Freud’s 5 Stages of Psychosexual Development

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  • Freud’s theory of psychosexual development claims that as we grow up, we pass through five critical phases which are defined by our sexual drive, also called libido, concentrating at specific erogenous zones. #learn #psychology #freud
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    The Oedipus Complex in Children
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    Overview of the Oral Stage with links to other Psychosexual development stages
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  • @scook449
    @scook449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8403

    A quote told to me by my college psychology teacher
    "Freud isn't the "Father of Psychology" because his theories were right, but instead because people studied psychology to prove him wrong."

    • @finalfanvii6822
      @finalfanvii6822 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      And they did because you can think for yourself just ignore others wether you agree with them or not. It just depends who you choose to believe how you perceive you’re reality.

    • @maiii_xo7694
      @maiii_xo7694 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      this makes a lot of sense😭

    • @butter_nut1817
      @butter_nut1817 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      It was a revolutionary idea that trauma affects one's personality and mannerisms

    • @chancewijewardena8609
      @chancewijewardena8609 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Exactly none of his theories were falsifiable

    • @R41ph3a7b6
      @R41ph3a7b6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah.

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16128

    I took advanced psychology in high school and I have to admit, you covered this topic better than my high school teacher did in 9 minutes...

    • @sprouts
      @sprouts  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1479

      Not sure if I should be glad or sad. 😂

    • @dariusurbanovic6797
      @dariusurbanovic6797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +410

      I haven't seen you in a long time in the comments I was getting worried

    • @mariosnz2884
      @mariosnz2884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      I think you are suscribed to the same channels I am

    • @MrDanamiel
      @MrDanamiel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      The fact that psychology is teach during high school surprise me😂

    • @datscrazy4095
      @datscrazy4095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Again man, u always here

  • @leavemealone802
    @leavemealone802 ปีที่แล้ว +4812

    Freud was just a guy that had a mommy fetish, and created a theory so he wouldn't look weird.
    It did make interesting story tropes

    • @rashonmygooch
      @rashonmygooch ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@Sisaac 20 Homofobia.

    • @commontouch1787
      @commontouch1787 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@VaultDwellerAlexwhich one

    • @mehnazsreya
      @mehnazsreya 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      @@commontouch1787 oedipus complex

    • @vorun7710
      @vorun7710 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

      Yeah of course, he is the weirdo, and that big share of porn content about "moms" is just a coincidence. It's so easy to devalue all someone else's work by labeling it a crank

    • @theraze8686
      @theraze8686 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vorun7710 doesn't prove anything. deadass everything exists on the Internet, there's porn of anthropomorphic aeroplanes why would people stop at mothers?

  • @mrslucygomez9
    @mrslucygomez9 ปีที่แล้ว +3352

    "Ida is rebellious to authority, has no remorse for hurting others, and enjoys breaking the law"
    me: "I see Antisocial Personality Disorder tendencies going on"
    Freud: "were you not breastfed long enough as an infant?"

    • @abaricocrystalkaye4493
      @abaricocrystalkaye4493 ปีที่แล้ว

    • @CarterWills1
      @CarterWills1 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      Breastfeeding does increase social bonds so it technically holds up.

    • @josephsolomon3016
      @josephsolomon3016 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      It’s more complex than just labeling them based on certain traits/symptoms

    • @rahulmalik1083
      @rahulmalik1083 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Actually , breastfeed and nursing an infant can have a huge impact on the gene expression of a human .
      Check out the rat baby nursing studies showing the effects of epigenetics changes in the genes of the infant mice

    • @mesotolioma5089
      @mesotolioma5089 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Holy moly maccaroni, Freud said something dumb and you said something smart. That must mean you're really smart and Freud dumb 😮

  • @georgefabars7218
    @georgefabars7218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12656

    Patient: Doctor I don't get it... Why am I like this?
    Therapist: Hmmmmm... Say, *at what age did you learn to shit in the toilet?*

    • @myyoutubechannel9137
      @myyoutubechannel9137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      Lol good one😆😆😆😆

    • @Jeff-fp8qx
      @Jeff-fp8qx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      LMFAO

    • @lig_ma
      @lig_ma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      "They never taught me"

    • @weastley0
      @weastley0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      PLSNXNANZW LMAOO

    • @menameMid
      @menameMid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      thank tou stranger, i laughed. Here's my like.

  • @Dinhjason
    @Dinhjason 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13572

    Pissed my pants, became a doctor.

    • @sprouts
      @sprouts  3 ปีที่แล้ว +892

      Hahahaha 😂

    • @kurhulandlovuzulu6758
      @kurhulandlovuzulu6758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +239

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hence why it's just a theory

    • @Phoenix_The_HeroHater
      @Phoenix_The_HeroHater 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      Coincidence?I think not!!!!!

    • @avroo
      @avroo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      Let's goo i shit and pissed so I'm gonna be something too

    • @reasonrestored9116
      @reasonrestored9116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Maybe not a good one?

  • @higherpowerlifting5065
    @higherpowerlifting5065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +619

    Freud was the first to develop a comprehensive theory of development, personality, and a structural model of the psyche. He identified some patterns and correlations that are correct but the mechanisms he used to explain a causal relationship were off and actually reveal his own personality, he projected on to an unknown to fill in the blanks. He was correct in saying that eventually we would understand neurobiology and the biological basis of behavior at a level capable of better answering the questions he was creating these theories to answer. We take for granted that we are able to think in these terms today, without Freud it would be a very different world. What he was wrong about is not nearly as important as how he taught us to think about psychological development.

    • @sprouts
      @sprouts  2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Very good point

    • @mikef55
      @mikef55 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I think if Freud came back to witness modern psychology today, he'd be proud of how it's advanced

    • @prod.bylvwlee
      @prod.bylvwlee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Perfect because i was a little confused by the video at first. Im like he wrote this verbatim?? 😂

    • @user-yu3wu4ym9n
      @user-yu3wu4ym9n 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@mikef55More like freaked out. I doubt he'd be able to gladly accept so many changes that has happened.

    • @patricia071
      @patricia071 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      THIS
      I also think we are focusing way too much on the bad examples and not on the fact that he did explain how we are conditioned to behave goes back to how we managed to perceive the reality around us from a young age, through limited sensations at that time

  • @vishwaprem94
    @vishwaprem94 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    Since the theory was developed in the early 1900s it can't be all perfect, but we've got to admit that bringing the concept of the unconscious, and the effect of childhood experiences on personality into the limelight was a great accomplishment at that time.
    I do believe that psychedelics hold a promising future by bringing out our repressed thoughts and emotions. Cheers to Freud for that.

    • @crayonzii
      @crayonzii 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I agree. People used to think dinosaurs looked like kangaroos based on remains, now we know a lot more about them.

    • @matswessling6600
      @matswessling6600 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      but childhood experiences has very littlre effect on personality though so...

    • @donkeyparadise9276
      @donkeyparadise9276 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@matswessling6600how is this

    • @SnowMexicann
      @SnowMexicann 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@matswessling6600 Very little? There are very big differences in people who, say, grew up rich and spoiled whos mummy and daddy would buy them anything they wanted and never got told no and someone who grew up in poverty without a father and an abusive household. VERY big differences.

    • @matswessling6600
      @matswessling6600 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SnowMexicann not really.

  • @CliffCardi
    @CliffCardi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13354

    Me: “WTF I don’t desire a sexual relationship with my mother!”
    Freud: “Yes you do, your subconscious is just repressing that.”

    • @CliffCardi
      @CliffCardi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +907

      @@okbutwhatif9905 I wouldn’t say conspiracy theory, but it’s how Freud made his psychoanalysis “foolproof”. To any detractors, Freud could just claim repression.

    • @elvondrago96
      @elvondrago96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +324

      ara ara

    • @armyshope
      @armyshope 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      @@okbutwhatif9905 "us Vs them" it's just another part of the big lie...

    • @abdallahmohamed2806
      @abdallahmohamed2806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I'm sad I got the joke

    • @Tururu134
      @Tururu134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      superego

  • @HungNguyen-lz5xb
    @HungNguyen-lz5xb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7189

    "Genital Phase: Puberty to death"
    Someone make this movie please

  • @ayyymacaroni
    @ayyymacaroni ปีที่แล้ว +449

    Watching the kids go through the latent phase almost made me cry. The whole video was like "Hans is doing fine, Ernst and Ida....are not." And then they reach the latent phase, and the video switches to "So anyway, all these kids are having a good time. Ernst and Ida are happy, they're learning, Hans is vibing through life-" and I almost cried, I felt so much relief for them. I guess I got attached.

