My man did all of these throughout our relationship. Within the first month and a half I knew he was falling in love with me. After 6 moths we moved in together and 4 days before our first year together we got engaged! 2022 wedding!
I'm at the beginning of this story. Its been like 2 months and he's so into it in a healthy way. I hope we can reach a similar ending. Congratulations btw!
1. He starts to see the preciousness that you are. 2. Increase in volatility or calmness 3. Awareness and consideration. 4. Emotional momentum. 5. Deep and wide integration with his friends and co worker . You are welcome 😁
@@CrystalDatingCoach happy birthday ❤️ I’m Davis from Tampa Florida I’m to seek for friendship with you that why I wrote you earlier,can we chat elsewhere if you don’t mind?
When my (now) husband gave me his home address and personal phone number (instead of hiding them as a form of protection) was my first sign of his OPEN character. When he told me honesty about his life, his former marriage, his children and his family of origin. Then when he introduced me to his grown children, his family, his friends and invited me into his workplace with his workmates and took me to his church family - this was another step. Then when we began to talk about making a new life together and he offered his first marriage story, his part in the divorce and his sexual background... things began to get real serious. Then ultimately, when he began to openly share his finances, his life goals and his inner life and his needs...I knew that we were on our way. We were married within one and a half years and we have been married now for 25 years.
You can feel it if he is being genuine in your gut. Yes, he would give his time, energy and enthusiasm to you, share his life with you, wanna learn more about you, but the effort and consistency should align with his words and body language, tone of voice. It's a lot, but you'll know deep down.
Awwww I love this. Made me smile because the first time I met my husband's work friends, they knew everything about me and told me that all he talks about is me... This still happens with his work friends(now his employees) who know all the cute stories of stuff I tell my husband about our kids.... 😍 He's such a great partner. And I always appreciated him giving me his paycheques. Now that he owns the company; I love it when he pays himself.... He doesn't do it enough but that's how it is when you are the boss... He is such a great guy 😍
My partner went through the volatile and calm stage. My ex was violent and when I explained this to my partner he became incredibly calm. His previous partners were only interested in him for money and were very materialistic. I love him for who he is and told him I love him for being the man he is. I've never been materialistic anyway and although money is important it's the man I fell in love with. It's the small things I do that he appreciates and loves about me that nobody else has done for him before. For example, sewing a hole in his pocket, knitting a scarf for him when it's cold outside, trying to look after him when he's sick. He keeps talking about getting married but hasn't officially proposed yet.
He said it explicitly that he is interested but then deserted me for 1 week without leaving any note. We were supposed to meet next week but yesterday I decided to make other plans 🤷🏻♀️
The guy I started seeing is doing all of this and more. He was my first friend, ever. We met when when we were 4 and we had our first kiss together as little kids. We just started talking again after being apart for 25 years😊
Introducing you to his parents.. Yeah thought that was an obvious one too until I met a guy who did exactly that. 2 weeks later, right before the most important exam of my life (finals at uni), where I needed all the support from everyone around me, he said he wasn't ready for a relationship. Didn't hear from him for 3 weeks. Then he texted me "hey, how are you? :)" HOW I AM? fucking scarred for life dude. BYE. Story of my life^^
Oooph! Are you me? I had the same thing happen to me! Finals Week during University and he broke up with me a couple of days before the final exam. Awkward Moment: We were both in the same class and our final was a formal presentation to the class. The good news is I passed my final with flying colors! I made sure to give the best presentation and speech and not let it bother me. He looked genuinely surprised at how confident I was! Woot! I made eye contact with my audience except for him. I just mentally took him out of the room. Boy bye.
The more videos I watch this evening about relationships, the more heartbroken I am feeling. I don't think my boyfriend is really in love with me. He is just living in my studio, because he lost his job, then his house, and then Covid19 came, and now he's here forever.
Tell him to go away he's a looser. A man who loves you will not let you think two times or being noisy in the internet to know if he or don't love you.
Watch out for the friend who has relationship problems. We had this one friend who it was always his relationship problems and it started to leek into our relationship. Example, if the friend is always double dating or the third wheel, where you feel like you/he can't go on a date with just the two of you. The friend divorced; two years later, my husband asked me for a divorce. Very strange. I understand this guy has been his BFF for years, but it was like his friend constantly complained and it spilled into my husband's thoughts where even though we hardly argued, he'd start to pick a fight over silly, little things. Crazy but true.
I met My guy during the toughest of My life seasons.We met one night on the street when I was trying to find solutions to My challenges.He gave His precious time & attention to the conversations We had with the accompaniment of His One Male friend.He said that He sees the Preciousness that I am.And the whole time He's around Me,He likes eyecontact, just touching Me in amazement.He says I'm a wonder.And says all the beautiful compliments.He claims that when He's @work everytime He thinks of Me,He smiles alone.And His Colleagues are surprised why.😂😅Love is beautiful.
I have been dating this guy for 8 months. He's a nice guy. I have meet his brother and his sister's. He's helped me a lot. I cook him meals. He tells me he loves me and I tell him.
