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- Hey everyone! Hope school is treating you well and that you're enjoying the preparation for Autumn! A month ago, we pre-released the animatic (draft) of this video asking for feedback. We appreciate that and now completed the finished version! Hope you enjoy! Also, we will be putting out a survey soon to get feedback on our work and have you guys be more involved in the creation process! If you have friends, creators who are passionate about mental health or psychology, this will be a great opportunity for collaboration!
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Wait, isn't this being envious? I don't mean to offend, I'm just confused.
Jelausy is when you're "afraid" someone or something will be taken away from you, you would be jealous of a person you care about, while envy is when you want something someone else has, you would be envy of that person you care about's boyfriend/girlfriend.
...right?
Yep! It depends on the context for sure!
@@Psych2go ok, soooo... this video is about envy, right?
VeryVery sensitive
Extroverts?please
Introverts do everything possible to hide their jealousy - and you just spill the beans. Not cool.
I'm the 667 like, I have removed all demonic activity from this comment.
>:(
Ikr I always suppress my jealousy and just move on eventually
🥲
Well introverts also can be toxic jealous people just like extroverts. (Im introvert too) I know one introvert who is obviously jealous and she seems unaware of that, i read her like a book, to me its just too obvious. She doesnt seem like hiding her jealousy or she thinks im stupid enough to not notice. I already sent her signal when i sensed something fishy i stopped talking to her. She then talked to me again after awhile, but then again she acted weirdly. But these videos help people distance from such toxicity. No matter how much ur being nice to toxic people they always want to bring u down.
WHY DO YOU HAVE TO EXPOSE US LIKE THIS
It's horrible I know
I wonder who they have on the inside.🤔
This is totally bs...... What I'm not jealous of your success
lol I CAN COMFIRM
Ya.
when ur an introvert and they're accurate
that's so true!
Do not let our rival see this video
I found their previous videos on introverts totally accurate. But this one..? Not one bit, sorry.
I'M SORRY TO THE LAST LIKER ;-;; I RUINED THE 420 LIKES
holy cheese hi jas
These honestly sound like characteristics of a toxic person rather than a jealous introvert
Right!
Jealousy can be toxic, so not an inccurate thought.
A toxic introvert.
We can't help it! Yes it's bad tho
Exactly
I related to some of these, but others just sound so harsh. In the end we're all humans and we all succumb to the green eyed monster sometimes. *I find talking to people I trust about my insecurities really help me work through things I shouldn't have internalized to begin with.*
viktorayy :D 【animated】Thank you! I don't think anyone ever WANTS to feel jealous. A lot of these things are poor coping mechanisms the introvert learned and does because they don't want to hurt you by expressing their jealousy in a healthy way (Is there even ever a healthy way to express jealousy?) So they are trying to shield you from their uncomfortable feelings by creating distance, because in the end they know they don't want their green eyed monster to be your problem. They have to deal with it on their own. But sadly it can still be felt even if they try their best to hide it.
I wish I had someone I could talk about all my feelings with. As an introvert with social anxiety, I feel so lonely, trapped and sad all the time.
I Used To Do That But Reading This Made Me Remember To Start Again. Thank You
@@Rationality4Life I'm sorry, don't feel sad I love you and it'll be better later~🙂😻❤️
Vegan4ever same 🤷🏻♀️
I'm an introvert and this doesn't really ring true at all, imo. Yes, I admit, when I get jealous, I will get very quiet and sometimes even false compliment for fear of coming across as rude otherwise, but I certainly don't do these things to manipulate and hurt people to gain an advantage. I internalize the feeling and learn to deal with it properly.
Celtic Magician Exactly My thoughts whilst watching although we may stay quiet and false compliment at times doesn’t mean we’re trying to manipulate and use them for our own good.
Its the same way for me too.
I Wouldn't want to Hurt Anyone! But I would Fight If I Would try to find a Cure to My Jealousy if I Could ! ! ! !
@Shazil Bin Shahid well I'm not any of them but I'll reply hah🤣
This is more about a jealous person who happens to be of introvert nature 🤔 i am an introvert too... Can't relate a bit but this actually represent one of my cousins who happens to be an introvert too.
