‘Scary looking’ Guy goes on Date with School Teacher😳 | First Dates South Africa
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ต.ค. 2024
- 45-year old business analyst Greg is a typical case of "don't judge a book by its cover". He may be ripped and tattooed on the outside, but on the inside, he is a gentle, introverted marshmallow. Extroverted remedial teacher Reshma is looking for a shy man who is also the protector-type.
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Reshma is trying so hard to keep the conversation going, he's not giving anything back. I feel sorry for her, they wasted her time.
He's looking for intelligence? He needs to work on his emotional intelligence. Big difference between being an introvert and having zero personality. 😮
It was painful to watch, he forgot the reason why he was there
A beautiful, intelligent woman shows up, tries to engage you in conversation, and you blow your nose at the table a few times, then clam up and say nothing for long periods of time. You totally blew it, Greg.
And the snappiness got me, so rude, when everyone around him were really trying.
Man, what’s up with this guy. Beautiful, charming, intelligent woman who’s REALLY trying to engage with him. I thought they could have been a good couple
Dude is used to getting women without having to work at it because of the bad boy image.
He scary.
Reshma was my 5th grade teacher. I didn't expect to see her on here.
She's already 41,about time she needs to find someone..❤
the man is too serious, chill out man. all I can say is that poor lady making so much effort I feel so sorry for.
Get over it!
The way he behaved at the table gave the message he's not interested in her... Was quite surprised to hear he did like her! Wonder what made him 'grumpy' to a point he couldn't hide it? It's one thing to have a bad day and another to have a bad day and act borderline rude to someone you've just met.. Shame, because he's probably a nice guy, just sent off the wrong message.
WOW !!!!....This guy would make an awesome MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER..........at a MORGUE !!
This was a sad date. She was lovely and did everything to try to keep the date going. He actually seems like a genuine, decent guy who understands his weaknesses but really needs to work on himself.
He's got a very dull personality and zero manners.. Not excusing himself to the bathroom to go blow his nose showed enough right there...
I feel bad for both of them. I wish he could have either postponed the date or did something to get himself in a better mood beforehand. Too bad.
It’d have been more entertaining for Reshma talking to a cardboard cutout 🙄
😂😂😂
Very rude man not even looking to her when she was talking.
Not sure why he was grumpy. The tattoo on his left arm at the beginning might have a deeper meaning to his childhood. "BROKEN" And the tattoo on the right arm said "SCARRED".
If he destroys it himself he's in control and his feelings protected, shame he seems like a nice guy.
It's going to be a tough life if he doesn't get it together! It's already a late start.
Why is he such a downer
I wrote a post under the video but he looks like he's been thru the wringer. Maybe it was too early for him to date ?
She’s lovely, with a warm personality. He’s a bit of a diamond in the rough. And comes across as moody and sullen, not necessarily introverted. Removing his beanie when indoors would be a nice start, that’s just good manners. If he doesn’t have a cold, he might want to consult an allergist for the nose blowing. He’s not a bad guy, he just needs to give some effort in the back and forth of conversation.
Greg. Throw that hat away and creepy 'earrings'. That will help.
He said, he doesn't like drama, yet he created much drama. Self destructive.
the beanie man:
character: tense, low confidence, overthinker, conscientious, principled, depressed, stubborn, unapproachable, guarded
behaviour analysis:
blowing nose: faking illness as an excuse for failure, and to avoid the present moment
beanie inside: lack of confidence, no self assurance, trying to look tough and scary
lack of eye contact: lack of confidence
im not a big talker: lack of confidence, cover for being nervous
"broken", "scarred" tattoo: speak for itself
Greg, take it easy man. You are a classic, all the best
And he wonders why he can't get dates. What a bore.
He is a little bit a nuttcase 😂
she laughs at everything
She was nervous and overcompensating for the fact he wouldn't even talk to her. She likely fell back on teaching skills that can help regain the interest and enthusiasm of a bored student by showing she is happy and engaged. Can you imagine the pressure of being on a televised first date, and then your date shows ZERO interest in anything?
I feel for both of them. She really tried to engage him in conversation, but he is so quiet and introverted it just didn’t make for a good date! I understand both sides. I consider myself an introvert and can’t/won’t open up until I get to know someone. At the same time I do like to have fun.🤷🏻♀️. I wish them both well!
He's cute!! I'd date him. He's someone I'd feel safe with
He acted like he didn't really want to be there and she was very kind how she did not mention him blowing his nose at the table. That was so tacky
Reshma is a dream: tall, dark, and a beautiful positive person. I don't think Greg is ready to date anyone quite yet. What the comment section is telling me is that all I have to do is look like a meathead, and there are still some women who find that I'll be 'gorgeous', 'cute', 'hot', or a 'sweetheart' or 'hunk'. Since I have no personality, I'll just head to the gym for some hypertrophic training. ;-)
You’re 45, right? You show up n give it your best, no excuses such as I am having a grumpy day. I think that’s how you usually are then. Other than that, you r very attractive!
