Harry is kind, sexy , cute , charming, a gentleman, smart, talented, respectful, caring, creative, romantic, private, old soul, listens with his eyes as well as his hears, passionate, loved his mum, shows emotions, he is the definition of a wonderful man
@@trusttrust8472 I don't think he's aloof at all...more an enigma and private about his personal life. He's known to be very huggy and patient with his fans, very protective of them
I told a friend who I was flirting with once: "I don't want an alpha male, I want an honest human." And that reassured him and I could literally feel a weight lifting off him a bit.
It's funny how "alpha" males always have to tell you they're "alpha". The ironic part is. Even though most of them claim that women care about behavior like that. And how it's important to look like a bodybuilder. You also have a lot of them on the internet wondering why women aren't into (famous) bodybuilders. From what I've personally heard, women aren't into them, because bodybuilders look scary (unless she's a bodybuilder herself). I used to go to a gym for students, the women never came to the part where guys would be doing stuff like weightlifting. Because they scared the women off. What is worse is, you have a lot of guys who make their sole purpose in life to get laid. But because of this odd belief they spend hours in the gym, because they think that it will help them to achieve their goal. While paying zero attention to their social skills. And then they end up wondering why going to the gym didn't help them. I'm not claiming that going to the gym is completely useless, but some guys act like money, looking like a bodybuilder, and other superficial things are the only things that matter.
As a girl I think that more than "scaring women off", bodybuilders give me the impression that they're too focused on getting buff and spend a lot of time at the gym, which turns me off because I like guys with other types of interests. Going to the gym to be fit is something I do appreciate, if the guy has other passions and interests, if he's introspective, if he is smart and nice, if he has a life outside of the gym, you know. And also, men who are too muscular are not attractive in most women's eyes.
I think my problem is that I'm not sure what type of man I am. I see Harry Styles and I think ''I could be like him in some ways'', then I see other celebrity I admire and I think ''ok, I should be that way''. This thoughts can be a real conflict in my head. I watch a lot of Pua and Rsd content, and I'm really impressed with your videos, keep up the good work!
My advice is stop watching those videos. They are scumbags buddy. You don’t need to know what type of man you are. It doesn’t matter. This is what you need to do... write down the things that you LOVE doing. Then write down your VALUES. Then write down the values and interests of the type of woman you want. THATS ALL. You aren’t supposed to be mimicking celebrities. You should be becoming your own personal celebrity. Be your biggest fan. And please... please stop watching PUA vids. 🤣 Hope to see you again Arthur.
I promise you need to be yourself. If you act like something you’re not, you will attract girls that want that. It’s so refreshing to see someone that isn’t scared of not being macho because most of the time it’s all an act.
This channel helped me understand that developing a healthy, competent, and empathetic character with a strong sense of personal sovereignty is what really matters. Not just for relationships, but for your own well-being.
As a girl all of what he said is true… and the most alpha quality is confidence! If you’re confident with being whoever u are whatever that means I’m impressed and intrigued
I'm so glad that you were able to see through the "alpha male" persona. It's odd to me that so many guys have drunk that cool-aid. In actuality, many women appreciate orginality and authenticity, and someone obsessed with being alpha seems fake and self-absorbed-- or at least absorbed with old school social comparison and competition, which is fun for -2 seconds.
I really appreciate your message. Usually on this kind of yt channels you only find bullshits about comparing people. Instead, you're saying clever stuff.
I like harry because he respects women and doesn't generalise them. I also like how he isn't afraid to dress however he wants bc he likes it and I think that's amazing. His ability to express himself not because of his absence of fear of judgement but because he can acknowledge that fear and judgement and push through it bc DAMN does he look good in a dress - and he knows it too!
My guy friends often say I need to date big buff alphas. But from my experience, "alpha" type guys make me SO uncomfortable. I'm much more likely to pick the skinny and nerdy "betas". I've found they are more likely to treat me as a human being, and we'd have so much more in common.
