Psychiatric Teaching Interview. Hysterical Personality

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  • See also "Hysteria: The Disturbing History" amzn.to/38KK8KF
    HYSTERICAL PERSONALITY DISORDER is no longer a part of the DSM, but it was in the 60s. From DSM-II: 301.5 Hysterical personality (Histrionic personality disorder): These behavior patterns are characterized by excitability, emotional instability, over-reactivity, and self-dramatization. This self-dramatization is always attention-seeking and often seductive, whether or not the patient is aware of its purpose. These personalities are also immature, self-centered, often vain, and usually dependent on others. This disorder must be differentiated from Hysterical Neurosis
    The accompanying case summary:
    This is a married 27 year old woman. Notice how she usually averts her gaze downward, and her affected attitude in smoking. She has an air of indifference, yet there is a provocative manner about her. Her dress is casual, her hair is well coiffeured, and she frequently makes veiled comments in interview and tries to lead the therapist down the garden path.
    This lady demonstrates a personality disorder which is characterized as a hysterical personality. This is evidenced in the interview by her manipulative manner, and her attempts to control the interview by saying such things as ‘now you talk’ or ‘you’ll have to get me started’. As well as by her somewhat dramatic and suggestive statements about what her father did to her, although there is nothing in the history to indicate this. Her attitude toward the interviewer has a seductive, controlling quality. Again, this person manifests a hysterical personality disorder

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  • @August222
    @August222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9972

    1960: Hysterical personality disorder
    2020: Rape, PTSD

    • @jungleland7478
      @jungleland7478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      1969

    • @organicthug5220
      @organicthug5220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Hysterical: “deriving from or affected by uncontrolled extreme emotion”.

    • @mandi2681
      @mandi2681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +203

      @@organicthug5220 I keep seeing your comment... do you seriously feel like that description fits this video?

    • @dod2304
      @dod2304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +225

      @@organicthug5220 The origin of the word hysteria. First known usage in the 1600's. Specifically related to the uterus. A defect in women, specifically and connected to having a uterus. Sexist...misogynisitic? Uhh... just a bit. hysterical (adj.)
      1610s, "characteristic of hysteria," the nervous disease originally defined as a neurotic condition peculiar to women and thought to be caused by a dysfunction of the uterus; literally "of the womb," from Latin hystericus "of the womb," from Greek hysterikos "of the womb, suffering in the womb," from hystera "womb," from PIE *udtero-, variant of *udero- "abdomen, womb, stomach"

    • @julimerritt3360
      @julimerritt3360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Perfectly said

  • @faxedhead2908
    @faxedhead2908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24714

    It is so misogynistic to call her “hysterical”. This is a woman who was sexually abused as a little girl and incredibly anxious and mistrusting of people and rightly so.

    • @martimribeiro7538
      @martimribeiro7538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +835

      calm down, we all know that, this was the 60´s, its not now-a-days... get over it...

    • @mshat18
      @mshat18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1064

      Jesus Christ your putting your woke 2020 values on an interview from the 60s.

    • @RetzyWilliams
      @RetzyWilliams 3 ปีที่แล้ว +480

      It’s not that she is not a victim, she is. But her personality is cemented as-of that abusive world. Her brain’s circuitry was not developed to respond to healthy stimulation, but to dysfunction. Thus, abuse feels good as far as her brain waves go. Like, she is addicted to harmful drugs.

    • @ianjones7488
      @ianjones7488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +275

      @@mshat18 You just disqualified yourself using the word "woke". Gammon.

    • @mshat18
      @mshat18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +208

      Tell me where I’m wrong. You can’t place your modern liberal sensibilities on an interview from 50 years ago. If you do then your a moron.

  • @susie2366
    @susie2366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1207

    In the description it says that she’s acting seductively. She absolutely is not. She looks closed off emotionally (with good reason) and sad. It broke my heart to hear her say that she just wants to love everybody. That told me that her mother, the doctor and her husband are trying to isolate her from the others. It’s not uncommon for adult survivors of sexual abuse to attract people who are controlling and the abused individual often has little ability to set healthy boundaries. How could they when no respectful boundaries have been modeled and honored by those they should have been able to trust. This interview is going to haunt me for a long time.

    • @lukesutton4135
      @lukesutton4135 ปีที่แล้ว

      She literally married a man she hates and has cheated and continues and actively seeks sexual relations out of doctors. Did you even bother to watch the video Karen? I feel nothing for those who claim to be a "victim" yet victimizes those around them with the same treatment they dislike. Hopefully this interview haunts your evil for the rest of eternity and your want to hate men. It's bad women like you who have misled and destroyed our moral values in this country.

    • @GameChanger597
      @GameChanger597 ปีที่แล้ว

      If the psychiatrist thought she was being seductive, he's a pervert.

    • @positivevibes5684
      @positivevibes5684 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      I agree. And the description only makes it worse. It's scary to think that such "professionals" work in this field

    • @tracygregory8448
      @tracygregory8448 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah if you have been abused as a child there are simply legions of people ready to help!

    • @jgriffin282
      @jgriffin282 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m wondering if that’s what her abuser said.

  • @andreaphillips7146
    @andreaphillips7146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +356

    I pray she found some peace and comfort. She's not mentally ill. She's damaged because of the actions of a trusted adult.

    • @lukesutton4135
      @lukesutton4135 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's an exceptional mental illness to seek sexual relations with those you're lying about seeking help from. I hope you seek help for your delusions as well, best of luck.

    • @itr1794
      @itr1794 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She's not mentally ill.

    • @iuprising1551
      @iuprising1551 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@itr1794 initially she was not but overtime it did.

  • @Succeshero-yw1rl
    @Succeshero-yw1rl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10930

    She is NOT hysterical. She is actually a well spoken woman with an abusive background.

    • @BonnieJoMasson
      @BonnieJoMasson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      You think hysterical people are hysterical 24/7? They can have a normal calm talk lol

    • @maureenleigh4724
      @maureenleigh4724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It is possible to overcome abusive situations. Step 1 is Leave.

    • @austntexan
      @austntexan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      Why? Because she's pretty and she said so? Buddy. You have a lot to learn about women in general. This woman is clearly manipulating the interviewer. The ending is downright creepy. Read the notes, the purpose of the video is to teach how to spot this sort of behavior. These comments are hilarious. People are 100% convinced she's a victim of abuse, rather than simply a talented liar. I sincerely hope none of you maroons are in the mental health profession.

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @wobbly nostrils she actually did seem seductive

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@yoboi13 exactly ,she is pure histrionic,they are truly devils,I am SHOCKED people are liking her in the comments,she manages to fool people nicely

  • @andersen6422
    @andersen6422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9107

    "provocative, hysterical, manipulative, dramatic, suggestive, seductive, controlling" These adjectives do not describe the woman interviewed but the prejudice of the male establishment.

    • @jesseward568
      @jesseward568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      You haven't encountered a histrionic before. And you are very lucky to be able to assume that this is all just a sham. It means you have had a blessed experience.

    • @TylerDurden-oy2hm
      @TylerDurden-oy2hm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Great another armchair expert.you watch a six minute video and now you know all about this woman ?

    • @sarahalbers5555
      @sarahalbers5555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Typical of that time frame, sad.to say.

    • @kittenonacloud1012
      @kittenonacloud1012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@TylerDurden-oy2hm @Brian Jones
      +1. Apparently there's a lot of sheltered SJWs watching this. Nobody's denying that prejudice MAY have played a role in her story, perhaps even a big role, but to act like we KNOW that from a tiny 6 minute glimpse into her life just makes you sound incredibly foolish. Fact of the matter is we'll probably never know and spouting 'misogyny' 60 years later isn't going to change what really happened. Only God knows peoples hearts at the end of the day.

    • @badlie4858
      @badlie4858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      wtf. i fuсking hate this comment section. if she's trying to hold herself on camera it doesn't mean she's like this in real life. what is wrong with you people? are you living in a happyland where nobody's lying and you don't need to question people at all or what?
      it wasn't without reason that she got to a session with a psychotherapist in dark 1960s. this therapist knows her for much longer than you, and he knows what he's doing. how do you know, maybe she murdеrеd her newborn or drove someone who loved her to suiсide? you don't, you're just assuming, because you're biased and you think that traumatized woman = practically saint and that's why she can do whatever she wants because of her trauma and never face consequences of her actions, which is wrong on so many levels that i don't even know where to begin. open up your eyes, you're trying to protect an abuser right now. male, female - it doesn't matter, every abuser has a traumatic experience, but it's never an excuse. once you're an adult, it's your responsibility how your life is going to turn, and if you chose to be an аsshоle it's only your problem and YOU have to fix yourself, and the first step is to admit that you're an аsshоle, because this type of people always think that they did nothing wrong, it's always anybody else's fault but theirs. best regards, i wish you less faith in people.

  • @mightysprocket
    @mightysprocket 3 ปีที่แล้ว +992

    This woman had the strength and courage to speak her mind, and the men in her life could not stand that about her. She’s smart, articulate and quite elegant. I hope that she found the happiness in life that she deserved.

    • @robritoboy
      @robritoboy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      There was no history of abuse, you are being suckered by her and don't understand what the video is about.

    • @wendythomas9361
      @wendythomas9361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Please. People love telling children they only imagine being abused because it takes the heat or guilt away from themselves! No history or no evidence of history? Two very different things and lots of abuse happens without the capture of evidence. LOTS.