This hurt to watch. It’s so true
True😶
Awwe
Consider it a guide to hide your emotions even deeper. Unlimited power.
Psych2Go when you are broken inside u want to be anyone except yourself
number 2 low key makes introverts sound like sociopaths XD
There's different types of introverts, i find this list accurate in behaviour but not in motives. If I'm jealous of someone I might do #2 because I'm extremely nice and don't want to rock the boat, and hiding the fact that I wish that had happened to me instead.
+ justin white i do the same, but the way they word it doesnt really sound that much like what we do.
@@kirkharrison6089 yeah - it's sounds a lot more sinister and calculated they way they described it.
A sociopathic introvert will think its normal
Justin White Yeah the behavior (most of it) is correct but the motives are mixed up.
Can you guys make a video about when introverts are romantically jealous? I'd love to see something about that.
I’m pretty sure there is only one thing we do when jealous of someone in that way (speaking from personal experience)
We stay quiet and supportive, slowly dying inside and praying that they’ll break up
Yeah. I suppose that you're right.
@@leonisnothere2083 Completely agree.
Sounds about right. There is also intense guilt and shame if you want the person to be happy, but still can't shrug off or lock away jealousy.
I thought that was what it was before whatching it... ;_;
I have a feeling that you guys are watching my life
lol
I feel like that too
Same
This channel observes the observers, then tells everyone about how the observers observe
Well... I'm introvert. I'm jealous. But I think I'm not sociopath. Yes, I get upset when my friends hang out with another girl, but I'm not trying to be better than her, because I feel like I'm the worst.
Entertaining as usual but I definitely disagree. These are things a manipulative a hole does. The only one I could sympathize with as a polite introvert is staying away from people who are doing well. That is because some of them gloat. Or it reminds me how much I have yet to accomplish myself. Hence, im saving them from myself or my lack of enthusiasm which they don't deserve for simply doing well. If ive never been on a date and you've been on hundreds and are now getting married, no, i don't want to hear about it. Most of this stuff featured here just sounds plain mean and petty though. I like to think I'm nothing like that.
I agree with what you're saying
Bagery,the plain mean doesn't make any of this quotes,it from peoples everywhere around the world.also,any loves quote,beautiful quotes,story quotes etc.the plain mean had nothing to do with this at all,thats all and thanks.
What do you expect? You have to face facts because this is a legit psychology channel.
"I like to think I'm nothing like that."
Well too bad. Introverts tend to rationalize their emotions rather than face them.
@@mattgarte8473 Sounds like you're the kinda meanie (internet know it all, bully) they're talking about. Yeah, I'm nothing like that.
@@bagery To be very clear here, my motive in commenting my previous reply was that I was bothered because you seemed like
your guts didn't take it so well.
It may have seemed like it, but I'm not a pretentious know it all-type bully on the internet. Sorry if I came off like that.
I don't like it when there is unclarity and stigma (or stereotype) surrounding a certain topic (in this case, introversion).
I have experienced jealousy before. And I can say that I have definitely done a majority of those things before when I was younger.
I share what I know so that no one is misinformed. My point is, you have to face the cold-hard facts without letting your pride or any other emotion cloud your judgement.
Pretty sure these are signs of eNVy, not jealousy. I was expecting a video about relationship insecurities that I could relate to. Disappointed.
i was searching for this comment. people need to learn that envy and jealousy are not the same
Me too
@@alainaasteria36 😑 Search the dictionary. Essentially both words have the same meaning. (Meriam Webster)
The video was about jealousy nonetheless. Don't always expect Psych2Go's videos to be relatable.
Learning psychology is unfiltered.
Most videos or tips are usually about romance, it's getting boring and cliché for me. It's also good to see other psychology videos that are related to another topic.
If only we could immediately cast out negative emotions.
Where did they get this information from??? I think as introverts we spend way too much time in our own worlds to truly be jealous if anyone.
Why is the description of a jealous introvert the same as the description of a psychopath? xD
A warning to not get an introvert jealous! }: )
@@Tabryne Haha, yeah xD
What did you call me?!👿
watch out for me...I might be bringing my own machete or a butter knife for murder
@@kevin080592 No!! Not that kind of psycho!!
