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You have to pick a man of good character, honesty and someone worth trusting before you allow him into your life. Don’t throw your good heart on a selfish, immature creep who doesn’t deserve you. You don’t need that kind of heartache.
@Ligeia D.Aurevilly I hope to hear what he has to say as well ha..ive had a similar case but long ago...i hope it goes well..and as long as he's not under age then go for it 🙏
100% agreed that men have a certain look in their eyes when they love u. U will feel it. It may seem corny but I know it to be true. Also, 100% agreed that if a man loves u his friends and family will treat u well. If u find disrespect from people around him, walk away. Also, a guy that wants to have no part in ur problems or protecting u, does not love u.
Oh tats awesome..to hear that.But if a much younger man than me by decades, get interest in me..I would be wondering what does he want me to do with him? I find it embarrassing though I might look younger than him than the numbers in decades...why do they not able to find women of their own age, or he can't find any same age group woman interested in him?
Being in love is letting them be who n how they are, and loving them regardless of the outcome. Wanting them to be happy. Treasuring every moment you have and had. That is true love.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do. Women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man. Women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way. Most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father. Most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers. The bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. The friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view. How can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, males and females are both mentally and physically different from each other, and that would effect the bonding between them.
@@icysnow57cold64 I wouldn't agree with that. Every person has masculine and feminine energies, and it's how those energies are balanced.... not being male or female.
@@icysnow57cold64 What bond have you formed? Be it your dad, mum, dog, cat where you love them that much you would...miss them, cry if they got hurt, admire, love seeing them be funny, just be themselves...??
My bf said a man will play with your hair if he’s in love with you! I was laying in his arms one night and he was rubbing my head and running his hands through my hair! He definitely protects me! He picks me flowers! No other man has ever done that! He cooks for me, cleans house! He even shaved my legs for me the other night just out of the blue for more reason! I’ve never had a man do these things for me! I love him so much and I have no doubt he feels the same!
Please remember, falling in love doesn’t warrant a long term relationship. Falling in love is a good component to get a relationship starts, but the candles don’t lit forever. LTR is hard work and self sacrifice. Unconditional love.
I’m blessed ! Finally got it right ! My baby loves me “ just as I am “ Been waiting years for a man to just love me for me and he does and it makes me feel so alive ! I’m never letting him go ! We have a very good relationship with each other it’s a real blessing!!
And they do. Discernment is crucial, and if we get played we have to forgive _ourselves!_ Then the user fades in importance and we can/must forgive them so we're not chained to them forever. This is how we get free of toxic ppl: By first forgiving ourselves, which dumps our feelings of embarrassment and we can learn and grow and develop discernment free of the embarrassement that keep us from moving on. See, if we let ourselves be embarrassed by a situation or a person then we give up ownership of it, they have power over us by our letting them own it, thus making ourselves helpless to move on: Chained forever. But if we can say, ''Well, that didn't go as planned! _I_ fell into that: What can _I_ _learn_ from it / what can _I_ _gain_ from it to make myself more effective? WE then own the situation and its consequences and WE control our future so that we _can_ learn from it. Which makes the final step simple: ''Forgive them, Father, for they know not what they do'' in the famous words of the most discerning person Earth ever hosted as he was being executed for showing love. We can do that! And we have to or we blunder along hurting ourselves through eternity, or so it seems.
My husband did all of this to me, and then he did it with someone else and we divorced; and I recently found out a year ago he’s doing it again with another girl; and maybe by now he’s doing it again with someone else. And to think I gave up having kids to his sterility. Never let love override what you really want. Dump them and live for you!
As for me the one I am really in love with is jesus christ is the sweetest name that will make me fall in love more for because of his great work over my life and my sweet families.
Hell yeah and yesterday I told my friend who was standing infront of the mirror that he‘s beautiful and he should hurry up to come cuddle (which we always do). And a while after I showed him a note I took on my phone which said „holy sh*t I forgot how beautiful he was...“ Deep down I already knew he didn’t have the same feelings but it didn’t stop me to tell him at least one beautiful thing about him because all I want is him to understand how much I care about him. How much he means to me. That he‘s so crazy beautiful in so many ways and I wish I could show them all to him. I don’t regret telling him in words. It‘s hard to describe what I feel. But according to all the videos I just watched I guess I am somewhat falling in love with this person or at least crushing on him.
My younger guy is still in awe of me after three years ....He is a one in a million to me ....and I am to him . We are years apart in age and it just works ....
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What you’re talking about is limerance. It lasts for about 18 months to two years. Love is a choice. Love is choosing loving behaviors and actions even when it’s difficult. Love is committing to the commitment. Love is having the grace to hold a space for someone without blame, shame, or judgment. Love is inter-dependence-you, me and we.
I actually left the love of my life because I didn't think we were on the same page. I still love him till this day it's been 30 plus years.. I told him I loved him, he said thank you. I felt so hurt. So I broke up with him.
*You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.*
I remember my bfs first sign - he introduced me to his nieces. He's very protective of them and wanted to wait to do that because of previous bad experiences. After that he included me in his interests - showing me places he liked, offering to let me use his PS4 (he's a gamer), and hanging out with his friends. The next and one of the most significant was when he told me he trusted me. He has trust issues so it really meant a lot that he opened up like that. The last thing I noticed was when he started talking about serious future plans with me. He's a very careful person and very direct so I knew that these showed he's serious about me.
I haven't seen him in 2 years. He hasn't put forth any effort towards me. So that tells me exactly how he feels about me. A man will show TF up for the woman he loves. Period!
Sooo many people need this video. 😂One spark in cortisol and people get weird! Just relax, breath, enjoy. Love yourself. Love all. Merge. Enjoy it. There is no special one person. Everyone is beautiful - so BE love, be acceptance & kindness. Great video! Thank you.
A sign that I saw is..he started to be unusually shy around me and he couldn't even do eye contact with me. Unlike what we think, guys can become shy around the person they really like.
It goes both ways. You will know what people say about you based on how their friends treat you. If he says good things, they will be nice. If he says bad things, they will ignore and be cold to you. It's crazy.
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Hit the nail right on the head with your opening lines...'falling for him dont, wanna get hurt, so coming from a place of anxiety..a tough place to be in.' I'm right at this place, the fear swept over me when I realised I'm falling in love and I don't wanna get hurt. I felt I wanted to run away from him cos he is showing signs he is doing the same and I'm so scared . Everything you say seems to be where we're both at. Very useful information. Thanks.
Fireballplay29 3 years ago You have to pick a man of good character, honesty and someone worth trusting (before) you can allow him into your life. Don’t throw your good heart on a selfish, immature creep who doesn’t deserve you. You don’t need that kind of heartache. Like this quote.
