Confronting a narcissist 1: Rocky from Below Deck (real world narcissism example)

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  • I analyse Rocky (aka Raquel Dakota) to show that her actions are consistent with narcissism.
    This is my first video, so please let me know if there are any elements I could improve in the future.
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  • @m3lis54
    @m3lis54 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I can’t believe they made Kate look worse than Rocky, Rocky was the living devil

    • @kellihunt4653
      @kellihunt4653 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree.

    • @suziq2569
      @suziq2569 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Biggest FLOOZZY!!

    • @lorir5728
      @lorir5728 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Kate was actually pretty nice to her. More than I would ever be. Her and Leon were awful.

  • @judithvigorito4548
    @judithvigorito4548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    It was so obvious she played to the camera. Watching her require total attention and her “over acting” I thought she was there looking for someone to hire her for tv or the movies. Her total control of that season was disgusting to watch.

  • @PrincessKarrah
    @PrincessKarrah ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I watched this season of below deck it’s completely ridiculous that she was always acting like she the victim. Kate and Amy tried to help her but she was unwilling to be helped. She did the bare minimum work yet acts like she was being bullied when other crew members didn’t want to be around her because they were fed up with her drama.

  • @celestialfortuna37
    @celestialfortuna37 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for posting this. goodness such disappointing behaviour. that poor bloke on the receiving end of unwanted advances then public humiliation. she obviously has "issues"

  • @dser366
    @dser366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I really like using reality tv as examples of narcissism so I hope you continue, you could look at some of the real housewives (Kelly from real housewives of New York) or some of the people from married at first sight Australia

    • @thenarcissistwatcher
      @thenarcissistwatcher  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for the suggestions - I haven't seen either of those yet, but will add them to my list!

  • @tulipchic34
    @tulipchic34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    How she can’t look at the camera creeps me out

  • @BwInNewJersey
    @BwInNewJersey หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Rocky was that kid running wild around restaurants range free.

    • @lorir5728
      @lorir5728 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Lol. Before I read this I was saying to myself she is the kid in the park who runs around naked climbing trees.

  • @thunderchick7400
    @thunderchick7400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I watched this season of Below Deck and she is the worst crew member ever. She was just a hot mess. But she and Eddie got their comeuppance in the end. Just keep watching, it gets better/worse!!!!

    • @Sezfluffy
      @Sezfluffy ปีที่แล้ว

      yes he totally used her but she knew he had a gf

  • @h.b16
    @h.b16 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love Eddie just running away from the whole situation😂

  • @Adoptpets833
    @Adoptpets833 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ha!!!! She was beyond annoying. Thank you for this👏🌞

  • @richardshook6830
    @richardshook6830 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Rock was way out there she always staring in space. But like her or not that season was one of the best ....

  • @JulieR73
    @JulieR73 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She’s crazy

  • @pseudopuppy160
    @pseudopuppy160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If anyone ever sees the red flags.... RUN!!!! Both of my parents were narcissists. You will NEVER win, NEVER have peace, NEVER be / do enough to satisfy their MASSIVE INSECURITIES. Run. For the sake of the deities.... RUN & be free!!!

    • @thenarcissistwatcher
      @thenarcissistwatcher  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good advice for sure.

    • @laceybanter5937
      @laceybanter5937 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rocky's boyfriend Mark ran! I can't believe he stayed as long as he did. She is very mentally ill.

  • @melissahernandezm379
    @melissahernandezm379 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow great video! I remember seeing one episode with her in there and thought she was so strange. Spot on with calling her out

  • @Star-dj1kw
    @Star-dj1kw 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤ excellent analysis

  • @novaste1238
    @novaste1238 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ricky gave me whiplash for days. She's entitled and always wants her way. Clearly very spoilt by her parent/s.

  • @PrincessKarrah
    @PrincessKarrah 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I don’t know how Rocky didn’t get fired I would’ve fired her in a heartbeat.

