Jaw-Dropping Hoarder House Transformation (FULL HOUSE CLEANING)
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My father was a level 5 hoarder. When you said this son’s inheritance was this problem, it hit me like a brick to the forehead. I lived that hellscape. I’m not even that far in therapy to describe the trauma. What I can say is you saved this son YEARS of heartache from the memory of what was, what it became, and how it ended. Absolutely incredible amazing and powerful grace you have given a person so fresh into grief. All my best to you and to this family.
Yessssssssssss!!!!!!!!!! ^^^^^ Sooooooooooooo much this. I totally felt *every* word of this after dealing with family deaths. 😢
Let me encourage you to keep moving forward as best you can. I've made myself watch these videos and others like this to make my mind see what can happen. My mom became a hoarder but nothing this severe. Don't give up, I know you can do this!
My Grandpa hoarded like this and when he passed I watched my mother and her siblings deal with the estate. Luckily he lived in a fairly small space, and he had nurses that would secretly clean out his pantry (i think the oldest can was from the 80s), but that amount of emotional baggage that came with the space was incomprehensible. It's been a decade and my mother is still working through her hoarding trauma. I hope you are able to work through what you need to, and like this video shows, you're not alone in this journey!
Great job as always! Has anyone asked you to do more garage clean-outs?
@@bitohoney276 I had to move in with dad to care for him. It took a week to carve out a bedroom for me and my kids. Scrub the kitchen and bathroom and stack everything in corners. For the first month all I had was my bed to play with my babies and the scrubbed kitchen which was severely damaged. I could afford to rent elsewhere but I couldn’t get my dad out and I had to unbury him. He had suffered so much too. 4 big loses one right after the other froze the house in time. We were able to clear out a lot and he had the best years at his end. But it was a three story house with a detached garage.
It took me 8 years and over $100k to restore the house and it still needs easily another $100k. But it is completely cleared out and it feels like i sometimes sit on a dragon’s size pile of gold because of my accomplishment.
The hoard was hard because it was 5 people, most teachers so a million pieces of paper.
Stay strong.
I have never watched a hoarder/cleaning video where the narrator was able to transition so calmly between empathetic discussion of neurodivergency and struggles to practical tips on disinfecting surfaces to job advice for students to making fun of their own boxers. You are amazing.
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Watch one. It will open your eyes.
Right?! This is my first of his videos, and I can't wait to watch more of them!!
I am so happy that you are helping people who can’t do these things. You are a gem! I have learned so much from you and been incredibly inspired!
Hearing you say you're autistic and do this for fun just reminded me of a friend who had a house like this growing up. I'm autistic too. I wanted so badly to get a chance to clean that house. I cleaned her room once, and it was trashed again within a week so I admitted defeat for a while. Finally, the family was set to move out and the mom reached out for help in clearing stuff out. I took great joy in helping, and I tackled one particular area so I could feel the accomplishment of seeing a spotless section. My friend's mom said if there was anything I saw that I wanted, within reason, I could have it as a thank you. I made off with a cool spoon that could extend like a telescope. I love interesting spoons. Totally worth it.
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😮that's cool😊
Mood. I enjoy cleaning but since I also stress clean as well, I just make sure to let my girlfriend and her mom know to ask me if I'm okay or just genuinely cleaning because I'm enjoying it if I'm cleaning A LOT.
There's just something so SATISFYING about cleaning and then organizing things nicely as well. 😫❤
No way, j also love spoons
Woah that is a cool spoon I wish I could see it
I'm speechless.
This lady who passed away... I'm her. (pre-going belly up.)
And everything you're talking about I can relate to. NO ONE comes in my home... I guess I should be thankful friends are all but gone save one and family... gone. I am thankful.
There is SO much wrong... it has been overwhelming for many, many years.
I desperately want this to change... I'm up there in years and I see 'the writing on the wall.' It's quite sad, really.
I won't say anymore, there's no reason to.
Thank you for what you are doing... and it's wonderful to see your kids involved as well. Very.
All the best!
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Learning/watching/listening to how you're doing this, the cleanup, helps immensely.
Again, I want things to change but so dang overwhelmed. Picking a room today, the kitchen more than likely, and beginning.
I need my life back... I need a life.
By the way, yes, trauma. This all started with trauma and I can pinpoint the day.
Your bringing this up I found interesting... thank you for understanding.
Awww... DITTO ❤❤
I opened the comment section to say the same thing. My life, (yes, TRAUMA) sits on the precipice of this exact situation. Because of health, I can no longer keep up with the upkeep. I want order and cleanliness SO badly, but I've had to accept that I can't physically do it.
To answer the OP, Mr. Magic Cleaner, YES. I am aware what awaits my children. I think about it often, but I really don't know where to turn for help. It's just not feasible, nor available.
Bless you for your charity, for your compassion and empathy. You bring dignity to this person's life and ending. As someone facing a similar future, I thank you and your family. ❤
Start with one tiny area or set a timer for 10 minutes and see what you can do. Start with the easy/the obvious....Trash. Throwing away trash is easy. Don't worry about perfection. Just try to make things a little bit better each day....better is good. Listen to channels like this while you work, for encouragement! God bless you!
I listen to subliminals from TH-cam. I let it play over and over. I got up and started cleaning and throwing stuff away.
Same. I have finally started. A journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step.
You are my hero. I love your comment. You are me.🎉
I once asked a woman I was helping in her home, why she kept all her junk mail. She said it was because it made her feel validated. It was something with her name on it. She WAS a real person. Broke my heart.
Oh my gosh. That hurts.😢😢 This is why we need to treat all people kindly. We all matter. Be kind,unless it's taken for granted. It's such an easy thing. And it can change a person.
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I love your candor about your autism, your knowledge of neurodiversity, and your respect for the people with hoarding disorder. ❤ Rock on.
I subscribed for just this reason ❤
Agree you genuinely felt his empathy.
I've got Autism too.
My sons have autism! Respect my friend for what you do 🙏
I am autistic as well
I’m 66, been decluttering for about 7 years. I will continue working on it. I want my family to have very little to get rid of when I’m gone.
I love the fact that it is all hand sorted and not just shovelled up.
Thank you so much. I am like that lady who's house you worked on. 59 years old in 3 days time and about to follow what you did in my house starting with my bedroom 1/10 areas in my house. Will keep you posted. Wish me luck with 32 years of hoarding. Here goes nothing!! Using your video as a guide. Can't wait to have family and friends in for the first time in years. I think I can do it now.
That's awesome! Take it a little at a time and don't worry, it may not seem like you're making progress right away but it will! Hang in there and reap the rewards for your efforts in the end. You can do this!
You've got this!!
Don't feel like you have to doit alone. If possible get help from a service or check with elder care agencies in your area. Easy does it one area at a time. God bless.