    • @robritoboy
      @robritoboy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@wendythomas9361 omg, read the comments of the video please. Then go watch the other videos in the series. They are describing particular mental disorders. So you know better than the people who interviewed her over and over, who are showing us very typical signs of this behaviour? Yes, it is possible that people make up abuse, and it is very obvious here. Imagine what it does to the people who she accuses? That is horrible. Just because someone mentions abuse does not mean they are always telling the truth, it is people like you with blind faith in a 'victim' which causes a lot of problems the world. The stupidity and/or devotion to victimhood without logic or reasoning is just... jeez.

    • @robritoboy
      @robritoboy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@kameliamaldonado7569 I prefer the truth over fiction. You seem to have jumped to conclusions from a 5 minute video where the purpose is to demonstrate exactly the opposite of what you have gleened. That is your truth.

    • @kameliamaldonado7569
      @kameliamaldonado7569 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@robritoboyLook for a victim there is a lot of shame/fear when coming forward to tell the story. When they go to the police they will do their job and find whenever is true or false, they will most likely not bring support to them. So I prefer to just support the victim, who in most cases, is a real victim. Yeah every kind of scenario exists and there will be cases where it may be false and the conclusion for the supposedly abuser will be bad no matter what, but that does not happen a lot. Either way, I recommend Unbelievable on Netflix

  • @jaym3064
    @jaym3064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1123

    Labeled crazy in an era where any woman overcome by deep trauma was deemed hysterical. And it still persists now.

    • @lukesutton4135
      @lukesutton4135 ปีที่แล้ว

      You might be a little a lot crazy if you can even remotely think that not only is it okay to marry a man you hate but, to cheat on him and seek sexual relations with the doctors you're lying about seeking help from.

    • @JuliaShalomJordan
      @JuliaShalomJordan ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Amen. It’s tragic.

    • @edl6398
      @edl6398 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Thank you for saying this. I was born during this era and women were always considered hysterical when they weren't 100% "normal" according to what society thought women should be - which was submissive, compliant, happy as a homemaker or teacher, and quiet. Hysterectomy comes from the word hysteria. PMS was non-existent as a thing, it was just that she was being hysterical. The most incredibly frustrating and hostile time for women. Doctor's just prescribed "Mother's Little Helpers" to calm them down. Then the women had pills and alcohol to subvert the pain. This was really part of why the Women's Lib movement began - it was a backlash against all the forms of control women were under.

    • @rodrigodiaz7167
      @rodrigodiaz7167 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      if you read the description she's making this up to manipullate people. worked on most viewers! none of the things you said is tru or was true back then

    • @rodrigodiaz7167
      @rodrigodiaz7167 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@edl6398 no it does not. hysterectomy comes from "hyster"=uterus. the meaning is quite lietral. and all the other "facts" you said are also wrong and a lie.

  • @gir5o1
    @gir5o1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13237

    Back when a woman being raped as a child was a personality defect...

    • @DatNiceDude
      @DatNiceDude 3 ปีที่แล้ว +460

      How do you think personality defects start? Not because something good happens.

    • @candebellis6884
      @candebellis6884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      What do you mean by back and was?

    • @diegosilang4823
      @diegosilang4823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +323

      Post traumatic stress disorder was not discovered yet.

    • @buckbundy8642
      @buckbundy8642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Pretty sure she’s making it up. You can tell by her sly little smile at the end when the dr “agrees” with her. She knows he believed her story.
      Well, she thinks he does.

    • @brisolo8586
      @brisolo8586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +555

      Buck Bundy How sad that this woman is still being told she’s lying by men (only this time by a random dude with a hunch not a medical professional) 60 years later.

  • @wellsorted
    @wellsorted 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10935

    This woman breaks my heart. She seems so soulful, intelligent and well-spoken. She is swimming with sharks. I hope she managed to have a good life.

    • @odanemcdonald9874
      @odanemcdonald9874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Read the description

    • @fighterflight
      @fighterflight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@odanemcdonald9874 what about it?

    • @touch_master721
      @touch_master721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      If she escaped from that so called doctors, that demons, she would be ok.

    • @jenli142
      @jenli142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

      @@fighterflight I think Odane McDonald is trying to say that the description says she’s manipulative and the story of her abuse might not even be true since it’s not in her history. The woman is charming, intelligent, and beautiful but she is also manipulative... much like you would observe a psychopath interview and look for those traits. People are very convincing. This woman is very convincing.

    • @vivtzka
      @vivtzka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +282

      @@jenli142 or maybe back in the day men didn't believe women were abused without them "wanting" it

  • @brookejodyhayes1360
    @brookejodyhayes1360 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    This woman is more wise than the man “treating” her.
    So incredibly self aware and intelligent. An eloquent and courageous young woman. God bless her and her family.
    🙏🖤✌️

  • @Anatoly_Maly
    @Anatoly_Maly 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +289

    Абсолютно адекватная и здоровая девушка🤷‍♂️, анализирует свою жизнь и пытается принять всё то дерьмо, которое произошло с ней... Раньше это видимо считалось истеричным 😒

    • @user-iq7xo8so8f
      @user-iq7xo8so8f 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Это обычный невроз, миллионы таких. Это норма по нынешним временам. У нее нет истерического расстройства личности, то совсем другое.

    • @fghjnnklmbgcrujd
      @fghjnnklmbgcrujd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      И сперматоксикозный мужло перед ней как всегда думает только передком и считает, что она его соьлпзняет, хотя она на него даже не взглянула. Типичное животное поведение

    • @elenaivanova5475
      @elenaivanova5475 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Неправильно поставленный диагноз , она пережила глубокую травму в детстве

    • @irinasuus5356
      @irinasuus5356 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Несчастный ребёнок, угораздило же родиться в семейке извращенцев

    • @pakshalive3576
      @pakshalive3576 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Может неправильный перевод?

  • @JoshGoingRAW
    @JoshGoingRAW 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8359

    The amount of self awareness is astounding. She's highly intelligent.

    • @hollisdillon3594
      @hollisdillon3594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +340

      Jeff Z even intelligent people can have mental issues

    • @austntexan
      @austntexan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      ...and you know this is "self awareness" and not psychopathy how? You're aware that there are people with the ability to lie and manipulate anyone, yes? If I wanted to influence a man by gaining his sympathy, and I was a woman. . . what would you figure a good lie would be to sway him? You're judging this woman by her appearance. She has fully manipulated you, which was precisely the purpose of this video in 1969. To teach professionals how to spot this abhorrent behavior.

    • @headly21
      @headly21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@hollisdillon3594 I think that's the norm, rather than the exception.

    • @kslucki
      @kslucki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@austntexan Initially, I though your and few others' comments were harsh and unnecessary. But, then I read the video description, read again all of yours' comments, followed by attentive listening and observing. And, I must say, you guys are right. The signs are there, just so discreet to the untrained observer. A quick glance at the doctors' direction when he said she did well, along with a tiny smile was the most obvious one to me.
      However, anytime, man or a woman speaks about abuse as a child, I never doubt it.

    • @cris228c2
      @cris228c2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Are you stupid or what ?

  • @SadieAtCollege
    @SadieAtCollege 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9010

    The description is so disgusting. The therapists writes that she has a "seductive" quality after saying there's no evidence of her father inappropriately touching her. He thinks she's seducing him! There's absolutely nothing sexy or flirtatious in this interview. This poor woman.

    • @brianzhou6524
      @brianzhou6524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      First name Last name it’s also in the description, who made it and why

    • @joaopedroalves6777
      @joaopedroalves6777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +250

      @First name Last name You realise this youtube channel is the only reason you are able to see this right? But more imporantly, if you read the description, it's clear these are not opinions shared by the owner of this channel and is merely a quote from the therapists report.

    • @dr.senkudaisukevonneumanne700
      @dr.senkudaisukevonneumanne700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @First name Last name the one who wrote is obviously dead and too old to make youtube videos and post it here. Dont blame the one who posted it

    • @douglasdoo
      @douglasdoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      You have to study psychiatry, psychology or psychoanalysis to understand why these words are used.

    • @xrayban2
      @xrayban2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@douglasdoo Yeah, the trained therapist is enticed by a woman. How dare she ?
      He knows this is wrong and that he should not be seduced. He feels an attraction and crosses his legs to hide it.
      It cannot be.
      She must be a witch ! Bring the scales and the duck !

  • @DibyajyotiGhoshdarkknight
    @DibyajyotiGhoshdarkknight 2 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    Why did he not ask her as the first question: "Why does the quietness scare you?"

    • @ChatMort69420
      @ChatMort69420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Honestly? I think it’s because he’s bewitched by her and likes to listen to her talk/ruminate in a way completely inappropriate for a doctor.

    • @lovely1641
      @lovely1641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ChatMort69420 nah. Besides her illness, she's average for her time

    • @Jenisising1
      @Jenisising1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think he was trying to assess her behavior in general. I too don’t like when they’re quite, you go in to talk, its not a date! 🤣 I had a therapist where it was like talking to a wall! So I changed her for someone else.

    • @MC-8
      @MC-8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Excellent point. Your comment should have more likes

    • @juliajenkins9677
      @juliajenkins9677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep.

