Hahahaha, I realize I can’t make “big” talks either because I am not very informed and knowledgeable about anything particular. 😭 Thank you for the support, it makes me smile. :)
One of my best friends hates small talk too, but I'm fine with it. People are like puzzles; they don't have to justify themselves, but there a reasons people do what they do, and i find "that" kind of interesting. My friend is just uninterested in people that he doesn't know or care about. But I'm a "nerd" about everything, so I take everything in a thoughtful and deliberate way. I like to excel at everything I do, including chatting with people. People don't exhaust me unless they "stonewall" me .. I'm not a aggressive person I just lack patients.
Super interesting perspective! I am also curious and enjoying learning about the why and how in life so it’s true that things exist for a reason and the fun is to decode them. I like how your friend is just being honest that he doesn’t care those he doesn’t know hahah.
I engage in small talks too but always feel uneasy and awkward hahahaha. I notice others probably feel the same and so I am learning to make others feel at ease!
@@yappykaki Yes my sister. You are the captain of your boat. Not their boat. You keep smiling and guide your boat. Be kind and generous. If there is a connection there, great, if not, put your boat in drive and sail on 🖐️🙂👍❤️
Me personally, I don't like small talk either so when getting to know someone who I plan on getting in a relationship with I ask two questions...Is Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior? and is Jesus Christ number 1 in your life, and that determines whether or not I'll be associating myself with that person In a relationship standpoint.
Says she doesn't like small talk but makes a video of only 3 minutes long about it! We need BIG talk! HOURS long of Kaki yapping!
#KeepYapping
Hahahaha, I realize I can’t make “big” talks either because I am not very informed and knowledgeable about anything particular. 😭 Thank you for the support, it makes me smile. :)
One of my best friends hates small talk too, but I'm fine with it. People are like puzzles; they don't have to justify themselves, but there a reasons people do what they do, and i find "that" kind of interesting.
My friend is just uninterested in people that he doesn't know or care about. But I'm a "nerd" about everything, so I take everything in a thoughtful and deliberate way. I like to excel at everything I do, including chatting with people. People don't exhaust me unless they "stonewall" me .. I'm not a aggressive person I just lack patients.
Super interesting perspective! I am also curious and enjoying learning about the why and how in life so it’s true that things exist for a reason and the fun is to decode them.
I like how your friend is just being honest that he doesn’t care those he doesn’t know hahah.
everyone engages in small talk with everyone, including your friends. it's up to you to decide how to respond. everything is a test
I engage in small talks too but always feel uneasy and awkward hahahaha. I notice others probably feel the same and so I am learning to make others feel at ease!
Hey Kaki. Just passing to wish you a good day/night. 🐇
Hey Ellen, sweet of you! I hope you are having a great day as well :) ❤️
Kaki, you do what you feel comfortable with. If you feel a good vibe, go with it. If not just speak and go about your business 🎉❤
That’s a good reminder! I need to care less about what others think of me and also I shouldn’t be so petty of how others react to me.
@@yappykaki Yes my sister. You are the captain of your boat. Not their boat. You keep smiling and guide your boat. Be kind and generous. If there is a connection there, great, if not, put your boat in drive and sail on 🖐️🙂👍❤️
Me personally, I don't like small talk either so when getting to know someone who I plan on getting in a relationship with I ask two questions...Is Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior? and is Jesus Christ number 1 in your life, and that determines whether or not I'll be associating myself with that person In a relationship standpoint.