You cannot change the way someone treats you, you just be calm and don’t react to the situations. Eventually the other person involved will change knowing this is not working! I have learned the hard way. This includes everyone in your life. No one is perfect, have no expectations.
It seems like such a sad way to approach life. A lonely way. Why not avoid starting with any attempt to change anyone, and when they treat you badly, see and acknowledge the anger or disappointment, then continue on with life. 🤷🏽♀️. Carry on smartly😌
"Falling in love" is just that. Falling down in your emotional status. Everything looks, even negative qualities, glamorous in the object of your love. Don't "fall' in love. In stead rise in the glory of love. Think about it.
Relationships starts with needs involved, relationships will look bad when your needs are not met. There is only existence and you have to look after your own needs. You can share your life with someone, but everyone will change keep that in mind. Look good after yourself, so you see and do everything out of an act of love. ❤❤❤
I recently lost my father.. I learnt this lesson the hard way.. To those who have seen this video, just understand it's a lesson that's very much needed to be learnt.. Don't laugh it off and forget it.. Cherish the people in your life while they're still here, no matter how annoying
@@digitalpawan the husband said after watching the video captured by the detective that I can't believe that my fine is so much fun means she is so full of life and romantic I had no idea and never knew this side of hers.
I am a Christian but I take all teachings and words of wisdom from Sadhguru serious.He is a transformation leader.God bless you for the impact you keep bringing in my life
Satguru here is talking about "projection". How we project our negative qualities on to a partner or someone else who is sometimes disagreeable. This is an extremely superficial exercise which creates "personal islands". This is a defensive psychic phenomenon. That's why always concentrate on yourself. Charity begins at home.
What Sadhguru just said it's so true. It's about oneself's perception. His speech encourages me to challange myself everyday to be vegillant not come down of my level of sweetness, and to keep climbing onto the next ladder and so on, as high as I can climb. when I stayed on a high level of perseption. I feel life flowing positively and I experience the sweetness of life. when I come down I expirience my own stupidity making my life miserable. No matter if somebody else is causing problems. One has to exercise the necessary intelligence not to make things worse and not to make trouble for others, just because our negative perseption. Sadhguru 🙏💖
I find sadhguru today. I'm thankful of his solution approach. I thank God that after all of my marriage years finally I could find someone that I could make sense of his illustrations.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
Praying for their betterment doesn't help them be better. They have to recognize their shortcomings within themselves and want to change themselves for the betterment of themselves and their marriage.
life doesn't stop for anyone even you shouldn't, you should move on with your life,never hold back, never get attached too much to somebody because the moment you start giving everything to one person is when the person feels burden. Later, it becomes difficult for anyone to sustain. Love will never teach you to compromise on your self respect. -karan
I consider myself a good person but I've realized when I am going through illness or a lot of bad situations in my life I tend to treat my closest family members in a bad way I don't hate him i love them but its my anger with myself that gets me like that and i know is wrong. What i am trying to say is when someone is nasty with you is because they are not happy with there own life and situation sometimes is not even about you so the best strategy is to get away from them or confront them letting them know that they must work to fix the things that are bothering them and that you will help them if needed.
If you can’t leave them for being annoying, abusive whatever and move on, then only solution is to “change the way you see the things and the things you see will change” is the only way to live with peace and harmony
I agree, very difficult to practice. What do u do if you are living with a Dr Jekyl Mr Hyde. Wonderful human being during the day after 7pm with alcohol flowing he becomes Dr Jekyl!
Without Sadhguru and the community, I would be 100% blind and clueless about many of the vital things in my life thank you for helping me to feel more free & alive!
Sounds in good in delusional theories, once you lose the respect for someone, you can't get that back , and love without respect is not true enough for a marriage to succeed ,
🙏🏼 😍 sadguru 🙏🏼 😍 👍 👌 classic words FOREVER AND TRUTH 👌 for me '34 years ago I married and still I am alone since 59 years ago I came to this planet 🌏 experience alone. Solo. Loneliness. Truth is we are capable of living alone.
A physician once said “ the best medicine for human is love”. Someone asked “what if it doesn’t work”. He smiled and said “Increase the dose”.. this is what I am trying to follow these days
Truth. Only when a woman truly chooses a mate for who he is without future expectations, will marriage be a happy union. In the West marriage only is a happy one, 1/4 times. 2/4 end in divorce and the other 1/4 live lovelessly together only due to financial strain. Not good odds because of expectations. Women in the West expect too much. Instead of loving the man for who he is, they see it as a work in progress and demand he change to her progress liking.