  • @missykat2652
    @missykat2652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I think today she would probably be diagnosed with BPD because it often starts with sexual abuse as a child. It's crazy to hear her describe her symptoms so eloquently and precisely and the doctor seems to just be sitting there as if he's learning from her.

    • @tinkerbellbetty
      @tinkerbellbetty 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Correct its the same bullshit different diagnosis. Pedophles eneberler drs

    • @lee-sq6ob
      @lee-sq6ob 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I agree with that but I also believe that BPD is not a real disorder. It's just trauma. Instead of labelling people with a personality disorder we should we working to help them heal from their trauma.

    • @krolshymon
      @krolshymon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      hysteria, histrionic personality disorder, and sleeping - anorexia' nervosa.

    • @Arginne
      @Arginne 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No, she would be diagnosed with histrionic personality disorder which still exists, just as she was diagnosed back then as a histrionic

    • @lee-sq6ob
      @lee-sq6ob 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I get the sense that the diagnosis of histrionic personality disorder is not very common anymore.@@Arginne

  • @hairandmakeupservices2678
    @hairandmakeupservices2678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2414

    How much eye contact do they expect when a woman is reliving her traumatic past.

    • @cloud_monkey422
      @cloud_monkey422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      There’s been a lot of things learned since this video

    • @suicidaltweek322
      @suicidaltweek322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      True that I physically can't make eye contact for more than 5 seconds or I'll have a panic attack even if I'm just talking to my family or friends

    • @JamieYAYme
      @JamieYAYme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Exactly! As we now know that when people look to the side, or sometimes even like their eyes are looking up, towards their head because their seeing, and recalling the past. That's how you can tell if someone is lying, they won't be busy "looking through their files" she's being genuine if anything. I see nothing "hysterical" about this.

    • @sarahalbers5555
      @sarahalbers5555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She is still very frightened. I think that is the reason she is not making eye contact, poor soul.

    • @kaydenbreak4283
      @kaydenbreak4283 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@suicidaltweek322 me too

  • @tanyapowell8577
    @tanyapowell8577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2922

    There’s no hysteria here. Just a seriously broken and abused woman, but very well spoken, and seemingly alert to her problems

    • @mariabelaev6490
      @mariabelaev6490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly what I thought.

    • @mariabelaev6490
      @mariabelaev6490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Shrink is off

    • @Robin_Coffins
      @Robin_Coffins 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Did you read the video description?

    • @martimribeiro7538
      @martimribeiro7538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Robin_Coffins they never read... they know everything!! ;)

    • @ianjones7488
      @ianjones7488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Err. 1960...

  • @duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa
    @duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa ปีที่แล้ว +43

    S^xual abuse can cause hypers^xuality as a trauma symptom. I know very little of her case, history and symptom presentation, but if she was abused in that way, it's actually extremely common for patients to present with that symptom, and I wonder if they didn't realize that back then like they do now and labelled her with histrionic personality disorder because she mentioned something along the lines of hypers^xuality. Very interesting. I'm always glad to see self-awareness among patients, since the first step in solving a problem is admitting there is one. Already leagues ahead those who don't admit there are problems with their mental health and then go on to hurt others due to their maladaptive coping mechanisms.

  • @everdazed
    @everdazed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    It's extremely common for people who've been abused "regress" to the age of their trauma

    • @maggie0285
      @maggie0285 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      No it's not. I was sexually abused at 4. I don't act like a 4 year old

    • @TEM14411
      @TEM14411 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ​@@maggie0285 not the literal behavior in so much as emotional development. Regress into the fear/doubt/instability etc that those years imprint on us.

    • @maniyuyu4316
      @maniyuyu4316 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@maggie0285 it refers to the psicologycal development

    • @user-zg9vx9cy7c
      @user-zg9vx9cy7c 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@maggie0285Меня изнасиловали в лагере, я выросла. Работаю над эмоциями.

  • @alicat7281
    @alicat7281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4241

    This is a tragedy. She’s not hysterical. She was abused. She actually seems quite well spoken and thoughtful.

    • @halcasey3461
      @halcasey3461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      EXACTLY!!💯

    • @OGitGirlJess
      @OGitGirlJess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      That’s not what it means

    • @finolaomurchu8217
      @finolaomurchu8217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      Poor woman, abused and then labelled a problem. 🧚‍♂️

    • @jman29x
      @jman29x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Yea. You may be thinking of a hysterical person. Hysterical personality disorder is different. However, it can definitely be caused by abuse, neglect, etc

    • @elizabethgulley7044
      @elizabethgulley7044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      EXACTLY!!!! I think her psychiatrist is glossing over the whole sexual abuse issue. Wtf is up with him?

  • @pamfradette1191
    @pamfradette1191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2325

    She's been misdiagnosed. She's a victim of sexual abuse, where the mother did nothing. My heart goes out to her. I understand.

    • @mikeyoung9810
      @mikeyoung9810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I'm not sure how any of us could know whether she was or wasn't. Her disease caused her to make things up. I'm guessing the doctor would have checked out those statements pretty thoroughly and would certainly know more about her than we do.

    • @rhondadaisy4342
      @rhondadaisy4342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Read the description. It's more likely she made that up on the fly.

    • @pamfradette1191
      @pamfradette1191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@rhondadaisy4342 I doubt it. I've been there.

    • @haechannie8891
      @haechannie8891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @@rhondadaisy4342 Doubt it. The description accompanied the case study back then and it’s a bad one. There is no evidence to back what they say and they accuse her of seducing them. That is clearly their own bias coming through. Many women back then were diagnosed like this due to the misconception that all women who show their struggles are hysterical.

    • @user-gz6eb9tt3r
      @user-gz6eb9tt3r 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      well to me it seems believable she has a disorder in result from her tramatic experience and histrionic disorder is real its not like in your face someone has it though its kinda like someone with minor depression you really dont know a lot of the time that someone has it they just do

  • @smilinduck8746
    @smilinduck8746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    " i just get scared when it gets quiet "
    I know this feeling,shit always happen when things gets quiet.i can hear those insults and bad words.
    Theres nothing more traumatized me rather than quiet situation,just uncomfortable.i always use earphone everytime its getting quiet,and now i still working on this trauma,try to face my fear.just hope this gets well

    • @littlebrookreader949
      @littlebrookreader949 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I hope and pray you will come to have peace and strength in quiet times. To be still and quiet requires strength and faith. I hope all the best for you. ❤️

    • @lovingmayberry2000
      @lovingmayberry2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sending you hugs and hope you get better! 💙

  • @colbynotes2741
    @colbynotes2741 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    2:52 -- "so I come in here. I thought well, I'll just get rested up, get my nerves straight, and then I'll go home and get a divorce."
    Surrounded by blindly oblivious people, the only sane sensible person in a group is likely to be considered "ill".
    A tremendously strong caring sincere woman. Trying to get help, some safety and some aware conscious helpful attention, to "control" someone into being helpful, all this was apparently considered an illness of being excessively "a person".
    In the old-fashioned DSM-II of the 1960's.
    Probably should have just gone camping in a beautiful natural environment, surrounded by thriving life, for a month of comforting leisurely relaxation, some breathing room, restoration, and inspiration. Sometimes a person needs comforting. Bring some art projects and have a beautiful contemplative time. *_Genuinely comforting environments._*
    4:06 -- "Well, he's just a hardworking person. And when someone makes love to me now, I want them to be affectionate and consoling. Not just to want to have a sexual intercourse. And I have never had that."
    She seems the only warm sane sensible considerate person in town. In the most wonderful way, not very obedient.

  • @angelafender
    @angelafender 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2901

    She is not crazy. She was abused an no one helped her. God bless her soul.

    • @davidskeeterskeeter1835
      @davidskeeterskeeter1835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Angela Fender if omnipresent,,your god would have been responsible,! 🤔👩‍🦳

    • @Hoodwink7331
      @Hoodwink7331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      This seems to be a theme on all these interviews... the vast majority are totally normal.

    • @91kweldulf
      @91kweldulf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Most people who have personality disorders were abused. People with PDs are not crazy, however, they can have highly destructive anti-social patterns, but it's like a they can't help themselves situation.

    • @HenryLee666
      @HenryLee666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      This is exactly why we should stop calling mental disorders "being crazy". An abusive childhood is one of the main reasons for mental illness. And this is exactly how people with disorders look like... "normal". Because it is actually "normal", to have some type of trauma.
      Putting the weight and stigma of the word crazy on someone is what stops them from seeking professional help.

    • @tarugardiner4287
      @tarugardiner4287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Exactly , like the majority of broken people, they have been abused and harassed , just like a GANGSTALKING victim.

  • @josegiraldo5865
    @josegiraldo5865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2935

    Woman: "please don't stay silent, I get scared when is silent"
    Doctor:
    Woman:
    Doctor:

    • @misssugathips2
      @misssugathips2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      I know, I felt so awkward for both of them I started talking to fill the silence space 😂

    • @josegiraldo5865
      @josegiraldo5865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@misssugathips2 hahahahahahahaha

    • @skribulz7
      @skribulz7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      And for this comment he called her controlling... read the doctors notes in the description. He’s a piece of shit.

    • @raianecastro822
      @raianecastro822 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rsrs

    • @lopezramirezulisesfrancisc8851
      @lopezramirezulisesfrancisc8851 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jajajaja

  • @JenWIL641
    @JenWIL641 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This woman has swag. I seemed like I was watching an old movie.

