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- How do you see an unpleasant spouse the same way you would see your Guru? Is this even practical? Sadhguru banishes misconceptions about this spiritual tool and shows us how to make use of it in the right context.
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You cannot change the way someone treats you, you just be calm and don’t react to the situations. Eventually the other person involved will change knowing this is not working! I have learned the hard way. This includes everyone in your life. No one is perfect, have no expectations.
This works with reasonable people, not with disorders like Narcissistic Personality Disorder. They lack the ability to self-reflect.
It seems like such a sad way to approach life. A lonely way. Why not avoid starting with any attempt to change anyone, and when they treat you badly, see and acknowledge the anger or disappointment, then continue on with life. 🤷🏽♀️. Carry on smartly😌
@@jeanmtiger totally agree ..
@@jeanmtiger you are right
@@jeanmtiger any idea on how to be with narcissistic personality person?
Most of the time, the closest become the worst of enemies ! What a tradegy of Human Nature !
True
Very true.
Gordon Fernandes 🤷♀️🤷♀️😅💜Yes we cant pick our Family 🙏 💜🌹✌️
@@rosisunny9302 I think bec our family know our emotional weakness and strength so it's easy for them to hurt without compassion.
@@rosisunny9302 Unfortunately yes !
"Falling in love" is just that. Falling down in your emotional status. Everything looks, even negative qualities, glamorous in the object of your love. Don't "fall' in love. In stead rise in the glory of love. Think about it.
I love that.
True
Well said...
@@tingle2323 aàaa
Word👍😎
I am a Christian but I take all teachings and words of wisdom from Sadhguru serious.He is a transformation leader.God bless you for the impact you keep bringing in my life
Amen ❤
He doesn't need the blessing,he knows his way to the divine,that's why he's a guru
U r human being
A tare appreciable human !!!!
God is man made bro
Relationships starts with needs involved, relationships will look bad when your needs are not met. There is only existence and you have to look after your own needs. You can share your life with someone, but everyone will change keep that in mind. Look good after yourself, so you see and do everything out of an act of love. ❤❤❤
Irma Bronder Wow thank you. well said 🙏💜🙏😅😅😅😅
Each time I hear Sadhguru say "This happened" I know I am due for a good laugh. It's lovely.
Someone watches a lot of Tony Robbins lmao
Well said Irma bronder 👏🏻👏🏻
@@joeroderiguez5105 als'nsexy niet zo snel en
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I recently lost my father.. I learnt this lesson the hard way.. To those who have seen this video, just understand it's a lesson that's very much needed to be learnt..
Don't laugh it off and forget it.. Cherish the people in your life while they're still here, no matter how annoying
My condolences. Yesterday made 20 years ago my father was killed. You definitely should appreciate EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE! Blessings
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Aum shanti 🙏🏽🙏🏽
13:08 I didn't understand...plz someone explain 💥🙏
@@digitalpawan the husband said after watching the video captured by the detective that I can't believe that my fine is so much fun means she is so full of life and romantic I had no idea and never knew this side of hers.
I consider myself a good person but I've realized when I am going through illness or a lot of bad situations in my life I tend to treat my closest family members in a bad way I don't hate him i love them but its my anger with myself that gets me like that and i know is wrong. What i am trying to say is when someone is nasty with you is because they are not happy with there own life and situation sometimes is not even about you so the best strategy is to get away from them or confront them letting them know that they must work to fix the things that are bothering them and that you will help them if needed.
Ditto
I've watched so many free videos, I'm signing up for the Inner Engineering Course. Thank you Sadhguru.
How was it??
Instead of trying to change them. Lets change our thinking for them and accept them as they are and just pray for their betterment thn to complain.
Yesssss are change yourself
No pray for their betterment does not help
Praying for their betterment doesn't help them be better. They have to recognize their shortcomings within themselves and want to change themselves for the betterment of themselves and their marriage.
life doesn't stop for anyone even you shouldn't, you should move on with your life,never hold back, never get attached too much to somebody because the moment you start giving everything to one person is when the person feels burden. Later, it becomes difficult for anyone to sustain. Love will never teach you to compromise on your self respect.
