Straight fire! I'm newly married...less than 90 days in and our communication with one another has really began to be a challenge neither one of us had imagined. I sent her the links to a few of your teachings and told her that we'll watch these together and lay our marriage before God again allowing the Holy Spirit to work on us. Thank you for your obedience and accepting the call on your lives.
If I’m silent it’s because I’m so fried I can’t even get words out. Like too exhausted to even try to talk about anything. I’m tired of trying I don’t have the words I don’t want to make things worse
I appreciate this video. I'm borderline done with how my husband communicates. I haven't lost hope, but I literally don't feel the same about him after our last fight. 😢 he will not listen to me and attacks me when I try to talk about serious things. He CANNOT handle criticism and I'm not even trying to criticize him. If he won't go to marriage counseling, I don't see how we can make it. I'm going to go to counseling. I'm praying for the right counselor that I can afford.
Thanks guys. You are really doing a wonderful job. Many relationships and marriages nowadays are toxic and lacking of real love and unity. I hope your videos will help many people to reshape their lives.
Great Video clip! Apologies for chiming in, I would love your opinion. Have you heard the talk about - Mahorrla Guard Marriage Method (do a google search)? It is a smashing exclusive product for Saving Your Marriage minus the normal expense. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my friend Sam at very last got great success with it.
This was wonderful..... I think out of the 10 dysfunctional forms of communication, I utilize 6, smh. This was a mirror that I needed. I thank you both and I learned a lot.
Thank Q for this Wonderful Video... Having a more Godly way to communicate and show love even when things can be tuff, in the relationships. #GodBlessYouBoth 👫🏾🙏🏽💖
Glad I came across your channel. Communication and intimacy--in all its forms--are waning and we're in roommate territory despite only being married 18 months. I'm not confident hubby will attend to your words of wisdom but I plan to take it all in.
I'm SOOO happy to have found your channel! I have a request if y'all do that sort of thing, but I'd like to see one on HOW TO APOLOGIZE. My husband is so very hurtful & not only does he RARELY apologize but when he does, it seems forced & EXTREMELY INSINCERE. I would be grateful for any insight into this. Thank you & God bless❤❤
I was in your shoes at one time. I would always look for information on how to help my spouse. The more I tried to find stuff for her, the more I discovered my own flaws. We can not change other people, we can only change ourselves. As you begin to allow God to heal you and you begin to love yourself more, you will notice that he will change in response to you. I pray that God intervenes in both your lives.
You can only work on you, why do you feel the need to have him apologize. How do you apologize? I’d rather not hear an apology I just want the behavior to stop! lol 😂 but you have to forgive him regardless of him apologizing.
I would like one day for me and my wife to meet yall this is very well beautifully said and it really helped me alot to lead my home from this day on more effectively
I'm so thankful that I came across you guys. You made a lot of great points in this video. Thank you both. May God continue to bless the 2 of you. I'm a new subscriber as of today.
I've been studying when do you know your marriage is in trouble and found an awesome website at Secret Fixer Blueprint (google it if you are interested)
How can I communicate with a spouse who is overly defensive and overly sensitive? I tried to carefully pick my choice of words and a manner I spoke to my husband but that rarely works. I am at my wits end.
I think you first have to accept that your part is to speak the truth in love. That’s it. You can’t control how they receive it but you can control when and how you say it. Try setting up an appointment to talk. Don’t share things on the fly, but tell him you need time to share some things with him. Another option is to write a note or email. Again, being careful how you explain things and in the letter, ask him if you can spend time talking about it. This gives him personal time to think on it, react and hopefully see your heart before you chat about. Praying that your marriage is blessed
Every time I try to talk about our issues and if it gets heated my husband says things like are you retarded ? Are you stupid? I am stronger than you, I’m older then you , I am more powerful than you , smarter than you . I’m extremely discouraged. God help me .
So even when your spouse is cussing you out calling you b's get drunk stay out all night and we can't have healthy communication He doesn't understand spiritual things and he really doesn't want counseling he says they just people what can they tell him if he don't want that the lies are for no reason
🙏“Padre, sé que he violado tus leyes y mis pecados me han separado de ti. Realmente lo siento, y ahora quiero alejarme de mi vida pecaminosa pasada hacia ti. Perdóname y ayúdame a evitar volver a pecar. Creo que su hijo, Jesucristo, murió por mis pecados, resucitó de entre los muertos, está vivo y escucha mi oración. Invito a Jesús a convertirse en el Señor de mi vida, a gobernar y reinar en mi corazón desde este día en adelante. Por favor envía tu Espíritu Santo para ayudarme a obedecerte y hacer tu voluntad por el resto de mi vida. En el nombre de Jesús oro, Amén "
Evangelio para la salvación de tus almas💞💕💜💕❤💞💕💜 Porque ante todo les transmití a ustedes lo que yo mismo recibí: que Cristo murió por nuestros pecados según las Escrituras, que fue sepultado, que resucitó al tercer día según las Escrituras, y que se apareció a Pedro, y luego a los doce. Después se apareció a más de quinientos hermanos a la vez,
Straight fire! I'm newly married...less than 90 days in and our communication with one another has really began to be a challenge neither one of us had imagined. I sent her the links to a few of your teachings and told her that we'll watch these together and lay our marriage before God again allowing the Holy Spirit to work on us. Thank you for your obedience and accepting the call on your lives.
