How to Tell If Someone Likes You: 12 Signs a Guy/Girl Likes You More Than a Friend
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- How can you tell if a guy or girl secretly likes you more than a friend? While the Bible tells Christians not to judge the inner thoughts of another person, we are allowed to try and read social cues. Here are 12 signs that may mean someone likes you plus 3 signs that don't mean someone likes you.
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AMEN BROTHAAAAA
Brandon Viani I will pray for you Jesus loves you and I hope your doing good!
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That"s true Bro.!
Amen. Have experienced this.
my opinion is to secretly pray and wait in God. I'm sure God will let you feel in the spirit if the person is right for you...
Tq
Amen!
Amen!🙏❤
Jazmin, I did the same since 20 years and remained bachelor
Perfect
Some people are just too friendly and can send wrong signal to lots of girls. :-)
Definitely....
That's so me
Me till I watched this video
And boys
That me
Myra Coveney Yess this guy was sooo nice to me. He would always help me out at work and flirt, I think he was flirting. We would always make eye contact and then I later find out he had a gf and even a kid. 😢
One word gals and gents: DISCERNMENT. So pray for wisdom and discernment. Ask a specific sign from God and of that guy or girl has it, you know he or she is God sent for you.
Amen Amen and Amen!💗
Lord please 🙏 give me a sign ....
Kishma Ryan You have a testimony that touched me. I think he’s preparing me for something big as a teen it’s hard to believe. But he IS PERFECT, I need to solidify our relationship. So I can live in the will of Yah
Very wise 👍
Amen
my life is full of emptiness pray for me
Shondale Brey just prayed for you and this vid may help th-cam.com/video/Kddu0e6gNqY/w-d-xo.html
Hey bro if you have Jesus your not empty your just not rejoicing in the cruifixion of our Lord Jesus Christ! I reccomend you that. We dont live by feelings that are not in the Lord
Hi Shondale, I just prayed for you too. {{{hug}}}
+yuhz1m1 thanks and God bless you
Shondale Brey I'm going to pray for you
1. He treats you differently than he treats other girls 2. Invites you to a social event, wants to be with you 3. Ends up sitting by you..stand next to you 4. Compliments you 5. social media likes 6. He is concerned when you speak with another guy 7. Rearranges his schedule to be around you 8. Acts awkward around you 9. They talk to you more 10. Other people make comments about our attraction 11. Help you out with something 12. Sticks up for you, even if u arent around. False signs: 1. Eye contact 2. Voice of God and illusion of this man being your mate 3. Not randomnly running into the guy on the street=coincidence.
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You forgot the step where the girl picks the bad boy over the guy who went through so much trouble and all those steps only to be crushed... good list though you would think this would apply unfortunately everything is always easier said than done
Thanks you saved me time and bandwidth
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@SB169885 everything you mentioned happened to my married friend, her co-worker did everything you mentioned knowing my friend was married and convinced her to have an affair then he turned around and married someone else. So does that mea. He liked my friend or was dedicated in corrupting her?
1. The man treat you differently
2. Invites you somewhere
3. He is seating by you
4. He compliments you
5. He is engaging in social media with you
He gives extra attention to you
6. He looks concerned when talking to another man
7. He rearranges his schedule for you
8. Acts bizarre
9. Talk to you more
10. Other people notice the chemistry
11. Eager to show their affection and help you
12. He sticks out for you
Thank you very much.
Thank you!
I am woman, but after look at these signs which are exactly I did. I think I can tell I like him🤣🤣🤣🥲
That feeling, when you realized that your actually doing the 12 signs he gave.. 😂
omg saaame!!
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Lol I can feel you I used to do that but thank God for enlightening me😆😂
Snap- I just realized it too
lol the “apparently I’ve been really obvious and I haven’t gotten any signs from him” moment 😅
Ironically, girls find it easier to talk to you guys they do not like. So it’s very opposite. Also we are compassionate and want to encourage the underdog. Which like you said makes them think we like them.