Only when men will start seeing their privileges & finally will start sharing some real family/ household furies at par women...stop being insecured of women...stop making fun of their wives to justify their perverted biases...a marriage can he peaceful, successful & their children can get a better atmosphere to grow up as stronger human beings... Not in just west, even in the East... most men have been way too nasty shamelessly, all over the world...the biggest problem is men are unapologetic about their nastiness but expect women to stay all moral & ethical otherwise will call them names without any makes equivalent of those.
The fact is when men get changed after marriage, it's the woman's fault the man is the victim.., but when a woman who was so sweet before marriage becomes a fury to the same man after marriage, is all her fault...the man had no role to play to transform her in this way .... again the man is the victim... That's the outlook of our society..
So accurate the baby subject. Only their needs, we only have a reel connection later in life! Most intelligent piece of knowledge and advice ever!!!!🙏👌🙏❤
Who came here even though they have the most wonderful man or woman in their lives and they appreciate them so deeply? The deeper relationships go, the deeper the connection and sense of unity. Romantic relationships are such a beautiful journey if we let go of our own agendas. 🥰❤️
People it's all about keeping a positive mind and soul. That's the point your health will be better and your thoughts . After all HEALTH IS WEALTH AND HAPPINESS ?. Who agrees ?🤗😊 LIFE IS A JOURNEY SO MAKE IT A BEAUTIFUL ONE . Shima from London
Apart from handling the spouse, both the parents, siblings and extended family keep fighting with the couple and destroy their peace of mind. Vice versa is also true. Why can’t humans just coexist peacefully?? Let’s not keep any expectation from people not encourage any expectation from Others. This will solve most problems
First time in my life have I heard such a sincere.and innocent question Had a hearty laugh today not out of funniness but out of the women','s honesty in expressing her feeling with such innocence
I went spiritual way to calm myself..just telling my mind.. but practically, I decided one day that enough is enough I will not cry and I will do what I do normally and will not think get bothered about troubles..although the troubles are real. I kept going about my life without changing my behaviour...I did what I thought was right and waited until he realised that I am not the villain in his life.. I cried for 7 years, waited for things to change and they changed in another 3 years.. Today he doesn't behave rudely with me.. He tries to help me around.. He is nice with me.. I never gave up my self-respect nor I agreed with him on irrational arguments. I just keep quiet when he took the direction of irrationality.. So 10 years of marriage..10 years of struggle..
@@sophiet.2332 marriage is definitely not easy for a lot of people.. there are only a lucky few.. I used all my skills in psychology ( never professionally trained but have had analytical skills) to turn it a bit around until he accepted that he caused the trouble and he hurt me and it is true.. I didnt try any tricks.. I just did not accept anything that is not true and stood for my self-respect and remained silent.. stood my ground.. Later I realized that many psychologists actually prescribe this approach.. Recently I heard Jordan Peterson on a show saying if you didnt do or say anything wrong, dont apologize.. wait for 2 weeks and it will go..
'Sadhana' (@ Practice) is always the key !. All of us have to overcome our difficulties in a rational manner, which can come after relentless 'Sadhana' !. 'Sadhana' is indeed difficult, and it is mentioned so in the Gita and all our Scriptures, but isn't learning always difficult to comprehend initially, till you work hard, and are able to relate it to experience !. || Yogah Karmasu Kaushalam || translates (in my limited opinion) to Perfect Action, in the mode of Detachment to the Action per se, is real competency !. || Sree Matre Namaha 🙏 ||
Can you try this expt yourself You are rational enough to understand the function of mirror You. Know when light is all around what you see inside the mirror is your alter image What is your right hand is left hand inside the mirror Perceive your reflection in mirror is simple you inside, call it as s he Ie a mere echo box Like echoing when you shout loud on the peak of mountain Ie all
I'd more advise , if you don't truly love your future wife , don't marry her and if you don't truly love your future husband, don't marry him , Otherwise you're just playing games with yourself and others
Cohabitation will ruin even the best of relationships, esp if the cohabitants aren't in sync. This is true not just for marriage, but any kind of relationship. Parent/child; best friends; roommates, etc.
