The Lies & Deception of the 'Feminine Energy' Trend | Be Encouraged 004
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- Many women are trying to learn how to become more feminine and connect with their femininity by watching content and listening to advice from people who may be leading them astray. So what is the correct foundation to have when it comes to understanding your design and purpose as a women? Let's talk about it.
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00:00 The lies & deception of feminine energy content
22:28 Where the church went wrong...
34:21 How do you become more feminine?
Deuteronomy 31:6
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"A lot of us desire to be like Proverbs 31 but we don't desire to be like Jesus" 😭😭😭 Courtney!!!
“Femininity is not about desire, it’s about design” - love this so much because it points women back to Jesus and our identity in him ❤️
"God made women" - The End
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This Episode Needs To Be Watched And Heard By All Women Immediately! 😩😭
I’ve never been drawn towards the femininity movement because firstly, it’s not a word that I’ve seen in the bible. Rather, it involves some new age terms like « energies », and the « divine feminine ». Nothing to do with a biblical godly woman. Just new age stuff.
Secondly, the goal is always getting or keeping a man. I find it demeaning that we should just live for the male gaze. I live to please God, knowing that a good relationship with God will attract the right people in my life. « But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. »
Thirdly, a lot of things that are considered feminine or masculine traits are things that are defined by society based on what has been observed in most men and women. Again, for me the goal is not to be like most men or women, the goal is to be like Jesus. Kindness, for instance, is considered a feminine trait, yet the bible teaches everyone to be kind and tenderhearted. A man who desires to be masculine by society’s standards will disregard kindness (and I’ve heard a man saying « a man is not kind »). Disagreeableness is another trait which, in turn, is associated with masculinity. I’m naturally disagreeable as a woman. Will I change it to become a people pleaser just because most people pleasers are women? No
Thisss comment right here. I’m very weary when someone not led by TMH is commenting on “feminine energy”
PREACH!!!
"I'm not a part of that 👀 ..... I serve the Lord Jesus Christ .... " 😂😂😂😅 Courtney!!!!
Thanks soo much for touching on this! I’ve been down the rabbit hole of femininity content and have been really wanting a Godly perspective that doesn’t centre around attracting men.
Also this hair?! Please, Courtney. I’ve retired the wigs but if YOU come out with wigs again, I’m buying.
Everything grounded outside of Christ Jesus fades. Thank you for such intelligence ❤.
Yes, Isaiah 40:6-8
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Female soldiers are being built 🔥 Courtney this is so good! At so many points the Holy Spirit was speaking through and breaking thoughts that have bound me/distracted me from being like Jesus ❤
“Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.”
2 Corinthians 3:17 NIV
Off topic, you look STUNNING.❤
This is a whole TED talk. Thank you for this.
Pink is your color. You look gorgeous! Another blessed episode 💛💛
My eyes have been opened. I feel like I’ve been struggling with what it means to be a women for a long time (I’m 21 tbf) because I’ve been pressured by the image that the world creates of what women should be like, act like, look like.
You truly have a gift. Even though much of what you spoke of I knew, I drifted away from living as Christ as my example because of the misogyny of the Church.
Overall, I was encouraged ❤❤❤.
This message was powerful!! God bless you sister and may He continue to use you as His vessel and mouthpiece🙏🏾❤️the amount of wisdom in this one video, just wow
I mean I keep having to stop the video to take it all in, just wow.
I need to you to know that I received confirmation through you! God bless you my sister 🙏🏽❤
YASSSSS MAAAAAMMMMK FINALLY WE ARE TALKING ABOUT THISS GO OAFFFF SIS!! And GO OAFFFF GOD!
This is my first time seeing your page and this message was truly a blessing. Culture has tried to compromise God’s original design. Keep up the great work for the Kingdom ✨
Courtney darling, I love you so much! I am so blessed to have found the TMS podcast and you. God bless you!!!
