Kya Apne Parents Ko Naraaz Karna Theek Hai ? Clarity For Youth

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  • @tushardeep7920
    @tushardeep7920 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    i have returned after 9 years to my home permanently to live with my parents but i think pyar bnae rakhne ke lie thore duri jaroori hai..

  • @dr.ajayrathore2252
    @dr.ajayrathore2252 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    You are so true.....iam a doctor....my parents are so toxic that no words is enough to explain..... unhone koi kasar nahi chodi to make my life hell.zyada kaha nahi ja sakta.... I had a brain stroke due to stress given by them.unki expectations poori karte karte.....kya batae.... sab kuch kaha nahi ja sakta......
    Sir you are genious.thank you for putting up this topic 🙏

    • @kusumrastogi5672
      @kusumrastogi5672 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank God u survived the attavk

    • @ELProfessorACCA
      @ELProfessorACCA ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +1

    • @rogerclemens4872
      @rogerclemens4872 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Bhai … a fellow dr here …. Life jhand kar Rakhi hai relatives ne parents ke kaan bhar bhar ke

    • @PrinceKumar-pp4ts
      @PrinceKumar-pp4ts ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hope you gain back your peace.
      Apna Karma karte jao... Chote chote palon ko jab ho sake khusiyon me badal do.... baaki Jo bas ka nahi wo bagwan ke hawale dedo..

    • @amritamallik8728
      @amritamallik8728 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      As a daughter I had the option to separate myself from my parents so feeling better. But self doubt and guilt creeps up time and again

  • @universeiscalling
    @universeiscalling ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Parents / In-laws are afraid of the children who are aggressive, intolerant and do hit back .....
    But the same parents / in-laws can destroy their own child
    physically,
    mentally,
    psychologically,
    socially
    and
    financially
    who does not hit back because of his/ her humble, submissive nature.....
    And it's true....

  • @kishorerajurkar2271
    @kishorerajurkar2271 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Superb analysis and still better advice
    Democracy should start from home.
    In 1985 I had an intercaste love marriage. My parents didn't attend it inspite of both of us being highly educated and mature ( 27 years ).
    They were proved wrong . My wife became their favourite.

    • @Shubham-kumar4238
      @Shubham-kumar4238 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My good wishes are with you sir 🎉

    • @rampyari_05
      @rampyari_05 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      1985 damn ..,

    • @NilutpalSaikia-m3e
      @NilutpalSaikia-m3e ปีที่แล้ว

      The intention of this gentleman is to lure people to buy properties in Gurgaon, which is possible only when you leave your job and become a corporate coolie in the failed city like Gurgaon.

    • @Shivam-tb8hi
      @Shivam-tb8hi ปีที่แล้ว +12

      in 85 those days....you r real rebel sirrr😅

    • @kishorerajurkar2271
      @kishorerajurkar2271 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@Shivam-tb8hi . I was madly in love and couldn't understand my parents ( particularly my mother ) not accepting a highly educated girl just because she was from a different caste.
      The beauty is my dad came to us next day of marriage and my mother also accepted her as her elder bahu. Later she was treated with love and respect of a daughter.
      Both of us are doctors. Sad part is that I lost her to Covid in 2020.
      Parents are not always right. They themselves accepted it

  • @rajatcoool
    @rajatcoool ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Been there, done that! They are never happy! No matter how much you obey. 😀 Obey blindly for 30 years, all okay; question them once; boom!
    And 3:40 is spot on! - IITian here 😂

  • @MO8O8DY
    @MO8O8DY ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Narazgi wahan hoti hi nai jahan ummeed hi na ho
    Acche bacchon ka ye issue hai
    Kadwa sach! 😢

  • @navneet2649
    @navneet2649 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    "Indian household has no democracy!" 🙏🙏

  • @soumyagupta9146
    @soumyagupta9146 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The superb way I have discovered to deal with choti moti narazagi of parents that don’t overthink things. I used to get hyper usually before. But now I think it through in a way, if I am not doing anything morally wrong, if I am not disrespecting my boundaries, if I am prioritising my current family which is my husband/kids etc. Then I validate my own decisions, get approval from myself and spouse etc and communicate in a non hurtful way very clearly, firmly about the possibilities. And at night I don’t struggle with the after thoughts or second judge myself. Self doubt bhi zyada ache bache hi karte hain. But yeah, that comes with time and practice. Not overnight. Helping yourself become a mature independent human being and respecting your own decisions first.