    • @overtime-gp5mo
      @overtime-gp5mo ปีที่แล้ว

      какие мужчины девушкам нравятся волосатые или не волосатые ? девушкам нравится член ? девушкам нравится куни?от какого размера члена больно ?какой размер члена для вас большой ? какое впечатление у вас было когда впервые увидели мужской член ? какой впечатление было когда впервые увидели порно ?было ли вам больно при потери девственности?

    • @h0lysm0k3z
      @h0lysm0k3z ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Did you have conflict during your phallic phase

    • @ayyymacaroni
      @ayyymacaroni ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@h0lysm0k3z i need a tone indicator for this one. are you being serious or joking?

    • @h0lysm0k3z
      @h0lysm0k3z ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@ayyymacaroni /j lol

    • @azca.
      @azca. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@ayyymacaroni Did you have conflict during your phallic phase? (not joking)

  • @mstrudacoach
    @mstrudacoach 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    I am a parent coach and I have a master's degree in mental health. I must say, from the cases I have seen, Freud's psychosexual development theory does make a lot of sense! It might not make sense straight away, but as you dig deeper, a lot of things do hold up.
    I remember I met a father who's a very typical OCD sufferer, as he said and I quote - I constantly feel the need to tidy up the stuff, and I know I am good at this, but I never experienced joy when cleaning up.
    And I asked him something about his childhood, and he told me he had to use diapers till the age of 6.
    I know it's probably too vain to draw any serious conclusion, but Freud's idea that unremembered trauma can cause changes in personality development is wildly accurate.

    • @sprouts
      @sprouts  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I agree. I am doing a clinical internship, and Freud's theory makes sense in a way.

    • @stephysun
      @stephysun 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      i don’t think so.. i can play a role sure but some people are neat and some are not. but not really linked to their childhood. if u have siblings some might turn out neat and the other might be very messy. like if u mental health as well. it’s just dependent on everhthing. i have a twin brother and one sister that is 1 year old and we grew up the same way, but we’re all so different just like every other sibling. so it’s unfair to say it’s based on that. genetics plays a huge role.

    • @professorpedropontes4402
      @professorpedropontes4402 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There you go, that’s exactly how this stuff works.

  • @RonaldC
    @RonaldC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12399

    I often think Freud just had a lot of weird experiences as a child and developed his theories in an attempt to normalize them

    • @pland4419
      @pland4419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +349

      Totally agree

    • @goblindeeznuts
      @goblindeeznuts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      Agreed

    • @primo4915
      @primo4915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you read on his family, you'll see it is all fucked up. His mother was the same age as his half brother who he fantasised about becoming his father

    • @JacksTestimony
      @JacksTestimony ปีที่แล้ว +279

      You didn’t notice you went through these stages after you learned about them?

    • @og_isaa
      @og_isaa ปีที่แล้ว +18

      na

  • @jdhed5462
    @jdhed5462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1909

    "penis envy" this made me laugh lol, I didn't expect to see it in this video

    • @rickitickitavi860
      @rickitickitavi860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      All women...ha!

    • @rayzeroxx
      @rayzeroxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @weedcat420 feminism

    • @omnizafkiel
      @omnizafkiel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      @weedcat420 bruh i thought this was really ridiculous until i heard that part of his theory. literally almost all radical feminists are fatherless shitheads and they almost always seem to have a great inferiority complex towards men

    • @seldomstudios6351
      @seldomstudios6351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      *P E A N U S I S P O W E R*

    • @marcoanonymous8434
      @marcoanonymous8434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      hence, the strapon!

  • @Babarakrimbel4884
    @Babarakrimbel4884 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    Psychedelics are just an amazing discovery. It's quite fascinating how effective they are for depression and stress..saved my life.

    • @Heisenberg-35
      @Heisenberg-35 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is he on insta?

    • @phillipXx
      @phillipXx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yeah mate... @ted_winston23

    • @ronalddavis9762
      @ronalddavis9762 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Does Mr Winston ship?

    • @ruthmaryanne7514
      @ruthmaryanne7514 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Psychedelics should be done when you are in a right state of mind, but many abuse it…

    • @tylerwilliams33
      @tylerwilliams33 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      As someone who has tried psilocybin multiple times I can confirm it has completely changed the way I deal with life. And emotion.

  • @somebodyelse3004
    @somebodyelse3004 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I see this as the first draft of psychology, based on the worldview and the conditions of his time. It's not really wrong, but it looks at things from a very specific point of view. It's like someone would study the shadow of an elephant and make theories of what an elephant is.

  • @Hot18Shot
    @Hot18Shot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14814

    I feel like these theories tell us more about Freud than it does of ourselves...

    • @chitraUTube
      @chitraUTube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Haha:)

    • @Nikelaos_Khristianos
      @Nikelaos_Khristianos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +570

      That's not exactly inaccurate. 😅

    • @artofsavery
      @artofsavery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +522

      Yeah Same here..it is actually his point of view towards life his experiences.

    • @GMC997
      @GMC997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +542

      Today many points of his psychoanalysis theory are declared as wrong. In general, his claims were "catastrophically" wrong on multiple levels.

    • @lucase6077
      @lucase6077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@GMC997 Sources??

  • @Cp-71
    @Cp-71 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4948

    Anything: exists
    Freud: *S E X*

    • @danyelleorr-mcneil4711
      @danyelleorr-mcneil4711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      🤣🤣🤣 Most of his stuff I agree with, but yeah🤣

    • @StingnB
      @StingnB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      It's in line with a lot of theories that foresees unity as the deepest/highest/most important objective of life

    • @sigma3729
      @sigma3729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂

    • @stopbeinginsecure4786
      @stopbeinginsecure4786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Legit dude. The man was obsessed with it

    • @Cp-71
      @Cp-71 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @M K So you're calling me dumb? Mate, this was a joke, why are you so serious about it?

  • @cool7654321
    @cool7654321 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    The impact of developmental psychology is why Freud is so influential and popular. He may have gotten some of the specifics wrong, but you can't deny the development of our childhood plays a huge role in how how we are as adults. With a lot of meditation and therapy I was able to figure out the reason why I am gay. I lacked the emotional support I needed from my father and I was molested as a child = associating pleasure with men, and trying to fullfil the emotional void that my father left me. I also believe you can be born gay, but nurture plays a bigger role in my opinion.

  • @semraoguz4084
    @semraoguz4084 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Freud's ideas are discussed, but his paving the way for free thought and his contributions to science are undeniable.

  • @yfeboanvakenss8841
    @yfeboanvakenss8841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8847

    I feel like EVERYTHING in Freud's work is due to child trauma

    • @vanillacherub6847
      @vanillacherub6847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +298

      Well mostly. Soecially from age 0 to 7. Where our whole subconsios is malleable and programmed

    • @ThatFanBoyGuy
      @ThatFanBoyGuy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      That or sex

    • @chteretreeart
      @chteretreeart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      @@ThatFanBoyGuy or both at the same time

    • @yuantingkung378
      @yuantingkung378 3 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      Well in psychoanalysis, identifying the repetitive pattern of a person's behaviour is important. Why does he or she keep picking someone that don't love them, why does he or she keep feeling the sense of being abandoned, why can't he or she love someone? What's important in child is because they have a deveolping mind and a lot of complex feeling cannot be fully understand by them, or even us. So when there is a trauma happening to a child, they relied on competent adult to share their mind to figure it out for them. While most of the time those adults never came, and way too many unsolved issue just preserved to the adult life and gradually became an obvious especially when the growing people started to have their own work, lifestyle, money, sex or other things.
      It's not really as easy as it seems when a lot of things were due to child's trauma in Freud's work.

    • @lipeking4714
      @lipeking4714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      He definetly focuses too much on it, but I think a lot of our mind operates based on our childhood

  • @nicomcevoy3774
    @nicomcevoy3774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5223

    My mom: thinks I’m crying because I peed my diaper and not because I’m hungry
    Me later in life: *beats my wife*

    • @magnofajo6159
      @magnofajo6159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +315

      Ahhh, a true gamer i see

    • @Eduardesuper
      @Eduardesuper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +397

      @@magnofajo6159 a true gamer needs no inferior object such as a wife.

