I tried your customer service advice about ten minutes ago! It worked the upset gentleman said his day was better because he spoke to me. How’s that for a Monday? I just cannot begin to tell you how your knowledge has changed my perspective on my entire life. ❤ My biggest issue now is I cannot wait to get home and watch all of your videos. My sincerest respect to you Dan. I look forward to signing up for the courses you offer.
Many thanks for letting us know your customer service story, Bonnie, and I look forward to having you as part of danoconnortraining.com :). And I thank you for your support membership!
My reply to you keeps disappearing. I am going to try one more time. THANK YOU FOR TELLING YOUR STORY, BONNIEM and I look forward to you in danoconnortraining.com
@bonniem5384. First of all--thank you for your membership; it is much appreciated. And I am delighted to have helped you with your customer service challenges. I know they can be overwhelming :)
I love your advice. I really want to repair the family relationships in my life and show more love overall. Ultimately the biggest struggle of my life. This quote rocked my world: “I am not at the effect of any of my relationships because I am in charge of the relationships in my life.”
It is not about the number of breaths that you take in your lifetime, but it's about the number of moments that take your breath away. (That is like giving meaning to experiences.) 😊💖💖💖💖💖
Im so happy I found your channel…have been DREADING going into work tomorrow, as a consultant who is a “bully” will be in the office all week. Your perspective is giving me the headspace to see things from a different perspective. Thank you. Thank you.
I am 63 years old and I just learned something new! The message and meaning of Rumpelstilskin had never occurred to me, though I have long believed in “naming it.” Thanks for that! As for the rest of your presentation, you are a truth-teller, and you are highly skilled at giving the truth as a gift that your listener can accept and enjoy or they can return it to the store. I value the truth, so thank you.
. . . thank you, sooo much....this vid of yours is perfect for my precious Goddaughter in the hospital who has numerous prior hospitalizations due to high stress in her life bcz others affect her immensely & she has yet to fully learn & accept that she can't change others, but only change the way she reacts to those....God Bless You So Much....
Trueman, since you found value in this video, please become a supporting channel member by pressing the "join" button. That ensures that I'll be able to keep these videos coming!
This video grabbed my attention and pulled me in to start taking notes and download the pdf. It is true, the universe does keep presenting challenges in order to learn and answers when we seek them and are open to receive. Warm regards to you 💚
Ill say this also; it is such an awesome time to be alive to hear non (openly) relgious creators speaking about spiritual law and how it applies in everyday life. These are essentially (one of) the teachings of the one known as "Jesus". Words cant describe how awesome this truly is!
@@FerventFourEyesThe Son of God,King Jesus Christ,totally blows that "many paths" to The Truth completely out of the water because he IS The Truth.....there's a lot of truth(reality as it is) that leads to Christ,then once found,the rest of life is to learn to submit to The Truth,The Way,and The Life that only is found in the incredible fountain of pure love and power.Put that pride down!Your Creator literally was murdered for you on a cross to pay your sin debt.Then was resurrected from the dead and now lives and reigns at the right hand of The Father.Of course the other Kingdoms are at war with Him,like the one you're in.But now is the time to choose His offer of eternal life before the doors close.(Read Mark chapter 4 to see how this shakes out,it's a trip how simple this is.Then John chapter 3 REALLY gets down as Jesus explains what REAL spirituality is.)......Stay cool!Love from Texas,Brent
You’ve just summed up all of your talks, connected everything to God, his Son/i.e. Love and reality. And our tie in to it all, the quantum reality, and our own power. Webbie award, anyone?? Webbie for Dan O’Connor ❤
When we make a mistake, the Universe can take the lemon and make lemonade out of it for us. Thank you for reminding me that we live in a friendly (loving) Universe and not a hostile Universe. 😃💖
This is really great! I was only aware that you work on a sort of philosophy (if this is the term to use for the transformational power of love) today! Really helpful. I only came on to listen to you due to a work related issue and this changed my perspective on things. I will consider doing your course now.
You are helping people pulling truth(s) out of 'thin air' and make them visible, audible, tangible, readable, writable, experiencable, feelable, measurable and doable. Which is true manifestation, I guess 😁
Thank You for the download in description box, Dan, much love to you! This is powerful information that we don’t learn in school, but should learn before we learn everything else.
You are welcome, Syd--and I agree that if this approach were taught in grade school, we might not be experiencing the ugly global dialogue that is currently burning our ears.
Thank you, you gave me a lot to process and think about, I took notes and downloaded the link in your bio. I feel this video wasn’t put in my life by accident. ❤
Dan....☺....I am German and I laughed like a crazy person when you talked about RUMPELSTILZCHEN (you could work on that pronounciation a bit) and called him a DIFFICULT PERSON. Tomorrow I have to have a talk with a difficult person at work (BULLY)......and I am here for some coaching on how to control that in the best way.....and control myself as well. Your videos have helped me so much during the last months when things really started to get worse with the bossing and bullying.
thank you for motivating video where I am stronger to stand against harassment at workplace where other boss who is over the boss who harassed me told me on Friday that I need to understand that everyone at work is different and walk with the stress differently so the way I perceive people is not the same how they perceive me so even I was harassed I need to stand that nothing happened. There was no sorry and there was no apologies that I struggled with my mental health and I overdose my Medication. I’m shamed but not ashamed.
