The amount of content is packed cannot be digested in just 1 viewing. It's to be watching again tomorrow, when my brain can start unfold the outer most layer of the lesson. This is rare. Thank you for sharing the wisdom! I've started to understand and make sense of my past behaviour, looking at them objectively. Observing is the first step of understanding. Only then, the true motive can be unveiled. Once accepted (this is tough), personal development comes naturally afterwards I think. Learning to walk the rope.. the line between chaos and order, fear and fantasy, support and challenge,... that's where the most growth happens
Dr. John I agree what you. Above all I see majority of people are like the black matter in the universe. And the few are the awaken - conscious are the stars. Meaning we need it all The stars and the matter Everything Hase own purpose. We like to see more people conscious, understanding and accepting the fool wave. But at the end of this it’s keeps us studying and learning about us. And I have learned through my life to live with empathy. When I know that I am awake that I am part of all and all is part of me. For some, or for most this understanding will never find place in can only feel empathy. Goshia
My biggest regrets in life have been when I've looked back and seen that I ignored my inner voice warning me about something and I went ahead and did it anyway. This is an awesome way to find the balance BEFORE you make a decision that could affect your life in a negative way!
Hi Pam - you'd be wise to ask how your decisions, actions and inactions served you. There are no mistakes and every moment is part of the divine perfection. Here's a link to a presentation on master planning your life that you may also find valuable: th-cam.com/video/MqaAgY5rGI4/w-d-xo.html
I can understand that for sure! My intuition is a little too strong sometimes. So I got the message of follow my heart more. There is a balance in it and I think that is important to note. There is no one way! ❤
This is the most amazing information I have ever found on youtube This video contains wisdom to live an extraordinary life absolutely for free. Thank you.
There is no possible way for me to describe it to you cuz i cant describe it to myself. I jist tried. Gonna take some time for me to work through it i think. But, thank you so much for showing me that. I will get there. I know that now. Even though i feel like i knew, but never really accepted that. That was intense and scary. But it showed me my true self. You are doing some amazing work. I am achieving my highest timeline and embracing my true self. I mean that was so real to me. Each time it gets deeper. But i think i know what that I have to follow my heart, but i have to be careful of my impulses. They are steering me wrong, overall. But they are helpful. Idk its a lot to unpack. Im excited. I love who i am deep down. Its a beautiful, beautiful journey. I am so here for it ❤ i feel a sense of relief
Fear will yell at you tell you that you’re going to stigmatize them for setting boundaries. all you can do is stay the course write down your intuition and do what you have to do
Thank you for your talk. Upon reaching 8:22 I made a hypothesis that you had just FINALLY done something that no one else had been able to articulate or fully define and YOU just did...you have defined the purpose of meditation. The need for balance and why we need that balance is what you just just achieved. Congratulations.
Thank you Dr Demartini. Have been watching your videos they have been really helpful. These logical and holistic explanations of these deep topics and concepts are hard to find and your style is very unique and underrated really appreciate that. Just wanted to tell you that in your videos on various topics you giving examples of real people makes the topic much more impactful, interesting and gives deeper insight on how that is possible in reality to be able to apply it on self. Hoping to see more of that in your upcoming videos on all these important topics. Once again thank you for your work❤❤
Always making sense of what our human condition brain can’t 🤗Dr Martini you the master of making sense of our confused mind I am so grateful for your teachings and spread your philosophy to my contacts
Thanks for making this video on a topic that gets tossed around as you mentioned in the beginning. To imagine that the VERY POSITIVE can create as much fear as the NEGATIVE is remarkable. It's so true that we live on a continuum and at the center is our values. Thanks Dr. D, you are one of the great thinkers of our era.
Wow! You actually explain psychology in a way which helps me understand that your conclusions have to be true! I was kind of down on psychology before I found you. That lecture made me think about how friendship seems to work best when the friends are about the same size, so neither one will have a fear of gain, and neither one is sexually attracted to the other, so neither one will have a fear of loss, so it's an objective relationship.
you're taking articulation to a whole new level this video is like a guide in a maze that is constantly changing and you have to navigate through it I sincerely thank you for sharing Dr !
