ObGyn Reacts: Didn't Know I Was Pregnant on THE PILL!?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ส.ค. 2022
- Board Certified Ob/Gyn physician Mama Doctor Jones reviews an episode of TLC's "I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant" while teaching and commenting on the show. She had normal periods and took birth control?
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Honestly, the fact y’all laugh at my stupid editing “humor” inserts (that take me hours because I’m a doctor and not an editor) gives me life. 😆
My favorite is the couple where the woman had a tubulagation. They named their baby Hunter becuse he snuck up on them XD.
I read this comment in your voice haha
Could she maybe have one of those divided uterus's? And one is still shedding for some reason? Could that ever happen? Since she was still taking her pill but taking breaks from it?
Do you know how you said you’d like to be friends with these folks, well that’s how I feel about YOU!
And I bet you money I’m not alone!! ❤️❤️😘
@@hypnotherapy69 ohhh 😮. I remember THAT ONE!! 😆😆😆
The idea of running to the store for half an hour and when you come back your partner is just holding a newborn baby is both hilarious and terrifying omg
Hahaha omg why did I not frame it like that?!? CAN YOU IMAGINE?!
This whole thing is scary! I’m pregnant now and there are so many times I would’ve assumed I was dying and my partner probably would’ve thought I was dying if we didn’t know lol
Right?! OMG that's what I was thinking too.. Imma go to the store brb! Surprise!!! 😳 😂
in all seriousness... this family is lovely and genuinely sweet the whole story warms my heart ❤️
dude was like damn, how long was i gone?
No, these episodes always make me tear up 😭
“Take a pregnancy test” 100%. My “man, my period sure is weird, hmm mama doctor Jones said to take a test and I do have one, but I’m sure it’ll be negative” baby is now 17 days old. Lol.
Oh congrats mama!!
Congratulations on your suprise!
How far along were you?
@Emma Salinas wow!
Congratulations!!!
This is, by far, my favorite episode. My oldest grandson is my daughter's "I didn't know I was pregnant".baby. She went to emergency for kidney stones and found out she was 30 weeks pregnant. While she DID have kidney stones, the ultrasound sound tech's exclamation, "oh look...your kidney stone has a penis!" Is probably the most original pregnancy confirmation of her career.
I’m just crying XD
Omg 😂😂
Your kidney stone has a penis...Most classic line ever😆
😂😂
OMG, that is just too funny! 😂
I keep giggling to myself at the thought of the husband coming back and being like: I leave for 30 MINUTES. 30 MINUTES and you gone and gave birth to a whole child while I was gone-
My thoughts exactly lol
I had a precipitate labour with my 3rd child. It's really freaky, crazy, painful and weird. I thought I needed the toilet but the midwife arrived and just barged in and told me to get out of there! Baby arrived 5 minutes later but I don't think I would have been able to move if she hadn't come in then. I think it was about twenty minutes go to whoa. I was so confused after, I kept on a saying "she shouldn't be here yet" and "is that really the time?" Side note: baby had a broken collar bone, maybe from a contraction.
🤣😆😂
LMAO!!! SAME! 😂
My mom is an RN. One of her coworkers didn't know she was pregnant. She was a little older (mid 40s) and was told she wasnt able to have children (we've heard that story before). She had one of the other nurses give her the ultrasound because she was concerned it was something else. Her and her husband were so excited because they always wanted a child and hadn't been able to conceive before then.
That is so sweet. I'm so glad she was able to have a child after wanting one for so many years. :)
These are my favorite stories. The joy of parents getting pregnant after infertility is the purest joy.
That's precious ♥Little miracle baby.
What a nice lil' surprise for her! as for me, thanks for restoring my anxiety on this subject, I just turned 42, and was starting to relax... lol
That happened to my mom. Twins at 40?!?😳
Your statement of “you do the best you can with the information that you had at the time” helped me to forgive my parents for the choices they made when I was a young teen.
Growing up I had a lot of resentment towards my parents… I was really depressed and they didn’t know how to help.. at the time it felt as if they weren’t listening.. I got into an argument with my dad as I got older and he told me it wasn’t his fault that it was my choices and I yelled back that I didn’t raise myself and I was a product of their actions.. yea it was bad… now that I have a 14 almost 15 yr old I see things so much clearer… and I was able to realize and forgive.. because just like I was learning about life.. they were learning to be parents.. I’m their oldest.. none of us knew what we were doing lol
Me too!
Very common expression in therapy. Try it out sometime
The reveal of the baby’s name broke me. I’m not a fan of biblical names, or honestly that soft on babies, but man something about that just made me instantly cry. It’s just such a perfect name and so incredibly sweet.
I haven't finished the video yet but if they name it Jesus istg
@@redtailarts101 lmao
It broke me too! I had to force an eye roll down when I heard that she named him from the Bible but I think this is the perfect name! 😭
@@redtailarts101 IKR 😭
Ur name must be Moses or something
My partner's coworker was on the pill, went to the doctor for back pain, and found out she was six months pregnant. I bought 50 pregnancy tests on Amazon for like $15 and take one every month just to be safe (I'm also on the pill and don't have periods at all).
I took the pill in a way that I only got 4 periods a year! I think maybe taking a pregnancy test once in a while would have been a good idea! 😅
My mother-in-law fell pregnant on the pill, twice! And had two healthy babies. But that was the 60s and the pill wasn't so great back then.