    • @neena4815
      @neena4815 ปีที่แล้ว

      you need pshycatriest

  • @nishisaxena1169
    @nishisaxena1169 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    MAG bilkul sahi baat hai SIr..jo insan khud khush hoga wahi toh kisi doosre ko khush rakh payega .... Isiliye sab insano ko khush rehna chahiye aur apni Khushi ke bare mein sochna chahiye..
    Tabhi aap kisi aur ko...apne parents ko aur doosre family members ko khush rakh payega.

  • @sanskritiverma8010
    @sanskritiverma8010 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Id like to say something,
    my parents are getting old, and mom remains ill most of the time. Dad lives out of station so I am my lil sister's parent. I overlook her studies, her clothes, what and when she eats. She tells me everything--friends, emotions, sadness......shares everything with me.
    Sometimes, some of her attitudes are socially wrong, like...she'll yell at mom if my mom taunts her regarding something, sometimes my sister will skip lunch, sleep 4 hours during day time.
    Now normally, these things upset my mother, it never upsets me because everytime she does something like that, I sit and ask her with love---why were you sleeping 4 so long? Are you ill? Why did u score less in the exam? Did u make notes? Were you nervous? Did you do better than the last time? Why did you yell at mom? Was it because of lack of sleep? Did you feel genuineluy angry at her?
    And most of the times, I find that her intentions are never wrong. I mean...she is the top of her class, has immense pressure by teachers and parents to perform well, isit able to manage study/ and ecreation time.... which is why sometimes she acts out.
    And in those moments I help her with it.
    My parents jump to conclusions fast and start moral policing her. But I sit and talk to her. Even though I am not that good of a person, she never yells at me, but yells at my mom.
    I think if you sit and talk with kids, most of the issues can be solved. I once heard --We judge others by their actions and ourselves by our intentions.
    That's very true.
    Kids these days have immense pressure on them. Its better to be on their team rather than throwing 'shravan kumar bano' at them.
    Communication is the key.

  • @leenagandhi9180
    @leenagandhi9180 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am proud that people like you in this age have such clarity of thoughts and have courage to speak up against one sided society. Loads of respect for you

  • @amijoshi2559
    @amijoshi2559 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Parents ka har baat pe naraaz hona n muh fulake baith jaana kyuki humne uske tareeke se baat follow nahi ki ye bahot comon baat ho chuki hai aaj kal..

  • @bharathidayanand936
    @bharathidayanand936 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    MAG 😀, I never thought somebody can talk and explain at this level 👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏

  • @KRISHNA-jo1ev
    @KRISHNA-jo1ev ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank you Sir ji...🎉
    Jo humare parents hain, unhe to change nahi kiya ja sakta, per haan logical thinking me aapki bahut help milti hai.
    Sath hi hum apne next generation bachchon k liye khud ko prepare bhi ker rahe hain jisse ki humari aur humare bachchon k life me bitterness kam ho sake aur sukun mil paye. So a big Thank you🙏🙏🎉🎉

  • @shrijeevanknowledge7332
    @shrijeevanknowledge7332 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Everything you said is agreed BUT dono parties mein sunne ki shakti hona jaroori hai aur agar unmein se agar koi galat hai to usme apni galati ko sweekar karne ki shakti ka bhi hona jaroori hai. But mostly parents don't backup their children if they fail by chance and curse them lifetime.

  • @sanskritiverma8010
    @sanskritiverma8010 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    10:00 I never do this, its genetic in me (from my dad) to not talk about my feelings and what makes me happy/sad....Idk... I always used to be aloof from my parents because I am a bit open minded and they moral police everything, so its like, everytime we talk, we end up fighting, so i avoid having conversations altogether.

    • @hardikkaushal5561
      @hardikkaushal5561 ปีที่แล้ว

      Madam aap apna number de skti ho whatsapp meri bhi same situation hai mere parents bhi aisa hi krte hai. Aap mujhe apna WhatsApp number de skti hain

    • @nilajitsinha6561
      @nilajitsinha6561 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bro same!

