Have you considered the choice just to be child free just hope you feel encourage to not be pressured to do anything you’re not sure of. Also talk therapy is really helpful.
Yeah, children are glorified as this amazing loving bundle of joy; And simultaneously it’s tremendously stressful, draining, and can make you hate your life. If you do have one, make sure you’re able to buy your own needs first. And if you have extra money, sure! Have a kid if you feel it’s right and it’s your path. Dig in deep, are you ready to bring another conscious being into this world? they may grow up and feel the same things you’re feeling. You suffer sometimes, so you have to accept that your child will suffer as well. Many people have kids for: “I need someone to take care of me when I get old!” Or “the checks from the government would be nice!” But having a child is not all fun and games.
@@yappykaki yeah my wife and I have made the choice to be childfree seriously amazed and got lucky but I realized there are people out that choose to be childfree.
I can help. During this depression you have to take the focus off yourself. You have to focus on someone less fortunate than you. Maybe a homeless person, or someone sicker than you, or a senior. Start small. By helping someone else not only will you assist that person by showing kindness and lending a hand with a chore or donation, but you will forget your problems for a while. This positive cycle will grow as you do more for others and soon you will not dwell most of the day on your problems. Also follow the teachings of Jesus.
little does kaki know people watching this video are in the same situation she is feeling right now. 😂👍 Thank you for sharing I hope whatever you are searching for be it purpose or direction be meaningful to you.
Topics quite deep this time around. There is nothing in particular I can say that would completely help because it has a lot to do with perspective. I could say a lot of things about whether you should do something in particular or even just take time to think about it. It's not always the same for everyone. I feel it's something internally you need to figure out. Since this is something sensitive I don't wish to misguide you in anyway so I'm not going to give a concrete answer. All I can say is it will come down to a decisions you make rather than it being what it is you feel when it comes to the outcome of anything. Whatever it is that you decide to do, it will influence your feelings in someway. Also as far as the meaning of things go, unless it's a word with a definition, you yourself should be the one to give it meaning whether that's just for you and maybe others as well. Even if someone says otherwise at the end of the day it's you that makes the final decision for that. You will make it through this one for sure though. Also get well soon.
This was amazing, thank you for sharing! I think this video was a step in the right direction-fully feeling!! I would simply say that you focusing on what’s outside of you (money, job, people’s judgements, thoughts, emotions, health, etc) is a distraction of what’s within you. Therefore we must fully feel to process these distractions that are manipulations of life itself.
I will say this, I don't know if you are religious or not but I feel the answer to all your problems is Jesus Christ. When you accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior all the things of the world that are evil have been conquered by Jesus Christ, when he died on the cross for all of our sins He conquered sin and he also conquered death when he arose from the dead 3 days later. You mentioned how you are sick and feeling depressed aswell as weak and lonely, When you call upon the Lord Jesus Christ he will comfort you with a comfort you have never felt ever in your life, Your depression, weakness, unhealthiness, lonlieness, Jesus can take all of these things away he just ask's one thing of you. To Believe in him, That he has the power to take away these negative things in your life. I hope you read this and take this into consideration Jesus Loves you, I also Love you as you are made in the perfect image of God as well as every other human being on this earth. God Bless sister! ❤
@@MrOutPerform why are you making jesus a religion? i never mentioned anything abt religion Jesus is the king of kings who can make any problem into neutral
Kaki, I didn't listen to the entire speech. I'm 11 minutes in. I will say this, it sounds like your colds may be anxiety / stress related and the reason it feels worse is because you've been unhappy. Look, life is very hard, and it may not be the best time to be alive. However, this is the only time we have to be alive. Overthinking, analyzing, what does it get you? Do you feel less stressed? It really seems like you're making things harder on yourself. I say this as someone who battled like you for years and now I feel good. We cant control the world around us but we can control how we react and how we feel. Something which helped me was asking myself WHY does this matter so much, WHY is this a big deal. For the most part, id over analyze or id let the expectations of others dictate how i felt instead of asking myself what matters to me. Something that may help you in reshaping how you think is TheDailyStoic. It's a bit preachy but its mostly about the teaching of Marcus Aurelius and other stoic philosophers. Helped me conquer a lot. Regardless, what you decide, what path you go on, it is your choice. You can either choose to see the world in gray or let it be in color.
Your current situation is not your final destination, hold on to hope, and know that you have the strength to overcome this feeling.
Thank you, appreciate it!
Its okay to not be okay! ❤
So true.
I am okay and then not okay all the time and unstable. >.
@@yappykaki Life is truly a rollercoaster. I try to enjoy the downs as well.
Have you considered the choice just to be child free just hope you feel encourage to not be pressured to do anything you’re not sure of.
Also talk therapy is really helpful.
Yeah, children are glorified as this amazing loving bundle of joy; And simultaneously it’s tremendously stressful, draining, and can make you hate your life.
If you do have one, make sure you’re able to buy your own needs first. And if you have extra money, sure! Have a kid if you feel it’s right and it’s your path.
Dig in deep, are you ready to bring another conscious being into this world? they may grow up and feel the same things you’re feeling. You suffer sometimes, so you have to accept that your child will suffer as well.