@@WouldntULikeToKnow. that's exactly how I take it!
1 percent failure still means 1 percent chance of having a baby.👶🏾💕
I did the same thing, except I wasn't on the pill. I took a test every two weeks after I got married (which was probably overkill, but I wasn't taking any chances 😅). I caught my first pregnancy at 3 weeks gestation!
Definitely my favourite baby name story along with Hunter "because he snuck up on us" 😭
That episode is hands down my favorite because of how happy his sister was to have a little brother.
I remember that one!! Still cracks me up.
One of my coworkers named her youngest daughter Daisy, because she was an oopsie
@@filthyapostate4217 that's amazing omg
Which one was that? I need to know
Your “if something changes, take a pregnancy test” is why I found out at 10 weeks I was pregnant otherwise I very well would have been closer to 4 months before I really knew anything. And it’s good I found out when I did because of complications I had.
I love how mom has to tell her daughter to use the other bathroom. This is 100% accurate! You could have 5 bathrooms in your house and the kids always “need” the one you’re using currently!
That little neighbour scenario was hilarious 🤣
And my husband said I take too many hours editing in meaningless crap 😆
@@MamaDoctorJones - Rubbish! That bit was hilarious.
That was hilarious, I laughed so hard my daughter asked what I was watching.
@@MamaDoctorJones that was the best part of the video so funny😂
It was my favorite part! 😂😂
When my older sister and I were teens, we worked for the same fast food restaurant and one day she called off because she had a stomach ache all day. I went to work as usual but she stayed home. Half way through my shift, my dad called to say they were taking her to the hospital because her pains got worse. We thought she may have had appendicitis. By the time I got home from work, they hadn’t returned and my mom came home in the middle of the night to wake up to say my sister had a little baby boy who was healthy and absolutely beautiful. We now call him the Appendicitis Baby.
A teen?
Is he Pendi for short, or Citis?
@@sssophie9292 haha! Pendi
@@trilliane I actually feel like it makes sense because they'll have expectations. There's that saying about how a lot of information is powerful, a little bit of infromation is dangerous. Well, assuming you'd "just *know* it" if you were pregnant because you've been pregnant before and know what that felt like, that is that little bit of info that misleads you into thinking you know when you don't.
Shoutout to the paramedics, who seemed pretty competent in this episode. (Some episodes, they're like, "I've never delivered a baby before, the hospital is 45 minutes away and also there's a tornado, what do I do????" 😆)
To be fair, apparently even ER doctors will freak out if they have to deliver a baby. I guess they do it so rarely (like even if it's an emergency delivery there's usually plenty of time to get them up to OBGYN) that they don't have much experience in it.
"I just said "mum" - assimiliation, y'all" (12:26) is the perfect linguistic mixture of a Texan/Southern doctor living in NZ 🤣 Also the fact that it took her for the EMT to say "commode" for toilet to be sure they were Southern was also cute 🥰 I guess it's harder to hear an accent if it's what you grew up with! Love your humor and content, MDJ!
Am I the only one who laughs every time the “… other time of the month!” Joke comes out? 😂😂
😆 I’m not gonna lie, I’ve said it so many times I have trouble hearing it when I edit without rolling my eyes now 😆
This one made me laugh too
@@MamaDoctorJones - please keep making that joke. I love it.
I love them and laugh every time, hope they never vanish!
But we love it MDJ 🤣
My husband is making fun of me every time I take a pregnancy test 😂 he says that I take my pill everyday and there's no way we could be pregnant, but as I watch your videos for years I learned that every change in women's body, every weird feeling and every time feeling a little sick and strange can actually mean PREGNANCY! 😂 He doesn't understand but I know what I'm doing 😂
Show him the video😂
Hey, we wanna get our lil surprises prenatal care, mhmm Mr. Paulina's Husband.
I got pregnant taking the pill at the same time every night (I had an alarm set on my phone and kept them with me so I never missed it or took it late and it wasn't even the mini pill). So, yes, it happens. You are very smart to do that if you and your husband aren't want kiddos yet or at all. Then again, women have always had an the edge when it comes to men and intelligence 😉 LOL
@@frogprincess412 Did you take a round of antibiotics? Antibiotics can stop the pill from working.
@@kittimcconnell2633 No antibiotics. Nothing out different. Just a crazy fluke.
My stepmom gave birth to a baby one year ago, not knowing she was pregnant and they called my new little sister Nalija which means “The one who brings joy”
It was a huge shock, I definitely needed some time getting used to getting a baby sister at 27 🙈😂 my stepmom isn’t even that much younger than my dad haha so it wasn’t “predictable” in any way
And thats my sign to take a test. Had 2 babies, both were extremely noticeable. I'm now 14 months post partum and finished breast feeding 2 months ago but my period still hasn't returned. 😅
Definitely take a pregnancy test
"If you're having sex with someone who can get you pregnant, take a pregnancy test. " -- MDJ, always
Do you have a little bundle of joy now? 😂
Sometimes you have to wait, with my second girl i get my period 9 months after her birth and breastfeeding her for 16 monts, my oldest daughter i get my period 6 weeks after her birth and breastfeeding her for 4 months. My youngest daughter i get my period after 3 weeks and didn’t breastfeeding her, it whas awfull and comfirmed it whas a period and not a bleeding
Okay, but this is one of THE best episodes they did. This must have been one of the later ones. These are some of my favorite videos you do!!! And you should do a video talking to Mr. Kind Eyes about his daughter’s birth story in the remote home in Alaska
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Yes! I need to see an interview between MDJ and Mr. Kind Eyes!
