Phones Passwords & Privacy: Marriage Advice

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  • @lisalee2885
    @lisalee2885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I have nothing to hide on my phones....pick it up anytime 😁👍 I don't know what is so touchy...UNLESS you have something to hide 👍👍👍

  • @jameelahsalahuddin226
    @jameelahsalahuddin226 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Anytime you have to act like a private detective in your relationship. You do not need to be in that relationship period, point blank.

  • @monicaswavel6074
    @monicaswavel6074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Me and my husband are transparent and we hold each other accountable. Plus we know that God sees everything that we do. Great video. I don't have a lock code on my phone. He is free to look. And he gave me his password and he lets me look any time. And we do occasionally just to be accountable.

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awesome! Love this right here

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  • @louisescott5836
    @louisescott5836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Great video!!! You hit it on the nail! If you are one...you should have access to each others phone information ( unless you have something to hide.)

  • @kingsagenda
    @kingsagenda 8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Great Biblical Counsel. I like what you said about some people hanging on to their 'singleness'''''. My husband has a FB account he had years before me and he's hanging on to a lot of memories and people. Behaving like a single man at times and wants to interact with women and female friends the same way he did before getting married and now it's causing serious and damaging effects.

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @brittaniharold1880
      @brittaniharold1880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right and your control issues aren't contributing to your failing marriage.😒

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  • @ruhali8554
    @ruhali8554 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a Retired combat Marine I want to tell you that as what you are doing is just as important as any warrior on the battlefield. You are waging warfare against cheater on the digital battlefield. You are defending and protecting the most vulnerable of our society against these predators and cheaters. Keep up the good work *Johnsonspy* .

  • @nita2171
    @nita2171 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I am struggling with this in my marriage. My husband refuses to understand this concept. He has been unfaithful numerous times by using his phone throughout our relationship and still says he is entitled to his privacy despite the covenant of marriage. I don't know what else to do but keep praying and leaning to God for direction. The video was awesome thanks.

    • @leihaliawashington8177
      @leihaliawashington8177 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am going through the same exact situation. I pray he opens his mind with this because it is a very big thing that can hurt the marriage. May God be with us both

    • @GameChanger597
      @GameChanger597 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @ Are you for real? He is CHEATING on her and you have the nerve to bring up how she might not be submissive or respectful enough as though it could be her fault? You're joking right? The Bible says husbands are supposed to submit to their wives too. There's a time and a place for everything and now is not the place nor the time 2 bring up that mess.

    • @GameChanger597
      @GameChanger597 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @ and a husband disrespect towards his wife also results in a woman in turn disrespecting and not loving her husband back. It goes BOTH ways. I'm not disputing what you're saying but I think it was a very presumptuous and insensitive thing to ask someone who is going through a hard time and that you don't know a single thing about a question like THAT. It's insulting because you assume it's her fault her man is CHEATING. It's obvious you are a man.

    •  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@GameChanger597 --- My question was neither presumptuous nor insensitive. It was a request for more information considering the fact that there is a large majority of women who simply refuse to SUBMIT themselves to their husband, regardless. Feminism and the Jezebel spirit are at the root of many failed marriages even among women who consider themselves as being Christian. ---- Also, there are two sides to every story. I would want to hear the husband's side as well. *What did the wife do wrong in her marriage?*

    • @GameChanger597
      @GameChanger597 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @ I agree that the spirit of feminism is out of control and it disturbs me bc women should not be acting like butch men while at the same time blaming everything on men. And of course the spirit of Jezebel doesn't help any with it's control and manipulation, but there is also a spirit of pornography and a spirit of cheating that honestly probably more than 90% of men have in there marriages. If it's not one it's the other. Not every man physically cheats but it does seem like nearly every man watches pornography. What woman wants to submit to a cheating and porn watching husband? The Bible says if a man lusts after a woman he has already committed adultery in his heart. How many women have any given man lusted-after while watching porn and therefore have committed adultery with? No doubt it's in the thousands. I think that is a far larger problem than women who don't submit. And yes there are two sides to every story but that doesn't give a man a good excuse to cheat just because his wife might not be as submissive as they would like. There is no justification for that and it seems like you were asking what she did to drive him to cheat but it is both their responsibility to be faithful instead of making excuses and blaming their cheating ways on their spouse. As I said before, there's no excuse and cheating can never be justified- especially with God.