When he is in general very confident, and around me he all of a sudden so confused and cannot put two words together. He is constantly saying that I am so unique to him...
He doesn't distinguish "falling in love" which is an emotion that has nothing to do with love, and actual love, which is a choice the other person makes to seek the best for you. This video fools woman because a man can just as easily "fall out of love", so ladies should not even be wasting their time trying to figure out if he is "in love" anyway, that's immature and for teenagers. What you should be doing is judging whether he is a man of good character. If he is a man of good character he will choose to love you or not, and that is not something you can control.
Duke "falling in love" insinuates infatuation. Inflation in necessary to truly love someone and to start acting out of love. To invalidate infatuation and its necessity is pure folly.
How long does it take men to fall in love? I had a first date with a man and I’ve never had a man look at me the way he did, I felt this intense connection, absolutely insane like I can’t describe it. Almost as if I felt like he’s the one.
Thank you so much. My man was in love with me when he first saw me. He was a customer & I had no idea until he said something one day & only wanted me to serve him over the pharmacist! I knew then something was happening & he chased me! Ha ha.
A MAN loves A confidant woman And a Woman in the same Note loves a Confidenat and Devoted Man .. not all Men are Marriage Material . IT'S about equal gender equality . To be able to persue a life of happiness and having enough self Worth to STAND ALONE IF need be . to be able to obtain complete STRENGTH over your own body, mind, spirit, and SOUL, . Nothen easy last long . It takes Time to place all the parts of your puzzles together . In the meanwhile no One should be scoring . BE STRONG , Honor your self and Be Patient .
Seeing all these signs in the man I'm involved with, even though I never thought we'd be where we are. Also, look out for him fighting it and himself with self-sabotage If he's been severely betrayed and damaged his psyche will make him act out at things you might think are insignificant. He does this as a defense mechanism to try to keep from getting crushed if he's not sure if you feel the same. Sometimes, it looks like a toddler pitching a fit. How have I dealt with it? Unlike the majority of women, I get quiet and let him have at it. Or I leave the situation saying in a calm voice "when you're done and have made your decision we can talk". Yelling or trying to figure it out, or trying to make it better does not work. Let him battle with himself then accept an invitation to hear what he has to say. Like the signs in this video, which are all true by the way, if he is falling in love with you but can't say it because of fear of vulnerability and betrayal, he will at times make things seem impossible and almost act like a different person all together. It's his old persona that he had to carry in his previous intimate relationships fighting with his new desire to want to believe he's allowed to be happy and can trust in you. Wow, that ended up being a lot longer than I intended.
I really appreciate you for sharing this. You are describing verbatim what I have been experiencing, with a person who has, otherwise, been an absolutely extraordinary man and lover to me. It's been so painful, I cry so much, and my self-esteem has been plummeting. I feel so confused all the time, about who this person really is. I have been extracting myself from the relationship, because I am unable to discern whether this behavior is going to improve, or if it is the onset of what will develop into abuse. My gut tells me something is not right, but my heart is not is not at peace with that, the Love between us is unforgably sincere, and no matter how much I watch, read, or listen too, I cannot sort out psychogically what is going on here. Nothing 'fits'. He demonstrates almost every single sign that ive come across from all the coaches, for a man who is invested, serious, and falling in love. But he keeps having these episode of anger, just like you describe, and I can tell its insecurity, but its all fight fight fight fight fight, and getting accused of things I didn't say/think/imply/mean. My mind gets twisted into knots and my heart breaks deeper every time. There is no effort to create resolution on his part, whatsoever, ever. He accepts no responsibility or accountability, and only rarely apologizes, but does not demonstrate remorse. He will just, all of a sudden start being nice again, and "put it all behind" and "move forward", but he never fully comes back to me, and then the anger all comes back again, and again and again, increasingly fueled by previous angers that never got resolved, bcs he doesn't want to process it and build from it. Its shredding my heart, and my self-esteem, and my confidence, and my sense of value and self-worth~~ all of which, are things that I deeply need to develop and build and make stronger, even on the very best of days. Thanks for listening🙏🏽 and for sharing🙏🏽 please dont feel obligated to respond, but i appreciate any insight you may have if you feel called to share. God bless🌹
I’m where you are talking about right now with mine. Its hard watching him fight what we could have because of past demons... It hurts to sit back and be patient and let him work it out...
@@freshstrt3140 have a look into personality disorders like narcissism. And also attachment styles. For some people it's an automatic self defense mode and for others it's calculated, strategic abuse to have their own needs met at your expense. But having your self esteem eroded is very serious and can take years to heal from if you don't get out soon.
@@strongerasone2403 Thank you so much for writing to me. I appreciate your insights, and remembering I'm not alone, and what im dealing with is to be taken seriously. Thank you very much for your support.
There is a guy i love such that i cant date anyone else, we have been friends foe 7 months now sometimes he shows like he has feelings for me. I help please
Clayton is SO good. I usually start these type videos & in 2 secs I'm losing focus. Not with Clayton! I'm with you on that. Can't believe I found his channel! I sure need it tho, PRONTO!! It's been a while since I loved a man. But things are picking up in a big way now. Being IN LOVE is just SO SPECIAL!! If we could just bottle it up, we would be all set!!
Thank you.. All of these things were present in my relationship and I love him with all my heart. I am saddened that we broke things off due to his fears, and uncomfortableness. I truly feel he was afraid of being hurt. I will say everything you pointed out was present in his behavior.
In the same regard, once you feel like your partner accepts the things about you that you're apprehensive about, when the "honeymoon" starts wearing off it can be devastating when they make derogatory comments about those things you thought they were okay with. It's a lot easier to "fall in love" than it is to stay there.
I really appreciate how Clayton goes so in-depth in his video clips. He truly describes human nature in a way you seldom come across in these kind of videos. It’s very deep and insightful.
I have literally watched every single one of your videos in their entirety and you always share such wonderful ideas, concepts, and advice. Thank you for putting all of this out to the world. You have helped me so much in my personal relationships with both my boyfriend and myself. Really appreciate you. Your channel is the best that I've found! Cheers!!
Some men are so afraid to fall in love, because they don't want to waste their time without having some level of assurance from their partners. They can get scared that the same level of love or affection towards their partners might not be reciprocated. It's for this reason that they may sometimes be misunderstood as playboys.