This video made feel horrible because I've done it before without even thinking.
natXkat 15 same.
Me too
Ok cool
natXkat 15 aww, take more action next time! Pay more attention to what you’re doing. I’ve had a few people do this to me, and it really sucks ya know? :(
But now that you're aware of it... You can self-reflect better.
"Don't look back. That's not the direction you're going."
- (Forgot the name of dude who made the quote)
You just described an introverted narcissist.
Covert narcissist
Isn't this a reupload... with like a different animation..?
Lara K I think they’ve done this a couple times, I guess it’s nice for new subs
Ya, I think it's a reupload. But I don't mind sinse repitition will help you memorize something
Yeah i think it is. Thanks god i tought i whas going crazy 😆
no u
@@lovefood2332 u r
Damn, you're making introverts look like manipulative demons.
Wow. I feel like I'm the worst by watching this video.
Why do i care so much about losing her, when she's not even mine.
Same
same
Same
I CAN RELATE SO MUCH
THAT HURTS BRUUU
This a very toxic manipulative covert narcissist
That's not terribly fair to say. I've displayed some of these traits when I've been jealous and I'm not a narcissistic -- I consider myself a very kind/caring person. I've just had moments of weakness I've needed to address.
I thought the same which explains why I absolutely do not identify with these traits at all.
Alicia Lopez BINGO!!! These traits perfectly describe someone (a covert narc) whom I used to work with that was like this. She targeted me, and was doing many of the things on this list, and then some. She was a very toxic, evil, dreadful person, so I avoided her at all costs.
@@Lexmorningstarnz I mean.. You can still portray SOME narcissistic traist, though it doesn't necessarily mean you're a full on narcissists.
This sounds more like envy rather than jealousy...
There's is a much more difference between the title and the video content
I was expecting some relationship content with beautiful ways of jealousy to express it❤
I couldn’t agree and relate more. I feel a little better. Thank you so much❤️
I can only think about "what should I do to deal with this behaviour?"
I'm an introvert and this is kinda relatable bcz it's kinda accurate
Sounds more like a narsasisst than an introvert
Jealousy is not considered a healthy emotion.
@@Psych2go yes, I know
I was thinking the same thing.
Yes I am a very jealous introvert. Nobody gets it lol
Somehow I made it so that I'm never jealous, I just do my own thing.
Supercell Gamer same here jealousy and envy towards other people doesn’t get you no where, just makes you depressed. Do your own thing and people will respect who you are 👍
The problem with me is that I do get jealous, but I always try my best to deny it. I think jealousy is poisonous, and I try my best to feel happy for other people. I just can’t. I keep trying to be someone else, a person who never gets jealous. I think I just need to embrace that I do get jealous. It’s just hard when I have such negativity around jealousy.
@Nukey you know your life isn't good when you are like: ha look at me im better than you!
This basically means you are a piece of shit person
I just discovered this channel and all I gotta say is thank you guys, the vídeos are awesome and it's cool that you share your knowledge with us in other to help us.
THANK YOU SO MUCH THIS EXPLAINS ME AND MY SISTERS RELATIONSHIP!!
Sometimes I’m jealous for no reason. I get jealous for the dumbest things! I just ignore it and be nice because idk why I’m feeling that way! Does anyone have an idea? qwq
thats an introvert thing. introverts like avoiding conflict and talking about their feelings because they naturally bottle up. try to ignore ur jealousy that isnt there for a reason =)
Kirk Harrison ok! Thanks!
np
Me too like for small resons too.that shit is ruining my life
Kirk Harrison hi can u make it more clear for me😣
*Friend wins a scholarship*
Other people: YEAAAHH CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!
Me: Good for you.
I don't even know when I get jealous
I'm an introvert but when I'm jealous I do everything in my power to stop myself from being jealous. It never gets this bad...
We may be gentle quiet people on the outside. But on the inside, we're fierce cats with lots of bottled up emotions
Why did you expose us?! * hides *
I think I’ve encountered something like this. But this is very interesting! Keep them coming!
I love this whole introvert thing I am going through a hard time and this really helps me and other people understand
I like this video cause it shows us that a introvert is not always that quiet nice person.