    • @MihirLanjhiyana
      @MihirLanjhiyana 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same even though I am just 12th. They don't let me go out of house, admitted me in NEET coaching without asking and expected me to crack it. When my mother came to know that I have a girlfriend, she told me to ghost her or else she will tell everything to dad. Apart from this my dad compares me so much and my sister shouts on me for every small thing.
      (I am trying to change myself)

  • @navneet2649
    @navneet2649 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    parents be like: i created you therefore i'm allowed to be mean to you and i'm allowed to disrespect your boundaries. and if you demand better treatment i'm allowed to guilt trip you by reminding u that i fed, clothed and housed you even tho that's my responsibility as a parent!
    Parents did no "favour" by bringing child to this miserable world full of sufferings! 🙏🙏

    • @shobhanakadam5308
      @shobhanakadam5308 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sach kahte ho aap..muze to lagta hai ki Mai iss duniya me aayee hi kyu? Inpe bojh banane ke liye?

    • @anniejain83
      @anniejain83 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true

    • @navneet2649
      @navneet2649 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shobhanakadam5308 true, but we will do our best to sail out of all this and pray for moksh 🙏🏻🪔
      All the best brother, dont give up ❤️

  • @rosy-dz8wt
    @rosy-dz8wt ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Aap 1000 per cent sahi hain,jo Kam nahi karta,tantrums felte hain,use hi sabkuch dete hain

  • @rashmiyadav2744
    @rashmiyadav2744 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Parents to kuchh sunna hi nhi chate wo hamesha kahte hai ki hamne koi baat bol diya means bol diya. Wo bus ye kahte hai hamne tumhe itna bada kya sirf isliye kiya ki ak din tum isi tarah se hamari baat na mano. Wo kuch bhi sunne ko ready hi nhi hote bahut sari bato me essa hota hai aur bura bhi man jate hai gussa karte hai.

  • @nawandeepkalra4319
    @nawandeepkalra4319 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Every word is authentic. Thank you sir . Guilt feeling are gone now. Real life lesson

  • @navinnagda8043
    @navinnagda8043 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    हमारे गुरुजी दुनिया के नंबर वन क्लेरिटी घेवर है

  • @Jenny8503-u8t
    @Jenny8503-u8t 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sir i am speachless u are really too truthful person yh isliy3 nhi ki ap child k favour m bol re nhi kuki ap sach kh re sidhi bt bol re ho isliye salute h sir apko

  • @gopalpawar565
    @gopalpawar565 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kash yeh video main 2018 main dekh leta ... Superb analysis and strong point in each sentence ..I should have followed my heart ..

  • @yoyosingh1088
    @yoyosingh1088 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Mai CA ki study kar rha hu to daily ghar pe rehta hu. Mere gharwale mujhse 3-4 baar chai coffee bnawate hai duniya bhar ke chote chote kaam kehte rehte hai. Agar mana kardu to gusa hojate hai. Aur mai boldu kuch to kehte hai ki ek chota sa kaam keh dia to kya maut agayi. 😢 Mera sara din kharab kardete hai ye log. Daily mere papa mujhe bolte hai ki tere se CA pass nahi hogi ye nahi karta tu wo nahi karta aur mera bilkul motivation nahi rehta padhne ka. Kiske liye padhu ? Inlogo ke liye ? Nashukre logo ke liye ? Kasam se bahut mann karta hai ghar chodne ka. Bahut zyada tang karte hai aur realise bhi nahi karte. Bhenchod gharpe baitha hu to iska matlab kaam karwate rahoge gharke ? Itni baar to bhenchod mere papa kachre ke dibbe mai kachra nahi daalte jitna mujhe taane marte hai. Bahut dukh rehta hai 😢

    • @iitneetwale9896
      @iitneetwale9896 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ek simple si baat ye hai ki
      JOIN a Library it is that simple maine bhi yahi Kiya
      Subeh subeh nikal jaata karo pure din wahi Rahi ya kahi aur chale jaao
      Fir shaam me aa jaao dobara

    • @vibha-ff1ee
      @vibha-ff1ee ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Inn logo ke chakkar me apni life mat kharab karo bhai
      Ladko ke sath bhi aisa hota shocking laga sunkar
      Mere 6 saal isi wjh se barbaad ho gye
      Ghar ke kalesh ki wjh se concentrate nhi kar payi depression me chali gyi
      Aur abb jab himmat aayi bolne ki to kahte hain jisko padhna hota hai wo kahi bhi padh leta hai.
      Tum to ladke ho bhai kahi kisi dost ke yha ya kisi course ka bahana kar kerke dusre sahar me rah lo