Dear person reading this YOU deserve beyond a gazillion hugs to beyond a gazillion times and beyond that and beyond that and beyond that and beyond that and beyond that and beyond that!😃
This video was so beautiful and powerful. It penetrated my heart. Your explanation is literally the only video I've found on TH-cam on this topic that sounds real, authentic, vulnerable and that has captivated me and my attention. As i was listening to you i heard what the Lord had been showing and demonstrating to me through dreams the whole time. Now it makes sense. Thank you so much for this elaboration. Far from the superficial, trendy, bland videos people do on this topic. It never satisfies.
Wow i’d love to feel that kind of energy from a man. I’m realizing more than ever now that my husband never really truly loved me. I mean I know he “has love” for me but he’s never been “in love” with me.
"Falling in love" is an emotion that has nothing to do with love, and actual love is a choice the other person makes to seek the best for you, so if your husband acts this way then he does love you. "Falling in love' is nice, but it is for juveniles. Don't get bad ideas about your marriage just from one youtube video on teen dating advice.
July HoneyBee maybe your husband never experience love . So he can't give you what he don't have or know of. Or he has been hurt bad in the past. Pray - God created marriage , God can change hearts
July HoneyBee You are NOT the only one. By far! I feel sad when I hear those words. But you know what? Jesus loves you more than anyone in this world could EVER love you! You are NEVER alone. He knows you. Better than you think you know yourself. It sounds like you shouldn't have married this guy.
Sensitive, informative and nuanced presentation on this topic. I like that you provide a breadth of examples allowing for better understanding of the points, rather than being solution based.
Recognize the clingyness. They want you there, they don't want you to leave them although you've had contact in just a little while. That could also mean that they just got out of a relationship and are heartbrokened, though. Beware, ladies!
Clingyness is your inner voice telling you it probably won't last. Incompatibility is hard to accept but the ability to recognize it early on will save you years of heartache.
clingy, yes can mean just ended a relationship, but the clingy and smothering, too nice.. you feel like you cant even go for a walk around places and breathe as they will have their arms around you none stop, especially early days. gut or intuition saying somethings wrong, im unsure, listen to it... as it only gets uglier especially when their true selves come out. avoid as early as you can.. the longer these people have hold of you where half an hour if that down the shops alone turns into 40 missed calls or them rocking up rather quick to a family members or friends saying where are they.......... Trust me, you don't want that. ive seen it heaps, its been in my life, ive seen even male family cop this crap from women too but they tend to do things a bit differently..... it dont matter, stay away from them and YES NARCISSISTIC, avoid .. which above warnings, narcissistic seems to be in there too. and as for the being stood up, perhaps it was a good thing. if any of this stuff was coming out, being stood up, many would wish that they where stood up.
The falling in love process: #1 Drop of judgement in the direction of missing up the evil and being trapped in the illusion of intimating with an Angel. #2 loose confidence. This is revealed by a jealous behavior. The person is out of control. Can't help but to feel insecure. The selfconfidence has been taken away by this process of "falling in love". #3 intoxication by worries about the "other". Now when the male sees a potential as a long term relationship he will start to integrate you in his inner circle and in his daily life activities and routine.
10 days in and he’s displaying jealousy and possessiveness. He says he’s the best man for me and he’s here to make me happy. Very determined to protect me. I want this to work for both of us.
Love dont exist anymore. Ive tried n all i get is hurt. No man is afraid to lose me. I feel like most men r players, users n losers. I want someone that loves me more than ever. But im giving up. Have to get used to being alone
Thats sad and I have done that myself..but..the problem with this is..you end up ALONE..stop trying so Hard..maybe try learning how to love you 1st..you may be surprised at how that changes who amd what you attract..not only in "love" but in friends.
Thank you Clayton. It does clear up a few things. He is a strong believer in actions speak louder then words. In the past he has always expressed himself by yelling and being condescending, he started out that way with me but for a year now he hasn't done that. There are numerous other things he had started out doing but no longer does them.
Although I agree with MOST of what Clayton has said, I disagree with the point he made about the guy wanting something "long-term". I've seen guys demonstrate ALL of those signs, yet say that they don't want commitments. I've broken up with a guy because he did not want a commitment, although those signs were demonstrated. I'd like to think of myself as experienced; however, I'm confused now.
Hi Pamela, thanks for the comments. What i'm saying, is that if the man is wanting something long-term along with some of those other signals I pointed out, he may be falling in love.
As a man I can absolutely confirm what Pamela has said. The reason is that "falling in love" is just an emotion and unless a man has real love for you, which is a choice he decides to make and it does not happen by accident, then he can just as easily "fall out of love". So while this video is correct in describing the sings of a man falling in love, it perpetuates the false idea that that is even important. Ladies, you don't need to worry about whether he is falling in love; you need to judge whether he is a man of good character. Everything else is secondary.
Thank you so much. I've watched a number on online youtube relationship advice stuff and no one... and I do mean no one has worded what goes on so straightforwardly and accurately wuth no gimmicks no buts etc. I have found you to be very insightful and your videos have given me confidence in myself and where I am going relationship wise thank you very very much!
You will only find him in Christ Jesus cuz when we believe AND trust in Him 'our lives are hid in Christ in God' Colossians 3 King James Version 3 If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God. 2 Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth. 3 For ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God. 4 When Christ, who is our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory. Anything outside of that is confusion n regret. The Christian journey is no bed of roses, we will hav problems as any other human but to have that true Peace n Understanding with God's love helps to combat lifes ups n downs. We are not really living life to its full potential until one connects with Christ Jesus thru believing on what are did and sacrificed for mankind. Only then can the word of God be activated in ones life to be able to have that hidden life revealed and unravel. Once to ppl are connected to th True and Living God can they understand each other better and see th bigger picture which is God himself. Ultimately bcus God is love. So let us learn our lessons frm th one who has all th answers . . . When one is spiritually connected th Christ Jesus and th other partner isn't there's definitely and imbalance spiritually that will problems in th day t day living to get worse naturally. If both seek their hidden lives in Christ in God then He gives us the tools for th job . . Example: If yu buy a Roll Royce only that company can repair it n not some bk street garage. Same with our lives n relationship only God can restore and build it bk up bcus He is the Creator of mankind. Yes one may talk to friends n love ones n counsellors who will help n assist yu, that can have a positive effect on your situation if the advice is good and some of it will b good bcus we are made in His image but Ultimately for that full Councelling for our spiritual lives and natural ups and down we need God and His instruction manual. That manual is the Word of God 📖 King James Version Bible Pls go to any Rightly Dividing video on Yutube for further guidance n knowledge Good day 2nd Timothy 2v15
this is a great video. it makes lots of sense, and I love it. my guy is falling into all of these things mentioned in this video. I love him, and never want to loose him.
