Introverts, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriend?
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Am introvert. No girl, few friends. Still single. Not sad, just a bit lonely.
It's all good though, I'm working on myself and self esteem. Maybe one day I'll meet someone. But not anytime soon. I dont feel I'm attractive enough. 😩
Introvert + shy here. I feel you, but props for working on your self-confidence.
@@LoboDibujante bossted a great deal since my ex. But I let her destroy me. I learned, don't let people control you. You are you. So do for you what's best.
Exactly how I feel bro🥲
@@blamethebrain9282 so true
Hey I thought the same back in 8th grade but I was wrong. Don't beat yourself down! Keep working on yourself and the day will come, just like it did for me. I thought I was way out of her league. That is until she ended up laying in my lap but that's not what this is about. Point in case, I thought there was no way something like that would ever happen and I was wrong. Don't give up hope man. Also you don't need to "Look attractive", it depends on what the individual girl likes. I had people who though I was the ugliest SOB ever in 8th grade and others that thought I was handsome, including my GF. So again, don't beat yourself down, it just takes time.
I meet my girlfriend by having the same lunch period together. We talked over the lunch periods and became friends. I also asked her to every school dance. Then after 6 months I found out that she liked me and asked her to be my girlfriend.
Disney story
@@Itsyaboyrobby lmao
Wholesome moment 👍
@@Itsyaboyrobby When I asked her to be my girlfriend at the end of a Pokémon episode when we were hanging out.
@@benl2662 lol
She was just as shy and I knew by looking she needed a friend. I helped her as she was new in town, and after a while our feelings for each other became apparent. At first, I was just trying to be the friend I knew she needed, and after a while I realized she was depressed due to a trauma.
I'd been struggling with my own trauma-indiced depression for a literal decade at that point, and to this day helping her with hers has TRULY helped me.
this is great! i hope yall are still happy!
cool
I had a crush on a girl and we sat together on a bus ride for something in band and on the way home she told me that she really liked me and I told her that I really liked her too. She asked me if I wanted to start dating and I said yes. (I met her through band btw)
nice bro, what grade?
9th
your profile picture goes well
@@blueberryg9919 nice I’m in 6th and alr have a girlfriend :D
@@alexdasusboi2025 nice
So, while I’m more of an extrovert around people I know, I’m definitely introverted most of the time. I’m religious myself, and so is she. I met her at a church dance where she had just been rejected by her crush. Fast forward to the next dance months later, she and I start talking and hanging out. For a while she tried to act like she wasn’t crushing on me, but I was able to call her out when I had the idea to dance with someone else. She opened up to me then and told me that she had been crushing on me for months. I consider myself insanely lucky. She makes me happier than anything else in the world.
You're assuming I have a girlfriend?
Dude that's just too much
Ikr
Bro fr thinks we're attractive
Agreed
i wish i had one
@@Dontbeafraid2 we all do 😔
I am an Introvert, yet I am confused how did I get to find a girlfriend. I doubted myself a lot back then.
I agree
@@celcix 💀
Me and this girl had been friends for over a year. Obviously, I had a crush on her, and she eventually gained one on me too. I didn’t know, of course. Then sophomore year of Highschool, she invites me to home coming along with her friends. I didn’t think much of it, she was an outgoing entity, able to make friends with just about anybody. Then halfway through, she kisses me on the cheek. I took it as a joke, as did all of her friends, she had been joking about doing that since the beginning of home coming. Fast forward a couple of months, we are celebrating our friends birthday when she has a talk with one of her friends. I don’t know what it was about, but later that evening she confesses to liking me and asked me out on a date behind a shed. I said yes and she full on kissed me. Fast forward half a year and we are officially a couple. TL;DR Two teenagers be teenagers and stuff happens behind a shed.
I met mine on my friend's live stream on yt. She and I relate A LOT. I love her more than I would have ever imagined.
seems like your friend was a good wingman, or it was by chance.
@@theviewer4821 it was by chance.