    • @naruti3992
      @naruti3992 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same bhai 😢 demotivate kar dete hai

    • @richie5969
      @richie5969 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why shouldn't you leave home and take your full responsibility

    • @kusumrastogi5672
      @kusumrastogi5672 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He said in some vdo bachon se faaltu ke kaam karwane band Karo, pg lelo aap aur study karo

  • @adwitiyaagrawal9791
    @adwitiyaagrawal9791 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I got answer to something..i was searching for months ...boht achaa samjhaya...clarity giver video👏👏😊

  • @TheSandsplash
    @TheSandsplash ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am.lucky to have supportive parents 😊

  • @charupahwa3225
    @charupahwa3225 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir bahut sahi pakde hai unki khud ki bitter Ness itni hai ki kuch keh nahi sakte aur ....

    • @kusumrastogi5672
      @kusumrastogi5672 ปีที่แล้ว

      To aur bitterness gift kardo unko😢

    • @MoniThakur-w2g
      @MoniThakur-w2g 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      To keya kare mar Jaye hum keya batao tum​@@kusumrastogi5672

  • @misscat4433
    @misscat4433 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    New subscriber here... Love your teachings Sir!! You are so different as compared to the usual Indian elders. You feel more like a friend of the youth than the typical rigid elders and we can so relate to the topics. In fact I feel like listening to you more than my own parents or in laws. Thank you Sir! Please keep up the great work!

  • @ninasrivastava7488
    @ninasrivastava7488 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ek limit tak hi aaj ki date mein koi kar sakta hai....yeh one way traffic nhi ho sakta h....(sorry to say to our lots of our mama's boys and shravan kumar types ( ki mata pita ki seva toh honi hi chahiye , chahiye life mein kuch bhi ho!) in our society ki ek hi side se hi sab sahyog hota rahay , hota rahay! We have to be practical and aaj toh kya kal( past and future mein bhi) bhi taali ek haath se nhi bajti.And you know what parents bhi bahut selfish ho gye h( not all exceptions r there) but in 99.99% cases parents bhi usi beta aur bahu k gun gaatey h jo unko saath rakkhay... maa baap bhi usi beta ko importance detey h jo ya toh sarkari naukri mein h ya acchi position mein h......this is a naked truth.!

    • @RamRam-gs1so
      @RamRam-gs1so ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ara dikkat to vaha ati hai , jab parents rahe ak Bahu beta k sath lakin gun humesha gata rahe un logo k Jo door rehta hai ,

  • @nitinjoshi2427
    @nitinjoshi2427 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This guy knows Indian middle class like no one. 100% true.

  • @ayoushidhall2557
    @ayoushidhall2557 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lucky to have extremely supportive, loving and caring parents❤

  • @tulippoetry5174
    @tulippoetry5174 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    kin shabdon main aapka shukriya ada karu sir. Dil se dhanyawad.

  • @kshitij__kumar
    @kshitij__kumar ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Magggg!!!! Pure desh me democracy hai...gharo me nii hai...pure desh me freedom hai sab kuch krne ke...lekin ghar wale nii nii asse kaise sab kuch karega🤣🤣

  • @hemantkumar1
    @hemantkumar1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Arrived at right time.

  • @annuluthra1500
    @annuluthra1500 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir Ji... Aap to next level khelte ho....🙏🏻

  • @hashmifaiz
    @hashmifaiz ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hello sir, thank you for the video. Society ko naraaz karna kaisa hai, please is par bhi ek video banaaye🙏🏻

  • @bharathramalingam7492
    @bharathramalingam7492 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Aap kaha they itne saal... Bohut saare Indians ki zindagi baan jaati.. happiness index m we would have been on the top..
    Bohut hi late.gyan Mila hai yeh... 34 years nikal Gaye mere zindagi k.. now I am realizing.. selfish nature m hi Khushi hai..