-karan
What Sadhguru just said it's so true. It's about oneself's perception. His speech encourages me to challange myself everyday to be vegillant not come down of my level of sweetness, and to keep climbing onto the next ladder and so on, as high as I can climb. when I stayed on a high level of perseption. I feel life flowing positively and I experience the sweetness of life. when I come down I expirience my own stupidity making my life miserable. No matter if somebody else is causing problems. One has to exercise the necessary intelligence not to make things worse and not to make trouble for others, just because our negative perseption. Sadhguru 🙏💖
What most people call love today is little more than a mutual benefit scheme. Love is an unconditional sweetness of emotion.
-Sadhguru
This man saves me from taking wrong steps every time.. Thank you so much sadhguru
Who came here even though they have the most wonderful man or woman in their lives and they appreciate them so deeply?
The deeper relationships go, the deeper the connection and sense of unity. Romantic relationships are such a beautiful journey if we let go of our own agendas. 🥰❤️
We hindus romanticise with our Gods not with mere humans
This video is reminder that life is not of relationships but of existence. Thank you!
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Satguru here is talking about "projection". How we project our negative qualities on to a partner or someone else who is sometimes disagreeable. This is an extremely superficial exercise which creates "personal islands". This is a defensive psychic phenomenon.
That's why always concentrate on yourself. Charity begins at home.
So rightly said
Without Sadhguru and the community, I would be 100% blind and clueless about many of the vital things in my life thank you for helping me to feel more free & alive!
The lady who framed the question is lit 🔥
s Paul Way,she needet one good Help?
Her husband is more lit ..I bet
@@rosisunny9302 yes
@@barnaliadhikary9421 sure...
Every relationship is so tough to live up to. Or maybe I am being difficult😣. Your words make sense but very difficult to practice at times.
I agree, very difficult to practice. What do u do if you are living with a Dr Jekyl Mr Hyde.
Wonderful human being during the day after 7pm with alcohol flowing he becomes Dr Jekyl!
Walk away 🙏😊
I find sadhguru today. I'm thankful of his solution approach. I thank God that after all of my marriage years finally I could find someone that I could make sense of his illustrations.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
It feels good that the things you feel wholeheartedly is said by someone and it is appreciated by many
Your words helped me change my life. Thank you.
Some people are so broken inside they unconsciously destroy the ones who are loving and caring to them so sometimes its better to be away than closer
Look at the way this man is able to connect and touch other people;s life...... no wonder he has millions of followers.
101% Guru Dev.....Every Couple Must Watch This
"Sometimes two people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together."
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true that !!!
Sounds in good in delusional theories, once you lose the respect for someone, you can't get that back , and love without respect is not true enough for a marriage to succeed ,
Shankaran pillai vala samjhyaga merko koi!?
Okoninaw
The people who got lockdown with sadhguru are the most luckiest people on this planet right now.
Yes! Very grateful.
Priceless...
i do agree to this
This statements seems a bit perverted to be honest, I thought you were mentioning some ferish or something...
I love the way Sadhguru simplfies everything. 🙏
Namaste! I love you and your teachings are so full wisdom wise one.
My day is not complete without listening to Sathguru! Pranams!
This question was cropping in me for so long n I got the reply. My spouse is a ardent follower of Sadhguru
Do fallow but don't fall low!
Use your discretion power by adopt principles ie universal in your way and build self confidence
People it's all about keeping a positive mind and soul. That's the point your health will be better and your thoughts . After all HEALTH IS WEALTH AND HAPPINESS ?. Who agrees ?🤗😊 LIFE IS A JOURNEY SO MAKE IT A BEAUTIFUL ONE .
Shima from London
If you can’t leave them for being annoying, abusive whatever and move on, then only solution is to “change the way you see the things and the things you see will change” is the only way to live with peace and harmony
Most awaited question for all....
Seriously 😷
Sadhguru must come up with a book on “Shankaran Pillai” consisting of all the hilarious jokes 😆.