We are a mixed and age gap couple, he's a 34 yo man from south italy and I'm a 21 yo italian-pakistani. We have a lot of challenges to face because of my conservative background. Even tho he always says that he loves me, I've noticed that he's really sincere when he says that. He's putting up with all the challenges and people that don't want us together, my conservative family (I'm still hiding him because of the circumstances that are not favourable) and I can see that he really means it. He's also has a light form of Asperger' syndrome so it's pretty hard for him to express his deep thoughts, and now he's really opening up to me naturally, I've never forced him in any way to do or say anything he doesn't want to. You didn't talk about the eyes, they never lie❤ I've "chased" him for months and I also listened to some of your advices from many videos, thank you so much, I've found my soul mate!
@@jenn151337 don't be judgemental. We both had relationships with people our age. Plus, our relationship it's not based on our age gap or any other power dynamic. You can't choose who you fall in love with
@Sun Flower who told you we have a communication problem? My original comment was from a year ago, we have been going strong for a year even tho we both had traumatic experiences (we both lost a parent and job). It's a really light form of autism, not a disability. Or even tho it was, everybody deserve to be loved
What is the best way to show a man that you love him? I found the love of my life and he is always taking care of me or being their for me. I just want to do something for him but I'm not good at being romantic.
Romance is not what he needs. He just needs you and your beautiful femininity!! Being aware of his needs is a huge thing. Letting him know how much you appreciate him is another big thing etc...
Sometimes it's the little things that can have a big impact on him. Think of the ways he takes care of you and do the same. For example, when you are sick what does he do for you? So when he is sick do the same for him. Be there for him when he needs you as well. Ask him what he loves about you and do more of the things he loves about you.
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All 5 checked :D ... lucky me finally ........ But what matters is the type of person he is. Observe him first, before anything romantic starts to happen. Don't let the attraction trick you. Pay attention! Only if he's a quality man, you have a chance at a healthy strong relationship. It also depends the type of person the woman is. She needs to truly know what she wants and to believe she deserves the type of man she wants. And then communicate in an open healthy way. Don't be afraid to express what you want, what you expect ... of course in a kind way. A good man who is in love with you, will respond very well. Men have insecurities, doubts and fears too. Be considerate. And be yourself boldly! And walk away from those who don't deserve you. Be single when a great guy comes ypur way :P
I love the last sign you guys mention in this video. It's something my current boyfriend started doing and I didn't realize it was to give me a better perspective of who he is. Thanks!
I love that the points aren't the ones you see all over TH-cam🤗 The friends talking to you point isn't totally secure. I had some guy friends that sweet talked their guy's gf & called her his wife knowing fully well she was a side chick lol
I really enjoy that you’re allowing everyone that tunes in to reap the benefits of your knowledge. Thank you! Another great video, Have a good day and keep smiling ❤️
My daughter says I'm shallow. She may be right, but I just feel like, if theres no attraction, friendship is the way to go. I cant be in a relationship with a man who i dont want to touch me. He could be the nicest guy in the world, but if the thought of him touching me makes me cringe, does that make me shallow? Theres a super nice guy i work with that I can tell likes me, i mean, if im not mistaken, he seems like hes falling in love with me. We're sooo compatible it's not even funny. Hes a gentleman. He respects me. Hes everything a girl could want. BUT im just not physically attracted to him. My daughter doesnt get why I wont take it to the next level. This is where she thinks I'm shallow. I know im a bit off subject, but just thought I'd share this.
Great advice! Thank you ☺️ I’ll look out for the signs. But how to NOT overestimate and read too much into his behaviour? What if I’ll look for signs of love where there is none?
Everything that you’ve said Today is so true ! My Boyfriend told Me He loves me it was so so perfect and romantic And the way he looks at me ah it honestly Is so hard to explain I can quote physically feel the love going through my Body it is just beautiful 🙊❤️ I’m sorry but I want to shout it I am So in love it’s just such a beautiful thing
He started to get excited when I cosplay or talked about crystals. He also even started watching horror movies. HE HATES THEM. the first time we met he told me he hated them, then we watched one. HE LOVES THEM. He let's me spill tea. He let's me vent.
Awesome advice!! Seek healthy balanced relationships!! Beware of the covert narcissist: don't fall into their trap: appearances are deceiving, long distance relationships aren't ideal: especially if they live @ the other end of the U.S.A. If you have any doubts that pop up in your mind, be sure to give it thoughtful consideration B4 jumping into marriage & have a long engagement, as a real relationship will make the wait worthwhile: narcissists can't wait very long. ~Ideal to be alone, then with the wrong person!!
Can you make a video, analyzing the characteristics of a feminine VS mascular men! And how they show LOVE. Because each human being is unique on there own ways. Some men are more sensitive and feminine (not necessarily gay, but have this characteristic) and others more muscular and aggressive. Whatever the type of man, i would be very interesting in learning how they behave and how we can behave around different type of men. I really appreaciate your hard work and perseverance on TH-cam Videos. It would mean the world to me to do those ideas - videos.
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A four-year relationship I was in ended a few months ago. All the signs that you mentioned were evident in the first two years of the relationship, especially, but I definitely saw an increase in volatility. After a year into the relationship, he went deeper into his addictions to numb himself. I think I was holding back because he I felt I had to take care of him financially and emotionally. Now he says he's falling in love with someone else already. I'm disillusioned and digging deep to find answers! Thank you for your webinars!