  • @benjamingeorg2027
    @benjamingeorg2027 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Ich bin ziemlich beeindruckt von ihrer Reflektiertheit, ihrer Courage, eine Therapie zu machen und ihrer präzisen und angenehmen Sprache. Und ich kann hier nicht erkennen, wo sie hysterisch / histrionisch sein soll. Ich finde die korrigierenden Kommentare hier übrigens wirklich sehr erfreulich.

  • @joannadechenne6368
    @joannadechenne6368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4759

    Hysterical? More like introspective and deep. Sweet woman. Horrible abuse.

    • @organicthug5220
      @organicthug5220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Hysterical: “deriving from or affected by uncontrolled extreme emotion”.

    • @gargeesharma2630
      @gargeesharma2630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@organicthug5220 r u crazy or something???? If any person goes through what she went through its normal to feel the way this woman feels!! Dnt explain the definition. We do have a dictionary and Google in case.

    • @odanemcdonald9874
      @odanemcdonald9874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Read the description

    • @TsarOfRuss
      @TsarOfRuss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      are you trying to romanticise her disorders ??? Nobody is denying that she is "introspective and deep. Sweet woman." ... but she still has a disorder anyway, what would you call the disorder all those abuses have done to her then??? please enlighten us, since you know better

    • @mrudulvemuri182
      @mrudulvemuri182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@gargeesharma2630 read the description. There's no history of abuse. It's dramatization and self centred centred seductive behaviour. Again all in the description

  • @justjosh6127
    @justjosh6127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2929

    Imagine calling someone who was literally sexually abused as a child hysterical smh.

    • @theplayer2319
      @theplayer2319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      What she has is not hystery, it's Histrionic personality disorder. It's an illness that affect both men and women. Women are diagnosed with HPD roughly 4 times as often as men. It is defined by the American Psychiatric Association as a personality disorder characterized by a pattern of excessive attention-seeking behaviors, usually beginning in early childhood, including inappropriate seduction and an excessive desire for approval. People diagnosed with the disorder are said to be lively, dramatic, vivacious, enthusiastic, and flirtatious.
      One of the symptoms is Exhibitionist behavior.
      Maybe you think that getting naked in front of everybody is appropriate.

    • @crisj7704
      @crisj7704 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah, I know, smh x 2

    • @Turtletoots3
      @Turtletoots3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      @@theplayer2319 Honestly, I could not see any of that in this woman. What I saw were attachement issues but nothing seductive in her behavior or story.

    • @theonejokeking3191
      @theonejokeking3191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      It. Is. A. Personality. Disorder. Not. A. Description. Of. Behavior.

    • @sirmelancholia
      @sirmelancholia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      It’s a legit medical term.

  • @nobodyimportant7967
    @nobodyimportant7967 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She is wonderful ❤️ this interview is such an eye opener. Heartbreaking but so wonderful to recognize this poor woman's pain.

  • @user-pb2vb2fh8r
    @user-pb2vb2fh8r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Не знаю, почему все здесь так еë жалеют, сопроводительная записка более чем профессиональна. Мне кажется кто говорит, что она жертва, а психотерапевт извращенец, никогда не общались с такими людьми. У меня был опыт общения человека с истероидным типом личности и есть некоторые похожие черты, например, когда она рассказывает историю про отца она долго молчит после этого ожидая стандартную реакцию "о боже, бедняжка" или хоть какую-то реакцию окрашенную эмоционально, но получает еë в сухом виде. Также такому типу личности обязательно нужна реакция или ответ на каждый её монолог, чтоб понимать насколько она сможет сманипулировать человеком, насколько он испытывает к ней какие-либо чувства и молчание, сухие ответы с такими людьми это профессионально, с ними нельзя показывать эмоции.
    Пытается пользоваться терминами психологии "Регресс до ребенка", либо эти специалисты работают по Берну, либо она сама прочитала данную книгу, и тем самым показывая, что она на одном уровне с психотерапевтом, понимает его, что можно тоже понимать как один из способов сближения.
    Также она курит грациозно, делает задумчивое лицо, опуская глаза вниз, также хочу отметить артистизм в конце каждой фразы, они как будто вылетают с таким звонким звуком. Это все производит на людей такое впечатление, что собственно многих и подкупает.
    Видно, что история в начале всех шокировала, но представьте если её слова ложь, люди с таким расстройством могут лгать в угоду себе, чтоб получить одобрение, жалость, настроить против другого человека. Также еще хочется отметить ее фразы про то, что " Находясь с мужем испытываю влечение к нему и ненавижу доктора Г., находясь с мамой испытываю влечение к ней и ненавижу своего мужа" Мне кажется, она ненавидит всех и кокетством, так называемой "любовью" хочет, чтоб ее ненависть поддерживали и ей даже не важно кто муж, мама, Доктор Г. все они пешки в её манипуляциях. И наверняка понимая, что психотерапевт может "что-то" заподозрить в её поведении, она выдает фразу "А я просто хочу любить всех", что является оправданием-манипуляцией, что не она вся такая злая, всех ненавидит, а просто так происходит
    Также в конце фраза психотерапевта "вы отлично справляетесь с нашей беседой" и она отвечает ему "вы читаете мои мысли, я и сама так подумала", как мне кажется это какой-то крючок, как представление, как театр, она рассказала свои истории, он еë выслушал. Её сценарий удовлетворен.
    Под кокетством понимается ее последняя фраза "Сейчас мне стало лучше... с вами", то есть она его выделила, хотела дать ему ценность самого себя в её глазах, не психотерапия помогла, а именно данный психотерапевт

  • @asapcarrie
    @asapcarrie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5945

    calling a woman “hysterical” because she is experiencing trauma is absolutely insane
    edit: never knew one comment would spark outrage but I have no knowledge in the field of medicine or psychology and just wanted to comment my view. Whether you agree or disagree that’s up to you though I can see both sides after reading through the comments. Have a great day!

    • @kubachudziak3215
      @kubachudziak3215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +263

      Please read the description next time: "As well as by her somewhat dramatic and suggestive statements about what her father did to her, although there is nothing in the history to indicate this." So basically, her telling this story might have been (and probably was) nothing more than a way to manipulate the emotions of the interviewer. Is there 100% certainty that she wasn't abused? No. Is there 100% certainty that she was abused? Again, no, but it's not indicated in her history. Also, the term "hysterical" used today in everyday language has different connotations than it used to in th 60s in the specific context of mental health diagnosis. I can see many people in the comment section commenting on how poorly the woman was treated at home an by the doctors without proof, I am responding to your comment because it is the most recent one I can see, but to everyone reading this: please be on guard and avoid jumping to conclusions :) Have a great day!

    • @yoyo8049
      @yoyo8049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@kubachudziak3215 so that's why ordane is saying read the desc under each comment. hmmm..

    • @epicgirl8765
      @epicgirl8765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      totally agree but your pfp tho 😌

    • @luiscortez3817
      @luiscortez3817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That’s why the system can’t fix the social issues.

    • @asapcarrie
      @asapcarrie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@epicgirl8765 thanks we stan 😫 love urs too 🥺

  • @theodorathompson5053
    @theodorathompson5053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2826

    If a man is angry or distressed, he is angry or distressed. If a woman is angry or distressed she is hysterical. Makes me hysterical every time I hear the word!

    • @mikeyoung9810
      @mikeyoung9810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      There are a couple long threads arguing this same thing above. Read the description. It explains that at that time the term didn't mean being hysterical.

    • @nanabusterd
      @nanabusterd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Did you know the root word for hyster in Greek is uterus? Misogyny’s been around for millennia.

    • @theodorathompson5053
      @theodorathompson5053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      @@nanabusterd yes indeed, because Plato thought the uterus wandered around in the body and that women were a deformed version of men. As you say, the roots of misogyny go way back!

    • @crisj7704
      @crisj7704 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Great point. Also if a man is angry and distressed he could snap and does mass shootings, when a woman is angry and depressed she's overly emotional. And needs to calm down. Tell mass shooters to calm tf down.

    • @ibkristykat
      @ibkristykat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@crisj7704 some men when angry withdraw. My husband for instance. When I'm angry i yell. So not all men grab guns and mass shoot. Js

  • @tjohnz3171
    @tjohnz3171 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think that she has every right to be ticked off, not just hysterical but FURIOUS !

  • @THEDUDE912
    @THEDUDE912 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    People mention her claim of sexual abuse and this is how things get misconstrued by a partial telling. The transcript indicates that there is no evidence of this but is simply part of her histrionic personality disorder which is a medical diagnosis. The disorder is marked by dramatic and attention seeking behavior and when these are looked into consistently have no actual reality. Some would probably label it as narcissism if not a psychologist or would be completely convinced by this person. Not everything is as it appears. Contrarily much is completely backwards to how it appears when it comes to mental illness.

  • @VictorRamos-uz8zh
    @VictorRamos-uz8zh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +784

    She was raped. Went through a lot of phisical and psychological pain, and still people want to hurt her more by branding her by histeric personality, basically Stating that her uterus is the problem in her head. Misoginy at it’s worst.