True love is more of an inner quality and we need insight to see it. I believe that is what makes love more valuable than diamonds. Think about this... diamonds are brilliance because of the fine craftsmanship but they also need light to sparkle in beauty. Actually, it is light that reflects such brilliance and beauty and not the diamonds, for without light they is useless.
My Fiancé has all of the characteristics of “The Right One”. I was with someone for 17 years who was abused when he was younger but I loved him still until the very end (my kids’s father passed away in 2019 😔🙏🏾). Yes, he had more bad days than good days but when he had his good days, they were the best 😁💕! My fiancé (who’s in the military) is sooo encouraging to me and positive to me EVERY TIME I’M down, he builds me up…EVERY TIME! God knows how to put blessings in your life when you feel Like there is no way that you feel like there’s no one for you 😍🥰💯
I’m sorry about the passing of your children’s father. I’m glad you have a fiancé now. I wish you all the best. The last part was good. I hope that things will fall into place for me.
Clayton U R AWESOME! How did U know I needed your help??? Your voice is made for videos. You have a LOT of insight!! That's a HUGE blessing for us who need your help! SO happy I found U. Keep doing what U do!! You have a great thing going on here. Thanks SO much!!
WILD WOMAN and thanks for not having us sit for 20 minutes to get to the “point” or the “insight or clarity” that you plan on sharing. I loathe the “teasers” via ads that promise information they will gladly deliver for $xx.xx dollars and will throw in a cd if you click now. Drives me nuts.
We met in our 30s, and I knew I was loving him fairly quickly. When I couldn’t hold my emotions in, they kind of made him uncomfortable. He said how do you know you’ll love me in five years. I answered that I didn’t know, but if I don’t it doesn’t mean that I didn’t love you today. I didn’t realize until much later that he couldn’t tell me that he loved me until he knew he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. He showed caring very well before he said it, but once he did say it, not a day passed without us saying and showing love for the nearly 42 years that we got together. I lost him 16 months ago.
Your description is quite insightful and helpful....wish i had heard you when i was younger and before i ended my last possible relationship. do you have insights for senior people by any chance???
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Yes he is doing all of this 2!😁❤ Thank you
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@@alonagumansing5279 Me too...never cross my path.. it's up to God..if He wants to put love life into our life...(sigh)
When a man loves you, there is absolutely NO DOUBT. You will know.
Hello Cindy hope you’re having a wonderful day?
Nice to meet you here,where are you originally from?
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You have to pick a man of good character, honesty and someone worth trusting before you allow him into your life. Don’t throw your good heart on a selfish, immature creep who doesn’t deserve you. You don’t need that kind of heartache.
@Ligeia D.Aurevilly I hope to hear what he has to say as well ha..ive had a similar case but long ago...i hope it goes well..and as long as he's not under age then go for it 🙏
@Ligeia D.Aurevilly the best of luck hun
Mason Kissel , easy said than seen. Bad guys knows they r bad. They will camouflage their behavior .
Yea too late for me get to know his back ground
Agreed!
1) He’s in awe of your uniqueness.
2) Clinginess to you.
3) Deep, wide connection with you.
Thanks for the condensed version. Sometimes I wish these experts get to the damn point.
Thanks
@@michellemckinney4678 Are they really experts?
You did it in 3 seconds and it took him over 9 minutes; ain't nobody got time for that...SMH God bless you and thank you so much!
Thanks saves time
When you can be yourself with someone and they dont judge you is an amazing feeling. And when his face lights up upon seeing you.
Yea, that’s really nice.
So true
100% agreed that men have a certain look in their eyes when they love u. U will feel it. It may seem corny but I know it to be true. Also, 100% agreed that if a man loves u his friends and family will treat u well. If u find disrespect from people around him, walk away. Also, a guy that wants to have no part in ur problems or protecting u, does not love u.
Spot on
true
Agreed. If his friends treat you badly, run away, don't walk away. :)
If a man wants no part in your problems or protecting you. Thank you that made me come to a realization.
@@gilliangodden3386 I'm glad. You deserve to be cared for.
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Oh tats awesome..to hear that.But if a much younger man than me by decades, get interest in me..I would be wondering what does he want me to do with him? I find it embarrassing though I might look younger than him than the numbers in decades...why do they not able to find women of their own age, or he can't find any same age group woman interested in him?
This is so true!
That right!
Being in love is letting them be who n how they are, and loving them regardless of the outcome. Wanting them to be happy. Treasuring every moment you have and had. That is true love.
Unconditional
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other.
Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.
Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends.
Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do.
Women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man.
Women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way.
Most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father.
Most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers.
The bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. The friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view.
How can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, males and females are both mentally and physically different from each other, and that would effect the bonding between them.
@@icysnow57cold64 I wouldn't agree with that. Every person has masculine and feminine energies, and it's how those energies are balanced.... not being male or female.
@@shellducker7078 But males and females are wired differently, and females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do.
@@icysnow57cold64 What bond have you formed? Be it your dad, mum, dog, cat where you love them that much you would...miss them, cry if they got hurt, admire, love seeing them be funny, just be themselves...??
My bf said a man will play with your hair if he’s in love with you! I was laying in his arms one night and he was rubbing my head and running his hands through my hair! He definitely protects me! He picks me flowers! No other man has ever done that! He cooks for me, cleans house! He even shaved my legs for me the other night just out of the blue for more reason! I’ve never had a man do these things for me! I love him so much and I have no doubt he feels the same!
Love it!! Very happy for what is blossoming in your life.
Beautiful. 🧡🌷
Shaving your legs is going in deep. Men don't usually find that very appealing.
He also has a 9" 🍆 and he sticks it to you. Go sit down.
That's such a sweet set of gestures from your boyfriend. Wishing you deep happiness ❤ It gives a hope to all who attracts unhealed man ...
Narcisist do all that when they are getting to know you and want to enchant you to win you over , and them .. you are heartbroken.
I always wait for the guy to say “I love you” first.
I did, he probably said it 200 times before me and he still ended up being trash
@@TJ_Eats ugh saaameee...
It slipped out. I thought he did. He did everything right. But once I slipped he freaked out and pulled away and we ended up breaking up.
My cousin did not like his wife when she made it clear she liked him and they ended up married...It worked for them..
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You can tell when a man truly loves you. Actions speak louder than words
Please remember, falling in love doesn’t warrant a long term relationship. Falling in love is a good component to get a relationship starts, but the candles don’t lit forever. LTR is hard work and self sacrifice. Unconditional love.
I’m blessed ! Finally got it right !
My baby loves me “ just as I am “
Been waiting years for a man to just love me for me and he does and it makes me feel so alive ! I’m never letting him go ! We have a very good relationship with each other it’s a real blessing!!