Oh yeah, the kind of video that I've wanted, make more like this, please
Hey, nice video!
*im jealous about how good you guys are at making videos*
u guys constantly expose us Introverts, it's like ur mind readers
I'm an introvert but I usually don't get jealous easily because I don't give any f*cks about what other people do or have.
6: They Get snarky. Or, at least, snarkier than usual.
Doe YES
An old friend I had who was an introvert (no longer friends) had all of these signs. It was extremely hurtful to go through as an extrovert. I'm empowered by others' energy and when I could no longer stand the jealousy, running back and forth I blown up and she put me on permanent silent treatment mode. I became drained from my surroundings because there was no one I felt I could turn to when shit hit the fan. My boyfriend of 3 years is an introvert and when he gets jealous I always try to help him make sure his feelings are heard and understood while helping him voice what he needs. Everyone is different but I'm happy this video solved a hurtful mystery to me.
“They avoid you when things are going well for you”…….almost every person I’ve ever known😂😂😂
Some of these just sound really harsh tbh. Just because we get jealous doesn't mean we want to entirely destroy the other person or their work.. I figured more of the video would be about how we sulk and try to win small victories and get overly happy when we "beat" them in any way. But that was only 2 points of the video and honestly I don't think you talked about it enough? The rest just kind of makes us sound like sociopaths
This sounds like material for a Lifetime movie.
When i'm jealous, I try real hard to still come off as nice and supportive towards that other person. Or I just keep my distance from that person.
I lean pretty heavily towards introversion and these traits seem to describe something other than introversion. An introvert can certainly have these traits but they don’t seem to signs of an introvert.
WHY IS THIS ALL SO ACCURATE
As an introvert, I cannot say enough abt how accurate this is. I used to be jealous like this in high school not only because I was shy and insecure about myself, but I really wanted to bring the best out of my potential too...and completely did it the wrong way and hurt some good friends of mine in the process. I’m older, more self-aware, and honest now about how I approach jealousy or insecurity with friends and family, but I’m always working to improve myself as a person so some days are better than others. What I’ve learned is to always be kind and happy for others because it doesn’t take anything away from you to do so and to be motivated to do the best for yourself, not to one-up someone else.
when I'm jealous i just congratulate them and then keep away for awhile so i dont have to feel it. and if they come to me, i just try to act normally as a good friend, but might be a little withdrawn. jealousy for me only makes me dislike myself. i cant be cruel to others like some of the stuff in this video.
This is the psycho introvert... not the average introvert.
scary that people are like this. my trust issues run deep bc of “friends” like this
Yup, there’s a girl I know that was bullying me (I think she still talks behind my back badly and still pretends to be my sister now) but deep inside I feel like I envy her... And I think she feels the same about me. So ironic.
I don't relate to this at all.. I'm 100% introvert.. I guess maybe because I'm not an envious person when I see someone is doing well even if I don't know them I am happy for them..
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Same as well. Except I am a very jealous person, but I don't act like this when I'm jealous. I completely retreat and cry a lot, and when I have to talk, I'm snappy. I don't do this manipulative shit.
@@happyfacefries I retreat as well if someone hurts my feelings. I also become snappy. People will know if I don't like them.. I try to be nice to everyone and tespectful but if I am disrespected I get snappy I don't like the manipulative bs either ... I don't like it done to me I wouldn't want to do to anyone else.. I relate to u more than the video lol. Thank u for ur comment.
Psychologically, no one is 100% introvert or extrovert. Everyone is a certain percentage of each.
@@spencermcdaniel5995 k . Thank u
@@spencermcdaniel5995 it's a figure of speech. Let her express herself.
If I'm ever envious of someone I'm not going to copy them, give them false praise, or become competitive. If I'm jealous of someone I gravitate away from them. The only thing that slightly applies to me is #4.
As an Introvert, only number 4 is true or maybe applies to me. I cannot pretend to be happy for someone I am jealous of, so I stay away.