You've got this! Take your time and don't get overwhelmed. Slow and steady wins the race ❤
Wishing you only the best in your recovery-you’re taking a big leap with little steps and you shall successfully reach your long term goal of a clean & tidy place where you can entertain your friends and family! You are in my prayers! Looking forward to your follow up!!
My father hoarded for 53 years in a large house with outbuildings; it took us 18 months to clear it out. Watching this is like therapy. Thank you.
Your narration and dry humour is great, btw. Made me laugh!
Yes, I found his *dry wit, blasé, deadpan delivery* and his *voice* remind me of *Ron Swanson* of _Parks and Rec_ - and his *snarky asides* and *bratty exclamations* - like *_"Suck it!"_* - are like that of *Bart Simpson.* 😁
His _detailed descriptions_ of his decluttering and cleaning processes (which can be banal) certainly made watching what can be a _difficult_ and _triggering topic_ for some (like me, a *neurotypical, "recovering" hoarder* with *C-PTSD, ADHD* and a *personality disorder)* more _engaging_ and _worth watching_ right through.
I gleaned a few *tips* and am *feeling motivated* to continue with the *decluttering* and *cleaning* I did last night - a mountain of dishes, recycling magazines, and mouse-proofing (they came inside for winter, again, so I must've missed some dime-sized holes).
❤👏👍good luck on your way. Greetings from Austria.@@wholeshebang1
What a mess
@@amyserra440Yeh .. but it’s also a heartbreaking glimpse into a stranger’s heartache, overwhelm or despair made visible .. yet out of chaos can be born a genuine star. This man’s energy, empathy and compassion is exactly the kind of miracle the world needs more of. Imo.
My mother's a hoarder and an alcoholic. I've asked her to seek help dozens of times, but she refuses to since she believes everything's fine and I'm just making a fuss over nothing. I've been watching your videos to prepare myself for the day I have to start clearing out her house after she dies, so I'm really grateful for all of your tips and advice. Thank you for everything you do for the hoarders and their families, it's really appreciated and I wish there were more people like you around.
So sorry to hear about your mom. Mine is also an alcoholic though not a hoarder. My dad is a compulsive buyer, of sorts, though. He grew up poor and tries reselling things on eBay but has little luck. My brother and I will have a lot to deal with by the time they're both gone.
You talking about the pictures brought a smile to my face. I went to a yard sale once. The guy had bought a storage locker and while I'm looking through stuff I found SO MANY old pictures. To the point I asked the guy. "Hey? Are you going to sell these? Do you want them? Cause I'd like to see if I can find the family." The guy agreed to let me take all the pictures I could find. I HUNTED through that yard sale. Found every old picture I could get my hands on. Even found a last name which made me ask about getting this large wood plaque that was clearly meant for a front porch with the last name on it.
I spent several weeks hunting down through local records and stuff trying to find out who this lady was in all these pictures and trying to find her family.
Finally I found a living son and some contact info and I reached out. Let him know what I had and that I could connect him with the guy who bought the storage locker so that he could see if there was anything else he could find. The guy was brought to tears. Turns out the storage locker belonged to his sister and she had gotten into a bunch of trouble. That was how she lost the storage locker. She had all their family pictures and his family thought they were gone forever because she didnt' speak to any of them anymore.. The sign was what kinda brought him to tears though. If I remember right his dad made them for all the kids, but this guys had long since been destroyed by time. His sister had apparently never used hers cause it looked brand new.
I still feel bad about one thing though. I have the year book that was his moms still. At the time I asked if I could keep it and see if the local county museum wanted to scan it for their historical records. Sadly I lost his contact info and without all the pictures and records I couldn't find it again. So I still have his moms year book in case I ever manage to get ahold of him again so I can give it to him.
But it was amazing and I was so happy to get to reunite this guy with stuff important to his family that his hoarder sister just was letting rot in a storage unit.
So it makes me so happy seeing you find these old photos that you can give to this woman son. That stuff is irreplaceable and I'm sure he was overjoyed to have it again.
Edit: I ended up doing the same thing kind of a few years later. But it was a good friend who found a ton of old pictures in a house she was renting. It didn't take me long to find the family that stuff belonged to. Sadly though it seemed the family wasn't really all that interested in having the items. I still connected them with my friend though and they went over to get the stuff. But it made me sad that the family wasn't even happy it seemed to have them back.
Wow this is such an amazing story especially the part where you spent several weeks trying to get in touch with the family it makes me so grateful to see stories like this thank you so much for sharing it with all of us hope you have an amazing day
I love that you never gave up
I have friends who care about old houses and preservation. There was an elderly unmarried schoolteacher who passed away, and the people who bought her house threw everything in a dumpster. My friends went dumpster diving, and found a lot of photos from the late 1800s, scanned and shared them on FB. They were relatives of mine! I was able to save all the photos and even visited the home that the schoolteacher's mother had grown up in. Bless people who care!
Thank you for not putting music over your time-lapses, it’s a breath of fresh air.
Amen and hallelujah!! Subscribed because of this
As someone who suffers from misophonia, it also makes me so glad he doesn't hold up a microphone to every little sound as well. SO many channels nowadays are either loud EDM or "asmr", it's hell. This guy just GETS it.
What's wrong with music? Don't you think you should appreciate his hard work instead?
@@mayajasinski5972…The point is to focus on his hard work without being distracted by the music. Don’t belittle people just because they have an issue with music on cleaning videos. They may have autism, or a sensory disorder. Music bothers some people with autism, and sensory problems, because it is loud. Try to understand where each person is coming from.
Totally disagree, that sound is awful. Needs to be either covered with some other sound or muted entirely
My mom was a hoarder. After she died, it took my family and I five of those 30-yard dumpsters (yes, FIVE) to clear out everything she’d accumulated. Notable finds included seven glue guns (still in packaging) and enough fabric and dress patterns that some ladies at her church made new outfits for every kid at two orphanages/schools in Haiti.
Thank you so much for your compassion and support for families digging out from under a hoarder’s legacy.
Good on you for not letting the things go to waste and using them for a good cause.
In college my apartment got so messy that after several warnings from the landlord about them not being able to replace the fire alarm and air filter, I received a notice that i had 1 week to clean everything or id be evicted.
Im glad i was in therapy at the time because i found that letter outside my door on my way TO therapy haha. That helped me work through the sting and shame of the consequences of my actions.
It was never a hoarding disorder, more of a depression nest or just having ADHD. Still, videos like yours have helped me SO much to overcome some of that shame. It is so validating to hear someone who cleans for a living/hobby confirm that it's hard work to fix things like this. That you dont judge it but recognize it for what it is. A symptom of a deeper problem.
Im in a better place now and this year I have been re-inventing the way I see cleaning. Im very proud of my progress. When my mom visited for a weekend i was able to get the place guest ready in only 2 ish hours! Thats like nothing compared to how it used to be.