Not even halfway through and this is already so good! I'm already subbed and was looking for good insight but this is better than i expected. Thank you so much!😊
This is the best video ever! I was looking for a miracle to change my life, and I never realized that love was that miracle until I watched your video. 37:49
Thank you for your video! I am dealing with a toxic work environment with two co-teachers who are bossy and gossiping to each other about me even in the classroom in front of me. One of them gossip to everyone else about me as well. My boss also gossips to her about me because he believes her. I don't know if I should go over his head or leave.
It never ever works to go over someone's head. The reason is, that "someone" probably hired the person youé complaining about. You deal with it head-on or you leave. That would be my best advice.
@@TheWizardOfWords Thank you so much for replying! The principal is new. She did not hire them. My co-teacher has been at the school for 25 years. She is in her late 60's and has no husband or children. I understand that she likes to gossip about everyone. She even gossips about my director. I tried to set boundaries with her and my other co-teacher but they are together. I am going to try your awesome method and change my reality. If you have any other suggestions please let me know. thanks again.
LOL, I'm laughing because you cheer me up, Dan.💖 The way you call us out on things is serious, but you do it in a humorous way. So my past relationships (all two of them) might have failed because I (power phrase) didn't actively communicate my needs. Maybe that's it.🤔 Now I'm getting somewhere.😊 I was always afraid to express my needs, and therefore I did not, because I (again, power phrase) believed that expressing my needs would make me appear needy . AND I know how much men hate needy women. My dad was not a good role model, and I didn't have a brother. I just thought communicating needs makes a woman sound needy, and that men hate that. Having a big brother to learn these things from would have been nice. But I'm learning now. 😊💖👍
@@TheWizardOfWords Everything I NEED now, is here.🤗💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 That's true, people can have needs without being needy. If you serve others with a servants heart, then the Universe reciprocates that back to you and your needs get met. If I need money, I give money away. If I need help, I help others. If I need advice, I give advice. If I need love (agape) then I give love (agape).😀💖👍 Our needs get met when we give what we need out to others. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
@@TheWizardOfWords Well Dan, I like the way you put it better.🤣 You said that if the thought of making a video makes us want to "throw up," then we need to do it, because if we do the same thing today that we did yesterday, then we will get the same results today that we got yesterday. You are right. You are more than right about that! I need a bench mark. So don't let me get off the hook for making the video, even if the idea of it makes me want to throw up. 😂💖 I put into practice everything you teach me through your videos, and I told you I am already being seen differently at work. My principal, twice now, has encouraged me to please become a special education teacher. My principal also told me that compared to last year, that I seem more comfortable in my own skin. Thank you Dan, for my success!💖 But I'm not stopping now, no sir! This course you are offering now, is going to be right up my alley! I plan on taking it after the holidays. 💖 Christmas is coming and I want to save money. Also I am still in your "Stepping Out of the Shadows Course." Dan, what you said about if we do the same thing today that we did yesterday, then we are going to get the same results today that we got yesterday- those words are sticking with me, and motivating me to take the course! Also for me, being a number 5, I enjoy taking courses. I never in my wildest dreams though about taking a communication skills course, but that's what I need to come across more confident so that I will get those promotions at work. You make learning fun.😀💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
I love this lesson!💖 WOW, I need to watch it again, and again. It is so deep.🤔😃 The way to change how other people see you, is to change the way you see yourself. We live in a Universe that reflects back to us what we send out. When you change the way that you see yourself, and you behave in a certain way that reflects your principles and your authentic self, you will radiate that energy to others. They will take notice at work, and they will change the way that they see you. Equally as important, is to change the way in which you are perceiving that other people are thinking about you. Tell yourself, and believe it, that people are "thinking" good thoughts about you .😊 Tell yourself that people, right now, see you the way in which you want to be seen. Feel it, and believe it to be true. Never underestimate the power of your feelings. Your "feelings" will speed up your manifestation of how you want to be perceived by others. This is being in charge of every relationship, and ultimately your destiny. It is being the captain of your ship. 🤗💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Fantastic - Be Cause! "I" as a cause, not a consequence - What have I done or have not done to let anyone believe they can treat me the wrong way? :) Hard shift of the mindset.
I fell asleep listening to this but could still hear it, so I slipped into a dream of him giving a professional talk and me on the front row talking notes 😂🎉
What we do in the present moment literally *does* change the past and the future. And what we do in the next present moment, and in the next & the next can change it all too. If you don’t believe this, there are simple ways to prove it, take off your shoes right now, and afterwards in the next moment, you’ll see that you changed the past (you took your shoes off) and you changed the future (your shoes are off now, which is the “future” of the previous moment when you took them off, and it will likely cause other future changes, like cause you to put your shoes back on, or you’ll go shoeless or barefoot for a while, it branches out into possible realities/ timelines).