    • @sitdowndogbreath
      @sitdowndogbreath 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@Eduardesuper so it's come down to this so much for the be fruitful and multiply all right that's it I'm stepping out

    • @magnofajo6159
      @magnofajo6159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@sitdowndogbreath I dont get what you mean

    • @r1xshoaib199
      @r1xshoaib199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      no I think it's psychology Ryt but got gave us time to understand

  • @rajatchopra1411
    @rajatchopra1411 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Freud did not have normal childhood...

  • @RenzoGualberto
    @RenzoGualberto 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I also was someone who tough that all of Freud’s work were madness. But we need to be humble and find out by ourselves how does he develops his ideas by reading his books. Although many say that they’re boring, they are quite interesting and sometimes even fun to read, because often some concerns linked to our daily life are related (The Interpretation of Dreams is a nice book that all of that can be finded, and not very hard to read). Anyway, let’s be humble. Either being right or wrong, Freud dedicated years of observations and study to develop his conclusions, and many of them I would say that most of people who read it got it wrong.

  • @Matheus-do6kh
    @Matheus-do6kh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4347

    Sex and childhood exist.
    Freud: Oh, everything in the human mind is related to this!

    • @mercilesslymugentenshin8651
      @mercilesslymugentenshin8651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Yeah I'm totally lost right now 😅

    • @ethribin4188
      @ethribin4188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +193

      I mean, its IS related.
      But not defined.
      Freuds theories are ultimatively only models and estimations.

    • @Nebulisreconx
      @Nebulisreconx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ethribin4188 redundant explanation as all theories are by definition not facts including the theory of relativity and evolution

    • @arandomlanguagenerd1869
      @arandomlanguagenerd1869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@Nebulisreconx they are the closest we have to facts, scientific theories have to be proven to be accepted

    • @aryanovran8984
      @aryanovran8984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ever heard of this thing called "introverted intuition"?

  • @ThanosTheManos
    @ThanosTheManos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6405

    Therapist: “Suzy, I see you have a problem with authority..and you get into abusive relationships...were..you not potty trained well as a child?”
    Suzy: *starts to sob*

    • @ovahlord1451
      @ovahlord1451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +537

      I dont want to be angry anymore, i just want to shit in a potty

    • @Bififress0r
      @Bififress0r 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ovahlord1451 Meanwhile, Ida maintains her p€n!§ envy and still wants her own one. ¯\_( ᐛ )_/¯

    • @Nitekom
      @Nitekom ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How did you know I got an *_anal expulsive personality_* due to trauma?

    • @alphasr8965
      @alphasr8965 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      This theory and the examples are absolutely ridoculous.

    • @FckPride
      @FckPride ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I was badly potty trained….

  • @edwardharris9902
    @edwardharris9902 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Like elementary school; which are the most important school we will ever attend, because it's the foundation of all higher education. Likewise so is Freud. His psychoanalysis is the foundation upon which modern psychology is based.

  • @mohammadakramali1466
    @mohammadakramali1466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As someone who grew up with an abusive father and later had problem in becoming a man. I can confirm that the way you are treated as a child has a lot of effect in your adulthood.
    I am now 29 and have read a Freuds work and it had helped me change myself for the better, it helped me rewire my brain and impulses at early adulthood.
    I think Freud was a genius of his time. The man taught me that nothing in this human mind happens without a reason.

  • @electricsquidxd3254
    @electricsquidxd3254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2456

    Jung: What if psychology is about more than..
    Freud: Sex! It's all sex you charlatan!

    • @Nikelaos_Khristianos
      @Nikelaos_Khristianos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      What's sad is neither are taken particularly seriously in modern psychology.

    • @hunterhunter2215
      @hunterhunter2215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@Nikelaos_Khristianos jungs idea of the archetypes is not that unaccepted in modern psychoanalysis.
      Edit: what do you even mean by „modern psychology“?

    • @grbgeslnger24
      @grbgeslnger24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣

    • @santiagobravo9685
      @santiagobravo9685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      He’s like Robert California

    • @Nikelaos_Khristianos
      @Nikelaos_Khristianos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@hunterhunter2215 Apologies, clarification: I mostly refer to the indignant fact that if one brings up Freudian or Jungian psycho-analysis in academia these days, you do run the risk of literally being laughed out the room, at least in a psychology lesson. (Despite the fact that psychology is just theories!)
      Conversely, I've personally found Jungian theory to be really quite useful in English Literature considering how much of the hero's journey envisioned by Joseph Campbell is based on Jung's heroic archetypes, especially when examining classical texts from the ancient world. Lastly, I do actually agree with your point about the archetypes, they've achieved a new sort of relevance in today's world. (Albeit, for better or worse, thanks to characters like Jordan Peterson).

  • @Cam-cc2ft
    @Cam-cc2ft 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3683

    Plot twist: Hans, Ernst, and Ida are all in a polyamorous relationship with each other now.

    • @brendaluv2017
      @brendaluv2017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      I think that’s a happier ending right there ☺️

    • @max2082
      @max2082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      They could probably help each other through the pitfalls of life. Especially if they are close enough to share and discuss their feelings with each other.

    • @requiemforpsyche
      @requiemforpsyche 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Awwe :)

    • @EmonticonGaming
      @EmonticonGaming 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      They're polyam and support each other through everything.

    • @CloutmasterPhluphyy
      @CloutmasterPhluphyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      The good ending

  • @blerst7066
    @blerst7066 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    At college, I've seen many students complain about Freud's theories not making any sense. But that's the whole point. He relied on his own personal experiences rather than the scientific method to develop his theories because he was a psychiatrist, not a scientist. Also, it was a completely different world back then. Female hysteria was considered to be a physical illness caused by a literal "wandering womb." When you take that into perspective, Freud's works were really revolutionary.

  • @alice20001
    @alice20001 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I prefer the "Neurosis can be treated by talking."
    Instead of the "This man is mad, lock him away! give him lots of sedatives and electroshock therapy. If he still acts up lobotomy."
    Despite the hinderance of Nazism and the hatred of the Jews at the time, I still think that his approach of "I know nothing, let's start from the beginning" to be really a mark of the time and reminds me of when surgeons started washing their hands before operating.
    Great video!

    • @sprouts
      @sprouts  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True.Freud was ahead of his time in some ways, especially his progressive views on homosexuality.

  • @jonathanprime1507
    @jonathanprime1507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3360

    Bruh I never wanted to throw away my dad when I was little

    • @mercilesslymugentenshin8651
      @mercilesslymugentenshin8651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +196

      Mine was like, never there so I wonder what the means. 😅😂

    • @maruko8324
      @maruko8324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I agree but in my case I tend to rival in my crush's brother.

    • @drjellymonkey5230
      @drjellymonkey5230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Same here he did it on his own

    • @johnnyreb1209
      @johnnyreb1209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +211

      I dont think Freud was accurately describing the human condition as much as he was trying to find and figure out his own problems.
      I believe he projected his own conclusions of himself onto everyone else.
      I dont believe women walk around with penis envy (except the feminists) any more than i believe boys want to kill their fathers and sleep with there mothers.

    • @adetundepowell4321
      @adetundepowell4321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lmao I never even had a dad

  • @katsukibakugo3455
    @katsukibakugo3455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2614

    “Genital: phase 3-6”
    Me who thought we were all the same down there until I was about 11:

    • @GTAandApplechannel
      @GTAandApplechannel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Me too but till 12

    • @dakotamabry1645
      @dakotamabry1645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      8

    • @GabrielsEpicLifeofGoals
      @GabrielsEpicLifeofGoals 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

      I actually knew we were different down there from a very young age, but just didn't know why or truly understand until now.

    • @ahmadraif9989
      @ahmadraif9989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same man

    • @ahmadraif9989
      @ahmadraif9989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I thought we all have wee wee,😂

  • @antihero_1
    @antihero_1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think the latency phase needs to be broken down more cause there are many more factors in that stage that actually influence the development of the child.

  • @bracelety
    @bracelety 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    how did this even end up in my recommended

  • @futurehofer1564
    @futurehofer1564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1386

    But that's just a theory, a game theory

    • @simonecinquetti1091
      @simonecinquetti1091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      A life theory! Thanks for watiching!