😞am so sorry.. a lot of men resent women who help them.. so don't help a man financially.. am definitely sure you will find a great man who appreciates your beautiful self
I love the message of this video. I've been really wondering what's happening with my guy atm. He's becoming closer emotionally these days 🥰 now I understand why ❤️
Was dating this wonderful man that I had been LDR 2 hour distance with 7 months. I ended it as we never spent more than 2-4 hours together, even after driving 2 hours!! I started feeling less connected to him and advised him of it and said let's try harder. I did and really dug to infuse him in my life, but really he just always had to work, adult kids, grand children, which was great, but again he did not infuse me. Wow, so I ended it month ago. His response, ok well, take care!!🤪
My ex invited himself to my parents for Xmas 😂 He hadn’t met them before that. He’s my ex, but he text me to show the sentimental artwork I made for him on his living room wall. So no idea what he’s thinking.
Ronda S he’s asked me to paint him another too, and he said he’s coming on holiday to where I live. So no idea what’s going on. We talk every other day. x
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These days everybody think is an expert! when the only credible expert and life coach is your own self, even if you were to make bad choices in life. Furthermore there is no such thing as a specific number of ways, hidden or known, a man does to know if someone is falling in love with them. Expressing love is as infinite as the reasons why people hate falling in love. If only men and women learn to understand each other's intricacies and differences, and seek advise by talking with one another, instead of seeking advise from a total stranger online, they will stop with the guessing!
Wow this was super helpful. My boyfriend for a while has been telling me that he is in love with me. I didn’t believe him. Before we started dating, he told me about he's a hopeless romantic. So whenever he said I love you I thought of him as just some lover boy who didn’t comprehend his emotions. And sure, he talked to his friends about me and his family knows my name in a way that you would think I would have been his Fiancé. But I still never thought anything of it. Until now. I needed clarity on where he stood in his heart for me and now I am nothing but flattered and ready to really love him without fear that he's just in lust with me. It almost makes me want to cry because I doubted him for so long. This video was SO helpful. Thank you guys.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ouch ... I know that feeling too well, but have to say ... you never know what's coming your way ... good OR baf. I spent 15 years ... yep, 15 ... allowing myself the luxury of not being obsessed by any relationship anything. Wham ... I'm in a relationship with a guy that I could never planned!! Don't give up.
Can a man be scared of falling in love with you? Why would a man say: I have to keep from falling for you??? We have really good bond, he does so many things for me, pays attention yet keeps me at arm length. Always reminding himself and me: when this is over.... when you meet someone else... keeping himself from attaching (not really keeping in contact between 'dates) Him keeping me at arm length I follow him and keep the armlength too. though I am not in anxiety mode at all. I'm like ok, if that is what you want.... I enjoy the moment cause to be honest at this stage in life I am not scared to get hurt.... He might be playing me or not, and I am not afraid of that. I don't see it as being taken advantage of, cause I do enjoy it as well and am absolutely not attached to the outcome. How can I create a safe space for him so he can see it is ok to just be him and go with the flow of his feelings?
Omg yh I’m in a ldr and I think u know he loves u if he’s told his family and friends about u and calls and texts u I mean if a guy loves u it’s just a feeling and u know
I knew my first boyfriend's family and friends, and was even introduced in front of the grave of his deceased best friend. In the end he cheated with his ex, broke up with me, returned to her; the he broke up with her a year later and attempted to contact me again. lol... What is love?
Me too and the new video Today was like wow it was the 7 signs of a great/ healthy relationship and I realized I never thought about my feelings for my best friend always caught up in the feelings for my crush that were going nowhere.
Can y’all make a video about...saying “I love you” and he doesn’t say it back?! Or he says he is falling but still doesn’t say it back. I regret saying it now...it’s been 3 weeks and the topic hasn’t come up
Some good, useful information here. Makes me wonder if I'm not keeping too much distance from the man I'm into. I've often noticed a change in his behaviour when I'm around, could be this volatility you mentioned (whereas in general, he's pretty confident and relaxed). Thanks for the vid 👍
What do I do if he says he dosent want a commitment or a girlfriend..but keeps texting and calling and spending time together? 😢❤ and he is cautious about introducing you to his friends or family 😢
Thank you somuch.. I just met a wonderful mena and now were friends and will be bestfriends yes he just admit that I'm the precious one and he fall inlove with me.. I felt the same way too. I loved him now.im happy one of the greatest things happen this year.. ❤😊
I just love you two..I have a wonderful guy checks all my boxes only thing is he is nervous to meet my kids and worried it could reuin our relationship. I've never introduced my kids to any man before. He gets along great with my oldest though it's my younger two. Hes 27 I'm 10 yrs older.He wants to know when we can relocate and get a home togther. I told him we will see how things go. Been togther 5 months known for 7 months. We do everything togther, hes my bestfriend, were amazing together....I'm in a dilemma. I know my value and hes successful too. I dont know what to do🤷♀️
takes time my love, and please take this time to hurt, build, learn, and ultimately turn you into a warrior. If you can successfully heal, keep your head, and legitimately work on the physical and emotional weak spots, while simultaneously not turning to just anyone pretty much for attention.. lean on the people that have always loved u for you during this time of healing and growth, I promise, I promise you will not go astray. N remember your family may not b real fam at all to you, so b careful w who you trust your most vulnerable self w. I love you, because I was you.. but guess what, I finally got my true love ❤
1. He Starts to See the Preciousness in You
2. More Volatily or Calm
3. Awareness and Consideration
4. Emotional Momentum
5. Deep and Wide Integration
That's brilliant - thanks so much Duchess of Potato Land xx
yes , this is true
The fourth Sounds like an Harry Potter magic soooooooooo bad
Thanks!