Being competitive is only when I noticed that someone is jealous of me, and they become competitive with me, try to get ahead of me over almost everything, then the competitive in me awakens! lol! But sometimes, I just let it go and pay no attention, but there are time when I cannot let it go, but being too competitive is stressful, so I really hate it. I also do not want to be like the person I am jealous of, maybe I've just matured enough that I am confident about myself of who and what I am, though, I do still have some insecurities, mostly physical, so no big deal, in terms of my personality, I'm confident that I am cool. I do not/cannot give fake compliments, if I have to give fake compliments, then it would only be because I genuinely want to make the other person feel good about themselves or about their achievement, if it's for the person I am jealous of, I just won't say a thing. I do not really give advice, unless I am asked and I try not to give advice to manipulate, coz I always feel like I would be found out and I don't want to be called a manipulator. If it's someone I am jealous of, I still give honest advice, I feel flattered if someone ask me for advice, regardless if I like or dislike the person. ☺
I'm an INTP (very Introvert) and non of these signs apply to me, maybe it's because i don't tend to get jealous of people cuz i know that whatever they have and makes them happy wont last and they will suffer in life and eventually they'll all die and no one will remember them, the only people that i get jealous of sometimes are guys that get lot of girls with no effort
If I'm jealous and sad combined, then I mostly avoid the person, but if I'm jealous and angry combined, then I just want to continuously hit something, so I mostly punch my hand
im the kind that will distance myself from ppl
the drawings are hilarious lmao
It really bothers me that in English they have these two words that mean envy and one of them (jealousy) also means what we call in Portuguese "ciúme" (when you're upset because someone you love seems interested in someone else) - but there is no word that I know exclusive for ciúme in English. Whenever I watch a video about jealousy my hopes get high because I think it will discuss ciúme but most of the time it's about envy and it's so frustrating.
This is a really bad channel.
This channel used to be about psych but now it's mostly clickbait videos for # of signs of love. It's just reiterating the typical advice from the internet that's getting old now.
Thanks for the feedback. We will incorporate that and post more psychology stuff. What would you like to see?
fogdood this is not clickbait, they're just giving the people what they want
Even though I still like some of their content you are so right, I wouldn't exactly call it clickbait, cause they actually show what they say in the title, but they head into this direction to improve views, and spezialise in it, so the old general overview of psychology is somewhat gone, as videos not about signs of love or similar topics get lesser and lesser
@@Psych2go I would like you to shine more light on psychological conditions and concepts that aren't as popular, such as Complex PTSD (C-PTSD), or how trauma may cause a sense of foreshortened future. I found an article on it: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4166378/, and if you could make a video about things like these, I'd be much more interested in watching videos from your channel.
It's just introvert stroking and love videos now
EDIT: To clear up the somewhat somber tone of my comments and come up with some suggestions instead of complaining about free content: What about the idea of "The Spectacle" in correlation to mental illness and the current digital age?
i had an extremely jealous introvert string me along for a little over a year... using extremely manipulative tactics. in the end once it started affecting my little one harshly i had to pull away. it left me extremely hurt and not just hurt my young one as well. it took an extreme blow on us financially, emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physically. it was thanks to psych2go that soon i became aware of the extreme subtle abuse and now we are on the road to recovery and true happiness thank you so much and i hope people continue becoming aware. had i had not been warned i probably would have been strung along with my child for years to come i am eternally grateful.
I guess one or two apply to me but a lot of the others seem really harsh. Even if I were jealous of someone I wouldn’t really try to completely copy them but I’d try to implement a few things they’re doing into my life while still staying true to myself. And all of my compliments are genuine, even if I’m jealous of that person, they worked very hard to get to where they are and I have no reason to invalidate them and their hard work and abilities. It just means that if I want to improve I need to work harder or change some things to get on their level. Everyone is different though and this video doesn’t relate to every single introvert but I’m sure a good few can relate to some or most of these points.
I love watching your videos and seeing what applies to me! It’s pretty cool seeing that there are other people out there who are similar to me or have some similar qualities ^^^
Also if this comment makes no sense it’s because I’m not proofreading it -gasp-
Ugh i hate copycats i had this over confident friend and she literally copies every single move i do,the way i talk ,the way i dress JUST EVERYTHING
Pretty much my awkward childhood. I think i grew out of it.