    • @VictorRamos-uz8zh
      @VictorRamos-uz8zh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Histeria é um nome que ETMOLOGICAMENTE se refere ao útero. O doutor em psiquiatria é mestre da ciência de classificar a dor da existência como doença mental, excluindo uma tonelada de pessoas de ser aceita como igual e sendo encaradas como Outros, fora da curva. Sinto muito se você prefere validar a voz de quem trabalha para separar as pessoas e, nesse caso, reforçar o sofrimento de uma mulher, que já é julgada pela sua biologia, através de desmerecer seu sofrimento chamando-a de histérica. O problema com a mente dela é o útero? Psiquiatras deviam estudar mais, tentar ser mais humanos, e você também. Abraço

    • @VictorRamos-uz8zh
      @VictorRamos-uz8zh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Matheus Mendes: misoginia em seu segundo melhor

    • @VictorRamos-uz8zh
      @VictorRamos-uz8zh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Matheus Mendes: você é o melhor aluno da psiquiatria misógina. Parabéns. Agora você pode oprimir cientificamente embasado.

    • @fabianacandido10
      @fabianacandido10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dale nos machistas! Assim que eu gosto de ver, Victor

    • @cherilynsarts8845
      @cherilynsarts8845 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Read the description

  • @joanbaczek2575
    @joanbaczek2575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2159

    Any woman who had an opinion in those days was labeled hysterical

    • @blinkypushbuttons
      @blinkypushbuttons 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Now it’s the same but they call it BPD.

    • @mshat18
      @mshat18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If the shoe fits.

    • @lenar6381
      @lenar6381 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@blinkypushbuttons that's not what bpd is, educate yourself

    • @blinkypushbuttons
      @blinkypushbuttons 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lena R It’s the new label. I don’t care what they call it.

    • @heppareppana
      @heppareppana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How stupid can one be to believe such a thing?

  • @williampollock1274
    @williampollock1274 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Guys the TV and Phone has made us stupid! Listen to how eloquently and proper these people talked back then!😲😲

    • @b.jr.7816
      @b.jr.7816 วันที่ผ่านมา

      People speak eloquently and proper in the U.K. and all over the world. It’s not the phone or TV, it’s america’s disgraceful joke of a public education system.

  • @helentart1980
    @helentart1980 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My dad physically and emotionally abused me. When my mom wasn’t there. I have a memory of something bad but it’s a flash, I think I suppressed it. I told my mom. She said I was delusional. Haven’t spoken to them for years

  • @joeladams8301
    @joeladams8301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1694

    This woman wasnt "hysterical"
    She was hurt and damaged.
    Highly intelligent and reasonable.

    • @aeromotex
      @aeromotex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      did you even fucking look at the description

    • @Cynnas
      @Cynnas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You knew her personally? Because how can you figure her out from 6 mins in front of a camera? 🤣

    • @stormindminor
      @stormindminor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I totally agree with you 💯
      Mental Health has changed so much through the years. Today, she would just need counselling.

    • @stormindminor
      @stormindminor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      We don't know what went on.

    • @LinLin-fp5dw
      @LinLin-fp5dw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      The title is "Hysterical personality", not "a hysterical person". This is for a viewer to understand that they will see an interview with a person who represents some of the attributes which belong under the "hysterical personality category". As perfectly explained in the description above. And yes, indeed, it might be misleading to try to estimate the broad scale of human behaviour from only 6 minutes display in an controlled environment where the lady is on guard.

  • @kashmir123100
    @kashmir123100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2883

    She talks eloquently and gracefully. She looks more normal than most of us today...

    • @ideesporthd9199
      @ideesporthd9199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      😂true

    • @eden2hot
      @eden2hot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      genius and being psychotic goes hand in hand

    • @LianExfeind
      @LianExfeind 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      That is the danger of this disorder just like with narcissists. She appears to be nice but much of it is staged to achieve control.

    • @isabellam2288
      @isabellam2288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣omg the accuracy!

    • @piotrnogas8448
      @piotrnogas8448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@LianExfeind exactly. Histrionics are considered now a form of psychopathy. BTW back then and earlier woman like her(more skillfull/seductive cases) were called "femme fatale" - most likely psychopaths/histrionics; sometimes borderlines. Narcissists were and are falling for them like crazy

  • @breezygodiva503
    @breezygodiva503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely loved when she finally looked up & said "Well you read my mind." in that amazing accent of hers.

  • @trishf7529
    @trishf7529 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She was abused in the worst way as a child and they say she has a personality disorder? ok...... Very scary what they would label totally sane victims of vile abuse.

  • @shay4ojibwa638
    @shay4ojibwa638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    She is describing perfectly the disconnect that occurs in relationships in a person who was sexually abused as a child.

    • @loqueyodigoes
      @loqueyodigoes 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Totalmente por ello tampoco hace conexion con el doctor ,no mira a los ojos.

    • @mirnamorelli8615
      @mirnamorelli8615 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      POR QUÉ ES "DESCONEXIÓN"?...

  • @mrspacely603
    @mrspacely603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1775

    You can listen to her for 5 secs and know that she isnt crazy. She is just a beautiful soul that has been broken. Her voice is so soulful. I really hope she found peace. And those that hurt her are buried under a prison

    • @GeoCalifornian
      @GeoCalifornian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You were George Jetson’s boss!

    • @humanbutterfly8583
      @humanbutterfly8583 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      if you speak to most people in a psych ward they won't seem crazy... Talking from my own experience there. I probably didn't seem "crazy" either, but I was one of the patients, and I needed psychiatric help.
      When I stayed there, there were only 2-3 patients that looked according to what you would imagine a crazy person looks like. The truth is, terribly mentally ill people frequently look like anyone else.
      Unfortunately, psychiatric facilities didn't change much. Sure, we don't have shock therapy and lobotomies, but those seemingly normal patients still can be medicated against their will; and life in a ward itself is very isolating and restricting. I couldn't see my friends, I couldn't use restroom without asking someone to unlock it first, they took away my art supplies before I entered (what if I stab my eye out with a pencil?), couldn't even express my emotions without being judged... The attitude didn't change much since Ken Kesey. Perhaps it's in psych wards where mentally ill people start too look crazy; 2 of those 3 patients were the once who stayed there the longest.

    • @annehersey9895
      @annehersey9895 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@humanbutterfly8583 Thank you for bringing that up! People seem to think that when people get to the stage where they are hospitalized, they are acting 'crazy'. This just isn't true, some have a psychotic break but most just need intense therapy, experimenting with what drugs or drug combos help the person and removal from outside stressors so that concentration can be solely on the patient without them worrying about their kids, parents, hubby/wife etc. I hope you were able to get the help you need and you are now on a good path that will lead you to fulfillment and strong mental health.

    • @grace_wins.
      @grace_wins. ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I thought about leaving a comment, but after reading yours, I couldnt of said it better.

    • @grace_wins.
      @grace_wins. ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@@humanbutterfly8583 thank you for sharing, my Grandmother was a shock treatment patient and she went through a lot, I cant imagine being at one of those places and being so helpless.

  • @BlushingAngels
    @BlushingAngels 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Watching this video is so heartbreaking, I can't believe how all of them treated her, including the doctors; truly horrific! May God bless and keep her.

  • @gcruishank9663
    @gcruishank9663 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Heartbreaking what some people have had to live through.

  • @Candigale
    @Candigale 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1296

    This was the time back then. Women were called hysterical for almost no reason, other than being honest and talking about their feelings.

    • @meganhenry5795
      @meganhenry5795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      That's not fair. Women and men's brains operate quite differently. Yes, I will give you some women are irrational, but you could say the same for some men. Making a broad generality is irrational in and of itself.

    • @Candigale
      @Candigale 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Megan Henry I didn’t advocate the beliefs back then. I just said any woman who was like this they called unstable. Stop being super sensitive. 🤦‍♀️

    • @tamara.mw.
      @tamara.mw. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      @Cobb Knobbler so you think a man raping a child isn't irrational? Please

    • @michaelc2156
      @michaelc2156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Cobb Knobbler obvious troll is being a bit too obvious

    • @Candigale
      @Candigale 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Michael C 😝 agreed! ✌️

  • @karliegilbert3917
    @karliegilbert3917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +499

    Ever stop and think that humans put the guidelines on what’s “crazy”... just because people aren’t like everyone else doesn’t necessarily mean they are “crazy”.

    • @katiec2730
      @katiec2730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yessss

    • @Toxodos
      @Toxodos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The definition of disease, mentally or otherwise, includes suffering or harming others.

    • @meganhenry5795
      @meganhenry5795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Probably the sanest of us all in reality

    • @geekyhealthy209
      @geekyhealthy209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Some pplz are called crazy because they’re different. Maybe they’re not crazy, maybe their environment is a little sick (as Dave Chappelle said)

    • @bcpr9812
      @bcpr9812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's a disorder when it impairs the patient's ability to function in life. "Crazy" is subjective, it isn't a diagnosis.

  • @donnaroman9310
    @donnaroman9310 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She is very intelligent with profound insight.

  • @1050Harley
    @1050Harley ปีที่แล้ว

    These kind of videos and these people in general just shatter my heart and soul I feel so sorry for her but her voice is so touching.

  • @heatheromeara5115
    @heatheromeara5115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +551

    When Freud began hearing women describe being sexually abused by their fathers instead of dealing with the hornets' nest he had opened, he just closed it up again and labelled it 'fantasy.' That added insult to injury, no only for his own patients, but also for countless other women whose truth has been disbelieved for decades by arrogant psychotherapists. This woman is not unique in being falsely labelled a fantasist. Psychiatry has a lot to answer for.