  • @eduardocastillo1489
    @eduardocastillo1489 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Rocky threw a tantrum when the Shitty Chef gets Fired

  • @MsAhmebah2000
    @MsAhmebah2000 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Still dont know why Rocky keeps looking up!

  • @Sezfluffy
    @Sezfluffy ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Rocky would flip between being a child and a vixen, took a job she refused to admit to taking wanting to be someone higher. Always gaslighting

  • @gemmarayner1897
    @gemmarayner1897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Poor Emile 😢 that's horrible!

    • @chillbilly2517
      @chillbilly2517 ปีที่แล้ว

      Emile was a no-brainer, two heads, no brains in either of them.

  • @chrisrandall2710
    @chrisrandall2710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice analysis!

  • @pauletteschiowitz8989
    @pauletteschiowitz8989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Couldn’t stand her

  • @adamlove5173
    @adamlove5173 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I feel like Rocky illustrates more Histrionic qualities than she does narcissism. But definitely some Cluster A/B/C elements all over the place. Attention-seeking, self-destructive, overly seductive...

  • @TheMinnieSalon
    @TheMinnieSalon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We need a video or video series on Lydia on love is blind season 5!!!

  • @joemckibben7757
    @joemckibben7757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She was a head case but she made for good television!

    • @EzMoney95
      @EzMoney95 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not really only people like her can think that

  • @SandySaunders9142
    @SandySaunders9142 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'd LOVE for you to analyze Lindsay Hubbard on the very popular BRAVO show SUMMER HOUSE. She is a gold mine of material.

  • @jephybean
    @jephybean 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very wellsaid: too bad we cannot hear Rocky's response, but she wouldn't be quiet enough to listen to it lol

  • @Theo-fp2oe
    @Theo-fp2oe ปีที่แล้ว +3

    To be fair, Emile's lack of game, would put off a lot of women. When he says he has plenty of experience, he's referring to young, inexperienced women who don't require much effort to wooh them. Unfortunately for him, he turned off a narcissistic person who made him feel like crap. Good natured, level headed people in that situation, would be empathetic.

    • @thenarcissistwatcher
      @thenarcissistwatcher  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, I got the feeling he gave a lot of women the ick when he said that 😂

  • @wshazbot62
    @wshazbot62 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She seems like she was never taught discipline growing up , who knows. Sometimes certain crew members make me want to climb in the tv and grab them by the neck. Lol. Like Lara on below deck Mediterranean season 5, omg wow she was something.

    • @thenarcissistwatcher
      @thenarcissistwatcher  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lara is a great example - the way she butted heads with Hannah almost immediately really was something else. It's a shame she left so quickly, but she could still be worth an analysis I suppose.

    • @PrincessKarrah
      @PrincessKarrah ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly the same with Elizabeth from season 8 of below deck.
      Elizabeth was warned repeatedly to focus on work when she on the clock and not on a deckhand name James. Elizabeth says if she knew what was wrong she would’ve changed things but whenever her chief stew talk to her she behaved like she was a bratty teenager. Yet somehow she was not only shocked when she was fired she acted like she was the victim and she still claims to this day that she was bullied l.

    • @Sezfluffy
      @Sezfluffy ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think Malia too from BD med 2, they way she played the men and enjoyed it, plus her ruthlessness in grassing people up.

    • @adrian3747_
      @adrian3747_ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PrincessKarrah Ngl Elizabeth annoys me more than Rocky. Atleast Rocky is funny 🤷🏻‍♂️ Elizabeth obviously acts in her confessionals to make it look like she’s dramatic and she’s just annoying af

  • @ajwalker2365
    @ajwalker2365 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rocky is cute and bubbly enough that she got so much attention from simps. That entitlement to attention never goes away so it manifests itself in the real adult world as narcissism and self centeredness.

  • @judithvigorito4548
    @judithvigorito4548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You could spend hours on Rocky. Would love to see more

    • @thenarcissistwatcher
      @thenarcissistwatcher  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I would love to revisit Rocky in the future for another analysis. The way she went into a complete meltdown when Eddie rejected her is a great example of narcissistic wounding.

