I really thank you for not sprinkling Jesus into conversation but making Him and faith the centre of the topic, it gives purpose that never changes and contradicts the erratic values of the world. May God bless you! ❤️❤️
I’ve been a widow for 17 years. I’ve been celibate for the last 12 years. My woo woo is gonna close up like a pierced ear with no earring. Mr. Right better show up quickly.
Yes I’ve been practicing abstinence for almost 3 years now and it’s been a journey. I love what you said about having that same intimacy with God. My Sexual desire comes from that craving of intimacy for me & I use to beat myself up about it because you can often think is God not enough? Why do I keep feeling like this when I’m supposed to be practicing holiness & purity. But accepting that 1. There’s nothing to be ashamed of when it comes to have those kind desire and 2. Christ Will literally walk you through it. Building intimacy with him in that area is something I’m currently working on by submitting my thoughts to him, praying and just talking to him about the feeling and what I need. The journey isn’t easy but we serve a God who walks you through it, guiding you step by step! Love this and all ur vids! ❤
Courtney! I hope you are serving as a Sunday school teacher for girls or children at your local church or at least think about it. You speak with so much grace and simplicity. Thank you for this video and all the other girl chats 🥰
I love this verse from The Quran in the chapter on Prophet Joseph (Yusuf). It basically demonstrates that even the prophets who were the best of people had temptations. Surah Yusuf, Verse 24: وَلَقَدْ هَمَّتْ بِهِ وَهَمَّ بِهَا لَوْلَا أَن رَّأَىٰ بُرْهَانَ رَبِّهِ كَذَٰلِكَ لِنَصْرِفَ عَنْهُ السُّوءَ وَالْفَحْشَاءَ إِنَّهُ مِنْ عِبَادِنَا الْمُخْلَصِينَ And certainly she made for him, and he would have made for her, were it not that he had seen the manifest evidence of his Lord; thus (it was) that We might turn away from him evil and indecency, surely he was one of Our sincere servants. (English - Shakir) via iQuran
This has been in my “watch later” since you uploaded it. Wow 🤩 it’s actually quite wholesome. Exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much for your delivery. God bless you sis ❤.
It really made me tear up when you said that this channel is a safe space for everybody. Although I'm not strictly Christian, I'm quite spiritual; I pray to the universe and l resonate deeply with a lot of the faith-based things you talk about on this channel. Despite this, I've never felt welcome in churches or fellowships due to being a member of the LGBT+, and it's not only hurtful, but also means I don't have friends who talk about this kind of stuff. I have suffered a lot of trauma in my life that has caused me to act hypersexual/codependent, and with the help of therapy and videos such as these, I am trying to stay celibate until my next meaningful relationship (which I will not rush into). Anyway, thank you so much for creating this girl chat. I wish you the best. Sending love and healing energy to all!
Courtney! You have a gift of speaking! The way you articulate things, explain, and get to levels of understanding about things is truly something beautiful to witness. Now about tthis topic, I have struggled a bit in agreeing or seeing the reasoning as to why God has called us to this standard. But as you said, when you see others being able to so easily fulfill this urge without (what seems to be) a care in the world, you question yourself and God about why He's even asked this of us. But as I have allowed myself to wonder and search this area, I have learned that it is not as simple or just a request as you've said. I really resonated with you about going to God with these urges and every need to satisfy the void or thing I am actually reaching for. He is enough and He can meet my needs. Great discussion, love you so much ♥♥
Hey sis, love your videos as always, this came at the right time for me I’ve been a celibate christian for 11 months and all of a sudden I’ve started struggling and feeling tempted, I’m not in a relationship/near any men lol but still met with this temptation. I want to be prepared for the future when I decide I want to date bc I don’t want to be achieving celibacy alone but then crumbling when I meet a man. Happy to hear you give advice, have a blessed week xx Also I love the white nails in this video, a little bit of irony I love it 😂
I think part of the struggle could be that there is a point of view that the main benefit of relationships are sex but within society there is an increasing dissapointment and resentment towards men from women. I think because of this, a lot of women don't have strong hopes for relationships getting to the point of marriage. How would you break this down?
There might be a time in the future when marriage completely disappears, and people only live for themselves, not caring about other people or relationships. That would be the point of ultimate individualism.
Hi Courtney, it wasnt directly addressed in the video, as this was about celibacy, but what are your thought about masturbation as a single Christian woman?? The same as what you said here?
Haven't finished watching the video but just wanted to clarify that sex before marriage being wrong pertains to ALL kinds of sex ALL kinds of sexual intimacy. Stop looking for a loophole sis, God cannot be deceived.
@@blessedtobless. oh I wouldn't know, didn't finish watching the video but just wanted to mention it as I was deceived in this. The comment wasn't directed towards Courtney btw 😄
I love how you framed sexual purity as empowerment rather than a burden, that really helped me to have a shift in mindset!
I really thank you for not sprinkling Jesus into conversation but making Him and faith the centre of the topic, it gives purpose that never changes and contradicts the erratic values of the world. May God bless you! ❤️❤️
I’ve been a widow for 17 years. I’ve been celibate for the last 12 years. My woo woo is gonna close up like a pierced ear with no earring. Mr. Right better show up quickly.
I am cracking up 😂😂😂😂
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Did you marry?