    • @ianjones7488
      @ianjones7488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are talking about the past. We have moved on,

    • @shefboyarde
      @shefboyarde 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Ian Jones Don’t be ignorant. I guess we should stop talking about the holocaust and civil war because it was in the past. We’ve moved on. Nothing to learn here. Give me a break. Crack open a book.

    • @notwerkinginthishouse8634
      @notwerkinginthishouse8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shefboyarde
      I don't think there should be lesson learned .
      Only to stay brave and not to let cowards like that win.
      Speaking from own experience, I was a baby and my sisters were born later, and maybe that affected me in the way i still don't know about

    • @notwerkinginthishouse8634
      @notwerkinginthishouse8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@JennasJoyousJourney
      Unfortunately, a lot of ppl r affected by trauma, and some of them are just crossed over bc of that stupid stigma

    • @shefboyarde
      @shefboyarde 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      artistic persona What are you talking about? Lessons learned? This isn’t about lessons; this is about recognizing and learning from history!

  • @OppasWithoutJams
    @OppasWithoutJams 3 ปีที่แล้ว +676

    Y'all expect someone being abused and not have a trauma or anything? It leaves scars, it's an horrible experience which completely destroys a person.

    • @meyague
      @meyague 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      well said

    • @lara76540
      @lara76540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      For real!! All I get from this interview is men trying to understand why a woman is mentally suffering consequences after being sexually abused

    • @crisj7704
      @crisj7704 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, it leaves scars if the trauma was done as a child (in its developmental stages); the brain actually forms scar tissue in areas where it had to process the emotional or physical abuse. Which is why for young people it has the potential to stunt their ability to cope later or PTSD. Trauma they recently learned can be passed through the genes and be hereditary. So when people say, just get over it, many times people who suffered from childhood trauma really do face an obstacle :-( vs someone who hasn't gone through horrific traumas.

    • @OppasWithoutJams
      @OppasWithoutJams 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lara76540 exactly, it’s insane!

    • @OppasWithoutJams
      @OppasWithoutJams 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@crisj7704 you’ve said it, it’s totally true and it’s very sad that a lot of people still don’t understand that

  • @sweetromance8264
    @sweetromance8264 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless her heart. I hope that going forward life treated her more gently🌹

  • @juliaiannaconi5674
    @juliaiannaconi5674 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    an important note! the hysterical that refers isn't the stereotyped behavior, it's about a personality disorder. The hysterical personality are similar to the borderline personality disorder.

    • @lewienew
      @lewienew หลายเดือนก่อน

      BPD is just the politically correct way of labeling women hysterical. It never stopped.

  • @Raven24444
    @Raven24444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1062

    There is nothing wrong with this woman
    She is simply explaining how she feels

    • @-simplicity7551
      @-simplicity7551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Shes so rational and mature. Even after everything shes been through. Yet she never got the help she needed....the therapist was useless.

    • @altinjpn
      @altinjpn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      There is nothing wrong with her however she is struggling with Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and as a result has attachment and relationship issues and also probably struggles with flashbacks, intrusive thoughts etc..

    • @Raven24444
      @Raven24444 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@altinjpn Ya we know that

    • @o-shawnspecific80
      @o-shawnspecific80 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@altinjpn Yep.
      It's awesome.
      Trust me.

    • @anacamacho2250
      @anacamacho2250 ปีที่แล้ว

      Due to constant sexual abuse, affection towards others translates into sexual desire. As she explained, this happens to her regardless of whether it is with her husband, her mother-in-law or her doctor. She is not capable of a healthy affective exchange, since she only knows excitement or hate. That is why it is classified with the word hysteria (vulgarly she would be called a whore). Although this classification is no longer used, and other scientific terms are used, it does not change the fact that it is a mental pathology, and that it must be treated from its origin, which is obviously her constant sexual abuse as a child

  • @theedwardian
    @theedwardian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2525

    >woman talks about her husband and traumas
    >quack: is this seduction?

    • @odanemcdonald9874
      @odanemcdonald9874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Read the description

    • @nicoleraheem1195
      @nicoleraheem1195 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

    • @fighterflight
      @fighterflight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      @@odanemcdonald9874 dude you’re not the only person who knows how to “read the description” give it a rest. they obviously did read the description, the word _seductive_ is not mentioned in the video, genius

    • @paz631
      @paz631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@odanemcdonald9874 ugh, another generic guy

    • @L16htW4rr10r
      @L16htW4rr10r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      They said the that she has no history of getting rape and she just made it up. Of course, I have no idea which one is correct in this case.

  • @loveonmars999
    @loveonmars999 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this brought tears to my eyes it hurts me knowing someone could be so careless with their child

  • @GarmrK9
    @GarmrK9 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    She is beautiful. No surgeries or fillers or botox...just class. She is well spoken and honest. I hope she found peace.

    • @maroon2k
      @maroon2k 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      You watch a victim of rape and abuse, and what's your reaction? Commenting on her looks. "But it was a compliment" Great, good job. Way to go.

    • @GarmrK9
      @GarmrK9 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@maroon2k you're toxic lol

    • @sapopapo_4637
      @sapopapo_4637 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@GarmrK9 No they're not. You're just weird

    • @xXxTearsForgottenxXx
      @xXxTearsForgottenxXx หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GarmrK9 No... It's definitely you. You see a woman in her therapy appointment vulnerable and talking about the things that make her stomach turn and keep her up at night, and you're like 'stunning, natural, untouched beauty'. Why are you checking her out? Do women who are ugly or have work done not deserve peace? Big ick vibes

    • @parodiadisimo
      @parodiadisimo หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@maroon2k WTF?

  • @virginiagould3167
    @virginiagould3167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1166

    According to the original summary "Her attitude toward the interviewer has a seductive, controlling quality." I didn't really get that impression. It seemed like her body language throughout the interview was closed and defensive. In fact the summary uses many judgements to depict her manner and behavior instead of factual descriptions, such as "affected attitude", "air of indifference","provocative manner", "manipulative manner", "dramatic and suggestive statements", and trying to "lead the therapist down the garden path." Where was she leading him, exactly? I didn't pick up on that.

    • @kwood7582
      @kwood7582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +441

      It’s seems the psychiatrist is blaming her for his sexual attraction to her, which is disgusting.

    • @Ali-eu6bs
      @Ali-eu6bs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      K Wood that’s true, and unfortunately there are many people that blame women for being “seductive towards them” by wearing a skirt or right clothing etc and they even end up having the right to touch them! and in many countries it’s never the men at fault is always the women and in this case it’s very sad to hear that, when clearly the woman is only talking about her problems and this disgusting pig is getting turned on by that.

    • @stompthedragon4010
      @stompthedragon4010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agree

    • @virginiagould3167
      @virginiagould3167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      @@clutchcargo5259 Where does it say that she made it up? I saw in the summary that there was nothing about it in the history, but in the 60's a lot of stuff went unreported. I'm not saying she didn't make it up, but it seems like there isn't enough information here to say for sure.

    • @LovelysThoughtsExposed
      @LovelysThoughtsExposed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      I’m not picking any of that up either. I just think back in these days in times misogyny was way worse sooooo yea ... you know how that works. They labeled this woman who seems to be perfectly fine. Smh

  • @NancyDrewe
    @NancyDrewe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +500

    The sad thing is they’ll probably drug her into insanity, or by not acknowledging her abuse. She’s a beautiful self aware woman, it’s a shame.

    • @austntexan
      @austntexan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      one would hope. mother's little helper. this little liar is throwing up more red flags than a Chinese military parade. That very fact that comment on her physical appearance is proof that you've objectified her and based your opinion solely on your inherent bias, nothing more. There is nothing here that would suggest anything she is saying is true. In fact, in the notes it clearly states that abuse was ruled out. . . but I'd wager you'd argue based on feelings, rather than any facts.

    • @christiansantos7164
      @christiansantos7164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      bauhaus I enjoyed your comment and agree with you. Her looks are deceiving. Many will fall for the old trope of beauty equals goodness. If she were bad, she wouldn’t be so beautiful. Sometimes our emotions are difficult to understand and trust. You must be able to look for truth and be open to see how it’s possible that your feelings may not be accurate.This is a good topic to highlight in this video.

    • @krazykatlady8728
      @krazykatlady8728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@austntexan ruled out by who?? A man? Hahahahah!

    • @buckbundy8642
      @buckbundy8642 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Krazy Katlady you’re not too bright are you?

    • @buckbundy8642
      @buckbundy8642 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They’ll “probably” drug her? You realize this is 60 years old and she’s either in her late 80s or dead right?

  • @AP-gb3eh
    @AP-gb3eh ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This is the world I remember as a little girl. Having to navigate unstable ,unreasonable, adults that just expected conformity to a cold society that always blamed female victims . The hysterical bs was so common

  • @stevensonDonnie
    @stevensonDonnie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The term ‘hysterical’ is a term used formerly as a diagnosis. Long since out of use as it was not descriptive or therapeutic.
    Reading the entire note above is informative

  • @marimedgal
    @marimedgal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    Her southern accent is so charming. Back then almost everyone looked so elegant and well groomed and almost everyone self-medicated with cigarettes.