I was actually very young at the time, grade 9, all my friends from my old school had moved to new high schools and this slightly annoying female friend of mine (completely platonic) was really good friends with this other girl from her new school. She was beautiful, but I didn't really think about that. We talked alot over discord and different groups chats and calls and eventually she said that she liked me. About a week later she sent a single heart emoji. that did it for me. It's been six years and she's the sweetest person ever
I didn't meet her. She met me. She got tired of waiting for me to go talk to her and asked if I wanted her number. That was 14 years ago and we are married for 13 years.
She's very socially anxious and sat beside me in Science class. We had to work with partners so having no friends, I decided I might as well try to work with her. We were best friends for a solid year and a month before I finally realized she had feelings for me this whole time and she realized I had feelings for her. it took a whopping 2 days after that. Funny part is we learned about each other's feelings on an early November night at 3 AM on a beach lol. We ended up cuddling and sleeping together under the stars that night. Was pretty great ngl
The chat was fun to read
To start with I'll describe my girlfriend (now wife), she was born in Argentina but moved to Panama when she was 7 years old, she has long blonde straight hair, light brown eyes, she's 1,68 or 69 in height, her name is Alexandra and she currently has 24 years old. I'm an introverted guy (not shy), I'm currently 25 years old, I only have 2 male friends and 2 female friends since childhood. Me and my girlfriend/wife met when we were 8 years old and she moved away to the UK right before her 11th birthday. We both had mutual feelings for each other so before valentines day she gave me a love letter that I still have to this day. Anyway there wasn't anything we could do about her moving away so I went to say goodbye to her at the airport where she promised to return to my country one day (keep this in mind because it's important) and she left. My life didn't get any better after she left, I just got in trouble after trouble in school and my highschool years were absolute sh*t and I just wasn't happy with my life.
After almost 7 years and a half I still thought about her a lot and wondered how she might look like which only made me more depressed. I was pretty sure she had forgotten about me, that I would never see her again and I had accepted it. At this point I wasn't seeking to ever have a girlfriend or wife, but one day when I was 18, I was home alone as usual and the door bell rang and I was weirded out because I wasn't expecting visits (like seriously, my best friend is the only person who visited me). so I walked to the door thinking that maybe it was an amazon package that my dad had ordered as usual, but no, I opened the door and there she was, we both looked at each other for about a minute without even talking or saying a single word, just staring at each other. She looked extremely beautiful (and hot to be honest). She was as fit as ever and had a great figure that could make any guy drool, she was dressed with a green tight T-shirt with long sleeves, jeans and for some reason brown winter boots. I was in complete shock because I never expected to see her again and I actually thought I was hallucinating or imagining things until she hugged me so tightly that I felt like she was going to break my neck with the hug, I swear if I wasn't in complete shock I would've been in tears. After several minutes of hugging, I let her into my apartment and we started to talk and catch up with each other.
I learned that she had never had a boyfriend in the UK, she told me that she always wanted to see me again and reminded me that she promised me that she would return one day and that now that she was legally an adult her mom allowed her to come to my country by herself. I told her I had something to show her and I opened a box where I kept things that where important for me and showed her the love letter that she had made for me in my 10ths Valentine's day. She became very emotional because I had kept the love letter that she gave me for valentine's day all those years ago and that I had never forgotten her and we shared our first kiss (well, she kissed me, but you get the point). Anyway, I decided to ditch my original plans to study in my country and decided to go study to the UK to be with Alexandra, so she stayed with me during the Holidays and once the Holidays were over I went to the UK with Alexandra where we started living together for 4 and a half years and once we finished college, I asked her to marry me and she accepted in a heartbeat. Eventually we returned to my country where we got married and are currently living in. We recently had a baby and we are looking forward to having a second one in the future. I know it sounds like an actual love story from a movie, but this is exactly how I met my girlfriend/wife and I can't wait till my son asks us about how we met so that we can tell him our story because this is something I'm proud of and extremely happy to share with people.
Wholesome bro, felt like I was reading a Disney Movie Story Script.
@@doge9693 funny, I’m not a Disney fan at all
Story 5: friendship is done if she says no as it's just going to hurt everytime they see each other and neither of them will have space to move on
Man being an introvert I’m hella jealous of you all🥲
I love every single one of your videos will you please make more like this also you're my favorite person that does these Reddit videos
The story how I met my girlfriend as introvert:
Wtf were u expecting something? it didnt happen so i have nothing to tell.