I want to send this to my wife, but not sure how she'll take it.. I dont want her to think I'm calling her a nasty creature when the intention is to help have peace within herself and live happily. She's a wonderful woman but for the last 3-4yrs she wakes up and lives every day with anger/pain
Maybe you could just put it on sometime and then watch it together without making it a big deal or making her feel like you think she's the nasty creature. This advice and wisdom applies to pretty much everyone who has close relationships with other people. 🙏
I believe in reincarnation because of Edgar Cayce. It solved all my questions. Delores Cannon said we make packs with the people in our lives before we come back here. It made me forgive my husband and realize I was not a victim but a co- creator and not blameless even though I had no clue how. I felt so much peace by dropping the blame game. We are here to improve our lives because we need the experiences.
I have tried this with my spouse. I love her alot but her approach to situations drives me nuts which is my problem. I have to remind myself she is doing what she thinks is best as am I. Neither or us are right or wrong. Then I just smile which is percieved by her as mocking her...hahah even though it's the total opposite.
Sadhguru and your followers pleas pray and wish I do well on my new business venture. 😊☺ I hav just had a baby and really want my hard work to become sucess very soon. Thanks and god bless you all too x
Namaste Sadhguru you are hilarious and Amazingly beautiful thank you for all your beautiful discourses you have changed me as a person now I am just as much fun and always happy seeing no faults in any living creatures especially humans. You are Divine
Precisely what I was trying to tell myself but you said it so much better than my head did! Thank you for helping me solidify this message. Many blessings. Namaste.
At 9:41 no sadh guruji you are wrong the child can understand mother’s touch, the child can have some feelings for her mother coz even if you fulfil the child’s needs then also child will miss his/her mother! That’s attachment is love! Anybody can feed and carry a child whole day and love the child whole day still a child misses her/his mom!! I worked in childcare and this is my observation!! That is love!! I observed guruji you always be little love in any possible way!! If you don’t believe in love that doesn’t mean love doesn’t exist!!
When you have to deal with tricky, abusive creatures better to end the relationship, than be stamped dead like the praying man to the elephant in the story.
Sadhguru, if everything happening around us when people behave badly with us, do we still see those people with love and compassion by changing our perspective? Does it mean there is no quality of ugly people in anyone? Is no one bad? Before marriage actually we don't actually know the basic nature of the opposite which we can only know after living life and spending more time with them. Does it mean we have to ignore for what they do to us and let them do it? This is so tricky to understand. Please elaborate more in detail and help us understanding the way you explains. Thank you🙏
Hi, there are 2 situations here. First is that if we have gained insights and practiced inner engineering before getting married, I am pretty sure we will make the right choice. Second is that we have married and then regrets about the choice, now we can only treat ourselves to travel through the journey with Sadhguru's advice and live a peaceful life
@@shivaanshc1 ....u r probably dealing with a narcissist...there r lots of videos to help ppl who r living in abusive relationship...u can check it out..
@@universeofopulence acceptance is something I tried to convey to her I know I cannot teach her I can only point towards the path for her, just like she couldn't continue, she left, now I'm in the spot where I cannot move, it feels like my spine is broken but it's not, I want to but also i do not want to, is it okay to live with it, most certainly it'll feed off on me, but I can't stand this cycle anymore.
@@universeofopulence I tried to tell her to not leave and give me some time and let me show her that I can use different more suitable ways for her, she just couldn't, or didn't it's a choice after all, it feels like I lose my aura every single moment that she grows more distant, not the memories the feelings I have for her, in her absence they hurt for I know now that she has found someone else
We are all individuals with different DNA and upbringing so we can’t change anyone Learn to handle challenges This is why we have come to this life, to be strong and immune to challenges I’m not a guru But that’s what I think
Best way to stay in relationship is satisfaction, at least i found it with my experiences. If you don't feel that satisfaction or intution fully with the person you talking, meeting, laughing or sharing ecstacy don't start the relation.
You cannot change the way someone treats you, you just be calm and don’t react to the situations. Eventually the other person involved will change knowing this is not working! I have learned the hard way. This includes everyone in your life. No one is perfect, have no expectations.
This works with reasonable people, not with disorders like Narcissistic Personality Disorder. They lack the ability to self-reflect.
It seems like such a sad way to approach life. A lonely way. Why not avoid starting with any attempt to change anyone, and when they treat you badly, see and acknowledge the anger or disappointment, then continue on with life. 🤷🏽♀️. Carry on smartly😌
@@jeanmtiger totally agree ..