    • @skipeastport5529
      @skipeastport5529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I’m from the same area. She sounds a lot like my Mama. She’s a gorgeous lady. Southern women are freaking amazing. She’s so much stronger than anyone gave her credit for. All she wanted was to be loved and respected. That era was brutal for women.

    • @melissaallison8463
      @melissaallison8463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I loved her accent too!

    • @comfym3850
      @comfym3850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      my mum was a young woman in the 60's. she smoked too. not a southerner, boston irish actually.. Not to glorify smoking but Mum was elegant about it, like this woman was. And it probably was her therapy too, my mum's childhood wasn't happy..

    • @gelmibson2396
      @gelmibson2396 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You mean texas alike accent?

    • @todome1
      @todome1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My Mom was born and raised in South Carolina in 1916, and this woman sounds very much like her. Smoking too.

  • @meiling637
    @meiling637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +787

    I can understand her on a deep and personal level. She is not hysterical. She's deeply traumatized and probably has a form of PTSD.

    • @Zimoved1
      @Zimoved1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Кажется можно абсолютно все назвать шизофренией или истерией.

    • @vittwoman
      @vittwoman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely agree!

    • @kimdkus
      @kimdkus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's what I think too.

    • @elliotbigland4300
      @elliotbigland4300 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shut up

    • @cindyreinhart9552
      @cindyreinhart9552 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too.

  • @Newmoney1122
    @Newmoney1122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I see resilience, and I sense hope within her, even though her caretakers miserably failed to care for her properly.

  • @afrinsayed5902
    @afrinsayed5902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3974

    She was provocative towards the therapist? All I see is an extremely sad woman talking about her experience. She doesn't even look at the guy! Talk about misogyny. 🙄

    • @saidnoone1531
      @saidnoone1531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Plz read the description. It is frm a case study of which we r seeing a small part. According to that hysteria is psychiatry is not defined as we know in common language. Also about the abuse she is talking about has no history to confirm.

    • @supercartel3000
      @supercartel3000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      The shrink is a predator who found a way to keep women in his control.

    • @summerheartley4354
      @summerheartley4354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      @Jazeela Qazi -But back in the 60s, whether she was raped or not was basically a she said/he said. It would be reasonable to assume that society and doctors would believe the man over a woman, especially if he had first spread the idea that she was “hysterical”

    • @succytash
      @succytash 3 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      @@saidnoone1531 Dude, the description was provided so that we could see how messed up psychiatry was in the sixties. The woman isn't even being seductive. And the report saying there's nothing in her history to indicate she was raped means diddly squat- all that means is that when the shrink asked her parents if she was raped, they said no.

    • @anadubar4819
      @anadubar4819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@saidnoone1531Whoever did that description is a scumbag and has no clue about psychiatry whatsoever.

  • @benbaert2166
    @benbaert2166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +478

    Good old psychiatry. Labeling victims as crazy instead of helping them.

    • @claudia-wo1on
      @claudia-wo1on 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Jicari Hickory Hill ok terf gtfo

    • @lilcomment1946
      @lilcomment1946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Jicari Hickory Hill
      Damn bro your transphobia is showing hide it before more come get you.

    • @celeste4098
      @celeste4098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wel that's how psycology and psychiatry works. The patient will always be wrong or the problem always is them

    • @spookyho5994
      @spookyho5994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jicari Hickory Hill haha, “nazi is a leftist term”, definitely dude

    • @user-qo6cg5ql8p
      @user-qo6cg5ql8p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Jicari Hickory Hill and you're being the transphobic jerk.

  • @joleneambrozich6631
    @joleneambrozich6631 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    If you read the definition of histrionic personality disorder, it explains what she has... She is calm here. Like a lot of mental disorders, there are triggers and episodes which are not demonstrated here, but they're talking about it. It was probably caused by her sexually abusive childhood and the fact her mother let it happen and continue, left her abandoned. This is exactly the fear, not the of abuse, but the abandonment. She's not crazy at all, she knows her behavior is wrong and wants to feel differently.

    • @lee-sq6ob
      @lee-sq6ob 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      "Histrionic personality disorder" is so incredibly sexist to me by name and definition, I am amazed that we still regard it as an official diagnois.

  • @amandas.6745
    @amandas.6745 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am so glad that I didn't have to be a pychiatric patient in the 60s. I sense nothing "seductive" or "over-dramatising" in her manner. She is giving out clues, hoping that the doctor will pick up the trail (sexual abuse). Instead, she is pathologized.

  • @supermansavez
    @supermansavez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    Seams like everyone around her was just a bad influence. When all she wanted was a normal life.

  • @rosalienewhouse6116
    @rosalienewhouse6116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4485

    Sounds like she's doing her own therapy...wheel the useless doc out..

    • @Sara-tr2gh
      @Sara-tr2gh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      Didn’t you hear her say “I feel better with you”? That indicates that he’s the right therapist for her, no matter what technique he used, it worked with her and that’s what matters.

    • @johanarivero2676
      @johanarivero2676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      En la descripción parece cómo si estuvieras culpando a la victima.

    • @herajane3297
      @herajane3297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      You don’t know anything about psychology I guess

    • @dayanna7968
      @dayanna7968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@johanarivero2676 Bueno, esa entrevista fue hace 60 años, es obvio que iban a juzgar ambas partes

    • @sohyangworld1544
      @sohyangworld1544 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fr

  • @user-mg9ov8tk2j
    @user-mg9ov8tk2j 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Мне настолько её жалко, что я заплакала! Бедная девочка, она просила мать и бабушку защитить её от насильника, но она не получила этой защиты! Деформация личности, покалеченная психика, она старается, осознаёт свои отклонения, борется с этим, но ей невдомёк, что от этого неизбавиться к сожалению, потому что существует память! Вот поэтому надо брать в охапку детей и бежать от мужа урода, не надо рожать много детей, если не можешь обеспечить им психическое и в какой-то мере материальное спокойствие! Ей наверное ничем уже не поможешь, медикаменты здесь бесполезны!

    • @Avrora-ly6ce
      @Avrora-ly6ce 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Времена были другие. Тогда женщины зависели от мужей

  • @markb1487
    @markb1487 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Incredible video,,very very thoughtful,thought provoking.👍💯👍

  • @artout5811
    @artout5811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    She is so smart. She knows what she needs. She is making the diagnosis herself. Be helpful if she had some validation.

  • @andjelavuckovic8103
    @andjelavuckovic8103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    The body language is crushing. By the end of the interview she closes up completely, while saying she wants to become better. I think shes trying to lead with her truth but is well aware the people around her that are supposed to help her simply will not see her perspective.
    In another age, she wouldve been so much more free and not feeling like she needs approval of a therapist that just labeled her "hysteric".
    I hope you rest easy, ghost lady

    • @robritoboy
      @robritoboy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There was no history of abuse, you are being suckered by her and don't understand what the video is about.

    • @franco2b145
      @franco2b145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@robritoboy
      Your moniker says it all.. get therapy yourself.

    • @robritoboy
      @robritoboy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@franco2b145 haha, good to see you have the intellectual capacity to argue your point. The description clearly states there is no abuse, but you are so wedded to your first impression (even though gullible) you have to say to the person who is pointing out your gullibility to get therapy. Grow up. Grow up, I don't think a therapist can help you with that.

    • @Ashley-cx6ff
      @Ashley-cx6ff ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Unfortunately its still so common and is still happening now

    • @summermucha5207
      @summermucha5207 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Just break down the word and separate it’s parts.
      Therapist = The rapist

  • @yogiine
    @yogiine 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This woman have a good self insight. To be sexual abused as a child is something most never get healing from. ❤

  • @lee-sq6ob
    @lee-sq6ob 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This woman is an icon. I hope she got her healing. I hope she got to experience having a lover who loves her. The "help" that she needs is love and justice. I hope you got it. Fuck abusers, fuck sexism, fuck misogyny.

    • @zv8587
      @zv8587 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Read the description.She most certainly wasn't abused.That's her imagination.

  • @oliviabell9691
    @oliviabell9691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +666

    When telling the truth equals "you're crazy".
    Guess what?
    Nothing's changed.

    • @lindaaguilar5858
      @lindaaguilar5858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      so true, I lost family because of the truth

    • @oliviabell9691
      @oliviabell9691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lindaaguilar5858 Indeed.
      And I'm sorry for all of us that this is true for.
      *BUT:
      th-cam.com/video/iiL_WAHSZaw/w-d-xo.html
      th-cam.com/video/tGQudacvgsA/w-d-xo.html

    • @rebekahsquires2073
      @rebekahsquires2073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha right?!

    • @kristil.6770
      @kristil.6770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      SO, SO, SO TRUE.....In every way. Nobody wants the truth, then they have to make a opinion against the other person.

    • @vidalskyociosen3326
      @vidalskyociosen3326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They can't handle the truth.

  • @faeriehearthwitch6185
    @faeriehearthwitch6185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    This woman is a sane as can be. She is aware, intelligent, sensitive, wise and knows exactly what happened to her and what has conspired since. She was a victim of sexual abuse as a child. Bless her heart. I hope she found a happy, safe life.

  • @an.opossum
    @an.opossum ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I could reach out and give her a hug. And her accent, gosh, it's a thing of beauty.