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  • @Arealurbanmom
    @Arealurbanmom 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This blessed me! I definitely agree in what you both said and I wish this could go viral.

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much for the support.

    • @powerofGod788
      @powerofGod788 ปีที่แล้ว

      It won't humans are zombies for there phones.

  • @PilotAnu-PrincessAnuTv
    @PilotAnu-PrincessAnuTv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love the drama at the beginning. This couple are the best. Much love from Princessanu 😍

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    @bakugoukatsuki7366 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @fernandafer1583
    @fernandafer1583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Excelent, in one relationship there should be no secrets, the couple becomes one.

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the feedback

    • @TurrkeySlap
      @TurrkeySlap 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's so wrong. No, it does not become one.

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      @danielmorga4731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @dextersampson3512
      @dextersampson3512 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree with you.
      Can we be friends only.
      On tic toc or wats app

  • @shelbyjohnson1465
    @shelbyjohnson1465 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    y'all stated this so perfectly! This was great to watch. it was put gracefully and tasteful! my husband needs to watch this we have had similar situations and Im praying the holy spirit would guide me how to handle this. The video spoke to me thank yall. God bless.

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful to hear. Thanks for the feedback and we are in agreement with you and your marriage.

  • @Superiorlifestyle
    @Superiorlifestyle ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Its as simple as this….. You will let your spouse know your social security number, birthday, full name, dob but you don’t want them to look at your phone….. how is that not suspicious?

  • @keanulee2579
    @keanulee2579 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is the absolute truth right here!!!

  • @LittiahKnightingale
    @LittiahKnightingale 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How do i get my husband to be open about his phone, i recently found out he was cheating and weve been trying to work on things since but he still doesnt let me anywhere near his phone and i dont know his password but he knows mine and is welcome to go through it if he wants i have a gut feeling hes still cheating but idk what to do

  • @latoyalane7982
    @latoyalane7982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank God for you guys! My ex kept giving me red flags like talking in the car on his and he was very very protected over it one night i put his thumb on his phone . He was talking about me to other woman and also slept with at least 10 prostitutes on " Skip the games app" sending money to females. I definitely dodged a bullet. I feel the same way you guys feel about the phone issuse. I'm getting help with trust but i cant over red flag!

  • @tammybenjamin3037
    @tammybenjamin3037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omg I wish you guys can counsel my husband and I !!!

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @splouffy
    @splouffy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Seems like most of these relationships should have ended a long time ago.

    • @riorio-rt1oq
      @riorio-rt1oq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol

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  • @dbug0325
    @dbug0325 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Cell phones shouldn't be the focus on marriages or relationship. Too much insecurity. Just sit back and be cool, stuff will reveal itself.

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      +Heavy Hitta thanks for sharing you opinion. The cell phone isn’t the focus, trust is. The idea is that each spouse is willing to be open and honest with all of who they are. Nowadays “who people are” includes their life through cell phones. So their spouse should be part of that world

  • @bunnied8508
    @bunnied8508 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I really appreciated this video. I am going through this with my partner now. We are not married but are trying to have a successful relationship. He misused his phone before. Promises to not do it again but wants his privacy with his phone. I tried to get him to watch this video but he has no interest. He just is stuck on me not looking at hus phone even though he broke the trust that I had in him to begin with

    • @eriksaballos87
      @eriksaballos87 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bunnie D I am going through the same exact scenario.

