‘Scared I’ll Be A Late Bloomer’: Overcoming Relationship + Career Anxiety | Chit Chat GRWM
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- I hear it sis, everyone seems to be getting there’s and yet you haven’t ticked off some of your biggest goals, suddenly panic and dread sets in and you begin to question if you’re ‘falling behind’. Let’s talk about it.
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I’m glad you discussed this. I wanted God to give me my dream job but didn’t want to go back to school. After 3 years, I started last fall. I have had so many doors opened by being obedient (found a therapist, able to afford personal training,etc). Now I’m prepping myself to take another step towards this dream job
Keep up the good work 🤗
"Let go of the attachment to the deadline.'' That is key Courtney! Truth. This day and age, it seems as though everyone is getting ahead. As someone leaving behind my 20s, I can admit that it's easy to compare and wonder why you are a late bloomer! Some of your peers are making more money and living better lifestyles than you. What I try to do to stop the negative cycle of wondering why is by focusing on my own path and comparing my past self to my present self. When I do that, I take less pressure off me. As you said, we can't have everything we want right now. In that, God is constantly teaching me patience. It is not easy but I trust it will all be worth it.
As a 32yr old late bloomer, I loved this chitchat!
Incredibly wise and timely advice. It's so easy to compare to other people's timelines whilst forgetting our own journey and traumas we have had to heal from. Thanks for sharing this so clearly and honestly x
Hi Courtney, I just found your channel and I have been struggling with feeling left behind because all of my friends have their dream jobs, homes, husbands, children, travelling the world and I am at square one. Everyone's living the lives I have been praying for, but what about me.
However, once you mentioned that unforseen traumas and circumstances can derail your plans...and that is what has happened to me. I ran into financial difficulties, death of a loved one plus, I had to stop working to take care of a family member and dealing with trauma.
At first I thought God was punishing because of all I have been going through, but I am starting to see now, that all of this was teaching me humility, patience, empathy and strengthen my relationship with God.
I definitely needed to hear this word today. I am so grateful this video came up on my feed. I appreciate you for speaking honestly, you've encouraged me greatly. I can't wait to watch more of your videos to help ease my anxiety. I won't allow fear to stop me!!!
This is so beautiful. Amen to everything you said here, girl! 🥰
I always thought this way but sometimes I get dragged into the darkness and doubt of having it together at a certain age it is good to be reminded
“It’s there somewhere” such a simple but strong encouragement. The fear has really been that things have messed up beyond repair but faith says it’s still there, even in the murkiness!
God bless you Courtney!
a word on patience: the day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit. i continuously have to remind myself of this when thinking about where i want to be vs where i am. started watching your vids after recently reading your book, i’m genuinely in awe of what you’ve achieved and i felt so validated after reading. when you said your story can really help others navigate things, i hope you know that’s exactly what you’re doing
Thank you for making this video. Practically everything you said I felt but you basically summed up the past 5 years of my life in 30 minutes! I now am at a place (I turn 30 this year) that I am at peace with my desires and my life. You said it perfectly… faith is just knowing that it will happen and that knowing is good enough
I don’t need to know all the details, that’s God’s part to write the story. And I have handed him the pen (finally!)
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Okay, this is kinda creepy but then again, it’s simply just another reminder that the Holy Spirit is REAL! I was progressively feeling worse and worse today because I was thinking of all the things I had hoped to have by now and “conveniently” forgetting the things I’m doing that are actually going according to plan. Anywho, the point was that I was starting to panic and I felt a slight panic/anxiety attack coming. Only for me to open TH-cam and what do I see? A new video from one of my fave TH-camrs posting a video on the topic I needed to hear about. All I can say is, thank God for God and thank God for Courtney! This video could not have come at a more perfect time for me because I can literally feel my anxiety being dispelled after watching and listening ❤❤❤
Lol @ "I've been through some rubbish in this life!" I absolutely FELT that.
As a relationship coach I can comfortably say that community doesn’t look like what it once did. We learn and grow in communities and that makes self improvement sustainable. So yes, its completely valid to take your time manifesting some things because society has changed and it’s forcing us to adjust.
