I am Christian .I also have values ,but I have found your message very,very special! The way you talk,the way you LOVE each other is an example for all the world👍🌏! Thank you very much for sharing! May God bless you very much🙏🙏!!!
Although very familiar with Jewish culture, I didn’t know that observant Jewish folks didn’t shake hands. Few years ago I met an observant Jewish person and extended my hand to shake his. When told that he wouldn’t touch my hand and to not get offended, I smiled and said that I understood because in my culture we greet each other with a “namaste” 🙏🏼. I saw him again a few months later and he called out to me saying “Namaste 🙏🏼.” I thought it was so wonderful, thoughtful and respectful!
I love this. My husband and I made the commitment many years ago and we had many problems during our marriage and had to rebuild the marriage many times. We had to fall in love many times. People don’t stay the same and find new parts of each other that we loved. Love is something that happens and you have to grow life a life plant.
Salam, 🙏🏻 Rabbi Dovid and Chana Vigler, you are absolutely Right in your interpretation of Relationship, Marriage, Orthodoxy & Observance 👍🏻👍🏻🌹and I am so Happy that it is so close to the teachings of Holy Quran/Holy Bible/Holy Torah 👍🏻which binds us so tightly close,& rightly close by the Prophet Abraham's Religions 🙏🏻God Bless Humanity across the Globe 🌎 Amen 🌹 Sohail Karachi Pakistan ❤️
I’m so happy to have heard both of you!! You are a beautiful couple, with a beautiful family and synagogue. I’m so grateful to be a part of your congregation! Arlene Parkin
that was incredible, thank you Rabbi & Rebbetzin for your Gd given wisdom, and open hearts with sharing golden nuggets with the world. May Hashem bless you and your family ad 120 and see you soon BH in Israel.
Now the whole world will see the beauty, the holiness, and intelligence of our incredible Rabbi and Rebbetzin. Through their examples, their teamwork, and their leadership, our Shul overflows with love, guidance, caring, learning, worship, compassion, holiness, kindness, and acceptance. Fantastic video. My sincere thanks and appreciation to you both.
I love this so much. You both speak so well. I am a cradle Catholic and though I have never question faith I have struggled with Catholicism. I love to hear your passion and a commitment
Thank you Rabbi and Rebetzin for your wisdom. A question I would pose is, doesn't a hug or peck on the cheek of a friend show that you value them and their friendship above just another person you may know? Isn't it just a sign of affection for a dear friend without it becoming sexualized?
I don’t want some strange person touching me, of either gender. Couples that are smooching and pawing each other in public, it is rude and dishonors themselves. Some animals do it in public without shame, but other animals first perform elaborate courting rituals that set aside the act as special from the other acts of instinct.
I agree with wath you say if you are holy in your mind you will be pure in all your actions and toughts .I say to G-- change my heart to be like your's so i may be pleasing in your sight. Love you
First time i hear Marriage word in Hebrew is the same as Holly, wow! I am born again Christian and I agree to what you are saying about marriage, that is what I believe. God Bless You 🙏
Very very good to underline that we are all keeping the Torah, since the word orthodox is a word given from someone outside the observant Jews. We are orthopratic. I like to do what it is said : Not take a observant Jewish womans hand. She belongs to her husband not to me at all. Very good information and teaching. keep up the very good work, Folke from Sweden.
All men should have a mind and sense of humanity that this rabbi has. Is no wonder that she is in love with him. I fell in love with him as well. God bless them both. Yes, the world would be different and for the better.
The thing that we tend to forget that there's so much in common when it comes to religions....as a Muslim we commanded to believe in all religions and all prophets without distinguishing them from each other " as long as it's practiced peacefully and respectfully".....and I found so much sense in what they spoke about in terms of the scarcity of the marriage and the sexual boundaries....all the respect 🙏
Love your view on observance differences vs orthodoxy. We are all different and go through a growing process. But every category always tries to separate us. We are such a small group. Don’t need more division.
My strange question is why does a woman where a wig after marriage? You should be able to show your own beautiful hair. Why have a wig to hide your natural beauty. Not to mention expensive, etc.
