I wish in this modern age of dating that women would step up and ask out men since most are no longer, or are even aware of the "dropped hanky" move. I'm a very shy man that also suffers from social anxiety. I'm also 59 and I've never had a GF. Took early retirement own my home and have zero debt. I've got nothing but time but still have this shyness & anxiety cloud over my head. I'd love to find a woman I could cuddle up with on the couch watching something on Netflix. Using dating apps to meet people is like stepping out onto a minefield.
Hi 👋 I think the way man and woman try to know each other based on fake stuff, it’s image you created not you really are that’s why people they break up a lot and also the image which the media and social life created for mr or ms perfect .. For me the thing makes me attract to the guy his personality not his six back or how much his handsome this are additional things but not the reason , so naturally i do nothing if i am in place able to meet guys I know that’s bad and my friends says that i missing a lot of chances but I don’t know if I did that i feel weird .. I hope you understand my English because i am from the other half of the earth ..🙏
Hi Jad, thanks for the great video-- your videos are always so helpful and I appreciate you taking the time to make and put out all this great content. I'm a bit confused about this video though and was wondering if you could clarify: how do you tell apart a guy who's shy/terrified of rejection and a guy who's simply not interested? I think you've mentioned before that it's simple-- if a guy's interested, he'll do whatever it takes to pursue you, so I feel like wouldn't a guy who's genuinely interested get over his fear/shyness to ask you out? I guess I'm having a hard time reconciling the idea of guys feeling too shy/scared with the reality that men who want a woman will pursue her, regardless of the obstacles.
, so I feel like wouldn't a guy who's genuinely interested get over his fear/shyness to ask you out? That's not always true, or it takes a year or longer, or has to know you won't reject him so he won't ask until you make it known you like him and even then hr probably won't, has to get over it.
He keeps coming close to me but never approaches me but I know he is interested. I don’t want either of us to fear a failed relationship if he does eventually ask me out. Also, I have had both COVID shots and haven’t dated since the start of COVID. Then I don’t want to through the religious card in that seems to make or break my dating but that is one of the most important choices for selecting a what I call future spouse. What do you suggest about the medical side of dating during this ongoing situation and trying to select the only one truly meant for me?
He’s been throwing signals bro and I’m single again. He was throwing singles when I was in a relationship too but I don’t wanna make a move and I’m too shy to even make a move myself 😭😭
Hi Jad, Thank you for your awesome tips! I noticed that you said to tell him that "what you doing this weekend" actually I have a huge crush on a guy and we snapchat each other time to time, I'm so shy to ask him out or even show that I'm really interested in him, he asked me " what are your plans this weekend" and I was thinking well he is probabely going to ask me out! So I tolled him the truth I said "next week is my fathers' birthday and I want to buy him something but don't know what to buy" well he gave me suggestions but he didn't ask me out! My friends tell me if he wanted to ask you out he could say " I can help you or go shopping with you " I'm confused I don't know why he didn't ask me out or he was just saying something to initiat the conversation! I would love to know your opinion on that or any suggestions from you! Thank you :)
All my life I've been amazed at how many women that have thought that I'm a shy guy. I'm not into shy women that stare at the floor in silence shitting themselves. People ask me why I've been single for 40 years and I tell them the truth, I've never seen a woman that looked happy.
@@enniswhalen2428 Shy people are boring because they are not genuine, they are afraid of life and other people and they are afraid to be themselves. I would say that women are more boring than men, to answer your question but that's not the point. If the women is boring the men should not copy the woman. So a boring men weights more in the interaction that a boring woman. Woman are followers. Who wants to follow a shy boring man? Seriously.
@@iuliua -Wow! Never heard that connection to finding that people who may be "shy" are boring. My feeling is that you still subscribe to a very unfair double standard.
I like this shy dude and he likes me but he’s too scared to ask me and I’m too scared too
that' me now
Miss Farry yeah we started dating last month but he dumped me
@@areyoucomingtothetree2258 auwch, who asked who out? Sorry to hear that btw. I got excited untill I got to the dump part🥴
Same
Give him ur numbe4
Forget the shy guy, are you single honey?
Thanks, I thought that I was sounding desperate when I told him that I wish that we could hang out. But now I feel like I did the right thing.
What if were both shy? 😅
I wish in this modern age of dating that women would step up and ask out men since most are no longer, or are even aware of the "dropped hanky" move. I'm a very shy man that also suffers from social anxiety. I'm also 59 and I've never had a GF. Took early retirement own my home and have zero debt. I've got nothing but time but still have this shyness & anxiety cloud over my head. I'd love to find a woman I could cuddle up with on the couch watching something on Netflix. Using dating apps to meet people is like stepping out onto a minefield.