    • @Kino_Cartoon
      @Kino_Cartoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@simonecinquetti1091 a sex theory (I mean... It's Freud). Thx for watching.

    • @LLAWLIETkiracatcher
      @LLAWLIETkiracatcher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bruhhh . From the channel game theorist

    • @onesabrathwaite9921
      @onesabrathwaite9921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      *inserts meme* Annnd Cut

    • @animeguy2194
      @animeguy2194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oops, wrong channel!

  • @WannabePianistSurya
    @WannabePianistSurya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +531

    Pissed my pants, I am an Machine Learning Scientist.

    • @max2082
      @max2082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LMAO 🤣🤣🤣

  • @rifqiasha7649
    @rifqiasha7649 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dari teori yang dikemukakan dalam video ini, saya setuju dan berpendapat bahwa didikan atau perlakuan yang dilakukan orangtua dan keluarga serta lingkungan sekitar akan mempengaruhi kehidupan kita di saat kita beranjak dewasa. Meskipun memang tidak semua hal yang terjadi pada saat kita kecil dahulu bisa diingat, tapi pasti ada beberapa hal yang dirasa sangat dekat sehingga kental dalam ingatan.
    Contoh bentuk kreativitas seseorang yang sudah dewasa yang diakibatkan dari perkembangan psikoseksual di masa lalu yang saya ambil ialah seorang pedagang/pelaku usaha suatu produk (bisa dalam bentuk apa saja) yang membuat produk tersebut bersifat unisex (dapat digunakan oleh laki-laki maupun perempuan). Secara spesifik misalnya, seorang pelaku usaha tersebut membuat pakaian seperti baju/kaos, jaket, sweater, dan celana yang secara bahan, warna, dan desainnya disukai dan dapat digunakan oleh laki-laki maupun perempuan. Contoh produk lainnya yaitu seperti produk tas, sepatu, dan sandal yang bersifat unisex juga.
    Perkembangan psikoseksual yang berdampak besar pada terbentuknya kreatifitas yang saya ambil contohnya menurut saya ialah pada fase phallic (phallic phase), dimana dalam video juga telah dijelaskan jika seseorang yang diperlakukan baik ketika mengalami fase ini ketika dewasanya ia akan tumbuh sebagai seseorang yang dapat mengidentifikasi peran dirinya sendiri sebagai salah satu dari dua jenis kelamin yang ada dan dapat mengidentifikasi kedua jenis kelamin tersebut serta menghargai dan menghormatinya.

  • @geralldus
    @geralldus ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is quite unsettlingly accurate, thank you...I think!

  • @RandomAwesomeDude
    @RandomAwesomeDude 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2216

    My wife: WHY ARE YOU SO AGGRESSIVE TOWARDS ME?!?
    Me: Sorry, my dad was never around

  • @nellfromhell7192
    @nellfromhell7192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4782

    The more I learn about freud the less i understand why he was so influencial

    • @galaxi6585
      @galaxi6585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +676

      this shit right here is why people did psychology specifically to prove freud wrong

    • @ayyyiss5483
      @ayyyiss5483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +349

      Because he made the foundation for modern psychology and a lot of his theories were right.
      I've never encounter an actual psychologist, not one, that disregards Freud's influence in psychology; ironically enough the ones who do that aren't psychologists at all.

    • @Anamika00004
      @Anamika00004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Probably because he was one of the first? But it was an old time, he was a man with his other social privileges, so his understanding of human psychology is expected to be rigged with all these systematic bias resulting in... penis envy? (I wish he didn't have one, would have more theories proven right 😏) Even now, so many people (some psychologists included) are trying to mainstream the socio-political parameters in the discourse of mental health which is quite individualistic at this point, so.. meh 🤷🏽‍

    • @ayyyiss5483
      @ayyyiss5483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      @@Anamika00004 Penis envy is not particularly biased; it has a well-established theory that is based on development.
      People tend to forget that Freud was one of the first individuals that took women's issues seriously. Back then people didn't really think much about what a woman could go through because they would accredit that to the fact that they were women and that's how they were, however, Freud started using psychoanalysis on women who suffered from ptsd due to abuse and helped them to improve their lives by actually listen to what they had to say, which eventually led to the foundation of many other things that were unexplored at the time. Ironically enough, not many of his theories have been proven wrong, contrary to popular belief, but people still debate certain situations because psychology is not entirely understood yet.

    • @bre1988sid
      @bre1988sid 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      But his findings seem to hold up till today

  • @therealgago
    @therealgago ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think Freud was projecting his feelings on every one around him

  • @jortiz1451
    @jortiz1451 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Man, that animation is beautiful.

  • @yourfuturedocburenbeiya
    @yourfuturedocburenbeiya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +683

    Freud was one of the weirdest/wildest theories for sure lol.

    • @jacknap1marshall792
      @jacknap1marshall792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi do you have Facebook,,,..... Which for sure you do, 🙂,.... Can I have the link

    • @The4thraikage
      @The4thraikage 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@jacknap1marshall792 simp

    • @floydrose3590
      @floydrose3590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@jacknap1marshall792 You have mommy issues

    • @leokm9586
      @leokm9586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@jacknap1marshall792 slow down with that Id man

    • @synchrolord
      @synchrolord 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jacknap1marshall792 I've never seen someone Simp on TH-cam, wow

  • @randomgurl812
    @randomgurl812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1841

    Freud: * mentions that people have sexual desires *
    Asexuals: 👀

    • @r_se
      @r_se 3 ปีที่แล้ว +362

      freud would tell you that your subconscious is just being repressed, most likely due to trauma

    • @user-rn2bj3dh6j
      @user-rn2bj3dh6j 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      asexuals dont exist

    • @char5285
      @char5285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +216

      @@user-rn2bj3dh6j yeah no you’re wrong

    • @originalyoutubenamethatsag6321
      @originalyoutubenamethatsag6321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      they were exposed to to much interest

    • @hellothere-bo7bn
      @hellothere-bo7bn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      👀👀

  • @justtruck8451
    @justtruck8451 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm struggling with self-worth.
    As a hairdresser,,, it is hard for me to talk about my prices for my services to customers.
    Afraid of being rejected for high prices make my business can't go far😢

  • @NatLaPetit
    @NatLaPetit 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sprouts. It came into being that I picture your videos whilst sitting in my psychology exams

  • @Nikelaos_Khristianos
    @Nikelaos_Khristianos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2053

    This is why few in the 21st century take Freud's theories seriously: They are completely cracked.

    • @kingaragornii9940
      @kingaragornii9940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Cracked, Like you apparently.

    • @leonardoteles9236
      @leonardoteles9236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@carsonbarnesharp If you dont think it doent apply, you are just ignorant, doesnt mean it is a recepie book bro its just a video, his theory is way more than that, also psycology helps a lot of people and there are a lot of theorys that can help you... thinking that they dont work... so what does?

    • @Nikelaos_Khristianos
      @Nikelaos_Khristianos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      @@carsonbarnesharp to be fair, they used to apply to one very specific group of society: Freud's test pool. That is to say, middle-aged, upper class Norwegian men who fancied their mothers.

    • @aq1sw2qas3qd
      @aq1sw2qas3qd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah. Because most cant comprehend Freud. It's not just about grasping his ideas, it's about having the wisdom to know where to apply them.

    • @Nikelaos_Khristianos
      @Nikelaos_Khristianos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@carsonbarnesharp I know right, 😂 truly the most representative demographic of the human race ever.

  • @prod4clip
    @prod4clip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1424

    Keep in mind this is the person who prescribed cocaine to cure cocaine addiction

    • @charmaine7781
      @charmaine7781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND WOULD DO THAT?

    • @criminalchicken499
      @criminalchicken499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      Wrong. It was prescribed to cure a morphine addiction to a close friend. At the time, cocaine was seen as a kind of cure-all. From headaches to things like indigestion and depression. It wasn't known whether or not it could cure and addiction, and so he decided to test it first on himself. He then moved on to say it was acceptable and gave it as a treatment to his friend.

    • @charmaine7781
      @charmaine7781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@criminalchicken499 oh okay then

    • @Blula
      @Blula 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@criminalchicken499 Honestly that doesn't make it any better...