Thank you so much. I needed this vid. Accidents in ppl's lives happen all the time. That's bc of that kind of vids that I learn to let go of my fears and anxiety abt being a late bloomer knowing that i've always been advanced compared to others. But we cannot control everything.
I appreciate this message! First the start to end your words brought life to my soul. May God continue to bless you in helping others ❤️🙏🏽
I could listen to you all day Courtney ❤ this is YOUR GIFT ! ✨
IM DOING HOMEWORK AND TALKING TO YOU AND YOU'RE MAKING ME FEEL SO REASSURED AND NICE AND YOU'RE SO WISE AND I REALLY NEEDED THIS CONVERSATION SO THANK U BAE
I found your channel at the perfect time, my word! God led me here for sure! Your advice is super valuable to me at this time in my life (just graduated, looking for the first job of my career, it not working out the way I'd hoped and prayed). Thank you for your wise words, I appreciate it very much :)
I just had to comment because this video is TOO good!!! You're a very good orator. As in....thank you very much for this video because at times one has to think, why are you running? LOL! Enjoy life, plan but be prepared for seasons that can change. It's good to always try and have a goal, even if it will take time because time will fly back and will cause one to look at the progress!
Yes please do the market research! A lot of us girlies are trying to date💃🏾
Thank you for this video, message came right on time as my 30th bday approaches 💙
Thank you for this ❤can we talk about how seamlessly you blended that makeup ❤️ *chefs kiss*
“Menopause ain’t that close”😂 at 24!
I love your honesty. God really directed me to this channel
Thank you so much for this message ❤❤
Hey Courtney! Thank you for all the content that you do. I have made it my personal new years resolution to mainly consume content that is most beneficial to my development, and your channel is on that list. Keep up the good work :)
I really needed this 😭Thank you
This was a phenomenal video. I really needed to hear this!
Such an amazing video! Thank you for everything Courtney 🥰🥰
This was so beautiful and heartfelt. I needed to hear this.😊😊😊 and you're so beautiful.❤
Thank you for sharing!
This video is so great, God’s really blessed you with the words! ❤️
Pls pls more of this 🥹 this made me feel so much better about some of the 20s fears I’ve been feeling… and feeling behind! been watching you for a few years now and always come back
Ughhh, you just always know what I’m thinking. Anyways, love your channel sis, insightful and very useful content as per usual!!!!
Thank you for sharing! Very helpful and I feel so empowered for my first time on your channel. Watched from South Africa
I really look forward to all your chit chat videos
This was such a great video, really spoke to me🙏🏾 thank you Courtney 💕
Courtney’s ministries, we love to see it 🙏🏽❤️✝️
This video was so beautiful thank you Courtney!
Needed this video x
❤❤🇿🇦currently going through it thank you for the encouragement
YOUR VIDEOS ARE SO THERAPEUTIC
So good ✨💖
This is good Courtney!!
Jesus Christ loves you and died for our sins amen
You are how young ?!?! Oooo wauw thought you were 30-34
Thank you so much for this video ❤️It was such a good reminder for me that God has a plan and I just need to make the most out of my situation ❤️
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Am i the only one not getting any audio, i tried everything on my side so I think it might be the video
I'm getting the audio fine I think the audio is a lil low but once I put it up its fine, are u not getting it for the entire video?
I think it’s fixed now. I wasn’t getting any at first too. Idk why
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Hi! You used this sign ✌ it is not a piece sign, but a satanic one. These signs are also satanic: 👌 (means 66 6), 🤘🤟🤙🖖, ☮ (means broken cross). Do not use them, save yourself please.
I really want to stop wanting validation from others and stop comparing myself but all the advice I get sounds so similar but I still don’t know how tho be free from this🥲😕
One of the simpler practical methods for me is to write whatsapp texts to myself where I validate decisions that I have to take whenever I’m uncertain about them.
It helps me because I can easily access it anytime, as long as I have my phone with me.