This. 100%.
I find your channel SO informative and entertainment, as a 32 year old cis-male, it is so important to not only learn as much as possible about this kind of content...but also it's so important to everyone that it's so readily available in such an easily accessible maanner! Kudos!
I love to see this, it gives me hope for the men of today's society. Todays Feminism is so against building men up in good ways, but it's exactly what we really need.
Agreed. In general, its good to have this sort of medi knowledge for emergency situations, especially child birth stuff. No one ever expects to be in that situation, but its good to know the basics in case it takes a while for help to arrive, and keep mom calm by not panicking and just being supportive. Of course the professional medical is essential for the arrival of unforeseen bithing complications, but keeping the situation under control can be a difference as well.
@@zoeymills6598 I don't think it's fair to blame anything on "today's feminism." I believe most feminists would agree with you that patriarchal ideals (such as enforcing the idea that men don't need to know anything about caring for children or about a woman's body) hurt men, too! All that to say, I agree with you that Sean's comment above was so delightful to read. I love hearing form cis men who genuinely are interested in learning more!
what's a cis-male?
someone who was born male and still identifies as one. It’s meant to be an opposite of transgender, where someone born male might later identify as a woman and transition.
When I was 20 I got pregnant, when on the pill, using a condom, and had a period right after conception. These instances are when we need the OPTION for an abortion. Whether we choose to have one or not the OPTION is needed, for both the physical and mental well being of the woman,
100%
I was on the pill for 5 years (I had dealt with menorrhagia), got married and came off the pill to start a family. After a year of nothing, my ob/gyn decided it wouldn't hurt to do a procedure to investigate if there were any issues due to my history. During the pre-op a few days prior to the procedure, they did a pregnancy test. Lo and behold, I was pregnant! After he was born, at my 6 week check, my ob/gyn suggested a low dose pill, since I was breastfeeding as well. well, 23 months after my son's birth, to the day, to the hour, and nearly to the minute, my daughter was born. She wasn't planned, birth control failure. When she was almost 2, we had come home from a weekend vacation and I had had a cold and was just feeling miserable. My husband suggested taking a pregnancy test, which I did just to humor him. I just had a bad cold, and besides, I was on birth control (the patch this time). Needless to say, after my second daughter was born and we had 3 kids under 5, my husband got a vasectomy. All 3 are adults now, but their birth stories have always given us a chuckle.
Damn that is statistically crazy that you had birth control fail you twice!!
@@zeineb8870 We call our youngest our "little souvenir" because we know exactly when she was conceived. My husband and I had taken a little weekend getaway for our 5th anniversary. We were going to cancel because my grandfather passed away a few days before and his funeral was scheduled for the day we were to leave. But my mom insisted (it was her dad) that grandpa wouldn't want us to not go, and having the kids for the weekend would be a welcome distraction for her. So, we left after the funeral. About 6-7 weeks later is when I was feeling crappy with the cold and my husband suggested the test.
@@saulithyia that is a lovely nickname ❤️
Both of my brothers were birth control babies. And I was a rainbow baby
That's beautiful
11:16 At this point you should realy make a T-Shirt with "We do the best we can with the infirmation than you have"
I think I'm doing it wrong so ... I tuned in for the Science and Learning but stayed and subscribed for the Humour 🤣❤. Please don't ever change MDJ ❤, I love the mix of all of the above 🥳
Ditto lol love ur videos
This is exactly why I’m here. Her humour and her passion for her science/job.
Yup me too
“Shhh….Just have them brush their teeth and go to bed” is the best quote that has ever appeared in this series. Seriously that should be a T-shirt.
“Mom where was I born?”
“In a toilet.”
I follow a TH-camr for her fitness videos and was FLOORED when about 2-3 months ago I saw a video describing that she went to the hospital for severe constipation and discovered that she was SIX MONTHS pregnant.
Her name is Abby and I have thought since that it would be awesome if MDJ reacted to that video or talked to her
Edited: spelling
OMG yeah Abby. She’s got some really good videos.
I also watch her videos and was so surprised!
Yes!!
Omg I love abby
I did not realize I wasn't breathing until they said the baby's ok and then I took a huge breath! So happy he's ok, congrats
as much as it hurts me to laugh right now while I'm sick, MDJ's reaction to the baby in the toilet imagery cracked me up like nobody's business and I needed that laugh today so thank you MDJ lmfao
as a pcos sufferer and never having had any regular menstrual cycle, being pregnant and not knowing throughout the whole pregnancy is literally my worst fear omg
Currently trialing a few weeks of regular Monday AND new Friday uploads! Subscribe with notifications to get smarter! :)
Will you please do a video on perimenopause? Please and thank you. Messaged a few times on Twitter I believe, but I bet you get overloaded.
I used to watch your videos just for the entertainment value but now that I'm unexpectedly 18 weeks pregnant with my first (and over the moon!!) I'm so grateful that I've learned so much from you 😊 I feel so much more well prepared and less scared than I would have been ! Thank you ☀️
Good luck! Hope you and your little one will be both very healthy!! Xxx
How is baby???