When making more of these videos, can you have a voice over for the questions please? It makes them more accessible for people who are blind or visually impaired. I was unable to read the questions.
Excellent as always from Rabbi and Rebbetzin Vigler . Very insightful as we have come to expect and have experienced as relatively new congregants. Shana Tova... Michael and Brigitte B.
Hello love this video, I’m Christian & I feel really uncomfortable hugging & kissing friends I’ve never really liked it when people invaded my space. I totally understand your commitment just to your family. Since coming out of covid for me it has now put a stop to this, I missed hugging our grandsons & our daughter so to keep them safe I no longer allow people into my space. God bless you both & keep you safe 🙏🏻🙏🏻
It's fascinating listening to them, because they really believe in what they say and they look very happy. But I also know that my life was very different and there are many different ways to be happy in marriage: I 've been happily married for 21 years and neither of us believe in God or verginity before marriage. And taking away physical contact with other human beings from me would be like killing me, even though I have never thought for one second that I could betray my husband. But hugging my friends of both genders in times of distress isn't certainly a sexual act, but simply an act of kindness.
The way it's supposed to be in your opinion, couldn't be further from what I think marriage is about, we're very equal in mine,I'm not treated just a baby carrier or just as mother,I'm treated as a woman where my opinions and wants are respected.
Right away, when you mention the shaking of hands and making physical contact. It does say a lot about loyalty. I am not a jew but I am a christian. There are some men that I know who will not hug another woman unless his wife is around. Its out of respect and loyalty because if his wife isn't around to see it. It can be disrespectful. So I do see where your religion comes from to a degree with that. I know that I wouldn't want my husband to go hugging every woman he saw or was friends with. I didn't see it with my dad unless it was a very close friend of both my parents who had equal respect for their spouse. Intimacy before marriage ruins a lot for after you marry. Often times, those couples dont stay together. It shows you dont have self respect.
I don't entirely share the same opinion as you, that marriage comes first and then love; but what I do agree with is that love most certainly grows daily in marriage .. and that intimacy is more special - deeper, and overall incredible - in marriage. I believe intimacy outside of marriage cannot compare to intimacy within marriage. Another thing .. non-Jewish people just don't go around kissing and hugging every woman or man that we see, as your absolutely beautiful wife suggested. We do hug and/or kiss those we love and care about, of course .. but there are certainly lines drawn, for most people, as to whom gets shown our affection in that way. In marriage, loyalty is paramount, and our affection toward our spouse should be held in the most high regard than toward any other relationship or person. There is absolutely no wiggle-room whatsoever where that is concerned.
I love you guys thank you so much my neighbor has been trying to get me to go to your Shull for a few years now I moved from Jupiter to Stuart but I have to tell you I'm going to show up probably on sukkot. I need to meet you. very inspirationl and many things you said were things that I needed to hear it is as if God just answered my prayers this week
In fact, Judaism and Korean’s 5,000 years of tradition are very similar in laws and regulation especially in marriage. Approximately 1930, less than 100 years ago, my loving and caring parents get married when they’re both in 18 years old and they had 78 years of prosperous and happy marriage life together, but most Korean had to get married first in their teenage years approx.15-18 years old “in an arranged marriage”, then they met in the first night of wedding ceremony for the first time, then possibly intimate physically later on. Unfortunately, those days most marriages were a miserable york for women to serve and sacrifices for husband and his family suffered in slavery. Therefore, there’s big difference between Judaism which respect and cherish women as a wife and mother, but not in Korean marriage. I suffered without voice my entire life and will never go back those painful days.🤷♀️😭😭😭
I’m a Christian but after 12 years working in the Middle East, not touching the opposite sex (other than husband &family) is a big part of my values. There is nothing bizzare about this.
I love what they have to say! And the end is the best part. Rabbi, leave ur wife alone 😂!! And she said what she has to say in a subtle loving way!! Anyone can imagine that! Very sweet and very spiritual and very deep!
