PAST hurt, pain, betrayal are we suppressing, by TOLERATING a man's bad behaviour?
f) What are we women doing to heal from our past hurt, pain betrayal?
I sure needed this questions, B!!!🙌🙌🙌
I believe I know part of the reason.
Baby boomer Mother's have fed their daughters the wrong information about men. In their day they stayed through some nonsense because of various reasons primarily financial. They tell you things like all men lie, all men cheat..
That's conditioning to put up with poor behavior. Once we learn better we can do better. I have more to speak on this but I have to get back to work. Lol
I'm learning better!!
Because we always sleep with them so early
Woman voice “ohhhhh” 😂😂
Mariah Bargainer i be cracking up everytime he does that voice!
Hilarious! 😆
This takes me out every time. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Lmaoo it cracks me up
Just left Jill Scott concert and was in the uber checking to see if Tony had a new video up for the day! I was so crunk when I saw it AND it is 53 minutes! My Friday night treat that is calorie free. Thanks brother!
Girl it’s like crack!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
@@keychabudgets Girl YES!!
kellee ransom I know right! I love the long videos! Don’t understand why some pole pole say they want him to do shorter videos
@@much2lovely I love the long videos too. It's just the ads every 7-10 minutes. I'll be in the shower and have to step out to hit skip lol 😩
@Abisola Abiodun lol you know I almost have 😅
Tony your female imitated voices have me cracking up, 😂 it’s good listening to everything you have to say sir, thank you
When He Goes....Oughh!!!😂😂😂Cracks me up everytime! Love the imitations!!
EbonyJ 😂 I know right !!
Tony:" Listen to me... cause You dont wanna hear this, you dont wanna hear this!" 🤔
Everybody: "YES we most
certainly do!!!" 🙂👂🏽👂🏽
Demetria Calvin hahaha !!! I read that in his entire voice! Lol lol
@@feleciapowell5792 same lol 😄
Demetria Calvin right! 🤣 yes we do!!! Tell us Tony! Lol I tuned all the way in on that part! 🗣
Be Blessed .. this is the end. Lol
"A man matures when he finds a relationship with God. "
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Not automatically
It is a developing process and with the right influences and mentoring it happens that much faster❤️🙏⚓️
A woman is the second self of God. It's a loosing battle when a woman fights against her nature. It's a loosing battle when a man fights against a woman that knows who God intended for her to be.
Thats not an answer beloved but good try
True
Instead of complaining why Tony said this and that. Listen and comprehend him. Thanks Tony! 👏🏽❤️
Maaaan tell em
Well I was always taught that people try to slide their truth in JUST.....soooo MISS.Cassandra Thank you for JUST being a cool understanding person ...Be Blessed
It was hard, but you're right!!!!!!! Had to just listen and humble myself to this truth.
😂😂😂😂😂 you be cracking me up with your lady voice 😂😂
kymistry that’s he funniest thing I have ever heard -
Right 😂😂
Tony, I totally agree about when a man is 100% committed to his marriage that there are really no real problems in the marriage. I have always said this. Sadly, my ex husband never understood this.
We just have to be strong and love ourselves. Men will mature when they choose... They need Jesus and their wife... do you and He'll show up, trust God's timing
Amen
“There are no problems when two people are fully committed.” Thank you Tony.
When I hear that “OHHHHHH” I just bust out laughing 😂.
U have to understand that it does a lot of damage to a woman's heart and self esteem when it seems like she is always good enough to be slept with but yet she never seems to be any guy wife. It's really degrading and hurtful
Especially when she’s faithful and honest maybe even a women of god
What helped me was to stop sleeping with them, that helps you weed out the riff raff and see the man that likes you for you and not what you can give him. Now that is something to build on! May God continue to bless you and give you peace until he puts you in the path of your husband. 🙏
Well.....honestly, 100% of women are "good enough" to sleep with in men's eyes 🤷♀️.
However, becoming selfless, empathetic and considerate to a WOMAN...... That's not on MOST men's agenda, not even to their WIFE! I'm pretty sure you know a married man or 2 that you could bag. So being a man's wife doesn't necessarily means he values & respects you.
@@essiethebestie1 even through that, they still test you.