Many people have kids for: “I need someone to take care of me when I get old!” Or “the checks from the government would be nice!” But having a child is not all fun and games.
Thank you! I think I am leaning towards that
So true...I witness it all the time, but I also see if you have great support, it could be such an amazing thing
@@yappykaki yeah my wife and I have made the choice to be childfree seriously amazed and got lucky but I realized there are people out that choose to be childfree.
I can help. During this depression you have to take the focus off yourself. You have to focus on someone less fortunate than you. Maybe a homeless person, or someone sicker than you, or a senior. Start small. By helping someone else not only will you assist that person by showing kindness and lending a hand with a chore or donation, but you will forget your problems for a while. This positive cycle will grow as you do more for others and soon you will not dwell most of the day on your problems. Also follow the teachings of Jesus.
Thank you so much and I think you are right.
little does kaki know people watching this video are in the same situation she is feeling right now. 😂👍 Thank you for sharing I hope whatever you are searching for be it purpose or direction be meaningful to you.
Hahaha this makes me laughed, thank you!
can try prozac for one day half quart of pill if feel better thats what you need l guess..lifts me out of depression .
I try to not rely on medication unless I am really needed... >.
Topics quite deep this time around. There is nothing in particular I can say that would completely help because it has a lot to do with perspective. I could say a lot of things about whether you should do something in particular or even just take time to think about it. It's not always the same for everyone. I feel it's something internally you need to figure out. Since this is something sensitive I don't wish to misguide you in anyway so I'm not going to give a concrete answer.
All I can say is it will come down to a decisions you make rather than it being what it is you feel when it comes to the outcome of anything. Whatever it is that you decide to do, it will influence your feelings in someway.
Also as far as the meaning of things go, unless it's a word with a definition, you yourself should be the one to give it meaning whether that's just for you and maybe others as well. Even if someone says otherwise at the end of the day it's you that makes the final decision for that.
You will make it through this one for sure though. Also get well soon.
Another wise comment from you malkchicken! Thank you!
Feel better soon~
Thank you
Try praying
Please read:
"Why Zebras Don't Get Ulcers"
Book by Robert Sapolsky I also think you are longing to start your own family and this is normal.
Interesting! Thank you I will look into it!
Have you looked up long covid? Sounds kinda like that?
Yes, I hope not, it has been 2 years since I had covid
Desire creates suffering
So real!
Look into "long covid" Get better friend.
Thank you!
🫂 feel hugged, I wish you all the best!
Thank you for the hug! :3
your not alone hon.
Thank you.
I hope you feel better soon going out in the sun helps and if you ever need someone to talk to I am always willing to lend an ear
This was amazing, thank you for sharing! I think this video was a step in the right direction-fully feeling!!
I would simply say that you focusing on what’s outside of you (money, job, people’s judgements, thoughts, emotions, health, etc) is a distraction of what’s within you. Therefore we must fully feel to process these distractions that are manipulations of life itself.
Thank you so much and you are so right..!! I need to remind myself then again
I will say this, I don't know if you are religious or not but I feel the answer to all your problems is Jesus Christ. When you accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior all the things of the world that are evil have been conquered by Jesus Christ, when he died on the cross for all of our sins He conquered sin and he also conquered death when he arose from the dead 3 days later. You mentioned how you are sick and feeling depressed aswell as weak and lonely, When you call upon the Lord Jesus Christ he will comfort you with a comfort you have never felt ever in your life, Your depression, weakness, unhealthiness, lonlieness, Jesus can take all of these things away he just ask's one thing of you. To Believe in him, That he has the power to take away these negative things in your life. I hope you read this and take this into consideration Jesus Loves you, I also Love you as you are made in the perfect image of God as well as every other human being on this earth.
God Bless sister!
❤
Thats great you believe that but its not an answer
@@MrOutPerform how would you know it's not an answer to her problems if you never tried it?
@@Astreusss Ask all the kids suffering around the world if religion has solved their problems
@@MrOutPerform why are you making jesus a religion? i never mentioned anything abt religion Jesus is the king of kings who can make any problem into neutral
@@Astreusss then why hasnt he?
Kaki, I didn't listen to the entire speech. I'm 11 minutes in. I will say this, it sounds like your colds may be anxiety / stress related and the reason it feels worse is because you've been unhappy. Look, life is very hard, and it may not be the best time to be alive. However, this is the only time we have to be alive. Overthinking, analyzing, what does it get you? Do you feel less stressed? It really seems like you're making things harder on yourself. I say this as someone who battled like you for years and now I feel good. We cant control the world around us but we can control how we react and how we feel. Something which helped me was asking myself WHY does this matter so much, WHY is this a big deal. For the most part, id over analyze or id let the expectations of others dictate how i felt instead of asking myself what matters to me.
Something that may help you in reshaping how you think is TheDailyStoic. It's a bit preachy but its mostly about the teaching of Marcus Aurelius and other stoic philosophers. Helped me conquer a lot.
Regardless, what you decide, what path you go on, it is your choice. You can either choose to see the world in gray or let it be in color.
I am looking into it, thank you so much for your comment!! I think I need to practice it on a daily basis
For health, 6 healing sounds and 5 animal sports. It helped me.
I am not sure if I understand this