Yes. I really enjoyed this presentation. I had to slow it down to 0.75x speed cos it was getting a bit full on haha. Yes indeed, like someone else commented, I'd say I'd need to watch it again to get more out of it. However, the bits that I did understand were amazing to hear and O appreciate it.
Thank you for summarizing this information and sharing it so clearly John. There is a lot of insightful content but I know from experience that this is pure gold and anyone who chooses to adopt and embrace what you share will be forever changed. If this is your first time hearing this, please watch it again and again as when you do you'll achieve a quantum leap of understanding. And you can go through the values process on John's website for free ... one of the wisest things you can do for a fulfilled life. ❤🌈
Good morning dr.Demartini, it’s an honor to meet you. I subscribed right away after watching and listening this video . Wow! Incredible information! Thank you for helping me understand how to balance my being ❤ Have a great day! 🎉
I just discovered you and I am very grateful for your perspectives. The way you explain everything is in a form that I can apply and that isn't all televangelistic. I have been really needing some help with some things I don't know if I'll be able to get through,, but your videos show me a structured layout of how emotional and physical and my psychology. It's literally as if you are and have been here watching me and it's like every video I stumble on is directly applicable to the issues I'm up against.... IDK 😐 thank you so much and I hope I'm strong enough to be honest with myself and apply your concepts of understanding to my life..
@@DrDemartini I've been coming across your Excellent work and it's giving me a different perspective on thing's. I look forward to working with your material. Thank you for living your passion! 🙏🙏❤
Hi Elena, thanks for your comment, please email Emile at emile@drdemartini.com and he will give you everything you need to learn the Demartini Method. Thanks, Team Demartini.
Living trough the fantasy I was objective. Little did I understand that the abandonment triggered my old wounds and anger. It was such a fantastical mindfuck. Making the "fantasy" also loose it's objectivity now starting to idealise it in retrospect.. It was sustained by gaslighting: triggering blame on my behave. Mindfucking!
Morning John. Thank you for this nugget. I have never come across anything so beautiful and profound regarding FEAR. This truly makes sense. Your explanation of SOUL made me understand the Yogic Philosophy of " madhya marg" that is "the middle path" without favouring polarities. Thank you once again 🙏
Beautiful - thank you for sharing your thoughts! I think you'll find this free training on the hidden order very inspiring - you can access it here: demartini.ink/3yRJGG0 - hope you enjoy!
Love it but when making our highest goals inline with both sides, what is an example of that? As in, if you're saying dont just aim for the great idea you need the phobia too. So if I'm aiming for owning my own home is that yo be balanced out with saying it'll be expensive? Or if my aim is to become financially abundant, do i then have to visualise it being hard work to keep it from being just phillia with no phobia? Dont get that last bit 😅 thank you.
An objective goal is different from a subjective fantasy. An objective goal is something that has objectivity, which means even-mindedness or the pursuit of something that is balanced in its orientation. Whenever you set a goal that is truly aligned with what you value most, you are more likely to embrace pleasure and pain equally in the pursuit of it. It’s wise to look for questions to balance out whatever you’re pursuing to ensure it’s a true objective. Here are some powerful questions to ask yourself on a daily basis: What do you absolutely love to do in life? What are the pros and cons of doing it? What obstacles might you run into, and how do you solve them in advance? To learn more about setting objective goals, watch this video series: th-cam.com/video/v5-pcJ47Ym4/w-d-xo.html
Dear Demartini, hi from turkey. ım a big fan of you. I need to ask a question. I grew up without support and when I feel unsupported I get neck pain. Is it possible to fix this? What can I do to feel safe and supported even when I feel alone?
Good theory...more examples to illustrate, drive the point home would have been useful. For instance, sharing what the person experiences in relationships in the different scenarios mentioned in a little more depth.
Thank you very much Dear Doctor Demartini for explaining and elevating us on the fundamental aspects of fear. It is very important to understand the context and its application in our life to grow and evolve our mind to lead quality life and take acceptance as means to discover our true self. We our Gratitude for your service to humanity. God Bless You Doctor Demartini 🙏😃
I like and can understand this principle. Putting it into practice is the key and feel some fear in this having the habit of seeking pleasure without pain for so long.