  • @choudharyArpitRaj
    @choudharyArpitRaj ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bat me dam hai guruji, reason v bht aacha explain kiya

  • @VinaySingh-cf6kd
    @VinaySingh-cf6kd ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nicely explained Guruji. Thanks 🙏

  • @manjular3678
    @manjular3678 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    MAG: Thank you guruji 🙏. YOUR FIRST OBLIGATION AS A PARENT IS NOT TO BRING CHAOS INTO YOUR KID'S LIVES

  • @PuneetKumar-gh9go
    @PuneetKumar-gh9go ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Narayan apka dhayanwad hein

  • @anniejain83
    @anniejain83 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are doing great work Sir🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Rakhigupta1985
    @Rakhigupta1985 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Par kya kare sir,parents naraz ho jate hai toh pura ka pura parivar bhi boycott kar dete hai,samajh nai aata life kaise jee jaye.
    Khud apni responsibility utha ke bhi,pata nai har baat par wo udas he rehte hai.
    My request to you sir,please make a video on this that sometimes we are told that it is written in your destiny to be misused by your parents or inlaws,many youngsters put down their foot when told by the astrologer that you have to suffer through your parents,that is how you will repay your debts. Out of fear of bad karmas,some tolerate toxic behaviours.
    Kindly throw some light on this sir.

    • @arjuntyagi5860
      @arjuntyagi5860 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      First become financial independent, speak truth on their face

    • @vibha-ff1ee
      @vibha-ff1ee ปีที่แล้ว

      Out of fear of bad karma,some tolerate toxic behaviors.
      Very true 😢😢

    • @BIO....
      @BIO.... ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think that we not only get toxic behaviour from parents...in every relationship...toxicity is present...people who are toxic...toxic to everyone....they have a dark heart...even if they try to not show that behaviour or pretend in front of other they are sweet...but the reality is they are hyppocrate...because this is kaliyuga...the age of hypocracy

  • @Mng002
    @Mng002 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    All parents are not like that.Lucky to have great parents.

  • @jumananasrulla2663
    @jumananasrulla2663 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You r 100% correct n Practial

  • @shaunakdhanwanee
    @shaunakdhanwanee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    4:05 what a wonderful piece of advice 💯😄

  • @shahrifshaikh6311
    @shahrifshaikh6311 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Haq se Sir!!! Thanks for this video

  • @AnkitG12
    @AnkitG12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir main toh kab se dukhi kar rh hun . Bas Maa ko sukoon dena hai baki bhad mein jaye . Its high time India needs to learn parenting.

  • @dhruv1166-h5v
    @dhruv1166-h5v ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sir me kitna accha kam kar lo mere parent kabhi khush nhi rahte hamesha koshte hi rahte hai ki teri wajah se barbaad ho gye hum etc 😢aur kisi se is bare me baat karo to koi manta hi nhi ki toxic parent bhi hote hai.

    • @arjuntyagi5860
      @arjuntyagi5860 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Become financial independent and shift to other city

  • @DoctorJain-vy2gx
    @DoctorJain-vy2gx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Maa baap to hamesha naraz hi rehta hai khush hota kab hai yeh log?? Meri to aisi taisi kar rakhi hai

    • @MoniThakur-w2g
      @MoniThakur-w2g 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Job kartye ho na akyeley raho bhai

  • @simarkaur9486
    @simarkaur9486 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Maabap kabhi khush nahi kiye ja sakte chahe ene khoon nikal ke bhi pila do

    • @shivanichawla2838
      @shivanichawla2838 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Kya baat kahi hai !!! Wah. 👌

  • @UnboxVlogs
    @UnboxVlogs ปีที่แล้ว

    LOVE U SIR 🎉🎉🎉 200% WORKING!

  • @charupahwa3225
    @charupahwa3225 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guruji ka gurutatva 🎉

  • @sumanaganguli2480
    @sumanaganguli2480 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Its all about who has the ability to take right actions, either parents may have achieved clarity and hence providing true guidance or they operate from irrational fear and prejudices hence misleading or kids who have developed taking clearer judgements or kiddish with hunger for all rights and no responsibility tendency...its all about who has the merit and capabilities...both sides need to prove themselves what they preach...thats accountability.