@@lexinicole4317 he's happy, healthy, and beautiful! 💙
Every time it comes to it on one of these videos, I say "We do the best we can with the information that we have" out loud along with MDJ. ✨
I've started using that with my kids, completely unrelated to pregnancy. Though both my daughters watch MDJ with me so they've heard her say it too.
Me, too!
Stories like this put the fear of God in anyone on birth control. Me and my IUD are about to buy some pregnancy tests. Such a sweet family though, couldn't have happened to better people.
Because if this I have taken several pregnancy tests with my IUD firmly in place.
A friend had a copper IUD. She wondered if she was pregnant becuase of some changes, took a test and she was right! The next week she had her doctors appointment that she made months ago and changed it from 'replace the IUD with a new one after 4 instead of the recommended 5 years' to 'take it out carefully and don't harm the embryo please'. Her little accident is a little over a year now
I take a test EVERY MONTH when I’m having sex with someone who can get me pregnant!
Yep I’m buying some tomorrow. I’m honestly going to just plan to take one every month so if my IUD fails I’ll know and be able to get a medication abortion in the first two months.
@@SaheeliRai meanwhile I’d be like uh wreck the embryo please 😂 I’m glad she was happy with it though 💙
MDJ: "Everyone's favorite time of the month!"
Me (on day 1 of my period): *look away meme*
Me too Fam
I don't think ANY episode beats the one on the boat, with the partner snoring his head off not waking up despite her screaming and yelling at him, banging on the window,
on the deck, while she's crowning 😂😂😂
“You wouldn’t have chosen to not take your vitamins”… I was waiting on you to say “you wouldn’t have chosen to deliver your baby into the commode.” 😂
I’m from Alabama and we do call them commodes. Their accents were spot on to me. She said virus like I do 😂
I miss when you used kids toys to describe medical situations! 😂
Hahaha. When we started moving around I stopped filming in the playroom (bc we don’t have one) 😆 I’ll ask the kids to throw some of their junk in my studio as props!
@@MamaDoctorJones Yes, I would love to have more of an explanation from a doctor about how would the pediatric team have cared for a baby that had been in a toilet? Would the baby have been tested for e-coli? Would the baby be given an antibiotic because a staph infection or something could develop from being in the toilet?
This show makes ME want to take a pregnancy test and I'm a gold star lesbian 😅
😆😆 I think … THINK … you’re safe. No guarantees 🫠
Ha!!!😆😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣 ✌🏻 & 🤘🏻
I've never had sex, I'm on birth control, and I'm very gay. But this show makes me think... you never know!😂
@@evag-s5177 and...they keep saying that you-know-who works in mysterious ways...
I'm ace and celibate and same!
I love love love the name she gave. And the fact that she could keep calm after knowing she was pregnant was a good thing. She clearly kept everything in control
I was on Depo Provera for years when I found out I was 7 months pregnant. Gastric distress has been a normal part of my life for years and so even though I did notice feeling worse and thought it might be quite serious, pregnancy was not the answer I was expecting.
I can relate to this. I have gastroparesis and I'm accustomed to being nauseous, having food aversions, not being able to eat, vomiting. Feeling sick is my normal . Sure did catch me off guard when I felt my uterus nearly to my belly button 🤣
I love these. I didn't know I was pregnant with my 1st until I was 7+ months and saw my stomach move. Then I almost gave birth on the toilet in the hospital because nobody told me pushing felt like an intense poop
Does it everrr and before pushing it felt like I had a massive tampon in lol.
that is a WILD way to find out you're pregnant!!
@@Muh-Rang I took 2 tests that both said negative too so I assumed I wasn't. I went to the Dr assuming I was only a few months and when they did an ultrasound they said 7. I didn't even look pregnant until I was 8 months
Oddly, enough that is the only question I asked my mom about birth, "what does it feel like?" And she sad it felt like passing a big BM. She was a nurse. I never got pregnant, so I never asked any more questions.
@@kairikasai You literally have the exact same story as me I have irregular periods and go usually 2 to 4 months between them, on the longer side if working a tough job or having big life stress (I now own a business and was planning a big wedding). Went to the longer months side and felt like my belly was a tad like harder and bulgier than normal. Took two tests and both were negative. Though it must be stress/constipation lol cause of the wedding. Get married a month later, then go on honeymoon still haven't had period and now clothes are fitting very snug. Get home and test roght away - now it's positive! Rush into doc appointment and am told I'm 30 WEEKS ALONG and almost fall off the exam table haha. And then over the next 2 weeks went from looking completely normal to like a regular 8 months pregnant lady. Absolutely no exaggeration. Never had a single symptom, no sickness or craving or emotion swings - out of the usual anyways. Just entered month 9 and only now getting over the shock of it!!
I had a colleague who found out she was pregnant after her family’s annual end of summer bbq. She had alcohol and most things she shouldn’t eat whilst pregnant, and felt so guilty. Luckily the midwife was like ‘it’s fine, you’re not that far along and it’s one night - your poor liver probably was more damaged than the little ball of cells. If you were doing that every week during a known pregnancy then I’d be worried’
@@CalmoOmlac it’s not ignorant. We actually have exactly no data on how a single incidence of drinking would affect a baby. The data we have is on continuous drinking and heavy drinking. What we generally agree with is that it’s probably not safe and it should be avoided. That doesn’t mean if it happens we need to unduly worry a mother.