Bless you and your man
There’s a song for you! It’s : My Baby Loves Me! I like the song!
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Yet be careful a person can learn these skills to play u.....both male and female can do this
And they do. Discernment is crucial, and if we get played we have to forgive _ourselves!_ Then the user fades in importance and we can/must forgive them so we're not chained to them forever.
This is how we get free of toxic ppl: By first forgiving ourselves, which dumps our feelings of embarrassment and we can learn and grow and develop discernment free of the embarrassement that keep us from moving on. See, if we let ourselves be embarrassed by a situation or a person then we give up ownership of it, they have power over us by our letting them own it, thus making ourselves helpless to move on: Chained forever. But if we can say, ''Well, that didn't go as planned! _I_ fell into that: What can _I_ _learn_ from it / what can _I_ _gain_ from it to make myself more effective? WE then own the situation and its consequences and WE control our future so that we _can_ learn from it. Which makes the final step simple: ''Forgive them, Father, for they know not what they do'' in the famous words of the most discerning person Earth ever hosted as he was being executed for showing love. We can do that! And we have to or we blunder along hurting ourselves through eternity, or so it seems.
@@dayondastribling5080 couldn't have said it better baby doll
I had that 2 times in my life they both were fraude
Right
Dayonda Stribling Soo right on! One of the best comments I've heard in a long time, Thank you so much for sharing this 🌹
Wow! Gosh! I hope I meet this person soon in Jesus Name. Amen
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Amen.
My husband did all of this to me, and then he did it with someone else and we divorced; and I recently found out a year ago he’s doing it again with another girl; and maybe by now he’s doing it again with someone else. And to think I gave up having kids to his sterility. Never let love override what you really want. Dump them and live for you!
Chele Myers best advice
Wrong guy
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Inviting his friends, male and female, to have dinner with you at his place.
Driving thru two townships to pick you up repeatedly.
Waiting for the one that will fall in love with my scars.
Scars are awesome,,they were your journey and story 😀
Oh they're out there. But we have to be able to love our scars first. If we dont we push people away unintentionally. Be patient with yourself love.
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Just don't reopen them. Heal first and then be open to new love, manifest new love.
As for me the one I am really in love with is jesus christ is the sweetest name that will make me fall in love more for because of his great work over my life and my sweet families.
Stupid
Yes he is
Jesus is the author of marital attraction and love so it is just as godly as loving the Lord.
Indeed 😍
I always say tht too but i really need somone physically too
I am a direct person...communication is key..!
Same here man..screw assuming things which I do alot but try not to
@@luna84_ same here what's ur name
@@snnsriderz6165 real name is Angelica, yours?
Exactly not text...!
Hell yeah and yesterday I told my friend who was standing infront of the mirror that he‘s beautiful and he should hurry up to come cuddle (which we always do). And a while after I showed him a note I took on my phone which said „holy sh*t I forgot how beautiful he was...“
Deep down I already knew he didn’t have the same feelings but it didn’t stop me to tell him at least one beautiful thing about him because all I want is him to understand how much I care about him. How much he means to me. That he‘s so crazy beautiful in so many ways and I wish I could show them all to him. I don’t regret telling him in words.
It‘s hard to describe what I feel.
But according to all the videos I just watched I guess I am somewhat falling in love with this person or at least crushing on him.
I love him and that's what's important to me. If he loves me back, it's a bonus!
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My younger guy is still in awe of me after three years ....He is a one in a million to me ....and I am to him . We are years apart in age and it just works ....
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What you’re talking about is limerance. It lasts for about 18 months to two years. Love is a choice. Love is choosing loving behaviors and actions even when it’s difficult. Love is committing to the commitment. Love is having the grace to hold a space for someone without blame, shame, or judgment. Love is inter-dependence-you, me and we.
Beautiful post!!
LinYouToo exactly it is a choice 👌🏻
Limerance? I've never heard this word before.
I actually left the love of my life because I didn't think we were on the same page. I still love him till this day it's been 30 plus years.. I told him I loved him, he said thank you. I felt so hurt. So I broke up with him.
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*You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.*
I remember my bfs first sign - he introduced me to his nieces. He's very protective of them and wanted to wait to do that because of previous bad experiences. After that he included me in his interests - showing me places he liked, offering to let me use his PS4 (he's a gamer), and hanging out with his friends. The next and one of the most significant was when he told me he trusted me. He has trust issues so it really meant a lot that he opened up like that. The last thing I noticed was when he started talking about serious future plans with me. He's a very careful person and very direct so I knew that these showed he's serious about me.
My guy got scared and ran away. He said "I have to focus on my finances and kids". Awesome, so lovely that I'm not important enough to focus on.
Stop dating men with kids he is still looking after. You'll never be top
You heard it here first-Falling in love is a crisis!
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Lol...you're right! I've lived it. It's a scary, yet awesome experience.
Instead of looking for the right person..be the right person
I haven't seen him in 2 years. He hasn't put forth any effort towards me. So that tells me exactly how he feels about me. A man will show TF up for the woman he loves. Period!
He calls me his person and sings to me...even gave me a key to his place! I must be on the love track!❤💜
Sooo many people need this video. 😂One spark in cortisol and people get weird!
Just relax, breath, enjoy.
Love yourself.
Love all.
Merge.
Enjoy it.
There is no special one person. Everyone is beautiful - so BE love, be acceptance & kindness.
Great video! Thank you.
A sign that I saw is..he started to be unusually shy around me and he couldn't even do eye contact with me. Unlike what we think, guys can become shy around the person they really like.
Grass is always greener no matter how happy you think he is. I'm over it.
An older woman once told me better to be alone that to get involved n invest in a person who isn't real best advice ever she's alone but drama free.
It goes both ways. You will know what people say about you based on how their friends treat you. If he says good things, they will be nice. If he says bad things, they will ignore and be cold to you. It's crazy.
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Hit the nail right on the head with your opening lines...'falling for him dont, wanna get hurt, so coming from a place of anxiety..a tough place to be in.' I'm right at this place, the fear swept over me when I realised I'm falling in love and I don't wanna get hurt. I felt I wanted to run away from him cos he is showing signs he is doing the same and I'm so scared . Everything you say seems to be where we're both at. Very useful information. Thanks.
Heart racing when he says i love you for the first time !!
Thanks for being so ‘tuned in’! You are a old soul, and you are awake! 💕
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You have to pick a man of good character, honesty and someone worth trusting (before) you can allow him into your life. Don’t throw your good heart on a selfish, immature creep who doesn’t deserve you. You don’t need that kind of heartache. Like this quote.