@@jeanmtiger you are right
@@jeanmtiger any idea on how to be with narcissistic personality person?
"Falling in love" is just that. Falling down in your emotional status. Everything looks, even negative qualities, glamorous in the object of your love. Don't "fall' in love. In stead rise in the glory of love. Think about it.
I love that.
True
Well said...
@@tingle2323 aàaa
Word👍😎
Most of the time, the closest become the worst of enemies ! What a tradegy of Human Nature !
True
Very true.
Gordon Fernandes 🤷♀️🤷♀️😅💜Yes we cant pick our Family 🙏 💜🌹✌️
@@rosisunny9302 I think bec our family know our emotional weakness and strength so it's easy for them to hurt without compassion.
@@rosisunny9302 Unfortunately yes !
Relationships starts with needs involved, relationships will look bad when your needs are not met. There is only existence and you have to look after your own needs. You can share your life with someone, but everyone will change keep that in mind. Look good after yourself, so you see and do everything out of an act of love. ❤❤❤
Irma Bronder Wow thank you. well said 🙏💜🙏😅😅😅😅
Each time I hear Sadhguru say "This happened" I know I am due for a good laugh. It's lovely.
Someone watches a lot of Tony Robbins lmao
Well said Irma bronder 👏🏻👏🏻
@@joeroderiguez5105 als'nsexy niet zo snel en
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I recently lost my father.. I learnt this lesson the hard way.. To those who have seen this video, just understand it's a lesson that's very much needed to be learnt..
Don't laugh it off and forget it.. Cherish the people in your life while they're still here, no matter how annoying
My condolences. Yesterday made 20 years ago my father was killed. You definitely should appreciate EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE! Blessings
À
Aum shanti 🙏🏽🙏🏽
13:08 I didn't understand...plz someone explain 💥🙏
@@digitalpawan the husband said after watching the video captured by the detective that I can't believe that my fine is so much fun means she is so full of life and romantic I had no idea and never knew this side of hers.
I am a Christian but I take all teachings and words of wisdom from Sadhguru serious.He is a transformation leader.God bless you for the impact you keep bringing in my life
Amen ❤
He doesn't need the blessing,he knows his way to the divine,that's why he's a guru
U r human being
A tare appreciable human !!!!
God is man made bro
I've watched so many free videos, I'm signing up for the Inner Engineering Course. Thank you Sadhguru.
How was it??
Satguru here is talking about "projection". How we project our negative qualities on to a partner or someone else who is sometimes disagreeable. This is an extremely superficial exercise which creates "personal islands". This is a defensive psychic phenomenon.
That's why always concentrate on yourself. Charity begins at home.
So rightly said
What Sadhguru just said it's so true. It's about oneself's perception. His speech encourages me to challange myself everyday to be vegillant not come down of my level of sweetness, and to keep climbing onto the next ladder and so on, as high as I can climb. when I stayed on a high level of perseption. I feel life flowing positively and I experience the sweetness of life. when I come down I expirience my own stupidity making my life miserable. No matter if somebody else is causing problems. One has to exercise the necessary intelligence not to make things worse and not to make trouble for others, just because our negative perseption. Sadhguru 🙏💖
I find sadhguru today. I'm thankful of his solution approach. I thank God that after all of my marriage years finally I could find someone that I could make sense of his illustrations.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
Look at the way this man is able to connect and touch other people;s life...... no wonder he has millions of followers.
Instead of trying to change them. Lets change our thinking for them and accept them as they are and just pray for their betterment thn to complain.
Yesssss are change yourself
No pray for their betterment does not help
Praying for their betterment doesn't help them be better. They have to recognize their shortcomings within themselves and want to change themselves for the betterment of themselves and their marriage.
life doesn't stop for anyone even you shouldn't, you should move on with your life,never hold back, never get attached too much to somebody because the moment you start giving everything to one person is when the person feels burden. Later, it becomes difficult for anyone to sustain. Love will never teach you to compromise on your self respect.
-karan
I consider myself a good person but I've realized when I am going through illness or a lot of bad situations in my life I tend to treat my closest family members in a bad way I don't hate him i love them but its my anger with myself that gets me like that and i know is wrong. What i am trying to say is when someone is nasty with you is because they are not happy with there own life and situation sometimes is not even about you so the best strategy is to get away from them or confront them letting them know that they must work to fix the things that are bothering them and that you will help them if needed.