Congrats!!!! Thanks for watching!
I can resonate with this because I'm going threw this same thing. I do so much in our household, an she does so less it's so hard on me.
@@SeanandLanette this is what couples need to hear and watch especially dealing with these issues.
I forgot the enemy is trying to destroy. MY MARRIAGE, thank you for the reminder
That easy to
Forget and the enemy sure is busy man
Great message guys. more grace iJCn
Harshness 0:24
Dishonesty 2:06
Silence 3:45
Public disclosure 6:05
Sarcasm 8:22
Abusiveness 10:34
Insensitivity 13:20
Hopelessness 14:54
Finality 16:47
Interruptions 18:52
This is so helpful, I was searching and found something that I can actually use and its biblical. Thank you so much!
So awesome to hear thanks 🙏🏽
If I’m silent it’s because I’m so fried I can’t even get words out. Like too exhausted to even try to talk about anything. I’m tired of trying I don’t have the words I don’t want to make things worse
So sorry to hear this. We will be praying fo you and believing God for healing
There was power and freedom in this message! Thank you for taking the time to post this :)
I appreciate this video. I'm borderline done with how my husband communicates. I haven't lost hope, but I literally don't feel the same about him after our last fight. 😢 he will not listen to me and attacks me when I try to talk about serious things. He CANNOT handle criticism and I'm not even trying to criticize him. If he won't go to marriage counseling, I don't see how we can make it. I'm going to go to counseling. I'm praying for the right counselor that I can afford.
Thanks guys. You are really doing a wonderful job. Many relationships and marriages nowadays are toxic and lacking of real love and unity. I hope your videos will help many people to reshape their lives.
We appreciate the love and support
Great Video clip! Apologies for chiming in, I would love your opinion. Have you heard the talk about - Mahorrla Guard Marriage Method (do a google search)? It is a smashing exclusive product for Saving Your Marriage minus the normal expense. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my friend Sam at very last got great success with it.
Thank you, thank you. I have struggled with communication as a part of my PTSD but this helps because I can use this like a strategic list of actions.
This was wonderful..... I think out of the 10 dysfunctional forms of communication, I utilize 6, smh. This was a mirror that I needed. I thank you both and I learned a lot.
Awesome. Glad to help
Thank you. Very good teaching. This is so needed for marriages today. I appreciate your ministry. God bless you
We appreciate the love and support
Thank you for this video, I love having the different perspectives from both the husband and wife, that helps a lot!
I'm so happy I found this I needed to hear this!!
So glad to have you join us!
You did so good with this I can tell you put a lot of thought into this video before posting. Thank you so much so sharing 🙏🏾💚
Thanks for watching!!!!
The role playing and examples hit home for me... All ten ways said a lot for me but 6-10 were powerful...thank you for this!
We appreciate the love and support. Glad it helped! What topics would you like for us to cover
i love the balance in this discussiion.
Thank you for sharing
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Am grateful for this video ✊🏽❤️may God bless you guys with more wisdom to put such
Thank Q for this Wonderful Video... Having a more Godly way to communicate and show love even when things can be tuff, in the relationships. #GodBlessYouBoth 👫🏾🙏🏽💖
Y'all deserve more subscribers
lol, we agree!!!
I JUST SUBSCRIBED!
@@brixandblooms I as well, thank y'all! Never too old to learn and self reflect to be a better you
I agree I enjoy their content
3 years later and I agree!!
Glad I came across your channel. Communication and intimacy--in all its forms--are waning and we're in roommate territory despite only being married 18 months. I'm not confident hubby will attend to your words of wisdom but I plan to take it all in.
Thanks so much for watching and leaving a comment. We will be praying for you and believing God for healing in your marriage. 👏🏽
Communication is so important. It’s the key to healthy marriages. Praying he’ll come around. Blessings to you 🙏🏽
I really like the code word idea. There's more I just didn't write it
Wow I enjoyed this so much you both are wonderful people. Thank you so much 😍
I'm SOOO happy to have found your channel! I have a request if y'all do that sort of thing, but I'd like to see one on HOW TO APOLOGIZE. My husband is so very hurtful & not only does he RARELY apologize but when he does, it seems forced & EXTREMELY INSINCERE. I would be grateful for any insight into this. Thank you & God bless❤❤
We would love to cover that topic!! Thanks for the suggestion.
