How to Deal with an Exploitative Spouse? Sadhguru

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ส.ค. 2014
  • Responding to a question about exploitative relationships, Sadhguru explains that meditativeness is an important quality to bring into our lives and our families, rather than trying to fix the other person. Meditativeness fundamentally means to become in such a way that we are not the source of the problem -- wherever we are, we are a solution.
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ความคิดเห็น • 108

  • @dharnasahu2506
    @dharnasahu2506 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1432

    You can feel the pain the woman's pain in her words, i hope she's doing alright today 🙏🙏🙏

  • @sanvistark8837
    @sanvistark8837 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The mansplaining is so annoying! "You want to fix him right?" (*because his pre-made answer was that you should fix yourself... so he changed her question and the answer is "Your original question (fix yourself!) "

    • @rajshiva1093
      @rajshiva1093 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agree..no one seems to point this out

  • @mymagicalworld
    @mymagicalworld ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Better not to make fun of the lady...she is really in stress. If you do not teach correct lesson to such husband thn that fellow may drag u to death.

  • @beekayebolaji87
    @beekayebolaji87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    ...8:50everything there is a consequence but let it be a conscious consequence...

  • @amberturquoise9140
    @amberturquoise9140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    Thank you sir I had been suffering from a mentally abusing relation. And I never had idea what to do. I struggled a lot but now now today my mind is settled I know what to do.. just be brave and have courage. Face it alone and be strong & independent 🙏thank you. Meant way lot you Sir, can know what I meant.

  • @thenf9371
    @thenf9371 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    How can sadguru laugh at her situation I can understand her pain.

  • @towardsabetterlife1609
    @towardsabetterlife1609 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    And what is the solution for womanizer, rapist, child abuser? To help him find another woman daily? There are some situations where you can't just live your life by ignoring everything.. she is in pain and u find humor in that. Very disappointed ☹️

  • @ginaland411
    @ginaland411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    Hope she found the courage...

  • @realandrare1338
    @realandrare1338 5 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    U r not a source of problem u r a solution wherever u go. - basic purpose of meditation 👍
    If u r d problem or the one who complains about the problem.nobody wants to see ur face so true!

  • @Lr8_youtube
    @Lr8_youtube ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Be full of:
    - solutions & resources, ppl will run to you
    - take care of yourself internally,, inner purification

  • @manjunathb.s.9068
    @manjunathb.s.9068 9 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    thank you very much for videos uploaded ,people may become aware of what is right what is wrong certainly society will be benefited by watching these videos

  • @vandyke7575
    @vandyke7575 5 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    So helpful. You are a very wise sage! I have always wanted to meet you!! I wish you many blessings!! And continued peace and health!! I have learned so much from listening to your talks. It seems the more I learn, the less I know. Such is the paradox of life I guess. Thank you Sadguru for choosing this path in your life and for sharing your beautiful gift!!!

  • @rajrajan5869
    @rajrajan5869 6 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    well said guru ji not only for ladies it's common to both men n women.....

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    Wow is the woman crying? Poor thing

  • @priyanka1506
    @priyanka1506 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Hard words but true reality😇😇

  • @beyoundblues1711
    @beyoundblues1711 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    no words 😊 so simple n so effective.

  • @mentemadhavapeddiraju2293
    @mentemadhavapeddiraju2293 9 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    thank you sadhguru... for showing or making solution for my life...

  • @shamimsurani8996
    @shamimsurani8996 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love Sadh guru and his teachings

  • @ramachandrareddy7890
    @ramachandrareddy7890 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    thank you sadguru

  • @theredpilgrim
    @theredpilgrim 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks a lot Sadhguru

  • @Sammybizness
    @Sammybizness 9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Very good!

  • @lisagnzlz
    @lisagnzlz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I always look forward to listening to your Videos . Thank You for sharing your knowledge ❤

  • @Alok_Kumar_Software_Engineer
    @Alok_Kumar_Software_Engineer 9 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Very effective speech. So over all very good.

  • @PradeepKumar-vp9ti
    @PradeepKumar-vp9ti 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Well explained!

  • @georgegilles9008
    @georgegilles9008 8 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Beautiful.

  • @towardsabetterlife1609
    @towardsabetterlife1609 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So what's the solution for drunk alcoholic unemployed husband.. to provide him alcohol and get beaten up by him every night??

  • @sandhyarajpg8807
    @sandhyarajpg8807 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    phenomenal advise great master

  • @deepak696
    @deepak696 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you so much!