  • @bingusslingus7020
    @bingusslingus7020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A lot of people in the comments seem to be misinterpreting the use of the word "hysterical". It's synonymous with histrionic.

  • @amberbest6942
    @amberbest6942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +994

    Sadly, most attractive females get treated this way. Sexually abused; mislabeled as being seductive by perverted men who project their own fantasies onto the woman; disbelieved about all of your trauma and hardships as hysterical. I've lived it my entire life. It's lonely to not trust anyone and be dismissed about your abilities and integrity.

    • @haleyhendel6329
      @haleyhendel6329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I understand your point, and I agree. But can you not refer to us as females? It sounds like we're a scientific experiment

    • @chesterdonnelly1212
      @chesterdonnelly1212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Probably not most

    • @tlp8295
      @tlp8295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Me too my mom looked just like this lady and killed herself at 41

    • @GumdropDaisy
      @GumdropDaisy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@haleyhendel6329 Why can't she practice freedom of speech? You say Tomahto, she says tomayto. It's okay to let people be themselves. It's called freedom. We can do that in the U.S. Let's not forget that.

    • @annettealexander7837
      @annettealexander7837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed. Great point. My experience exactly. Thank you for typing this.

  • @dans4129
    @dans4129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2038

    Her : I've been abused by men before that has caused me severe trauma and disrust to all men in my life
    The doctor : CLEARLY she's head over heels for me

    • @anadubar4819
      @anadubar4819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ROFL

    • @mrannunaki6852
      @mrannunaki6852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Didn't she clearly say she was attracted to him tho.. Him and several others

    • @Sharon-sw7mr
      @Sharon-sw7mr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Exactly. She is just a sexy woman. It doesn't mean she is flirting or seducing him, but he probably interprets her as liking him in a sexually way. I think some men do think that way.

    • @Faboostic
      @Faboostic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@mrannunaki6852 No, she said she was atractted to another doctor, but even then that's something normal in therapy. She also said that she wanted to love everybody but couldn't, that might have something to do with it idk.

    • @starrynight5207
      @starrynight5207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@Faboostic she used the same word "attracted" towards her mother, i think they used that word in a different context back then.

  • @SuperMassman
    @SuperMassman 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have met 2 woman over my long lifetime that were raped by there father...both were scard so deep phycologicaly that it effected them at deep levels, effecting there daily behavior. Holding a long term relationship, marriage etc was impossible as these past issues would keep resurfacing.. this is a horrible crime

  • @AranMcGinnis
    @AranMcGinnis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This woman seems self aware and highly sensitive. Rather well adjusted and intelligent. I hope she found peace and exorcised her demons.

  • @rainbowdust919
    @rainbowdust919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    She did not seem like she was trying to seduce the interviewer, and I would love to see how they determined there was no history of abuse from her father. I feel bad for her. The system treated her badly.

    • @IzayoiMeiHigu
      @IzayoiMeiHigu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      She literally didn't even looked at the man.
      How the fuck did he came up with the idea she was seducing him.
      ???
      It makes me sick and want to throw up from the deepest part of my stomach

    • @rainbowdust919
      @rainbowdust919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@IzayoiMeiHigu Exactly!

    • @Exsugarbabe1
      @Exsugarbabe1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      She's very polite and self aware. She's also beautiful, that's why the theripist thinks she's "seducing" him...

    • @rurubelle2920
      @rurubelle2920 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      ​@@IzayoiMeiHigu the therapist was obviously projecting. This is a common fallacy that psychologists/psychiatrists make: imposing their own emotions onto the subject. The therapist was subconciously attracted to this lady (i don't blame him, she's conventionally beautiful and dressed well and she has very elegant mannerisms) and his stupid brain somehow scrambled that around to "she's trying to seduce me".

    • @KM-nq7ez
      @KM-nq7ez ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@IzayoiMeiHigu He was wishing.🙄

  • @MeadeSkeltonMusic
    @MeadeSkeltonMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    I love hearing her kind of Southern Mississippi accent. It's a shame it's fading, you never hear it anymore. It sounds very smooth and almost regal.

    • @thedudeabides3930
      @thedudeabides3930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Yeah, beeeautiful stuff. Was trying to figure out where she was from. Thanks.

    • @MeadeSkeltonMusic
      @MeadeSkeltonMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Peaceful_Horizons No need to play the race card in everything.

    • @sheri4673
      @sheri4673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@MeadeSkeltonMusic Where was "the race card" played in that comment?

    • @arwenmoon9815
      @arwenmoon9815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Race is beautiful. All races. We’re not generic and we have culture.

    • @sclogse1
      @sclogse1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You need to watch the Steady Crafting channel with Da'Crafsman. He's a very special guy. Mississippi.

  • @charlotte87x
    @charlotte87x 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Reading a lot of the comments just shows how clueless a lot of people are and how little experience they have with people who are mentally ill. I grew up with a mother who was diagnosed as paranoid schizophrenic and paranoid pyschosis disorder. Every single day with her, I had to survive. That meant that I grew very adapt at reading body language and picking up cues on when the tide was about to change, so to speak. I had to adapt. And because my mother was mentally ill, she hung around other people who were mentally ill, in various ways. I would watch these people, converse with them, and most of them seemed "normal", but trust me, there's just little things that you pick up on, and I see that in this lady. She ain't right, and I'm honestly not too sure if i would believe everything that she was saying. I get a wary vibe about her.

    • @angies513
      @angies513 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So what are those little things you're talking about in her case??

  • @Jess-zm5xt
    @Jess-zm5xt ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She seems honestly just very hurt and very angry and that’s so unbelievably understandable for what she’s lived through. She has a right to be angry or “hysterical”. She’s seems just sad and tired of life. I truly understand that.

  • @ItsME-zb3rw
    @ItsME-zb3rw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +351

    She is not presenting a provocative demeanor at all. The doctor is projecting his feelings onto her. Creepy old dude.

    • @qotfvofpsom
      @qotfvofpsom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Ding ding ding ding! You are correct.

    • @diraylacroix4172
      @diraylacroix4172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you dont know why he's doing that, idiota

    • @canadaohcanada7792
      @canadaohcanada7792 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      S Ward Exactly!

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Poor lady, being "evaluated" by an asshole that found her attractive so he blame her for that too

    • @MeadeSkeltonMusic
      @MeadeSkeltonMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh yes. All men are old and creepy

  • @touch_master721
    @touch_master721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2080

    She seems very normal. On the other hand, that men that is talking to her sounds SICK.

    • @anadubar4819
      @anadubar4819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      When he started to speak, it made me cringe so much, I had to hit the pause button. I had the impression saliva is leeching out of my computer screen. Urchs ! It was really difficult to carry on listening to him.

    • @irishly2000
      @irishly2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

    • @frostproff4311
      @frostproff4311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Трудотерапия творит чудеса!

    • @irishly2000
      @irishly2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@frostproff4311 what?

    • @sofijakim2540
      @sofijakim2540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@irishly2000 it means "therapy makes wonders " (?) i think

  • @rubeolamargolies6127
    @rubeolamargolies6127 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I hope she eventually enjoyed some peace and happiness in her life. It was so brave of her to seek help at that time in history - she didn’t even realize she was blazing a trail for mental health awareness such as we have today in our society.

    • @davisworth5114
      @davisworth5114 ปีที่แล้ว

      The 60s were MUCH saner than today!

  • @montanagal6958
    @montanagal6958 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow, times have changed! You would never see a psychiatrist in my hospital today, just meds and lockdown.

  • @denniskoppo4259
    @denniskoppo4259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    Bless his woman's heart. She's the only sane person of everyone else around her.

    • @lindaclairesartori
      @lindaclairesartori 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Bless this woman's heart.
      Destroy the patriarchy.

    • @waynedurning8717
      @waynedurning8717 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you know that?

    • @waynedurning8717
      @waynedurning8717 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Linda Sartori moron.

    • @girlsame
      @girlsame 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lindaclairesartori love this

    • @jackieann5494
      @jackieann5494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@waynedurning8717
      They're INGRATES .
      No men on Earth have honored , protected and elevated women as much as American men have .
      They don't have any idea how good they have it.

  • @aaronwalderslade
    @aaronwalderslade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +972

    This lady has the most beautiful voice

    • @tuannguyenai5636
      @tuannguyenai5636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Her face also beautiful

    • @indiepatriot5680
      @indiepatriot5680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Her seductive manipulations are working on you. *gasp* What a harlot.

    • @aruntentacion
      @aruntentacion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Correct

    • @paulpaulson7551
      @paulpaulson7551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Looks like "noir movie"

    • @marcinp5655
      @marcinp5655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She is such an attractive woman

  • @astridvvv9662
    @astridvvv9662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm from the deep south, and to me, she sounds like someone far older than 27. But that's the pain of it, really. Because most women who speak like that are older these days. This thick accent is sadly disappearing with that generation. We still have accents in my younger generation of Southerners, but not like her. It's more than just the physical sound of her voice, but the syntax and phrasing. It's loss breaks my heart. There is nothing on the planet more charming than a proud Southern lady. And this woman here is a true blue Belle. I'll miss them forever when they go.

  • @milluh
    @milluh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Abuse on abuse on abuse. No wonder our society looks like it does now. Compassion towards others will help us get back to a humane place. ALL others. Not just those you agree with. Love to everyone. ❤