When you said “giggle” I giggled out loud 😂
Wait till he is drunk and he will talk to you
Lol prob true
I asked him and he said yes which made both our lives easier, I'm also somewhat shy but I want something I am a take charge to some point.
You should do a TH-cam live video with superchat. It is a good way to support your channel financially.
Hi 👋
I think the way man and woman try to know each other based on fake stuff, it’s image you created not you really are that’s why people they break up a lot and also the image which the media and social life created for mr or ms perfect ..
For me the thing makes me attract to the guy his personality not his six back or how much his handsome this are additional things but not the reason , so naturally i do nothing if i am in place able to meet guys
I know that’s bad and my friends says that i missing a lot of chances but I don’t know if I did that i feel weird ..
I hope you understand my English because i am from the other half of the earth ..🙏
Hi Jad, thanks for the great video-- your videos are always so helpful and I appreciate you taking the time to make and put out all this great content. I'm a bit confused about this video though and was wondering if you could clarify: how do you tell apart a guy who's shy/terrified of rejection and a guy who's simply not interested? I think you've mentioned before that it's simple-- if a guy's interested, he'll do whatever it takes to pursue you, so I feel like wouldn't a guy who's genuinely interested get over his fear/shyness to ask you out? I guess I'm having a hard time reconciling the idea of guys feeling too shy/scared with the reality that men who want a woman will pursue her, regardless of the obstacles.
, so I feel like wouldn't a guy who's genuinely interested get over his fear/shyness to ask you out? That's not always true, or it takes a year or longer, or has to know you won't reject him so he won't ask until you make it known you like him and even then hr probably won't, has to get over it.
Thats exactly what i wondered
Did you stop making videos? I just found your channel. I like it because it is not about doing bad things. It is a nice channel.
mist __ you like nice channels ? The world ain’t nice though.
hiii, please more videoo, we miss youu ....
He keeps coming close to me but never approaches me but I know he is interested. I don’t want either of us to fear a failed relationship if he does eventually ask me out. Also, I have had both COVID shots and haven’t dated since the start of COVID. Then I don’t want to through the religious card in that seems to make or break my dating but that is one of the most important choices for selecting a what I call future spouse. What do you suggest about the medical side of dating during this ongoing situation and trying to select the only one truly meant for me?
He’s been throwing signals bro and I’m single again. He was throwing singles when I was in a relationship too but I don’t wanna make a move and I’m too shy to even make a move myself 😭😭
I Don't Know Elisa don’t be. Even if you are just do it. Woman can’t get embarrassed or humiliated. Y’all women. You get to do whatever u want.
Big eye opener 💛
Thanks for this, it will really help me with my boo
Hi Jad, Thank you for your awesome tips! I noticed that you said to tell him that "what you doing this weekend" actually I have a huge crush on a guy and we snapchat each other time to time, I'm so shy to ask him out or even show that I'm really interested in him, he asked me " what are your plans this weekend" and I was thinking well he is probabely going to ask me out! So I tolled him the truth I said "next week is my fathers' birthday and I want to buy him something but don't know what to buy" well he gave me suggestions but he didn't ask me out! My friends tell me if he wanted to ask you out he could say " I can help you or go shopping with you " I'm confused I don't know why he didn't ask me out or he was just saying something to initiat the conversation! I would love to know your opinion on that or any suggestions from you! Thank you :)
I want a shy guy in my life too when my time comes up
My ex told me be direct because men just don't get hints.
WHAT IF he is a busy person
All my life I've been amazed at how many women that have thought that I'm a shy guy. I'm not into shy women that stare at the floor in silence shitting themselves. People ask me why I've been single for 40 years and I tell them the truth, I've never seen a woman that looked happy.
I hope you have found the love of your life.
Hav he hasn't texted me but waits for me to go visit with him on his shift
thank you! :)
This is so true lol.
Or just give him your number, voila!
Hey jad.. where are you? It's been so long
Pooja Chauhan yeah
Nice hat!
Why don’t the girl just ask him then?😌
Ask him instead lol why the hell does he have to do it?
And than you have a date with a shy guy...borrrinnggg..
JR - And, of course, the women are NEVER ... borrrinnggg.... of course not.Just keep up those wonderful double standards!
@@enniswhalen2428 Shy people are boring because they are not genuine, they are afraid of life and other people and they are afraid to be themselves. I would say that women are more boring than men, to answer your question but that's not the point. If the women is boring the men should not copy the woman. So a boring men weights more in the interaction that a boring woman. Woman are followers. Who wants to follow a shy boring man? Seriously.
@@iuliua -Wow! Never heard that connection to finding that people who may be "shy" are boring. My feeling is that you still subscribe to a very unfair double standard.
@@enniswhalen2428 You must be a woman or a teenager guy cause you are pretty dumb.
@@iuliua you must be a true dip shit