These guys have a great thing , this thing is the thing that everybody who is a human and not completely bent will understand and therefore the laws of jews will be understood and the same people , at least the sane people , will get it . And that is a good thing my friends .
@@myJLI The contrast of how man and woman explain this thing is very intriguing , surely there is wisdom even by the example of the thing that you are on topic about , man / woman , in marriage and contrast in explaining the thing , two styles that become one ... Thank you for doing these videos , it is a service that deserves thanks .
Thank you for this video. After 28 years years (I'm 38) I decided to convert. I've wanted to since I was 10. I'm worried that I chose the wrong "type", if you will (reform). I'm very conservative and I like following the rules for G-d, but no one really even shows up to Shabbat! Am I being stupid? Or did I not do enough research first? Every time I research a question it's like taking one step forward and twit steps back; I wind up with more things I want to know than I began with!
Sounds like a real journey! Judaism strongly believes in asking questions and Jewish texts are full of debate. We hope our videos will help you find more answers.
As an Azerbaijani Muslim, I would like to say that you guys are today the subject of my prayers, may God bless you both! 👍
Thanks!
I am Christian .I also have values ,but I have found your message very,very special!
The way you talk,the way you LOVE each other is an example for all the world👍🌏!
Thank you very much for sharing!
May God bless you very much🙏🙏!!!
🙏🙏
Although very familiar with Jewish culture, I didn’t know that observant Jewish folks didn’t shake hands. Few years ago I met an observant Jewish person and extended my hand to shake his. When told that he wouldn’t touch my hand and to not get offended, I smiled and said that I understood because in my culture we greet each other with a “namaste” 🙏🏼. I saw him again a few months later and he called out to me saying “Namaste 🙏🏼.” I thought it was so wonderful, thoughtful and respectful!
Wow, that's a really special story. Thanks for sharing!
I love this. My husband and I made the commitment many years ago and we had many problems during our marriage and had to rebuild the marriage many times. We had to fall in love many times. People don’t stay the same and find new parts of each other that we loved. Love is something that happens and you have to grow life a life plant.
Powerful. Thanks for sharing!
I would have loved to have grown up like this ☝🏼 God bless you
really enjoyed this one. thank you for your efforts!
Happy to hear that!
So very well sad
Beautiful and Godly perspective on intimacy and marriage. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻💜✝️✡️
Our pleasure!
Wow this video is just beautiful
Deep
Why did Jacob not love Leah, but loved Rachel instead, even though Leah's dad gave her to him for his bride??
I am not Jewish however what this couple says is so true. I enjoyed their talk so much. Thank you.
You are so welcome! These kind of insights are universal!
Okay...let's talk about how he looks at her when she's speaking 😅😅 That's amazing.
😊😊
@Michael Acquah…and the way she looks at him too.
And she likewise. 😊
And vise versa ❤
Salam, 🙏🏻 Rabbi Dovid and Chana Vigler, you are absolutely Right in your interpretation of Relationship, Marriage, Orthodoxy & Observance 👍🏻👍🏻🌹and I am so Happy that it is so close to the teachings of Holy Quran/Holy Bible/Holy Torah 👍🏻which binds us so tightly close,& rightly close by the Prophet Abraham's Religions 🙏🏻God Bless Humanity across the Globe 🌎 Amen 🌹 Sohail Karachi Pakistan ❤️
Hello 👋👋
Thank you for sharing these words!
I’m so happy to have heard both of you!! You are a beautiful couple, with a beautiful family and synagogue. I’m so grateful to be a part of your congregation! Arlene Parkin
They really are! Glad you enjoyed
This couple gave me so much to meditate on.
That's great to hear!
that was incredible, thank you Rabbi & Rebbetzin for your Gd given wisdom, and open hearts with sharing golden nuggets with the world. May Hashem bless you and your family ad 120 and see you soon BH in Israel.
Amen! Thank you!
I love how they look at each other. Not all googly-eyed, but full of respect.
😊😊😊
Now the whole world will see the beauty, the holiness, and intelligence of our incredible Rabbi and Rebbetzin. Through their examples, their teamwork, and their leadership, our Shul overflows with love, guidance, caring, learning, worship, compassion, holiness, kindness, and acceptance. Fantastic video.