  • @skidboi5718
    @skidboi5718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is very insightful

  • @xandrarod2004
    @xandrarod2004 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How dare you say that!!! In a society where they have arrange marriages, children children children! Marital rape! And women don't have a saying in these cultures! Poor woman I felt the pain in her voice

  • @nayanmdesai
    @nayanmdesai 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    SO TRUE.

  • @fareeda1970
    @fareeda1970 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Wise wise man
    💚

  • @sagebay2803
    @sagebay2803 8 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Very helpful! Thank you, Sadhguru.

  • @paxtonwong9067
    @paxtonwong9067 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Does Sadhguru suggest the lady to end her marriage?

  • @nandkumarnair9654
    @nandkumarnair9654 8 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    shambho shiv Shambho!

  • @nazeerpasha2075
    @nazeerpasha2075 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    In Hinduism, there is no concept of separation or divorce among the married couples and there is no route to escape from an abusive relationship. In India, even if they go to court, it will take 3-4 years for the case to come to the bench. That is why domestic abuse is so common in India and a main reason for the high rate of suicide among women.
    The effect of DV is not only physical, psychological or emotional but also impacts upon physical, social, interpersonal and financial domains. The survivors are compelled to live poor quality of life and they have to financially become dependent on their 'mayeke'/ (parental home). They also have less societal interaction due to the social shame of the poor relationship. Due to which they develop many psychological symptoms such as anxiety, fear of going out, lack of self-esteem, confidence, isolation, lack of confidence and self-blame.

  • @TheAkf7
    @TheAkf7 9 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Thank you Sadhguru!!

  • @sanvistark8837
    @sanvistark8837 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    4:03 - "how will the next generation get fixed when her little boy sees his mom doing all the chores and will expect his future wife to do the same?"; The little boy now will grow up to be an exploitative man because "monkey see, monkey do".
    What a load of bull crap... I should have gone into preaching as well... would have atleast done a better job than him and given her the right answer which is to get divorced. The man will continue to be exploitative as long as he does not have face the consequences of his actions.

  • @sandraloysoonleng4944
    @sandraloysoonleng4944 7 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    You are awesome , Sadhguru 👏

  • @Rebel101
    @Rebel101 9 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    wow... finally, fundamentals!

  • @empressnicholle6180
    @empressnicholle6180 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Wise words👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it's very important to know who you are

  • @nalinikasat7291
    @nalinikasat7291 9 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you Sadguru.

  • @nitinmahendru92
    @nitinmahendru92 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Excellent Post.

  • @sh5415
    @sh5415 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Wow he is da best

  • @navyaarjun3897
    @navyaarjun3897 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    So so true

  • @sudhirpandey915
    @sudhirpandey915 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great sadguru .straight sadguru.

  • @sanjeevshastri5960
    @sanjeevshastri5960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Fantastic information

  • @CharuttaDasture
    @CharuttaDasture 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Best video ever

  • @babaksalehi3176
    @babaksalehi3176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love this video

  • @beenapp1009
    @beenapp1009 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    awesome

  • @tanmayvarshney2328
    @tanmayvarshney2328 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video

  • @nagarajaca2005
    @nagarajaca2005 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    nice

  • @mouchumiborsaikia7365
    @mouchumiborsaikia7365 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Sadguru

  • @abhishekksingh8806
    @abhishekksingh8806 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I love u Sadhguru😊

  • @The21Poonam
    @The21Poonam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Sadhguru ji is there any way to get rid of unwanted person from our life or is there any mantra to be chanted

  • @shwetasharma472
    @shwetasharma472 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    True

  • @powerofone1645
    @powerofone1645 9 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Consciousness Is.

  • @amarrs3608
    @amarrs3608 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Awesome

  • @tiramisu9358
    @tiramisu9358 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    6:09 getting along doesn't have anything to do with forced 'action'. It's just a matter of fusion of sperm and egg and once the baby is conceived what other choice does the mother have that is not judged by the society? Only to beget the child. So that's how couples who have children, children, children and those who don't get along.

  • @kavitabadoreea6106
    @kavitabadoreea6106 6 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Knowing you is such a very big thing for me .
    I got to know about you by a friend from India ,
    I'm grateful to my friend who introduced You.

  • @Eddie2P
    @Eddie2P 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    8:22 umm

  • @Durgesh_S
    @Durgesh_S 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Be solution not problem

  • @vinitaranghera5393
    @vinitaranghera5393 9 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thankyou sadhguru

  • @makundasjourney1319
    @makundasjourney1319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I Love You Scholar 🙏🏽💓🌟💓🙏🏽

  • @madhavibhamidipati1313
    @madhavibhamidipati1313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Brilliant reply. 🙏🙏Sadguru

  • @kybviews7275
    @kybviews7275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Interesting...