That baby name beats my previous favorite "I didn't know I was pregnant" name.
I watched an episode where the mom had a tubal ligation years prior, and they named their son Hunter "because he snuck up on us." 😂😂😂
This was my favorite too. It was the most realistic. She did so well delivering her baby by herself. She stayed calm and practiced her breathing.
Story is that I was conceived whilst my mum was on the pill. She was unwell and also on antibiotics at the time which supposedly made the pill less effective (in the 80s)
Antibiotics still do weaken the effect of the pill, so does alcohol and some other medications
I was also an antibiotics baby!
It still does make it less effective!
No I don’t know if everyone knows the antibiotics make the pill less effective. I haven’t always known it but one of my nieces has an anabiotic baby as well!!
It's specific antibiotics that can impair oral birth control. I'm NAD and also not a PharmD but always ask your pharmacist when you get a new script. :) they're there for you!
Just found out I'm pregnant and freaking out over having a healthy baby, I can't imagine the fear mom had once she realized she was in labor. So glad she had amazing people to help her and my gosh her family so beautiful! Gives me a bit of hope since I am getting prenatal care and doing my best. I had a loss a year ago so stuff is really scary right now.
I'm so sorry for your loss! Wishing you a safe and healthy pregnancy
The human body is amazing at nurturing a fetus. I’ve lost four and had four, and it took me years to full understand that the babies I lost weren’t because I failed them. Healthy babies stick around through an amazing amount of stress (my firstborn was not expected, and I did not do everything I should have to take care of him before I found out at 10 weeks). Some babies just can’t hold on, no matter what we do.
I will say a prayer for you and your little one. Wishing you healing and peace and most of all, a healthy baby. 💕
You have my sympathy on your pregnancy loss. I know it sounds cliche, but just stay positive, only try to imagine all the good things that will come, and hang onto hope.. I truly hope that you have your Rainbow 🌈 Baby 👶 that you so deserve. Congrats and the brightest of Blessings to you and your family.
Sending hugs and good wishes ♡
I'm very sorry for you loss my heart goes out to you. Listen, you are doing the very best you can for yourself and the baby. Miscarriage happen to most women and we don't even know about it. There is no reason to it, it just does. It's also just devastating and heartbreaking. Never blame yourself. Don't forget to breathe, take care of yourself. 💗
I had hypermemesis gravidarum through my pregnancy. I lost 30lbs, and went to ER for IV fluids. My care team refused any medications for it, for risk of deformities, even when I said I was ok with the minimal risk because I couldn't even drink water. The ER finally gave me zofram, and I split them up and rationed them so that I could go halfway through my work shift without rushing to the bathroom every 15 minutes. My front teeth are all destroyed. I was soooo ill, its the reason I don't want any more children. I couldn't do it again. The fear of my nexplanon failing is a constant fear in my mind, so this show gives me mega anxiety.
I am so sorry. I had HG as well, and even with round the clock Zofran and IV fluids/zofran I still lost 15 lbs and was miserable. Every day was a war, I can’t believe they wouldn’t give you Zofran with informed consent.
not me taking a pregnancy test without having sex 🙂
I had HG so bad the first two times I got pregnant, that I thought I would always have it. But my third pregnancy had absolutely zero. Zero. I attribute it to different dad's now, but i can understand people who would be expecting to be sick wouldn't think of being pregnant.
I had HG with my second pregnancy. I was convinced that meant it was a girl, since it felt very different than my first pregnancy with my son. But I ended up having another boy.
I had HG all to three of mine
There is a teen drama that has taken this concept and made a series on what happens after and battling school. The show is Australian and is called "Bump." I absolutely loved it. The first episode is the "I didn't know I was pregnant" part. I think they portrayed the birth scene well but didn't show much as the age rating is 12 so can't show much. Give it a try.
That's a great series, it also shows the first few months of baby's life and postpartum effects for mum which could be interesting for MDJ to react to as well.
So good, there's no where to watch it in my country, I hope Netflix adds it soon
@@juliabogajo i think it’s on stan in australia so i’m not sure if netflix will put it up
@@keely6030 there's no Stan here, so this kind of show usually gets pick up by Netflix, Prime or HBO to stream, sometimes it never happens
I found this channel while recovering from an abortion about 4 years ago (my only one) and it helped me feel alot less hard on myself now i know did the best i could with what i knew at the time thank you for that mama jones
Wishing you a good recovery process and that you can be kind with yourself. This sounds like a tough situation to have found yourself in. There was - without doubt - a lot that was outside of your control, too. Noone consciously chooses to get to the point, where that decision becomes a necessary consideration! Often there's very little choice and a ton of external challenges on top, that we can't just always handle, as individuals. You deserve kindness and support for the mere fact, that circumstances lead to you having to make though decisions!! Please take care!
@Mama Doctor Jones
I just want to thank you for your catchphrase “we do the best we can with the information that we have”.
It really helped me work through my survivors guilt back in February when I caught Covid at work and passed it unknowingly to my very ill mother-in-law. I didn’t find out I had Covid until after my mother-in-law had already died from it, and the guilt was horrible.
That simple little catchphrase really helped me process things while I was grieving.