English plz lol
My man did all of these throughout our relationship. Within the first month and a half I knew he was falling in love with me. After 6 moths we moved in together and 4 days before our first year together we got engaged! 2022 wedding!
I wish you the best!
I'm at the beginning of this story. Its been like 2 months and he's so into it in a healthy way. I hope we can reach a similar ending. Congratulations btw!
Congratulations 🎉
Yay!! Congrats
Aaaaw, best best wishes!
1. He starts to see the preciousness that you are.
2. Increase in volatility or calmness
3. Awareness and consideration.
4. Emotional momentum.
5. Deep and wide integration with his friends and co worker .
You are welcome 😁
He gives you his Time. All of it You want to see him... He makes himself available.
Hello crystal hope you’re having a wonderful day?
@@davismarthin451 Yes. Thanks. Year was my Birthday!
@@CrystalDatingCoach happy birthday ❤️ I’m Davis from Tampa Florida I’m to seek for friendship with you that why I wrote you earlier,can we chat elsewhere if you don’t mind?
When my (now) husband gave me his home address and personal phone number (instead of hiding them as a form of protection) was my first sign of his OPEN character. When he told me honesty about his life, his former marriage, his children and his family of origin. Then when he introduced me to his grown children, his family, his friends and invited me into his workplace with his workmates and took me to his church family - this was another step. Then when we began to talk about making a new life together and he offered his first marriage story, his part in the divorce and his sexual background... things began to get real serious. Then ultimately, when he began to openly share his finances, his life goals and his inner life and his needs...I knew that we were on our way. We were married within one and a half years and we have been married now for 25 years.
Thats the way it should be done!
You’re blessed!!!
Blessings
You just literally described the beginning of the relationship I’ve been exploring. Thank you so much sharing! ❤❤❤
Congratulations on 25 years 🙌 here's to many more ❤️
It is my experience of one thing.....ladies make sure any man you spend time with should be able to PROTECT AND PROVIDE utmost importance
*Love often shows itself in small, subtle actions. Let's pay attention and appreciate these hidden signs of a man falling in love.*
You can feel it if he is being genuine in your gut. Yes, he would give his time, energy and enthusiasm to you, share his life with you, wanna learn more about you, but the effort and consistency should align with his words and body language, tone of voice. It's a lot, but you'll know deep down.
Awwww I love this. Made me smile because the first time I met my husband's work friends, they knew everything about me and told me that all he talks about is me... This still happens with his work friends(now his employees) who know all the cute stories of stuff I tell my husband about our kids.... 😍 He's such a great partner. And I always appreciated him giving me his paycheques. Now that he owns the company; I love it when he pays himself.... He doesn't do it enough but that's how it is when you are the boss... He is such a great guy 😍
Wow! sounds like you have a great man there, happy! Really happy for you. Thanks for sharing! x
Your partner sounds amazing , I would like one like that too 😊🌸
So nice to hear!! Hope you grow old together..keep the spice in your marriage and keep loving and respecting each other
My partner went through the volatile and calm stage. My ex was violent and when I explained this to my partner he became incredibly calm. His previous partners were only interested in him for money and were very materialistic. I love him for who he is and told him I love him for being the man he is. I've never been materialistic anyway and although money is important it's the man I fell in love with. It's the small things I do that he appreciates and loves about me that nobody else has done for him before. For example, sewing a hole in his pocket, knitting a scarf for him when it's cold outside, trying to look after him when he's sick. He keeps talking about getting married but hasn't officially proposed yet.
It's the small things isn't it
He said it explicitly that he is interested but then deserted me for 1 week without leaving any note. We were supposed to meet next week but yesterday I decided to make other plans 🤷🏻♀️
Hello Sandra hope you’re having a wonderful day?
The guy I started seeing is doing all of this and more. He was my first friend, ever. We met when when we were 4 and we had our first kiss together as little kids. We just started talking again after being apart for 25 years😊
How are things going :)?
How sweet 😻
Hello Anita hope you’re having a wonderful day?
Wow that’s amazing and sweet
Introducing you to his parents.. Yeah thought that was an obvious one too until I met a guy who did exactly that. 2 weeks later, right before the most important exam of my life (finals at uni), where I needed all the support from everyone around me, he said he wasn't ready for a relationship. Didn't hear from him for 3 weeks. Then he texted me "hey, how are you? :)"
HOW I AM? fucking scarred for life dude. BYE. Story of my life^^
Did u pass ya exam?
Oooph! Are you me? I had the same thing happen to me! Finals Week during University and he broke up with me a couple of days before the final exam. Awkward Moment: We were both in the same class and our final was a formal presentation to the class. The good news is I passed my final with flying colors! I made sure to give the best presentation and speech and not let it bother me. He looked genuinely surprised at how confident I was! Woot! I made eye contact with my audience except for him. I just mentally took him out of the room. Boy bye.
