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  • So lets have a much needed conversation about why I took this video down
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  • @br33et
    @br33et 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    You sharing that testimony was the start of me addressing my addiction to pornography and issues with hypersexuality as a teenager. I uncovered suppressed memories of abuse from my childhood. All of this was the start of unlearning certain behaviours and getting closer to God. I say all this to say thank you for listening to the prompting of the Holy Spirit to post your testimony. Now I have one as well.
    We overcame the enemy by the blood of the Lamb and the word of our testimony.
    Keep doing what you're doing. It's impacting and inspiring so many of us to be our best selves ❤️❤️

    • @gloriad9932
      @gloriad9932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sending love 💕 and light 🕯️
      I've faced very similar struggles as well. May God continue to guide and protect you.

    • @br33et
      @br33et 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gloriad9932God bless you 💕💕💕

  • @jae-annedanae4512
    @jae-annedanae4512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I’m sorry that you had that kind of harassment from your video. I hope those men get help

  • @lolashay219
    @lolashay219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    God used you mightily with that video sis, I got saved shortly after watching it & had a supernatural encounter with the Holy Spirit!

    • @oshinofalakoju5749
      @oshinofalakoju5749 ปีที่แล้ว

      WOW! I love that for you, Lola. God bless you and may He continue to guide you.

  • @SummerTyme2023
    @SummerTyme2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Breenylee had a few videos in this nature that where also powerful but she also took them down. I totally understand why she did even more now. I hope your video reaches all those who need it 💚💙💛

  • @CristinasLife
    @CristinasLife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I did not realize you took the video down. During the pandemic I remember watching your video and it inspired me to also share my pornagraphy addiction testimony on TH-cam as well on a separate channel that I had started. I actually had it in my heart for years to make a video to show people in my life and that follow me that I'm not a perfect Christian.
    I experienced a lot of what you did as well. I never went into actually talking to the men, but I can imagine how horrid it must have been to recieve those inappropriate questions and unwanted photos.
    I'm an educator and was also told by an uncle of mine that I was going to ruin my reputation, but so far it has been almost 3 years and no reputation was ruined. The video definitely came to a shock for everyone especially my closest family and friends. I had only confessed my past to my mother, sister in Christ and husband years before and kept it silent. But I felt like making a video would show other young women that their not alone and it's not just an issue that men go through.

  • @jmelanierenee
    @jmelanierenee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    First of all, Courtney, the SKIN IS SKINNING 🔥

    • @CourtneyDaniella
      @CourtneyDaniella  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My good sis Jen ❤️❤️ thank you so much

  • @hiimanhuman
    @hiimanhuman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    God bless you courtney, you’ve always been an one of my fav female TH-camrs, I’ve always respected you for upload a video like that, must take a lot of courage.

  • @marycash183
    @marycash183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Courtney you are the realist! That video helped me realise that I too had a p**n addiction, appreciate you removing the stigma of women and their sexual struggles

  • @caroline1557
    @caroline1557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    thank you so much, Courtney. I'm on a similar journey and feel super seen by another black woman extremely/deeply unlike I ever have before online. God is truly a miracle worker.

  • @WordsPictures997
    @WordsPictures997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Giiiirl, I really love that your family was so chill, sober and supportive.
    I’m REALLY SORRY that you experienced some vile messages in relation to that video. I’m glad you had people surrounding you offline with love and support. This is just a reminder that unfortunately there are some seriously sick people out in the real world and it’s important to have a healthy support system.
    In my opinion any ‘cooperate’ worth working for will see the kind of genuine person of character you are if they ever come across the video. It would have been different if you were being destructive in some way.
    Thank you so much for doing this update! Sending you lots of love ❤

  • @ashleywhite8256
    @ashleywhite8256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You're commentary on marketing yourself resonates with me! I really appreciated the video about sexual sin because it was something I dealt with from 10 years old and have wanted to make a youtube account of my wlj but I'm scared of the future ramifications for working in a corporate environment post-graduation.
    My only hope is that if I did, it means that any job I'd get be God-ordained

  • @oe5827
    @oe5827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a male I want to say thank you, you have a lot to be proud of and keep fighting the good fight

  • @christellesalomon
    @christellesalomon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I was so blessed by your video when you first posted it, and I am grateful that you put yourself out there for the gain of others! I am sorry that you had to deal with such inappropriate behavior!! But do know that we see you and appreciate you for the Godly, purposeful woman that you are! Sending much love!

