15 Things Summary 1. Make your bed when you wake up 2. Make kids learn how to clean bathroom 3. Teach them washing clothes or the process 4. Once a week make them clean their rooms fan once a week 5. Organise clothes n things in their almirah properly 6. Once in 15 days You n ur kid should wash utensils together 7. Teach them atleast one dish to make...cutting vegetables n fruits , teach them to make tea even if they dont drink etc etc teach them these 8. Teach them making online payments paytm google pay etc etc...handling money increase cofidence 9. If someone comes to repair AC fans or anything in house make ur kid stand n watch them doing it... in this way he will learn basics to do incase problem arises in future 10. Serve ur father or mom water glass n ask them how are you etc etc 11. Make your kid a assistant... 12. Basics of gradening like watering plants 13. Once a week clean your vehicles involving your kids 14. Dinner rule : after eating food make them know where to keep all things like curd etc etc in correct place in fridge. 15. Make your kids take the responsibility of locking doors at night Hare krishna have a positive day ahead...
1- making bed 2-cleaning toilet 3-putting clothes in washing machine 4-cleaning fan once a week 5-setting almirah 6-clean utensils once a fortnight 7-learning making rice, dal, sabzi, and cutting vegetables (doing things with hand keeps away depression) 8-paytm and online banking, swiping card 9-observing ac and other appliance servicing 10-giving father water, tea when he comes home 11-being parents' virtual assistant, reminding things, keeping documents handy 12-watering plants 13-cleaning vehicle in proper way 14-keeping leftover food in fridge in proper utensils in organised manner 15-taking the responsibility of locking doors properly before going to bed
Also 1) to bring in clothes given outside to dry, especially when it rains 2) wipe floor with mop when maid is absent, (my 5 year old son learnt during lockdown) 3) use the microwave 4) keep shoes neatly near the front door. Basically all life skills. Yes. absolutely important.
I am a housewife but I can proudly say that my both children do most of the things (12-13).2 more points l wish to add 1.Ironing own clothes 2.covering own books and copies
My 10 year younger Twin is very active. He can make omlette, sandwich, maggi. He can also make the bed.The elder one is lazy, loves to sit idle , read books and eat 😂🤣
My son and daughter have both been doing all the above mentioned tasks since they were 10-12 yrs old and also in addition have been handling extra responsibility of bank related work as well as buying groceries and vegetables etc. And I really see how it has helped them grow as a well rounded person
1. Bed making 2. Keep your Bathroom Clean. 3. Wash your own clothes in washing machine and by hand. 4. Clean your fan in your room once a week. 5. Keep your cupboard set at least a week. 6. Wash your dishes at least once a week. 7. Learn basic cooking and cutting fruits and vegetables and tea. 8. Teach online banking. 9. Involve the child in home reparing activities. 10. Give water to father and mother when they return home. 11. Make your child as your assistant. 12. Utilise the ability of your child to increase their ability. 13. Make your children water 💦 plants.🌿 . 14. Teach your children to clean your cars . 15. Teach them to put ready their refrigerator. 16. Teach them to lock 🔒 doors are at night 🌃 properly.
Excellent 15 points sir...... Will follow it with my both kids..... One suggestion sir... Add another 2 points.... Taking care of their belongings... Startvwith pen, pencils, books & Spects... Mobile.. Wrist watch and another point.... Switch off the fan.. Lights... !!! This generation know only switch on... And use.... !!!! Make 17 points sir 😅
I am a house wife ..I saw u video and I loved it a Lott...sab Sach Hai life ka aap ne bataya ...ur eye opener .. Mai yeh sab kaam karate hu bachho se .per mere parents muje tok karate hai ..per ab muje laga ke yaar aapne bacho ko independent banane Mai koi problem nahi this their age which will help them in future ..I am feeling so proud ke mere parrvish Galt nahi hai .
1.Make bed early in morning. 2.keep bathroom clean after use. 3 keep dirty clothes in washing machine .. Which will be washed. How to wash. 4 cleaning his room fan 5 setting his own almerha. 6 wash untensil. 7 teach them to cook. Chopping fruit. 8 online payment karana 9 ac cleaning 10 ask for tea or water to family members like father. Greet them. 11 make him assistant . Documentation 12 teach them planting. 13 cleaning car from inside. 14 how arrange left over food in fridge. 15 .teach them to check if house is locked before sleep.
सर सब parents तो ऐसे नहीं है जो बेटियों को रोक टोक करें. लेकिन बेटियों ki safety कैसे करें. कुछ parents तो zamane को देख कर डरते हैं बेटियों की शादी से. 😢 😢😢😢😢 Please बताइए कि life partner का nature कैसे judge करेँ selection के वक़्त. आजकल के parents who are born after 70s 80s ये नहीं सोचते कि बच्चे arranged marriage करें या love, but ye zaroor सोचते हैं कि कैसे एक अच्छे nature का life partner mile. Kai parents बेटियों को घुमाना firaana चाहते हैं पर safety reasons se डरते हैं. Parents नहीं बेटे बेटी में फर्क़ करते , ब्लकि वो तो बहुत प्यार करते हैं बेटियों से पर फिर भी बेटा इसलिए चाहते हैं क्यूंकि उन्हें बेटियों के लिए हमेशा चिंता लगी रहती है. और शादी के बाद अपने जिगर के टुकड़े को किसी और घर में भेजते हुए bahaut डरते हैं. हर parent सिर्फ money नहीं देखता शादी में but specially आजकल जब बेटियां bhi independent होती हैं कमा सकती है तो माँ बाप की zyada चिंता लड़के और उसकी family के यवहार को लेकर होती. इसपर zaroor एक वीडियो बनाएं कि अच्छा लड़का in terms of व्यवहार nature behaviour कैसे select karein. कैसे intution itni बढायें कि धोका ना मिले, गलत behaviour ना मिले, ek शांतिपूर्ण वातावरण मिले बेटी को .