    • @criminalchicken499
      @criminalchicken499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      @@Blula cocaine was used by everyone back then. Literally. It was used for headaches and pains, and pretty much everything else. So was heroine and such.
      They didn't have a ton of medical knowledge, and due to that what they gave was ethical and morally correct.
      It was seen as the best possible course of action, and so action was taken.
      Saying it doesn't make it any better, despite that being the absolute best medical knowledge at the time is like saying prescribing antidepressants is stupid and unethical because 150 years from now we'll have something that'll solve that without side-effects. They did what they could with the knowledge they had.

  • @rizkyridho3788
    @rizkyridho3788 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A person who is classified in early adulthood is in the stage of a warm, close and communicative relationship with or not involving sexual contact. If it fails in the form of intimacy then he will experience what is called isolation (feeling isolated from others, lonely, blaming himself for being different from others). Early adulthood begins at the age of 18 years until approximately 40 years of age 122 years, when the physical and psychological changes that accompany reduced reproductive abilities 5. In general, those who are classified as young adults are those aged 20-40 years. According to a developmental psychologist, young adults include a period of transition, both physical transition, intellectual transition, and social role transition. Early adulthood social development is the culmination of adult social development. Early adulthood is a time of shifting from an egocentric view to an empathetic attitude. At this time, determining the relationship plays an important role.

  • @egiejhonpalce280
    @egiejhonpalce280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    From higschool to college of learning this I only understand this concept through your video TY

  • @aspova2478
    @aspova2478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2400

    this is weird

  • @tgarcia-rocha3629
    @tgarcia-rocha3629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3941

    I wonder if the enormous amounts of coke he snorted had anything to do with his theories😬

    • @cardinalityofaset4992
      @cardinalityofaset4992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

      Ofc his theories are all bullshit

    • @zayatkinson7253
      @zayatkinson7253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      I doubt it...seeing by 90% of child cognitive development toys and school teachings are used today and promoted by other researchers

    • @monadolifesaver5613
      @monadolifesaver5613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      My psychology class is about to go on to this shiz.

    • @skillertime779
      @skillertime779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Its the only way good ideas are created. Its a brain stumulant, so ideas are created more easily as the mind gets more clear.

    • @radical_rat
      @radical_rat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      @@skillertime779
      I promise you, cocaine is NOT the only possible way to have good ideas

  • @eminkilicaslan8945
    @eminkilicaslan8945 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Our History of Science teacher was right. Freud has quite an attempt to relate our every behaviour to our sex drive.

  • @farhanabyan8845
    @farhanabyan8845 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Contoh konkret yang saya ambil ada sosok Jerome Polin Sijabat (influencer berprestasi), yang berkreasi saat kecil berkeinginan keluar negeri untuk pergi ke disneyland, ia berpikir kalau hanya pergi untuk bermain pasti kan cuman sebentar, tapi kalau sambil belajar ke luar negeri pasti bisa lama katanya. Dasar dari pikiran jerome ingin ke disneyland adalah karena ia dikelilingi anak anak orang kaya sebab ia bersekolah di sekolah dasar swasta yang cukup mahal, jerome bisa sekolah disana karena mendapat beasiswa, keluarga jerome bisa dibilang bukan keluarga yang serba bercukupan, namun ia di didik orang tuanya untuk selalu mengejar apa yang ia cita-citakan dan keluarganya sebisa mungkin selalu memuji apa yang anakanya ingin lakukan dengan mensupport cita-cita anaknya itu. Dan menurut saya yang paling berpengaruh adalah anal phase dan didukung oleh latent phase karena saat anal phase peran didikan orang tua juga sangat berpengaruh terhadap kepribadian anak kedepannya entah dari pujian dan pendekatan lainnya, dan ketika latent phase superego terus berkembang sementara energi ide ditekan untuk mengembangkan keterampilan sosial, Tahap ini dimulai pada saat anak-anak masuk ke sekolah dan menjadi lebih peduli dengan hubungan teman sebaya, hobi, dan minat lainnya.

  • @darienodette
    @darienodette 3 ปีที่แล้ว +614

    It really rubs me the wrong way that Freud thought that "all women" are jealous of men. Don't get ahead of yourself there mate.

    • @Westnile8501
      @Westnile8501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I mean well scientifically your are an underdeveloped male. JS

    • @emilyrencken
      @emilyrencken 3 ปีที่แล้ว +208

      @Seth K technically it's more like you're an overdeveloped female

    • @noisyguest5249
      @noisyguest5249 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@emilyrencken lol

    • @blanketboi7423
      @blanketboi7423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Thought the same and was wondering why I had to look so long for a comment like yours ^^

    • @dylanc9174
      @dylanc9174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      And I'm a bit jealous of women, though it's an unfounded jealousy. Maybe just because I liked my mother more than my father. His penis envy idea is weird.

  • @zildiun2327
    @zildiun2327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1147

    Fun Fact: Freud also thought that the reason women wanted to marry other men was because they have a deep internal desire to sleep with their own fathers, while simultaneously hating their mothers for keeping her husband to herself. According to Freud, this leads to women marrying men similar to their fathers, to kinda get the next best thing. I would take any theories this man had with a gigantic grain of salt.

    • @ryderthesinful
      @ryderthesinful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +335

      Well actually, there is some evidence that supports straight women do end up picking men that reminds them or is similar to how her father was in her childhood. Not exactly because she wants to sleep with her father, per se, but likely just because it's familiar, and humans are more comfortable with familiar.

    • @GimbalLocksOnly
      @GimbalLocksOnly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      You dont get out much do you? Its not uncommon for women to pick partners similar to their parents or family. Just look at them. Look at people around the world. Theres a reason interracial couples are not as common as you would think. There is a reason we STILL talk about Freud today. Take your grain of salt elsewhere. There is evidence.

    • @zildiun2327
      @zildiun2327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @@GimbalLocksOnly
      It’s not about women picking partners of the same race or with the same hair color. Freud thought they picked them based off of how similar their genitals were to that of their fathers.

    • @zildiun2327
      @zildiun2327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@GimbalLocksOnly
      The takeaways from this are 2 things:
      1- Even if you didn’t think it was, assuming that interracial couples are not desired by women is racist. I would work on that.
      2- Work on your attitude, and don’t be a jerk. Maybe you meant it as a joke, but starting off your comment with, “You don’t get out much, do you,” is an excellent way to make everyone think of you as a grade A asshole.

    • @ryderthesinful
      @ryderthesinful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      @@zildiun2327 ...how similar their genitals are to that of their fathers? Um, pal, I don't know about your family, but most families don't just stare and catalog each others genitals for future reference... I may be wrong, but that just sounds weird.
      Edit: ah, I misread. I see you now said that is what FREUD thought, not you yourself. My mistake.

  • @bastienmoineau4463
    @bastienmoineau4463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Definitely the theory I feel didn't age so well, amongst your other videos I have seen so far. Thanks for the expose on Freud's take at the time.

  • @vladtheimpaler7375
    @vladtheimpaler7375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1244

    I think it’s important to point out that these theories are widely discredited in modern psychology

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      But what about the part about young boys and girls finding out about their anatomy differences?
      At what age should they be taught about that? I always thought you should only teach them if they happen to notice and ask questions?

    • @rob3r7jr
      @rob3r7jr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      No shit Sherlock!?!

    • @trueamnisias
      @trueamnisias 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I think it's important to point out that these theories are one of the most influential in modern psychology - current therapies developed leading on from this (psychoanalytic psychotherapy) or in critical discourse with it (CBT). Freud published his works more than 100 years ago, when people with mental health problems ended up in asylums and psychology and psychological health was not realy a concept.

    • @palaremzikermes
      @palaremzikermes ปีที่แล้ว

      You are funny :)

    • @paromita_ghosh
      @paromita_ghosh ปีที่แล้ว

      @@trueamnisias o started to believe these are these actual theories or not??

