Dear Rabbi, as per Jewish religion, if there is no Hell/Heaven or punishment, then why do good or bad? Also since there is no concept of after life in Judaism, do you believe Hitler gets "no" punishment from God?
I'm a widow now. However I totally agree with you Rabbi. It only takes one person to change things. God is a husband to the widow. I couldn't live without God
Ive been waiting for my wife to get out of prison for nearly 5 years. Its been very hard but now its only 4 months till she gets out and it feels very surreal. Pray for me and her please!
You're Godsent giving these teachings without asking for anything in return. You share beautiful messages... respect from Botswana❤you changed my perspective of marriage. You've erased my fear of marriage. Now I think I'm ready to embark in a relationship❤
That was an awesome message. You must understand what a lot of men do. Both my husband and my father, when I ask them for something. I’d like a candle or a book for an example, I end up with ten. I don’t need ten candles or books. I just need one. It’s not that I’m ungrateful. But in America we have a problem with hoarding things we don’t need. I never understood why men do this. Maybe women too but I noticed it’s mostly a man thing. Thank you. 😊
Idk. Men and woman just hoard differently. I've never seen a man with thirty pounds of make ups and lotions in the bathroom. Just as I've never seen a lady with a stack of tarps when I need one. Is what it is. Humans are made to store for the future. If we didn't we wouldn't be any better off than chimps
@@bobbyrayvictory6905 Men hoard things that are practical. So that’s at least a good thing. Women feel the need to “keep up with the Jones” on beauty and fashion. Not all women but that’s what people are being taught in America.
For some hoarding comes from extreme deprivation, i.e., from the Depression era, poverty, etc. Maybe you could have compassion and understanding instead of criticism of America. That's also how we bri.g light into this world to bring Moshiach sooner. In America, our "wrinkles" show more than in other countries that hide theirs.
@@nomorecensoringme I think you need to learn to balance compassion with enabling someone with a mental illness. Would you show the same compassion for a drug addiction? How about a cheating spouse? Now in our society if we tell someone that they need to lose weight we are body shaming. Real compassion is letting someone know that they have a problem.
Good Rabbi, you are appreciated, loved, honored, and so needed in this world. Thank you. I don't have a marriage to improve, but this teaching works in any relationships.
The Lord gives me strength, it’s because of him I have persevered. I have two beautiful boys both are autistic. My husband passed away years ago. I’m all alone. I lost my job over declining the vaccine. LIKE MANY OTHERS! I declined due to my pre existing health conditions lupus and heart disease. I’ve been struggling to provide for myself and my children since losing my job from Forsyth hospital. I’m now waitressing, and I’m thankful, but I’m not making nearly enough to get by. Groceries are super expensive. Every month is a battle to not end up on the streets with my two children. I’m constantly in fear of losing my home. To even think about being on the streets with two young children is terrifying. But even as I face homelessness seemingly every month. I have faith, God will provide. With GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE! Faith over fear.
The opposite of faith is not fear…the opposite of faith is certainty…be forever open to unfolding understanding. Don’t assume you know God’s will…let it speak to you in nature and in time.
Your 4th point was very interesting, it's something I have arrived at in relatively recent times via a combination of trial and error and critical reflection.
I don't mean to be irreverent but how did you get so wise????? You can deal with any life issue that I have had to face so easily. And thanks for the marriage advice. Again very timely!!!!
So much Knowledge in one video! I already read two of your books, and now I’m working on your last book. My marriage (and live in general) improved so much! Thanks from Brazil.
I understand exactly what the rabbi is saying, and I can definitely improve on the where. I wonder if I could have possibly understood 50 years ago early in my marriage. Looking back, I can say I understood so little then!!
Thank you Rabbi Friedman. Simple tips, immediately doable. And doing these actions, may unlock a person a bit from defensive, and self justifying behavior that creates more self-preoccupation, and blocks in the marriage.
Thank you Mr. Friedman! I have learned so much of God's word that has changed me for the better! That part about Man created from Dust! WoW! That explains so many things! Thanks again!
How does initiating help in an area your spouse refuses to respond to? Especially for many years? What is some advice on motivating a spouse to discuss what they might be reluctant to?
Sometimes my wife’s yells at me from the other room. I respond in a normal tone. She then comes in and says, why didn’t you answer me. I say, I did, I just didn’t yell. Not sure if it fixed it but it seems to be the right thing to do. 🤷♂️
I believe you are a kind husband,. Most of the time, men don,t listen, they assumn they do and then force their opinions and plans,.they just take all the space,,. and when you dont agree, they start to blame, and arque,.or to judge,.and to give un-asked advize,. and to demand,. It is sad, is not so, that men and women relate so badly,...it are always the males who refuse to humble,. and to do her right,.It is a mystery to me, that women still tolerate so much from men,.
i know he is a Jew. but james is known as the most jewish book in the new testament. at 437 he says dont have any other goals for the marrige. james 3 12 But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not make any false claims for yourself. or try to coverup the truth with lies. He really says a mouthful with that little line
In that day the bells of the horses shall be engraved with the words "Holy to the Lord". And the pots in the Lord's house shall be like the bowls before the altar. Zechariah 14.20 Not to think of the Marriage of the lamb! 🍷🎃
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Love your teaching, but see Jews hating Jews all over TH-cam so Rabbi what does be a light to the nation mean?