Thank you sooo much for sharing. I am going to pass this along to several other people, as I believe this is a *Life Changer* video. I only wish I was in a position to afford to take your courses. I wish you much success.
The kindness concept we’ve honestly got that part messed up to be kind to ourselves is to speak 🗣️ up for ourselves and be heard in respect most misunderstand what kindness is when we let people know that behaviors isn’t something we’re going to accept any longer it places a light 💡 around it and it also lets them know our boundaries
We are off to see the Wizard, the wonderful Wizard of Words. Because, because, because, because, because....BECAUSE of the wonderful things he does (teaches us.) 😃👍💖
Okay Dan, here it goes...😀 So if I am the person who is responsible for how I feel, and I feel what I think, that is to say that I first think a thought and then I attach a feeling to it, then I DECIDE if I feel like someone is meeting my needs or not. It would really have nothing to do with my hypothetical partner.😊 So if I were in a relationship now, I am the one who decides if my needs are met or not. It would have nothing to do with what my hypothetical partner is or is not doing. It is all in how I DECIDE to think, and therefore feel, about what my partner is or is not doing for me. An example would be this: "I can help the way I feel, but I have chosen to feel upset because I have decided that you aren't meeting my needs." 🤔😊 If we want them to fulfill our needs, then we need to serve them first by meeting their needs, and then ours will be met. But again, we are the ones who get to decide if our partner is fulfilling our needs or not. We are not at the mercy of them for our happiness. I get so much value from your videos, Dan, you have no idea. Thank you so much. I look forward to taking this course you are offering in the future. Man, if I am getting this much out of your introductory video, then by the end of your course I will be levitating. Thanks, Dan, for all you do. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
@@TheWizardOfWords I am looking forward to taking the course, and I am so excited about it. 😊 I am feeling shy about making the video, but I know that it will be good for me.💖 Maybe I need to buy a red suit. 😉😁😊👍💕😀
Thank you, I needed to hear this. We are made up of mostly empty space between the molecules that make us up. The Universe goes on for infinity, and it too is mostly empty space. We are mostly empty space. AND we only use a very small percentage of our brains. Most of our brain is unused (empty) space. These things have always fascinated me, and it makes me appreciate my life and being alive.😃💖
Guilt and shame are "useless" emotions that keep people immobilized so that they are not able to enjoy the present moment. All we have is the present moment unit of time. It serves us more to focus on "useful" emotions such as happiness, joy, and love. Those emotions will serve us in our present moment, which is all we have. I know now that we have a choice about which thoughts and emotions that we want to hold on to in our conscious minds. 😃💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
@@TheWizardOfWords I sent two payments. One for you, and one for Buddy.😀 I could not find Buddy's Patreon page, so I sent it here. 😁🐶💖🤗💖 I really sent two payments because I (POWER PHRASE) appreciate you, this video, the downloads, and Buddy. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖🤗🐕😀
@@TheWizardOfWords Maggie! 😃💖 Oh, GOOD, it is great to hear that Maggie is doing well!🤗🐶💖 I will send her a payment, next payday! Be sure to let her know. 😉 It is great to hear about Maggie. 🐶🐕💖💖💖💖
In the story with rumpelstilzchen she is not playing with the golden ball, she has to learn how to spin gold out of hay and rumpel is teaching her for her baby. The golden ball thing is from the frog king. A king or primce is turned into a frog and lives in a well and the proncess drops her ball into the well. Just imagine the ball looks like a fish tank and a frog lives in it as a way to memorize
Dan, how do you deal with contradictory people? Even in situations where I have more expertise, she contradicts what I'm saying in front of our group and I don't want to argue with her in front of everyone. She does it constantly. I don't want to be mean, but I feel like something needs to be said.
Yes, something needs to be said. If she is wrong, correct her right on the spot. If she is right, thank her and move quickly along. OR, if she is doing this all the time and disrupting the flow of the meeting, look directly at her and say "Trixie, if you have a correction or a different approach, please send it to me in an email; I don't want to take the time of the group discussing this point." Make this into a broken record, and perhaps she'll stop doing this in meetings. But you must keep repeating it firmly and don't engage her at all on the topic. Don't let her drag you in. Say your sentence and move along.
You helped me reclaim, own and validate my truths, which led to me to harness the energy and power to leave a very toxic work environment and find a truly wonderful new oppo. You also helped me navigate social interactions with a narcissistic mother figure. Thank you so so much and bless you Wizard of Words!!!
