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Story Introduction: The story revolves around a hardworking bird (Chidya) and a carefree monkey (Bandar). Chidya diligently builds a nest to prepare for the rainy season, while Bandar enjoys his life without planning for the future. Key Events: Despite Chidya's advice, Bandar neglects building a shelter. When it rains, Chidya stays cozy in her nest while Bandar struggles in the rain. Out of jealousy or frustration, Bandar destroys Chidya’s nest. Moral of the Story: Being proactive and preparing for the future is essential. Offering unsolicited advice often leads to resentment rather than gratitude. People tend to dislike those who highlight their shortcomings, even indirectly. Parallels to Real Life: Relationships often suffer due to jealousy and competitiveness. Advising others, especially without being asked, can lead to misunderstandings or broken relationships. Self-improvement is better achieved silently rather than expecting others to follow your example. Advice for Youth: Focus on self-growth without imposing your values on others. Avoid wasting time giving free advice to those uninterested or incapable of acting on it. Value your time and prioritize tasks that align with your goals. Broader Observations: Modern relationships often lack depth and are influenced by jealousy and superficiality. Success and preparedness require a combination of hard work, wisdom, and resources. Let people learn from their mistakes rather than trying to save them from every setback.
So true! I am 31 years old, staying in Sweden, started my own consultancy, financially disciplined and accumulated a lot of points in credit card and using the points to buy flight tickets and save a lot of money during my trips. I used to tell all my friends how benificial it is to have a credit card and use it wisely. Most of them started seeing me as if I am trying to sell them credit card so that I get referral bonus points. Now I have realised that I should advice to only those who ask for it and genuinely wants to grow in life. 😊
Absolutely spot on . This advice is universally applicable in all aspects of life , which means to not to be judgemental and have good control on what you speak . Tabhi kuchh do/kaho jab koi really needy ho and aur aapke paas mangne aaye .
Was too much into giving free advice but now completely shut my mouth unless meter is down or someone is in desperate need and I have inner calling to help him out.
100 true . Aajkal zamana hi nahi h kisi ko even apne adult bachchon ko bhi koi advice dene ka becoz dusre jealous hote hai aur bachche generation gap ke kaaran khud ko sahi samajhte hai aur humko old fashioned
Yes sahi kaha aapne, apne bachchon ke liye to ek baar unko alert karna hi padta h , chahe wo maane ya nahi Ye to maa- baap hone ka farz h jo nibhana hi padta h under any circumstances
True! Advice is taken by some people as a means of putting them down. Its better to focus on self. Everyone is capable of taking their own responsibility.
I've also learnt the same lesson hard way multiple times in my college life. Hawan karo aur hath jalao. Have stopped giving advice to people who are clearly going in a downward spiral. Have successfully avoid lot of unnecessary kalesh.
You are a very intelligent person. The clarity giver in real sense. Aap complicated cheezon ko bahat achhe se samjhate ho. Koi offend bi na ho and jisse samajhna hai wo samajh jae
"clarity giver no 1 in India" Gurujee pranam गुरुजी कुछ दिनों से देख रहा हूं आप थोड़े नर्वस दिखते हैं,वो चमक नहीं है ।आपकी बाते सारी अच्छी हैं ,सारे मुद्दे भी आपके सही हैं ।आज का चिड़िया और बंदर वाली कहानी में बहुत ज्ञान भरा हुआ है ।गुरुजी मै तो चिड़िया हूं और इसीलिए आज मै odisha के एक छोटे से गांव से आकर बेंगलुरु अपने दोनों बेटों के साथ रहता हूं,इसीलिए मेरे तो चारों तरफ बंदर ही बंदर हैं ।गुरुजी आपने फ्री में ज्ञान नहीं देने की बात कही,लेकिन आप तो फ्री में ज्ञान दे रहे हैं ।excellent observation गुरुजी मै भी बंदरों को ज्ञान देने के चलते सबके अंदर jealousy पैदा करदी ।relationship में बहुत दरारें बढ़ती जा रही हैं । Excellent wisdom. प्रणाम गुरुजी ।
अरे मेरे दोस्त गुरुजी ज्ञान फ्री मैं नहीं देते, गुरुजी यूट्यूब को अपने काम या कंसल्टेंसी के व्यापार को बढ़ाने के लिए मार्केटिंग की तरह प्रयोग करते है। इसे इसे समझो जैसे कोई ब्रांड अपने सामान का बोर्ड लगाकर प्रचार करते है। इससे हम जैसे लोग जो पैसे नहीं दे सकते उनको ज्ञान भी मिल जाता है और गुरुजी की लोकप्रियता भी बढ़ जाती है। इस लोकप्रियता की वजह से गुरुजी को बहुत सारी पैड कंसल्टेशन या परामर्श के लिए लोग संपर्क करते है और गुरुजी इससे आमदनी करते है। इसलिए आपका ये कहना कि गुरुजी खुद फ्री मैं ज्ञान दे रहे है ये गलत है। जैसे कंपनियां अपने सामान का सैंपल फ्री मैं बांटती है ,जनता को ऐसा लगता है उन्हें फ्री मैं मिल गया पर असल में उससे कंपनी की सेल्स बढ़ती है और कई सारे नए ग्राहक जुड़ते है। अगर आप समझ गए होंगे तो लाइक करे।
Surrounded by many bandars.... They are either coming to seek advice or sometimes I offer them freely. M on my way to mind my own business thank you to add a spark.