I think Harry does have Alpha Male traits. He is a leader not a follower, he is sucessful, he is intelligent, loyal and charismatic. That could be why the girls love him. Love you Harry ❤
I love your videos but ill have to disagree with this one. Being an alpha male is not a physical thing, is about the confidence you exude, how you carry yourself, having a magnetic personality, being charming, NOT NEEDING OUTSIDE APPROVAL etc. Harry styles is actually the perfect example of an alpha male, he is a leader wherever he goes, everyone loves him and without trying he is always the center of attention, he is kind and doesn't need to put others down in order to feel important or validated, he doesnt seek approval in others, (he does what he wants and people just accept it). I think in this video you were referring to a "macho man" which most of the time are the furthest thing from an alpha male
Use whatever word you want personally. But the word alpha has implications for men. And mostly it implies POWER. I wanted to get away from this headspace. I want to remove the word alpha from everyone’s vocabulary.
@@AnthonyRecenello I will also have to disagree. (But I really love your videos!) Watching the videos you made about Harry so far, I have had the feeling that you know the "Harry Styles" from after One Direction. A lot of Harry's fanbase comes from the One Direction days, or even when new fans discover him nowadays, they become a fan of him through looking at 1D also. His new style does not exist in a vacuum. If you look at Harry and his brand since as early as 2010, you'll see that he was advertised and marketed as literally the alpha male. He was seen as the sex symbol of 1D back in the day and he loved it. I will give you an example: look at this fan account on tumblr ohstylesno.tumblr.com/. Go to their "links" and see the tags she's made for Harry GIFs. Look, in those GIFs, how Harry behaves. He might have changed his image, but he used to be as macho as it comes.
I love Harry and he just does it for me surprisingly. His charisma on stage, the witty side of his personality, humility and all these things are just really attractive to me. I mean he has the looks but if it were just them, it'd be crazy to like someone because of just their looks. His personality is soo attractive to me and I love guys who have similar personality with him (not that anyone has to emulate him but be the best version of themselves and understand not everyone is going to like you for who you are but some will appreciate and love you) It's crazy people look for the most craziest thing to want to hate him. You don't have to love or even like like him, it's simple to just ignore him but for me I carry Harry's 'Treat People with Kindness' slogan in my heart.
I love your videos! Strength is more than lifting weights at the gym. Being a good provider, helping the sick, being patient takes strength and maturity. Women fall in love with men (even 'beta' men) that treat them well, this is the pattern. The regular guy married to a supermodel...he treats her well.
Shallon Lester has a good definition for it, and this applies to both men and women, alphas are pack builders and betas are pack dividers. Check her out if u want a more in depth explanation!
I would like to say, as being a girl, I can say, I like Harry Styles for his personality. I like someone who has a great personality, looks don't matter at that point for me. If you are loving, kind, caring and have a okay sense of humor, that's all that matters at that point. Love is love
You're so right! As I've gotten a little older and dated different men I've come to the conclusion that I much prefer a guy that has a nice confident balance of both masculinity and feminine. I get grossed out by men that feel the need to be ultra masculine over every little thing, they aren't secure with their sexuality or themselves at all. It's gross. They feel the need to prove how manly they are constantly and can't just be themselves. I don't like it.
The most "alpha" thing a guy can do is be his true authentic self unapologetically with total conviction, completely in touch wirh his instincts and intuition. The most "beta" thing a guy can do is posture how "alpha" he is to others.
Harry is like the "Innovator" in this Showbiz industry whenever you try to predict him in a stereotype he just changes it upside down he is the most unpredictable guy in this industry that's why we all are so obsessed with Harry Styles.
The thing with Jason Momoa is that he actually just looks Alpha but if you watch some interviews it videos in general you’ll recognize that he actually is a total goof
Yeah I understand this phenomenon. I at first hated Sam Ovens, Roberto Blake, David Dobrik, Anthony Fantano, h3h3, but now I love all of them. Thanks for the comment man I really love getting these.
It's funny about thinking buff guys act alpha, most big guys at my local gym are so nice and fun to talk to, they even make conversations with the new gym goers.
What do you think of guys who look “alpha” but just wanna embrace their inner artistic, sentimental and soft side? Like you know a rugged looking dude with a strong intimidating personality but deep down he likes to draw, paint, and go to museums and just relax and mellow down.