When he is in general very confident, and around me he all of a sudden so confused and cannot put two words together.
He is constantly saying that I am so unique to him...
man up dear men! decide, take responsibility, dont hurt women by giving signs that women need to crack their head to understand it.
Awww. Is there any better feeling than falling in love? So sweet. ❤
He doesn't distinguish "falling in love" which is an emotion that has nothing to do with love, and actual love, which is a choice the other person makes to seek the best for you. This video fools woman because a man can just as easily "fall out of love", so ladies should not even be wasting their time trying to figure out if he is "in love" anyway, that's immature and for teenagers. What you should be doing is judging whether he is a man of good character. If he is a man of good character he will choose to love you or not, and that is not something you can control.
Duke "falling in love" insinuates infatuation. Inflation in necessary to truly love someone and to start acting out of love. To invalidate infatuation and its necessity is pure folly.
Duke well said
Spot on.
Amen
I agree.
Love is mysterious. There is no recipe for love.
How long does it take men to fall in love? I had a first date with a man and I’ve never had a man look at me the way he did, I felt this intense connection, absolutely insane like I can’t describe it. Almost as if I felt like he’s the one.
You know a man loves you when he tells you and he’s sharing his life with you. That’s pretty much it in a nutshell
Thank you so much. My man was in love with me when he first saw me. He was a customer & I had no idea until he said something one day & only wanted me to serve him over the pharmacist! I knew then something was happening & he chased me! Ha ha.
Love the softness of your voice. very comforting....
Dear boy, a man comes to you and simply declares his love to you .
These signs sound so lovely. I would love to feel precious
I will give Gollum a call! 😉👍
A MAN loves A confidant woman And a Woman in the same Note loves a Confidenat and Devoted Man .. not all Men are Marriage Material . IT'S about equal gender equality . To be able to persue a life of happiness and having enough self Worth to STAND ALONE IF need be . to be able to obtain complete STRENGTH over your own body, mind, spirit, and SOUL, . Nothen easy last long . It takes Time to place all the parts of your puzzles together . In the meanwhile no One should be scoring . BE STRONG , Honor your self and Be Patient .
Seeing all these signs in the man I'm involved with, even though I never thought we'd be where we are. Also, look out for him fighting it and himself with self-sabotage If he's been severely betrayed and damaged his psyche will make him act out at things you might think are insignificant. He does this as a defense mechanism to try to keep from getting crushed if he's not sure if you feel the same. Sometimes, it looks like a toddler pitching a fit. How have I dealt with it? Unlike the majority of women, I get quiet and let him have at it. Or I leave the situation saying in a calm voice "when you're done and have made your decision we can talk". Yelling or trying to figure it out, or trying to make it better does not work. Let him battle with himself then accept an invitation to hear what he has to say. Like the signs in this video, which are all true by the way, if he is falling in love with you but can't say it because of fear of vulnerability and betrayal, he will at times make things seem impossible and almost act like a different person all together. It's his old persona that he had to carry in his previous intimate relationships fighting with his new desire to want to believe he's allowed to be happy and can trust in you. Wow, that ended up being a lot longer than I intended.
I really appreciate you for sharing this. You are describing verbatim what I have been experiencing, with a person who has, otherwise, been an absolutely extraordinary man and lover to me. It's been so painful, I cry so much, and my self-esteem has been plummeting. I feel so confused all the time, about who this person really is.
I have been extracting myself from the relationship, because I am unable to discern whether this behavior is going to improve, or if it is the onset of what will develop into abuse.
My gut tells me something is not right, but my heart is not is not at peace with that, the Love between us is unforgably sincere, and no matter how much I watch, read, or listen too, I cannot sort out psychogically what is going on here. Nothing 'fits'.
He demonstrates almost every single sign that ive come across from all the coaches, for a man who is invested, serious, and falling in love. But he keeps having these episode of anger, just like you describe, and I can tell its insecurity, but its all fight fight fight fight fight, and getting accused of things I didn't say/think/imply/mean. My mind gets twisted into knots and my heart breaks deeper every time. There is no effort to create resolution on his part, whatsoever, ever. He accepts no responsibility or accountability, and only rarely apologizes, but does not demonstrate remorse. He will just, all of a sudden start being nice again, and "put it all behind" and "move forward", but he never fully comes back to me, and then the anger all comes back again, and again and again, increasingly fueled by previous angers that never got resolved, bcs he doesn't want to process it and build from it.
Its shredding my heart, and my self-esteem, and my confidence, and my sense of value and self-worth~~ all of which, are things that I deeply need to develop and build and make stronger, even on the very best of days.
Thanks for listening🙏🏽 and for sharing🙏🏽 please dont feel obligated to respond, but i appreciate any insight you may have if you feel called to share.
God bless🌹
I’m where you are talking about right now with mine. Its hard watching him fight what we could have because of past demons... It hurts to sit back and be patient and let him work it out...
@@freshstrt3140 have a look into personality disorders like narcissism. And also attachment styles. For some people it's an automatic self defense mode and for others it's calculated, strategic abuse to have their own needs met at your expense. But having your self esteem eroded is very serious and can take years to heal from if you don't get out soon.
@@strongerasone2403 Thank you so much for writing to me. I appreciate your insights, and remembering I'm not alone, and what im dealing with is to be taken seriously. Thank you very much for your support.
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There is a guy i love such that i cant date anyone else, we have been friends foe 7 months now sometimes he shows like he has feelings for me. I help please
@@mwansalubumbula7648 forget it..not worth it.
I could listen to you for hours, heaps of insightful content served in a calm, almost soothing manner. Always a pleasure to tune in ;)
thank you!
Clayton is SO good. I usually start these type videos & in 2 secs I'm losing focus. Not with Clayton! I'm with you on that. Can't believe I found his channel! I sure need it tho, PRONTO!! It's been a while since I loved a man. But things are picking up in a big way now. Being IN LOVE is just SO SPECIAL!! If we could just bottle it up, we would be all set!!
Clayton U R WONDERFUL!!
I totally agree
Thank you.. All of these things were present in my relationship and I love him with all my heart. I am saddened that we broke things off due to his fears, and uncomfortableness. I truly feel he was afraid of being hurt. I will say everything you pointed out was present in his behavior.
Excellent timing. It's good to know what's normal psychologically, in the vulnerable sense, for men. Such great insight!
Happy you found this valuable, Autumnpixx
LOVE this program about LOVE!! LOVE CLAYTON FOR MAKING THESE VERY HELPFUL, INFORMATIVE, INTESTING & INSIGHTFUL VIDEOS!! THANKS CLAYTON!!!!