Commenting! You are a force for GOOD in the world... Yes Christ consciousness (from Jesus Christ, the grain that was sown on the ground to release His Holy Spirit essence). I used to be new age, reiki master, ACIM, philosophical & spiritual teachings all roads lead to heaven UNTIL i was dying with cancer as a childless young woman, all my spiritual disciplines failed, I even went to see the Dalai Lama but alas death had me in its grip - until i cried out in my own home, God answered and showed me JESUS is the Resurrection, the Way, the Truth and the Life no one comes to the Father except through Him ✝️ ❤ for God so loved the world He gave His only begotten Son that all who believe in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Love is an action, Jesus died for your sins and mine - not churchianity, not religion but God. Innocent is not necessarily without sin, and God delights in showing mercy ❤ keep shining brother, love you!
I would like some energy vampire slayer tees. So appropriate to my job. If you can make one in royal blue, I can wear it to work. Thanks for all you do to encourage us and keep us moving forward. I listen to you every day before work.
Is any of this actually scientifically based on anything. Yes I know what the double slit experiment is. And I know protons ( I think its protons) once entangled no matter how far apart they are if one spins right the other will spin left. That's on a very very small scale though. I'm not so sure it really effects us. All that being said. I do feel like this is true. I want to be able to believe it is true though.
I get where you're coming from. When I talk about concepts like the observer effect and the quantum eraser, I'm drawing parallels that resonate with me, but they're not exactly things you can definitively prove or disprove in a traditional sense. It's like the story of Rumpelstiltskin-it may not be literally true, but it can still reveal deeper truths. In the end, you'll have to decide what feels right for you. And as you mentioned, there's a reason it feels true to you. For me, it doesn't make sense that these universal laws and principles would apply to everything except my own life. And if they don’t, does that mean I'm even more powerful than I thought? Or should I just give up trying to figure it out and check myself into "the home"? Honestly, I believe that the most important truths in life often can't be neatly proven. So, I'm trusting my gut on this one, and I think I'd trust your gut too based on what you wrote. Does that mean that's two votes for the truth?
I tried your customer service advice about ten minutes ago! It worked the upset gentleman said his day was better because he spoke to me. How’s that for a Monday? I just cannot begin to tell you how your knowledge has changed my perspective on my entire life. ❤ My biggest issue now is I cannot wait to get home and watch all of your videos. My sincerest respect to you Dan. I look forward to signing up for the courses you offer.
Many thanks for letting us know your customer service story, Bonnie, and I look forward to having you as part of danoconnortraining.com :). And I thank you for your support membership!
My reply to you keeps disappearing. I am going to try one more time. THANK YOU FOR TELLING YOUR STORY, BONNIEM and I look forward to you in danoconnortraining.com
@bonniem5384. First of all--thank you for your membership; it is much appreciated. And I am delighted to have helped you with your customer service challenges. I know they can be overwhelming :)
You are very intelligent
I love your advice. I really want to repair the family relationships in my life and show more love overall. Ultimately the biggest struggle of my life. This quote rocked my world: “I am not at the effect of any of my relationships because I am in charge of the relationships in my life.”
You bet you are!
“I am the cause”! Taking accountability and not blaming!! I love this!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
You had me at observer effect. Thank you my friend. They are listening to us
It is not about the number of breaths that you take in your lifetime, but it's about the number of moments that take your breath away. (That is like giving meaning to experiences.) 😊💖💖💖💖💖
Im so happy I found your channel…have been DREADING going into work tomorrow, as a consultant who is a “bully” will be in the office all week. Your perspective is giving me the headspace to see things from a different perspective. Thank you. Thank you.
This reminds me of A Course in Miracles. Thank you for basing your work on love, as many of us forget that love is who we are.
"We become what we believe we are." -Dan O'Connor
Yes. Putting this on my motivation board at work. I work at a rehab.
I hope that serves as quiet motivation, Angie.
I am 63 years old and I just learned something new! The message and meaning of Rumpelstilskin had never occurred to me, though I have long believed in “naming it.” Thanks for that!
As for the rest of your presentation, you are a truth-teller, and you are highly skilled at giving the truth as a gift that your listener can accept and enjoy or they can return it to the store.
I value the truth, so thank you.
Thanks for sharing!
Now this has become spiritual communication. I love it.
Dan, you are so gifted, and am so fond of your authenticity. Sending you love from Houston! Thanks so much for your wise words of encouragement!!!
Sending you love from Ajijic, MX and Saint Paul, MN, @auradiana :)
. . . thank you, sooo much....this vid of yours is perfect for my precious Goddaughter in the hospital who has numerous prior hospitalizations due to high stress in her life bcz others affect her immensely & she has yet to fully learn & accept that she can't change others, but only change the way she reacts to those....God Bless You So Much....
I hope she finds this video helpful, GA.
Wow Dan! This presentation is next level! The slides, images, content and overall message are potent! Thanks for sharing!
My pleasure!
Dan is the man!!!!
Trueman, since you found value in this video, please become a supporting channel member by pressing the "join" button. That ensures that I'll be able to keep these videos coming!
This video grabbed my attention and pulled me in to start taking notes and download the pdf. It is true, the universe does keep presenting challenges in order to learn and answers when we seek them and are open to receive. Warm regards to you 💚
I have followed you for some time now. Your advice and tools for empowering oneself are fantastic.