I grew up in a hoarder house. I saw pictures of it recently on Zillow. Ita a million dollar house and it’s immaculate and beautiful. I wish that had been the home I’d been raised in.
“You could be so much happier if you just didn’t have depression.” 🤣🤣 I have depression and that really cheered me up 😊… You have a special talent at being able to address mental health seriously yet in some weirdly uplifting way.
Hello sir what I think you do is totally awesome. I was a hoarder and had my house cleaned twice with family and your right it is a neuro dz. But after a life altering trauma to me my family had to clean my house for a 3rd time in order to live there. I look at my life from back then and don’t understand how I could have let that happen. God bless you.
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Dude is hilarious!
Right? It would all be so much better if you just got in shape! Well heck, why didn't we think of that??? I'm sure people don't intend to be hurtful but they really can be. It's so good to listen to someone who gets it and is 100% respectful.
😅exactly
I love how you never degrade or try to change people with hoarding disorders. You have such empathy and compassion for people. Definitely not enough of that these days. You truly are an amazing person and should totally be proud of the work you did.
Well said I totally agree with your nice comment!👍❤😘
He is the best.
Agreed! Very well said!
Agreed
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I have always been intrigued by hoarding and really appreciate your explanations about the disorder. My husband and I have been dealing with his mom's hoard for several years. The funny thing is that she was the neatest and tidiest person so we never knew what lurked beneath. Her husband died a few years back and she is now in a nursing home due to Alzheimer's. We started dealing with the hoard about a year after his death--mainly lots and lots and lots of junk mail and paperwork going back to the mid-60s. Once she was in the nursing home, she had to sell her home. That's when we dug into the rest of her things. She was none too happy about it, but she doesn't even realize it now due to the progression of the Alzheimer's. Because she was clean, we were able to sell quite a lot. One estate sale, a couple of garage sales, lots and lots of donations, a 30-yard dumpster, shredding until the cows came home, disbursements to other family members and lots of filled garbage hoppers later, we're finally down to about 20 tubs of clothes that will get donated in the spring when we're motivated to spend a couple more hours sorting again. My husband won't admit she's a hoarder. I get it. It's a lot for him to handle losing his mom to Alzheimer's. But it has been just a monumental thing to deal with. My heart goes out to all those who deal with hoarding in one way or the other. It's heartbreaking for the hoarder and for their families.
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My mom is at a stage where she could tip over that line from collector to hoarder with one single traumatic event. We have worked all our lives to keep it from happening, and we've gone through 3 houses where we had to convince her that tax information from the 70s was no longer a thing she had to hold onto. So I completely understand where you are. My best wishes to you and your husband.❤❤
I'm autistic, I do this because i'm weird. I felt that to my core. I'm glad that you do this. I honestly would love to be able to afford to do things like this.
As a person who was 'triggered' by a divorce into hoarding, I want to thank you for advocating that this is a real neurological disorder. It took over my life, and I sought out professional help before it became a monumental problem in my home. For me that means dealing with abandonment. I may always have this compulsion, but I'm learning ways to stop the attachment to things. Watching your channel and hearing you talk about hoarding, not judgementally, but with compassion actually lessens the choke hold it has on me.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
Jack
Thank you! ❤️❤️👊
I wish you all the best Jack. I too have a hard time attaching memories and such with articles and material items, it's hard to let go. Godspeed my friend.
Good lord that's astonishing. I wonder if you have ANY IDEA how unusual and impressive your story is? To recover quietly, privately and with dignity from such a disabling condition is incredibly rare. I started to tear up reading your post, because I think you must have endured so much suffering. Thank you for giving hope and encouragement to others!
I'm so sorry to hear about your struggle and I'm sorry to hear about your divorce. Thankfully you were lucky enough to really take action and get help before it went too far. Good luck to you.
Bless you, and your story is moving. I lost my childhood home several times and I fully understand the idea of triggers. I watch myself very carefully because the tendency to slip into hoarding would be a very easy one for me. I send you love and light.
"A wedding dress from the 1950s, keep it, put it on, you'll look fancy..." Love that!
I will make a ring bearer pillow from my mom's wedding dress for her great granddaughter's wedding. I have stashed that dress for 25 years.
I have a work friend who found herself in a hoarding situation, thankfully not nearly this extreme. She said used to take great care of her home, but had health problems and went through a bad marriage and divorce. She managed to work full time, but things just became too overwhelming for her at home. Add a cat and dog to the mix and it got pretty bad. I became concerned when she started having headaches frequently and seemed depressed. She is a very positive person normally. I inquired as to how things were at her home. I thought maybe she had a mold problem or something. She confided to me that she could no longer clean her home. I offered to help. Her house had a strong ammonia smell from the litter boxes. I spent weeks cleaning. I'm so glad I did, because she was able to sell her home to a flipper and moved to another state to be closer to her son. She got rid of the headaches and seems better now. I do believe that this could happen to just about anyone if given bad circumstances. Not many people, myself included, could handle a cleanup such as this. These people are such a blessing!
Thank you for helping that woman and being such a beautiful human!
@@vk3980 It's only by the grace of God that I have compassion and the desire to help others. Before knowing Jesus I was not near as concerned about the wellbeing of others. Thank you for being so kind and may God bless you!❤
My mother is a hoarder and I already dread having to clean out her house. Most of her stuff is new in the package or washable but the house is jam packed. You are doing a great thing by helping and you are so understanding too.
I appreciate you explaining how hoarding is more than just laziness. It's a true mental disorder and it's so hard to overcome it.
But how can hoarders tolerate so much filth?
@@jeanmccallum-xs8rk it becomes natural. To an average person, they would see the piles of trash and be horrified. But to someone with hoarding disorder, they see it and know that it's bad but the illness prevents them from doing anything about it. It stems mostly from either depression or physical inability. It'll usually start small and build, then before they know it they have mountains forming. Then the illness shuts down the part of the brain that gives motivation. It's a vicious cycle that's hard to escape, and honestly there is so much more to it than what I'm explaining.
because they do not see what we see. To them, everything has a meaning or a purpose and they think that they are disrespecting the item by throwing it away. Hoarding is DEEP (no pun intended) It can be very difficult to wrap your brain around it. I work with a patient population that includes hoarders.
tolerance and empathy go a long way, and it takes a long time to build trust. @@jeanmccallum-xs8rk
@jeanmccallum-xs8rk I have wondered that myself. I believe that as the hoarders environment gets worse and worse, their souls become heavily burdened, depressed, hopeless & full of despair.
I've seen plenty of Hoarders episodes, but never has a clean up bee done with such sympathy and respect for the family. But your commentary is EVERYTHING. From the start you made sure the viewers looked at this situation with empathy. And you and your crew do a hell of a cleaning job.