Ditto
It feels good that the things you feel wholeheartedly is said by someone and it is appreciated by many
If you can’t leave them for being annoying, abusive whatever and move on, then only solution is to “change the way you see the things and the things you see will change” is the only way to live with peace and harmony
This video is reminder that life is not of relationships but of existence. Thank you!
😊😊🙏
Every relationship is so tough to live up to. Or maybe I am being difficult😣. Your words make sense but very difficult to practice at times.
I agree, very difficult to practice. What do u do if you are living with a Dr Jekyl Mr Hyde.
Wonderful human being during the day after 7pm with alcohol flowing he becomes Dr Jekyl!
Walk away 🙏😊
This question was cropping in me for so long n I got the reply. My spouse is a ardent follower of Sadhguru
Do fallow but don't fall low!
Use your discretion power by adopt principles ie universal in your way and build self confidence
101% Guru Dev.....Every Couple Must Watch This
Without Sadhguru and the community, I would be 100% blind and clueless about many of the vital things in my life thank you for helping me to feel more free & alive!
What most people call love today is little more than a mutual benefit scheme. Love is an unconditional sweetness of emotion.
-Sadhguru
This man saves me from taking wrong steps every time.. Thank you so much sadhguru
"Sometimes two people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together."
😊😊❤️
true that !!!
Sounds in good in delusional theories, once you lose the respect for someone, you can't get that back , and love without respect is not true enough for a marriage to succeed ,
Shankaran pillai vala samjhyaga merko koi!?
Okoninaw
🙏🏼 😍 sadguru 🙏🏼 😍 👍 👌 classic words FOREVER AND TRUTH 👌 for me '34 years ago I married and still I am alone since 59 years ago I came to this planet 🌏 experience alone. Solo. Loneliness. Truth is we are capable of living alone.
A physician once said “ the best medicine for human is love”. Someone asked “what if it doesn’t work”. He smiled and said “Increase the dose”.. this is what I am trying to follow these days
Sravanthi B lol.
True.. this is true..i believe this
Could be he prescribed the wrong medicine 😁😁
That's so true
Even Psychology says a person devoid of love will often behave irrationally
*Sadhguru* - In marriages,there are divergent expectations.The woman expects the man to change.The man expects the woman to never change.
Truth. Only when a woman truly chooses a mate for who he is without future expectations, will marriage be a happy union. In the West marriage only is a happy one, 1/4 times. 2/4 end in divorce and the other 1/4 live lovelessly together only due to financial strain. Not good odds because of expectations. Women in the West expect too much. Instead of loving the man for who he is, they see it as a work in progress and demand he change to her progress liking.
Only when men will start seeing their privileges & finally will start sharing some real family/ household furies at par women...stop being insecured of women...stop making fun of their wives to justify their perverted biases...a marriage can he peaceful, successful & their children can get a better atmosphere to grow up as stronger human beings...
Not in just west, even in the East... most men have been way too nasty shamelessly, all over the world...the biggest problem is men are unapologetic about their nastiness but expect women to stay all moral & ethical otherwise will call them names without any makes equivalent of those.
The fact is when men get changed after marriage, it's the woman's fault the man is the victim.., but when a woman who was so sweet before marriage becomes a fury to the same man after marriage, is all her fault...the man had no role to play to transform her in this way .... again the man is the victim...
That's the outlook of our society..
Because men are like moon but not effected by moon cycle
Not for me! My partner changed and I didn’t like it, and I have not changed which he didn’t like either.
Some people are so broken inside they unconsciously destroy the ones who are loving and caring to them so sometimes its better to be away than closer
I love the way Sadhguru simplfies everything. 🙏
My day is not complete without listening to Sathguru! Pranams!
Just spouse? It can be abusive parents also, siblings, office colleagues etc etc
True.. Infact I only got great spouse who cares for me a lot!
Nana Kunwar 🤷♀️🤷♀️🙈🙈😝Train you self to see the Supremacy in them,look a way from the Form!
Some say true love is divine , I tend to agree
He answers applies to all
So then maybe the problem lies within you? It‘s at least worth a thought or two.
Your words helped me change my life. Thank you.
So accurate the baby subject. Only their needs, we only have a reel connection later in life! Most intelligent piece of knowledge and advice ever!!!!🙏👌🙏❤
Who came here even though they have the most wonderful man or woman in their lives and they appreciate them so deeply?