Thank you, Stephen, and please stick around for more :)
Ill say this also; it is such an awesome time to be alive to hear non (openly) relgious creators speaking about spiritual law and how it applies in everyday life. These are essentially (one of) the teachings of the one known as "Jesus". Words cant describe how awesome this truly is!
Many thanks Fervent and I think we would agree there are many paths to the same truth.
@TheWizardOfWords absolutely, any path saying it's THE path is the wrong one!
Totally totally TOTALLY agree@FerventFourEyes.
@@FerventFourEyes Actually that’s false. Jesus is THE Truth. He’s the truth, the way, and the light.
@@FerventFourEyesThe Son of God,King Jesus Christ,totally blows that "many paths" to The Truth completely out of the water because he IS The Truth.....there's a lot of truth(reality as it is) that leads to Christ,then once found,the rest of life is to learn to submit to The Truth,The Way,and The Life that only is found in the incredible fountain of pure love and power.Put that pride down!Your Creator literally was murdered for you on a cross to pay your sin debt.Then was resurrected from the dead and now lives and reigns at the right hand of The Father.Of course the other Kingdoms are at war with Him,like the one you're in.But now is the time to choose His offer of eternal life before the doors close.(Read Mark chapter 4 to see how this shakes out,it's a trip how simple this is.Then John chapter 3 REALLY gets down as Jesus explains what REAL spirituality is.)......Stay cool!Love from Texas,Brent
You’ve just summed up all of your talks, connected everything to God, his Son/i.e. Love and reality. And our tie in to it all, the quantum reality, and our own power. Webbie award, anyone?? Webbie for Dan O’Connor ❤
Hahaha, thanks smartees. bit.ly/dontoverlook is the download link for anyone who might have been having trouble
Yes I believe in miracles and the reality and importance of seeing with clarity.
When we make a mistake, the Universe can take the lemon and make lemonade out of it for us. Thank you for reminding me that we live in a friendly (loving) Universe and not a hostile Universe. 😃💖
Absolutely!
@@TheWizardOfWords I love you, Dan. I really needed to hear this lesson! 💖🤗 On Thursday, pay day, I will have a Super Thanks for you. 😊💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Well I thank you in advance, Sarah :)
@@TheWizardOfWords 🤗💖
Yes, GOD is Love
This is really great! I was only aware that you work on a sort of philosophy (if this is the term to use for the transformational power of love) today! Really helpful. I only came on to listen to you due to a work related issue and this changed my perspective on things. I will consider doing your course now.
Thanks, @Ravishingrebecca3912. I look forward to having you in class :)
You are helping people pulling truth(s) out of 'thin air' and make them visible, audible, tangible, readable, writable, experiencable, feelable, measurable and doable. Which is true manifestation, I guess 😁
I hope :)
Thank You for the download in description box, Dan, much love to you! This is powerful information that we don’t learn in school, but should learn before we learn everything else.
You are welcome, Syd--and I agree that if this approach were taught in grade school, we might not be experiencing the ugly global dialogue that is currently burning our ears.
Interesting, freedom from oppression. Hard to navigate without support at times.
Thank you
Thank you, you gave me a lot to process and think about, I took notes and downloaded the link in your bio. I feel this video wasn’t put in my life by accident. ❤
The Buddha said "When you realise how perfect it all is, you will lift your head up to the sky and laugh". 💗💎💗
Thank you wizard of words!
Dan....☺....I am German and I laughed like a crazy person when you talked about RUMPELSTILZCHEN (you could work on that pronounciation a bit) and called him a DIFFICULT PERSON. Tomorrow I have to have a talk with a difficult person at work (BULLY)......and I am here for some coaching on how to control that in the best way.....and control myself as well. Your videos have helped me so much during the last months when things really started to get worse with the bossing and bullying.
I'll talk to my step-father, whose name is Schmith--and get that pronunciation down a bit better. Will it work with a Minnesota accent???
Love you, Dan❤
thank you for motivating video where I am stronger to stand against harassment at workplace where other boss who is over the boss who harassed me told me on Friday that I need to understand that everyone at work is different and walk with the stress differently so the way I perceive people is not the same how they perceive me so even I was harassed I need to stand that nothing happened. There was no sorry and there was no apologies that I struggled with my mental health and I overdose my Medication. I’m shamed but not ashamed.
You r correct.. the universe is controlled by one mighty.. perfectly
You are so right God is good and Love & Forgiveness 🙏❤
Dan is a miracle worker.😊💖😃👍
That’s so good. “You have to know who you are going in”. Thank you so much.
Not even halfway through and this is already so good! I'm already subbed and was looking for good insight but this is better than i expected.
Thank you so much!😊
Welcome aboard!
This is 100% next level.
It's going to take time. I've downloaded left right and center in the hopes that I never lose access to this value. Thank you, Dan!
You're very welcome Myfuture.
This is the best video ever!