    • @thinkinsidetheboxsquarecir3303
      @thinkinsidetheboxsquarecir3303 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you want to keep your man's dignity if you care about his peace of mind, do not demand that he give up his password so you can just go through his phone and know what mood he's in intervene on other private conversations he maybe having with other people nothing sexual nothing involving other women but it's still a violation of privacy could be a conversation between him and his lawyer or doctor just none of anybody else's business! Only women are making such demands! Before cell phones text messages we had to just trust one another simple as that! It's crazy how this simple device is now a prerequisite in order to trust somebody O gauge somebody's fidelity! Absurdity!

    • @itsmissg42
      @itsmissg42 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then his still hiding something
      It's simple he has to gracefully give u access to everything
      I had same problem eventually left when he wasnt prepared to rebuild trust followed my gut eventually

    • @Nicole-xf8ed
      @Nicole-xf8ed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thinkinsidetheboxsquarecir3303
      It doesn't start with the phone. It starts with mistrust. Also please do not generalize this to women .

    • @thinkinsidetheboxsquarecir3303
      @thinkinsidetheboxsquarecir3303 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nicole huh?! What part confused you to say that?

  • @denverbv
    @denverbv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great insight. What a delight to have each other and support such great values.

  • @evaehlenberger3
    @evaehlenberger3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My husband never lets me look at his phone and iPad, but he is always asking for my password to unlock it to mess around with my stuff and whatever I have on it. I do not trust him messing around with my stuff. I used to trust him until he crossed the line and now I refused to give him access to my accounts. Plus he is not giving me access to his phone and devices.

  • @augustinaderrick871
    @augustinaderrick871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, God bless you , I wish my partner can watch this video and understand everything I’m pregnant and he isn’t acting well at all he is giving me reasons or attitudes that making me loose trust 😭

  • @evaehlenberger3
    @evaehlenberger3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband has trust issues making me feel there is no trust in the relationship and making me feel the marriage or relationship will not workout anymore.

  • @PumelaVila
    @PumelaVila ปีที่แล้ว

    I need help for I am struggling with this issue and it's bad, it's breaking me and I am tired of fighting for this marriage or trying to make it work and I tried this while we were courting and we got married last year and nothing changed.

  • @FinneyPhilipIndia
    @FinneyPhilipIndia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    need Advise, i share everything to my wife, my phone pwd everything, but she is insisting thats her privacy and she cant share everything to me, what shall i do,

  • @leihaliawashington8177
    @leihaliawashington8177 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was a great way to explain this ! Me and my husband are going through this right now and he does not want me in his phone. I have given up a lot of things for him but he will not even let me touch it. It has been hurting me a lot but he just doesnt seem to care. I dont know what to do.

  • @jaegonzalez5552
    @jaegonzalez5552 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He won’t give me the phone at all even to hold it. Whatever it is will come to light eventually.

  • @anjjpineda7402
    @anjjpineda7402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i hope all husbands and wife do share every single thing of their life because when they got married they already become one.. dont allow walls and build mistrust with each other😞

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      @jennymary7810 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @newin10
    @newin10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I believe that in a marriage, you share everything. If my money is your money, my bed your bed, my car your car, my body then why is the one thing that causes more doubt, problems and insecurities in a marriage be private. That should be the one thing that should be transparent to build trust. Trust isnt given its earned and i believe thats one way to earn trust and build trust with your spouse.

    • @celiarodriguez-herrera6580
      @celiarodriguez-herrera6580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You said it all.Nothing more to say.Being one is what God most high ask us to be.So that means total transparency.Everything from day one of our marriages.There is a lot of immature people in this world.People just need to grow up.And if you want a total true relationship then it should be God ways not ours.
      I'm in the same situation with my spouse😕

  • @kekeaaron329
    @kekeaaron329 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My husband and I are going through this right now. I mean I did know his phone password along with his facebook account I would ask him if I can see his phone once in while I’m not gonna lie I look through his whole phone from his google history to all his apps on his phone and then he changed his password because he says I don’t trust him and for me to trust him again he has Changed his phone password so I don’t go through his phone but the question I want to ask is it okay to go through your other half phone every other days and do you think that password changing gonna help us both in anyway?

  • @watleyada
    @watleyada 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My husband moved out of our bedroom instead of giving me the pass codes , there is no active steps to trying to change anything.