First video I saw of yours was your big Ed one. I liked your tales but had to make sure your stance on the whole “alpha” thing as a lot of “dating experts” online perpetuate the same toxic attitudes towards femininity and masculinity. Glad to see you’re legit and happy to be subscribed ☺️
Anthony you really changed my perspective about attraction and love. What i learned that most of the love that we experience in early stages of our life is mostly obsession and not true love. I asked myself a question, would i still be upset if my partner was gay and leave me for someone else of her gender, if yes then you truly love them, if not then you were just obsessed and that love was a little of your ego.
To me there’s nothing more alpha than a man embracing themselves 100%. There’s so much masculinity in a guy embracing their femininity. If a guy doesn’t embrace femininity that gives us the feeling like they don’t embrace ours either .
I completly agree with you, and may I add my humble opinion..(?) I, as a young woman, think that there is a difference between talking about women and men or talking about women and men playing roles that are by in time social standards od expectations. (If you are interested in this even woman would care about a man being an alfa and the other way around.) I dont know, its just my opinion described short and of course we probably could philosophize about that. :) Thank you for great videos that give me food for my single ass brain :)
I think that alpha male also means who is the most dominant in the room, which can also be someone who isnt the loudest but perhaps the most silly, charming, or kind
@@AnthonyRecenello influential, attractive, appealing. someone who you cant explain but you are drawn to magnetically. it is not always the more assertive, loud, most intelligent person.
To me an alpha lives by their values. Is respected by people. They are long game creatures. Old souls. Are comfortable in their own skin. When they speak in a group others go quiet. They listen well. Don’t let looks deceive you. Harry Styles is an alpha (my opinion)!
Everyone who is at ease with themselves and can put other people first is an alpha. Alpha is a pack leader and being a leader means you have to create optimal circumstances for everyone else to succeed.
Is there a channel like this but for women? I find it all really interesting and would like to see the type of advice, coaching and guidance given to women compared to given to men.
Hey Anthony, I'm really a fan of your advice and observation skills, I hope you can help me here. I like a girl, a lot, and I bet she liked me too but I think I texted her WAY TOO OFTEN, and now she's ignoring me, how to get her back?
Hi, Anthony, pls breakdown one of the "alpha" guys like maybe Arnold Schwarzenegger who is a typical alpha, muscular, macho, laughs at girly men but at the same time he is an inspiration to many and has plenty of charisma. Pls do a breakdown of an "alpha guy."
As a guy I'm insecure af bout this topic probs the reason wy I've given up on dating while my family is all in relationships, feel like I've got no self worth
This is 100% true - I am pretty average looking, but my wife is stereotypically beautiful - I only ever hear from guys the whole 'how did u get her'? Never really get that from women...I also found her by following Anthony's advice - Who I am? What do I want? Where do I find such a person? It only took about six months...
This is a nice couch talk but when you get up and go to the streets you will see that reality is way more different because dating is different when you are famous or you are just a normal person
I am a dating and social coach. In other words, I goto clubs and bars every week meeting women with clients. I’m not having a nice couch talk. I’m telling you what happens when you’re not at home watching Jordan Peterson videos and playing video games. Go test your beliefs over the course of 15+ years and get back to me bud.
@@AnthonyRecenello Again with the video games😂 people talk about video games it's like the aliens brought it to us. Anyway all I am saying is dating, having emotional or sexual relationships and marriage is not for everyone. Some people have to leave alone and some of them choose to live alone. Unfortunately we don't have bars or clubs here for me to meet women and our schools is one gender so streets are my biggest option. For me this is a nice couch talk because WE live in a very different world it feels like another planet or a parrarel universe. Here we have MANY parents that don't know where their kids are. One day their kids goes out to streets to defend and ask for their basic human rights and never came back the parents don't know where they are for a while they still have hope that they will come back but after a while they wish someone tells them that they are dead not being alive and getting CRUSHED and abused and raped everyday. Believe me I have the right to sit home and play video games all day because here future is mostly dark. Your streets are different from my streets. Your definition of love sex home family religion politics freedom food money human rights being good being bad..... doesn't work here. This is a no human's land as one of my favourite writers says "I can't breathe because here even the air is prisoned". Please don't give this dating life too much importance some of us just can't or don't want to because we just don't have faith in this world.