Mz. Bent yeeees🥳
At this point she have to die for her to meet my parents ;)
How about my closest friends?
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The more videos I watch this evening about relationships, the more heartbroken I am feeling. I don't think my boyfriend is really in love with me. He is just living in my studio, because he lost his job, then his house, and then Covid19 came, and now he's here forever.
Tell him to go away he's a looser. A man who loves you will not let you think two times or being noisy in the internet to know if he or don't love you.
Boundaries....you deserve to have some.
He brought me in to his family, but quickly started to control me, pick fights and never let himself be vulnerable
@Sun Flower Amen.
Hope you left him and his controling obsession!! Stay Healthy...Better single and Well!!❤️❤️
"Theres something going on with my car. It needs to be washed"
Bahahahaha
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Omg hilirious
Right! Well said!
😂😂😂😂
My favourite two guys together...double the quality value. Well done!!
Thanks so much Yvonne de Wacht!
It's beautiful to be alone. To be alone does not mean to be lonely. It means the mind is not influenced and contaminated by society.
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Hello mermaid hope you’re having a wonderful day?
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Watch out for the friend who has relationship problems. We had this one friend who it was always his relationship problems and it started to leek into our relationship. Example, if the friend is always double dating or the third wheel, where you feel like you/he can't go on a date with just the two of you. The friend divorced; two years later, my husband asked me for a divorce. Very strange. I understand this guy has been his BFF for years, but it was like his friend constantly complained and it spilled into my husband's thoughts where even though we hardly argued, he'd start to pick a fight over silly, little things. Crazy but true.
I met My guy during the toughest of My life seasons.We met one night on the street when I was trying to find solutions to My challenges.He gave His precious time & attention to the conversations We had with the accompaniment of His One Male friend.He said that He sees the Preciousness that I am.And the whole time He's around Me,He likes eyecontact, just touching Me in amazement.He says I'm a wonder.And says all the beautiful compliments.He claims that when He's @work everytime He thinks of Me,He smiles alone.And His Colleagues are surprised why.😂😅Love is beautiful.
Awwwww I love that feeling!!!! I can’t wait to be in love again !
Can i bring you two on my date? You can sit at the table next to us, and give me advice. Ok? Thanks. See you there 😝😅🤗
😂😂😂 Hahaha xx
After you...date me please
better yet, Mark goes to date for you, you enjoy the bedroom
I've been in a relationship for 3 months and he has already shared his favorite childhood place with me
I have been dating this guy for 8 months. He's a nice guy. I have meet his brother and his sister's. He's helped me a lot. I cook him meals. He tells me he loves me and I tell him.
We are a mixed and age gap couple, he's a 34 yo man from south italy and I'm a 21 yo italian-pakistani. We have a lot of challenges to face because of my conservative background. Even tho he always says that he loves me, I've noticed that he's really sincere when he says that. He's putting up with all the challenges and people that don't want us together, my conservative family (I'm still hiding him because of the circumstances that are not favourable) and I can see that he really means it. He's also has a light form of Asperger' syndrome so it's pretty hard for him to express his deep thoughts, and now he's really opening up to me naturally, I've never forced him in any way to do or say anything he doesn't want to. You didn't talk about the eyes, they never lie❤ I've "chased" him for months and I also listened to some of your advices from many videos, thank you so much, I've found my soul mate!
Wtf are you doing with a 34 yr old. There are so many guys out there
@@jenn151337 don't be judgemental. We both had relationships with people our age. Plus, our relationship it's not based on our age gap or any other power dynamic. You can't choose who you fall in love with
I'm happy to hear that Sara Tanveer. I wish you all the best! xx
@Sun Flower why do I have to leave him? We both are not players and trust me, not all people are problematic
@Sun Flower who told you we have a communication problem? My original comment was from a year ago, we have been going strong for a year even tho we both had traumatic experiences (we both lost a parent and job). It's a really light form of autism, not a disability. Or even tho it was, everybody deserve to be loved
This is one hundred percent spot on & he recently died. 💔😭💔 Him and I loved each other. And it won't ever be. 💔
So sorry to hear that, Robert Webb. Thanks for sharing. Take care of yourself. 🙏🏻
What is the best way to show a man that you love him?
I found the love of my life and he is always taking care of me or being their for me. I just want to do something for him but I'm not good at being romantic.
Romance is not what he needs. He just needs you and your beautiful femininity!!
Being aware of his needs is a huge thing. Letting him know how much you appreciate him is another big thing etc...
Sometimes it's the little things that can have a big impact on him. Think of the ways he takes care of you and do the same. For example, when you are sick what does he do for you? So when he is sick do the same for him. Be there for him when he needs you as well. Ask him what he loves about you and do more of the things he loves about you.
Hello Jessica hope you’re having a wonderful day?
Or he's a stalker. They do all this in the beginning too
No one has anyone in front of them anymore. Everything is online now. So can you fall in love long distance? Is it the same?