Wow, great explanation. My father was a hoarder, however, having been the person that cleaned it all up, there was not one single item that he hoarded that gave any indication that he was a father of 4 and a grandfather of 9. Your description of the condition is a more educated version of how I used to describe his issue. Every item that he had had exactly the same value to him. He was unable to distinguish that an old newspaper was less valuable than a new in box kettle. Strangely, he kept nothing that any of us gave him as gifts, and wouldn't use them. Eg. One year I bought him a new shaving mirror. Mum had renovated the bathroom, and he refused to use the space, except for the shower, because he didn't believe it needed renovating (it certainly did!!) He preferred to shiver in the cold of the tiny laundry and do his hair, shave etc in there. He used a tiny old mirror that was broken. He never used the mirror I bought, and I didn't find it when I was cleaning up. This was the same for all of the gifts i gave him. Weird, but that was just him, I guess.
My mum's the same; on the surface it's all "we don't do emotions, we're British." ... If she didn't acquire the item herself OR inherit it from her elders, it isn't part of her hoard... There isn't the same sentimental attitude to items that I/my sister bought her (although she has kept every card she's ever received), and she's SUPER picky about the things she does buy. Now I'm her carer, but I was raised on the "waggle dances" of where everything she does buy are located in shops, so I get the exact items - only consumables and needed household items - *no substitutes* 😅 ... And yes, we're generations of Neuro-Diverse family, although my son is the first one to be officially diagnosed.
What a huge help you were to that person. Grieving the death of a parent & being saddled with emptying a non-hoarder home is an overwhelming task. What a wonderful gift you gave that person by lessening that burden for them.
Because of your channel I've been able to see my mom in a different way, respect her in her mental condition and finally to love her. She passed away in 2021 and cleaning her house was like this.The brand new Christmas sweater hanging on the door got me. We found one in my moms house that she had bought ready for the holidays. Her trama that triggered the hoarding was both her parents deaths within a few years then my dads descent into Alzheimer's. You are one of my favorite people and I don't even know you, because you've taught me so much and helped me gain self awareness. Thank you for what you do. ❤
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That’s a heart felt story. Bless you for sharing and best wishes for your life. 💙
I too am watching this because of my mom. My dad was a horder and eventually succumbed to Alzheimer's as well. My mom isn't as bad with her hording but pretty close and this video has given me a newfound empathy for her situation as well. I already knew that's just the way she is but to have it said because brain chemistry is a funky thing really settled me down in just understanding that she cannot help it.
I worked in cleaning industry for almost 5 year's, this literally destroyed my spine, during my cleaning career I have never seen anything like this. You work so hard! Someone who never cleaned for living may not have understanding how this job can knock out your health. I hope that you taking care of your self and take breaks while working.
Me too my spine nerve damage people don’t understand when you say your backs agony! ♥️🇬🇧
Yes, my back is in such bad shape from years of cleaning😢
I've been a hoarder for about 4 years now, and I am only 19. Videos like this help so so SO much to show me the dangers of this disorder and help motivate me to declutter my home. It felt like a punch to the face when you described the scenario of a buddy being unable to come into someone's home for multiple years, because I have never had anyone over other than my significant other for the past year. There are always ups and downs, and I have gotten better, but when there are downs, it really does get to me. Thank you for the content that you post, it genuinely is changing my life right now.
I clean houses for a living. I just want to tell you that what you do goes above and beyond what most people (including cleaners) would do. Your work is very needed and very appreciated! I've learned a few tips from you too!
Edit: love the shout out to your fellow TH-camr "post10"! I watch him too
"This is her son's inheritance" - that resonates so much with me. Both my parents are/were hoarders. When my dad died, my mom clung on to my dad's hoard like Gollum and when she passes it is going to be an *insane* amount of cleanup. A 5BR house completely jam crammed with a mix of magazines, knick knacks, antiques, garbage, dead mice and mouse poop, bugs, bug poop...
The one and only time my mom asked for help cleaning up right after my dad died, I traveled back to the home town and threw out a 55 gal bag full of expired and rotten food from the kitchen. One thing I threw away was an open jar of mint jelly that I remember from when I was in middle school. MIDDLE SCHOOL. And I was 40. So that thing had to have been almost 30 years old. Bulging canned food, moldy nasty stuff from the fridge. And then after throwing away one garbage bag, she had a change of heart and complained about what I was doing, so I stopped. To this day she complains about me and how I threw out her treasures.
I have a massive amount of anxiety about when she passes. The amount of expense and time that will be required.
@jayes7195 I read your comment about trying to toss disgusting old food. I tried to help a woman who's house was scheduled for demolition. All she would
let me do was clean out a desk. She was eating food that had expired 3 years previously and looked like it. My mom was bad, this was worse. Tina, Al's wife
I hope when that day comes that you are able to find someone like the folks on this channel to help you through it all.
@@sandrafaith Thank you :-) -- I'm watching all of these videos so in the event that the worst case scenario happens and I need to do this all myself, I'll have the skills to do it. Not gonna lie though, it would take *months* to clean out my mom's house and I don't even know if it would be worth it, given I have no idea what condition the house is in underneath all that hoard.
I cleaned out my mom's house. The house was actually clean. Her kitchen floor was cleaner than mine. It took me 9 months to clear it out so we could sell it to pay for her fees for dementia care.
My sister has been in the nursing home for 5 years now. I haven't dealt with my mom's stuff and now I have her's. She was a QVC addict. I crushed a bone in my lower back to top it off. After realizing I was depressed the last 2 years (depression is the devil, which I don't believe in the devil so I'll just say ungodly) I finally got help and we're gathering stuff one day at a time. 👍😊
My dad is a hoarder, has been as long as I can remember. I alternate between feeling anger and abandonment; like he chose literal garbage over me and my siblings, to enpathy and a science-based understanding that this is a mental disorder that can't be simply white-knuckled through or strong-willed out of. Thank you for having compassion for the people you serve while not downplaying the devastation amd havoc this disorder can wreak on people's lives. It's distressing to be a hoarder, and it's distressing to love a hoarder. Both are true. Thank you for all you do.
My first time here. I can so relate to some of this video. Major eye opener for me. My parents were quite poor and we had basic furniture in our homes we lived in. I loved books, magazines, paper and material. My mother was a seamstress and I loved watching her sew. Today, I am a hoarder of books, magazines, paper and material. I am cleaning up some of my "treasures" because I don't want to leave all my hoarding stuff for my boys to clean up when I die. I managed to let go of a few bags of magazines, gave away some of my material to the Animal Shelter for bedding and looking forward to giving as much as I can to other shelters. My thing is that when I start cleaning up , I always tell myself that I can use an item for something useful! Not! After hearing you talk about all the magazines and old bills that were in this house that you were cleaning, it really hit me because I have magazines and bills from the 70's thinking that I might need them some day. As of today, I will be bringing more of my magazines and papers to recycle and donating my books to the Next to New Stores. I just looked around my kitchen and down the hallway and am going to bed! Scary! LOL ❤❤
Just a mum from Australia here - just wanted to give you props for doing this kinda job - you are an amazing person. An entrepreneur with heart... it was so nice to come across your video's! Love your humour, very "dad-joke-esque" 😂 Keep up the fantastic work mate 👍 I look forward watching more of your stuff.