Clayton is great for this type of program!
In the same regard, once you feel like your partner accepts the things about you that you're apprehensive about, when the "honeymoon" starts wearing off it can be devastating when they make derogatory comments about those things you thought they were okay with. It's a lot easier to "fall in love" than it is to stay there.
I really appreciate how Clayton goes so in-depth in his video clips. He truly describes human nature in a way you seldom come across in these kind of videos. It’s very deep and insightful.
Thank you, Cecilia. I hope you’ve been following my work recently as well.
i ended up smiling and blushing like an idiot because he has done this for years.
You always present your topics with valuable information in an intelligent, well spoken manner. I really get alot out of them, thank you Clayton.
Thanks for the feedback, Laura. I'm glad this is how you are receiving me.
Laura Vanschaick he loves me he loves me not!
I don't remember my husband ever exhibiting these signs. I don't know if he has ever loved me.
His love language might be different from yours, thus causing you to ask yourself this..take a love language test with him
I have literally watched every single one of your videos in their entirety and you always share such wonderful ideas, concepts, and advice. Thank you for putting all of this out to the world. You have helped me so much in my personal relationships with both my boyfriend and myself. Really appreciate you. Your channel is the best that I've found! Cheers!!
Properties by Natalie,I admire your lovely smile!😊😊😊
Thank you, Natalie. Whether you’re referring to Mark or me, I appreciate it.
Some men are so afraid to fall in love, because they don't want to waste their time without having some level of assurance from their partners. They can get scared that the same level of love or affection towards their partners might not be reciprocated. It's for this reason that they may sometimes be misunderstood as playboys.
I am in awe of how in depth and well thought out this delicate topic has been clarified! Thank you so much
The way u did the intro gave me anxiety but I appreciated the rest of the video. Thanks for your work!
am African but my boyfriend does the exact things you mentioned, even though our way of doing things is different .Thank you have learnt something
Dear person reading this YOU deserve beyond a gazillion hugs to beyond a gazillion times and beyond that and beyond that and beyond that and beyond that and beyond that and beyond that!😃
This video was so beautiful and powerful. It penetrated my heart. Your explanation is literally the only video I've found on TH-cam on this topic that sounds real, authentic, vulnerable and that has captivated me and my attention. As i was listening to you i heard what the Lord had been showing and demonstrating to me through dreams the whole time. Now it makes sense. Thank you so much for this elaboration. Far from the superficial, trendy, bland videos people do on this topic. It never satisfies.
Wow i’d love to feel that kind of energy from a man. I’m realizing more than ever now that my husband never really truly loved me. I mean I know he “has love” for me but he’s never been “in love” with me.
"Falling in love" is an emotion that has nothing to do with love, and actual love is a choice the other person makes to seek the best for you, so if your husband acts this way then he does love you. "Falling in love' is nice, but it is for juveniles. Don't get bad ideas about your marriage just from one youtube video on teen dating advice.
July HoneyBee maybe your husband never experience love . So he can't give you what he don't have or know of. Or he has been hurt bad in the past. Pray - God created marriage , God can change hearts
he probably did love you at some point... bad time to be discussing it in trying times..
July HoneyBee You are NOT the only one. By far! I feel sad when I hear those words. But you know what? Jesus loves you more than anyone in this world could EVER love you! You are NEVER alone. He knows you. Better than you think you know yourself. It sounds like you shouldn't have married this guy.
Duke too good your comment. Thank you
Sensitive, informative and nuanced presentation on this topic. I like that you provide a breadth of examples allowing for better understanding of the points, rather than being solution based.
Thank you!
Recognize the clingyness. They want you there, they don't want you to leave them although you've had contact in just a little while. That could also mean that they just got out of a relationship and are heartbrokened, though. Beware, ladies!
Vixinaful - or they are narcissistic- I avoid those at all costs
Or in my case, got stood up and not sure how serious she is
Clingyness is your inner voice telling you it probably won't last. Incompatibility is hard to accept but the ability to recognize it early on will save you years of heartache.
clingy, yes can mean just ended a relationship, but the clingy and smothering, too nice.. you feel like you cant even go for a walk around places and breathe as they will have their arms around you none stop, especially early days. gut or intuition saying somethings wrong, im unsure, listen to it... as it only gets uglier especially when their true selves come out. avoid as early as you can.. the longer these people have hold of you where half an hour if that down the shops alone turns into 40 missed calls or them rocking up rather quick to a family members or friends saying where are they.......... Trust me, you don't want that. ive seen it heaps, its been in my life, ive seen even male family cop this crap from women too but they tend to do things a bit differently..... it dont matter, stay away from them and YES NARCISSISTIC, avoid .. which above warnings, narcissistic seems to be in there too.
and as for the being stood up, perhaps it was a good thing. if any of this stuff was coming out, being stood up, many would wish that they where stood up.
@@deannaking2122 Why not just be a man about it
The falling in love process: #1 Drop of judgement in the direction of missing up the evil and being trapped in the illusion of intimating with an Angel.
#2 loose confidence. This is revealed by a jealous behavior. The person is out of control. Can't help but to feel insecure. The selfconfidence has been taken away by this process of "falling in love".
#3 intoxication by worries about the "other".
Now when the male sees a potential as a long term relationship he will start to integrate you in his inner circle and in his daily life activities and routine.
I don't give all my love anymore you get hurt that way ppl always let u down don't do it
I totally agree with you!!
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While I agree that you can get hurt, I don’t think you should give up on love!
10 days in and he’s displaying jealousy and possessiveness. He says he’s the best man for me and he’s here to make me happy. Very determined to protect me.
I want this to work for both of us.
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Love dont exist anymore. Ive tried n all i get is hurt. No man is afraid to lose me. I feel like most men r players, users n losers. I want someone that loves me more than ever. But im giving up. Have to get used to being alone
Thats sad and I have done that myself..but..the problem with this is..you end up ALONE..stop trying so Hard..maybe try learning how to love you 1st..you may be surprised at how that changes who amd what you attract..not only in "love" but in friends.
Linda Geiling yeah men r not afraid of losing d girl. They hv options they don't prioritize u. Dats d thing. It's a trauma.
Thank you Clayton. It does clear up a few things. He is a strong believer in actions speak louder then words. In the past he has always expressed himself by yelling and being condescending, he started out that way with me but for a year now he hasn't done that. There are numerous other things he had started out doing but no longer does them.
I think you're one of the best coaches on the planet Clayson. Thankyou for inspiring me to show up more deeply x
Jay Diamond then you don't no Ralph smart .
I appreciate that you kept this on an emotional level.
I love your energy, very masculine and very deeply heart centred
Hello Tammie hope you’re having a wonderful day?