Falling in love and not loved back hurts a lot.. I have tried making my crush love me and I tried this a couple of times ..I don’t know if it worked for anybody..well,fortunately I was able to reach out to a psychic who has helped me with my quest..guess what ☺️
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All 5 checked :D ... lucky me finally ........ But what matters is the type of person he is. Observe him first, before anything romantic starts to happen. Don't let the attraction trick you. Pay attention!
Only if he's a quality man, you have a chance at a healthy strong relationship.
It also depends the type of person the woman is. She needs to truly know what she wants and to believe she deserves the type of man she wants.
And then communicate in an open healthy way. Don't be afraid to express what you want, what you expect ... of course in a kind way.
A good man who is in love with you, will respond very well.
Men have insecurities, doubts and fears too. Be considerate.
And be yourself boldly!
And walk away from those who don't deserve you. Be single when a great guy comes ypur way :P
Sounds like you're on the right path Daniela :)
Awe....such a nice time to be a girl and watch and listen to you guys..
Thanks so much moonucky hellen!
I love the last sign you guys mention in this video. It's something my current boyfriend started doing and I didn't realize it was to give me a better perspective of who he is. Thanks!
Number 2 is SO right! Either calmer OR more volatile.
Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts, Alison Leigh!
Two of my favorite guys, great to see them back after a couple of years in my yourney. I am almost at the finish line.
Im a subscriber of Clayton too and I noticed he rarely smile 😊 and if he does its just slightly 🤭😄anyway 2 handsome men 🥰its an amazing collab 👍🏻
I love that the points aren't the ones you see all over TH-cam🤗 The friends talking to you point isn't totally secure. I had some guy friends that sweet talked their guy's gf & called her his wife knowing fully well she was a side chick lol
I really enjoy that you’re allowing everyone that tunes in to reap the benefits of your knowledge. Thank you!
Another great video, Have a good day and keep smiling ❤️
Thanks so much Faith! x
My daughter says I'm shallow. She may be right, but I just feel like, if theres no attraction, friendship is the way to go. I cant be in a relationship with a man who i dont want to touch me. He could be the nicest guy in the world, but if the thought of him touching me makes me cringe, does that make me shallow?
Theres a super nice guy i work with that I can tell likes me, i mean, if im not mistaken, he seems like hes falling in love with me. We're sooo compatible it's not even funny. Hes a gentleman. He respects me. Hes everything a girl could want. BUT im just not physically attracted to him. My daughter doesnt get why I wont take it to the next level. This is where she thinks I'm shallow.
I know im a bit off subject, but just thought I'd share this.
Great advice! Thank you ☺️ I’ll look out for the signs. But how to NOT overestimate and read too much into his behaviour? What if I’ll look for signs of love where there is none?
Clay's eye color is poppin
Everything that you’ve said
Today is so true ! My
Boyfriend told
Me
He loves me it was so so perfect and romantic
And the way he looks at me ah it honestly
Is so hard to explain I can quote physically feel the love going through my
Body it is just beautiful 🙊❤️ I’m sorry but I want to shout it I am
So in love it’s just such a beautiful thing
Congratulations!!
“the way he looks at me”, I can relate. It feels like an emotional warm “hug”.
Wow the way he looks at me
He started to get excited when I cosplay or talked about crystals. He also even started watching horror movies. HE HATES THEM. the first time we met he told me he hated them, then we watched one. HE LOVES THEM. He let's me spill tea. He let's me vent.
He seems to be much mire calm and definitely wants me ib his space and takes time to be with me, talks much more!
These are good signs, Mary! Thanks for sharing.
Awesome advice!! Seek healthy balanced relationships!! Beware of the covert narcissist: don't fall into their trap: appearances are deceiving, long distance relationships aren't ideal: especially if they live @ the other end of the U.S.A. If you have any doubts that pop up in your mind, be sure to give it thoughtful consideration B4 jumping into marriage & have a long engagement, as a real relationship will make the wait worthwhile: narcissists can't wait very long. ~Ideal to be alone, then with the wrong person!!
Can you make a video, analyzing the characteristics of a feminine VS mascular men! And how they show LOVE.
Because each human being is unique on there own ways. Some men are more sensitive and feminine (not necessarily gay, but have this characteristic) and others more muscular and aggressive. Whatever the type of man, i would be very interesting in learning how they behave and how we can behave around different type of men.
I really appreaciate your hard work and perseverance on TH-cam Videos. It would mean the world to me to do those ideas - videos.
I got chills. The perfect man and I found each other :)
Great to hear that, Briana Kelley, thanks for sharing! Happy for you!😊
Clayton is one of the best coaching advise i have seen. 😍😍😍
I agree! He's brilliant :D
I LOVED working with Clayton - he is seriously so so good at what he does. Make sure you check out his incredible web class (link in desc), and post your question below so we can answer it when he and I do our next Q and A together!
I love listening to you and Clayton together great listening and watching...you're both awesome handsome teachers
Mark Rosenfeld also, when Clayton talks about volatility @ 2:40 +/- can you please give some examples?
Why the hell you messing with Alex from mindful attraction 2.0 leave him tf alone!
Right! He is wonderful, very genuine und right on spot. But you are too.
It was awesome man. Very inspiring and energizing to do work with you! Loved our time in Austin. Great conversations and fun on the town.