Those are great points! Thanks for that insight :)
Chantel Waters 💙💙💙💙💙💙
OHMYGAWD if you're not preaching right now. It is TREMENDOUSLY easier to talk to guys that we're not attracted to and/or like. Why that is I will never know lol
I do that to anyone I like. I never talk to people I don't like. When my intuition feels uncomfortable around someone, I won't talk. Even if they are Extroverts. There are certain people, I only open to. But you could be partially right.
@Rachel, you're absolutely correct.
The one about being awkward is true. At work the girls I had no interest in I found very easy to talk to, but then the one I really liked, every time she'd ask me something I had a brain error and I couldn't speak for about 5 seconds. I think the feeling may have been mutual, however I was so unprepared for somebody to actually like me back that I never reciprocated her gestures and probably screwed myself by doing so, as she doesn't approach as much anymore probably because all her previous attempts seemed to be in vain from her perspective.
God told me that my husband was my soul mate and that it will never work out with anyone else but him. And we have been happily married for 9 years.
Im content with being alone. If I’m meant for someone, then great but I’m not expecting anything. Our father is isolating me for a reason so I need to focus and stay away from the jezebel spirit
Wow, I'm impressed. You are blessed.
I've had a lot of guys think I like them more than a friend just because I spoke to them, or was nice to them. It's actually really annoying because I've had some of those guys ask me out on dates only to act like a wounded animal, and or get angry at me when i said no. Some of these guys are so not my type in any way shape or form, but somehow got it stuck in their heads because I smiled and said hi it must mean I'm the "one". I can talk to a dude and it doesn't mean I want him like that it means I'm a human interacting with another human and im being nice because i'm nice to everyone, even animals. In my experience any guy that is truly interested will value you, not just compliment you but show you that he values you that has nothing to do with money, looks, or success.
Blockmining oh gosh darnit you're right I'm sorry I'll walk woth my head and eyes to yhe ground and not look at anyone or say hello to anyone unless it's a chick. Dude u don't know me or my situation you're a Christian don't judge. Some chrisitan men still don't get it i guess.
I think robust debates can be healthy but, you aren't debating you are making value judgements hence the sarcastic reply. None of what u have described is anywhere near what i have experienced, and none of you assumptions about what I have or have not done, and implications of my character are true.
Bye Felicia!
How is being friendly, flirting? Smh. I didn’t see that anywhere in the Bible. The op was simply displaying the gifts of the spirit, if you or any other guy interpret there to be some romantic motive and get disappointed when you’re proven wrong, then that seems like a personal problem.
Yeah, I don’t know how to even interact with men most of the time because I’m usually thinking too much about trying to be friendly without seeming like I’m flirting. Sometimes people take a bit of kindness as a sign of romantic interest (I’ve made that mistake before as well).
Plus I have to get right with God frist
GOD MAKES US RIGHT JUST GO TO JESUS CHRIST
Amen I feel the same
Practical, honest & straight to the point! Mark, your videos are turning into a 'daily view' for me, no joke!
L. Patrick woo, yes! Glad to hear it :) All glory to God, have a good one
Best advice is don't play games. You don't have to be too forward, but it's ok to let them know you like them.
When God told Abraham he will be the father of nations, he situation did not match his reality. So yes God's voice can and often over rules your current reality
Lanti Usman but that actually happened, the promise was fulfilled in reality. I didn't say "Gods voice" I said "the voice in your head. that's my point, if God said it, it will eventually happen. If it never happens God never said it
Lanti Usman would you suggest just seeking God's face instead of looking for signs? I can recall a couple I knew who hated each other before they fell in love and married 🙂
Lanti Usman amen
Lanti Usman true but I've known people who believe God told them to marry every guy they've met. God is usually very clear on his instructions.
Lanti Usman Thank you so much for the reminder. GOD showed me the man I am to love (I was extremely resistant to GOD's choice & HE didn't give me feelings about it. HE showed me in a way that I could not deny that it was HIM). We dated for a while, but he left the relationship. The LORD stripped me to nothing & is rebuilding me the way HE wants. I believe the LORD is also making changes in him now that we've gone our separate ways. I know these changes in me will make me into the woman my ex deserves cuz I wasn't. He wasn't for me either, but that is also what I have prayed for as long as I prayed to be the woman he deserves.