The deeper relationships go, the deeper the connection and sense of unity. Romantic relationships are such a beautiful journey if we let go of our own agendas. 🥰❤️
We hindus romanticise with our Gods not with mere humans
The people who got lockdown with sadhguru are the most luckiest people on this planet right now.
Yes! Very grateful.
Priceless...
i do agree to this
This statements seems a bit perverted to be honest, I thought you were mentioning some ferish or something...
People it's all about keeping a positive mind and soul. That's the point your health will be better and your thoughts . After all HEALTH IS WEALTH AND HAPPINESS ?. Who agrees ?🤗😊 LIFE IS A JOURNEY SO MAKE IT A BEAUTIFUL ONE .
Shima from London
He mostly answers the questioner. Not the question itself. And that's the beauty. That's the truth.
Even on the doomsday sadhguru g is going to be this calm and preaching all he have with this grace .
Your reaction to other's action is your choice. Choose how you react
Apart from handling the spouse, both the parents, siblings and extended family keep fighting with the couple and destroy their peace of mind. Vice versa is also true. Why can’t humans just coexist peacefully?? Let’s not keep any expectation from people not encourage any expectation from
Others. This will solve most problems
Practicing what we hear and understand is difficult path. Most of us look for instant solutions.
The lady who framed the question is lit 🔥
s Paul Way,she needet one good Help?
Her husband is more lit ..I bet
@@rosisunny9302 yes
@@barnaliadhikary9421 sure...
Sadhguru has beautiful skin and hair. He looks so healthy.
First time in my life have I heard such a sincere.and innocent question
Had a hearty laugh today not out of funniness but out of the women','s honesty in expressing her feeling with such innocence
Solution Approach from within is the answer to almost all difficult questions. Sadguru thank you for giving me a new dimension to think. 💐😊
I’ve never seen videos with no negative comments ... all beautiful ... as should be from so many freeing and great words of Sadhguru
Kudos to the lady who framed the questions.
Most awaited question for all....
Seriously 😷
I don't even got distracted a single second in the 13-14 minutes...
Sadhguru rocks ✌️
@ 9:55 the mother is no doubt a fantastic creature made by the god!! And this is true no one can replace her! Not even a father!!
Once there is violence involved in a relationship, there goes the bond.
Sadhguru must come up with a book on “Shankaran Pillai” consisting of all the hilarious jokes 😆.
His book inner engineering consists of somany sankaran pilai jokes😁..
No idea who this man is or why it's in my feed, but I really needed this video today.
I went spiritual way to calm myself..just telling my mind.. but practically, I decided one day that enough is enough I will not cry and I will do what I do normally and will not think get bothered about troubles..although the troubles are real. I kept going about my life without changing my behaviour...I did what I thought was right and waited until he realised that I am not the villain in his life.. I cried for 7 years, waited for things to change and they changed in another 3 years..
Today he doesn't behave rudely with me.. He tries to help me around.. He is nice with me.. I never gave up my self-respect nor I agreed with him on irrational arguments. I just keep quiet when he took the direction of irrationality.. So 10 years of marriage..10 years of struggle..
Im going thru it for 14 years..my son said im the hero😊.
Ten years is a very very long time...
Am in it last 30 years !
No change 😑
@@sophiet.2332 marriage is definitely not easy for a lot of people.. there are only a lucky few..
I used all my skills in psychology ( never professionally trained but have had analytical skills) to turn it a bit around until he accepted that he caused the trouble and he hurt me and it is true.. I didnt try any tricks.. I just did not accept anything that is not true and stood for my self-respect and remained silent.. stood my ground..
Later I realized that many psychologists actually prescribe this approach.. Recently I heard Jordan Peterson on a show saying if you didnt do or say anything wrong, dont apologize.. wait for 2 weeks and it will go..
I am a north indian and i used to feel south indian different from me ...but after Sadhguru , i admire them and felt better than us 🙏🙏🏾
Good message . But It is not easy to practice this. As soon as we picked up a argument, I can’t remember anything but giving back 😄😝
Write it on paper and revise it
You're right ! Practically it won't happens
'Sadhana' (@ Practice) is always the key !.
All of us have to overcome our difficulties in a rational manner, which can come after relentless 'Sadhana' !.