Noreil_SBM I feel for you. Eventually you’ll be able to find a place to live that caters to a better social life so you don’t have to meet people on the street. 🙏🏻
@@AnthonyRecenello I don't know if you like watching movies or not but please watch a movie called capernaum. It is a realism labanese movie and I am not from lebanon but I feel for them
I think the whe macho trope, is a thing of culture that was expected much more in the past than today (well even ten years ago), but again I think this is exaggerated by media that the older days ( against 10 to 20 yrs ago) were always like that where every woman wants one thing or a certain type of man. I think peoole are very versatile naturally, both men and women, but social standards make it more "segregated" as if men only like "A" and women only like "B"
Arghhh I clicked cause I saw harry styles and am simple. But then in the video there was also bts. My directioners army heart is crying with happiness.
This is why pretty boy singers always get hated by guys but loved by girls
Only men are attracted to being macho.
Just jello
Exactly. Many men wonder why the "pretty boy" gets the girls and hate on them. Not realizing they contribute to it by doing that.
mind blown
Exactly. I love Harry Styles and one of my friend (guy) just hates him
Harry is kind, sexy , cute , charming, a gentleman, smart, talented, respectful, caring, creative, romantic, private, old soul, listens with his eyes as well as his hears, passionate, loved his mum, shows emotions, he is the definition of a wonderful man
Thank you Kennedy!
Ikr
And he's not your friend also
No joke, in my eyes Harry is the most perfect man ever, he’s just art.
I could not agree more. He is perfection
Yep. It's not even fair!
Yh by Anne twist ☝🏻☝🏻😂
I think Shawn Mendes and Tom Holland come close
Lina not at all
I see Harry , i click
Lol same 😂 but he didn't talk to much about him ...
Exactly
i’m ok with a guy as long as he can accept my love for harry styles as well, it’s not going away, sooo got to get used to it.
Haha
LamBart and here i am wishing my girlfriend would love harry as much as i do LMAO
That's why you date a bisexual guy UnU
*HARRY STYLES* 😍
advice for guys- just be like Harry styles ✌️✌️✌️
And love as many guys as you possibly can. Women fall in love with him because he is aloof and seems harmless. Nice voice too
@@trusttrust8472 I don't think he's aloof at all...more an enigma and private about his personal life. He's known to be very huggy and patient with his fans, very protective of them
@@trusttrust8472 Oh, I didn't read it as negative, I think he's just...an Aquarius lol
No thanks. I understand why many people aka women like him so much, I also do, but I prefer to be me than pretend to be him.
Yeah he's born attractive..... amazing advice LOL Everyone already knows women only care about looks so good job!
For me, the alpha behavior is just insecurity....
aniokay 100000%
My thoughts exactly.
Persis
Do you mean tiring?
@Persis exactly....its all about external validation. Seen it time n time again
It is. I feel like the majority of women feel this way which is ironic because they think the “alpha” behavior is supposed to impress women
Harry Styles doesn’t have to be buff to be an alpha. He’s an alpha that can wear a dress. There’s nothing MORE Alpha than that.
Dream High Animation fuck your toxic masculinity
THIS
You only like that because it’s Harry styles wearing a dress tho.
@@mikelitorous5570 no, it doesn't matter if it's him or not
@@crankydoople yes the fuck it does , if it was you’re local crack head im pretty sure you’d find that shit weird
I told a friend who I was flirting with once: "I don't want an alpha male, I want an honest human."
And that reassured him and I could literally feel a weight lifting off him a bit.
Boom
if every man aspired to be like harry styles, the world would be round again
Harry's the most adorable person ever. He's kind, pretty, intellectual, talented, cheeky, positive and what not. ♥️
You know we all came for Harry... Humility, that's what I find sexy
I love Harry Styles!!!!
I feel like everybody dose
I'm a simple woman. I see harry styles, I click 😏
It's funny how "alpha" males always have to tell you they're "alpha". The ironic part is. Even though most of them claim that women care about behavior like that. And how it's important to look like a bodybuilder. You also have a lot of them on the internet wondering why women aren't into (famous) bodybuilders. From what I've personally heard, women aren't into them, because bodybuilders look scary (unless she's a bodybuilder herself). I used to go to a gym for students, the women never came to the part where guys would be doing stuff like weightlifting. Because they scared the women off.