Dear Rabbi, as per Jewish religion, if there is no Hell/Heaven or punishment, then why do good or bad?
Also since there is no concept of after life in Judaism, do you believe Hitler gets "no" punishment from God?
Thank you for this video. 😊 I live in Motzkin Israel. Sunday night at what hour and what website is the VIP.
I am interested in whatever time slot I am able to see the VIP live conversation that is compatible with Israel day time.
I'm a widow now. However I totally agree with you Rabbi. It only takes one person to change things. God is a husband to the widow. I couldn't live without God
It's always good to have dinner with God. Even his firstborn son tastes tasty. God is a good listener. 🍷😁
Ive been waiting for my wife to get out of prison for nearly 5 years. Its been very hard but now its only 4 months till she gets out and it feels very surreal. Pray for me and her please!
Hey, just wanted to check in. Is your wife out of prison now? How are things with the both of you?
From a Muslim.."Total Respect"..Rabbi. Great advice
That was beautiful and simply put. Thank you! I’m not Jewish but appreciate the way you explain things from the Bible.. blessings to you Rabbi
This guy is amazing. There are so many relationship gurus on youtube, but he says stuff noone else is saying.
Rabbi brother, I am a christian.But I love you.
You're Godsent giving these teachings without asking for anything in return. You share beautiful messages... respect from Botswana❤you changed my perspective of marriage. You've erased my fear of marriage. Now I think I'm ready to embark in a relationship❤
Rabbi Friedman has a gift of imparting knowledge in such an easy way to understand. And such a calming tone. Thank you
That was an awesome message. You must understand what a lot of men do. Both my husband and my father, when I ask them for something. I’d like a candle or a book for an example, I end up with ten. I don’t need ten candles or books. I just need one. It’s not that I’m ungrateful. But in America we have a problem with hoarding things we don’t need. I never understood why men do this. Maybe women too but I noticed it’s mostly a man thing. Thank you. 😊
Idk. Men and woman just hoard differently. I've never seen a man with thirty pounds of make ups and lotions in the bathroom. Just as I've never seen a lady with a stack of tarps when I need one. Is what it is. Humans are made to store for the future. If we didn't we wouldn't be any better off than chimps
@@bobbyrayvictory6905
Men hoard things that are practical. So that’s at least a good thing. Women feel the need to “keep up with the Jones” on beauty and fashion. Not all women but that’s what people are being taught in America.
For some hoarding comes from extreme deprivation, i.e., from the Depression era, poverty, etc. Maybe you could have compassion and understanding instead of criticism of America. That's also how we bri.g light into this world to bring Moshiach sooner. In America, our "wrinkles" show more than in other countries that hide theirs.
@@nomorecensoringme
I think you need to learn to balance compassion with enabling someone with a mental illness. Would you show the same compassion for a drug addiction? How about a cheating spouse? Now in our society if we tell someone that they need to lose weight we are body shaming. Real compassion is letting someone know that they have a problem.
Good Rabbi, you are appreciated, loved, honored, and so needed in this world. Thank you.
I don't have a marriage to improve, but this teaching works in any relationships.
The Lord gives me strength, it’s because of him I have persevered. I have two beautiful boys both are autistic. My husband passed away years ago. I’m all alone. I lost my job over declining the vaccine. LIKE MANY OTHERS! I declined due to my pre existing health conditions lupus and heart disease. I’ve been struggling to provide for myself and my children since losing my job from Forsyth hospital. I’m now waitressing, and I’m thankful, but I’m not making nearly enough to get by. Groceries are super expensive. Every month is a battle to not end up on the streets with my two children. I’m constantly in fear of losing my home. To even think about being on the streets with two young children is terrifying. But even as I face homelessness seemingly every month. I have faith, God will provide. With GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE! Faith over fear.
May God send everything you need today and always. He is a husband to the widow
@@bobobobfellerann4765 amen
The opposite of faith is not fear…the opposite of faith is certainty…be forever open to unfolding understanding. Don’t assume you know God’s will…let it speak to you in nature and in time.
In the Torah, the same word is used for woman and wife - Isha. Please clarify in this context.
May God's Mercy be upon you and your children....
May you find Joy, amidst sorrow,
May Grace, Peace, Love, hope fill your heart, now and for ever...🙏
Great teaching! Rabbi, I really appreciate the sincerity of purpose you express when dealing with subjects. Shalom!