That describes very well a friend i used to have but i opened my eyes and distance myself from this jealousy bc i couldn't handle it (i hate jealous people )
I love these little characters 😍😍😍
I'm an ambivert, but do tend to internalize a lot especially when I'm jealous. While I don't really act on jealousy, I sort of just sit and wait until it fades, usually I only get little shreds of jealousy like when my grades are lower than my friends or when I have issues with my parents while my friends have relationships with their parents that are perfectly fine. And even if I may be a tad jealous, I'm genuinely happy for my friends in these situations.
Wow, the competitive thing is so true! But I like to 1up everyone in general.
I guess I'm not a jealous person
👍
The things I can relate here in this video is becoming competitive, avoiding people when things for them are well but it depends on the person and where I'm jealous though.
This makes me feel like a devious monster
Phsych2go can make a video on sign your friend is jealous of you? I seriously need that. Thanks
Love your videos tho
I have only recently just got married and an introverted Best friend just dropped our friendship of over 10 years. I always felt like I was helping her and did most things on her terms but now she said our relationship is toxic so I'm not going to talk or see her again ever... I suppose if it was a good friendship then no one should try so hard to make it happen so it was toxic for me too... At the time she did this I had being dealing with depression and needed a friend but I choose the wrong person to get support from. I felt incredibly hurt and now I need to be stronger for myself... ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
I love your introvert videos
our secret is OUT !!
LOL
Depression took away my feelings I dont know what jealousy feels like
Me trying to figure out if someone else fits the description.
Me finding my self to fit it towards the end. Uuuhhhhh hmmmm mhhhhh
As a fellow introvert, yea i kinda do agree with this one. Although we always want to be in control of ourselves and keep feelings to our own circle only, sometimes we just find things that would ALWAYS burst the bubble
I don't get mad if I get jealous. I just simply begin to kick ass and make the person that made me jealous realize what they're missing! :D
This could not have more accurately have described my best friend, i thought that he was copying me because he was just a sheltered person with no friends or that he saw me as a male role model, but everything about this video describes that he is just copying me because he is competitively jealous of me and is just trying to gain a similar image of power and promiscuity by copying me. Its sorta creeped me out for a while now, sorta like a stalker thats trying to steal my identity. (Its funny how he desperately tries to compete against me in everything, but fails. You could see his desperation when competing against me, but losing because he thinks his desperation will defeat me.)
Call me delusional or narcisistic, but he even admitted that he "copies me because he hates me" when i confronted him about it. I just thought, "Strange never heard of that one before..."
What you describe here seems closer to envy and pettiness than jealousy. Yes, a jealous person can be the manipulative ogre you described here. No, a jealous person will not be like this because they’re hoping to gain something; it’s rather because they want to keep something (or someone).
This was otherwise a good video. As usually: easy to follow and understand. Nice and tidy, with suitable animations to the things you said. Looking forward to more content 😊
Y u spill da beans? Cmon!
O have a few of these but I think I have recognised myself in one of the phrases you said. I don't know when I'm jealous😂
The right word for this is envy not jealousy, you had me confused there.
Accurate, best way to fix it is to let them know, that this kind of behavior exists, and is already documented. so running around like the hamburglar is not the best idea.
I don’t do ANY of this, and I’m an INFP. However, it’s EXTREMELY rare when I’m jealous, and for me, when I do get jealous, I’ll sulk for a little while then get over it.
My life was sabotaged in a massive way by an introvert that I cared about very much - when I think back on our relationship, I remember very clearly her telling me that she was jealous of me because of a specific musical skill I had, and I was surprised because her *general* skill was above and beyond anything I could hope for. It still surprises me that she could be so jealous of me, but given the way she betrayed me I can see how it had more to do with my life as a whole than just that one skill.
I'm an introvert and I don't do this when I'm jealous
I've never copied or tried to be like someone else, I am always myself no matter what.
I'm an introvert and can't relate. I don't let jealousy affect my life at all. I have nothing and no one to be jealous of. If someone has it better I'm just happy for them and cheer for them. It's healthier.
I'm in introvert and I totally agree, sometime I don't know what I'm doing and can't control but I usually stay quiet, and sometime the way I act sometimes isn't me