My sincere thanks and appreciation to you both.
😊
You are very lucky to have such a Rabbi and Rebbetzin
Stunning I'm Christian and this is such stunning advice and a wonderful couple
This is so wonderful. I want to b in a relationship like this so much😅
I want the same Pam 🤗
Me too
In-DEED ♥️🔥🎶
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I love this so much. You both speak so well. I am a cradle Catholic and though I have never question faith I have struggled with Catholicism. I love to hear your passion and a commitment
So happy to hear! Glad you enjoyed, and thanks for watching!
This dude has a serious way with words. well done.
Thank you!
I agree with everything you said regarding marriage! Thank you for this wonderfully informative discussion!
You are welcome :)
Feeling great sympathy for this couple. Wise rules and life advice.
💯💯
Love the way they look at each other. The trust.
Trust is so important!
intimacy and sex is not seen as impure and is not taught as bad like in other religions. it is sacred and holy
Exactly!
Curious to know which other religion you are referring to. As most I know speak of the same thing.
Thank you Rabbi and Rebetzin for your wisdom. A question I would pose is, doesn't a hug or peck on the cheek of a friend show that you value them and their friendship above just another person you may know? Isn't it just a sign of affection for a dear friend without it becoming sexualized?
That's a great question! Perhaps this will shed some more light on the topic th-cam.com/video/VinuyZb-ES8/w-d-xo.html
I don’t want some strange person touching me, of either gender. Couples that are smooching and pawing each other in public, it is rude and dishonors themselves. Some animals do it in public without shame, but other animals first perform elaborate courting rituals that set aside the act as special from the other acts of instinct.
Thanks for this! Please gibe more Jewish relationship advice!
Will do! Stay tuned!
Very nice! Thank you Viglers
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G-d's involvement is vital
I love you guys, thank you for the purity, honesty, beautiful and Godly advice and words. God bless you both 🤗🙏🏻
Same to you!
I agree with wath you say if you are holy in your mind you will be pure in all your actions and toughts .I say to G-- change my heart to be like your's so i may be pleasing in your sight. Love you
What a great example! Love love !
Agreed!
I like when she said that if you found love once you can find it again in that same person.
Powerful point indeed.
As a Catholic I share the same views. Bless you both
Thank you so much!
Beautiful. It made me thoughtful.
That's great to hear, thank you for sharing!
First time i hear Marriage word in Hebrew is the same as Holly, wow! I am born again Christian and I agree to what you are saying about marriage, that is what I believe. God Bless You 🙏
G-d bless you too!
Agreed !!
Holy, sacred, set apart!💐♥️ 🔥
I'm not a Jew, but this perspective on marriage, 10 on 10.
Very very good to underline that we are all keeping the Torah, since the word orthodox is a word given from someone outside the observant Jews. We are orthopratic. I like to do what it is said : Not take a observant Jewish womans hand. She belongs to her husband not to me at all. Very good information and teaching. keep up the very good work, Folke from Sweden.
What a beautiful couple ❤, well done
You are so kind
All men should have a mind and sense of humanity that this rabbi has. Is no wonder that she is in love with him. I fell in love with him as well. God bless them both. Yes, the world would be different and for the better.
Beautiful couple with excellent values and great understanding of humanity and the guidance humanity needs
Well said
The thing that we tend to forget that there's so much in common when it comes to religions....as a Muslim we commanded to believe in all religions and all prophets without distinguishing them from each other " as long as it's practiced peacefully and respectfully".....and I found so much sense in what they spoke about in terms of the scarcity of the marriage and the sexual boundaries....all the respect 🙏
Glad you think so!
Love your view on observance differences vs orthodoxy. We are all different and go through a growing process. But every category always tries to separate us. We are such a small group. Don’t need more division.
Well said!
I'm not Jewish but I can get behind a lot of these ideas. I think a lot of people don't like the idea of living within any guidelines.
Shana Tovah! May we all be inscribed for good, for blessing, for health and for maasim tovim in the book of life.