An eye opening dissertation of the fear v pleasure concept! This is a wow moment indeed.., a game changing learning experience!! Thank you Dr. Demartini for sharing this invaluable knowledge with all of us 🙏
Hi Anibal, thanks for taking to time to learn from Dr Demartini and to comment. We look forward to continue to walk this journey with you. Team Demartini.
I still can't figure out what my highest value is really. Love must be it. But is it? Or is it different for everyone? Must be. 😮 we are a different person everyday 🎉
Law of Polarity. Both sides exist, for everything. They belong to each other.
Face
Everything
And
Rise
A Perfect man! Positive /Negative Man is so honest, and real, Love him! Genius! This is true for everything in our world.💚
The amount of content is packed cannot be digested in just 1 viewing. It's to be watching again tomorrow, when my brain can start unfold the outer most layer of the lesson. This is rare. Thank you for sharing the wisdom! I've started to understand and make sense of my past behaviour, looking at them objectively. Observing is the first step of understanding. Only then, the true motive can be unveiled. Once accepted (this is tough), personal development comes naturally afterwards I think.
Learning to walk the rope.. the line between chaos and order, fear and fantasy, support and challenge,... that's where the most growth happens
Yeh I have to take notes and review it a few times to remember it
I'm on my 3rd time listening...lol
The State Of Unconditioned Love
Dr. John I agree what you.
Above all I see majority of people are like the black matter in the universe. And the few are the awaken - conscious are the stars. Meaning we need it all
The stars and the matter
Everything Hase own purpose.
We like to see more people conscious, understanding and accepting the fool wave.
But at the end of this it’s keeps us studying and learning about us.
And I have learned through my life to live with empathy.
When I know that I am awake that I am part of all and all is part of me.
For some, or for most this understanding will never find place in can only feel empathy.
Goshia
This intro music is the best
My biggest regrets in life have been when I've looked back and seen that I ignored my inner voice warning me about something and I went ahead and did it anyway. This is an awesome way to find the balance BEFORE you make a decision that could affect your life in a negative way!
Hi Pam - you'd be wise to ask how your decisions, actions and inactions served you. There are no mistakes and every moment is part of the divine perfection. Here's a link to a presentation on master planning your life that you may also find valuable: th-cam.com/video/MqaAgY5rGI4/w-d-xo.html
I can understand that for sure! My intuition is a little too strong sometimes. So I got the message of follow my heart more. There is a balance in it and I think that is important to note. There is no one way! ❤
“When we live by our highest value we are on the path of the soul” ✨💫 love that
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We learn by experience (sometimes hard knocks) to live in the middle of the two extremes.
This is the most amazing information I have ever found on youtube
This video contains wisdom to live an extraordinary life absolutely for free. Thank you.
YEh I agree
🙂 Glad you found this valuable
There is no possible way for me to describe it to you cuz i cant describe it to myself. I jist tried. Gonna take some time for me to work through it i think. But, thank you so much for showing me that. I will get there. I know that now. Even though i feel like i knew, but never really accepted that. That was intense and scary. But it showed me my true self. You are doing some amazing work. I am achieving my highest timeline and embracing my true self. I mean that was so real to me. Each time it gets deeper. But i think i know what that I have to follow my heart, but i have to be careful of my impulses. They are steering me wrong, overall. But they are helpful. Idk its a lot to unpack. Im excited. I love who i am deep down. Its a beautiful, beautiful journey. I am so here for it ❤ i feel a sense of relief
The truth will set you free 🕊:))))
Thanks for the comment.
Probably the best video I've ever seen. Brilliant and very helpful. Thank you
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I wish you use more examples to apply this knowledge, I would understand how to apply in my life
Thank you
i am mindblown. thank you so much!!!!
Very interesting, the connection between moments of depression and insisting on a fantasy.
Yes, it is powerful once you see the correlation. Thanks for the message. Team Demartini.