We were working in the same place in 2018. Occasionally she would say hi to me. One day she started asking more forward questions like how old was I, was I married, did I have kids. I knew what that meant but I didn’t really pay much kind to it as she was from a different country, but I understood her English. One day, one of her coworkers gave her a bag of edibles that she wanted to share with me one night after we got off work. That went as you might have thought; us giggling up a storm. From there, we started bonding and the whole store was talking about us. We’re still together today.
So, I had broken off an engagement, roughly 6 or 7 months prior? I was not the best looking guy and had fell into a depression. Because, I had tried getting into the dating game but I'm socially awkward and have a hard time talking to people. I rarely make posts on anything, but I was also part of a nerds dating group. Which I had been apart of, BEFORE my engagement, on Facebook. I completely forgot about it until I got a notification about an event from said group. Well, I remember stories and such, about people making posts and suddenly finding someone.
Well, I didn't think I would have any luck, but why not try?
I post a selfie, i had grown my hair and beard out. The post was also posted with "how is everyone's weekend?"
3 likes and 2 commenters, not including replies. Still does.
Well, one was a guy, saying it good.
The other was a girl, saying I looked like MCU thor and etc.
Well, from there. It took off, we talked privately.
She had many advances, add in. Its all long distance. She was pretty up front about her, wanting me to be her bf. I hadn't been out of my engagement for long, I was not use to women approaching me and being very, assertive about it.
Not a "Be my boyfriend now!" But rather, "sorry, I just don't see you as anything but a boyfriend". Btw she said this last part.
Honestly, I looked at myself and thought, I miss 100% of the shots I don't take and well, I liked her ALOT. We have so much in common and all.
Also yes, her statement actually reinforced my feelings for her.
Fast-forward, its been almost 2 years now. I've, improved myself for her and I'll be honest. I struck gold and plan to move to where she is.
So, what made this a better deal. 1 years before all this, I told some gaming buddies, Id move up to where they are. Just so happens, she lives an hour from them.
Maybe I was meant to meet her, one way or another?
Either way, I love her. We can be absolutely honest with eachother, understand eachother, rarely fight, and well, I think I found the one.
Met her at her high school graduation party(im two years older then her). We lived about 50 miles apart and her best friend was a good friend of mine. The day before we went she had asked our friend group who was willing to make a trip to her friends for her graduation party and more or less was forced to go. Well it was instantly apparent to everyone but us that we clearly had a chemistry together. Nothing happened for a few months even though our paths crossed a dozen times. Then one day i was dragged doen to her house again because her bestie wanted to cheer her up after he boyfriend and her had broken up. Someone managed to let the cat out of the bag that she had a thing for me and well 22 years later we have been married for 20 years and have three kids 🤣.
I’m very into this girl at school and my friends are saying to ask her out and her friends are saying I have a good shot with her, I’ll try soon
Alright so one of my friends introduced me to this girl this year and we got along very well. We used to eat lunch together all the time. We hung out at any free time we got. Eventually all my friends and her friends started shipping us and me being a fucking dum dum said that I have no intention of ever having a relation... Thankfully one day we were just texting and she asked me out and I said yes. When i told my friends the shit themselves! Ahhh the look on their faces. They could not believe I got a girl!! Now they just joke about our height differences cause she's this very cute 5'2 girl and I'm this 6 feet guy and they joke that we can never see each other eye to eye lol. We just celebrated our one month anniversary!!
I'm 6'4" and the tallest girl I dated so far was 5'3".
Introverted male. Still hoping for an extroverted woman out there.
A dream I know :/
i didnt
i was pretty consistent for three years in a row, trying different stuff, different kinds of people and in general experimenting, looking for "the one"
but after a mentally-crashing experience with my ex-girlfriend, i just started getting rejection after rejection and stopped looking for anything due to thinking that the problem is probably me
now im trying to enjoy my life and not focus on looking for anyone
(also, in a week im getting a PC so maybe I'll become a gamer now and enjoy life even more! :D)
11:35
Idk, man. My mom is the type of person who will make a split decision to randomly go visit one of her friends that moved a few years back to a location that is a 4-5 hour drive from where we live, and then decided to go with them on a trip to a casino that nis 2 hours away from where they live in just 1 day. This is a 2-3 month occurrence, not always with the same friend, and she never plans them before hand, they're always just a decision she makes on the fly.