  • @richardhead8264
    @richardhead8264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1018

    *Freud:* _"Everything is about my meat."_

    • @Bruhthe1st
      @Bruhthe1st 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Your Profile picture makes that sentence so much better

    • @Azubi_Meatball4349
      @Azubi_Meatball4349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      lol i can relate

    • @ZACHANDJACKSZACHSMAFIA
      @ZACHANDJACKSZACHSMAFIA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Little buscemi? -JACK

    • @Bangy
      @Bangy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's Jewish

  • @alihaidarshah1255
    @alihaidarshah1255 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Life is not what happend to me. its what I choose to become~Carl jung
    We can't change the past. But we can choose to accept it and become stronger

  • @safamedini
    @safamedini ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would like to correct one piece of information here. according to Sigmund Freud's theory, the super-ego is developed after the ego. First, there's the Id, as you said, children are driven only by the id (the principle of pleasure) then there's the part where the child starts connecting with the outside world and starts understanding the concept of individuality so they form the ego (follows the reality principle and mostly conscious yet it creates the unconscious defense mechanisms) after that the child developed a sense of self (aka ego), he/she is now exposed to morality, ideals, and develops the super-ego which is mainly in the preconscious telling us to be good. and that's how the ego starts moderating between the Id and the super-ego attempting to satisfy both while also using defense mechanisms to avoid anxiety.

  • @FMAYasha12
    @FMAYasha12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5639

    “Ida, like all women, maintains penis envy throughout her whole life” I don’t know how to tell you that not all women are envious of penises, lol, this is just kinda hilarious

    • @DrBe-zn5fv
      @DrBe-zn5fv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      his only purpose in putting out this schlock is to hate on his own pallid kind like a good little soyboy wokey ---- check the racist 'art' work

    • @FMAYasha12
      @FMAYasha12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +494

      @@DrBe-zn5fv I’m sorry, but I literally didn’t understand a single word you said.

    • @DrBe-zn5fv
      @DrBe-zn5fv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      @@FMAYasha12 in spanish we have a word for you .. 'empanada' meaning you are so well cooked inside the pasty of your echo chamber of conditioning that you cannot see the arrow in its flight to your heart. If you attend to this youtuber's use of blatant-yet-perfectly-pc racist stereotyping u will catch my drift i assure you. But first... less 'pan' for you..

    • @FMAYasha12
      @FMAYasha12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +463

      @@DrBe-zn5fv I’m so sorry but everything you say only confuses me more and more, lol. If you think I agree with the video, I was literally making fun of it, but I think maybe you’re overthinking all this, lol.

    • @angrymanwithsillymoustasche
      @angrymanwithsillymoustasche 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@FMAYasha12 its fact. But as humans,as u know moral values, emotional intelligence etc, your penis envy is not shown outside but it still exist deep inside your subconscious mind.

  • @l.av.h7812
    @l.av.h7812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Freud's nose candy sure affected him a lot.

  • @fathannisaazzahraputiastva4674
    @fathannisaazzahraputiastva4674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Menurut teori psikoseksual yang di kemukakan oleh Freud, dalam pertumbuhan manusia, kita melewati 5 fase. Fase tersebut yaitu, Oral (umur 0-1), Anal (umur 1-3), Phallic (umur 3-6), Latency (umur 7-13) dan Genital (Puberty - sampai meninggal). Menurut Feurd, hal yang kita alami waktu kecil secara tidak disadari mempengaruhi perilaku kita dalam kehidupan sehari-hari.
    Bentuk kreativitas seseorang yang terbentuk dari pengalaman pribadi pada teori ini contohnya adalah kegiatan aktivis. Kegiatan ini biasanya dilakukan oleh orang-orang yang berkembang pada fase latency dengan baik. Mengapa fase latency paling berdampak pada hal ini? Karena pada fase ini superego pada manusia semakin kuat, fase dimana manusia tersebut mulai memikirkan masalah-masalah yang ada, sehingga ingin mencari keadilan demi membangun moral yang baik dalam masyarakat.

  • @ahmatriansyah1174
    @ahmatriansyah1174 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hal yang paling mendasar adalah perilaku kita saat dewasa ialah cerminan kita dimasa kecil. Tentang apapun yang kita lakukan, kita sikapi, dan kita terapkan sedari kecil, itu akan berimpek buat kedepan.
    Fase yang menurut saya konkret dari kreativitas seseorang adalah fase Anal Phase, karna difase ini, kita bisa belajar hal-hal yang basic dari kebutuhan yang harus masuk dan keluar dari tubuh kita, seperti, makan, minum, buang air besar/kecil, bernapas dll.. Difase ini sudah mulai paham akan kebutuhan itu. Fase Anal Phase fase dimana kita diharuskan mengerti dan paham secara mandiri.
    Ketika kita beranjak dewasa, hal-hal yang mendasar tadi sangat kepakai dan sudah menjadi suatu kebiasaan, ketika kita bisa hidup mandiri dan kita tau mana yang menjadi kebutuhan untuk diri kita.

  • @scanface3315
    @scanface3315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +602

    So perverts had a traumatizing childhood , sad that thats most ppl on the internet :/

    • @soda_pressed6254
      @soda_pressed6254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      However, this doesn't justify their behavior. But yeah, I agree with you.

    • @lemao9239
      @lemao9239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      True indeed

    • @DanielRTSC
      @DanielRTSC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Its more Complex than that. Its kinda true tho

    • @someoneunspecial1729
      @someoneunspecial1729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Then it creates a cycle :|

    • @charmaine7781
      @charmaine7781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@someoneunspecial1729 yes

  • @asturianix9820
    @asturianix9820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +520

    I'm no psychologist, but I think this ideas were the result of his cocaine addiction.

    • @afnanfazli1713
      @afnanfazli1713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      shows

    • @thegod2291
      @thegod2291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol

    • @wilhelmvonn9619
      @wilhelmvonn9619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He actually recommended cocaine as an aid to clear thinking. Yeah right ...

    • @asturianix9820
      @asturianix9820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@wilhelmvonn9619 He once recommended cocaine to one patient as a way to cure his addiction to morphine. He ended being addictive to both and he said it was his fault for having a bad administration lol

    • @dethkon
      @dethkon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@asturianix9820 Hell yeah

  • @meganluke444
    @meganluke444 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Freud grew up and developed his theories in the Victorian Era, when sexuality was not discussed and much neurotic behavior came about.

  • @Spark-In-The-Dark
    @Spark-In-The-Dark 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video has been changed but the comments are still representing the original.

  • @Lolpy.
    @Lolpy. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1919

    This feels like a joke.

    • @cynthiaanderson6410
      @cynthiaanderson6410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      I kind of wish it was

    • @digimonalvatrax2738
      @digimonalvatrax2738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      It is

    • @skycrafter2042
      @skycrafter2042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@digimonalvatrax2738 its not sadly

    • @xdyourmom1953
      @xdyourmom1953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      Take it with a grain of salt. The man was a freak

    • @fernandobloodborne770
      @fernandobloodborne770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Freud, because of the context he was his whole life, made him had an interpretation of this phases based on misogynist (penis envy). Most of what he wrote was heavily judged.

  • @thisguywithnicknameqube.7079
    @thisguywithnicknameqube.7079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +737

    "Penis envy" is an allegory to women envying men's strength and stamina, but even when I know this I still chuckled when hearing this lol.

    • @PM-yj3lc
      @PM-yj3lc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You don't get it

    • @Mi_Fa_Volare
      @Mi_Fa_Volare 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      That is nothing biological though. That mindset is induced by society and is also one reason why there are sex offenders with dominance as motive. Surprisingly or kind of fitting by this video, more female sex offenders commit rape or molest with the sense of dominance as motive than men do.

    • @Mi_Fa_Volare
      @Mi_Fa_Volare 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I cut my comment short, because TH-cam deleted my complete one within a second. That shows that they must be hiding something.

    • @TheBlissfulVoid
      @TheBlissfulVoid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Mi_Fa_Volare I know what redit you would fit perfectly in!
      r/IknownothingbutimgonnapretendIdoanywaystomakemystupidandobviouslywrong/idioticargumentsseemvalid.

    • @jesusalbertogiraldomendoza9960
      @jesusalbertogiraldomendoza9960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@Mi_Fa_Volare hey, chill, the video was academic, showing freud theory from 20 century, not 2020 decade .-.

  • @cycrothelargeplanet
    @cycrothelargeplanet ปีที่แล้ว +13

    2:42
    The fuck he discovered that at age 3-6?