While I do not have a hoarding disorder, I have had a chronic illness for many years with limited energy. Your videos have helped give me motivation to get my house in order. Both my husband and I grew up in families where you kept stuff "just in case" so we have a lot of bad habits to unlearn.
Same here ! I like empty house (easier for me) but I was raised in "no, don't throw away" "waste NOTHING". (When people lived war and know what it is to not have engouh money, or food...).
When my parents moved, we found food expired in 1986 (which is more than 30 years before the date of the move). the house itself was very full, because there is stuff to "sort later" everywhere, but since both my parents were working, they didn't have time for it.
Not hoarder house however (clean, we could move in it). Just lots of things everywhere, and very old food in the cupboard, so much that we played a game which was to guess the expiration date of things :D The idea is that many things can be kept AFTER the expiration date, older people didn't have them, that is why they are kept. (not the 30 years old, that one what just "back on the cupboard which was so crowed that they didn't access the back in 30 years").
I can't throw things, at all. Meaning I have to donate them. Which is longer and harder. so that I have some stuffs "waiting to be donated" for years now ahah :D Part of them, I stll thinks" but I could use it someday". Also because I already donated "too fast" meaning I had to buy it again 2 years after... but I did it because I had a very small flat and the emergency at that time was to feel more free in it.
This is a balance thing : I think keeping is good... as long as it doesn't stops you from other most important things. Like family, health, feeling good in the house.
Now that I recently got better and could get rid of things, I find out that it is easier to use the things I need. I mean, having a lot "in case of" is so that you don't know where it is. Since you can't find it when you need it, it is useless. I guess that is how she got so many remote control for the TV... maybe losing one, buying one again, and so one).
Having that in mind may help to select what to keep, since wasting things by forgetting them somewhere (or having them being inaccessible) is also a waste.
Right? Those videos make you want to clean 😂
I always want because I like it, but I currently can't (physical disability, very frustrating) and seeing him doing it relaxes me (it kind of replaces the relaxation I get when I do it myself :D) @@kuroimushi9421
I feel that. I've been trying so hard to get rid of anything that I only keep "just in case" but sometimes it's so overwhelming to get rid of things, especially when they're worth actually selling and not just donating.
@@CommanderWiggins My husband's thought process is that it might be sellable to someone. I have overcome that by saying, "Honey, if you want to post it for sale somewhere or work up a yard sale, if that's what you want, then go for it. If you don't, then the stuff that's crap is going into the trash. The stuff that's good, I'm going to set out by the curb for the neighbors to grab if they need or want it." So that's what I do now. The neighbors are loving it! :D That is my donation to my neighbors, and I have no idea what many of their situations might be. But if they want my hand-me-down household items, I'm happy to let them have it. I don't need the extra dollar, nor do I have the energy to set it all up. I'm 70, for crying out loud, and I'm just tired and worn out sometimes... most of the time, actually. But that's a whole different story. My "Just in case" days are gone now. I thank Midwest Magic Cleaning for that feeling I have. I've been watching his videos for quite some time.
As an elderly person whose future is uncertain, I'm so glad I still have the ability to keep up my house and property but for how much longer. I've been decluttering for years, and I'm still amazed at what an effort it would be to have to move out of the house I've lived in for 20 years. You did a wonderful job making the son's burden so much lighter.
As an elderly, got to get to cleaning so my children don't get the chance of this. Not a hoarder but is beginning. 🤢♥️👍
I’m in the same boat. Unfortunately I don’t have children and my siblings have moved away from the area. None of them would want my property and it would not be convenient to have to dispose of my stuff. I’ve been working on giving away as much as I can recently. Thanks to TH-cam I recognized the signs of traumatic hoarding and took action by starting therapy and declutterring. Good luck to you! 😊
@@kassandralevingston9874 Yes, I am in the same boat. I have been cleaning out my things. I don't want my niece or her sons needing to clean after I am gone. I want them to keep all the good memories not any bad ones.
Wow this is my future too. My daughter wants none of it. Gonna all go in a dumpster one day...
@@sprout001Me too, and the sooner the better on my end. I have a total of 9 kids - 2 are stepsons and 1 I adopted out to my (now ex!) husband's first cousin. None of them live nearby, all in different states. I love them too much to put them through going through my banker's boxes of printed genealogy information from 50+ years of research and my now husband's stuff (he's an "I can't stand to throw anything away, even junk mail from 35-40 years ago" guy, so I've got his stuff stashed in an otherwise-unused downstairs closet.) Time has come today!!
The clipping of recipes really got me teary.
I struggle so much with attachment to things. Each one is for something lost (abandonment) or a hope for a future (attachment). It's a painful condition that I fight daily. I succeed but it's really exhausting. You're video really helps me see things dispassionatly. Thank you for your kindness and compassion.
I'm an emotionally vivacious woman (read intense) so I'm not surprised I cried watching this. My youngest is autistic, gentle and self-contained and also struggles with some mental health issues that causes some hoarding. She watched this with me and also cried. She and I are grateful for you and what you do. Too little help and compassion it seems sometimes. She's been needing some motivation and she found it, in such an unlikely place. Bless you and yours, from me and mine. ❤❤
what a massive difference you guys made...not only to this place...but also to the son who now doesn't have to deal with something that would be tremendously saddening when he's already dealing with the death of a parent. thank you so much for having such a kind heart and being so generous.
I grew up with an untreated hoarder and an untreated alcoholic with bipolar and OCD. It was a nightmare. Us 5 kids were expected to keep the house clean, and if it wasn't done right (which it never was) we got the belt. I have C-PTSD and a huge huge mental block when it comes to cleaning. I am not really a hoarder, but when I had my house, my mom filled my garage with boxes of shit she claimed were mine when I wasn't home. Two moves later and I am still dealing with it. Thank you for helping me feel less worthless for struggling.
Amyfran,
I truly wish I could just reach out and give you a hug, my dear child. You have already survived hell on Earth. Please be kind to yourself. I come from a large family. I had an alcoholic father who was whipping us with belts for the least infraction. We did not have Hoarding in the home, in fact. We had the opposite. My father was constantly throwing everything out. My parents' fighting was epic, and every night, I thought someone would be killed. As my sister and I were the eldest in the family, I became quite a protector. I felt like I was in captivity being held by a terrorist. I truly hope that you can find a way to be kinder to yourself. I am now 76 years old, and I have had a wonderful life. Psychiatric counseling helped me a great deal, but as a small child, I vowed that I would be different from my parents. Your story is far worse than anything I had to endure. I only mentioned myself because I want you to know that there are many people who understand because they, too, had the same experience that you had. I felt a great deal of shame that was not mine to bear. I will pray for you. You are a survivor, and you are strong. Keep reminding yourself of the great strength you have when the negative thoughts come around.