If you would do me the honor, I would love it if you would pray for our successful GODLY reconciliation. GOD Bless you Lanti Usman.
Hmm. . .I've always heard that true love is true friendship on fire.
@@keithsantana145 💀🔫
Never have heard this one before but very different perspective for me.
Interesting one with eye contact. I've had conversations with guys where they've said that they will actively make eye contact with girls that they like more than they will a girl they're not interested in. I think to them it showed their interest more, eye contact does tend to show people that you're engaged and interested in what they're saying, attentive to it. Or if it's eye contact across a room then perhaps the reason you keep catching their eye is because they're looking at you as much as you're looking at them.
I agree it's one that shouldn't be taken as a definite "he looked at me and so he loves me" kind of sign but I don't think it's always not an indicator, if that makes sense...
Bethany Ann Turner true
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This is true
I agree with you. If you happen to lock eyes once or twice, maybe it's a coincidence. But if it keeps happening... lol
I definitely agree that someone can just be really nice and it gets confused as they like someone. That’s how I am. I am nice to any girl I meet so that’s not a sign that I like them.
God bless
Same!
Eye contact is not when someone is on stage looking at ppl in the crowd. It's not just looking at someone...you must consider the environment and the way you look at someone
Long stares and eye contact... sighs.
I thought we have something.
3. Happened twice. Okay. Bye!
I don't quite agree with the one on eye contact (not meaning anything)...It depends on the situation and the way eye contact is made...for example a person can signal to a love interest by looking in their direction just a little longer than they should, then looking away, then repeating again a little while later-I know I've done this (quite unconsciously) with someone I've liked before, and they've caught on!
I agree. Like. what if he IS definitely staring at you (not just into a huge crowd lol)
Great advice Mark! These definitely should be followed by both girls and guys. One of the things I've had to be careful is who I smile at or who I am friendly with because it can be misunderstood-when naturally one is nice, smiles at everyone and give eye contact this can cause issues, even at work. I sympathize with your friend's dilema. I, as a girl, make it a rule to not assume unless I get verbal confirmation from the guy that he is interested, i.e., he asked me out, he told me he does likes me, etc. Even then my mom taught me to pray for confirmation, and it works very well! Awesome video! Thank you Mark! ☺
thanks for sharing, great advice Rose :)
Rose Morales Yes, praying for confirmation & direction really is best, & does work. That's how I live my life now, & it makes things so much easier. Good to know I'm not the only one doing this!
Great advice! Thanks for sharing!!
I'm deeply lonely and confused pls pray. Ty
Praying for you. You are seen. You are known and you are LOVED.
Tracey H how are you doing?
It is done!
I like your teaching style bro!! Keep it up 🙏🏼
Thanks for the encouragement! Glad AGW is being used by God to help out, God bless!
Good content. However I'm 34 this year and no one has been doing any of these things in my presence. I know I'm not called to singleness, so I'll just wait on God.
I just wrote this article you may find interesting applygodsword.com/christian-dating-advice-for-older-adults/
JAchica11 Watch Pastor Michael Todd Damaged Goods and Relationship Goals. You will be blessed! Don't give up! I am divorced 2 years and 35. I still know God has my back!
😚😚😚 special prayers for you in Jesus' name.
JAchica11 Ahhh... I feel ya brother. My friends in church always encourage me to embrace my Singleness & that’s what I’m doing. God’s timing is perfect. 😇🙏🏻
ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger What about dating someone a bit younger such as a 34 year old dating a 22 year old but both seem to be on the same maturity level.
LOVE your talks so far, Pastor! TY! I LOVE your website too! Thank you for all your loving guidance! God blessed you with WISDOM!
Thanks for the encouragement and God bless you too!
Amen I was one minute in and I already wanted to hit that bell I'm loving it!!!
Amen! So glad you are enjoying AGW :)
I love that you have common sense and provide so much disclosure
So glad you are enjoying the content!