Nope, idk no other man that speaks to us for a hour! I appreciate u, & I ONLY listen to your videos bc you a Man of God & you have great wisdom..
Not 1
Tony and RC Blake is the only men I listen too. Tony is my big brother and RC Is like a father. The Father Daughter Talk and Tony’s books are life saving Godly advice. Others won’t even show or talk about the relationship they’re in.
I know, He absolutely goes above and beyond. Man it's crazy, He's one of the many couple of men that are spreading God's Word along with the truth about some men.
EbonyJ yes ma’am..
Abisola Abiodun Like Tony always says be the best mother you can be to her. When he comes back evaluate the situation. If he’s being a consistent father because he’s changed that’s great. If he’s making empty promises to the child then you should stop the contact because it can ruin her emotionally.
Boy without you, I'd be so depressed.. Everytime I feel my heart recalling and replaying the hurt and the deception that I've been through in the past 7 years It makes me so depressed. I just turn on one of your podcasts and I might have to listen to two or three or four of them before it dragged me out of that state of mind but I'm so grateful for you It's so so grateful for you I'm so grateful for you. My heart hurt so so so bad it feel like a gulf ball stuck in my throat. For some reason With this break up my heart hurts but I can't cry. It's been 2 weeks since I left and I haven't cried and usually I'm crying and lost and vgo running right back to the distruction...
@Sehkan Chance; Stay strong..! I’m in the process of divorcing my abuser after 20 years. Why did I allow myself to be treated this way for so long. I almost lost myself but thank God I finally found the strength to leave..I’m still yet to forgive myself but with God, I’ll begin to heal. You are not alone in this...many women are.. May God help us all.
Same here sis! He helps me understand why and what was in his mind...
Same here, in the process of divorcing my husband because I was not his wife, thank you God for clarity and the strength to do what was right.
My bro TG. Your female impersonations are HILARIOUS! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
ThoroughbredDiva 😂🤣 he got the attitude down all they way! He know us too well 🤣
The "ooooooh" 😂
Yessss😂😂😂
Be blessed! Had to leave him for him to grow. He started to go to church. I'm not planning to go back to him though.
Good for you. 4 years ago when I threatened to leave, mine started going to church, taking marriage counseling and all. Just to start becoming the same way again. Not cheating, but lack of other things that I need. 2020 will be a great change to me.
The more I hear “You’re not his wife” the more I am okay with not being HIS wife ✌🏿
Isn't that the truth, it's freeing
Kenisha Perkins truth y’all!
Ericka Dillon So true !! I feel so free 🦅
R B So true 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
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I wonder what percentage of men that purely love a woman🤷🏾♀️
2%🤣
@@sheshez4christr301 😁😁😁
0.0000000000000000000000001% 🤣
@@flyyygirl87 lol omg child....
-1.8%
Tony is really telling the truth. Don’t ever be afraid to lose a man. My kids father cheated and left me for another woman. Weeks later after we broken up, he tried to come back and I turned him downed. Mine u that was the second time he cheated on me. Fast forward I met a new man. He told me that I was going to be his wife. He is nothing like my kids father. My kids love him. I realized that my kids father wasn’t the one for me when he couldn’t tell me what he wanted to do with himself. Ladies, a man is supposed to lead and if he keep do that, then you don’t need to be with him.
Tony, when I listen to your messages they do not go void. I am blessed by all of the godly, educated, Information that I received from you. I thank God for you and using you as one of HIS vessels to bring the good news, to HIS daughters. God is allowing you to plant the seed into women who are looking for a husband after God’s own heart and to live a happy life. I do not take you or your work for granted. You could be doing other things like being with your wife and sons, but you sacrifice time from them to give to others so that we/I might learn, and get the knowledge, and I thank you for that. So, Sir and ma’am, please get out of your feelings and listen to the truth of these lessons. Be blessed🙏🏽. (I put this at the end so that you will know I listened to the entire hour of the lesson) 😊 smile
Goodness... Gracious! It's sad that some men and women can't understand that there are people who are genuinely happy in their marriages! Happy 13, Mr. and Mrs. Gaskins!