What is worse is, you have a lot of guys who make their sole purpose in life to get laid. But because of this odd belief they spend hours in the gym, because they think that it will help them to achieve their goal. While paying zero attention to their social skills. And then they end up wondering why going to the gym didn't help them.
I'm not claiming that going to the gym is completely useless, but some guys act like money, looking like a bodybuilder, and other superficial things are the only things that matter.
Yes this is all so true.
I'm not afraid of them, it's just that I don't find it attractive. Like at all lol.
As a girl I think that more than "scaring women off", bodybuilders give me the impression that they're too focused on getting buff and spend a lot of time at the gym, which turns me off because I like guys with other types of interests. Going to the gym to be fit is something I do appreciate, if the guy has other passions and interests, if he's introspective, if he is smart and nice, if he has a life outside of the gym, you know. And also, men who are too muscular are not attractive in most women's eyes.
Real alphas NEVER tell they're alphas.
So so so true
I love Harry Styles..end of conversation
I think my problem is that I'm not sure what type of man I am. I see Harry Styles and I think ''I could be like him in some ways'', then I see other celebrity I admire and I think ''ok, I should be that way''. This thoughts can be a real conflict in my head.
I watch a lot of Pua and Rsd content, and I'm really impressed with your videos, keep up the good work!
My advice is stop watching those videos. They are scumbags buddy. You don’t need to know what type of man you are. It doesn’t matter. This is what you need to do... write down the things that you LOVE doing. Then write down your VALUES. Then write down the values and interests of the type of woman you want. THATS ALL. You aren’t supposed to be mimicking celebrities. You should be becoming your own personal celebrity. Be your biggest fan. And please... please stop watching PUA vids. 🤣 Hope to see you again Arthur.
I would say... Just be YOURSELF. Don't be "this way" or " that way". Just accept being you. When you will do that you will feel free and confident.
I think you should be whoever you are
I promise you need to be yourself. If you act like something you’re not, you will attract girls that want that. It’s so refreshing to see someone that isn’t scared of not being macho because most of the time it’s all an act.
This channel helped me understand that developing a healthy, competent, and empathetic character with a strong sense of personal sovereignty is what really matters. Not just for relationships, but for your own well-being.
🙏🏻
I stan both Harry Styles AND Jason Momoa...what does that say about me lol
That they’re both great people w diff personalities
OK :D
my two favs
As a girl all of what he said is true… and the most alpha quality is confidence! If you’re confident with being whoever u are whatever that means I’m impressed and intrigued
I'm so glad that you were able to see through the "alpha male" persona. It's odd to me that so many guys have drunk that cool-aid. In actuality, many women appreciate orginality and authenticity, and someone obsessed with being alpha seems fake and self-absorbed-- or at least absorbed with old school social comparison and competition, which is fun for -2 seconds.
I really appreciate your message.
Usually on this kind of yt channels you only find bullshits about comparing people.
Instead, you're saying clever stuff.
Thanks so much Vio
I like harry because he respects women and doesn't generalise them. I also like how he isn't afraid to dress however he wants bc he likes it and I think that's amazing. His ability to express himself not because of his absence of fear of judgement but because he can acknowledge that fear and judgement and push through it bc DAMN does he look good in a dress - and he knows it too!
Everyone in the comments talking about harry, but what about Jason?
My guy friends often say I need to date big buff alphas. But from my experience, "alpha" type guys make me SO uncomfortable. I'm much more likely to pick the skinny and nerdy "betas". I've found they are more likely to treat me as a human being, and we'd have so much more in common.
Guys are attracted to alphas.
I think Harry does have Alpha Male traits. He is a leader not a follower, he is sucessful, he is intelligent, loyal and charismatic. That could be why the girls love him. Love you Harry ❤
I love your videos but ill have to disagree with this one. Being an alpha male is not a physical thing, is about the confidence you exude, how you carry yourself, having a magnetic personality, being charming, NOT NEEDING OUTSIDE APPROVAL etc.