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

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  • @TheJo201
    @TheJo201 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A phone is someones private property as long as no one is doing anything bad.

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    @muminekarakas91 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @StevePringle
    @StevePringle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't have a problem sharing my phone but don't touch my Old Spice.

  • @niandaspeaks
    @niandaspeaks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I agree that there should be transparency in a marriage, but doesn't a spouse's word count for anything? If my wife tells me she's at her home girl's house, I trust that she's there. And even if they detour and go to her mother's home, shouldn't she have the freedom to do so? Yes we are one, but in our bond we have separate roles that are carried out as individuals, and Individually we are trusted by one another to carry them out to maintain our unit. If I have to wonder whether or not my wife, who is an extension of me, is stepping outside of our bond then, as you said in the video, there are deep rooted issues that need to be talked about.

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Totally agree. There should be trust. Sadly in many marriages that trust has been broken. In your case, it’s not and therefore it’s all good. But there are many marriages where there’s flirting, there’s no accountability when a spouse innocently asks where they’ve been and the list goes on. And absolutely, when a couple reaches the point that a phone can divide them, they need deeper counseling to unite them

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  • @margotaylor6157
    @margotaylor6157 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video!!! I like the short simple suggestions to assist in rebuilding trust. Thank you. I will apply

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    @Lilcutie15 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @mslisasierra
    @mslisasierra 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love it!!! Amen!!

  • @atiqshahriarshourav2958
    @atiqshahriarshourav2958 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My Dad uses my moms phone if his phone out of juice ... My dad doesn't even have any social media .. and they share same password.. (22 years married)... XD .. My generation is fucked..

  • @watleyada
    @watleyada 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We even have separate phone bills , insurance, car, ect he doesn't see the issue with us still having everything separate while we're married

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  9 วันที่ผ่านมา

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  • @rytucker5388
    @rytucker5388 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excellent advice.

  • @fhad3179
    @fhad3179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hate when my gf wanna see my phone when she dont let me see hers lol

  • @imiecatubig5961
    @imiecatubig5961 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for sharing this info,🧡

  • @lisalee2885
    @lisalee2885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In this day and age of technology.... Be on the same page with your mate....or bf or just starting to get in a relationship..... Get on the same page 😁💜👍 Or walk away...they aren't the one for you 😁😁

  • @jilllibertucci9304
    @jilllibertucci9304 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok so what if your mother married my boyfriend will not let me see his phone at all.but he wants to see my

  • @apwilcabrera
    @apwilcabrera 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said!

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We appreciate the love and support

  • @laneaspen7535
    @laneaspen7535 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t know how to get my bf to be transparent with his phone. I told him i have no problem showing him my phone and he’s like nah i trust u… n I’m like k but why can’t i see yours? He says he’s not hiding anything but wouldn’t want me to misread or take message from his homies the wrong way. What the heck bro like come on.

  • @G45and47
    @G45and47 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How about when you are dating in your 50’s, will never marry this person, will never move in together, will never join bank accounts, etc, etc. Ok to go over to their house and go through their filing cabinet, their tax returns, their photo albums, their drawers, etc?? Should have nothing to hide? Shouldn’t expect any privacy??

  • @mehmetaydemr621
    @mehmetaydemr621 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @rtoriq
    @rtoriq ปีที่แล้ว

    People who do not understand this very simple concept are nothing but children avoiding accountability but hiding behind a concept of “you should trust”, “we should communicate” (when they can lie), “YOU are violating my trust”, etc etc. But can never answer what exactly is there that needs to be hidden from your spouse or long-term partner? It’s games games games galore and everyone needs to be grown before entering serious relationships.

  • @emilleroseroxas2359
    @emilleroseroxas2359 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    me and my husband have been arguing with each other whether he should share his fb password or not. He feels like i don't trust me that's why I was asking about it but the truth is I am just curious on why does he get mad everytime i try to open it. He tells me those facebook friend requests and that's all. I have given him mine and I pray everyday to enlighten us both on how we could deal with this

  • @tigermagda
    @tigermagda 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Imagine a wife in the 40s going through some of her husband'd documents and he going crazy on her claiming privacy. It's weird, right? Same with phones. We're in an age of individualism that it's seen as wrong to access the partner's phone?