All of these women who think that a man on stage worshipping is looking at them are crazy in the mind😂😂😂 oh goodness 🤣🤣🤣
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Thanks for sharing! This generation needs more relationship advice from a godly perspective 🙌🏻
Amen! Also Godly* to be more respectful
Yes generally these are good signs. Players also use these signs too.
If a guy does not come up to you and asks you for a date it is utterly irrelevant whether he likes you or not! Full stop.
Agreed , who has time for this?
*Love your videos, you bring a lot of very interesting facts. and on more thing............. subscribed*
This was a really enlightening topic! Thank you!
These videos are truly a blessing. Praise the Lord! =]
Could someone pray for me that I find her, much appreciated , God bless you all
Sky Walker 🙏🙏🙏 seek God first and that’s how you will find her
You have to pray , spirtual warfare
Great video, and definitely some useful tips.
Eddie Cox Glad it was helpful! God bless :)
Thanks for the confirmation of the misconceptions!!! I needed that! Been distracted with thoughts of the " impression of my future husband" now I know that it's just my own voice/ feelings!!!!
So glad this was helpful to you :)
Thank you for this video , it was really nice to watch - all the signs are a good help ! God bless ~ ♡.
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Great thanks. Stay blessed man.
What a breath of fresh air!
But, if you truly keep randomly running into someone in different places where neither of you might have had prior knowledge of the other’s plans, this may be a good sign that God is saying, “Hellooooo .... I keep bumping you guys into each other for a reason”.
God revealed my soulmate to me a week after I met her.
I wasnt even attracted to her until He told me that and then I fought it for 2 months while He slowly confirmed it.
EDIT: please read the comments.
Wow
Marie Bligen Now merely the thought of even holding her hand sets my soul alight with warmth and love and fulfillment.
Just have to wait on His time now.
@@chrismugleston8625 God bless you and your wife my brother! That's amazing! To God be the glory 🙌🏾🙏🏾🤲🏾
Marie Bligen Amen
Same same same! I wasn’t even attracted to them until God unblinded me AMEN
Wow..like your teachings Mark...God bless you..
I'm so glad it was helpful! God bless you too!
Thank you brother. It was very interesting.
Your videos are such blessings!!!
How on earth would we know how he treats other girls IF WE ARE NOT friends with him?
Friendship before relationship is the best because it creates a stable ground of trust & comfort
It’s cause u keep him as a friend when he wants more
@@epapa217 believe me every guy who heard lets be just friends felt a stabbing in the chest , worst turn off ever 😁
Then you are not around him enough to know him.
@@epapa217 Wait if you're attracted to one another then why are you being "just friends" when it's obvious you both want more than that from one another?
Dating and friendship are practically the same thing except with dating you're building a relationship with romance and even marriage in mind. In frienship there is no room for romance, so you're only doing each other wrong when you're not allowing a space for you two to actually be yourselves.
I love that you give examples. 😆
Practical, Honest and it really works in circumstances.
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When getting to know someone. It’s better to establish a friendship before dating. Get to know the person first and see where it goes. Also find out if the person has a solid relationship with “GOD” you can learn a lot about a person in within 10 minutes of a conversation. 🙏
I’m divorced twice having been married the first time for seven years and the second time for 32 years. Both my husbands claimed to be Christian but were serial cheaters. Obviously I am not a 30 something woman. I am having an extremely hard time meeting a Christian man in my age group who will put God first and lead me with a strong hand as in the song by Sanctus Real. Could you please do some videos for the 55 plus population of men and women that love being married but want to finally experience a true Christian marriage? Thank you.
Mrs. go to an Apostolic Pentecostal church. And go get filled with the Holy Ghost and get baptized in Jesus name. And God will bring you the one.
9:55 like my good ol’ boy Sam would say: “I can fix that”
Bruh 😂😂😂😂
Awww ❤ i like hearing how other people made comments about you both when you were friends.