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How sweet of you ❤🙏🏻
You are not worthless. 🙏🏻❤️
@veronicageorge7820
Thank you, Veronica. You are a very kind person.
@@Holly-zp5fu 😊
Wow. You and your team did an amazing job. I am so impressed that you put valuables in their place so the son could go through as if mom left it that way for him. He didn’t inherit a hoarding disaster but a gift from his mother and a friend in you. 🤗 you are a wonderful human.
5 stars!!!! Amazing transformation. I am so grateful for the information you share about the hoarder disorder. You really create more understanding and compassion in the world.
As a recovering hoarder, I stumbled across your video by accident as background while I clean as motivation and I had to stop at how kind and understanding you are. It took a lot of time and therapy to get me to where I am today with so many people not understanding I didn't want to be hoarder. Throwing things away would trigger anxiety for me.
How does someone find a therapist to help a person (my brother) specifically with hoarding or even get diagnosed with hoarding disorder? He has been diagnosed as bipolar and takes medication but I “know” being surrounded by stuff is debilitating and detrimental to his mental health and living his best life. Please give me any suggestions on how to find a therapist. Thank you everybody!❤
God bless you. People don’t understand. I’m not a hoarder but have reacted irrationally to my divorce and missing my kids. Like not being able to watch tv, read, listen to music (my favorite thing ever) and only watch one movie over and over. Everything else caused me anxiety.
@@karenleonard4377 I was a late teen when I started general therapy for my anxiety my therapist knew someone who specialized in OCD/Hoarding. I got really lucky.
@laurarominger2073 I understand this Laura. I have always collected cool stuff...decorated beautifully...but the last 2 years I shut down and stopped caring. Traumatic divorce a few years ago has done damage for sure. Facing the reality of it now. Watching these videos is motivating me. It is debilitating.
Yo, throwing away the candles was dumb, the wax can be melted down and recycled
Your compassion and empathy, both for the deceased hoarder and her son moved me. Your efficiency in turning a nightmare into a salable home is amazing, too. You're a high standard to try and live up to.
This voiceover is everything.
I currently live in a house built in 1927 by my grandmother - she was a hoarder and married to a hoarder - my dad was fostered, their only child - and he bought the house in 1974 " as is" - as a kid I remember using a shovel to scrape up what was left of a valuable book collection, because the roof had leaked... continuously over years... and/or trying to rescue some of the ones in better condition, and trying to "dry them out" in sunlight.. -
I keep the tiles from the bathroom renovation in 1974 because "someday' I'm going to get rid of the mismatched that I've been left with when a modern shower system was installed... but I've watched this channel... and I think hoarding can be infectious.... tomorrow I'm getting up with a plastic sack, and I'm starting in the top corner of the back bedroom and if it isn't valuable, hasn't been used or been seen in the past 12 months it's out! Thank you.
I have bad ADHD and a physical disability with my arm. This combination has made cleaning an absolute nightmare for me, If not near impossible. I’ve been doing damage control behind my kids on a daily basis but never feel like I could get ahead of the mess, let alone deep clean anything. You have been so inspiring for me. Every night after my kids go to bed I’ve been turning on your videos, and cleaning along while watching or listening. I’ve learned a lot. I follow your steps and I am almost through my home, chipping away as much as I can each night. I’ve found a lot of relief in donating things, and recycling over throwing decent stuff away outright. Every bit of clutter out of my house it’s feeling better and better. Bar Keepers Friend gel has also been great for my arm! Very little scrubbing involved, and it works wonderful. Your APC cleaner blend has been great too! No cleaner smell for our asthma, and it leaves everything looking nice. Anyways, all that to say, thank you for the motivation each day to keep cleaning!!
Your comment struck me. Just wanted tot say hi and give you respect and acknowledgment for your effort to clean your house! Greetings from another neurodivergent worldsitizen who also struggles with both arm pains and adhd
Good for you! Keep chipping away at it. You'll get there one step at a time. 😊
One day, even if its just a 15mins a day you’ll get there. I hear you with the cleaning behind the kids I can spend a full day cleaning kids will mess it all back up in 15 mins :p leant to live with a “messy” but clean house ;)
Don't worry, at some point your kids will be old enough that they only make messes in their room XD And by that time they can help with the cleaning too. Hang in there!
That’s amazing. I really enjoyed reading your comment. Keep it up! It’s such a good feeling when you go to bed at night after tackling a big project and getting it done! ❤
My mom is a hoarder. I can't tell you the sick joy that comes from watching your videos. This one was particularly cathartic. Thank you.
Did she keep things clean? My mom is a hoarder and has my report cards from 49 years ago. She still uses pans from their wedding 60 years ago. But she is also a Martha Stewart cleaner and organizer. House is polished. But it drove me nuts to never throw anything away and have to scrub and organize so many damn things!
"If you find a wedding dress from 1959, put it on, clean with it, be all fancy" had me chuckling. My nan was a hoarder - it was a huge task as like this house it was a mix of trash and valuables and everything had to be gone through, she ran a haberdashery market stall for 40 years... I can't even describe how many boxes of loose buttons there were... but in those boxes we're small things mixed in earrings, broken gold jewellery etc. It was a real task and took weeks and weeks.
And i complain about a sink of dirty dishes, dusting and vacuuming....this really shows what you can get done when you put your mind to it...great job❤
Recovered Hoarder here, mine was triggered when my house burnt down as a child, and I completely understand my phsychology of it now, losing everything made everything valuable to me. I had other trauma built on top of that and was diagnosed later with C-PTSD, a lot of treatment later and I was able to start "letting go" of some of the things, I am now very satisfied with how spacious and free my home feels, but i do get insane anxiety if anything feels messy or cluttered now and I get quite anxious if I can't "declutter" things when I need to. Recovery from hoarding has generated its own raft of issues, it's like my brain chemistry will never quite be normal again. My parents are still living in an "over abundance" situation, its boarding on hoard, and the trauma is definetly there. I find it extremely stressful to be in their house and not want to clean it.
I’m just crying like a baby after you said this was her son’s inheritance. My grandmother was a hoarder and before we were able to go through it, most of her valuables were stolen. She had started a pandoras bracelet for me the year I was born & it is just gone forever. Man I just appreciate you and your work so much. Thank you for caring and working for these people like your own family❤
💯 bet you a family member stole it all. My sister stole all my mom jewelry when she was sick in the hospital
@@dirkdiggler9379That's so evil
Your comment is rude. What a disgusting thing to do. Insult someone.
Not you to the guy who accused you of stealing.
I think they were saying 'some' family member, not her.