I was looking for a miracle to change my life, and I never realized that love was that miracle until I watched your video.
37:49
Thank you for your video! I am dealing with a toxic work environment with two co-teachers who are bossy and gossiping to each other about me even in the classroom in front of me. One of them gossip to everyone else about me as well. My boss also gossips to her about me because he believes her. I don't know if I should go over his head or leave.
It never ever works to go over someone's head. The reason is, that "someone" probably hired the person youé complaining about. You deal with it head-on or you leave. That would be my best advice.
@@TheWizardOfWords Thank you so much for replying! The principal is new. She did not hire them. My co-teacher has been at the school for 25 years.
She is in her late 60's and has no husband or children. I understand that she likes to gossip about everyone. She even gossips about my director. I tried to set boundaries with her and my other co-teacher but they are together. I am going to try your awesome method and change my reality. If you have any other suggestions please let me know. thanks again.
LOL, I'm laughing because you cheer me up, Dan.💖 The way you call us out on things is serious, but you do it in a humorous way. So my past relationships (all two of them) might have failed because I (power phrase) didn't actively communicate my needs. Maybe that's it.🤔 Now I'm getting somewhere.😊 I was always afraid to express my needs, and therefore I did not, because I (again, power phrase) believed that expressing my needs would make me appear needy . AND I know how much men hate needy women. My dad was not a good role model, and I didn't have a brother. I just thought communicating needs makes a woman sound needy, and that men hate that. Having a big brother to learn these things from would have been nice. But I'm learning now. 😊💖👍
If you don't communicate your needs (and you can do that without appearing needy), no one will know what you need :).
@@TheWizardOfWords Everything I NEED now, is here.🤗💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
That's true, people can have needs without being needy. If you serve others with a servants heart, then the Universe reciprocates that back to you and your needs get met. If I need money, I give money away. If I need help, I help others. If I need advice, I give advice. If I need love (agape) then I give love (agape).😀💖👍 Our needs get met when we give what we need out to others. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
That's a great way to put it, Sarah, and a wonderful way to live.
@@TheWizardOfWords Well Dan, I like the way you put it better.🤣 You said that if the thought of making a video makes us want to "throw up," then we need to do it, because if we do the same thing today that we did yesterday, then we will get the same results today that we got yesterday. You are right. You are more than right about that! I need a bench mark. So don't let me get off the hook for making the video, even if the idea of it makes me want to throw up. 😂💖 I put into practice everything you teach me through your videos, and I told you I am already being seen differently at work. My principal, twice now, has encouraged me to please become a special education teacher. My principal also told me that compared to last year, that I seem more comfortable in my own skin. Thank you Dan, for my success!💖 But I'm not stopping now, no sir! This course you are offering now, is going to be right up my alley! I plan on taking it after the holidays. 💖 Christmas is coming and I want to save money. Also I am still in your "Stepping Out of the Shadows Course." Dan, what you said about if we do the same thing today that we did yesterday, then we are going to get the same results today that we got yesterday- those words are sticking with me, and motivating me to take the course! Also for me, being a number 5, I enjoy taking courses. I never in my wildest dreams though about taking a communication skills course, but that's what I need to come across more confident so that I will get those promotions at work. You make learning fun.😀💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
I love you! Thank you for the wisdom and tools to help people change their lives. ❤
Thank you for your comment and thank you very much for your support, @lexielaughs365.
Powerful content in this video! Really felt inspired!
I love the work you do. My career causes me to develop my communication skills and your videos help. The next step os getting these courses
Thank you and I look forward to having you in Dan O'Connor Training :)
I love this guy!
Thank you for sharing your truths and being a help to others❤️
You are so welcome
Love this
I love this lesson!💖 WOW, I need to watch it again, and again. It is so deep.🤔😃 The way to change how other people see you, is to change the way you see yourself. We live in a Universe that reflects back to us what we send out. When you change the way that you see yourself, and you behave in a certain way that reflects your principles and your authentic self, you will radiate that energy to others. They will take notice at work, and they will change the way that they see you. Equally as important, is to change the way in which you are perceiving that other people are thinking about you. Tell yourself, and believe it, that people are "thinking" good thoughts about you .😊 Tell yourself that people, right now, see you the way in which you want to be seen. Feel it, and believe it to be true. Never underestimate the power of your feelings. Your "feelings" will speed up your manifestation of how you want to be perceived by others. This is being in charge of every relationship, and ultimately your destiny. It is being the captain of your ship. 🤗💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Fantastic - Be Cause! "I" as a cause, not a consequence - What have I done or have not done to let anyone believe they can treat me the wrong way? :) Hard shift of the mindset.
Thanks for posting this! So helpful the cause and effect exercises. You speak the truth!
You're welcome, Martha.
My goodness, you do not age! You look fantastic. I’ve been following you for years 😊
Those video filters were worth every penny! (And I thank you, Baileyb :)
Loved this, thank you so much Dan!! You are such a gift ❤
You are so welcome, Ruthy.