I think the hardest part of the demartini method is to choose what to work on.
The disequilibriums seem to come from so many places at the same time.
Fear will yell at you tell you that you’re going to stigmatize them for setting boundaries. all you can do is stay the course write down your intuition and do what you have to do
Fear comes from the fantasy or the resentment. Between these two is objectivity and we see both sides and are balanced.
Thank you ; so simple when explained what an amazing tool WOW
Thank you for sharing this video that was a great presentation and lesson. ❤
This is GOLD.
This is excellent 👌🏽 Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you very much!!
The BEST explanation of fear that I’ve ever heard. Life changing. Thank you ❤
This man is a genius. It's quite telling that many people of unusual intelligence, do not fit the standard academic mode, in their early life.
No one could’ve explained this better than you Dr Demartini. You are my saviour❤️ Thank you🙏😘
amazing video . thank you for this lesson
Thank you for your talk. Upon reaching 8:22 I made a hypothesis that you had just FINALLY done something that no one else had been able to articulate or fully define and YOU just did...you have defined the purpose of meditation. The need for balance and why we need that balance is what you just just achieved. Congratulations.
Thank you for your feedback - it is powerful to balance the perceptions. We hope to share more amazing content with you soon ❤️
very well explained! when John put the value lines of over the magnet, that added another layer of comphrension, a great touch !
Thank you Dr Demartini. Have been watching your videos they have been really helpful. These logical and holistic explanations of these deep topics and concepts are hard to find and your style is very unique and underrated really appreciate that.
Just wanted to tell you that in your videos on various topics you giving examples of real people makes the topic much more impactful, interesting and gives deeper insight on how that is possible in reality to be able to apply it on self. Hoping to see more of that in your upcoming videos on all these important topics. Once again thank you for your work❤❤
Thank you - that's a great idea. Thank you for your message 🙂
@@DrDemartini in your language the stories bring the heart to the dry logical explanations making it a perfect balance! 💯❤️
Defines my life...
Thank you for this video.
Always making sense of what our human condition brain can’t 🤗Dr Martini you the master of making sense of our confused mind I am so grateful for your teachings and spread your philosophy to my contacts
thank you 🙂
Many thanks for sharing, dear Johny 🌷
Thanks for making this video on a topic that gets tossed around as you mentioned in the beginning. To imagine that the VERY POSITIVE can create as much fear as the NEGATIVE is remarkable. It's so true that we live on a continuum and at the center is our values. Thanks Dr. D, you are one of the great thinkers of our era.
Your content is awesome!!!!
Thanks John for another great teaching! Blessings to ypu and you and yours.
Wow! You actually explain psychology in a way which helps me understand that your conclusions have to be true! I was kind of down on psychology before I found you. That lecture made me think about how friendship seems to work best when the friends are about the same size, so neither one will have a fear of gain, and neither one is sexually attracted to the other, so neither one will have a fear of loss, so it's an objective relationship.
This is so so so good
thank you very much..
🙂
you're taking articulation to a whole new level
this video is like a guide in a maze that is constantly changing and you have to navigate through it
I sincerely thank you for sharing Dr !
You have no idea, how much I needed this right now
So freakin good. Needs to be taught in schools. Like yesterday.
so well said, these should be taught in schools and the world would be a better place to live...
That was so Uncredible!!!! and clear!!!! Thank you so much for sharing.
this is so deep🙏
Yes. I really enjoyed this presentation. I had to slow it down to 0.75x speed cos it was getting a bit full on haha. Yes indeed, like someone else commented, I'd say I'd need to watch it again to get more out of it. However, the bits that I did understand were amazing to hear and O appreciate it.
Awesome, thank you!
Cool. I just watched it again and understood it even more, this time at normal speed. It's excellent the balance and all that.
Thank you for summarizing this information and sharing it so clearly John.
There is a lot of insightful content but I know from experience that this is pure gold and anyone who chooses to adopt and embrace what you share will be forever changed.