It brings back memories of growing up with a hoarder. It's actually therapeutic, getting to watch one of these places get cleared out. I never invited friends over to my house when I was a kid.
This is incredible. What a wonderful service you’re providing. ❤️
Such a soothing voice....as someone who works with special needs children, partiluraly autistic. This is where the autistic brain is such an asset. The sheer determination , laser focus....the different brains rock! 💖💖💪💪
I have a hording disorder. I admit it and its taken 7 years to manage my triggers. Honestly, watching videos like this encourages me to tackle an area. Less is more, more space to enjoy with family and friends to make memories. That's what I want to collect now, memories. I still have piles, I am attached to things. But that's okay, I can move forward slowly. I am getting better at looking at things, appreciating it and putting it back on the shop shelf and walk away.....
Well done!!!!
Keep smiling. You are strong and courageous to keep up with motivation. a huge hug for your success 🎉🎉
If you don't mind sharing, what are some of the things that are your triggers?
@@jennifercastle8808 I don't mind. I become obsessive about items. If I find something I like, I have to have every thing i see in shop. Bows in hair (I rarely wear) I have to have all colours. Its for the imaginary me. Glass bottles have been the latest craze, any antique bottles. I have stopped collecting cardboard (for the crafty future me) I can go on.... but basically I have to have it all. my main goals are to keep the floors clean and clutter free. Rubbish out of the house and dirty washing managed. This has helped me to manage.
You are one of the best narrators I’ve encountered. Your subtle humor mixed in is so refreshing. I usually prefer to watch videos like this on mute but I’m glad I listened, I’ve been laughing the whole time 😂😂😂
I appreciate your compassion for the hoarders and their families so much.
My mom is a hoarder, my father died three months before I was born. As a kid it started with a garage so full of stuff she couldn't keep the car in it, it advanced into the garage had pathways you navigated to try to find the stuff you knew was somewhere in there. In my late teens and early 20s it started to creep into the house. 20 years later and it's only gotten worse. She is more like this woman.... stuff may be old and gross but it's not so much garbage as usable stuff. My grandmother passed away at 97 a few years ago, now some of her stuff has joined the hoard. My brother and I will be left to sort through a three bedroom house packed from garage to attic with stuff. That will be our inheritance, and I know she thinks she is doing us a favor... she sees this stuff as valueable things she will pass on to us. I've been mentally trying to prepare myself for years.
I can't believe just 3 people cleaned that up. He's a miracle worker.
Going back to watch this again as white noise while i knit, and was struck this time about how the guy met you here the morning after his mother passed. It sounds to me like the idea of having to deal with this house was an incredible stress hanging over that man. I am so glad you were able to help him. i’m sure he is so relieved to be have gotten help with this.
OMG!!! I was laughing so hard listening to you during the video!!! Especially the bit about the young girl doing WWF Wrestling or Cage fighting as a part time job while going to college, just classic! I give you credit for doing hoarder clean up. My Mom was a hoarder and could never overcome it, so well done you. And tell Jeff to take a flying leap! 😊😊
I am no esoteric person, but I can't help but find it interesting that she passed shortly after agreeing to having her old house taken care off! Peace to her.
I don't think that's what he said. She passed away and the son finally gave him the go ahead to clean.
@@liveandletlive9333I think that‘s exactly what he said. My thoughts were the same:
She might have made her peace and let things go…
And she let go herself…..
May she rest in eternal peace 🙏!
@@hildaba-wu1499 I don't believe it. I just don't. Son knew she was about to pass. The woman didn't all of a sudden on her death bed say ok clean my house. Mac even said the guy was like oh she passed away last night and hadn't told him. That son was manipulating the situation plain and simple. You can't be gullible and just believe what people say to be true.
You damn well SHOULD be proud, sir! This was your best work yet. Thank you for doing what you do.
This was shocking, interesting, thought provoking, entertaining, sad, inspirational, satisfying, FUNNY…what a journey! I couldn’t stop watching. You’re a literal super hero
Thank you for helping me understand my previous life! I have received counseling, hire a lady that does the cleaning and her daughter who helps me finally organize and have the courage to throw out crap. My first floor is mostly done. I can not go up or down the stairs. My son has helped with clearing out the second floor. I have found that labeling items in my craft room is beneficial. Next labeling effort will be my large pantry. All crap there has been thrown out! Too many people try to help put things away but each has their own idea as to where things belong. Hope labels will help!
I REALLY appreciate that you have enough respect for people not to take a shovel to their belongings. Not only are you treating people with hoarding disorder with dignity, and saving some cool antiques from a landfill, you're also making it more likely that other people who see your videos will reach out for help because they know you won't just trash everything.
I love how you have become a honed “Archeologist” of a clients hoard. You are able to remove the “layers” and able to read the persons life as you get deeper and deeper! It is a true gift. As you are to humanity by doing these cleanups!
The house value just went up by 20%, great job and so satisfying to watch
Wow! You are a Godsend. I wished you lived near me. I wish I could see the son's face when he saw this house. You took away such a huge burden that I feel it. You're one in a million. Thank God for you. May GOD bless you and your family and all of those you bless. I feel so wonderful after watching this video. Thank you ❤️
This video has blown my mind! I've done decluttering and organizing for people over the years, and thoroughly enjoy it. But I've never worked for a true hoarder. If I understood you correctly, you did this job for nothing, and even spent a lot on the project yourself. What a blessing, what a gift you've given.
Your gift of cleaning is a miracle for the families of the hoarders. You are an angel in gloves.
Because of your awesome sense of humor which cracks me up with every video, I know you will take this in the humorous way it's intended...
Every time I watch your six foot four inch frame cleaning without having to climb, my four foot 11 inch frame wants to spin kick my step stool and bang it into the wall in a spin kick geyser and just have step stools poking into the wall in the ceiling that eventually become a permanent work of art. Thank you and I really love your Channel❤
Enjoyed your explanations and sense of humor.
Great channel!
I appreciate your dry humor and the practical non-judgmental approach you have to cleaning. It is a small example of normalizing the idea that men are able to do this kind of work to. Thank you!
That was phenomenal! Makes me sad and scared at how easily a home can turn into a hoard. I’ve seen it and I’m fighting it with your wisdom and help! My spin kicks are very substandard tho! Love y’all! ❤🐾
you are hilarious. i love the sarcastic humor as well as the empathy for the situation of this house.
My mother was a hoarder and my sister in law and I spent a month clearing out her home. It was absolutely exhausting physically and emotionally. Bless you for doing what you do for others.