I cant thank u enough for your teachings and amazing team
Our pleasure!
You are so right! Thank You! TY x infinity!
I fell asleep listening to this but could still hear it, so I slipped into a dream of him giving a professional talk and me on the front row talking notes 😂🎉
Sounds good to me; maybe it's a memory?
Thank you, learning how to choose love 🌾
this is excellent 🙏🏾
People hated me at one of prior jobs bc they knew that I could (and did) do all of their jobs better than they did.
What we do in the present moment literally *does* change the past and the future. And what we do in the next present moment, and in the next & the next can change it all too. If you don’t believe this, there are simple ways to prove it, take off your shoes right now, and afterwards in the next moment, you’ll see that you changed the past (you took your shoes off) and you changed the future (your shoes are off now, which is the “future” of the previous moment when you took them off, and it will likely cause other future changes, like cause you to put your shoes back on, or you’ll go shoeless or barefoot for a while, it branches out into possible realities/ timelines).
Love you! Love this!❤️❤️❤️
Thank you sooo much for sharing.
I am going to pass this along to several other people, as I believe this is a *Life Changer* video.
I only wish I was in a position to afford to take your courses.
I wish you much success.
Thanks, @3TNT3 and if you think you can't afford my courses, write jean@danoconnortraining.com and see what she can do :)
The kindness concept we’ve honestly got that part messed up to be kind to ourselves is to speak 🗣️ up for ourselves and be heard in respect most misunderstand what kindness is when we let people know that behaviors isn’t something we’re going to accept any longer it places a light 💡 around it and it also lets them know our boundaries
Mil gracias Dan!
Thank you, I really enjoyed this!
We are off to see the Wizard, the wonderful Wizard of Words. Because, because, because, because, because....BECAUSE of the wonderful things he does (teaches us.) 😃👍💖
Thank you, Sarah :)
@@TheWizardOfWords 🤗💖
Okay Dan, here it goes...😀
So if I am the person who is responsible for how I feel, and I feel what I think, that is to say that I first think a thought and then I attach a feeling to it, then I DECIDE if I feel like someone is meeting my needs or not. It would really have nothing to do with my hypothetical partner.😊 So if I were in a relationship now, I am the one who decides if my needs are met or not. It would have nothing to do with what my hypothetical partner is or is not doing. It is all in how I DECIDE to think, and therefore feel, about what my partner is or is not doing for me. An example would be this: "I can help the way I feel, but I have chosen to feel upset because I have decided that you aren't meeting my needs." 🤔😊
If we want them to fulfill our needs, then we need to serve them first by meeting their needs, and then ours will be met. But again, we are the ones who get to decide if our partner is fulfilling our needs or not. We are not at the mercy of them for our happiness. I get so much value from your videos, Dan, you have no idea. Thank you so much. I look forward to taking this course you are offering in the future. Man, if I am getting this much out of your introductory video, then by the end of your course I will be levitating. Thanks, Dan, for all you do. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Yes--you wil be flying high, Sarah :) :)
@@TheWizardOfWords I am looking forward to taking the course, and I am so excited about it. 😊 I am feeling shy about making the video, but I know that it will be good for me.💖 Maybe I need to buy a red suit. 😉😁😊👍💕😀
YOU ARE AMAZING
Thank u Sir 🙏🤩
Love this!
Thank you, I needed to hear this. We are made up of mostly empty space between the molecules that make us up. The Universe goes on for infinity, and it too is mostly empty space. We are mostly empty space. AND we only use a very small percentage of our brains. Most of our brain is unused (empty) space. These things have always fascinated me, and it makes me appreciate my life and being alive.😃💖
First timer & just subscribed
Welcome @crownchrist, and please share liberally!
"I am the cause." 😊
This man is amazing
Wow! I believe your mom prays for you! Thank you!
I am certain my Mom prays for me :)
Dan the man❤
This is so true. I've never heard it explained quite this way. But I feel this❤
Guilt and shame are "useless" emotions that keep people immobilized so that they are not able to enjoy the present moment. All we have is the present moment unit of time. It serves us more to focus on "useful" emotions such as happiness, joy, and love. Those emotions will serve us in our present moment, which is all we have. I know now that we have a choice about which thoughts and emotions that we want to hold on to in our conscious minds. 😃💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
I so loved this one, Dan, So encouraging. Thank you!
Aye I love the Lord and I believe in Miracles too. To have found this well for this Channel have found me is a-Miracle in itself 💖
Welcome aboard, UniqueMe and thank you for your words :)
Love it
Thanks!
Sarah, I think somehow TH-cam duplicated your generous gift. If that's the case, let me know and I'll write to them and get it reversed :). Dan
@@TheWizardOfWords I sent two payments. One for you, and one for Buddy.😀 I could not find Buddy's Patreon page, so I sent it here. 😁🐶💖🤗💖
I really sent two payments because I (POWER PHRASE) appreciate you, this video, the downloads, and Buddy. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖🤗🐕😀
And Buddy, Maggie and I appreciate YOU, Sarah :) :)
@@TheWizardOfWords Maggie! 😃💖 Oh, GOOD, it is great to hear that Maggie is doing well!🤗🐶💖 I will send her a payment, next payday! Be sure to let her know. 😉 It is great to hear about Maggie. 🐶🐕💖💖💖💖
Absolutely fantastic. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge.