His book inner engineering consists of somany sankaran pilai jokes😁..
Sadhguru has beautiful skin and hair. He looks so healthy.
Amazing reply..thank you sadhguru🙏
Thank you for shared knowledge. Blessings!!
Pranam 🙏🏼 Sadhguru. Such a great discourse.
Your reaction to other's action is your choice. Choose how you react
Good message . But It is not easy to practice this. As soon as we picked up a argument, I can’t remember anything but giving back 😄😝
Write it on paper and revise it
You're right ! Practically it won't happens
'Sadhana' (@ Practice) is always the key !.
All of us have to overcome our difficulties in a rational manner, which can come after relentless 'Sadhana' !.
'Sadhana' is indeed difficult, and it is mentioned so in the Gita and all our Scriptures, but isn't learning always difficult to comprehend initially, till you work hard, and are able to relate it to experience !.
|| Yogah Karmasu Kaushalam || translates (in my limited opinion) to Perfect Action, in the mode of Detachment to the Action per se, is real competency !.
|| Sree Matre Namaha 🙏 ||
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Can you try this expt yourself
You are rational enough to understand the function of mirror
You. Know when light is all around what you see inside the mirror is your alter image
What is your right hand is left hand inside the mirror
Perceive your reflection in mirror is simple you inside, call it as s he
Ie a mere echo box
Like echoing when you shout loud on the peak of mountain
Ie all
He mostly answers the questioner. Not the question itself. And that's the beauty. That's the truth.
First time in my life have I heard such a sincere.and innocent question
Had a hearty laugh today not out of funniness but out of the women','s honesty in expressing her feeling with such innocence
Solution Approach from within is the answer to almost all difficult questions. Sadguru thank you for giving me a new dimension to think. 💐😊
Kudos to the lady who framed the questions.
Who and all love him
U brought more clarity to my life...thank you so much...
So accurate the baby subject. Only their needs, we only have a reel connection later in life! Most intelligent piece of knowledge and advice ever!!!!🙏👌🙏❤
🙏🏼 😍 sadguru 🙏🏼 😍 👍 👌 classic words FOREVER AND TRUTH 👌 for me '34 years ago I married and still I am alone since 59 years ago I came to this planet 🌏 experience alone. Solo. Loneliness. Truth is we are capable of living alone.
Thanks a million for sharing and caring from Kenya respect and honor sharing beautifully heaven on earth thankyou we are all presented thanks my journey my breathe my heaven on earth thankyou thank you thank you
Even on the doomsday sadhguru g is going to be this calm and preaching all he have with this grace .
Nicely explained ...Thank u Sathguru..
I don't even got distracted a single second in the 13-14 minutes...
Sadhguru rocks ✌️
Namaskaram Sadhguru Tank you very much , so great lesson learned, merci beaucoup
Sylvie Lopez Easy to say keep your sweetness!
Complete positive outlook, thanks 👍
Namaste Sadhguru you are hilarious and Amazingly beautiful thank you for all your beautiful discourses you have changed me as a person now I am just as much fun and always happy seeing no faults in any living creatures especially humans. You are Divine
Precisely what I was trying to tell myself but you said it so much better than my head did! Thank you for helping me solidify this message. Many blessings. Namaste.
Very nice talk! Thank you very much🙏
Practicing what we hear and understand is difficult path. Most of us look for instant solutions.
Beautifully explained sadguru ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
There's no relationship, just needs.
🙏🙏sadguruji, I loved your speech as always
Thanks and bless you the great saint..I love your teachings..
I just love you:)!! I have been watching your videos for a year and a half and you have made such a nice difference in my life! Thank you:)!!
Pranam Sadhguruji🙏🙏🙏
I recently started watching his videos but.He is one of the greatest life chenger.
Love changes your behaviour and thoughts so LOVE IS MOST IMPORTANT
So appreciate you putting these videos out for them to reach me all the way in Scotland 💕
She's got an annoying Scottish husband.
Ganapati🙏I understood it long back with the help of my brothers teaching ( same way).It helps.