Really coach. Olsen enjoyed that!!! Happy. Valentine's. Day in advance!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Although I agree with MOST of what Clayton has said, I disagree with the point he made about the guy wanting something "long-term". I've seen guys demonstrate ALL of those signs, yet say that they don't want commitments. I've broken up with a guy because he did not want a commitment, although those signs were demonstrated. I'd like to think of myself as experienced; however, I'm confused now.
Hi Pamela, thanks for the comments. What i'm saying, is that if the man is wanting something long-term along with some of those other signals I pointed out, he may be falling in love.
As a man I can absolutely confirm what Pamela has said. The reason is that "falling in love" is just an emotion and unless a man has real love for you, which is a choice he decides to make and it does not happen by accident, then he can just as easily "fall out of love". So while this video is correct in describing the sings of a man falling in love, it perpetuates the false idea that that is even important. Ladies, you don't need to worry about whether he is falling in love; you need to judge whether he is a man of good character. Everything else is secondary.
Hi honey same here. He showed those signs and when I brought up the issue of getting married he broke up with me out of the blue.
Some one says love and care for you. That's not LOVE
What happens when you have not met him yet but still fall in love on both side
Love is not really an Emotions but one goes out and get loved or love is ñ doing Charisma thing 🙂👏
How could one detect that one is in love with you in a long distance situation, but each of you regularly respond and talk to each other
You really can't unfortunately.
Exactly very difficult.
Annabella Nillas,I admire your lovely smile!😊😊😊
Thank you so much. I've watched a number on online youtube relationship advice stuff and no one... and I do mean no one has worded what goes on so straightforwardly and accurately wuth no gimmicks no buts etc. I have found you to be very insightful and your videos have given me confidence in myself and where I am going relationship wise thank you very very much!
Where will I find Such a Wonderful Husband with all these qualities and soon😊
You will only find him in Christ Jesus cuz when we believe AND trust in Him 'our lives are hid in Christ in God'
Colossians 3
King James Version
3 If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God.
2 Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth.
3 For ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God.
4 When Christ, who is our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory.
Anything outside of that is confusion n regret. The Christian journey is no bed of roses, we will hav problems as any other human but to have that true Peace n Understanding with God's love helps to combat lifes ups n downs. We are not really living life to its full potential until one connects with Christ Jesus thru believing on what are did and sacrificed for mankind. Only then can the word of God be activated in ones life to be able to have that hidden life revealed and unravel. Once to ppl are connected to th True and Living God can they understand each other better and see th bigger picture which is God himself. Ultimately bcus God is love. So let us learn our lessons frm th one who has all th answers . . .
When one is spiritually connected th Christ Jesus and th other partner isn't there's definitely and imbalance spiritually that will problems in th day t day living to get worse naturally. If both seek their hidden lives in Christ in God then He gives us the tools for th job . .
Example: If yu buy a Roll Royce only that company can repair it n not some bk street garage. Same with our lives n relationship only God can restore and build it bk up bcus He is the Creator of mankind.
Yes one may talk to friends n love ones n counsellors who will help n assist yu, that can have a positive effect on your situation if the advice is good and some of it will b good bcus we are made in His image but Ultimately for that full Councelling for our spiritual lives and natural ups and down we need God and His instruction manual. That manual is the Word of God 📖
King James Version Bible
Pls go to any Rightly Dividing video on Yutube for further guidance n knowledge
Good day
2nd Timothy 2v15
this is a great video. it makes lots of sense, and I love it. my guy is falling into all of these things mentioned in this video. I love him, and never want to loose him.
I dont want anyone to fall in love with me when I am not interested in them.
The clarity you just gave me! What a gem!
Love that.
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Three "hidden" signs. "Hidden". "HIDDEN" Really. IF THEY ARE HIDDEN HOW IS THE OTHER PERSON SUPPOSED TO SEE THEM OR RECOGNISE THEM???? DAMN
True love is more of an inner quality and we need insight to see it. I believe that is what makes love more valuable than diamonds. Think about this... diamonds are brilliance because of the fine craftsmanship but they also need light to sparkle in beauty. Actually, it is light that reflects such brilliance and beauty and not the diamonds, for without light they is useless.
Snow Angel If you have a diamond that doesn’t sparkle without light, that is a junk diamond.
My Fiancé has all of the characteristics of “The Right One”. I was with someone for 17 years who was abused when he was younger but I loved him still until the very end (my kids’s father passed away in 2019 😔🙏🏾). Yes, he had more bad days than good days but when he had his good days, they were the best 😁💕! My fiancé (who’s in the military) is sooo encouraging to me and positive to me EVERY TIME I’M down, he builds me up…EVERY TIME! God knows how to put blessings in your life when you feel
Like there is no way that you feel like there’s no one for you 😍🥰💯
I’m sorry about the passing of your children’s father. I’m glad you have a fiancé now. I wish you all the best. The last part was good. I hope that things will fall into place for me.
Thanks sooo very much 🥰🥰
Clayton U R AWESOME! How did U know I needed your help??? Your voice is made for videos. You have a LOT of insight!! That's a HUGE blessing for us who need your help! SO happy I found U. Keep doing what U do!! You have a great thing going on here. Thanks SO much!!
WILD WOMAN and thanks for not having us sit for 20 minutes to get to the “point” or the “insight or clarity” that you plan on sharing. I loathe the “teasers” via ads that promise information they will gladly deliver for $xx.xx dollars and will throw in a cd if you click now. Drives me nuts.
We met in our 30s, and I knew I was loving him fairly quickly. When I couldn’t hold my emotions in, they kind of made him uncomfortable. He said how do you know you’ll love me in five years. I answered that I didn’t know, but if I don’t it doesn’t mean that I didn’t love you today. I didn’t realize until much later that he couldn’t tell me that he loved me until he knew he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. He showed caring very well before he said it, but once he did say it, not a day passed without us saying and showing love for the nearly 42 years that we got together. I lost him 16 months ago.
I can’t even get a guy to text me back 😭😂
FairyBlossom & Friends ASMR
They are being jerks.
Make them hang like they do us.
No scott I don’t your so shallow
I can't tell you how much your coaching has improved my relationship. Thank you 💖
Hello lady hope you’re having a wonderful day?
Your description is quite insightful and helpful....wish i had heard you when i was younger and before i ended my last possible relationship. do you have insights for senior people by any chance???
Listening to you, I can believe there are good men out there.
There is great men out there an I got the 1 of a kind😁❤❤❤❤
This is great info and sooo true! I’ve seen all of these with my guy it’s surreal. Thank you for sharing!