I was in your shoes at one time. I would always look for information on how to help my spouse. The more I tried to find stuff for her, the more I discovered my own flaws. We can not change other people, we can only change ourselves. As you begin to allow God to heal you and you begin to love yourself more, you will notice that he will change in response to you. I pray that God intervenes in both your lives.
You can only work on you, why do you feel the need to have him apologize. How do you apologize? I’d rather not hear an apology I just want the behavior to stop! lol 😂 but you have to forgive him regardless of him apologizing.
Great needed pratical teaching. God bless you both
Glad to help!!!
I would like one day for me and my wife to meet yall this is very well beautifully said and it really helped me alot to lead my home from this day on more effectively
One day. Check out our website to stay up to date: seanandlanettereed.mykajabi.com
Your message is wonderful. I'm not a spiritual person but there were great points here!!
I needed this 😔
Praying that your marriage is blessed
These are soo good. Love them and they definitely apply to all forms of relationships
Thank you so much
This is a great video! Thank you 🙏🏼💙
This is good! Thank you!
This is so helpful!! Thank you!!
Thank y'all, I've learned a lot in a small amount of time.
Glad to have helped, thanks for the comment
This was so good!!! Keep making videos!
Great video, only thing was the background music was too loud making it a struggle at times to hear what was being said
Thanks. Noted!
thanks i needed to hear this. this message is for me. i learn alot here thanks! whats the name of the music on the last message?
Its a song from my CD. Search for Not Just Roommates CD by Sean Reed
All Praises for this Chanel. Hoping for more videos ❤️
We appreciate the love
Thank you,! Very helpful video. Is thier a book with the information in it that you taught in this video?
Shashona Irven thanks for the feedback. there’s a link in the caption above
This was perfect. Thank you:)
Glad to help!
Hope you guys get the praise you deserve
Amazing video, thank you guys! God bless
Our pleasure!
I'm so thankful that I came across you guys. You made a lot of great points in this video. Thank you both. May God continue to bless the 2 of you. I'm a new subscriber as of today.
We appreciate the love and support. 😄
I've been studying when do you know your marriage is in trouble and found an awesome website at Secret Fixer Blueprint (google it if you are interested)
Please do more videos on marriage
More are coming! We’ve uploaded two new ones this month
Soo good, thanks
I love y'all
How can I communicate with a spouse who is overly defensive and overly sensitive? I tried to carefully pick my choice of words and a manner I spoke to my husband but that rarely works. I am at my wits end.
I'm in the same situation. Looking forward to a response.
I think you first have to accept that your part is to speak the truth in love. That’s it. You can’t control how they receive it but you can control when and how you say it. Try setting up an appointment to talk. Don’t share things on the fly, but tell him you need time to share some things with him. Another option is to write a note or email. Again, being careful how you explain things and in the letter, ask him if you can spend time talking about it. This gives him personal time to think on it, react and hopefully see your heart before you chat about. Praying that your marriage is blessed
Every time I try to talk about our issues and if it gets heated my husband says things like are you retarded ? Are you stupid? I am stronger than you, I’m older then you , I am more powerful than you , smarter than you . I’m extremely discouraged. God help me .
Just the way it can be...
So even when your spouse is cussing you out calling you b's get drunk stay out all night and we can't have healthy communication He doesn't understand spiritual things and he really doesn't want counseling he says they just people what can they tell him if he don't want that the lies are for no reason
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We need the emergency blanket. Our marriage has every single one of these happening 😮😢
Head to our website and schedule a time to chat with us: seanandlanette.com
My wife is the winner. Going on 38 days of a silent treatment.
Oh no ):
@chrisgentry
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🙏“Padre, sé que he violado tus leyes y mis pecados me han separado de ti. Realmente lo siento, y ahora quiero alejarme de mi vida pecaminosa pasada hacia ti. Perdóname y ayúdame a evitar volver a pecar. Creo que su hijo, Jesucristo, murió por mis pecados, resucitó de entre los muertos, está vivo y escucha mi oración. Invito a Jesús a convertirse en el Señor de mi vida, a gobernar y reinar en mi corazón desde este día en adelante. Por favor envía tu Espíritu Santo para ayudarme a obedecerte y hacer tu voluntad por el resto de mi vida. En el nombre de Jesús oro, Amén "
Evangelio para la salvación de tus almas💞💕💜💕❤💞💕💜
Porque ante todo les transmití a ustedes lo que yo mismo recibí: que Cristo murió por nuestros pecados según las Escrituras, que fue sepultado, que resucitó al tercer día según las Escrituras, y que se apareció a Pedro, y luego a los doce. Después se apareció a más de quinientos hermanos a la vez,