My 1st kid is 10 year old, except financial matters, I trained her in almost all these activities but that was in most when my health was not good. But now , your video gave me confidence that there is nothing wrong but good in making them as our helpers. Thank you sir 🎉
What an amazing video , although many things I have been following but will add the remaining things 1 make your bed 2 clean bathroom 3 know how to wash cloth 4 clean your fan weekly 5 set almirah 6 wash utensils twice monthly 7 learn making dal chawal sabzi roti , cutting skills 8 knowing online banking/electric bill/ card payment 9 all activities/AC service etc observation 10 serve water tea etc when father comes home 11 become a personal assistant/documentation 12 watering plants 13 dusting cleaning vehicle/car 14 know how to organize fridge 15 responsibility to close doors/windows everynight ❤
Sir apki ye video dekh kar mera half dipression kam ho gaya thanks a million for this great Video. In my family have 6 mamber hain magar me akele hi ek ek kaam karti rheti hoon jab mujhe relise hua ki mene sabko sabse bada aalsi bana diya hai koi ek kaam se hath nahi laga hai kuch kaam ko bolo to itne bure chid-chidate h chote chote bacche bhi ki khud ke upr blam daalne wali aadat ho gayi thi ki ye kya kar mene baccho ke sath apki iss video ne mujhe btaya h clear 100 persent clear ki bacche wakai me dipression me hain. Me aaj se abji se koshish krungi baccho ko kaam dene ki. Lakin jab mene realise kiya ki baccha dipression me h mene kafi hadh tk dheere dheere unko kaam dene shuru kr diya taki unhe mhesoos na ho ki me itne kaam kyu de rhi hoon unhe ek dum se.
Ye sare kaam (toilet wala chhod ke) mene apne bachon ko sikha rakha hai aur unse karwati bhi hu . Aaj unko ye video dikhaungi . Thankyou very much . Mera din bana Diya apne 😂. Mere do bete he dono ko ye kaam aate hain .😊😊😊😊😊😊😊koi to mere jesa mila.thankyou Ram ji😊
Maine toh hope chhod di thi shaadi and bachho ki, ki kaise handle karuga wahi tension hoga jaise mere bhai behno ko hai, no happiness only tension, but aapki videos dekh kar samajh mai aa raha hai what is family and to keep it running effectively, Thank you sir ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Uncle ji meri beti 10 saal ki hai Or beta 5 years ka main ye sbhi kaam apni beti se krwati hu or wo krti bhi hai last one year se or beta khud fresh hota hai apna bag rkhna is trh k chhote mote kaam wo bhi krta hai gamle me pani dena apne brtn khud rkh kr aana
I have been doing exactly the same with my kids. First taught my daughter all these things since she is elder and then my son who is now 15yrs. He helps me with most of my chores at home just as you said 'an assistant'. He does most of his work himself starting with making his bed as he wakes up. Then helps me with my chores even when he goes to school or classes. It keeps him busy, helps him learn and I also get to spend quality time with him while we chop vegetables together! Really great video, I am glad people are starting to realize how important this is. ❤
Make sure he is also able to do hard things. The things in which he can fail. Washing, cleaning is OK. One should know but nobody can fail in it. Level him up to face the harsh competition outside where failure & setbacks is inevitable. Don't let him turn softer.Send him outside. Let him deal with the people outside. It should not be his duty to do household chore. I hope you get my point.
@@Demon-th5di I think you r right. My son does all house hold chores helping me in the kitchen n I'm proud of him. But I think for the same reason he is not very confident outside. They need exposure to outside world also. My son is still young n he still has time but u r very much right
I teach my daughters everything.. sabji lekar aao.. cleaning . Chai banana.. tell them ke servent se bhi tabhi kaam Kara paoge jab khud ko pata hoga.. very nice video sir😊
I am 30 year old married man Me apne kare ki roz sfai, mahine me ek bar washing machine clothes dhona, mahine me ek bar khana bnana, toilet saf krna, bed bnana, chai bnana, 7 mhine ka bcha h din me 4 bar poti kre to 3 bar me hi dhota hu ye sab kaam me khud kr leta hu.. meri wife bas mere mata pita ki seva Or kitchen or mere mata pita k k ghar saf sfai khana pina krti h
Loveddddd this video.since the time i moved abroad my kids have become far more independent.otherwise many mothers do everything for their sons and expect the same from their daughter in laws.