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 ปีที่แล้ว

    Any man asking to check my phone and have my password is an insecure man. Insecurity is a red flag, not a relationship builder.

  • @faithjerielmacauley3356
    @faithjerielmacauley3356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's why the holy Bible says two shall becomes one

  • @thinkinsidetheboxsquarecir3303
    @thinkinsidetheboxsquarecir3303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When there is pregnancy involved... It's her body her choice even in a marriage! so not all things are equally shared😒

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks for you comment, but it’s totally out of context with the content of this video. We’re talking about cellphones, passwords and privacy regarding trust and access to a spouses information. And to this point, if a husband and a wife share in creating a child, it’s the woman’s body but it’s both their child. No one disputes that on this page. They share raising, providing for and loving their child from their marriage.

  • @901coryowens
    @901coryowens 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo, y’all are so funny

  • @rebeccahermes5313
    @rebeccahermes5313 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The girl so ANGRY at her about them been a lie living a lie he's nuts out his kind about her too

  • @shells1889
    @shells1889 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sadly we have no balance! He does god knows what all the time. I can’t trust him, it’s left me with sleepless nights. I’ve tried to address this but I get stumbled and shunned
    I’ve had to give this to God
    I do everything I can to be the Proverbs wife for him no matter the hurt I feel.

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm so sorry to hear this. If you both are interested, we'd love to help: www.seanandlanette.com/coaching

  • @kikisbeautyworld5458
    @kikisbeautyworld5458 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice

  • @owowcherubim6948
    @owowcherubim6948 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very very much!

  • @Wilma74022
    @Wilma74022 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was very well done. Thank you!

  • @iwinzeazy
    @iwinzeazy 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    And if your wife shares Information that you don't want shared with other people? Mines shared personal medical records therefore my phone is off limits 🇺🇸

  • @suleymanarabac5845
    @suleymanarabac5845 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The TIME and EFFORT you had put into this work that is beyond excellence. Take my cordial thanks! You are really an efficient, organized and result-oriented man *Johnson spy* Thank you for all the extra hours and extra effort you had to put on for getting this job done. I appreciate every bit of your effort. Thank you for pulling this off so smoothly.

  • @__joker__19__05_
    @__joker__19__05_ ปีที่แล้ว

    Doing a good job is not always about impressive innovation. Sometimes it is only about doing something with plain dedication. Well done *Johnsonspy* . This message is to recognize your contribution related to hacking. Your commitment has been exemplary and your hard work is an inspiration to everyone around you.

  • @jilllibertucci9304
    @jilllibertucci9304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My boyfriend has a code on his phone

  • @myeed-mysurroundings2581
    @myeed-mysurroundings2581 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    She has parked and go today just because i asked her about putting a password on her phone.

  • @almighty.saumya
    @almighty.saumya 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Even if two PPL get married, it doesn't mean that they should lose their individuality.

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Never said they should. They’re two individuals but they’re one. That’s the entire point of marriage. People are made one, fidelity, but doesn’t mean they’re the same. They share all things, that’s the point

  • @jilllibertucci9304
    @jilllibertucci9304 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well like I said want if your not married but act like it

  • @mrs.ilovetolearnstuff6104
    @mrs.ilovetolearnstuff6104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why do it matter who pays for?

  • @angelynaampomaa8831
    @angelynaampomaa8831 ปีที่แล้ว

    I saw my husband WhatsApp chat with different ladies and those ladies are his side cheeck and he send them money so he found out that I know his pattern so he has changed his pattern so that I will not see it again.