Amen! Thank you!
Ok I will have strange questions but why men are not shaving their facial hair? And why they don't trim it?
That's such a good question!
My strange question is why does a woman where a wig after marriage? You should be able to show your own beautiful hair. Why have a wig to hide your natural beauty. Not to mention expensive, etc.
I'm a traditional Roman Catholic and your way of explaining the whys is wonderful and agree.
Thanks!
When making more of these videos, can you have a voice over for the questions please? It makes them more accessible for people who are blind or visually impaired. I was unable to read the questions.
Thanks so much for the feedback!
Excellent as always from Rabbi and Rebbetzin Vigler .
Very insightful as we have come to expect and have experienced as relatively new congregants.
Shana Tova...
Michael and Brigitte B.
Shana Tova to you too!
Interesting, we share a last name!
Does your unconditional love and acceptance for your children hold true if one of them comes out as gay?
Yes!
Loving a child and loving there actions are 2 separate things.
Hello love this video, I’m Christian & I feel really uncomfortable hugging & kissing friends I’ve never really liked it when people invaded my space. I totally understand your commitment just to your family. Since coming out of covid for me it has now put a stop to this, I missed hugging our grandsons & our daughter so to keep them safe I no longer allow people into my space.
God bless you both & keep you safe 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thanks!
It's fascinating listening to them, because they really believe in what they say and they look very happy. But I also know that my life was very different and there are many different ways to be happy in marriage: I 've been happily married for 21 years and neither of us believe in God or verginity before marriage. And taking away physical contact with other human beings from me would be like killing me, even though I have never thought for one second that I could betray my husband. But hugging my friends of both genders in times of distress isn't certainly a sexual act, but simply an act of kindness.
Thank you for sharing. 😊 I have been struggling recently and you made some beautiful points that have helped me. From my heart, thank you. 💜💜
You are so very welcome
Beautiful couple with the right insights, living life, marriage and family the way it is supposed to be!
The way it's supposed to be in your opinion, couldn't be further from what I think marriage is about, we're very equal in mine,I'm not treated just a baby carrier or just as mother,I'm treated as a woman where my opinions and wants are respected.
I love you both! ❤
Great bring more
a beautiful dialogue between the two of you....so proud of the two of you and feeling so fortunate and happy to be one of your congregants!
Will do!
Beautiful Jewish Couple. Mazal Tov!
🙏🙏
HalleluYah! Be Observant! 🐏
Yes! Great conversation! More people need to be addressing these issues.
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I loved this video. Thank you.
You are so welcome!
I love this so much.
I'm beyond happy I've stumble upon this! Like founding a treasure. Thank you and to this beautiful couple. In G-g's will, I'll be married soon.
Please G-d! So happy you found this. Welcome to our channel!
Right away, when you mention the shaking of hands and making physical contact. It does say a lot about loyalty. I am not a jew but I am a christian. There are some men that I know who will not hug another woman unless his wife is around. Its out of respect and loyalty because if his wife isn't around to see it. It can be disrespectful. So I do see where your religion comes from to a degree with that. I know that I wouldn't want my husband to go hugging every woman he saw or was friends with. I didn't see it with my dad unless it was a very close friend of both my parents who had equal respect for their spouse. Intimacy before marriage ruins a lot for after you marry. Often times, those couples dont stay together. It shows you dont have self respect.
So glad you got so much out of this! Thank you for watching :)
Beautiful ideas. Thank you for sharing these healing values. I am not Jewish, but agree completely with you.
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This is the best way !
im not jewish or religious but i can tell kind ppl when i see it
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She's beautiful
I don't entirely share the same opinion as you, that marriage comes first and then love; but what I do agree with is that love most certainly grows daily in marriage .. and that intimacy is more special - deeper, and overall incredible - in marriage. I believe intimacy outside of marriage cannot compare to intimacy within marriage.
Another thing .. non-Jewish people just don't go around kissing and hugging every woman or man that we see, as your absolutely beautiful wife suggested. We do hug and/or kiss those we love and care about, of course .. but there are certainly lines drawn, for most people, as to whom gets shown our affection in that way. In marriage, loyalty is paramount, and our affection toward our spouse should be held in the most high regard than toward any other relationship or person. There is absolutely no wiggle-room whatsoever where that is concerned.