Sadhguruji please.....🙏bless me
💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐
Thanks sadhguru. It's a good and powerful permanent solution for this situation
Thank you so much for this video.
Also thank you so much for Sadhguruji 🙂🙏🏻🌸☺️
*Sadhguru* - In marriages,there are divergent expectations.The woman expects the man to change.The man expects the woman to never change.
Truth. Only when a woman truly chooses a mate for who he is without future expectations, will marriage be a happy union. In the West marriage only is a happy one, 1/4 times. 2/4 end in divorce and the other 1/4 live lovelessly together only due to financial strain. Not good odds because of expectations. Women in the West expect too much. Instead of loving the man for who he is, they see it as a work in progress and demand he change to her progress liking.
Only when men will start seeing their privileges & finally will start sharing some real family/ household furies at par women...stop being insecured of women...stop making fun of their wives to justify their perverted biases...a marriage can he peaceful, successful & their children can get a better atmosphere to grow up as stronger human beings...
Not in just west, even in the East... most men have been way too nasty shamelessly, all over the world...the biggest problem is men are unapologetic about their nastiness but expect women to stay all moral & ethical otherwise will call them names without any makes equivalent of those.
The fact is when men get changed after marriage, it's the woman's fault the man is the victim.., but when a woman who was so sweet before marriage becomes a fury to the same man after marriage, is all her fault...the man had no role to play to transform her in this way .... again the man is the victim...
That's the outlook of our society..
Because men are like moon but not effected by moon cycle
Not for me! My partner changed and I didn’t like it, and I have not changed which he didn’t like either.
Apart from handling the spouse, both the parents, siblings and extended family keep fighting with the couple and destroy their peace of mind. Vice versa is also true. Why can’t humans just coexist peacefully?? Let’s not keep any expectation from people not encourage any expectation from
Others. This will solve most problems
Once there is violence involved in a relationship, there goes the bond.
No idea who this man is or why it's in my feed, but I really needed this video today.
A physician once said “ the best medicine for human is love”. Someone asked “what if it doesn’t work”. He smiled and said “Increase the dose”.. this is what I am trying to follow these days
Sravanthi B lol.
True.. this is true..i believe this
Could be he prescribed the wrong medicine 😁😁
That's so true
Even Psychology says a person devoid of love will often behave irrationally
It's totally new answer
Right time I watched I guess... As it can b applied to friends relatives etc.
You’re so right! 👌👍🙏👏❤️❤️❤️
Nomoskar sadguru. Joy shiv shambhu. You are great
So much wisdom 👍
I love u guru. Love u . That’s it. Love ur every word . I was clear ... to live with my husband.
This video is very helpful 😊.
very good , especially first four lines
Wonderful teaching 🙏
Beautiful wordings Sadhguru 💐
After " Swami Vivekananda", you are the one, who guide me. Thank u sadhguru
I’ve never seen videos with no negative comments ... all beautiful ... as should be from so many freeing and great words of Sadhguru
good reminder that everything, the perception of outside is always coming from within us
Nice Sadguru..Shiv Shamboo!
Best ever....
So much helpful ❤️❤️❤️
Wonderful 👌 illustrations.
Great wisdom is universal...
Sadghuru speaks very nice. I appreciate him.
I wish sadguru is my grandfather / uncle / father......
He’s all of that and more, you’re just yet to know it...
Grass always looks greener on the other side
Could have... Should have... Would have... leads to regret. It doesn't help and will not work.
Time you perceive your grand father as other image or brighter side
Don't create new grand father
Guruji is also very fair as n answering the question.🙏
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 so needed
@ 9:55 the mother is no doubt a fantastic creature made by the god!! And this is true no one can replace her! Not even a father!!
Just spouse? It can be abusive parents also, siblings, office colleagues etc etc
True.. Infact I only got great spouse who cares for me a lot!
Nana Kunwar 🤷♀️🤷♀️🙈🙈😝Train you self to see the Supremacy in them,look a way from the Form!
Some say true love is divine , I tend to agree
He answers applies to all
So then maybe the problem lies within you? It‘s at least worth a thought or two.