  • @eskifutbol_yokaga
    @eskifutbol_yokaga ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm most sure that Brandon of *Johnson spy* is the solitary individual here that is really ready to complete this without any kind of grumble, I'm genuinely thankful to him for since, supposing that it weren't for him I wouldn't have discovered that my sweetheart was not the slightest bit steadfast from the beginning

  • @claudetterain2243
    @claudetterain2243 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg yes

  • @brittaniharold1880
    @brittaniharold1880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Signs of a toxic relationship:
    1. They feel like they have rights to your phone

    • @lisalee2885
      @lisalee2885 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      People who have Nothing to hide...hide nothing 😁 I'm sorry you have so much too hide and someday when you meet the right person...you will see how freeing and Awesome it is. Best wishes to you 🙏

    • @brittaniharold1880
      @brittaniharold1880 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lisalee2885 f*** off

  • @kar3n35
    @kar3n35 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I dont even have a parword. I just find it anoying to unluck it. If a guy wanna go snoopinng around in my phone could find my porn collection. I dont care i could show it to him if he asked. Im not going to babysit anybody. That is drama i dont want drama.

  • @niandaspeaks
    @niandaspeaks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I personally believe that we should have the right to own ourselves as individuals and monogamously enjoy our spouse as an extension of ourselves where there is a mutual exchange of needs, one being love, protection being another, security, etc. So under that definition of a marriage a locked phone or social media account shouldn't matter, because if I decided to enter into a marriage with someone, I should be able to trust that you're upholding our Union at all times, and having to question that or doing anything to create suspicion shouldn't even be in our atmosphere.

  • @Jasmian
    @Jasmian 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God is watching? Is this a christian channel?

  • @Super-yw7ss
    @Super-yw7ss 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can't even trust almost anybody these days and ppl what me to share everything 😵

  • @lilialfaris805
    @lilialfaris805 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Easy just get another phone 😄😄

  • @angrychristian6340
    @angrychristian6340 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is too too relevant today.

  • @jessefoster2832
    @jessefoster2832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
    JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK

  • @asyac.9693
    @asyac.9693 ปีที่แล้ว

    As someone who's passionate about checking if my other significant is cheating, I'd honestly love to do this. It looks like a lot of fun. Also, the one cyber spy shouting encouragement when *JohnsonSpy* was doing drills on the system was fantastic. I'd love to have that dude just follow me around and deafen me with motivation.🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @canttouchthis6439
    @canttouchthis6439 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im married for 34 years and i don't want my wife are anyone snooping through my phone period. Its not that i have a lover on the side but a person shouldn't just thumb threw your phone because they could mess with setting whether intentional are not and i have passwords to bank accounts that I don't want her to know because i have a seperated account and a account with her and to me a husband has a right to have a seperated account because a wife could upa and leave him and empty bank accounts out its happened millions of times with couples

  • @marlonthomas9692
    @marlonthomas9692 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy will do whatever his wife says is all I'm hearing 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @shawnette1
    @shawnette1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️

  • @budgirl1368
    @budgirl1368 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️👌🏼

  • @carlclarke5351
    @carlclarke5351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No disrespect; but there should be some individual boundaries. I don’t want my wife’s stuff, and don’t want her in mine. Period.

  • @almakwami1825
    @almakwami1825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    THERE IS NO TRUST HERE. AS AN HONEST PERSON WHY WOULD YOU GO INTO YOUR PARTNERS PHONE. APPEARS LACK OF TRUST ANYWAY. IF THERE ARE CONFIDENTIAL INFORMATION NO ONE ELSE BUT YOU SHOULD HAVE ACCESS. IF YOU FEEL YOU NEED TO ACCESS YOUR PARTNERS PHONE JUST TO KNOW WHATS GOING ON;BEST ADVICE IS TO SEEK COUNSELLING OR GO YOUR SEPERATE WAYS.