I too agree with you, baccho ko kuch nhi krne dete fir frustrate bhi hote h baccho se aur bacche s3 expect bhi krte h ki vo first time me hi sb sahi kre ......they don't let them learn but to expect be pro in Everything .....that is why children feels anxiety.....parent have to understand this thing before 15 is the right age in cultivating good habits in children ..... today's children are mentally not strong they get anxious in small things
I am 18 yrs old and I can proudly say that my mom taught me all of these things since growing up and I must say, everyone should know how to do these works no matter what's the gender. Half of the households fights disappears if everyone knows how to maintain a house 😊🙏
Sir My Father teach me most things you are saying..like Banking...cooking...cleaning...cutting fruits & vegitables...whem i was in college...he his no more with us but i always miss him..and feel thankfull to my father.....Great content sir...now i have a 4years baby girl...but i am watching your video...because you are guiding like a father...thanks a lot sir...
Thank God I trained my both sons like this . Apart from this.. table cleaning after meal putting utensils in their designated place after washing, filling up water bottles Wash their under garments These are life skills. Every child should learn these
Too great sir, my son is 15 yrs old now and I am already telling him all these 15 things from last 2 to 3 yrs. Thank you for confirming me and my family that we are doing right upbringing. I am not only telling them to do everything but also do it myself and explain practically. Thanks again for adding into my confidence.....
My two daughters are able to go for groceries shopping alone, they clean n do dusting everyday sat sunday when the schools are closed, they both handle the kichen after dinner, they make tea sometimes. They do online ticketing whenver required. But yes, I have to teach more other work like bathroom cleaning n all.. thanks for this wonderful videos, it actually gets my attention on the area which was ignored yet
Very good.. fantastic topic👍👍 My husband didn't know any of this as kid of a home maker mother, he is AVP in a bank but I'm teaching him all these things from age 30 till 35 now.. he has started doing few things but complains most of the time.. i wish MIL would have done her job. Even if we have maids some things we all should know, covid has taught us that. Note: I'm a working woman as well earning at par with my husband, no kids so far but I'll make sure I'll teach my kid all mentioned points 😊❤
Some 7-8 years ago I got divorced. Long story - not important here. I had no home skills. I put on audiobooks and started to do gardening, cleaning the house I lived in, cooking. I spent hours learning how to cook from basic to advanced from Rajma + Rice to french onion soup to paneer bhurji. I found novel ways of accomplishing new and basic existing things. Indeed I found it very enjoyable. And when my daughter was born, I learned to *everything* a grandmother does for the baby - when helping out. Now I have all the skills for child rearing, domestic home skills and even repairs and maintenance. I need no one and never feel "mohtaji" - makes me happy to be self sufficient.
Bahut baria, and practical, 5, 6 sal ke bachho ko apne juthe Barton rakhna, chappal, shoe rakhna , 7,8 sal ka gas band karna ,lights band karna, unnecessary fan chal raha band karna,,class routine books rakhna etc
Good thing is my mother made me learn all the things at the mentioned appropriate age. Bad thing is my brother was 12 years elder than me he could perform only 1-2 things out of these and still it's the same. The thing is in India these things are taught to girls from an early age....but not to boys mother overly pamper their boys and the consequences have to be dealt by their wives. I can say this as I am now married and I can see that my husband can't perform these basic tasks. We have a 1.5 year old baby girl and I have to perform all the tasks starting from financially helping in the family, taking care of our baby girl (no house help) and household tasks. But I feel people like Sir are spreading awareness and time are changing and will surely improve as I can see lots of positive comments.
Lovely video..i dont have kids but i wish my brother and i were raised like this ! We grew up as spoilt army kids where sahayak bhaiya took care of everything . A video worth sharing !
Totally agree with you....mai jab chhoti thi ye sab kam mere ghar pe hume karne padte the..Tabhi mujhe kam chor kaha jata tha kyon ki mai karne keliye alas karti thi but aaj maine koi maide nahi rakhi hai aur mujhe koi kam karne me adachn nahi hai. Meri beti bhi isamese kai kaam kar leti hai basic chije bachhon ko aani bahut jaruri hai. Sasural walon ko impress karne keliye nahi khud ki development keliye.
Great vedio sir mera beta 11 years ka hai n 15 me se 11 kaam mai usse karvati hu. Mera point ye tha ki mere husband to kuch help nahi karate lekin mai apne bete ko sab kuch sikhaungi n really mera work load bahut kam ho jata hai n jyada family time milta hai . Thankyou so much sir
Bahut khub 👌👌👌👌bahut hi kam ka vedio banaya aapne 🙏sabhi kam karati hu. 🙏 update apane aap ko karati hu 🙏Every day muje kuch naya sikhne ko molata hai abhi to bahut sikhna hai Thank you so much mai apane children ko sab kam sikhaugi 🙏 aapne Aek nayi disha di 🙏
I’m a housewife and mother of two, love listening to you during my working hours 😊 meanwhile all my cleaning cooking and organising the kitchen and the rest of the house is done Not all housewives hate your content trust me I’m one of those. Thanks 🙏
Sir, ek clarity chahiye thi...aap video bna do toh boht badhiya...When to compromise with ethics and when not to, because happens very often, boht baar toh top management promote karta hai galat kaam...kyunki boht work force ko bura lagta hai while doing the job..both in private and public (specially) sector
Sir, Whatever u have said our parents directly or indirectly taught us and we still do it at our home .... A special thanks for making us understand its moral values in today's fast lifestyle...