Yes I’ve been practicing abstinence for almost 3 years now and it’s been a journey. I love what you said about having that same intimacy with God. My Sexual desire comes from that craving of intimacy for me & I use to beat myself up about it because you can often think is God not enough? Why do I keep feeling like this when I’m supposed to be practicing holiness & purity. But accepting that 1. There’s nothing to be ashamed of when it comes to have those kind desire and 2. Christ Will literally walk you through it. Building intimacy with him in that area is something I’m currently working on by submitting my thoughts to him, praying and just talking to him about the feeling and what I need. The journey isn’t easy but we serve a God who walks you through it, guiding you step by step! Love this and all ur vids! ❤
Courtney! I hope you are serving as a Sunday school teacher for girls or children at your local church or at least think about it. You speak with so much grace and simplicity. Thank you for this video and all the other girl chats 🥰
I love this verse from The Quran in the chapter on Prophet Joseph (Yusuf). It basically demonstrates that even the prophets who were the best of people had temptations.
Surah Yusuf, Verse 24:
وَلَقَدْ هَمَّتْ بِهِ وَهَمَّ بِهَا لَوْلَا أَن رَّأَىٰ بُرْهَانَ رَبِّهِ كَذَٰلِكَ لِنَصْرِفَ عَنْهُ السُّوءَ وَالْفَحْشَاءَ إِنَّهُ مِنْ عِبَادِنَا الْمُخْلَصِينَ
And certainly she made for him, and he would have made for her, were it not that he had seen the manifest evidence of his Lord; thus (it was) that We might turn away from him evil and indecency, surely he was one of Our sincere servants.
(English - Shakir)
via iQuran
Ms Courtney. You're in your rich auntie era!! Gorgeous 🔥🔥❤️. Love the vid.
This was meant for me. Thank you girl 🤍
This has been in my “watch later” since you uploaded it. Wow 🤩 it’s actually quite wholesome. Exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much for your delivery. God bless you sis ❤.
It really made me tear up when you said that this channel is a safe space for everybody. Although I'm not strictly Christian, I'm quite spiritual; I pray to the universe and l resonate deeply with a lot of the faith-based things you talk about on this channel. Despite this, I've never felt welcome in churches or fellowships due to being a member of the LGBT+, and it's not only hurtful, but also means I don't have friends who talk about this kind of stuff. I have suffered a lot of trauma in my life that has caused me to act hypersexual/codependent, and with the help of therapy and videos such as these, I am trying to stay celibate until my next meaningful relationship (which I will not rush into). Anyway, thank you so much for creating this girl chat. I wish you the best. Sending love and healing energy to all!
I started my celibate journey too and I wand deeper relationship with lord
Courtney! You have a gift of speaking! The way you articulate things, explain, and get to levels of understanding about things is truly something beautiful to witness.
Now about tthis topic, I have struggled a bit in agreeing or seeing the reasoning as to why God has called us to this standard. But as you said, when you see others being able to so easily fulfill this urge without (what seems to be) a care in the world, you question yourself and God about why He's even asked this of us. But as I have allowed myself to wonder and search this area, I have learned that it is not as simple or just a request as you've said. I really resonated with you about going to God with these urges and every need to satisfy the void or thing I am actually reaching for. He is enough and He can meet my needs. Great discussion, love you so much ♥♥
Faith and purity and holiness. Where do I begin
I have much thought on this . Thanks for the vid Cort.
Hey sis, love your videos as always, this came at the right time for me I’ve been a celibate christian for 11 months and all of a sudden I’ve started struggling and feeling tempted, I’m not in a relationship/near any men lol but still met with this temptation. I want to be prepared for the future when I decide I want to date bc I don’t want to be achieving celibacy alone but then crumbling when I meet a man. Happy to hear you give advice, have a blessed week xx
Also I love the white nails in this video, a little bit of irony I love it 😂
Your hair is so beautiful 😍
I think part of the struggle could be that there is a point of view that the main benefit of relationships are sex but within society there is an increasing dissapointment and resentment towards men from women. I think because of this, a lot of women don't have strong hopes for relationships getting to the point of marriage. How would you break this down?
There might be a time in the future when marriage completely disappears, and people only live for themselves, not caring about other people or relationships. That would be the point of ultimate individualism.
heyy Courtney ❤️, do you have any books that you reallly enjoyed reading about self development ?
brilliant. this is so powerful.
This was so good! I definitely needed to hear this for sure! 🙌🏾🤍🫶🏽
This video was so necessary for this season that I am in. God bless you!
Thank you so much for making this, it’s always so great hearing you speak on things!
such a gem!
Such a great and insightful video. Thank you very much for this 😊
Thank you for this may god continue to use use you as instrument. This is what i needed to hear this morning so i can continue to walk in faith
Love this and the way you framed and spoke the conversation 👏🏾👏🏾
I love everything about this video Courtney! So needed, thanks for sharing ♥️
Ah, so timely. Thank you for this! Love the point about covenant and intimacy🙌🏾❤️
I’m grateful for you
Really enjoyed this video. God bless you 🙏
Hi Courtney, it wasnt directly addressed in the video, as this was about celibacy, but what are your thought about masturbation as a single Christian woman?? The same as what you said here?
You look beautifullllllllllllll❤
Love this!
I really needed to hear this, thank you!!🫶🏾
Celibacy is great!
I love this!!
Haven't finished watching the video but just wanted to clarify that sex before marriage being wrong pertains to ALL kinds of sex ALL kinds of sexual intimacy. Stop looking for a loophole sis, God cannot be deceived.
She didn't say the contrary
@@blessedtobless. oh I wouldn't know, didn't finish watching the video but just wanted to mention it as I was deceived in this. The comment wasn't directed towards Courtney btw 😄
so good!!
You look gorgeous by the way.
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