    • @ArchonFDC
      @ArchonFDC ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I did lol

  • @johndoh1000
    @johndoh1000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All of Freud's assertions in this context are so beyond absurd it's amazing they're taken seriously at all. I feel like there's many more events or parental practices that can influence people to develop their egos over time than just the stages Freud describes. It almost has to be more nuanced than you need to be potty trained at your personal discretion in order to feel confident about yourself.

  • @morkey74
    @morkey74 3 ปีที่แล้ว +399

    I think that most of the comments overlooked the simplicity of the message he was trying to convey. Just because one of these things happened to you doesn't mean that you will become that way, it just increases the chances of you becoming that way, especially over time.

    • @lostinabookstore8039
      @lostinabookstore8039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      My thoughts exactly!

    • @vinichenzo4811
      @vinichenzo4811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Am i the only one who didnt think anything in this video was crazy?

    • @lostinabookstore8039
      @lostinabookstore8039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@vinichenzo4811 YES!!! I thought the exact same thing!

    • @vinichenzo4811
      @vinichenzo4811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@lostinabookstore8039 i mean its about the subconcious no one is saying you literally want to fuck your mum its about how you will perceive future relationships and how you will be attracted to people similar to her

    • @bachvandals3259
      @bachvandals3259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@vinichenzo4811 he is weird... But his method is... Effective to say at least...
      His way of dealing with problem can be sum up as:
      "You have a psychological problem? Let me guess, childhood sexual abuse?"
      It's not right all the time... But 100% work 30-40% of the time.

  • @lig_ma
    @lig_ma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    So your saying I'm not dumb, I just pissed my pants too early.

  • @SymbioticSense
    @SymbioticSense ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Seems to me like humans want a simple model to describe a reality that surpasses our comprehension. In attempting to do this, we can end up with models that over simplify and fail to take account of the nuances of existence. Personally, I feel like any model of reality should be able to constantly shift and evolve in order to fit new situations. If a model is too rigid, either reality will be bent to fit it, and we will ignore important information, either it will break.

  • @Kaanal_Kavidhai
    @Kaanal_Kavidhai 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Which video editing app you are using?

  • @GabrielsEpicLifeofGoals
    @GabrielsEpicLifeofGoals 3 ปีที่แล้ว +374

    While this theory is a pain to digest, I can agree that shaming your kid for failure (like failing to potty train) does make you more misserable.

  • @yashasvik2958
    @yashasvik2958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    This is the best anti drug advertising I've ever come across

    • @adnan2643
      @adnan2643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣nice one

    • @TheSapphireLeo
      @TheSapphireLeo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And/or because taught by people on such, if not also methodically and willing in full awareness?

  • @realdeal1164
    @realdeal1164 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Willhem Wundt the father of psychology also recived criticism.

  • @Sharofiddin_bakhtiyorov
    @Sharofiddin_bakhtiyorov 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi there, what kind of software do you use to make a video?

  • @afrojack5263
    @afrojack5263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Some random a**hole
    Me: he probably didn’t sh*t in the toilet until 7

  • @moffrow543
    @moffrow543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Imagine listening to this without rheadphones and your parents hear “the oral phase” “the oral phase”

  • @KuruGDI
    @KuruGDI 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is there really nothing in the latent phase that can go wrong? Seems a bit odd that in that life segment all the sudden nothing should have an impact on your life and you can only benefit no matter what you do...

  • @kasunigamage7713
    @kasunigamage7713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    an interesting teaching 😍 well understood ...Thank you sooo much

  • @KARKATELCESARENVIADODESA-pv4yd
    @KARKATELCESARENVIADODESA-pv4yd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Dad: "Son, you are experiencing what is called Oedipus Complex, just as I predicted yesterday, understand that what you are going through is normal and that it has no effect on your mother or I, RISE ABOVE YOUR IMPULSES SON, FORGE YOUR OWN WAY." *Shakes fist triumphantly*
    Son: *Existential crisis*

    • @ronin_amv5250
      @ronin_amv5250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Typical anime training arc for a child

    • @a_donut
      @a_donut 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Son: “Are you telling me to kill you, and then marry mom? That’s fucked up, dad.”

  • @glitteronglitterof8902
    @glitteronglitterof8902 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was forced to drop the diaper before I was ready. One day when my mother picks me up in daycare she hears my daycare scolding at me and calling me disgusting for an accident. Freud's theory fits perfectly. I have always felt uncomfortable in my body and am an extreme pleaser towards authoritarian. I can't be in a relationship bc I learned that I was not worth other peoples love

  • @waidi3242
    @waidi3242 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    during my latent phase i was being bullied by everyone, not having any friend, and everyone laughed on me.. my problems in my life might actually come from this period of my life..

    • @HaroldsLastDate
      @HaroldsLastDate 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bullying can certainly do psychological harm. That doesn't mean that Freud explanation for how or why that happens is the correct one, or that harm can't be healed.

  • @AdonanS
    @AdonanS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    I'm gonna say what I told my Psychology teacher a few years ago: we don't have enough evidence. If more people were willing to talk honestly about this stuff, we could conclusively say whether Freud was right or wrong.

    • @karenkfoury7047
      @karenkfoury7047 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      but you have to take into consideration that Freud was addicted to cocaine and that none of his theories were backed up by evidence. He was convincing his patients that they had gone through childhood trauma that they don’t remember. He’s theories are subjective and not scientific, so most probably he’s wrong.

    • @jojojo9240
      @jojojo9240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's why you ask stuff anonymously, so people will answer it honestly.

    • @rihamashraf167
      @rihamashraf167 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@karenkfoury7047 why though?? It makes perfect sense and most gais are like this they have daddy issues, they were more enmeshed with mother and many admitted to be s3xually molested that's why a lot says that they don't only feel s3xual feelings towards men, they also feel romantic and emotional ones and that's the reason why having absent father and feeling different from other men and difficulty in developing sense of manhood, when u think about it and apply to our modern world u will see it makes perfect sense and he wasn't wrong about it. It's only people don't want to accept it and instead trying to look for biological evidence for being gai because by saying it's how they are born and they can't change or control these feelings it makes it easier to pass it to society and make it acceptable but if people start to see it as something cause by trauma then it means there is treatment and a hope for change and this what most people don't want to happen so they reject his ideas

    • @sssaaa4876
      @sssaaa4876 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@rihamashraf167 You're wrong although we can say that the reason of having a different sexuality is not completely identified
      Moreover, your theory only explains gay and lesbian sexualities, but how about the other ones then?
      Parents pay an important role in our mental development but there's no scientific proof to your theory
      And even if your theory was true, you still couldn't judge these people because they cause nothing bad to society. They don't have any mental problems, that is the other reason it isn't treated. Compared to someone who went through emotional neglect as a child and faces mental issues and illnesses as an adult to face that, 'developing' (because that's not how it works) a different sexuality doesn't cause any disorders, a gay person can be still as healthy as a heterosexual one

    • @haritc8462
      @haritc8462 ปีที่แล้ว

      A lot of french therapists practice Freudian based Psychoanalysis. If nothing else, the french mental health system has proven that freud's Theories are completely ineffective if not downright harmful when used to treat mental illnesses and psychological disorders.

  • @kerryannwaithe9245
    @kerryannwaithe9245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I'm sorry.......did he say "like all women" @ 3:51???

    • @nothingleftdamn7430
      @nothingleftdamn7430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Its kinda weird

    • @Chopscrewyyy
      @Chopscrewyyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bruh I'm pretty sure normal women don't have "penis envy"

    • @Ibloop
      @Ibloop 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What’s the problem?

    • @sillicon8227
      @sillicon8227 หลายเดือนก่อน

      this video at the start says that this was Sigmund Freud's theory. Sigmund Freud's theories about psychology and sexuality are often ridiculed for their absurdity.

  • @joemoody2626
    @joemoody2626 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Has anyone in history ever projected as much Freud

  • @sprouts
    @sprouts  2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Submit and up-vote the next video topic at sprouts.featureupvote.com/ ⬆🧠

  • @MrMokey24
    @MrMokey24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Freud's work shows how academia was back when he theorized this. This was constructed in the context of traditional christian values. This context formed the understanding what "normal" and "healthy" meant in his work. "Perversion" as a sin was undisputed, as was the female subordinate role in society and the family. As our society evolves past monolythic value systems, Freud's work loses a lot of relevance, though there was still a lot of good observations around childhood neurological development, we need to recontextualize his findings. Turns out, reality is a lot more complex than any simplified model of psychoanalysis.
    Would be really cool to see a similar video on some of the critiques of Freud in the future. Especially the later stages are heavily disputed.