If this is your first time hearing this, please watch it again and again as when you do you'll achieve a quantum leap of understanding. And you can go through the values process on John's website for free ... one of the wisest things you can do for a fulfilled life. ❤🌈
Gratitude for your immense Valuable content on How to become Fearless Being!
Thank you for sharing your gifts and talents with us all. #Brilliant #Respect #Gratitude #Love
Love it Dr John! Live by your highest value and be aware of the fear of gain and the fear of loss in our lives! 😄🙌🏽
This is really spot on so ... well explained....
This was probably the most eye-opening video I’ve seen on TH-cam yet. This break down of fear is so simple to understandn
Thank you so much for your true knowledge and time donation. You offer magic with reality. Just loved all this video. Thank You!!!
Good morning dr.Demartini, it’s an honor to meet you. I subscribed right away after watching and listening this video . Wow! Incredible information! Thank you for helping me understand how to balance my being ❤
Have a great day! 🎉
MIND BLOWING CONTENT!! THANK YOU SOO MUCHHH!
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I just discovered you and I am very grateful for your perspectives. The way you explain everything is in a form that I can apply and that isn't all televangelistic.
I have been really needing some help with some things I don't know if I'll be able to get through,, but your videos show me a structured layout of how emotional and physical and my psychology. It's literally as if you are and have been here watching me and it's like every video I stumble on is directly applicable to the issues I'm up against....
IDK 😐 thank you so much and I hope I'm strong enough to be honest with myself and apply your concepts of understanding to my life..
John, you are my mentor in life. Thank you.
Hi Jo, that is great to hear. Team Demartini
I have no words for how valuable this information is. Thank you so much John!
Thanks for taking the time to comment ❤️
Outstanding 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you ❤️ Glad you gained value from this presentation. I hope if gives you the clarity to use your fears to your greatest advantage.
@@DrDemartini I've been coming across your Excellent work and it's giving me a different perspective on thing's. I look forward to working with your material. Thank you for living your passion! 🙏🙏❤
Thank you Dr. John.. Can you share Amazon link of your books?
Here's the link ✨: www.amazon.com/~/e/B001JS4PYO
this is a cheat code to life right here. thanks dr demartini!
Thanks Vishal.
Thank you,very helpful Dr.Demartini.
In which book of yours I Can learn Demartini Method?
Hi Elena, thanks for your comment, please email Emile at emile@drdemartini.com and he will give you everything you need to learn the Demartini Method.
Thanks, Team Demartini.
Living trough the fantasy I was objective. Little did I understand that the abandonment triggered my old wounds and anger. It was such a fantastical mindfuck. Making the "fantasy" also loose it's objectivity now starting to idealise it in retrospect.. It was sustained by gaslighting: triggering blame on my behave. Mindfucking!
I love your simplified explanation and inspiration of fear Doc
Morning John. Thank you for this nugget. I have never come across anything so beautiful and profound regarding FEAR. This truly makes sense. Your explanation of SOUL made me understand the Yogic Philosophy of " madhya marg" that is "the middle path" without favouring polarities. Thank you once again 🙏
Beautiful - thank you for sharing your thoughts! I think you'll find this free training on the hidden order very inspiring - you can access it here: demartini.ink/3yRJGG0 - hope you enjoy!
My fear is you could be wrong...how would I know?
Amazing!
Olesya , Thanks for the comment - Team Demartini
These are my favorite type of vids/teachings that you share. Would you share more empyreance related stuff on yt?
Thank you Dr De Martini.... What do we value.....? So much to learn still.... Thank you for your teachings. It's realistic and I find resonance.
Hi Michiel, have you taken the time to determine your values? You can do se here: demartini.fm/mytopvalues
Thank you very much for inspiring video!
🙂
As usual, your videos are eye-opening. Thank you very much for sharing your knowledge.
amazing video
Hi James - wonderful to know you appreciated this presentation 🙂
Love it but when making our highest goals inline with both sides, what is an example of that? As in, if you're saying dont just aim for the great idea you need the phobia too. So if I'm aiming for owning my own home is that yo be balanced out with saying it'll be expensive? Or if my aim is to become financially abundant, do i then have to visualise it being hard work to keep it from being just phillia with no phobia? Dont get that last bit 😅 thank you.