My pleasure!
In the story with rumpelstilzchen she is not playing with the golden ball, she has to learn how to spin gold out of hay and rumpel is teaching her for her baby.
The golden ball thing is from the frog king. A king or primce is turned into a frog and lives in a well and the proncess drops her ball into the well. Just imagine the ball looks like a fish tank and a frog lives in it as a way to memorize
Thank you, Viv! Sometimes I do a little too much weaving when I recount fairy tales. :)
I’ll say it again, Dan you’re truly amazing 🙌🏼👌🏼❤️
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Dan, how do you deal with contradictory people? Even in situations where I have more expertise, she contradicts what I'm saying in front of our group and I don't want to argue with her in front of everyone. She does it constantly. I don't want to be mean, but I feel like something needs to be said.
Yes, something needs to be said. If she is wrong, correct her right on the spot. If she is right, thank her and move quickly along. OR, if she is doing this all the time and disrupting the flow of the meeting, look directly at her and say "Trixie, if you have a correction or a different approach, please send it to me in an email; I don't want to take the time of the group discussing this point." Make this into a broken record, and perhaps she'll stop doing this in meetings. But you must keep repeating it firmly and don't engage her at all on the topic. Don't let her drag you in. Say your sentence and move along.
@@TheWizardOfWords Thank you so much! I will do that
Thank you but I would forget about the quantum physics part.
Why?
Amazing approach. The way you communicate changes reality....
Dan, this is off-sibject, but my truth is that I see you and you look very nice today😽
Oh thank you!😊
@@TheWizardOfWords 😺
Great video! This was very deep thinking you shared with us.
Glad you enjoyed it, Prissy.
I'm in the middle of this video....very powerful! Thank you very much!
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You helped me reclaim, own and validate my truths, which led to me to harness the energy and power to leave a very toxic work environment and find a truly wonderful new oppo.
You also helped me navigate social interactions with a narcissistic mother figure. Thank you so so much and bless you Wizard of Words!!!
Wow. Thank you so much for that testimonial and thank you for your membership and support, Cathrin.
Commenting! You are a force for GOOD in the world...
Yes Christ consciousness (from Jesus Christ, the grain that was sown on the ground to release His Holy Spirit essence).
I used to be new age, reiki master, ACIM, philosophical & spiritual teachings all roads lead to heaven UNTIL i was dying with cancer as a childless young woman, all my spiritual disciplines failed, I even went to see the Dalai Lama but alas death had me in its grip - until i cried out in my own home, God answered and showed me JESUS is the Resurrection, the Way, the Truth and the Life no one comes to the Father except through Him ✝️ ❤ for God so loved the world He gave His only begotten Son that all who believe in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
Love is an action, Jesus died for your sins and mine - not churchianity, not religion but God. Innocent is not necessarily without sin, and God delights in showing mercy ❤ keep shining brother, love you!
Thank you for your story, Faithful :)
Thank you! The universe conspired to bring this information to me through you.
Wonderful!
I would like some energy vampire slayer tees. So appropriate to my job. If you can make one in royal blue, I can wear it to work. Thanks for all you do to encourage us and keep us moving forward. I listen to you every day before work.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
My pleasure!
Re-found you. Just as I needed this…. thanks universe!!!! ⭐️
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@@TheWizardOfWords I’ve always been subscribed you just stopped appearing in my feed. Thought you had stopped posting.
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Dan thank you ...your background is outstanding too
Thank you! I needed to hear this.❤🎉
Peace
U have evolved
I hope we all evolve as we go along, Bonnie.
❤❤❤❤
Is any of this actually scientifically based on anything. Yes I know what the double slit experiment is. And I know protons ( I think its protons) once entangled no matter how far apart they are if one spins right the other will spin left. That's on a very very small scale though. I'm not so sure it really effects us.
All that being said. I do feel like this is true. I want to be able to believe it is true though.
I get where you're coming from. When I talk about concepts like the observer effect and the quantum eraser, I'm drawing parallels that resonate with me, but they're not exactly things you can definitively prove or disprove in a traditional sense. It's like the story of Rumpelstiltskin-it may not be literally true, but it can still reveal deeper truths. In the end, you'll have to decide what feels right for you. And as you mentioned, there's a reason it feels true to you.
For me, it doesn't make sense that these universal laws and principles would apply to everything except my own life. And if they don’t, does that mean I'm even more powerful than I thought? Or should I just give up trying to figure it out and check myself into "the home"? Honestly, I believe that the most important truths in life often can't be neatly proven. So, I'm trusting my gut on this one, and I think I'd trust your gut too based on what you wrote.
Does that mean that's two votes for the truth?