A four-year relationship I was in ended a few months ago. All the signs that you mentioned were evident in the first two years of the relationship, especially, but I definitely saw an increase in volatility. After a year into the relationship, he went deeper into his addictions to numb himself. I think I was holding back because he I felt I had to take care of him financially and emotionally. Now he says he's falling in love with someone else already. I'm disillusioned and digging deep to find answers! Thank you for your webinars!
😞am so sorry.. a lot of men resent women who help them.. so don't help a man financially.. am definitely sure you will find a great man who appreciates your beautiful self
Omg. Never expected to see you two in one video! Great work.
Thanks so much yanniyangq!
Clayton is very insightful. I love his perspective.
Clayton is one of the very best! Loved our time in Austin together :D
❤ thank you
Omg my guy is fall in love with me 😭😭
Panita L hahahaha
Mine too 😍
Mine is too..
Still together?
Rubbish you are just saying this because mark and clyton are telling you what to look for so i do not beileve you
Very nice discussion! A very powerful duo of dating coach! Congrats... Keep it up!
Thanks so much Jhan Neth xx
I love the message of this video. I've been really wondering what's happening with my guy atm. He's becoming closer emotionally these days 🥰 now I understand why ❤️
Thanks for sharing and leaving a nice comment, Kate Sarador! Happy to hear things are getting better for you. 😊
These are truly unique signs that I haven’t seen others point out!
Glad you think so! We agree ;)
Was dating this wonderful man that I had been LDR 2 hour distance with 7 months. I ended it as we never spent more than 2-4 hours together, even after driving 2 hours!! I started feeling less connected to him and advised him of it and said let's try harder. I did and really dug to infuse him in my life, but really he just always had to work, adult kids, grand children, which was great, but again he did not infuse me. Wow, so I ended it month ago. His response, ok well, take care!!🤪
This is by far the best advice and answers out of all the topic channels!
Wow! That's such a beautiful comment, Joann Cunningham, thanks! Totally saving it! 😊
My ex invited himself to my parents for Xmas 😂 He hadn’t met them before that. He’s my ex, but he text me to show the sentimental artwork I made for him on his living room wall. So no idea what he’s thinking.
He wants u back
Ronda S he’s asked me to paint him another too, and he said he’s coming on holiday to where I live. So no idea what’s going on. We talk every other day. x
Pretty sure women know all these things intuitively. A 18 year old girl can figure out if a man is in love with her or not.
LOL. Sometimes it helps to hear it and/or intellectualize it. Validation.
Yes sometimes we forget about the man how they feel about women, because we have been married for long time, not dating for ever.
There is no such word as calmness. The noun is " calm". I really like your videos, older woman that I am.
the gold bull head is crooked and driving me crazy! Love the tips tho ✨
hahha me too Tiffani don't you worry!
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Gerri thanks for leaving such a lovely comment :)
It has taken along time but I DO see all these signs often! Thank You for sharing!
These days everybody think is an expert! when the only credible expert and life coach is your own self, even if you were to make bad choices in life. Furthermore there is no such thing as a specific number of ways, hidden or known, a man does to know if someone is falling in love with them. Expressing love is as infinite as the reasons why people hate falling in love. If only men and women learn to understand each other's intricacies and differences, and seek advise by talking with one another, instead of seeking advise from a total stranger online, they will stop with the guessing!
I love this!!!
Thank You Gentlemen!!! I found this Video extremely helpful
Yeah, my man is as deeply in love as I am
Nice Alexa! Really glad things are going well for you. Thanks for sharing xx
Wow this was super helpful. My boyfriend for a while has been telling me that he is in love with me. I didn’t believe him. Before we started dating, he told me about he's a hopeless romantic. So whenever he said I love you I thought of him as just some lover boy who didn’t comprehend his emotions. And sure, he talked to his friends about me and his family knows my name in a way that you would think I would have been his Fiancé. But I still never thought anything of it. Until now. I needed clarity on where he stood in his heart for me and now I am nothing but flattered and ready to really love him without fear that he's just in lust with me. It almost makes me want to cry because I doubted him for so long. This video was SO helpful. Thank you guys.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Glad you enjoyed! Thanks for tuning in Aqueira :)
and you are so nice that you totally made sure you edify your fellow coaches in these collabs! :) You guys are all gonna win together!
Hello Tang hope you’re having a wonderful day?
He got none of these all ..im such a loser time to let go im losing hope .feels like im gonna be single forever 😞
Ouch ... I know that feeling too well, but have to say ... you never know what's coming your way ... good OR baf. I spent 15 years ... yep, 15 ... allowing myself the luxury of not being obsessed by any relationship anything. Wham ... I'm in a relationship with a guy that I could never planned!! Don't give up.
What a great high quality video! Thank you for this info on these subtleties. Super fascinating!
Thanks so much Maria Briley!
Can a man be scared of falling in love with you? Why would a man say: I have to keep from falling for you???
We have really good bond, he does so many things for me, pays attention yet keeps me at arm length. Always reminding himself and me: when this is over.... when you meet someone else... keeping himself from attaching (not really keeping in contact between 'dates)
Him keeping me at arm length I follow him and keep the armlength too. though I am not in anxiety mode at all. I'm like ok, if that is what you want.... I enjoy the moment cause to be honest at this stage in life I am not scared to get hurt....