Thank you Rabbi, I am going to ask my husband to watch this, as we can both learn from it.
Your 4th point was very interesting, it's something I have arrived at in relatively recent times via a combination of trial and error and critical reflection.
Thanks for the comment, Dan. And yes, sometimes trial and error along with critical reflection is the best way to learn!
Thanks for this teaching,. Need this in Spanish for the latin community .
Like the explanation between men/women and husband/wife. Changes the perspective. Thanks, Rabbi!
I really appreciated the concept of 'not doing more' which applies to women as well as men. I've really taken that one to improve relationships.
I don't mean to be irreverent but how did you get so wise????? You can deal with any life issue that I have had to face so easily. And thanks for the marriage advice. Again very timely!!!!
The best video on this topic. That was amazing
I pray that people out there are taking notes both men and women.🙏
Thank you rabbi for helping men and women around the world may you continue to enlighten us all B"H.
Thank you for your wisdom Rabbi. Much appreciated
So much Knowledge in one video! I already read two of your books, and now I’m working on your last book. My marriage (and live in general) improved so much! Thanks from Brazil.
Thank you
I understand exactly what the rabbi is saying, and I can definitely improve on the where. I wonder if I could have possibly understood 50 years ago early in my marriage. Looking back, I can say I understood so little then!!
Thank you for your teaching!
Thank you Rabbi for the wisdom.
Thank you 😊 Rabbi Manis Friedman greetings from Bulgaria 🇧🇬. You are magnificent 😀 🕎🔯☦✝️🫂🙏
Strong and Blessed
What a great message wow
Good Morning Rabbi Friedman. I am a member of Chabad Aventura-Miami Florida and I would like to reach out to you personally.
Thank you Rabbi Friedman. Simple tips, immediately doable. And doing these actions, may unlock a person a bit from defensive, and self justifying behavior that creates more self-preoccupation, and blocks in the marriage.
Thank you Rabbi
hello from Indonesia
Thank you Mr. Friedman! I have learned so much of God's word that has changed me for the better! That part about Man created from Dust! WoW! That explains so many things! Thanks again!
Thanks Rabbi .....very beneficial
Thank you. Such a simple and good teaching. I see areas where I can improve and make my marriage better.
""Shalom Sabbath" !! Rabbi Friedman. . "Thank you for your words of wisdom"❣️. 🙏🙏❣️
Thank you rabbi
Thank you, Rabbi. I wish o heard more of this sort of thing as I was growing up.
That was amazing.
Thank you for all God words you give me sis Margie
Exact' Thank u sir' so informative, making every marriage to dwell in d now, so grateful...
It's not what you say. It's how you say it!
I can’t thank you enough for your content. Amazing teaching Rabbi🙏
Inspiring. I want to hear more on the subject.
How does initiating help in an area your spouse refuses to respond to? Especially for many years? What is some advice on motivating a spouse to discuss what they might be reluctant to?
Sometimes my wife’s yells at me from the other room. I respond in a normal tone. She then comes in and says, why didn’t you answer me. I say, I did, I just didn’t yell.
Not sure if it fixed it but it seems to be the right thing to do. 🤷♂️
I do the exact same thing.
Wonderful advice- Thank you, Rabbi Friedman. Seems appropriate for many types of relationships--yes?
I believe you are a kind husband,. Most of the time, men don,t listen, they assumn they do and then force their opinions and plans,.they just take all the space,,. and when you dont agree, they start to blame, and arque,.or to judge,.and to give un-asked advize,. and to demand,. It is sad, is not so, that men and women relate so badly,...it are always the males who refuse to humble,. and to do her right,.It is a mystery to me, that women still tolerate so much from men,.
God gave men the women only for counter-speech, so that the man may train as well his spiritual nature beside sex and soccer. God is intellectual.
I agree!
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Fabulous!
Very rightly said 👍
Thanks!
Wisdom ❤
Keepstrong 👉❤️👈
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i know he is a Jew. but james is known as the most jewish book in the new testament. at 437 he says dont have any other goals for the marrige. james 3 12 But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not make any false claims for yourself. or try to coverup the truth with lies. He really says a mouthful with that little line
How do you repair a stubborn and emotional husband after 45 years. He simply doesn’t try
True 8thv
No. After the third STD.
When my wife asks me for $50., and I give her $60., she seems pretty happy about it.
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🌞🙂!!
In that day the bells of the horses shall be engraved with the words "Holy to the Lord". And the pots in the Lord's house shall be like the bowls before the altar. Zechariah 14.20
Not to think of the Marriage of the lamb! 🍷🎃
Great subject, very bad stage. Correct staging is as important.
I AM HABITUAL EAT A KILOGRAM OF SWEET BLACK GRAPES IN FEW MINUTES; NORMAL TO ME SEASONAL
Don't get married. Problem solved.
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Thank you