AMEN! SO RIGHT! MANY MORE TO COME! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE 2021
I had to replay this video I missed some of what you said because I was crying ,after watching this and I had to let him know and holding him accountable now I'm willing to loose him the ball is in his court.
No the ball is in your court. He will have to fight for the ball. If not you will be unhappy. I'm learning this right now.
@elven mckay I'm not perfect and neither is he , no one is perfect we all have our flaws.
The ball is in your court, you have control now over your life. You letting him know you will not be treated any kind of way... praying for you🌹
@@proverbs31woman62 Thank you
Annette Solomon You are welcome
Speak it into EXISTENCE Tony! I cant wait to see your network. Blessings!
Be Blessed! And on a side note: I'm one of the ones who actually watches your videos til the end Lol
Love how you said, “I GET to call my wife”
That’s how it should be.
Thank you for these videos. They are the reason I have the strength to walk away from a grown boy. Maybe he’ll change, maybe he won’t. Either way, thank you.
When you make the woman voice “oooooooohhh 🙄🙄🙄” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭
Your imitation of the women that don’t wanna listen to you is hilarious. 😆🤣 Some of the things you explain is hard to hear but when you have humility as a woman I’m grateful to be able to take in this knowledge. 🙌🏾
Be blessed. "You have to be willing to lose a man to keep him." -Tony Gaskins
16:21 “ohhhh” 😂😂😂😂
Thank you Tony. I needed to hear this. “You gotta be willing to loose him to keep him”
that touched me too....but I don't want that comment to pull be backwards because I'm healing and happy
Thank you for telling us about a man 3rd leg!! I don't have a 3rd leg so I didn't know men had it so bad. I'm going to keep praying, taking your wisdom and trusting God using discernment that I will be bless with a man who will be faithful. Thank you Tony for your wisdom!
Men do as much to women as we allow them to. Let’s stand our grounds ladies and let these men work there way up. Afterall we are queens so we should be treated as such.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE 2021
A man's morals and values will push him to be a better person.
If it was planted in him from a young age and even if he may stray going into teen or adulthood he may contemplate deeply about how he is living
I have no problems letting go and letting god. I’m willing to risk it all!! What is meant for me will be, no matter what. Letting go will show if he’s the one, because he’ll come back ready and with no games. Be blessed!
LaFenice Forbes Bless you too
When you stop what you doing and start listening to Uncle/Cousin/Bro. Tony.
Kirstie M it’s life changing every time. You hear meh 🤣
@@marishalewis484 ay, lis'en ta me nah. Lol 2-3x soaking up everything.
Kirstie M 🤣🤣🤣 I’m done with you! Me too lady!
I’m staying in tonight just so I can be alone to study and take notes from Tony. I learn so much . You are worth your weight in gold Tony
😊😊 Yes!
Be blessed! What a powerful message.
“ You have to be willing to lose a man, in order to keep him” -Tony gaskins.
Mr. Gaskins again I thank you for changing the world. Your purpose is great, keep on keeping on brother! Thank you
GOD BLESS YOU for BLESSING US with videos day in and DAY OUT!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Passion8 4God Yes! He’s very consistent. Thank you Tony!
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE 2021
be blessed, i watch until the end.
Ladies, hustle in your single life. Love yourself more than anyone else could imagine and the "right" Man will work for you! Don't waste time with immature Men. They come in ALL ages and sizes. Know Your Worth and do not settle!! Easier said than done but your Heart, Mind and Soul will thank you later! Hustle and build on your own until a Worthy Man comes along. Low lying fruit is easy to find and a complete waste of time. A good Soul is rare but will be worth it all!! 😉😘💗 Be Blessed!
These grown boys need to stop!! Thank you Tony for the gems you give, because I was able to see the true nasty colors of a grown boy recently. I study your content and take notes....the work speaks for itself. I have learned to "inspect what I expect". And I make sure to discern spiritual things by not operating in the flesh. Ladies be careful when dealing with certain men, some of them are certifiably insane....you can look up arrest info, but not medical records....
“He might be cheatin’ on her with “”Handjula” I had tears in my eyes from laughter
Be blessed!! Another on time video.
I’m willing to lose him to keep. I’m scared but still going through with the 2 week no contact... day 2.