My GF always was there for me, fed me, opened doors for me, put on my clothes, helpped me go to the bathroom, been by my side for 27years since birth.
If no one gets this, I would actually be shocked.
I got it
It's ur mother or sister ?
I don't get it at all but I think i do and know I should
Sweet home Alabama
@@arent2295 OHHHH FUCK NOW I GET IT
she didnt leave me alone and kept perstering me till i said yes
W
Yeah but… think of the views if a guy were to do that. That would be seen as creepy and manipulative, so this strat doesn’t seem favorable to us men!
Loved the disclaimer for online dating.
I met her in a coffee bar while she was staring at me from the distance i decided to tell her why she was looking at me like that then she said what am i talking about and kicked me in the nuts... 5 years later we are married and have 7 kids with a lot waiting for our life in the future....
9:24- 9:48 had me laughing a lot
School trip... I was acually close to another girl and really liked her, that girl put me in a group of 5 women and myself.... I was looked at weird but overall it was a pretty funny experience... I met her in that group and we just kinda clicked very fast...
story 10: bruh where are all the understanding girls like her when im around?
I’m an introvert, but I made the first move. We first met in February when she joined our school, few weeks before Valentine’s Day in 2018. And I made my move in Valentine’s Day when I gave her a big heart box of chocolate and rose banquet, everyone was surprised that I could be romantic, after that we exchanged phone numbers, we started dating in march, 2018. I met her family. But my teachers tried to tare us apart for telling lies, that I was cheating on someone, but him and I weren’t even friends to begin with. The teachers wanted me to be gay, they wanted me to be with Brandon that gay guy who has a crush on me, but I wasn’t having that kind of thing. Brandon was begging on his knees and asking me to have s*x with me, and be his partner. I rejected him, and I ended up getting into trouble for rejecting him. I’m straight up straight, never will be gay. I’m Loyal to my Girlfriend and planning to marry her in the future, planning my wedding on the RMS Queen Mary(retired ocean liner what has been converted into a hotel) while she becomes my wife. I’m thinking of inviting Brandon so I could torment him by, marring her In front of him, so I could see him in despair from a broken heart and he’ll be regretting that he even came. And planning to push him overboard, to drown him. He better know how to swim though and he might survive.
bro what is wrong with you and who hurt you leave the poor man alone and ignore him
@@adenshaw5273 Brandon the poor man, to me your on his team, just like the teachers.
@@Lolbit7069 im not on his side this is in general dont make people suffer just ignore him if you dont like how he is or file a restraining order if it gets too far
@@adenshaw5273
Bro shut up .
That Brandon guy needs to grow up
I'm really sorry about your shitty teachers mate . Seriously since when did they have any right to decide who dates who ?
I'm glad you and you girl friend are gonna spend the rest of your life together. Wish you the best 🤭
There’s still hope!
i heard about a dnd club at school went to it found it fun joined the group outside of dnd and there were some others including her who did art instead. after about a month i realised i was into her and finally joined the group chat after 3-4 months at the end of year 9. started my current year (year 10) and for some reason she got me some really nice birthday presents which made me think if she was into me wrote a thankyou card and gave it to her. fast forward a month she starts texting me so i reply and we keep talking for a few days then word gets out i am into her and everyone but her then 2 days later we are texting and she asks if i am into her i panic delay for a few seconds so i can call a friend who said she would help me ask my crush out then my crush asked again and i said yes panicking like crazy and she said she liked me the same way so i asked her out we have been dating for 4 months and they have been the best of my life. i know it is a short time but i had accepted that no one would want to go out with me so it was a huge shock
She met me, I didn’t meet her. I am an introvert, she is an extrovert. I am living in our favorite show. Found her, she’s literally a twin of the mc, she’s got the friends, I’m the one who randomly popped in out of nowhere, she decided to be my friend, introduced me to her friends, and then here I am. I am a replica of the mc’s gf (Yes, I’m lesbian). Also she was the one who asked first, just like the mc. For halloween we dressed up as the show characters lol.