Harry styles is actually the perfect example of an alpha male, he is a leader wherever he goes, everyone loves him and without trying he is always the center of attention, he is kind and doesn't need to put others down in order to feel important or validated, he doesnt seek approval in others, (he does what he wants and people just accept it). I think in this video you were referring to a "macho man" which most of the time are the furthest thing from an alpha male
Use whatever word you want personally. But the word alpha has implications for men. And mostly it implies POWER. I wanted to get away from this headspace. I want to remove the word alpha from everyone’s vocabulary.
@@AnthonyRecenello I will also have to disagree. (But I really love your videos!) Watching the videos you made about Harry so far, I have had the feeling that you know the "Harry Styles" from after One Direction. A lot of Harry's fanbase comes from the One Direction days, or even when new fans discover him nowadays, they become a fan of him through looking at 1D also. His new style does not exist in a vacuum.
If you look at Harry and his brand since as early as 2010, you'll see that he was advertised and marketed as literally the alpha male. He was seen as the sex symbol of 1D back in the day and he loved it. I will give you an example: look at this fan account on tumblr ohstylesno.tumblr.com/. Go to their "links" and see the tags she's made for Harry GIFs. Look, in those GIFs, how Harry behaves. He might have changed his image, but he used to be as macho as it comes.
Harry is an alpha male. He is successful without tearing other down.
I love Harry and he just does it for me surprisingly. His charisma on stage, the witty side of his personality, humility and all these things are just really attractive to me. I mean he has the looks but if it were just them, it'd be crazy to like someone because of just their looks. His personality is soo attractive to me and I love guys who have similar personality with him (not that anyone has to emulate him but be the best version of themselves and understand not everyone is going to like you for who you are but some will appreciate and love you) It's crazy people look for the most craziest thing to want to hate him. You don't have to love or even like like him, it's simple to just ignore him but for me I carry Harry's 'Treat People with Kindness' slogan in my heart.
I love your videos! Strength is more than lifting weights at the gym. Being a good provider, helping the sick, being patient takes strength and maturity. Women fall in love with men (even 'beta' men) that treat them well, this is the pattern. The regular guy married to a supermodel...he treats her well.
Yup! Great points
Alpha doesn’t mean manly. It means being a good person. Harry is an alpha. Trump is a beta. Trump puts people down to raise himself up.
Shallon Lester has a good definition for it, and this applies to both men and women, alphas are pack builders and betas are pack dividers. Check her out if u want a more in depth explanation!
I would like to say, as being a girl, I can say, I like Harry Styles for his personality. I like someone who has a great personality, looks don't matter at that point for me. If you are loving, kind, caring and have a okay sense of humor, that's all that matters at that point. Love is love
You're so right! As I've gotten a little older and dated different men I've come to the conclusion that I much prefer a guy that has a nice confident balance of both masculinity and feminine. I get grossed out by men that feel the need to be ultra masculine over every little thing, they aren't secure with their sexuality or themselves at all. It's gross. They feel the need to prove how manly they are constantly and can't just be themselves. I don't like it.
Anthony, mate, you are so right. Every guy should hear this stuff. Great video.
your videos all seem so genuine and you know "reall"
Just found your channel, you preach the truth brother!
Thank u my dude of dudes
@@AnthonyRecenello oh you flatter me 😂
The most "alpha" thing a guy can do is be his true authentic self unapologetically with total conviction, completely in touch wirh his instincts and intuition. The most "beta" thing a guy can do is posture how "alpha" he is to others.
Harry is like the "Innovator" in this Showbiz industry whenever you try to predict him in a stereotype he just changes it upside down he is the most unpredictable guy in this industry that's why we all are so obsessed with Harry Styles.
The thing with Jason Momoa is that he actually just looks Alpha but if you watch some interviews it videos in general you’ll recognize that he actually is a total goof
i'm a simple girl I see harry styles I click
I'm not gonna lie, I didn't like u originally but the more videos I watch of you the more I like you and your content 👍
Yeah I understand this phenomenon. I at first hated Sam Ovens, Roberto Blake, David Dobrik, Anthony Fantano, h3h3, but now I love all of them. Thanks for the comment man I really love getting these.
Don’t know why this popped in my recommandation, but like what you’re saying! Guys just be yourself :)
The most alpha thing you can do is be you and pursue what you love
This video actually gives out the reality of life. Great work Anthony. You are one wonderful teacher 💯
I find alpha men repulsive.