Thanks
My favorite name and meaning behind it(funny ) “Wilsee” said like we’ll see.
A friend of mine wanted a dog and kept saying to her boyfriend “can we get a dog” and the boyfriend would say we’ll see every time that was his answer we will see. So when they finally dog a dog, they named her Wilsee and it makes my heart happy.
Also when I worked at a retirement home there was a couple Sam and Ella and if you said their names together super fast it sounds like Salmonella 🤣 they were super cute ❤️
I woke up this morning and thought, “I feel like watching a reaction of ‘didn’t know I was pregnant‘ from mama doctor jones” and she posted one 2 HOURS AGO. What prefect timing!
I was so scared they were gonna call him Lou. Coz he fell in the loo. Hahaha! Also, I’m Aussie and we say “Mum” too, like in NZ. I heard it when you said it and was like woa what haha I definitely didn’t expect that.
I love how supportive the family was. That sounds traumatic, but the love and support the family showed in this situation is so wholesome.
My biggest question with all of these stories is why do none of these unrecognised pregnancies grow into huge, unmistakeable baby bumps?? This one even included photos of her previous pregnancies where her belly was huge, but with the pregnancy that she didn't know about, that didn't happen! How?!
the position of baby can change how big you are.
She also gained weight from the previous pregnancies and still had the lil but of tummy she couldn’t get rid of which was prob the baby bump. Maybe she was basing the bump on the first pregnancy bump with a different body.
How it happened to me I have irregular periods and go usually 2 to 4 months between them, on the longer side if working a tough job or having big life stress (I now own a business and was planning a big wedding). Went to the longer months side and felt like my belly was a tad like harder and bulgier than normal. Took two tests and both were negative. Thought it must be stress/constipation lol cause of the wedding. Get married a month later, then go on honeymoon still haven't had period and now clothes are fitting very snug. Get home and test right away - now it's positive! Rush into doc appointment and am told I'm 30 WEEKS ALONG and almost fall off the exam table haha. And then over the next 2 weeks went from looking completely normal to like a regular 8 months pregnant lady. Absolutely no exaggeration. I'm just glad that everyone I know was at my wedding so they can also attest to how totally normal I looked! Not to mention my dress fit same as the day I bought it which would have been before I got pregnant. And so at 6.5 months there was no bump at all. Then from 7 to 8 months it just went BOOM giant belly pops out. Just entered month 9 and only now getting over the shock of it!!
@@KlearlyIMme i ve never been pregnant but is a baby bump not really different even if you have 5 kg extra belly fat?
To be fair, the bellies that do grow huge are the ones that aren't surprise pregnancies!
Actual guess, physical fitness has a big effect on how you carry. I wonder if she had stronger ab muscles this time, but didn't realize how fit she became because the pregnancy belly 'balanced' it out?
I was a special ed co-teacher when I was pregnant, and I warned all of my content area colleagues that I might be running out of the room because my morning sickness is pretty bad. An afternoon teacher was like “that extends into the afternoon?” I thought “yes, don’t you have two children?”
(But he may have been deployed when his wife was pregnant, and she may not have had much nausea anyway)
"It's everyone favorite time of the month" That made me laugh more than I ever thought I would laugh at a period joke.
I'm an IVF patient and am in a lot of IVF Facebook groups. Apparently there's a whole horde of IVF parents naming their baby boys Benjamin meaning "son of my right hand" you know, as tribute to the origins of the sperm. Of course, assuming that the dad is right-handed.🤣🤣🤣🤣
If you want a cleaner interpretation, it could also be a tribute to a right-handed person doing the injections, a right-handed embryologist who did the ICSI, or to a right-handed RE doing the retrieval and transfer. Either way, I think this name origin is hilarious.
These stories are always so fascinating to me I got pregnant with my first who is 8yrs old while on depo shot. If I hadn't had dreams I was pregnant three nights in a row I wouldn't have known I was pregnant until 6 months cause I only gained 1 pound and had no symptoms till the third trimester! But I found out at 7weeks after going to the fair 😳 and riding all the rides but my son is okay aside from ADHD and eczema.
I love the way you phrased this. I'm gonna start telling people I have ADHD because of a rollercoaster ride when I was a zygote.
Lol I was saying he came out fine despite having a few drinks and gong to the fair unknownly being pregnant aside from his diagnosis I never said was caused by the rides.
@@hp8685 it's genetic in my family. But that's a cool story if you wanna tell it to someone that way 😜
@@alainaevans9683 Guess the drinks could have been a more important information than the rollercoasters. But I am glad that he is healthy. That is always the most important
@@SaheeliRai well it was literally 3 mixed daiquiris around when I was about 5 weeks pregnant and I wasn't aware which a lot of women aren't aware early in that stage and drink and is more common in unexpected pregnancies but not all of them get on a roller coaster and get on the tilt a whirl 🤣😂 lol but yes he's a smart happy boy but I planned the 3 month old I now have for 2 years and didn't touch any drinks or go to the fair lol
This episode gave me all the warm fuzzy feels. Can you imagine the boyfriend telling their daughters “You have a new baby brother!”