Story 5: “I still might have a chance”
You do not, she is stringing you along, she is not attracted to you but you are useful to her for something. Too much trouble, odds of success are too low, move on and pursue other opportunities.
3:58 lol the in game chat
You know those love stories when you’re like best friends and you figure out she’s in love with you and you didn’t know at the time you felt the same way? Then you said something stupid? Literally that. Now because of this I am I introverted and try not to have many friends so I don’t have to hurt anyone again like that.
Btw how she said it was so sudden and I took it horribly and plus she was moving away out of the state and I might never see her again. She was my best friend too.
my girlfriend and I are both introverts and we've been together for over 4 and a half years, we met when she messaged me online, we chatted for a bit and I fell for her Hard, I talked to my best friend about her in just an extremely gay rambly way and nervous bitch that I am did not follow his advice to Tell Her About My Feelings. We talked literally every day from that point on and, being introverted lesbians, we were both sending signals that were going entirely over each others' heads. Eventually she asked if I had any crushes and since She was my crush I of course Did Not Respond and just responded to something else she said, she did it 2 more times and I was just like "shush" and eventually told her that I'd answer if she answered first, and she told me she had a crush on me, and Oh Boy did I flip the fuck out and immediately tell her I had one on her too. 4 and a half years later and I'm still falling for her more and more with every passing day. Her messaging me on that day is what I consider to be the luckiest thing to ever happen to me. She really is such a big part of my life now, I don't know where I'd be without her, and I'm so happy to be able to call her mine and call myself hers. She truly is my perfect match, and she makes me believe that maybe soulmates are real, because she's absolutely mine
Met at a library.. I was reading when some girl just kissed my cheek.. and later apologized for mistaking me for someone else.. Which was a very weird first meet up nos that I think about it
For the garage sale guy : dreams 😴 😂 😂
She said I kid you not "I like ya and I want ya, now we can do this the easy or the hard way the choice is yours". I honestly thought she was joking so I said the easy way and she kissed me on the cheek. We ended up breaking up a month later but still get a laugh out it because she was a boondocks fan.
Dude the third story sounds like the exact position I'm in
I somehow laughed so hard at the way this guy voiced that "she was hanging out with the magic: the gathering crowd"
You could feel his dislike
I'm pretty introverted
I do joke even though I dont know how its gonna sound most of the time
Wanted a relationship for a while and always thought I'd end up alone .. have had a few girls say I'm attractive or such
Remember texting a girl I thought was amazing and beautiful and we texted a fair bit
I remember asking her if she would want to have a date and she said she would but theirs another guy she had been talking to and wanted to try with him for a while
Knowing her and how she was
She didnt want to be rude and genuinely gives people a chance
Shes been with him years now and I'm happy for the both of them
I'm now with a girl I knew in college and love her dearly
It was rough at first because she had a bad previous relationship and was understandably scared and her family worried
... now the family do like me and think I'm a nice lovely guy
And this girl I'm with now has been going a year strong
We started talking during covid and things just started clicking in place
One ... drunken sad night (living at a hostel had no idea what was going to happen barely any money)
I told her how I felt about her and how I didnt know what to think about my life .... now things are ok
I have a place thanks to council not the best but a roof over my head
Sorting bits out for it still and she will most likely move in at the end of the year
.... turns out all we both wanted was someone to love us for us .... and now we both have it
Shes a one in a million and I wouldnt change her for the world
... I do wish everyone out their luck it is hard and you do have to be patient
If your not you may find yourself in a bad relationship
But do give some people a chance you never know what happens in life
school, just like evert introvert. we dated fot 10 years and married last year. haha what nice memories, we used to text a lot and not even look at each other at school, i would always stole a glance at her and she would caught me, god dang it she was so cute whenever she catches me and look straight down then smile, haha same goes for me tho. we continue this relationship for 6 years at school and only dated after graduation, i dont know how we did it but thank god we ended up together, i know shes the love of my life and i would love her till the day i die
Wait it is possible to get a gf if your introverted well i didn't expected this.
got a story for this, walked up to her in a small crowd waiting for pe to end, and called her short, hit it off from there
I meet my gf because of band class and was very ackward so after a week we got together I was like a mentor to her and other similar band mates and we still together after About two years
Story 9 is basically Kabakura and Koyanagi’s relationship in wotakoi
Well my wife is my classmate in HS. To this day as introvert i still don't know how people can get gf or wife outside school or workplace.