  • @lissuga516
    @lissuga516 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow! Truth is a bitch! And it hurts!! I sometimes don’t agree with this guy but I give my respect because he couldn’t say it any more clearly!! 👏 👏 👏 he just hit me with a huge bolder!!!

  • @bharattomar4612
    @bharattomar4612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankyou sir

  • @saibhawani7555
    @saibhawani7555 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    U r my inspiration Guruji..

  • @rahulsankalpa7731
    @rahulsankalpa7731 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Great :)

  • @joannguzman3703
    @joannguzman3703 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    🙏

  • @kalyanchakravarthy188
    @kalyanchakravarthy188 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sadhguru🙇
    Healthy soil plays a vital role in climate regulation by storing and releasing water and nutrients. Let's Save Soil for a stable and resilient climate. #soilforclimateaction

  • @sridharanvit
    @sridharanvit 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    #SadhguruJV

  • @damianfreeney9710
    @damianfreeney9710 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @aseembansal6929
    @aseembansal6929 9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Much similar to sartre's philosophy

  • @sanjeevshastri5960
    @sanjeevshastri5960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok

  • @fpmcrw
    @fpmcrw 9 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    4;15 onwards

  • @gracyrg
    @gracyrg ปีที่แล้ว

    It's a good idea for those who don't save, who are shopholic and waste money like anything so every ideas differ

  • @Vivek-mq1gf
    @Vivek-mq1gf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🙏🏽🙏🏽💐

  • @mysticqueen.
    @mysticqueen. 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    ❤❤❤

  • @lifepath5308
    @lifepath5308 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't have house of mine.. I have abusive parents
    Then I went to my relatives.. there also I got abused n they told me to go home..
    Then I came to bf's house n here also I got abusive in laws n bcz of that Bf also abuses me.
    Everyone is taking advantage of my situation that I'm helpless person 😢

    • @lifepath5308
      @lifepath5308 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want to build my own house and live alone ♾️ but I don't know how to deal with my anxiety and depression and how im gonna save for house.. buy plot n all as a single unsupported girl 😭😭

  • @anjmoon6601
    @anjmoon6601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙏🌸🙂

  • @miss.samanthalee6793
    @miss.samanthalee6793 8 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Aum Namah Shiva

  • @aloufin
    @aloufin 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Haha, they choose to do the close up @8:22

  • @raadhaenaidu3635
    @raadhaenaidu3635 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    With Sathguru words pale!!!!!!

  • @godisafrequencystaytuned259
    @godisafrequencystaytuned259 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    💜💙💚

  • @sunnygusain
    @sunnygusain 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🤗

  • @mineazco8866
    @mineazco8866 ปีที่แล้ว

    He said “hell” many times!!!!!!! I’m conflicted

  • @asankasampath-ow3sg
    @asankasampath-ow3sg ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️☀️☀️☀️☀️💐💐💐💐🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Neutral_Mind
    @Neutral_Mind 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The most Perfect personality among the male gender are those, who were extremely straight like myself and prefer to remain bachelor, rather than marry and live in between the toes of the fair gender and then scream whole life complaining.😂😂😂

  • @rocknlearn1946
    @rocknlearn1946 ปีที่แล้ว

    Real pain of housewife 😢

  • @Neutral_Mind
    @Neutral_Mind 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have seen fair gender babies being such highly manipulative and self centered at a tiny age. I keep wondering about those husbands, who tolerate these manipulative hypocrats after they have grown up.😢😢😢

  • @vtrntic6627
    @vtrntic6627 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sadhguru Bhenki 👌

  • @rickonmaui7054
    @rickonmaui7054 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    :)

  • @shilpi2810
    @shilpi2810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    🙆🙆🙆

  • @bitcoin7231
    @bitcoin7231 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Actually women also torture

  • @unknownvd
    @unknownvd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Laughinh at this situation is not funny

  • @yogeshkumar3364
    @yogeshkumar3364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    How do i fix my exploirative wife

  • @Neutral_Mind
    @Neutral_Mind 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The fair gender is always unfair. Mentally they are always extremely intelligent to manipulate things from their personal gain perspective. That is why I did not marry because I am straight personality.😊😊😊

  • @joeantsaphia3446
    @joeantsaphia3446 ปีที่แล้ว

    Real pain of a woman