What does his age got to do with his behavior. Maturity is not defined by age., it's defined by experience. @ The Meisaku you got alot of growing up do. Your the immature one. Your age shaming people
He is a weirdo
😂 aww i have the same, it wouldnt have worked out if they couldn't both enjoy some silence. silence with a loved one is heaven for me, but if the other person doesn't know they might take it as rejection which it isn't at all.
Silence with a loved one definitely, but here they're total strangers. You're right about the rejection.
ouch that was a mis match!
That was rough... That guy has zero game. Step it up brother
He says that's what he looks for but is it? She was great and he was borderline rude
HAAHH...saw a comment on here "why is he such a downer-" life in South Africa dude, and in general...LIFE. Life puts us back into our shells. Like he said - he's "had too much drama in life."
Greg 💜
He's gorgeous. Looks like he's been thru the wringer. Has melancholic eyes. I'm sorry it turned out that way but she was doing all the work and that get's a bit exhausting at the end. She was not as extroverted enough for this particular situation, not her fault at all. She also looked surprised at the lack of input from him, who wouldn't be ? If she was more of a chatterbox it would have be way better. She asked him lots of questions yes but a super-extrovert would have talked about herself or general subjects. I believe she may be in reality a very sociable person and possibly not a real extrovert or maybe a small extrovert. It's too bad though that on a first date with a woman he found attractive (look at his eyes when he said so !) he didn't work better at small talk. He should plan different subjects he enjoys for the next date. Sad it turned out this way as he seemed like a terrific guy.
Why did he even go? Just to be on the show I guess.
I don’t think he was too interested in her anyway.
I think Greg is my soul-twin. And I'm also a business analyst lol.
Same
I'm a certified Business Analyst and a major part of the job is actually talking to people from the various departments of a business and/or stakeholders. if you don't develop a rapport with people, they don't tell you what you need to know to get the work done as a Business Analyst. Dude must have voodoo powers to get people to talk lol
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The bartender was totally flirting with him!
I find him intriguing. He's someone I'd probably try to get to open up to me to find out who he is underneath. He probably has quite a story.
When you work hard for your body, not your personality.
I'm watching this for the second time and by what they said they want they should be perfect for each othere.He's buff and kinda handsome and she's a natural beauty and as a teacher she must be inteligent. For some reason he was silent a lot and she kept asking questions but the conversation just wouldn't flow. I think he liked her but there's something up with him.
He reminds me of Darryl from Walking Dead........great guy
Oh my gosh I wanna date him! What a sweetheart!
The first lady laughs too much for me but she IS pretty.
If you are going on a First Dates show, its not exactly for the shy and withdrawn types
Looks like he was expecting a 'coloured' super model
Nothing to do with that. Why did you have to include race for?
@@gregk199 u clearly aren't South African if u don't understand the implications of what was said
Green Irish coffee?
He’s a caveman 😅
he is an onion. doesn't talk doesn't interact or flirt just eats and gives short answers.. i feel bad for the girl
TAKE YER STOCKING HAT OFF, it's a nice restaurant ya ninny.
This guy is funny ❤❤ I like himz
Wow, this was the most painful episode i think I have watched. Maybe he was sick and not feeling good, but in that case he should have cancelled. She was trying so hard and was really lovely. He made no attempt at conversations, yet he said he wanted an intelligent woman he could talk to! This one was cringe!
Whats the full name of the guy?
If hes better at listening he should be asing her quesions so she can talk
Number one rule smile and always compliment a beautiful Woman. And don’t blow your nose at the table!!!
In my prime I would rarely compliant a women figuring she must have heard it 1000 times. But then I'm single living with a cat.😅
Nice people ❤
Love her ❤
This is so awkward 😩
He blew it
Into animals to peoples, red flag that pets come first over anyone else, sad, he needs another animal lover to avoid each other.
I would love a man like this.
He's so hot!
😂
Right?! Who needs a personality when you’ve got a physique like that!
He’s awful. Yuck.
What a shame he is not living in Sweden! He would match me perfectly! 😅💖
She looks good for her age. Looks younger.
Buff and bald andy serkis
He was exactly what she wanted, according to her initial description, yet she turned him down. She'll probably stay single and "independent".
Physique-wise. Personality-wise and conversationally, no.
He was very unlikeable but i really respect how he manned up at the end and admitted he's had a bad day. Clearly he was very annoyed with himself. I wish he got another chance because i believe he could and would do much better. We all have bad days.
Dang. I would give a hunk like that at least three dates before making a decision. Maybe five. Maybe twenty. It takes a while to break the ice sometimes. 🫠
My thought exactly.
It’s like giving up on a stallion just because he’s a little shy and introverted. Gain the trust of a man like that and you’ve got a champion for life.