I have watched at least 5 videos yet, but I can surely say this kind of valuable content should be shown to every individual. Definitely subscribed. 💯🙏
I make my son do almost all these works from past 3-4 yrs. He's 11 now and I feel so proud seeing him grow that responsible. These small changes bring a major difference in your life at later stages.
This VIDEO has to GET VIRAL . Thanks You Sooo Much SIR for All Your Efforts on This Video , My Son is doing all these Activities right from the 5th Std. we never had maid , both My Children had their own duties managed on their own . Today after Your Video I realized that Why both Our children have so much Respect for US as a Parent . My Son Says Mama You Are The Best , Presently Both Are Out for their Higher Studies . I don't have Any Complain from them regarding their Daily Routine.
I am so happy me n my son do all that ❤ always felt these were very basic life skills for kid to be self sufficient. But ur right because I was working single mother. These all made sense.
Bahot badhiya. My baby is 1 year old i ask him to put his dirty clothes in laundry.... He does it very gladly. He cleans his table after eating although not perfectly but I know he will become confident with this
Sir pichli generation ne ladkiyon ko to exactly aise hi taiyaar kiya....par ladke reh Gaye jo aaj bahut gharon me ladaaiyon ka kaaran hai.....aapne bahut tactically do generation ki problem solve karne ka idea diya..
Very important topic... But it is not easy to teach household work when kids are not ready to learn. Your list of work definitely help to teach small chores.
Sir aap tho humaare woh dosth ho jiske aane se hum gharwaale alert ho jayenge and 100percent good books mei aaneki sochenge.. 😅 I enjoy every vedio of you sir. Thankyou for opening my eyes.
Some 25 to 30 years ago here in Mysore (this custom is followed in many places in sooth India) mother used to keep away from all house hold work during her menstrual period for three days every month. She was not allowed to do cooking, Pooja etc. So in those days it was responsibility father and kids to manage everything. Due to this we learnt to do every household job and go to school college etc. This was a blessing in disguise for women and family also.
True. This was the method by which two advantages at the same time. Mother deserved the rest during her weak days of the month and the work was done and learnt by the teenagers.
Very useful video thanks for choosing these topics these are the actual things couples are not happy new generation is trying to find happiness in useless things because they are in their adolescent not trained for doing useful things which really makes a person happy. Cooking, house keeping, Maintenaning hygiene, Gardening if a person knows these basic things he will never feel low in his life. He will eat healthy low budget fresh chemical free hygienic tasty food, will live in a clean organized house and doing all this with his own hand will give him or her a feeling of accomplishment.
15 Things Summary
1. Make your bed when you wake up
2. Make kids learn how to clean bathroom
3. Teach them washing clothes or the process
4. Once a week make them clean their rooms fan once a week
5. Organise clothes n things in their almirah properly
6. Once in 15 days You n ur kid should wash utensils together
7. Teach them atleast one dish to make...cutting vegetables n fruits ,
teach them to make tea even if they dont drink etc etc teach them these
8. Teach them making online payments paytm google pay etc etc...handling money increase cofidence
9. If someone comes to repair AC fans or anything in house make ur kid stand n watch them doing it...
in this way he will learn basics to do incase problem arises in future
10. Serve ur father or mom water glass n ask them how are you etc etc
11. Make your kid a assistant...
12. Basics of gradening like watering plants
13. Once a week clean your vehicles involving your kids
14. Dinner rule : after eating food make them know where to keep all
things like curd etc etc in correct place in fridge.
15. Make your kids take the responsibility of locking doors at night
Hare krishna have a positive day ahead...
thanks
Thanks 🙏
Thank you so much
Well said..sir
Hare krishna
1- making bed
2-cleaning toilet
3-putting clothes in washing machine
4-cleaning fan once a week
5-setting almirah
6-clean utensils once a fortnight
7-learning making rice, dal, sabzi, and cutting vegetables (doing things with hand keeps away depression)
8-paytm and online banking, swiping card
9-observing ac and other appliance servicing
10-giving father water, tea when he comes home
11-being parents' virtual assistant, reminding things, keeping documents handy
12-watering plants
13-cleaning vehicle in proper way
14-keeping leftover food in fridge in proper utensils in organised manner
15-taking the responsibility of locking doors properly before going to bed
Thank you for noting it down !
Also 1) to bring in clothes given outside to dry, especially when it rains
2) wipe floor with mop when maid is absent, (my 5 year old son learnt during lockdown)
3) use the microwave
4) keep shoes neatly near the front door.
Basically all life skills. Yes. absolutely important.
I am a housewife but I can proudly say that my both children do most of the things (12-13).2 more points l wish to add
1.Ironing own clothes
2.covering own books and copies
Agreed... Even my parents used to give these additional 2 tasks to us..
Good parenting. My mom also gave me some pocket money for doing tasks at home.
13:50 Life change gyan 100000000 like from my side
My 10 year younger Twin is very active. He can make omlette, sandwich, maggi. He can also make the bed.The elder one is lazy, loves to sit idle , read books and eat 😂🤣
नमष्कार,
40 साल उम्र है मेरी, आज ये वीडियो देख papa की याद आ गई जो बचपन मे हमें ये सब करने को कहते थे। वे फौज मे थे।
बहुत अच्छा वीडियो।
धन्यवाद।
My son and daughter have both been doing all the above mentioned tasks since they were 10-12 yrs old and also in addition have been handling extra responsibility of bank related work as well as buying groceries and vegetables etc. And I really see how it has helped them grow as a well rounded person
👏👏
Aapko sammandhi bananeka dil karta hyai.