  • @Divinebydesign26
    @Divinebydesign26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Courtney thank you for your yes to God and for allowing him to use you. You’re impact is one only you can give and I’m so grateful for you and Renee!

  • @EbsEbsReg
    @EbsEbsReg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That video was so helpful for me. I’m sorry you had to experience harassment because of it. I pray that video reaches all who need to see it❤️🙏🏾

  • @ZMihu
    @ZMihu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm just starting watching this video but I'm happy you put it back up!
    I had known about it for a while (you mentioned it on TMS) but sadly for me it was gone by then...thanks for putting yourself out there 💕

  • @risenhope8286
    @risenhope8286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The enemy was really attacking oh - proud of you!

  • @sydneymichelle1609
    @sydneymichelle1609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you for always being so transparent 🧚🏽‍♀️ I’ve never seen so much authenticity from someone on a platform like this and I’m truly so grateful I found your channel and the To My Sisters podcast💙

  • @ms_tee1
    @ms_tee1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really sad that video is gone, I had it saved it to watch it when I was ready 😖❤️

  • @charmainemathye8662
    @charmainemathye8662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Proud of you sis ❤️

  • @Amina8540
    @Amina8540 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how happy you look in your red dress 😊

  • @nhmdlamini3138
    @nhmdlamini3138 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless your soul Ms Courtney

  • @estheriruh
    @estheriruh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this❤

  • @meganadochim3490
    @meganadochim3490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love thisss❤️

  • @jaeoa_
    @jaeoa_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    a beautiful video 🤍

  • @anitasowah3947
    @anitasowah3947 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so beautiful

  • @shamisodzumbira
    @shamisodzumbira 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Really good videooo

  • @Birdman660
    @Birdman660 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m only asking because i’m not sure. Can you report people for sending explicit pictures?

  • @kaylawren9620
    @kaylawren9620 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey! I am sorry you had to experience this.
    Random question: is your last name a common last name? I have a friend that is the exact same last name as you but he was adopted and I think his family kept his real last name. Wanted to know if there was any connection possibly?

  • @anoisano275
    @anoisano275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ugh does anyone else get so frustrated when someone with an ivy league education and obvious level of intelligence honestly believes in absurd religions they've been indoctrinated into, and "the devil is testing you" type of things? It's a child's fairy tale ffs.

    • @banandababa
      @banandababa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      I get frustrated and annoyed by arrogant atheists who think they know better than people that believe in God. What happened to respect? I am not a Christian yet Courtney is one of my favourite TH-camrs and I think her faith and Godly perspective is what makes me appreciate her content even more. How about you get a life and watch someone else if someone mentioning God bothers you so much.

    • @hiimanhuman
      @hiimanhuman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Plenty of ivy leaugue educated Freemasons believed in the devil and even worshipped him. It’s about belief not intelligence.

    • @anoisano275
      @anoisano275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@banandababa I'm not atheist, I'm agnostic and literally every person that believes the ridiculous religion they just so happen to have been born into and told was real is the true genuine birth of existence despite proof, ration, or logic is absurd. 🙄 It definitely makes someone appear less intelligent than they would otherwise always.

    • @carofantastic
      @carofantastic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Just because you don’t believe in religion doesn’t mean you get to disrespect other peoples beliefs. Who are you to judge? You don’t get to determine what other people believe in . Believe in what you believe and let others do the same. Maybe you should really think about why other people believing in religion and God offends you so much. It sounds like a deep issue that you need to address and resolve and mind you’re own beliefs . Also beliefs don’t determine IQ levels scientifically. It may be a fairy tale to you but it’s important to others . As an adult, you are expected to respect other people’s beliefs and religions even if you don’t believe in the same thing.

    • @anoisano275
      @anoisano275 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hiimanhuman and devil worshippers are absolutely ridiculous, it's absurd indoctrination without any logic or ration.