Everyone does, Angie. Except other 'alpha' men. 🤦🏻♂️
It's funny about thinking buff guys act alpha, most big guys at my local gym are so nice and fun to talk to, they even make conversations with the new gym goers.
What do you think of guys who look “alpha” but just wanna embrace their inner artistic, sentimental and soft side? Like you know a rugged looking dude with a strong intimidating personality but deep down he likes to draw, paint, and go to museums and just relax and mellow down.
First video I saw of yours was your big Ed one. I liked your tales but had to make sure your stance on the whole “alpha” thing as a lot of “dating experts” online perpetuate the same toxic attitudes towards femininity and masculinity. Glad to see you’re legit and happy to be subscribed ☺️
Seriously. This felt like you would give me a hug.
LOL christoph!
Anthony you really changed my perspective about attraction and love.
What i learned that most of the love that we experience in early stages of our life is mostly obsession and not true love. I asked myself a question, would i still be upset if my partner was gay and leave me for someone else of her gender, if yes then you truly love them, if not then you were just obsessed and that love was a little of your ego.
just be like Harry Styles and Timothée Chalamet
*Harry on the thumbnail*
Me : Clicks instantly
are you guys kidding me right now? Harry is a cute little cupcake. Alpha who?
To me there’s nothing more alpha than a man embracing themselves 100%. There’s so much masculinity in a guy embracing their femininity. If a guy doesn’t embrace femininity that gives us the feeling like they don’t embrace ours either .
I think their should be a balance
Harry styles should be the topic of this channel like he has something it should be studied he's so perfect
I completly agree with you, and may I add my humble opinion..(?) I, as a young woman, think that there is a difference between talking about women and men or talking about women and men playing roles that are by in time social standards od expectations. (If you are interested in this even woman would care about a man being an alfa and the other way around.) I dont know, its just my opinion described short and of course we probably could philosophize about that. :) Thank you for great videos that give me food for my single ass brain :)
I think that alpha male also means who is the most dominant in the room, which can also be someone who isnt the loudest but perhaps the most silly, charming, or kind
What does DOMINANT mean to you? Why is it a valuable word for you?
so I would actually consider harry to be kind of an alpha male
@@AnthonyRecenello influential, attractive, appealing. someone who you cant explain but you are drawn to magnetically. it is not always the more assertive, loud, most intelligent person.
LA Berry so basically the male you’re attracted to is the alpha male to you?
@@AnthonyRecenello are you saying that everyone has a different sense of what an alpha male is?
"Does beeing alpha man matters?
Yes it matters.
It matters to others men. If you are interested in impress others men, yes. " 👍
To me an alpha lives by their values. Is respected by people. They are long game creatures. Old souls. Are comfortable in their own skin. When they speak in a group others go quiet. They listen well. Don’t let looks deceive you. Harry Styles is an alpha (my opinion)!
Such a calm video...it was perfect 👌
Lmaoo! That comment about Tommy Lee looking like a germ was so casual but so good 😂
Hahahah god someone finally acknowledges my dumb sense of humor
WHEN YOU PUT GERARD IN THE PICTURE MY HEART WENT-
Harry Styles is lovable because he’s confident and charismatic
Bro i love your videos, your Channel is so underrated.. keep going
Thank you so much xenon. I hope I keep seeing you commenting cuz it def helps me. 🙏🏻
Everyone who is at ease with themselves and can put other people first is an alpha. Alpha is a pack leader and being a leader means you have to create optimal circumstances for everyone else to succeed.
Yes, sometimes.
Is there a channel like this but for women? I find it all really interesting and would like to see the type of advice, coaching and guidance given to women compared to given to men.
Hey Anthony, I'm really a fan of your advice and observation skills, I hope you can help me here. I like a girl, a lot, and I bet she liked me too but I think I texted her WAY TOO OFTEN, and now she's ignoring me, how to get her back?
I love Harry Styles ♥💕
What is the background song in this video? Does anyone know?
I love your hair style dude
But what if the women you’re interested in doesn’t feel that way about you?
Harry Styles is a work of art
Here for Harry 💚
Hi, Anthony, pls breakdown one of the "alpha" guys like maybe Arnold Schwarzenegger who is a typical alpha, muscular, macho, laughs at girly men but at the same time he is an inspiration to many and has plenty of charisma. Pls do a breakdown of an "alpha guy."