Navodayans aur military school wale kar lete hain.
So what do we do
@@palashdebnath4382 yep... ;)
I am 18 and I already do all these things thanks to my parents
1. Bed making
2. Keep your Bathroom Clean.
3. Wash your own clothes in washing machine and by hand.
4. Clean your fan in your room once a week.
5. Keep your cupboard set at least a week.
6. Wash your dishes at least once a week.
7. Learn basic cooking and cutting fruits and vegetables and tea.
8. Teach online banking.
9. Involve the child in home reparing activities.
10. Give water to father and mother when they return home.
11. Make your child as your assistant.
12. Utilise the ability of your child to increase their ability.
13. Make your children water 💦 plants.🌿 .
14. Teach your children to clean your cars .
15. Teach them to put ready their refrigerator.
16. Teach them to lock 🔒 doors are at night 🌃 properly.
बहुत बढ़िया...
भारतीय समाज की बहुत बड़ी समस्या है यह..
आपने आईना दिखाने का कार्य कर दिया।
❤❤❤❤
Excellent 15 points sir...... Will follow it with my both kids..... One suggestion sir... Add another 2 points.... Taking care of their belongings... Startvwith pen, pencils, books & Spects... Mobile.. Wrist watch and another point.... Switch off the fan.. Lights... !!! This generation know only switch on... And use.... !!!! Make 17 points sir 😅
I am a house wife ..I saw u video and I loved it a Lott...sab Sach Hai life ka aap ne bataya ...ur eye opener ..
Mai yeh sab kaam karate hu bachho se .per mere parents muje tok karate hai ..per ab muje laga ke yaar aapne bacho ko independent banane Mai koi problem nahi this their age which will help them in future ..I am feeling so proud ke mere parrvish Galt nahi hai .
बच्चों को आध्यात्मिक शिक्षा दो. मन को प्रबल बनाने और मानसिक बीमारियों से बचे रहने में हमारे अध्यात्मिक शास्त्र बहुत उपयोगी हैं.
1.Make bed early in morning.
2.keep bathroom clean after use.
3 keep dirty clothes in washing machine .. Which will be washed. How to wash.
4 cleaning his room fan
5 setting his own almerha.
6 wash untensil.
7 teach them to cook. Chopping fruit.
8 online payment karana
9 ac cleaning
10 ask for tea or water to family members like father. Greet them.
11 make him assistant . Documentation
12 teach them planting.
13 cleaning car from inside.
14 how arrange left over food in fridge.
15 .teach them to check if house is locked before sleep.
सर सब parents तो ऐसे नहीं है जो बेटियों को रोक टोक करें. लेकिन बेटियों ki safety कैसे करें. कुछ parents तो zamane को देख कर डरते हैं बेटियों की शादी से. 😢
😢😢😢😢
Please बताइए कि life partner का nature कैसे judge करेँ selection के वक़्त. आजकल के parents who are born after 70s 80s ये नहीं सोचते कि बच्चे arranged marriage करें या love, but ye zaroor सोचते हैं कि कैसे एक अच्छे nature का life partner mile.
Kai parents बेटियों को घुमाना firaana चाहते हैं पर safety reasons se डरते हैं.
Parents नहीं बेटे बेटी में फर्क़ करते , ब्लकि वो तो बहुत प्यार करते हैं बेटियों से पर फिर भी बेटा इसलिए चाहते हैं क्यूंकि उन्हें बेटियों के लिए हमेशा चिंता लगी रहती है. और शादी के बाद अपने जिगर के टुकड़े को किसी और घर में भेजते हुए bahaut डरते हैं.
हर parent सिर्फ money नहीं देखता शादी में but specially आजकल जब बेटियां bhi independent होती हैं कमा सकती है तो माँ बाप की zyada चिंता लड़के और उसकी family के यवहार को लेकर होती.
इसपर zaroor एक वीडियो बनाएं कि अच्छा लड़का in terms of व्यवहार nature behaviour कैसे select karein. कैसे intution itni बढायें कि धोका ना मिले, गलत behaviour ना मिले, ek शांतिपूर्ण वातावरण मिले बेटी को .
सर आप महान है।। यूनिक एंड ग्रेट कंटेंट।।👍
My 1st kid is 10 year old, except financial matters, I trained her in almost all these activities but that was in most when my health was not good. But now , your video gave me confidence that there is nothing wrong but good in making them as our helpers. Thank you sir 🎉
What an amazing video , although many things I have been following but will add the remaining things
1 make your bed
2 clean bathroom
3 know how to wash cloth
4 clean your fan weekly
5 set almirah
6 wash utensils twice monthly
7 learn making dal chawal sabzi roti , cutting skills
8 knowing online banking/electric bill/ card payment
9 all activities/AC service etc observation
10 serve water tea etc when father comes home
11 become a personal assistant/documentation
12 watering plants
13 dusting cleaning vehicle/car
14 know how to organize fridge
15 responsibility to close doors/windows everynight ❤
Sir apki ye video dekh kar mera half dipression kam ho gaya thanks a million for this great Video. In my family have 6 mamber hain magar me akele hi ek ek kaam karti rheti hoon jab mujhe relise hua ki mene sabko sabse bada aalsi bana diya hai koi ek kaam se hath nahi laga hai kuch kaam ko bolo to itne bure chid-chidate h chote chote bacche bhi ki khud ke upr blam daalne wali aadat ho gayi thi ki ye kya kar mene baccho ke sath apki iss video ne mujhe btaya h clear 100 persent clear ki bacche wakai me dipression me hain. Me aaj se abji se koshish krungi baccho ko kaam dene ki. Lakin jab mene realise kiya ki baccha dipression me h mene kafi hadh tk dheere dheere unko kaam dene shuru kr diya taki unhe mhesoos na ho ki me itne kaam kyu de rhi hoon unhe ek dum se.