You're not weird...you are an angel for helping the poor guy that inherited this. Your understanding of hoarding is very touching. I don't know how you do it, you, your kids, wife, other helpers are exceptional human beings! You could make more money cleaning executive houses, but You're not in it for money...I'm amazed at what y'all do. Many blessings! ❤❤
My husband found our neighbor passed away in her home. He had taken her to dr appointments and basic errands for the last few years. She was a hoarder too and because I learned so much from you and your channel we didn’t push her because when cleaning was mentioned she would get visibly uncomfortable. The police were astounded by the amount of meds she had in every room but they had the understanding like you about it being an illness. I thought of you much of the time because your message of understanding is getting out. So with all that, I think you gave this man such a gift by doing this. He can move on easier than if you hadn’t been there. ❤😊
when i was a kid i had a friend whose mom was a hoarder. it wasn't quite in this state but it was close, and my friend said her mom would yell and even hit her if she tried to throw out spoilt food and such. what you said about hoarders potentially seeing their stuff as "children" really made it click in my brain what this might be like. it's very scary what the human mind might turn to if you're ill. I haven't talked to her in years so i hope she and her family are okay.
Reminds me a lot of when my grandfather passed, he had a Garage that used to be a small hanger for like. Cessna's, and he over the last 30 years had filled the rafters with years and years worth of old paper, receipts, there were receipts from the 40's and 50's, as well as rock and general mining equipment. The house he had itself wasn't bad, and was clean, but the garage was horrible, most of the paper had molded or rotted.
I don't consider myself to be a hoarder but this is helping me to be aware how this disease starts. I love deals and have a closet full of small kitchen appliances that I got on black friday, supposedly to give away as presents, but I do keep more than I need. I just decided to get rid of at least half of it and also of the memorabilia that I've been collecting for years that no longer have any meaning to me or my family. Thank you for this.
Way to go, that self awareness can save your life. Can you give us an update on how it’s going??
I completely understand. My husband passed away 15 years ago and although I sold or have away many of his things there are some I just can't part with. The thought of leaving all the things we both accumulated and that I don't use and my children aren't interested in was a wake up call for me.
I have been donating clothing I don't fit in anymore because I've lost weight. It wasn't as hard as I expected. Next are the craft supplies I kept because I thought I would make gifts from them but it turns out the kids and grandkids aren't interested in crocheted items. Surprise! So that's next.
It's hard but the weight of sadness and guilt I no longer feel is empowering.
One small step at a time. I can do this and live clutter free while I grow my savings.
Happy New Year!
Gave away, not have away. 🙄
@@genevracollierI sure will. In fact, I already started and planning to give away at least 90% of all the stuff.
What a shame the mom never got to live with the order and beauty you created. What a blessing for the son that he didn't have to do this alone. Thank you for all you do!
It can be impossible to get the hoarder to agree to any help or remediation. 😑
he literally had to wait for her to die; such a shame. what a legacy 😢
I can't say how much a satisfying video like this, spruced with dad-jokes, brightens up a cloudy, rainy day!
Thank you ever so much! And of course: Thank you for all the work you do! It's important that we all do something to make this world a better (cleaner, nicer, enter your positive adjective of choice here) place.
I'm so happy there are wonderful people like you using your gifts and special interests to help people. This is amazing. ❤
I realized years ago, my grandmother was a hoarder. Back then, I thought she was just being difficult. Years after she died, I discovered a storage unit with more of her stuff that had been ransacked, so there was little left of value. My mother insisted I ship to her boxes of items. They have been sitting in her house which was hoarded up until a few years ago when I started clearing things out.
Their lifetime traumas were very real as I cut through the layers of clutter. I've been slowly clearing out my stuff from MY traumas so I won't leave behind garbage for others to deal with. Thank you for all you do.
My insomnia is bad this week. This is perfect. Already relaxing.
Right? I was like, dammit, can't sleep, then boom, MMC !😍
Truly, amazing job! So sad the lady who lived there, didn’t get to see what it look like all cleaned up. It may have stressed her out too much though you are truly a compassionate, caring human being.❤
The creature not being cleaned had me in tears🤣🤣🤣
You all did an amazing job on that house! What a blessing you've given the man who inherited the house. Thank you for your kindness, understanding, generosity, and hard work! ❤
Amazing job! The son may also become emotional for recognizing his childhood home at the exact same time he is mourning the loss of his mom. If he watches your video and just happens to see this message, I am so sorry for your loss. ❤
Much love from the uk. You're doing such a great service with kindnesses and compassion ❤
The way you felt about these magazines is how I felt about napkins when I was cleaning out my grandmother’s place when she passed away. We were sorting through things for absolutely forever and while she was clean, she was definitely a hoarder. She would take paper cups, napkins, etc. from the dining hall at their retirement home all the time and every time we thought we must’ve gotten all the napkins, BOOM! You’d open a drawer and find another seven million napkins
You truly are a huge asset to these people. My ex-husband was the beneficiary of a relatives estate who unknown to him was a hoarder. It cost him 15k to have the house cleared out and sanitized. It is truly heartbreaking that people live like that. If only there was more help for hoarders out there.
That hoarding clean up was HUGE!! 😮 Well done all…a fantastic transformation 😊 Mack, you really do have a heart of gold 💛 🇦🇺
This is the best commentary on any cleaning/ hoarder videos I have ever watched. You are so real and honest while still extremely professional and respectful of situations. I have a connection with this kind of work because I have had a few family members with hoarding disorders. I would much prefer someone like you clean those houses for my family than the companies and people we had to deal with. Keep up the great work. I will be subscribing for your future videos.
Thank you for your kind and understanding explanation of the mental health disorder.
You really helped the son in a tremendous way. Having to go through that much stuff on his own would have taken so much time and effort. Additionally, the emotional strain of trying to decide what should be salvaged might have weighed on him and left him with some "decision paralysis," at times. Now he can focus on grieving without the burden of decompiling and fixing up this home. And to have done it in 6-7 days is truly incredible.
^^^^ Yeah there is a lot of stuff in this pile up I mean. Not the stuff it is what's behind it in her heart. Hugs to her family so sad but you know we all have stuff. I tell you something. If you listen to me now.. I have brother S.. That have rented store rooms with just stuff and things in it that's I say as big as or long as a STREET A WHOLE DARN STREET FULL OF THINGS THEY 3 them have each! Yep! That on its OWN I HAVE NO IDEA THERE HEAD? There old now but neurotic and greed to no ends. There mean and horrible people. I think they should either give it away or blow 💥 the whole places up to holy kingdom up! No joke. Greed to the maximum! It's unbearable. Ocd. Crazy. Nuts. Horder. Alcoholic. Deception. Clean to no end. Emotional. Pop a pill. Fat. Narcissist. That's about it. Oh and con men! Stealers! Oh that was in one mouth full hey. 2 sister S there as bad. So I ran long time ago! Lol 😆 that was close shave heY’ . I'm the youngest. So lots different people in the world. I say the only great thing anyone can do is move on with their life TURN THAT PAGE AND ALWAYS REMEMBER BE GRATEFUL THAT YOUR SO WONDERFUL. Be kind and smile it's all ok. ✌️🌹 thanks. 🙏✨