Good idea
As a guy I'm insecure af bout this topic probs the reason wy I've given up on dating while my family is all in relationships, feel like I've got no self worth
This is 100% true - I am pretty average looking, but my wife is stereotypically beautiful - I only ever hear from guys the whole 'how did u get her'? Never really get that from women...I also found her by following Anthony's advice - Who I am? What do I want? Where do I find such a person? It only took about six months...
This is a nice couch talk but when you get up and go to the streets you will see that reality is way more different because dating is different when you are famous or you are just a normal person
I am a dating and social coach. In other words, I goto clubs and bars every week meeting women with clients. I’m not having a nice couch talk. I’m telling you what happens when you’re not at home watching Jordan Peterson videos and playing video games. Go test your beliefs over the course of 15+ years and get back to me bud.
@@AnthonyRecenello Again with the video games😂 people talk about video games it's like the aliens brought it to us. Anyway all I am saying is dating, having emotional or sexual relationships and marriage is not for everyone. Some people have to leave alone and some of them choose to live alone. Unfortunately we don't have bars or clubs here for me to meet women and our schools is one gender so streets are my biggest option. For me this is a nice couch talk because WE live in a very different world it feels like another planet or a parrarel universe. Here we have MANY parents that don't know where their kids are. One day their kids goes out to streets to defend and ask for their basic human rights and never came back the parents don't know where they are for a while they still have hope that they will come back but after a while they wish someone tells them that they are dead not being alive and getting CRUSHED and abused and raped everyday. Believe me I have the right to sit home and play video games all day because here future is mostly dark. Your streets are different from my streets. Your definition of love sex home family religion politics freedom food money human rights being good being bad..... doesn't work here. This is a no human's land as one of my favourite writers says "I can't breathe because here even the air is prisoned". Please don't give this dating life too much importance some of us just can't or don't want to because we just don't have faith in this world.
Noreil_SBM I feel for you. Eventually you’ll be able to find a place to live that caters to a better social life so you don’t have to meet people on the street. 🙏🏻
@@AnthonyRecenello I don't know if you like watching movies or not but please watch a movie called capernaum. It is a realism labanese movie and I am not from lebanon but I feel for them
@@noreil_sbm379 Yeah I love watching movies. Especially less popular ones. Ok I'll look it up.
I love Harry
My problem: I want to meet Harry. Let's just hope Alpha males won't keep us artists on lockdowns.
I CAME FOR HARRY AND YOU HIT ME WITH GERARD TOO I- 😤
who dat?
So much true in your words, Anthony. Thank you
Eric it’s comments like yours that keep me going and making more vids. Thank you so much.
Ay I like driving fast but that’s coz SPEED!!!
Paul Walker is my spirit animal he was an amazing man
I think the whe macho trope, is a thing of culture that was expected much more in the past than today (well even ten years ago), but again I think this is exaggerated by media that the older days ( against 10 to 20 yrs ago) were always like that where every woman wants one thing or a certain type of man.
I think peoole are very versatile naturally, both men and women, but social standards make it more "segregated" as if men only like "A" and women only like "B"
Do and interview on Jared Leto?
Oh good one george
Fight club
Tyler is an alpha male
We all love tyler right?
But I don't know any girls who talk about fight club all the time like us guys do
whats your zodic sign
Guess
your right about this
🤪
Anthony, that my chemical romance picture was really smooth and unexpected ahahah
I didn’t get what does alpha mean
You don’t need to! It’s a useless word.
Harry Styles 😍
I saw the picture of mcr and I Kegel unconsciously
ARI LARZ lol it was about ten yrs straight of girls being obsessed w them
Anthony Recenello it’s still going they return in 11 days, could you do a video on Adam Lambert there isn’t a man more charming than him
Lmao, he had me in the first few seconds.😂😂😂
Arghhh I clicked cause I saw harry styles and am simple. But then in the video there was also bts. My directioners army heart is crying with happiness.
I love your channel
Everyone is Alpha, we conquered the animals, it’s our work now ***
Harry styles is just so confident with himself as a man that he can go wear a dress. That’s amazing 😉
Totally agree 😌