He might be playing me or not, and I am not afraid of that. I don't see it as being taken advantage of, cause I do enjoy it as well and am absolutely not attached to the outcome.
How can I create a safe space for him so he can see it is ok to just be him and go with the flow of his feelings?
Hey Mark it's so cool you are doing this with many of your fellow dating coaches!
Hello Tang hope you’re having a wonderful day?
How about long distance relationship,how we knows that he is really sencere to he's girl freind?
Omg yh I’m in a ldr and I think u know he loves u if he’s told his family and friends about u and calls and texts u I mean if a guy loves u it’s just a feeling and u know
I knew my first boyfriend's family and friends, and was even introduced in front of the grave of his deceased best friend. In the end he cheated with his ex, broke up with me, returned to her; the he broke up with her a year later and attempted to contact me again. lol... What is love?
Sounds like you put yourself out there Nutella, I don't think he's for keeps. Onto the next amazing person for you! x
I believe I've just found my soulmate❤❤❤❤
That's great, Andrea - glad you enjoyed the video and excited for you as well!
im single. nd watching this. awkward 😅
Me too girl
I'm married and watching this, soooo
😆
Me too and the new video Today was like wow it was the 7 signs of a great/ healthy relationship and I realized I never thought about my feelings for my best friend always caught up in the feelings for my crush that were going nowhere.
Love this video. Thanks for making and sharing.
And the tone in his voice!
Can y’all make a video about...saying “I love you” and he doesn’t say it back?! Or he says he is falling but still doesn’t say it back. I regret saying it now...it’s been 3 weeks and the topic hasn’t come up
Hello keysi hope you’re having a wonderful day?
Amen 🙏 Glory to God🙌🙌
BRILLIANT GUYS, THANK YOU BOTH!!
Tuning in from Quebec, Canada. Thanks for the 5 tips signs a guy is falling in love. I can see myself in those 5 points.
Hello Audrey hope you’re having a wonderful day?
Some good, useful information here. Makes me wonder if I'm not keeping too much distance from the man I'm into. I've often noticed a change in his behaviour when I'm around, could be this volatility you mentioned (whereas in general, he's pretty confident and relaxed). Thanks for the vid 👍
Mark - In Austin !!! Awesome 😊 wish I had known would love to have had the chance to give you a big hug for all your awesome work!
Aww that's really sweet, Mary Ann. Thanks so much - such an awesome supporter! x
Hello Mary hope you’re having a wonderful day?
One thing is appreciation, then taking the girl out, finding out about the girls interests
Hello Emily hope you’re having a wonderful day?
I was smiling watching this video, the guy was in love with me.😁😁
Happy to hear that, Karen May Anggaco. Thanks for sharing!
Hello Karen hope you’re having a wonderful day?
What do I do if he says he dosent want a commitment or a girlfriend..but keeps texting and calling and spending time together? 😢❤ and he is cautious about introducing you to his friends or family 😢
If he's toxic, he'll become more toxic. Great
I love to see you two together here, Mark.. ❤️❤️
Glad you liked it Belle-1
I love this☝️☝️☝️
Thank you, Zipporah! x
@@Markrosenfeld welcome sir🙏
Fantastic and very insightful video. Thank you to you both for sharing your thoughts and knowledge on topics we all want to understand more fully. :)
Wow thanks for the comment, Sarah! Glad to have you on here x
Loving the collabs!
Thank you somuch.. I just met a wonderful mena and now were friends and will be bestfriends yes he just admit that I'm the precious one and he fall inlove with me.. I felt the same way too. I loved him now.im happy one of the greatest things happen this year.. ❤😊
I just love you two..I have a wonderful guy checks all my boxes only thing is he is nervous to meet my kids and worried it could reuin our relationship. I've never introduced my kids to any man before. He gets along great with my oldest though it's my younger two. Hes 27 I'm 10 yrs older.He wants to know when we can relocate and get a home togther. I told him we will see how things go. Been togther 5 months known for 7 months. We do everything togther, hes my bestfriend, were amazing together....I'm in a dilemma. I know my value and hes successful too. I dont know what to do🤷♀️
So basically no one as ever loved me 😢
takes time my love, and please take this time to hurt, build, learn, and ultimately turn you into a warrior. If you can successfully heal, keep your head, and legitimately work on the physical and emotional weak spots, while simultaneously not turning to just anyone pretty much for attention.. lean on the people that have always loved u for you during this time of healing and growth, I promise, I promise you will not go astray.
N remember your family may not b real fam at all to you, so b careful w who you trust your most vulnerable self w.
I love you, because I was you.. but guess what, I finally got my true love ❤
Thank you guys. Glad to hear those suggestions.
My pleasure! Thanks for watching xx
Much Gratitude and Appreciation and Blessings 🙏🏼⭐️🌟😊🌈💚💫🌞
Thanks so much Eternal Consciousness!
Thank you very much you guys!! Great video 👍🏻😊
My pleasure! Thanks for watching xx
really helped me out .... m happy m in the right path😊😊😊🤗🤗🤗 thanks 😍😍
Happy to help, Hiba Khan! Thanks for watching!
This is great information. Thank you guys!
Thanks songbirdmc! Glad you liked it. 😊