This is my story. But sometimes when it comes to siblings, you can't stop advising. Because if you do then when the rain starts you will have to give your own shelter and will become a burden on you. So it's better to take the hate and make them do the right thing.
Promise guruji ❤ Thanku so so much Apne mere dimag ka darwaza aur khol dia. I'm surrounded by bandars. I don't want to give advice but whenever bandars seek my support, waste my time... i advice them right things ..later they get angry.
I had realized this but old habits die hard. People resent you when they see you as someone that is higher and is able to give advice. This breeds a lot of unnecessary hatred. Even within the family, it is very disadvantageous to give advice and risk being envied. Will stop completely going forward. I needed this final push i guess
*Shapath 🙏🏻 no free advice* Thank you, I know it already but I am happy ki koi to Mila same mindset ka 👍🏻 ye video dekhne ke baad hume to asa lagta h ki hum to bandaron ke jungle m hi rhtey h bandaron ke bich 360° angle pr bhare pde hai hamare aas pass ase banders 😂🤦🏻♂️🙅🏻♂️
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Very true. 80% times I have stopped giving free advice. Working on remaining 20% circumstances. Self control
True
Same bhai
Very deep message.
Story Introduction:
The story revolves around a hardworking bird (Chidya) and a carefree monkey (Bandar).
Chidya diligently builds a nest to prepare for the rainy season, while Bandar enjoys his life without planning for the future.
Key Events:
Despite Chidya's advice, Bandar neglects building a shelter.
When it rains, Chidya stays cozy in her nest while Bandar struggles in the rain.
Out of jealousy or frustration, Bandar destroys Chidya’s nest.
Moral of the Story:
Being proactive and preparing for the future is essential.
Offering unsolicited advice often leads to resentment rather than gratitude.
People tend to dislike those who highlight their shortcomings, even indirectly.
Parallels to Real Life:
Relationships often suffer due to jealousy and competitiveness.
Advising others, especially without being asked, can lead to misunderstandings or broken relationships.
Self-improvement is better achieved silently rather than expecting others to follow your example.
Advice for Youth:
Focus on self-growth without imposing your values on others.
Avoid wasting time giving free advice to those uninterested or incapable of acting on it.
Value your time and prioritize tasks that align with your goals.
Broader Observations:
Modern relationships often lack depth and are influenced by jealousy and superficiality.
Success and preparedness require a combination of hard work, wisdom, and resources.
Let people learn from their mistakes rather than trying to save them from every setback.
❤❤
Well said bro !
ये राजस्थान की थर्ड क्लास में थी ,चैप्टर -४ बंदर और गया । स्टिल रेमबेम्बर !!
😊 thanks for sharing bro
So true!
I am 31 years old, staying in Sweden, started my own consultancy, financially disciplined and accumulated a lot of points in credit card and using the points to buy flight tickets and save a lot of money during my trips. I used to tell all my friends how benificial it is to have a credit card and use it wisely.
Most of them started seeing me as if I am trying to sell them credit card so that I get referral bonus points. Now I have realised that I should advice to only those who ask for it and genuinely wants to grow in life. 😊
Bhai kaunsa credit card h. Please suggest
Such stories are necessary. Away from politics and trading. Dhanyawaad.
1 m surrounded by many Bandars . Aaj ke baad kisi ko bhi free advice nhi dunga , promise koti koti pranam GURUJI 🙏🏻
Absolutely spot on . This advice is universally applicable in all aspects of life , which means to not to be judgemental and have good control on what you speak . Tabhi kuchh do/kaho jab koi really needy ho and aur aapke paas mangne aaye .