Lol omg the neighbour re-enactment is GOLD! Thank you Mama Doctor Jones for your hilarious and informative content :)
watching your friends helped me find out that i was pregnant right away. “hmmm i feel super weird and extra hungry lately.” then i had a dream that i was pregnant on mothers day and took a test, came back inconclusive. I took another test a couple days later and came back positive!! i am 30 weeks and 3 days now and so excited
Ah yes, 12am, the perfect time for some MDJ content haha
Haha I’m still awake posting, trying to get back on my majority audience schedule bc the algorithm seems to hate Aotearoa time.
@@MamaDoctorJones I’m in New Hampshire but I work second shift so I don’t mind! 😂 It’s 5am and I’m watching this.
3 am here and living for my MDJ fix.
My partner walked into the room during this video and was way too prejudicial and judgemental against those pregnant people, so I gave him homework to watch some of your reaction videos.
I guess I had a Percipitous Delivery! They called me the "5 Minute Girl" when I was in the hospital, because I had my daughter within 5 minutes of arriving there! The drive from my house is under 14 minutes and we left the second I felt the first contraction! It's scary to think that I almost didn't make it!
20 minutes? That's one speedy delivery.
I don't know if I was delivered precipitously or not, but my mum sat down to dinner around five o'clock and her water broke. I was born about four hours later. I'm her only child. If her first labor was that quick, I can only imagine the birth stories that might exist if she had given me any siblings.
I'm still looking for the first husband, but if I were to ever have any children (that clock is ticking) I would hope to get it over quickly like my mum. Who also never had morning sickness. And yes I do occasionally remind her how easily she had me if she acts like I'm being difficult.
@@Rosarium2007 Yes! It was my second one. Too scared to try for a third. I might not make it. Haha That is pretty quick for a first from what I've been told. My 2 were total opposites as my first was 18 hours long! Yikes
This was a genuinely a sweet episode and I agree the acting was actually good and they got actors who resemble the people at least somewhat.
That update on Mr. Kind Eyes is AMAZING!
I’m thankful you brought up HG. My sister had it BAD, her entire pregnancy with my niece she was constantly throwing up. In and out of the ER constantly. At one point she was throwing up twenty times a day and she kept dog poop bags close by to upchuck in. She’s doing amazing now but it was hard.
Since you like name stories; my husband and I first dated in high school (we broke up and got back together 10 years later). Our first date was hanging out at my house and watching one of my favorite movies, Constantine. So our son is named Konstantine (my husband thinks the letter "c" is arbitrary) after the very first movie we saw together.
Love. My kid would be named Happy Feet 😆
I would have a son named Fight Club if this is how we chose our son's name 🤣🤣🤣
@@VictoriaEmighHorn well, no one would frick with him
My neighbour was a regular size women, a mother of 2, every month her normal period, not a belly in sight, on the pill. One morning her sister was calling me in panic, iff I had a car baby carrier because her sister just gave birth and was picked up by ambulance to go to the hospital....I was like What??!!!
Not even 1 move or kick, every month her regular period, even her husband did not notice anything
My third pregnancy was a complete surprise. I was on the pill and I took it every night at 10:00 PM. I had my phone alarm set for 10:00 PM and kept it in my purse so I could take it no matter where I was...the grocery store, driving, at home, anywhere. I was a little over two months along when I first missed a menstrual cycle and was shocked but my little guy really wanted to be a part of this world LOL and I'm so glad he did.
I loved your "conversation" with the neighbor lol
You're a pretty funny person and I love all the jokes you make, while providing us with knowledge and I love that you explain what's going on, while also providing us with a little humor every now and then.
This is one of my biggest fears. Not that I'll go into labor not knowing I was pregnant, but that I'll make it really far into a pregnancy without knowing. I test every month, during my period, just to be sure because my mom, and a few aunts/cousins, bled monthly for the first 4-6 months during their pregnancies. I would want to know immediately so that I can get on pre-natals, quit all alcohol, and limit caffeine intake right away. My first pregnancy was planned, but since we're not planning on having another right now, and birth control doesn't work for my body, I just have to be careful. Also, my first labor from start to finish was 2 1/2 hours long. When my OBGYN told me the second birth could be even faster I told her I better plan for a home birth then. lol
I was binge watching these episodes, and I love this one too, right down to naming him Zephan and the grand parents beating them to the hospital. A very cute story indeed. ❤
My daughter was conceived while I was on the pill, but thankfully I knew right away that I was pregnant. I also knew that I had missed a pill occasionally, so I assumed that was why.
I’m so glad we have MDJ explaining the bizarreness sometimes found in these episodes. Like why do these women have “periods” or bleed while pregnant? Thank you for “the educational commentary”, MDJ❤.
One of my friends said that she had her “period” the entire time she was pregnant with both of her girls and her cycle never deviated from before she got pregnant, although now I know it’s not her period obviously. Just interesting to think about how that can happen
I had hyperemesis gravidarum with my 3rd pregnancy (my daughter). I lost 21lbs in under 3 weeks. My OB put me in the hospital for a couple days and then I was sent home on some medication until the day I had her. I had “normal” nausea with my other 4 pregnancies (my sons).
I have one daughter, who is now almost 19 yrs old. From first "omg thats a contraction, omg this hurts" to her being on my chest was 15 mins.
Thank you, I have only ever seen the word written, I had never heard it out load. I now know the pronunciation of the reason I lost 36 pounds while pregnant.