An objective goal is different from a subjective fantasy. An objective goal is something that has objectivity, which means even-mindedness or the pursuit of something that is balanced in its orientation. Whenever you set a goal that is truly aligned with what you value most, you are more likely to embrace pleasure and pain equally in the pursuit of it. It’s wise to look for questions to balance out whatever you’re pursuing to ensure it’s a true objective.
Here are some powerful questions to ask yourself on a daily basis:
What do you absolutely love to do in life?
What are the pros and cons of doing it?
What obstacles might you run into, and how do you solve them in advance?
To learn more about setting objective goals, watch this video series: th-cam.com/video/v5-pcJ47Ym4/w-d-xo.html
I needed this. Thank you 🙏🏾
I resonate with your teachings so much dr demartini. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. 🙏❤️
You are so welcome
I've been educated. It happened again :)
Dear Demartini, hi from turkey. ım a big fan of you. I need to ask a question. I grew up without support and when I feel unsupported I get neck pain. Is it possible to fix this? What can I do to feel safe and supported even when I feel alone?
Hi Yeryüzü, please take advantage of this free training from Dr Demartini on balancing your emotions: demartini.ink/3DTG8qF
Good theory...more examples to illustrate, drive the point home would have been useful. For instance, sharing what the person experiences in relationships in the different scenarios mentioned in a little more depth.
LOVE this. Thank you Sir!!!
how did you overcome your learning disability? your words are profound
I share my story in this video 🙂 th-cam.com/video/vsHwauYU5k4/w-d-xo.html
So much value in this message. I have to rewatch to allow the idea sink in. Thanks a lot
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you very much Dear Doctor Demartini for explaining and elevating us on the fundamental aspects of fear. It is very important to understand the context and its application in our life to grow and evolve our mind to lead quality life and take acceptance as means to discover our true self. We our Gratitude for your service to humanity. God Bless You Doctor Demartini 🙏😃
Thank you Dr DeMartini, excellent! information!
You're so welcome - thank you 🙂
I like and can understand this principle. Putting it into practice is the key and feel some fear in this having the habit of seeking pleasure without pain for so long.
Think of it this way, if all of life was pleasure, then pleasure would be the normal. We cannot have pleasure without pain
An eye opening dissertation of the fear v pleasure concept! This is a wow moment indeed.., a game changing learning experience!! Thank you Dr. Demartini for sharing this invaluable knowledge with all of us 🙏
Hi Anibal, thanks for taking to time to learn from Dr Demartini and to comment. We look forward to continue to walk this journey with you. Team Demartini.
So good. 🙏🏾 thank you!
Amazing content! Dr. Demartini all amazing source of pure knowledge and inspiration. Thank you
Our pleasure!
thank you for your feedback 😀
John Thank you for sharing with us such a great content. Absolutely priceless💛
Thank you Marlena 🙂
Bravo. My mind is blown right now. What a beautiful explanation of love and fear.
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I heard about you in a Richard Grannon video.
Sharon, Thanks for the comment - Team Demartini
Wow
🙏🏻❤️
How did you overcome your dyslexia, please tell me
There are still some signs but not to the level it used to be. It's almost undetectable now.
What if the infatuation and resentment are equally high but in the extreme!!!
I am dealing for 5 years with anxiety depression and suicidality ....
Hi Milly - please see this video on overcoming depression and anxiety: th-cam.com/video/yK5dsiyqv-g/w-d-xo.html
Geeeeeesssszhhhhhhh
I still can't figure out what my highest value is really. Love must be it. But is it? Or is it different for everyone? Must be. 😮 we are a different person everyday 🎉
Have you taken the free Value Determination? To determine your values visit: demartini.fm/mytopvalues
Can we connect via phone?
This method heals social anxiety?
Hi Reda, yes, this method can help you overcome social anxiety too 🙂
So since I am scared to sky dive because of death I have a fantasy that I can't die... just wow
Your fear will guide you to put on a parachute and ensure that the company you use to do your jump is qualified and has a wise track record.