  • @lorir5728
    @lorir5728 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She is horrible. Who stares at the ceiling like that. Eddie hooked up with fatal attraction. You know he regrets that one. He went for the crazy girl.

  • @tracydutton7577
    @tracydutton7577 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Seriously bipolar

  • @EzMoney95
    @EzMoney95 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She gave him a golden opportunity. Im figuring the line of randoms that have ran threw her beg to differ about golden

  • @albionparrot5607
    @albionparrot5607 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rocky is literally a conglomerate of all my exes

  • @w.p8140
    @w.p8140 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rocky is just a horrible human, She is not even on the bottom rung of the ladder...

  • @fatimamarsden7879
    @fatimamarsden7879 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the name of the author you mentioned in the video? AGD Judah??

    • @thenarcissistwatcher
      @thenarcissistwatcher  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HG Tudor - he is a self-aware narcissistic psychopath.

  • @chillbilly2517
    @chillbilly2517 ปีที่แล้ว

    S.3 E.6 It's official Rocky makes Kat look like a choir girl.

  • @suziq2569
    @suziq2569 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hope she has her flozziness under control

  • @NEKONEKOMAO
    @NEKONEKOMAO ปีที่แล้ว

    I'd like to see a breakdown of season 7 😅 I just finished watching it and wow.

  • @tomshea8382
    @tomshea8382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can't believe they hired her. Narcissistic tendencies, crazy hot, camera loves her, good for drama.
    WHAT WERE THEY THINKING

  • @1hockeymom867
    @1hockeymom867 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Crazy, spoiled and never her fault. Rocky is the worst the little daddy’s boo boo! Grow up!

  • @TheCelchi
    @TheCelchi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think she’s borderline personality disorder. Her behavior was soooo demonstrative of a histrionic drama queen. The most unlikeable Erwin ever. Eddie was lucky she didn’t get pregnant. Can you imagine having HER in your life with a kid she will mistreat having custody. I would get rid of her asap. Lazy scattered with a toddler mentality. And then Emile helps her!!! Too young. For her. She’s mean spirited. Rocky is someone you stay away from run away from. and nobody forced her to have sex with Eddie. She complain and complain, and then she went and had sex with him again twice when he was carrying on it was like they had this passionate real relationship when it was just a hook up I she was so immature so tiring so exhausting such a slob I mean, if I was a guy and stayed 10 feet away from her and the other one the drunk Kate, she was another one you just stay away from the too toxic to crazy to everything unstable is it’s just talk about a mess and Eli poor judgment. I think he was off the rebound with his girlfriend who cheated on him and that’s kind of what people do. I’m not excusing has poor judgment, but it seems like he was a little more reasonable.

    • @lorir5728
      @lorir5728 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Omg. Eddie would lose his mind. He cheated. Then right before the reunion he cheated again with rocky at the hotel the night before. Like what is he thinking? He knew how she was. Fatal attraction. Having a kid with her would be.pure hell.

  • @richardshook6830
    @richardshook6830 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She and Eddie did the nasty .

  • @andrebritz4869
    @andrebritz4869 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She used the cameras to her needs to get attention and looking for fame. I call that a BEACh,,,,,,,

  • @niclesnyc
    @niclesnyc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    All the drama she caused, was about herself or maybe played Emille a bit, but men play women all the time, she was never mean to anyone, she meant well and made great TV! Go Rocky!

  • @homeslice2586
    @homeslice2586 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    M

  • @Breacher1968
    @Breacher1968 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She left Emile's bunk. Emile also seduced her. By the way, she left the bunk, but you don't show that. I recommend everyone to watch Season 3 in its entirety. If anyone on that boat is a narcissist is, then that's Kate ......It's a Reality TV show It's cut and paste .

  • @LYNNEBRAY-ls6gn
    @LYNNEBRAY-ls6gn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rocky is a nut and lazy she should have been fired

  • @jamessteffany9228
    @jamessteffany9228 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Rocky is a narcissistic most definitely!! Drama, Drama, Drama, me, me, me, a user big time!!