You can do it
Tamara Randolph Official .. thanks sis
You got this
How’s it going
naturallyme so what happened during and after the 2 weeks?
As long as there are women who will give a guy the opportunity, he will be tested and possibly take it.
Always learning from Mr Tony Gaskins. I've started my business after reading single is not a curse 4 years ago and I've been abstinent for almost 4 years. Your message is real and I am so grateful for all that you do. Your book really changed my life. Keep it up!!!
Be Blessed... Thanks Tony these are words to live by.. I wasn’t afraid to hold him accountable and with doing so, I lost him.
I saw the “ Instagram live “ right before I viewed this!
PJ Cali that’s okay lady. He wasn’t the man for you.
Marisha Lewis Yes, you have to lose him to keep him.. like Tony said.
LaFenice Forbes Bless you also!
Facts" to love 1 woman
I learn something new every video , and I'm 70 years old! Thank you ,
You have quite a sense of humor , and you can talk a chicken off a bone! In a very good way !
This is good stuff and an eye opener. I’m listening 👂 and received it. Be Blessed!
H Cohane Me too lady! All ears!
This channel is pure therapy! I can see the Lord working in you!
Hand-GELA 😭😭😭 Tony I can not deal with you 🤣🤣 I’m cracking up lol
This is all pure facts! It takes awhile to really be accountable for our part in allowing it but it’s true. The material gain and business ethic doesn’t make the maturity of a real man
I just want to give thanks and commend Tony for what he does. It takes a very wise person to realize what he did in his life and how it worked out was the exception and speak from that place. Many people are the exception but don’t realize it and speak like their experience is the rule. Thanks again Tony.
Soo good. I have def been there trying to unlock a lock that wasn't mine. Glad I learned early. I know how to walk away now 💯 Be blessed & thank God for the calling on your life!
Big brother you are so true. I have for the longest said that thinking a person is going to come into a relationship acting like a grown person should act is not the case fail me every time so I've come to realize that you have to put your foot down in a respectful and as a matter of a fact way of what you're not going to tolerate and let it be that. Be blessed!💚💚💚💚Z
That goes both ways when in a relationship. All women are not responsible or in control of themselves. May more people seek to become a better person.
Tony ,I was not expecting this , this was like I was in my own personal coaching session and you spoke the truth this video right here made me cry the truth hurts , I know now what I need to do even if he keeps walking. Be blessed..
Thank you so much Tony
Annette Solomon Lady you will make it through. It’s not easy but it will get better.
@@marishalewis484 Thank you
Blessed Tribe here. Thank you Tony.
Tony there are some/most/majority of us who respect your truth. I know I do! I'm blessed to hve found your channel. THANKU. BE BLESSED
OMG I just love his videos!!💗 I laugh and AMEN his words at the same time!!! But WHY would someone give a👎🏾 thumbs down 👎🏾?? I guess those that he are hitting home with🤷🏽♀️. Keep telling the TRUTH TONY. We alllll need this good WORD. Such a WISE young man!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Thanks for mentioning “the 3rd leg”. My Momma use to tell me as a young woman, you have the power, “ALL WOMEN DO”. His 3rd leg is his weakness, don’t let it be yours, ya hear me!!!!( in my Tony Gaskins voice😁).
Tony precipice is a word🤣 you be cracking me up using these words and don't know the meaning of them 😊
But it just fits and flows perfectly with what he be saying 😂
Tony, the way that you let God work through you is nothing short of a miracle!! You're living, breathing proof that any man can redeem himself. It's beautiful to watch. Can't wait for the network!!
Be blessed. Thank you Tony for the enlightenment. A man will mature when and for who he wants to. It’s that simple. No need to complicate this concept.
When two people are fully committed there aren't any issues within the relationship..
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE 2021
There's always room for growth so I love hearing the truth from a different perspective it helps me greatly👌Thanks Tony!
You are right... you have to be willing to lose a man to keep him🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
The quality of the information you share with us is always always always on point.
Tony this video inspire me recently had a breakup...... And I enjoy watching you..... You fill me upppp...Trinidad in the house..
I have enjoyed the realness of your videos.