'Sadhana' is indeed difficult, and it is mentioned so in the Gita and all our Scriptures, but isn't learning always difficult to comprehend initially, till you work hard, and are able to relate it to experience !.
|| Yogah Karmasu Kaushalam || translates (in my limited opinion) to Perfect Action, in the mode of Detachment to the Action per se, is real competency !.
|| Sree Matre Namaha 🙏 ||
Can you try this expt yourself
You are rational enough to understand the function of mirror
You. Know when light is all around what you see inside the mirror is your alter image
What is your right hand is left hand inside the mirror
Perceive your reflection in mirror is simple you inside, call it as s he
Ie a mere echo box
Like echoing when you shout loud on the peak of mountain
Ie all
It shows that you are unable to control your own mind.
I'd more advise , if you don't truly love your future wife , don't marry her and if you don't truly love your future husband, don't marry him ,
Otherwise you're just playing games with yourself and others
Well said 👏
DON'T GET MARRIED.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
@Twisted Soul
Why there is a washing machine 🌺🙏😊🤣
13:08 I didn't understand...plz someone explain 💥🙏
@Twisted Soul
As long as you understand yourself
I am happy for you😂
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Married 😁
Cohabitation will ruin even the best of relationships, esp if the cohabitants aren't in sync. This is true not just for marriage, but any kind of relationship. Parent/child; best friends; roommates, etc.
Very wise
It's hard to read comments while watching sadhguru videos. u have to hear him until he ends
So appreciate you putting these videos out for them to reach me all the way in Scotland 💕
She's got an annoying Scottish husband.
I want to send this to my wife, but not sure how she'll take it.. I dont want her to think I'm calling her a nasty creature when the intention is to help have peace within herself and live happily. She's a wonderful woman but for the last 3-4yrs she wakes up and lives every day with anger/pain
HUSSOUL MAN what happens when you are away for some weeks? Tell her you need that.
Maybe you could just put it on sometime and then watch it together without making it a big deal or making her feel like you think she's the nasty creature.
This advice and wisdom applies to pretty much everyone who has close relationships with other people. 🙏
Lolol
Common it's a wife ,,b careful
What's bothering her?
I just love you:)!! I have been watching your videos for a year and a half and you have made such a nice difference in my life! Thank you:)!!
I believe in reincarnation because of Edgar Cayce. It solved all my questions. Delores Cannon said we make packs with the people in our lives before we come back here. It made me forgive my husband and realize I was not a victim but a co- creator and not blameless even though I had no clue how. I felt so much peace by dropping the blame game. We are here to improve our lives because we need the experiences.
I have tried this with my spouse. I love her alot but her approach to situations drives me nuts which is my problem. I have to remind myself she is doing what she thinks is best as am I. Neither or us are right or wrong. Then I just smile which is percieved by her as mocking her...hahah even though it's the total opposite.
There's no relationship, just needs.
After " Swami Vivekananda", you are the one, who guide me. Thank u sadhguru
Ganapati🙏I understood it long back with the help of my brothers teaching ( same way).It helps.
Namaste! I love you and your teachings are so full wisdom wise one.
good reminder that everything, the perception of outside is always coming from within us
Sadhguru and your followers pleas pray and wish I do well on my new business venture. 😊☺ I hav just had a baby and really want my hard work to become sucess very soon.
Thanks and god bless you all too x
God bless u and your family with love and succes in life
@@rabbitfamily3166 Love to you too and god bless . Let the light guide you to your ventures too .
HAR HAR MAHADEV 🙏💫🌠💥
Thank u sister
Brilliant! This couldn't have came at a better time 😂🙏👍
Love this guy forreal 👁👁👁👁👁
Pleasant and sweet to hear but not possible in life..
Very beautiful 💐 arrangements next to 😔♓guru..👍😍🕊😉🏜🙏..
Refining yourself is the answer in adversities ..As win win situation
It’s true. Trying to leave ego is probably more important.
What about unconditional love? And that happiness happens within oneself? How will you choose people in your life without it being conditional?
Who and all love him
Thank you so much for this video.
Also thank you so much for Sadhguruji 🙂🙏🏻🌸☺️
Namaste Sadhguru you are hilarious and Amazingly beautiful thank you for all your beautiful discourses you have changed me as a person now I am just as much fun and always happy seeing no faults in any living creatures especially humans. You are Divine
Precisely what I was trying to tell myself but you said it so much better than my head did! Thank you for helping me solidify this message. Many blessings. Namaste.