6:29 made me think twice why did I rejected my crush-
Thank you very helpful I will use thx
I get anxiety when I'm around some dudes I find attractive, so let's just say there is most likely no chance of me ever getting a boyfriend until I finally stop giving a fuck about things and actually approach them 😬😍
My only hope of getting a gf is hoping a girl will ask me out
My chance: 0
Im kinda the introvert, my one friend and I like each other and Im kinda awkward with dating because Im a 15y old who has 4 other girls like me and no experience .Anyway me and my friend have a lot in common but I think ima wait a little while cuz i feel to young and immature to be in a relationship, especially my first one .
Not girlfriend but her cousin and I worked together and got her the job and we almost immediately hit it off. Thing is, I'm really into her, I'm just too much of a wuss to do anything more than flirt or flop trying to give her my number.
the train tracks feel comfy today
My wife is an extrovert and pretty much forced me to be her boyfriend at the time
Probably 200k introverts is seeing this lol
SHADOW WIZARD MONEY GANG
I met mine in a dream once.
Then we broke up the night after.
I wish I found that someone right now because I am very lonely and I am not motivated to do anything. I need someone, but I can’t express my feelings. I used to play guitar, I can’t do what I used to anymore. Am I going the depression? Who knows.
story 5 is hilarious
Me just watching rust on the background 😅
Glad to know I have hope
Where is teh comment that says an introvert like me???!!!! Bah nah I am way too shy!! XD it never should up tho...
my friend and I made a bet on who could get the other a gf faster. My friend won by somehow pulling a girl for me in less than an hour and we are still together. Best weekend of my life.. I got him one too abt a week or so later
So no one just had her randomly spawn in your living room in gonna like have to go out and meet people?
I met my gf through school, we went to representative cross country together and we chatted and got to know each other. I was also good friends with her bf at the time and so we started hanging out at school. Then, a few weeks after she broke up with her bf she asked me out and the rest is history
Man straight up went full: ‘Steal your girl’. Lol.
Someone is gonna do it to you too
are we gonna talk about how in the beginning someone in the chat said "its cute when you guys get censored" "uwu"?
I met my exes online, im scared of women irl.
Unrealistic stories. Why would so many introverts leave their house?
I met my SO by adopting her from a friend . . . She's a cat don't worry
Honestly im here for advice
I'm surprised that I had girlfriends.
Oh, I see the problem now: I *am* open to casual.
my gf was also an introvert
I met her at a rpg game and we are together for 2 years rn lol
Not my girlfriend now but my ex
I didn't meet her, my friend did
So in other words, I’m not getting a girlfriend
Literally watching another video when I got to notifications
As an introvert:
I didnt
so my gfs name is emm (not real name) i have a friend named jake (not real name) we have discord so we talk on that a lot and then I met his sister we started talking a bit then she started calling me a lot 2 weeks forward she was at her BFF's house and her BFF said that emm had a crush on me so ya we have been dating for 8 weeks now.
I’m a disabled introvert, so I could use a little help
Also are we not gonna talk abt the chat ingame?💀
she tried to rob me...
??
I didn't.
Next question please.
I’m still wondering myself
I didn't.
1:16 this may be the fakest sounding fantasy of a story I've ever heard on these videos.
Why can I see ford paying TH-cam to remove this short.
I don't
I was more interested in the game chat instead of the actual video
Story 5 I hate to break it too you but it’s absolutely a no my guy
short answer:
I didn't.
I must learn
I didn’t
I met my girlfriend 6 years ago while I was biking just near my house, she waved at me and asked for my name. I freaked out because I didn't know her and just said "Oh, my name is ___" We played together a lot until christmas of 2018 I had to move out. Months later she found my Messenger account and messaged me. I still remembered her and said hi and we began playing with each other again. 1 month ago we started dating :)
I'm lesbian