Travelling packing essentials can also be added to the list
Ye sare kaam (toilet wala chhod ke) mene apne bachon ko sikha rakha hai aur unse karwati bhi hu . Aaj unko ye video dikhaungi . Thankyou very much . Mera din bana Diya apne 😂. Mere do bete he dono ko ye kaam aate hain .😊😊😊😊😊😊😊koi to mere jesa mila.thankyou Ram ji😊
Maine toh hope chhod di thi shaadi and bachho ki, ki kaise handle karuga wahi tension hoga jaise mere bhai behno ko hai, no happiness only tension, but aapki videos dekh kar samajh mai aa raha hai what is family and to keep it running effectively, Thank you sir ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Kfi km meri mom n mko sikhaya tha prr best meri mom n mko cooking acha s sikhai i use to cook food for all the home on sundaysy
Uncle ji meri beti 10 saal ki hai Or beta 5 years ka main ye sbhi kaam apni beti se krwati hu or wo krti bhi hai last one year se or beta khud fresh hota hai apna bag rkhna is trh k chhote mote kaam wo bhi krta hai gamle me pani dena apne brtn khud rkh kr aana
Awesome as always. 14:28 really very important. Fathers MUST be respected❤🙏
I have been doing exactly the same with my kids. First taught my daughter all these things since she is elder and then my son who is now 15yrs. He helps me with most of my chores at home just as you said 'an assistant'. He does most of his work himself starting with making his bed as he wakes up. Then helps me with my chores even when he goes to school or classes. It keeps him busy, helps him learn and I also get to spend quality time with him while we chop vegetables together! Really great video, I am glad people are starting to realize how important this is. ❤
Make sure he is also able to do hard things. The things in which he can fail. Washing, cleaning is OK. One should know but nobody can fail in it. Level him up to face the harsh competition outside where failure & setbacks is inevitable. Don't let him turn softer.Send him outside. Let him deal with the people outside. It should not be his duty to do household chore. I hope you get my point.
Dost
@@Demon-th5di I think you r right. My son does all house hold chores helping me in the kitchen n I'm proud of him. But I think for the same reason he is not very confident outside. They need exposure to outside world also. My son is still young n he still has time but u r very much right
@@arushbodigum2735Thanks for acknowledging. May God bless you and your family.
I teach my daughters everything.. sabji lekar aao.. cleaning . Chai banana.. tell them ke servent se bhi tabhi kaam Kara paoge jab khud ko pata hoga.. very nice video sir😊
Yes ..ek dam right..me apnea bachoo se ye sabhi Kam karati hu.and I am a home maker
I am 30 year old married man
Me apne kare ki roz sfai, mahine me ek bar washing machine clothes dhona, mahine me ek bar khana bnana, toilet saf krna, bed bnana, chai bnana, 7 mhine ka bcha h din me 4 bar poti kre to 3 bar me hi dhota hu ye sab kaam me khud kr leta hu..
meri wife bas mere mata pita ki seva Or kitchen or mere mata pita k k ghar saf sfai khana pina krti h
or ye sab kuchh meri ma ne hi sikhaya h mummy working thi islie me or mera bhai ye sab kaam krte the
Loveddddd this video.since the time i moved abroad my kids have become far more independent.otherwise many mothers do everything for their sons and expect the same from their daughter in laws.
I too agree with you, baccho ko kuch nhi krne dete fir frustrate bhi hote h baccho se aur bacche s3 expect bhi krte h ki vo first time me hi sb sahi kre ......they don't let them learn but to expect be pro in Everything .....that is why children feels anxiety.....parent have to understand this thing before 15 is the right age in cultivating good habits in children ..... today's children are mentally not strong they get anxious in small things
Agreed and perfect suggestions sir but it gets difficult when husband is not doing atleast a single thing 😢 children tend to easily learn bad habits.
I am 18 yrs old and I can proudly say that my mom taught me all of these things since growing up and I must say, everyone should know how to do these works no matter what's the gender.
Half of the households fights disappears if everyone knows how to maintain a house 😊🙏
Sir My Father teach me most things you are saying..like Banking...cooking...cleaning...cutting fruits & vegitables...whem i was in college...he his no more with us but i always miss him..and feel thankfull to my father.....Great content sir...now i have a 4years baby girl...but i am watching your video...because you are guiding like a father...thanks a lot sir...