Oh don't worry, I found it again🙄
Love how adorably broken MDJ gets by the end of this. Sometime the cute is just too much
I had a co-worker (both of us were teachers) who was pregnant for the first time. At the end of one day, she came into the teachers' lounge and said she'd been feeling bad all day. She also was having a terrible backache. Those of us who were moms jumped up immediately and yelled, "you're in labor!". She said, " you think?". One of the teachers grabbed her and high tailed it to the hospital. In a matter of about an hour, she had a beautiful baby boy. We still get a chuckle out of her reaction to being told she was in labor!😅
I have taken the "you do the best you can with the information you have" with me to all facets of my life and honestly it's been very helpful for my mental health, eventhough I've never been pregnant... as far as I know 🤨
I recently noticed that I say that phrase to myself like a mantra for every situation, including at work
This was so precious 😭 not me over here crying over this adorable family. I always question why people don’t take pregnancy tests (not judging, I put them off sometimes just because even if I have symptoms and miss my period, I struggle with infertility and every negative test breaks my heart) but she legitimately had no reason to think she was pregnant. The acting was so good, the name was adorable and can we give this woman props for not only just realizing she was giving birth but instantly doing what she needed to do all by herself WHILE protecting her other children from getting scared?! She’s a freaking warrior.
Also, I don’t think I’m alone here in wanting an interview with Mr. Kind Eyes 🥹
Yes! I love Mr. Kind Eyes ♥
Neither my grandpa or dad had a filter when they were alive. And I remember I had went through an 8 month long depression, started antidepressants and gained a bunch of weight. And both of them separately both said to me "you're really packing on the weight eh". I wanted to cry 🙃
I love watching you! I had a hysterectomy when I was 26 and I feel if I would have had u way back then I would still have my goods lol i just love ya and hope u see this! U also help my anxiety, ear bud in and listen as I do my daily to dos lol
That's a miracle, thank goodness both mom and baby were okay.
My grandma didn't know she was pregnant when she had my mom. She had served during WWII as a stealth guard (pretended to be a civilian lady) and when she was working at the Los Alamos site during the Manhattan Project was exposed to multiple rounds of radiation via accidents. The US government believed her sterile, and off she went. Fortunately she figured out what was happening during the pregnancy.
I had a situation where I thought I was pregnant because I was having labor pain and my stomach was tightening the way it did when I was in labor with my first two. It felt 100% like I was in labor. I don't know what happened but I wasn't in labor I wasn't even pregnant. So I can 100% see after watching several I didn't know I was pregnant videos how some people don't even realize they are pregnant even when in labor
But. Why did your uterus go "lets do a birth drill for no effing reason"?
I’m currently 34 weeks pregnant and during the first half of my pregnancy I had HG. It was bad. Had to go to the ER so many times for dehydration because I couldn’t keep water or food down at all. Lost about 20 pounds more or less. Since the first trimester though, I’ve remained at a constant weight. I’m still the same weight I was when I was in the 1st trimester even with my HG basically cleared up and me eating a ton. Baby is appearing healthy at every ultrasound and is quite obviously gaining weight and is moving a ton, so I’m not too worried. Just very perplexed about how my baby is around 5 pounds now but I’m still at the same weight I was in the 1st trimester after I lost 20 or so pounds lol
That's crazy how that can happen, also, congratulations!!!
This happened to my sister with her second child. She had such sickness and heart burn the smell of cooking meat sent her running to the bathroom puking for months. She lost so much wiegth. My nephew was gaining weight though bc any nutrition she was getting he was taking. She looked like she had swallowed 2 whole watermelons. He weighed almost 10 lbs at birth.
Same. I lost 21lbs in less than 3 weeks. My OB put me in the hospital a couple days. I was sent home with some medication I had to take the rest of the pregnancy. She was 9lbs 2oz. I gained 22lbs with her.
Here’s a little German lesson, the phrase “birth control” is Antibabypillen in German 🤣🤣🤣
LMFAO TLC’S IMAGERY IS CRACKING ME UP 😂😂😂
Zaphon is the perfect name for him! And I love you saying “mum” it makes me think of my mum :) you have a lot of fans in Australia if you ever felt like you know going on a tour here
If there is anything I have learned from this series, it’s take a pregnancy test. It’s never been positive but the peace of mind is comforting. I just keep a stack of test in my bathroom now. Got super bad motion sickness the other day. Test! 3 days late. Test! Heartburn worse than usual, cut down on the trigger foods and Test! So much stress is eased with 89¢
This is totally unrelated, and I don’t want to put attention on myself, but I need you to know your saying we do the best with what we know (I may be paraphrasing) is so healing for me. I had a loss at 21+6 (she survived two hours due to prematurity) in 2011 and I still struggle with feeling guilt not knowing I had cervical insufficiency. Deep down, I know I would have done anything for her to stay safely put (and I had an abdominal cerclage which led to safe births of her sister and brother), but just hearing it said by an OBGYN repeatedly for all situations related to pregnancy is so healing.
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
This is the first episode where I heard hyperemises gravadarium on the show, I was diagnosed with this while pregnant and I’m still learning about it more and more like how it can get life threatening if not treated right glad I have great midwives in canada thankfully. This story is crazy! Glad she didn’t get sick through the surprise pregnancy. This was an awesome episode.
Fun fact: I'm trans and picked my name because it was the first name on a list I found online
Im also trans and pick mine partly because I didnt want to remember a new signature 🤣 (same first letter lol)