Was too much into giving free advice but now completely shut my mouth unless meter is down or someone is in desperate need and I have inner calling to help him out.
Very nice decision
100 true . Aajkal zamana hi nahi h kisi ko even apne adult bachchon ko bhi koi advice dene ka becoz dusre jealous hote hai aur bachche generation gap ke kaaran khud ko sahi samajhte hai aur humko old fashioned
लेकिन अगर वे मुसीबत में हैं तो माता-पिता उनकी मदद के लिए आएंगे, फिर भी वे सबक नहीं सीखेंगे. भारतीय माता-पिता फंस गए हैं
Yes sahi kaha aapne, apne bachchon ke liye to ek baar unko alert karna hi padta h , chahe wo maane ya nahi
Ye to maa- baap hone ka farz h jo nibhana hi padta h under any circumstances
Arre Bhaiya…yeh video bachhon ke liye bana hai…maa baap ke liye nahi 😂
@@nilinimagupta5311I agree 💯 with guruji
Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaaa Aa Gyaaaa! 🔥🔥💫🔥🔥
True! Advice is taken by some people as a means of putting them down. Its better to focus on self. Everyone is capable of taking their own responsibility.
Thankyou so much.
One of the best videos, I had in watched in 2024.
Thanks Sir...
Excellent advise , we are blessed to have you in our life
Maza aaya. Bahut acha way tha advice ka. Humesha yaad rahegi
❤❤maza aaya❤❤
I've also learnt the same lesson hard way multiple times in my college life. Hawan karo aur hath jalao. Have stopped giving advice to people who are clearly going in a downward spiral. Have successfully avoid lot of unnecessary kalesh.
You are a very intelligent person. The clarity giver in real sense. Aap complicated cheezon ko bahat achhe se samjhate ho. Koi offend bi na ho and jisse samajhna hai wo samajh jae
Excellent advice, woh bhi free. 😊
Perfect advice.
Sir I have stopped giving free advice a long time back. I'm happy that you made this video
Sahi advice 👍🏽.. have burnt my fingers several times 😢
thanks sir. it sounds very real. thanks again.
Very nice advice sir ji
Thank you sir 🙏
"clarity giver no 1 in India"
Gurujee pranam
गुरुजी कुछ दिनों से देख रहा हूं आप थोड़े नर्वस दिखते हैं,वो चमक नहीं है ।आपकी बाते सारी अच्छी हैं ,सारे मुद्दे भी आपके सही हैं ।आज का चिड़िया और बंदर वाली कहानी में बहुत ज्ञान भरा हुआ है ।गुरुजी मै तो चिड़िया हूं और इसीलिए आज मै odisha के एक छोटे से गांव से आकर बेंगलुरु अपने दोनों बेटों के साथ रहता हूं,इसीलिए मेरे तो चारों तरफ बंदर ही बंदर हैं ।गुरुजी आपने फ्री में ज्ञान नहीं देने की बात कही,लेकिन आप तो फ्री में ज्ञान दे रहे हैं ।excellent observation
गुरुजी मै भी बंदरों को ज्ञान देने के चलते सबके अंदर jealousy पैदा करदी ।relationship में बहुत दरारें बढ़ती जा रही हैं ।
Excellent wisdom. प्रणाम गुरुजी ।
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When you are good at something , never do it for free .
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If u r good at some thing never do it for free , that joker life changing dialogue ,, thanks amresh भाई
अरे मेरे दोस्त गुरुजी ज्ञान फ्री मैं नहीं देते, गुरुजी यूट्यूब को अपने काम या कंसल्टेंसी के व्यापार को बढ़ाने के लिए मार्केटिंग की तरह प्रयोग करते है। इसे इसे समझो जैसे कोई ब्रांड अपने सामान का बोर्ड लगाकर प्रचार करते है। इससे हम जैसे लोग जो पैसे नहीं दे सकते उनको ज्ञान भी मिल जाता है और गुरुजी की लोकप्रियता भी बढ़ जाती है। इस लोकप्रियता की वजह से गुरुजी को बहुत सारी पैड कंसल्टेशन या परामर्श के लिए लोग संपर्क करते है और गुरुजी इससे आमदनी करते है। इसलिए आपका ये कहना कि गुरुजी खुद फ्री मैं ज्ञान दे रहे है ये गलत है। जैसे कंपनियां अपने सामान का सैंपल फ्री मैं बांटती है ,जनता को ऐसा लगता है उन्हें फ्री मैं मिल गया पर असल में उससे कंपनी की सेल्स बढ़ती है और कई सारे नए ग्राहक जुड़ते है। अगर आप समझ गए होंगे तो लाइक करे।
Aur aap apna edavardisment kar rhe ho ki aap ne kitna achive kiya
Excellent story and wisdom
Sir ..Always thought provoking
Laajwab, Zabardast................