Sir very valuable jankari Dey rahey ho aap
Today's parents need to listen to this.👏👏
Gr8 video sir..thanks
My 12 year old son all of these things! He himself wanted to learn how to make tea and dosas! You have made a wonderful list of chores. Great video!👏👏
My son is 12 years old and he does half of the work you mentioned . Nice video I will try to teach him to handle finance as well 👍
Thank God I trained my both sons like this . Apart from this..
table cleaning after meal
putting utensils in their designated place after washing,
filling up water bottles
Wash their under garments
These are life skills. Every child should learn these
Too great sir, my son is 15 yrs old now and I am already telling him all these 15 things from last 2 to 3 yrs. Thank you for confirming me and my family that we are doing right upbringing. I am not only telling them to do everything but also do it myself and explain practically. Thanks again for adding into my confidence.....
My two daughters are able to go for groceries shopping alone, they clean n do dusting everyday sat sunday when the schools are closed, they both handle the kichen after dinner, they make tea sometimes. They do online ticketing whenver required. But yes, I have to teach more other work like bathroom cleaning n all.. thanks for this wonderful videos, it actually gets my attention on the area which was ignored yet
Very good.. fantastic topic👍👍
My husband didn't know any of this as kid of a home maker mother, he is AVP in a bank but I'm teaching him all these things from age 30 till 35 now.. he has started doing few things but complains most of the time.. i wish MIL would have done her job. Even if we have maids some things we all should know, covid has taught us that.
Note: I'm a working woman as well earning at par with my husband, no kids so far but I'll make sure I'll teach my kid all mentioned points 😊❤
Some 7-8 years ago I got divorced. Long story - not important here.
I had no home skills. I put on audiobooks and started to do gardening, cleaning the house I lived in, cooking. I spent hours learning how to cook from basic to advanced from Rajma + Rice to french onion soup to paneer bhurji.
I found novel ways of accomplishing new and basic existing things. Indeed I found it very enjoyable.
And when my daughter was born, I learned to *everything* a grandmother does for the baby - when helping out. Now I have all the skills for child rearing, domestic home skills and even repairs and maintenance. I need no one and never feel "mohtaji" - makes me happy to be self sufficient.
Bahut baria, and practical, 5, 6 sal ke bachho ko apne juthe Barton rakhna, chappal, shoe rakhna , 7,8 sal ka gas band karna ,lights band karna, unnecessary fan chal raha band karna,,class routine books rakhna etc
👌सरजी बोहोत बढिया ऐसा व्हिडीओ हमने पेहेली बार देखा है. बोहोत अच्छी जानकारी है. हम अपने bachho को जरूर सिखायेंगे विडिओ बनाने के लिये दन्यवाद
I am 20s but all ready doing all work 😂😂😀
Good thing is my mother made me learn all the things at the mentioned appropriate age. Bad thing is my brother was 12 years elder than me he could perform only 1-2 things out of these and still it's the same.
The thing is in India these things are taught to girls from an early age....but not to boys mother overly pamper their boys and the consequences have to be dealt by their wives.
I can say this as I am now married and I can see that my husband can't perform these basic tasks. We have a 1.5 year old baby girl and I have to perform all the tasks starting from financially helping in the family, taking care of our baby girl (no house help) and household tasks.
But I feel people like Sir are spreading awareness and time are changing and will surely improve as I can see lots of positive comments.
Lovely video..i dont have kids but i wish my brother and i were raised like this ! We grew up as spoilt army kids where sahayak bhaiya took care of everything . A video worth sharing !
Gazab ke dost hai aap ! God bless you
I am 17 year of age and I don't know why I find you very practical rational and humorous too
Totally agree with you....mai jab chhoti thi ye sab kam mere ghar pe hume karne padte the..Tabhi mujhe kam chor kaha jata tha kyon ki mai karne keliye alas karti thi but aaj maine koi maide nahi rakhi hai aur mujhe koi kam karne me adachn nahi hai.
Meri beti bhi isamese kai kaam kar leti hai basic chije bachhon ko aani bahut jaruri hai. Sasural walon ko impress karne keliye nahi khud ki development keliye.
Sir aap apne knowledge Kuku FM mein add karna chahenge as audiobook?
aapka knowledge poora India ko milega.
Great vedio sir mera beta 11 years ka hai n 15 me se 11 kaam mai usse karvati hu. Mera point ye tha ki mere husband to kuch help nahi karate lekin mai apne bete ko sab kuch sikhaungi n really mera work load bahut kam ho jata hai n jyada family time milta hai . Thankyou so much sir
Beautifully explained Sir 💯
Bahut khub 👌👌👌👌bahut hi kam ka vedio banaya aapne 🙏sabhi kam karati hu. 🙏 update apane aap ko karati hu 🙏Every day muje kuch naya sikhne ko molata hai abhi to bahut sikhna hai Thank you so much mai apane children ko sab kam sikhaugi 🙏 aapne Aek nayi disha di 🙏
Dost...
Shandar video for making a mature personality from starting age..
Thanks sir
Huge respect ! You are literally talking about the core issues . I can compare the old times and now the young generation where it is leading ..
Best videos on parenting....kya kahen ki kitni keemti baat kahi aapne...
Mein te baaten hamesha kehete kehete thak gayi hoon, apne grand children ke context me. Kamaal ke points soche hain aapne.
Dhanyabad shriman ji.aap ka bichar practical and clear hota hai.