    • @vibha-ff1ee
      @vibha-ff1ee ปีที่แล้ว

      Superb comment
      Very mature thinking

    • @TechyGamerSt0221
      @TechyGamerSt0221 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      9:40 Puri video ni dekhte ho kya

  • @ranjanachaturvedi4806
    @ranjanachaturvedi4806 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing subjects u bring .

  • @shambala...2644
    @shambala...2644 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Sir🙏🌞🙏😊🙏

  • @BaddiesTop20
    @BaddiesTop20 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I always wanted to TH-cam and blogging but my parents said that scope nahi hai and now I am in a 9 to 5 just for my parents. But I am still unhappy sir. I have understood that I want to be my own boss

  • @ramanbhatia6135
    @ramanbhatia6135 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thanks guruji :) this really helped.

  • @vinitachouhan3631
    @vinitachouhan3631 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guru ji,, namskar,, amazing ho aap,,, aapke bhut video dekhti hu me 🙏🙏

  • @ritusingh-ye7vn
    @ritusingh-ye7vn หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great great 🎉

  • @saheensultana9309
    @saheensultana9309 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some of your videos are really good I must say. Though I disagree with you in many aspects in many of your videos but this video is truly amazing

  • @vansh72258
    @vansh72258 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Zabardast video ❤❤

  • @keshabpoudel3126
    @keshabpoudel3126 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    300% correct.

  • @rashmisharma-yy8ss
    @rashmisharma-yy8ss ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir shadi ke liye ladka kaise choose kre after 30 please clarify..... parents are not supporting

  • @shukraan
    @shukraan ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MAG always 4 ur videos

  • @bhartigupta2218
    @bhartigupta2218 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MAG: its true sir

  • @PuneetKumar-gh9go
    @PuneetKumar-gh9go ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks sir

  • @Dkbumbra
    @Dkbumbra ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thanks for the clarity

  • @simarkaur9486
    @simarkaur9486 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Narcissistic mother ka kya karu sir

  • @lalitalalitarana2143
    @lalitalalitarana2143 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your v logs are like Sanjeevani to me. Mere in-laws ne meri aur mere husband ki life narak bana di hai unko kitna bhi khush karo wo nahi hote aur apni life me hue past incidents k liye hame sunate hai aisa treat karte hai ki saari pareshaani hamari wajah se hui ho unhe. Itni halat bigad gayi thi ki maine suicide attempt karne ki kosis ki but my husband saved me . In-laws itna sunate the ki main depression me chali gayi aur self doubt ata tha kuch bhi kaam karne me. Kabhi kabhi samajh nahi ata ki kya karein aisa ki wo log chain se rahe aur hame bhi chain se rahne de

  • @kapilnitb
    @kapilnitb ปีที่แล้ว +2

    well said😇😇

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    @ClarityForYouth  ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @apoorvchauhan4707
    @apoorvchauhan4707 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir hamare to parents ne career hi choose nai karne dia, aur isi wajah se kalesh rehta h , jo kam nai aata wo mein kaise kar sakta hu, jeewan bhar yahi sunta aaya hu wo tere se acha kara h, wo zada kamara h

    • @arjuntyagi5860
      @arjuntyagi5860 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just shift to other city or job ke sath apna favorite course and skill seekhle side by side

  • @asitprajapati3940
    @asitprajapati3940 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aisa hi hota hai, maa baap bahut selfish hote hain

  • @priyanshigupta739
    @priyanshigupta739 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir your videos are very helpful.

  • @richie5969
    @richie5969 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Just like that .... look at comment section... parents' are toxic toxic toxic... maybe Indian parents should think about this " they must kick out their children over 17 or 18 " ...so they must be their own they should take care of their responsibility ....... anyways my father is little strict because he's in army but I love his strictness I love my parents . they are so loveable. Around my society what I seen everybody loves their parents.

    • @priyanshusharma9267
      @priyanshusharma9267 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      As a 20 year old guy i agree that parent should be strict with things that we are doing wrong. But they should not interfere with everything.

    • @richie5969
      @richie5969 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@priyanshusharma9267 if they interfere in everything then children should live separately .

    • @Abhisekhdutta
      @Abhisekhdutta ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@richie5969what if you are not allowed to choose job of your wish?What if you are not allowed move out?What if they bully you for govt jobs?Despite having a good functioning business.

    • @richie5969
      @richie5969 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Abhisekhdutta lots of what take a strong stand ...