I love this. Very insightful.
Indeed :)
I love you guys thank you so much my neighbor has been trying to get me to go to your Shull for a few years now I moved from Jupiter to Stuart but I have to tell you I'm going to show up probably on sukkot. I need to meet you. very inspirationl and many things you said were things that I needed to hear it is as if God just answered my prayers this week
That's awesome, thanks for sharing!
I think all your answers are perfect answers and really should apply to all people and all religions not just being Jewish.
These ideas have universal relevance, and can apply to people of all backgrounds.
In fact, Judaism and Korean’s 5,000 years of tradition are very similar in laws and regulation especially in marriage. Approximately 1930, less than 100 years ago, my loving and caring parents get married when they’re both in 18 years old and they had 78 years of prosperous and happy marriage life together, but most Korean had to get married first in their teenage years approx.15-18 years old “in an arranged marriage”, then they met in the first night of wedding ceremony for the first time, then possibly intimate physically later on. Unfortunately, those days most marriages were a miserable york for women to serve and sacrifices for husband and his family suffered in slavery. Therefore, there’s big difference between Judaism which respect and cherish women as a wife and mother, but not in Korean marriage. I suffered without voice my entire life and will never go back those painful days.🤷♀️😭😭😭
What a loving couple.
Indeed 😊
That’s powerful 😊😊😊😊😊
Glad you think so!
Amazing even if your not orthodox ! Thank you, Shalom
Shalom 👋
I love this🙌🏻 And the way the answers are expressed!
Agreed!
I’m a Christian but after 12 years working in the Middle East, not touching the opposite sex (other than husband &family) is a big part of my values. There is nothing bizzare about this.
What a beautiful couple!!
I must say I missed hugging my close family and friends during Covid. However, people I hardly know hugging me drives me mad!
Agree thank,you
❤
God led me hear thank you 🙏
We're so touched to hear! Welcome :)
Beautiful words 😊
Thank you! 🙂
Plus your touch with your husband becomes more heightened and special. Gentiles should try it
Love Chabad!
🥰🥰
I love what they have to say! And the end is the best part. Rabbi, leave ur wife alone 😂!! And she said what she has to say in a subtle loving way!! Anyone can imagine that! Very sweet and very spiritual and very deep!
I loved hearing this lovely couples perspective
Well communicated
So glad you appreciated!
These guys have a great thing , this thing is the thing that everybody who is a human and not completely bent will understand and therefore the laws of jews will be understood and the same people , at least the sane people , will get it . And that is a good thing my friends .
Glad you think so!
@@myJLI The contrast of how man and woman explain this thing is very intriguing , surely there is wisdom even by the example of the thing that you are on topic about , man / woman , in marriage and contrast in explaining the thing , two styles that become one ... Thank you for doing these videos , it is a service that deserves thanks .
I am jelous
Hello! Lovely video thank you! Beautiful couple. ❤ שָׁלוֹם
Wonderful
Ty shalom toda
Observant…great!
Thank you for this video. After 28 years years (I'm 38) I decided to convert. I've wanted to since I was 10. I'm worried that I chose the wrong "type", if you will (reform). I'm very conservative and I like following the rules for G-d, but no one really even shows up to Shabbat! Am I being stupid? Or did I not do enough research first? Every time I research a question it's like taking one step forward and twit steps back; I wind up with more things I want to know than I began with!
Sounds like a real journey! Judaism strongly believes in asking questions and Jewish texts are full of debate. We hope our videos will help you find more answers.
Thanks for sharing great
Pleasure!
We change so much in the modern world that we want a spouse who can change in a similar way.
I love it! Thank you for sharing this beautiful video!
Just asking, why isn’t your wife’s hair covered? I’m a devout Catholic…..it’s beautiful to see your love of God an marriage🙏🏻💜✡️
She is in fact wearing a wig, a common practice among many Jews!