I’m a housewife and mother of two, love listening to you during my working hours 😊
meanwhile all my cleaning cooking and organising the kitchen and the rest of the house is done
Not all housewives hate your content trust me I’m one of those.
Thanks 🙏
Aapane bahut acchi baten samjhi mere ko bahut pasand I thank you so much
Sir, ek clarity chahiye thi...aap video bna do toh boht badhiya...When to compromise with ethics and when not to, because happens very often, boht baar toh top management promote karta hai galat kaam...kyunki boht work force ko bura lagta hai while doing the job..both in private and public (specially) sector
Sir,
Whatever u have said our parents directly or indirectly taught us and we still do it at our home ....
A special thanks for making us understand its moral values in today's fast lifestyle...
Thanks sir. Bahut achhi baatein
Batai apne.
Seriously nobody is teaching how to live a life.... All are teaching meditation, coding, finance goal, reals, dance....
Very true
I have watched at least 5 videos yet, but I can surely say this kind of valuable content should be shown to every individual. Definitely subscribed. 💯🙏
I make my son do almost all these works from past 3-4 yrs. He's 11 now and I feel so proud seeing him grow that responsible. These small changes bring a major difference in your life at later stages.
Sir,ur only friend of each n every woman.thank u.
Bahut bahut dhanyavaad gurujii. Aapne jeevan ki seekh de di
This VIDEO has to GET VIRAL . Thanks You Sooo Much SIR for All Your Efforts on This Video , My Son is doing all these Activities right from the 5th Std. we never had maid , both My Children had their own duties managed on their own . Today after Your Video I realized that Why both Our children have so much Respect for US as a Parent . My Son Says Mama You Are The Best , Presently Both Are Out for their Higher Studies .
I don't have Any Complain from them regarding their Daily Routine.
I am so happy me n my son do all that ❤ always felt these were very basic life skills for kid to be self sufficient.
But ur right because I was working single mother. These all made sense.
I’m so proud to tell you that my all three daughters are following all the 15 points. Thank you so much for sharing this video.
मुझे बहुत भाया सर आपका ये vdo.
THNK U AAPKEY YEY TIPS INSAAN KOH SELF DEPENDANT BANAYEYGAA AATMANIBHARTHA SIKAANAA BAHUTH JAROOREE HEY
very realistic things ....these things are a must learn for children....no difference in boy or girl
Very practical tips ... so relatable ..I went through most of these household problems after marriage...
God bless you
Sir you are a true teacher
Bahot badhiya. My baby is 1 year old i ask him to put his dirty clothes in laundry.... He does it very gladly. He cleans his table after eating although not perfectly but I know he will become confident with this
You are absolutely right....our parents used to do this with us.
Meri mammi ne apki video to nhi dekhi thi lekin wo bahut jalim thi mujhe sare kaam sikha gayi aj mai sab kr leti hu khud se
I can Proudly say my mum taught me every thing you say sir... Thank you for sharing parents perspective
Very good sir ji ,
Great bahut acchi baat batayee
Bahut hi sahi video hai sir....
Sir pichli generation ne ladkiyon ko to exactly aise hi taiyaar kiya....par ladke reh Gaye jo aaj bahut gharon me ladaaiyon ka kaaran hai.....aapne bahut tactically do generation ki problem solve karne ka idea diya..
Thank u so much for the information. Inme se kuch chize mein khud nahi kar Pati hun. Par I realize ke sikhna zarur chahiye
Bahut badiya...isme dustbin Bahar rakhna bhi ek kaam hai
Very important topic... But it is not easy to teach household work when kids are not ready to learn. Your list of work definitely help to teach small chores.
Bhot acha sikhaaya 😊😊😊😊👍
Kitni sundar bahut kahi 🙏
Very very relevant advise. I am already practicing this with my son
Eye opening. Plz give more mental health related boosting packages for growing kids and elders as well. Thx Sir :-)
Sir aap tho humaare woh dosth ho jiske aane se hum gharwaale alert ho jayenge and 100percent good books mei aaneki sochenge.. 😅 I enjoy every vedio of you sir. Thankyou for opening my eyes.
Aapki wisdom ko pranam!!
Some 25 to 30 years ago here in Mysore (this custom is followed in many places in sooth India) mother used to keep away from all house hold work during her menstrual period for three days every month.
She was not allowed to do cooking,
Pooja etc. So in those days it was responsibility father and kids to manage everything. Due to this we learnt to do every household job and
go to school college etc. This was a blessing in disguise for women and family also.
True. This was the method by which two advantages at the same time. Mother deserved the rest during her weak days of the month and the work was done and learnt by the teenagers.
So true, Mysore is truly a heaven. Even I have done this and total rest during some festivals.
Very useful video thanks for choosing these topics these are the actual things couples are not happy new generation is trying to find happiness in useless things because they are in their adolescent not trained for doing useful things which really makes a person happy. Cooking, house keeping, Maintenaning hygiene, Gardening if a person knows these basic things he will never feel low in his life. He will eat healthy low budget fresh chemical free hygienic tasty food, will live in a clean organized house and doing all this with his own hand will give him or her a feeling of accomplishment.
बहुत महत्वपूर्ण जानकारियां अति सहज तरीके से जीवन मे उतारना चाहिए
liked it very much and need some more additional activities