    • @weltschmerzistofthaufig2440
      @weltschmerzistofthaufig2440 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wasn’t Freud an atheist, though?

    • @SymbioticSense
      @SymbioticSense ปีที่แล้ว

      " Turns out, reality is a lot more complex than any simplified model of psychoanalysis."
      This!!! Could not agree more! It seems crazy to me how eager we are to oversimplify reality in an attempt to construct an "easy" model, instead of attempting to complexify our models to fit reality!

  • @imlikeheroin2
    @imlikeheroin2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Me watching this as a student: Huh, that's so interesting!
    Me watching this as a parent: So many ways to ruin my kid without even knowing it. 😐

    • @deadaccount7303
      @deadaccount7303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I wouldn’t worry too much. Obviously carefully weening and supportive potty training i think is good, but Freud was pretty fucked in the head. I mean “penis envy” just sounds hilarious and there is something called the Freudian Coverup which discredits him more.

    • @imlikeheroin2
      @imlikeheroin2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@WellPreparedTreeFrog Jokes on you, I'm a junkie! 😅 lololol jkjk... my name is from a song not about actual heroin

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Has your child started asking certain questions though?

  • @gv-hu1hw
    @gv-hu1hw ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how people think they know psychology better than Sigmund Freud

    • @HaroldsLastDate
      @HaroldsLastDate 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well, given that there has been a century of progress in science and psychology since his time, and many people have studied it, why do you think they don't? That's a bit like saying "I love how people think they understand atomic theory better than Democritus" or "I love how people think they understand orbital mechanics better than Kepler."
      Science changes and progresses. Scientists become famous for advancing that change and progress. That doesn't necessarily make them right or inerrant, it just makes them influential.

    • @entertainmepanda
      @entertainmepanda 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True!

  • @naurahkamilyaputri9908
    @naurahkamilyaputri9908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dalam video di atas terdapat kaitannya dengan teori yg digagas oleh freud. Freud percaya kepribadian yang berkembang melalui serangkaian tahapan masa kanak-kanak di mana mencari kesenangan-energi dari id menjadi fokus pada area sensitif seksual tertentu. Energi psikoseksual, atau libido , digambarkan sebagai kekuatan pendorong di belakang perilaku.
    Bentuk dari kreatifitas seseorang yang dibentuk dari pengalaman pribadi pada teori psikoseksual contohnya adalah sukarelawan, kegiatan inilah yang dibentuk pada fase latency, kegiatan menjadi sukarelawan inilah kegiatan sosial yang di dasari oleh keinginan sendiri dan manfaatnya juga banyak bagi sendiri dan orang lain.
    Mengapa fase latency ini sangat berdampak? Karena pada fase ini manusia menjadi lebih matang atau fase dimana manusianya sudah memikirkan masalah-masalah yang ada sehingga mencari keadilan untuk kepentingan moral di masyarakat

  • @laughingfurry
    @laughingfurry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +584

    Freud is smart in many respects. Some ideas and statements, such as the personal tyrant all men obey, are often well thought out.
    However, I often consider this theory from Freud to be overly simplistic. It's an idea based on how our community can effect us more so than the effects of other environmental elements or our relationship with our bodies. No proper explanation on body dismorphia. No explanation on why a child may look up to an adult of a different gender. No explanation on why people develop different love languages, which I'm just starting to understand myself.
    Same goes with the subject of sexuality. Why do some find larger bodies attractive while others hold an attraction to smaller bodies. Example of this is the question of why some find a big buttocks attractive, some find a small one attractive, and others hold no attraction at all. This is more important than it appears. Going by the example of a woman having penis envy, that may not be what often develops. A woman may hear the guys they are attracted to talk about attraction to the smaller, which may make her become self conscious of her weight. Likewise, comments of a larger size may have the inverse of her feeling like she's too inadequate to attract a mate. Things may especially be difficult for a woman who hears all of this, but is attracted to someone who doesn't have that attraction. Therefore, she may try to emphasize that part, which may put off the mate she's after.
    Going back to penis envy, this can effect guys, too. Some guys tend to avoid subjects relating to nudity simply because they feel their penis is inadequate for pleasure and procreation. The subject of body size may also play a part. A guy with a large upper body can be considered strong and reliable to the women around him, but he may have insecurities and assume he's overweight. Just the same, a man who's "lean and sculpted" may view himself as "too weak" or "scrawny" to attract a mate. This negative view a man may hold of his body can be as frustrating to his mate. Even a woman confident in her body who simply wish to have personal enjoyment may find it difficult if he feels he can't deliver.
    Then there's the matter of appearance outside of biology. A subject that is especially difficult to properly explain. Some may find a bare upper body to be interesting and attractive. Others may not care, but will change their mind based on attire and any use if make up. To note, I do include tan sprays as a type of make up.
    In each instance of poor relations with ones own body, very little of Freud's theory accounts for every problem. Some of it may be upbringing, as suggested. However some of it can also be the environment, the present social experience, and whether or not there's a healthy relationship with ones own body.
    That's why I say this theory if Freud is too simple.

    • @sprouts
      @sprouts  3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Hi Neko Vermillion, thank you for the insightful comment! It's so encouraging for us to see that our videos can entice educated discussion and contributions from people who know a lot about the topic :)

    • @laughingfurry
      @laughingfurry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@sprouts
      Often there is contradiction and miscommunication. Which is the big thing I wanted to bring up. There are often conflict due to such problems.
      Thankfully, I am understood.

    • @laughingfurry
      @laughingfurry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@ryand4787
      I did talk about more than attraction. Such as the point of self consciousness being effected by others within the environment. Which is why I mentioned a man who's uncomfortable with his body having relationship problems. It's far more than him being attracted to someone. It's also a matter of him feeling confident in his body. Same with women.
      People do tend to have their personalities completely change, often to unhealthy degrees, due to the people around them belittling them for their body.
      The same can go with how they act, but that's a more difficult subject to discuss.

    • @nok460
      @nok460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Have you ever read or studied Freud ? Real question, you cannot say psycho sexual developement is a simplistic theory if you actually read Freud. Besides this theory goes beyond Freud. Theres a LOT of authors who contributed their part.

    • @Cupitron
      @Cupitron 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@nok460 Yup, actually saying Freud's theory is simplistic is not really knowing or reading his work.

  • @agent3299
    @agent3299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I dont remember being 3, it's been far too long. When my parents told me of my babyhood, my mom said I was always over protective of her, and refused my father permission to get near her. My dad was an all around good guy and he though I was just a baby needing my mother, since he was often at work and I wasn't as comfortable with him. Just my assumptions, but this really did let me go too far, I was a cocky teenager who tried to be a shit to my dad. I wish i had told him how much he meant to me when i had the chance. If anyone young is reading this, appreciate your parents, you'll regret if you dont and the time comes only once

    • @RealMiia
      @RealMiia 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well funny how i kinda had the same relation with my mother at the same age except it was maybe coz my father was abusive

    • @visualsbywinters_
      @visualsbywinters_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can relate. My sister was a daddy's girl and I was essentially a momma's boy. My sister and I are 10 years apart so when I was coming up, my father wasn't really around because of work at that time so I developed a strong relationship with my mother. I saw my father knock my mom to the ground one night, I'm sure he was drinking because it was his birthday, he didn't hit her but I came into the room and saw him standing over her. Being 4-5 years old the only thing I could do was attempt at hitting him in his back then he stopped. Afterwards me and my dad had some friction, similar things happened in middle school. I figured I was big enough to take him on and he had to restrain me. Fast forward to being 18 and we had a full on brawl, he tackled me for making a joke and I lost it. Not gonna lie I kinda beat his ass lmao, I knew then I was finally able to take him on and took the opportunity to let it all out. We ended up apologizing to each other and we've been alright ever since. I've had my mother in my face a few times, acted like I put hands on her when I didn't so my dad would jump in obviously. My childhood was kinda messy, I know I was loved but there was so much conflict and sometimes emotional neglect that I'm not sure if I had a good or bad childhood. When my mother started to basically switch on me like I was suddenly the bad guy it hurt me so much, I didn't have anyone to turn to.