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Alma Kwami thanks for commenting. Truth is that in many relationships trust has been violated and therefore there is no trust. So you are correct and indeed many should seek counseling.
      A couple can still be committed in Marriage and yet be in the process of rebuilding trust. One of the ways to restore it is through openness and transparency.
      Also, as an honest person seeking to use your spouses phone, may not be malicious. For instance, I left my phone can I use yours... if your spouse refuses, surely you get why that would raise suspicion. If all of a sudden they’re shutting down apps before you can use the device or they’re turning their phone so you can’t see the screen... human nature presumes somethings being hidden. Even if they’re wrong. So a healthy option is transparency. Lastly, my wife used my phone yesterday, she was able to simply unlock my phone and post a pic to my Instagram account... because I have nothing to hide and with the woman I am one with, why should i?

    • @jenchoi1343
      @jenchoi1343 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's definitely a cheater person kind of thinking. Nothing to hide than surely you won't have blocked things.

  • @Jasmian
    @Jasmian 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My opinion: partner shouldn't have access to your phone and social media.

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Jasmian appreciate the feedback. You have the right to your opinion. We find it interesting that such an important part of a spouse’s world includes their phone. To be cut off from that is essentially to be cut out of a major part of most people’s lives. And this channel shares insight about life in general. And in Sean & Lanette’s world, God is part of it

  • @rebeccahermes5313
    @rebeccahermes5313 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's lying To her Never like them or anything not her or people. Spanish no. Thanks nope OK Oh WOW. Ok

  • @joeywall4657
    @joeywall4657 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pornography. You said it buddy. I'm allowed to have private thoughts and I am allowed to have my own imagination. If you see something that you don't like about my pornography, well that's on you. Keep it to yourself. I'm not cheating on you, and I am a good husband.
    You do not get to control, decide, or object to the private contents of my mind. Especially the sexual content.

    • @SeanandLanette
      @SeanandLanette  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The problem with porn however is that it is adultery. When a person in their hearts is in pursuit of someone other than their spouse, they’re essentially cheating on them in their imagination. Private thoughts, don’t mean appropriate simply because they’re your prerogative. The moment two become one they’re vowing to be committed to one another. To honor their spouse sexually, in fidelity. It’s not that someone’s taking your right to have thoughts, but a married person has laid them down in honor of oneness to their spouse.

    • @AutunmBlossom
      @AutunmBlossom ปีที่แล้ว

      See you in he'll.. unless you let go of it...destruction.:(.

  • @marianaorozcouribe9264
    @marianaorozcouribe9264 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolute bullshit, just encouraging people to be controlling over their partners.

  • @lineaglehorse9615
    @lineaglehorse9615 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    bullcrap. basically ur both insecure. ppl have that right to their own privacy. if ur wondering and if she's wondering then the relationship is false. and ur quoting scriptures wrong.

  • @Taladar2003
    @Taladar2003 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would not want to discuss anything personal with one of you if your partner has access to the devices and accounts. Your secrets are yours to share, the secrets of everyone who trusts you are not. I think the attitude displayed in this video will keep you away from close friendships with anyone else.

    • @creekfairy8605
      @creekfairy8605 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well... Maybe just meet up with your confidant in person, for coffee or something! I don't know what's up with all this texting b*llsh*t!!

    • @marianaorozcouribe9264
      @marianaorozcouribe9264 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally agree, the point of being married doesn’t mean you should lose your individuality. We should be able to have personal connections with more people. Let’s say, I have a conversation with my best female friend and she’s trusting me something very personal, why should my husband know about it if she is my friend, not him??

    • @hagarappiah67
      @hagarappiah67 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ppl always find excuses 😓 your best friend shd know u are married and that ur spouse can have access to ur phone ! And there we go again with these best friends issues! Ur spouse first !

  • @shomarimonroe150
    @shomarimonroe150 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A women does not need access to a MAN’S phone

    • @creekfairy8605
      @creekfairy8605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Tell me, Shomari... "Does a man need access to his woman's phone"??

    • @rodnekajaee
      @rodnekajaee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😂😂 means ya hiding something that’s all

  • @yusufhalis5290
    @yusufhalis5290 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can we all appreciate this guys for taking the time to help all of us and making our lives happy, cause these dudes never fail to put a smile on our faces, guys they deserve the best in life we'll all support them no matter what we all love you and I wanna Thank You So Much for being amazing! *Johnson Spy*