So instead of when does he mature the question should be WHO does he mature for??....
Nopes. He matures at the very point he is held accountable by his woman.
Tony your insights into the male mind are invaluable. You always make sense and make me step out of myself and into his shoes. Its stops me reacting to him off the cuff. Also I have a 1 year old son. So your videos are preparing me on how to raise a great young man please god. Thank you
Mr. Gaskins I just have to deal with a grown boy come back, got emotional for a second , listening 🎧 to this videos gave me the strength to put myself together thank you.
Thank you for making this video. I’ve been with my husband for 20 years and I am still figuring him out. You open my eyes to things that I thought were not that serious. Also it is making me look at my relationship with my son and my influence on his life and he’s a teenager and that I have to keep on him so he can be the best man he can be.
My God is this encouraging!! Continue to be bold with the message God has given you! Thank you brother Tony! Be blessed you and your family! 🙏❤☝️👏
Be blessed! Thank you for the message and your dedication. Watched to the end. 😊 What a blessing you are.
Really appreciated this video.... it’s just sad that fathers don’t tell their kids this truth and watch them make these same mistakes when they could have the knowledge and do better......I’m divorced now 2 years and you have really helped me in my healing process...... 🗣thanks a million Tony🙏🏽🙏🏽
Tony sir, you used precipice in EXACTLY the most perfect way! Be blessed and thank you so much for every single video you make🥰
BE BLESSED....
Mr. Gaskins I am empowered by this truthful teaching and enlightened. Their is so much to gleam from if one has ears to hear and act upon what you are receiving. I'll leave you with this....
"You teach people (male or female) how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop and what you reinforce." Again, God bless you and I'm in agreement with your vision in being that BILLIONAIRE who will be able to air ALL of your teachings. AMEN!!!
Love this ❤️❤️❤️ I’ve allowed the unthinkable things from a boy man and after I allowed him to constantly hurt me I had to learn to hold myself accountable for what I let him do to me. I had to learn the hard way unnecessarily but the greatest thing of all I LEARNED!
We as women play a vital role but the man must fear and respect his creator.
A man matures when he learns from his mistakes, accept full responsibility
You are on fire !! Please don’t let satan stop you from giving us what is needed. Be blessed!!
I was waiting on my TG video for the day....yes. I look forward to these videos. They are like protein shakes for the mind, spirit and soul...I watch one a day cause you have like, 300 of em on TH-cam.
TYEECE MARSHALL agreed
Be blessed... You & your wife are definitely in my prayers. We need more blessed men & I'm glad you are sharing your gift.
Be blessed! I watched the entire video! Love to hear that you and your wife still get excited to talk to each and spend time together!
Been watching you late at night after work lately, but look forward to watching every night before bed.
Thank you for serving God.
I truly enjoyed this video! I have a teenage son that I unfortunately raise singly. Although we are truly blessed with great male mentors in his/our lives. I've introduced him to some of your material Tony because not only do you speak so passionately about your faith, love and relationships but also importantly; respect, selflove and manhood. Thanks for sharing your gift with us! God bless
Be blessed, I always listen to the end..
Tony you have confirmed and a lot of times clarified what God has revealed to me through experience, prayer and scripture. You are God's voice on this. I wish I had a "TONY GASKINS" to teach me back in the day. But all things have worked together for my good! I will be recommending your videos to young women that I know! May you and your wife continue to reflect God's love for his Church!
My experience is that guys just keep it moving and keep going down the line until he finds a goofy. They don't turn around and come to the conclusion of the good that is right in front of them
Lmfaoo at finding a goofy 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Oldie but goodie. Helped with broadening my perspective. Thank you for your obedience!
It is difficult to hear but thank you. It is important information. Well done👊
Be blessed
I love this message. My dilemma is it's hard to find the time to support a man when you spend most of your time playing the role of a man yourself.
Be blessed. Just had to risk it all and I'm fine with it. I will NOT accept grown boy behavior from no man, ever again.
I love that you give us the male perspective because you are absolutely right! We are unable to understand a man’s view, body etc. This is why those of us in the blessed tribe listen attentively! We are trying to learn and comprehend so that we can become better and understand the men that God has for us