At 9:41 no sadh guruji you are wrong the child can understand mother’s touch, the child can have some feelings for her mother coz even if you fulfil the child’s needs then also child will miss his/her mother! That’s attachment is love!
Anybody can feed and carry a child whole day and love the child whole day still a child misses her/his mom!! I worked in childcare and this is my observation!! That is love!! I observed guruji you always be little love in any possible way!! If you don’t believe in love that doesn’t mean love doesn’t exist!!
That also is her need.cas child feels protected with familiar hands familiar touch.Thats all.
I recently started watching his videos but.He is one of the greatest life chenger.
😆 love this guy. He's Great ❤️
I’ve tried to remain calm, but he just have to say one last thing that makes me react.
When you have to deal with tricky, abusive creatures better to end the relationship, than be stamped dead like the praying man to the elephant in the story.
I love u guru. Love u . That’s it. Love ur every word . I was clear ... to live with my husband.
Yes life is being alone, but not lonely but have good friends.
U brought more clarity to my life...thank you so much...
Sadhguru, if everything happening around us when people behave badly with us, do we still see those people with love and compassion by changing our perspective? Does it mean there is no quality of ugly people in anyone? Is no one bad? Before marriage actually we don't actually know the basic nature of the opposite which we can only know after living life and spending more time with them. Does it mean we have to ignore for what they do to us and let them do it? This is so tricky to understand. Please elaborate more in detail and help us understanding the way you explains. Thank you🙏
Hi, there are 2 situations here. First is that if we have gained insights and practiced inner engineering before getting married, I am pretty sure we will make the right choice. Second is that we have married and then regrets about the choice, now we can only treat ourselves to travel through the journey with Sadhguru's advice and live a peaceful life
After a long time, I watched a video twice simultaneously. I can't believe this... He is so much fun.. 😂❤️🙏
I admire how you have these emotions and you are able to live above these sir, for me, it's like I gave away my life and I cannot find it again sir.
@Vinod Kumar lol
@@shivaanshc1 ....u r probably dealing with a narcissist...there r lots of videos to help ppl who r living in abusive relationship...u can check it out..
@@universeofopulence acceptance is something I tried to convey to her I know I cannot teach her I can only point towards the path for her, just like she couldn't continue, she left, now I'm in the spot where I cannot move, it feels like my spine is broken but it's not, I want to but also i do not want to, is it okay to live with it, most certainly it'll feed off on me, but I can't stand this cycle anymore.
@@universeofopulence I tried to tell her to not leave and give me some time and let me show her that I can use different more suitable ways for her, she just couldn't, or didn't it's a choice after all, it feels like I lose my aura every single moment that she grows more distant, not the memories the feelings I have for her, in her absence they hurt for I know now that she has found someone else
@@shivaanshc1 ...move on... life is more important...
Hahaha Sadhguru, and you're so much fun! Upwards and Onwards I always say! All Our Love from Scotland 💚🏴 💜
13:08 I didn't understand...plz someone explain 💥🙏
Great country, I might come there for my research in psychology.
@@digitalpawan The Irony is he's not even bothered that his wife may be having an affair, he's more astounded that's she's so much fun!!
@@anish10242 Aye you really should as there's so many diverse and interesting characters here!
We are all individuals with different DNA and upbringing so we can’t change anyone
Learn to handle challenges
This is why we have come to this life, to be strong and immune to challenges
I’m not a guru
But that’s what I think
Thanks sadhguru. It's a good and powerful permanent solution for this situation
Best way to stay in relationship is satisfaction, at least i found it with my experiences. If you don't feel that satisfaction or intution fully with the person you talking, meeting, laughing or sharing ecstacy don't start the relation.
It’s not all about perception guys. The physically abusing spouse, verbally abusing spouse, how can we blame us for having a wrong perception?
Namaskaram Sadhguru Tank you very much , so great lesson learned, merci beaucoup
Sylvie Lopez Easy to say keep your sweetness!
Love changes your behaviour and thoughts so LOVE IS MOST IMPORTANT
I wish sadguru is my grandfather / uncle / father......
He’s all of that and more, you’re just yet to know it...
Grass always looks greener on the other side
Could have... Should have... Would have... leads to regret. It doesn't help and will not work.
Time you perceive your grand father as other image or brighter side
Don't create new grand father
Please please please Sadguru Ji, make a video of how to handle always quarreling parents being at home, no financial independence??