    • @agnosticcashew1422
      @agnosticcashew1422 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      onw of the top comments is about getting berated by parents for washing clothes on thursday. people think it's toxic behavior. how is that toxic??!! 💀

  • @vijaymala7311
    @vijaymala7311 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said

  • @Siddharthsnd3re
    @Siddharthsnd3re ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ... Mag Sir MAG*...🔥✨...

  • @Sonu_Kr95
    @Sonu_Kr95 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Maza aa gaya ❤

  • @sagarjumani6989
    @sagarjumani6989 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir you explain my life story

  • @lowdevicegaming4261
    @lowdevicegaming4261 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir u r great

  • @charupahwa3225
    @charupahwa3225 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir kudos to u humare ghar main hi democracy nahi hai

  • @Visionary0101
    @Visionary0101 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mai to parents ki sunta hi nhai mujhe youtuber ban na tha wo mana krte rahe, fir ab jb mera ek tech channel hai aur har month aachi khasi kamai aati hai ab paise mangte hai 😂😂😂 mai bolta hu tb to bolte the ye kuch nhai hai time barbad mat kr bhukha mare ga ghr se nikal de ge hahahaha ab sahi maze aa re hai life k mujhe to

    • @ABHINAV6562752
      @ABHINAV6562752 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Acchi beti banke saare paise mat pakda dena , paise na ho to maa baap bhi nahi poochte always keep some money with you

  • @sonaligagneja6893
    @sonaligagneja6893 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    EXTREMELY DESPARATE QUESTION
    you said mom mein permanent dukh aachuka Hai husband and inlaws ke through and similar with father
    Question - kya yeh therapy and psychologist se ja sakta Hai??????

    • @snehaabraham3273
      @snehaabraham3273 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes. Pls meet an experienced psychologist.

    • @asifahmed6568
      @asifahmed6568 ปีที่แล้ว

      Psychologist se nahi bhai.. Acceptance se hoga.. It's not only this issue but every issue in life can be solved if we self-reflect and try to change whatever things we did which led to these situations..
      Psychologist b yehi bolega..
      Isliye apni mental conditioning acchi karni chahiye ham sabko..

  • @nileshvarpe7197
    @nileshvarpe7197 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks

  • @Panesar.jagdeep
    @Panesar.jagdeep 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What to do when husband wants to be sharavan kumar all the time??

  • @shivanibahrani9669
    @shivanibahrani9669 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    True

  • @rajanisingh7883
    @rajanisingh7883 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amezing

  • @vishalverma-so3si
    @vishalverma-so3si ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aaj kal ke parents baccho se jyda jiddi hote h .

  • @Avdhoot009
    @Avdhoot009 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir Circumstances poora ganit / vichardhara badal dete hain.
    Aise ek funde par nahi chal sakte sab kuch relatively right ya wrong ho sakta hai.

  • @anjushangle
    @anjushangle 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All true

  • @manishkhanna5629
    @manishkhanna5629 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice sir

  • @sanchitchhetri2208
    @sanchitchhetri2208 ปีที่แล้ว

    GRATITUDE

  • @rosepetals011
    @rosepetals011 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of my parents is very very toxic. It has effected me very badly emotionally..

  • @ManpreetKaur-fy3xo
    @ManpreetKaur-fy3xo ปีที่แล้ว

    Mag GURU JI

  • @vikaskumar-wb5pt
    @vikaskumar-wb5pt ปีที่แล้ว

    sir ek video please is topic pe bhe banao aj kl haryana punjab k bche foreign country me jaa rhe hai or vha jake labour kaam kr rhe hai and kya vo shi rhega future me apne family ko chod k itne dur jana and fer itne lakho rupee lga k jana plzz is par video banao

  • @Dream_soul26
    @Dream_soul26 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What for girls?

  • @gaurank8537
    @gaurank8537 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sir pain of elder brother wala video banao

    • @vinceisgod1547
      @vinceisgod1547 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Elder brother hona maut ka ticket hai bro😢mre papa ki maut ase hi hui responsibilities se

  • @MihirLanjhiyana
    @MihirLanjhiyana 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    MAG sir

  • @Kalyugka-krishna
    @Kalyugka-krishna ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir can next webinar be on the topic Consultation