Guruji bahut achcha video😊👌
Good advice sir, according to new age. True. Thank you sir.
👌👍Wonderfull explanation.
Such a sensible video.
Lots of banders hain life main.
Giving lots of free advise really gives hurts in return.
Your Observations are Real Life and Deep.
Thank you so much 🙏 I am uplifting my self through your learning ❤
Guru ji bilkul free ki advice nahi dugi dusro ko🙏😇😊
Thanl You Sir ji🥰
Surrounded by many bandars.... They are either coming to seek advice or sometimes I offer them freely. M on my way to mind my own business thank you to add a spark.
Much needed short video....Thank You Guruji
Guru ji aaj ke baad mai kisi ko advice nahi dunga. thank you sir. 🙏
Very nicely explanation tu very much
Thanks guruji for clarity
Ek dam thik kaha hai guruji. Same problem mare sath hua hai.
Absolutely excellent advice.
Love you sir❤.
Thank you for realising me often i used to become chidiya due to my nature
Need more content like this... Very interesting and deep👌
Super Sango Saab❤
mazaa a gya sirjee
Bilkul sahi baat boli.
Bahut accha advice he Guruji. Your advice enriches my life and you are a inspiration.
This is my story. But sometimes when it comes to siblings, you can't stop advising. Because if you do then when the rain starts you will have to give your own shelter and will become a burden on you. So it's better to take the hate and make them do the right thing.
right👍
Great Advice 👍
Promise guruji ❤
Thanku so so much
Apne mere dimag ka darwaza aur khol dia.
I'm surrounded by bandars.
I don't want to give advice but whenever bandars seek my support, waste my time... i advice them right things ..later they get angry.
The story is filled with wisdom
Sir, Mazaa aa gya!
You are the person Indian youth seeks
Je Je Bundelkhand
Upcoming new state of India
Thanks Sir 🙏
Guruji best video ever ❤❤❤
I love these type of stories.
Namaste Grujee Love from pak
Maja Aa Gaya GuruJi
Wow.. Kya knowledge hai! 🎉
Nice sir 👍.... Bahut pahile Sunil Minglani sir se suni thi
Amazing Gyan guruji
Very true
Nice observation
Thanks very much 🙏🙏
My nanaji told me long back" Seekh wako dijiye ja ko seekh suhaye, banar ko seekh na dijiye baya ka ghar jaaye. "
Thanks gurujii ❤❤❤❤❤
I'm also surrounded by bandar
Acchi story sir,
Acchi story
Me bhi bahut advise deta tha
Ab nahi dunga
Sir ji , i was that chidiya for all of my college life .
I had realized this but old habits die hard. People resent you when they see you as someone that is higher and is able to give advice. This breeds a lot of unnecessary hatred. Even within the family, it is very disadvantageous to give advice and risk being envied. Will stop completely going forward. I needed this final push i guess
Agreed 100%
Well said sir😊
Promise guruji 🙏
Bilkul free m advise nhi dege
# treat your time like money ❤
Awesome :) No advise onwards.
Yes, Guruji you are right. I am promising myself.
Win in silence...tx mate
Excellent ❤
Maja aa gaya guruji, i love this type of videos. Please avoid your view on politics that is not in good spirit.
Thanks sir
Very relevant
Beautiful video....
please make video on Performance-Based Salary Hikes in government sector..eagerly waiting for your insights on this
Excellent Sir ❤
When I was in college, all my friends are bandars and I was also bandars, but now I don't any advice to them. Hope I will also become chidiya one day.
Bilkul sahi sir
वाह चाचा
ThankChuu Uncle 🙂🙂
Jai Ho Guruji
Perfect sir ji👍👍
Promise sir...
Maj guruji
Good One Sir Ji
Promise Sir
Opened my eyes
Sir what to do if the man is sparrow and the monkey is his wife? Ignore kaise hoga is situation me?
I like it.
Thanks
Thanks sir…
No free advice from now on 🙏
*Shapath 🙏🏻 no free advice* Thank you, I know it already but I am happy ki koi to Mila same mindset ka 👍🏻 ye video dekhne ke baad hume to asa lagta h ki hum to bandaron ke jungle m hi rhtey h bandaron ke bich 360° angle pr bhare pde hai hamare aas pass ase banders 😂🤦🏻♂️🙅🏻♂️