OMG! I got 9 signs from my guy bestfriend... And we’re both studying in a Bible School...
as a former bible school student(3 yrs) I advice you to be cautious. This is an amazing opportunity for you to seek God deeply and you will probably never have such an opportunity again to just focus on yourself and your relationship God. For sure bible college students often marry, but remember if it is from God this person will still be there for you when your studies are finished!! Often the enemy will try and stir feelings and your attention on the wrong people to distract you from recieving Gods best during that time. Also remember that in bible school everyone needs a bit of time before you see their true selves, as God is working on their hearts bringing the bad stuff out, so don't allow your thoughts to run too far ahead.. Take care xx
I'm happily married, but would have enjoyed a video like this when I was single (that was mostly before TH-cam and social media). Really good points.
Amen, I like the tips of how to know if a man likes you cause it comes from a man itself.😀 Now speaking about waiting on God for a spouse and how to go about it. Your right it doesn't matter how you meet this person. What matter is that you do things in a way to great God. What that means is you don't stop being a Christian just because you met this person and then change back when you are not around this person.That is not pleasing to God. Or start changing with God just because you met this person. Believe me if this person is not for you. God would take him or her out of your ways. Just get to know each others and trust God that if it's in his plans things would fall in place. No matter how much you have to try don't give up cause God doesn't give up on us. God bless you📙
Your videos are lovely, thank you.
Haha haha One time there was a pretty girl at my church that five different guys were positive God told them She was for them!
S Cassi awe 😅
I laughed when Mark said I reached the bonus round. Hihi. God bless, Paul, Bethany and everyone!
Just ask them out! Yes or no. If no, then move on. Nuff' said.
THANK YOU KINDLY FOR SHARING! ❤❤❤
I’m a girl and I think it’s kinda cute when guys are slightly awkward. And I mean when he’s kinda shy when he talks to me.
Also, my first ever crush crush was in the 9th grade and this guy was so sweet and cute in my art class. He would joke with me all the time and we just talked and I really thought he liked me. Well, there was another girl in that class and I noticed that he started to treat her the same way and I was an emotional mess when I came to class and he was gushing over her. I remember one day she told me she liked him too and I was so crushed. I just left it alone and I would see them even semesters later walking around school together and talking.
I honestly do not see myself ever chasing the guy. I could see myself having a boldness and just being myself and having a conversation with a guy one day but idk. Anyway, here recently it sort of seems like a desire has arose in me to watch and think about meeting my future husband. Idk, it’s weird and I kinda thought I wouldn’t ever get married or else it just would happen way later but I’ve been seeking God more and this feeling just is weird lol. I’m going to continue to pray about it.
So then what happened to your crush dear
That eye contact one is funny, because I used to (and probably still do) stare off into space when I'm just sitting around thinking about something. So in science class I sat at one table and a guy sat at a table across the way facing me, and he got really uncomfortable and weirded out because he thought I was staring at him. Then, I saw him waving his hand and making weird facial expressions trying to say, "Why are you staring at me," but without using words, since we were in class, and I didn't even notice until he had been doing it for awhile. Then I looked at him like, "What's your problem, can't I just look straight ahead without you thinking I like you?" That was awkward, and annoying. It didn't just happen once, either; he continuously thought I was looking at him and even approached me about it, and didn't seem to believe me when I told him I was just spacing out and he happened to be sitting directly in front of my line of view.
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Hahahha. This is true
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1 3 4 9 10 and 12. I think she likes me.
Nice :)
There is no such thing as Luck. God determines the times and places in which we live and he is always in control. Well said previous commentor!!!
thank you. that's really sweet. I appreciate you.
Thank you for the advice, it helps
I'm so glad this was helpful :)
How do we know if he stands up for us, if we're not there? 😅
I would assume through here say, or word of mouth directly.
I don't know. You could check security cameras if you're really desperate. LOL
🤣 word may get back eventually..
I have watched a few of these types of videos and usually they are either from a secular perspective and don’t really apply to my life or they are from a “Christian” perspective and a complete joke. This was actually so solid and I really appreciate your insight! I almost didn’t click on the video because most of the videos I’ve seen of “Christian” men giving advice come across very immature, arrogant, or egotistical. But you seem like such a humble, solid guy. Thank you for sharing this and your other videos! I’m watching a bunch of them now haha
AGW:
Thank you for the video. I appreciate it. This is the first time I've seen any one of your videos. I like the fact that you come across very well. It's really good that you take time to explain things because I know all too well that sometimes we get confused or distracted and it cannot hurt that you want to make sure we are all on the same page.
N D from CT.
Great information...thank you🙏🙏🙏
My pleasure!
Yes Mark, you have received the Holy Spirit and are gifted and qualified to teach the masses about Marriage. Praise the Lord!
I am really enjoying your videos, thank you for all of your tips.
I needed this today 👌🏼
Am learning how to counsel my youth.😊
God bless!
I had a dream last night and you were in it mark, helping me it was pretty cool man thank you for what you do!
I’m so glad AGW is helping you :)
ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger it really is, thanks!
Thank you for the great video sir.
excellent help mark. I love the video
Angel Markarian 👍
Great video
Janessa Tosh, thanks and God bless :)
The night before last I had a dream about my grandmother God said she is suffering I'm going to bring her home and she won't suffer any longer. My grandmother died today.
Melanie Barksdale so glad the Lord is present to comfort you and your family in your time of loss
I pray God will comfort you in this moment of loss in Jesus Name Amen!
Ken T. Thanks
I pray for you in your loss.
Wowww that is amazing.
Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh... and we are supposed to judge righteous judgenent
Great points! Thanks for sharing.
I'm still not sure about some of these. I had a "friend" in the church that would pay my bills, always seek me out in crowds. Other people started asking what's up with us, because they saw some kind of chemistry. With all that he didn't like me in a more of relationship kind of way. And no we didn't have relations. It still boggles my mind.
God used him to bless you, sometimes that's all there is to it.
I have a sad but now funny story to share: This past year I liked someone at my church, and then started to notice he would talk to me, invite me places, call and text me if I was going to such-and-such event, like my stuff on social media, and act awkward around me, and the fact that he was treating me differently meant that he liked me too.
Well turns out he didn't. he found out through a mutual friend how I felt about him, and he messaged me saying he just wanted to be friends and "had to be clear about it" and didn't wanna be nothing more. Ouch.
And, found out after that he would call other people too and invite other people places too and that he was just a friendly guy lol.
EDIT: might be relevant or not but this guy is a lead pastor at my church single and I am a leader too.
Lulu Love this is how a guy should do it and not leave the girl wondering does he doesn’t he? I commend a man of God who does this from the get go
i agree. I was hurt and embarrassed for a while (this happened last December) but now that time has passed, our relationship isn't the same like it was, but it's not as awkward as it used to be. I think I'm finally letting go and moving on and excepting we will never be, though I thought God was leading me to him.
An update to this story:
I have NO feelings for him now, and he’s getting married to a girl 9 years younger than him. People in our church speculated their relationship when she was 19, and he was 27. God really protected me!
That was excellent
The social-media thing you got to realize that the world is real crazy so you might not want to go off of that social-media thing because they could be a stalker
Woah nice video 😊👍
Thank you so much
Thanks for mentioning about the players. 🙂🙂
LOL....
I'm not sure if this video was supposed to make me laugh but it did...
I agree with all of these and the way you described them was funny, informative and caring.
Thanks for always allowing God to use you even in these types of videos.
God bless.
Oh my gosh this is so real... the signs apply to me as well when i actually like a guy... 😂😅 but i also realized the very poor probability of the guy i like liking me back 🤣 waaaah it’s all in my head... thank you Bro for this video... it is awakening 😃
The boy I like makes really clear that he protects me. When we are starting to argue, he says he'll protect me. Is this an obvious sign??
This was very helpful
definitey needed this
...sounds like he describes Narcissists.
- I learned the hard way to always trust my Godgiven gut feeling.
Straight to comment section cause you have no patience listening.
So good! So needed!❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
Thanks for the video! I am still unsure about how things are going though because I am still getting to know people. He can be awkward around me and has complimented about me before and has checked up on me... does that mean anything or is my mind wandering off too far?