I loved everything about this. This is probably the best take I ever seen. Thank you so much Courtney. May God continue to use you ❤❤❤
thank you so much for not only talking about being a wife and mother, im 17 and i don't mind being a mother or wife but i know thats not all i am made for. Thank you so much for letting me know and understand that
I love that u stumbled on this. It was eye opening as a teenage girl
COURTNEY!!!!!!!! THIS WAS SO SOUND!!!!! A teaching about feminity that is Christ-centered?! THANK YOU SO MUCH! This was a beautiful listen for me as I did my glam. 💐
This is soooo good. You have such a way with words. A beautiful gift
Very encouraging, thank you!
Loved this episode 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
This was SOO GOOD! I used to watch you when I was younger, so glad I came across your channel again ❤
this is some deeeeeeeep revelation!!! wow!! Thank you for this!
Whew, this was a word! God bless you Courtney🙏🏾
If I could like this video over and over again I would. Courtney, God bless you for availing yourself for this call. This is beautiful ❤ this video deserves to go far…
My thoughts - I agree I believe that often times the church limits women to being Proverbs 31 women. But, for the first time after watching this being compared to the Holy Spirit is the most accurate comparison. There’s no limits w/ the Spirit. No limit in personality and more, I love it! The “soft” and the “verbose” woman can coexist with this comparison! 👏🏾👏🏾
thank you soo much ! Glory to God for speaking through you, this was powerful! I’m excited to see what you have to say about sisterhood and the power of it ❤ love what you are doing
You are so well spoken, which makes it so pleasant to keep listening 🥰
I want to jump through the screen and give you a hug. Everything you've said is absolutely beautiful and God is really speaking through you!!!
So well put! You’re truly created for such a time as this🌸
Thank you Courtney ❤
May God bless you for doing his work 🙏
"I'm not apart of that I serve the Lord Jesus Christ" YESSSSSS SISTER we love to hear it new subby here!!!
Courtney this video was amazing. Thank you so much for sharing
I just really want to have tea and do a whole deep dive into this
Great video! Thanks for sharing. Stay blessed! 🙏🏽❤️
This is so gooooood!
This is so good!!
This was good! Thank you for this video
Praise God for making us complete in Him! I therefore bind myself, but also my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ to know one's full identity is found in God one's Creator while binding to hell feeling incomplete without lustful attention of the opposite sex, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone lacking to know one's full identity is found in God while lacking to feel complete without lustful attention of the opposite sex, in accordance with this word and genesis 1:26-27, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!
THIS IS AMAZING
Thank you for this!
Such a timely timely video 🙏🙏🎊👏🏽 God bless you
loved this!!
Yes, God gave you this message madam!
Thank you for sharing. I would love to share my life and the word with you.
I like your wig. It's giving 🌻🌸🔥🔥🔥.
Love this content!
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Gwoooooorl!!!!!! I LOVE THIS TAKE!!!!!! Jesus at the centre all the way!!!
Can't wait
God bless you Courtney❤❤❤❤
God bless you❤
This was great
Lovely video 🙏❤️
Beautiful❤
Whew! Preach!
its so true, we need to look at Jesus because he teaches us so many great qualities. Lol i somewhat do not desire to be like the proverbs 31 women because SHE WORKED HARD! DARLING, i want sot life pls
You got me in the beginning because it's Proverbs 31 I run to in certain conversations. Yael if we're really getting down in convo. Appreciate this video. I'm so sick of the conservative culture-centered or the spirituality centered- definitions that feature Lori Harvey in the thumbnail
I absolutely loved this and needed this reminder. I need to strive to be like Jesus
Too good.
Hmmmm!! Sometimes your standards are actually idols🫠
Woah 😮🤧
This is soooo powerful!
Thanks Courtney.❤
“ I serve the Lord Jesus Christ”! A word for real because the distinction needs to be clarified
You look so beautiful 😍. I love that shade on you ❤💜
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Eve didnt eat an apple, it just says"fruit ". 😂 😂
8:16 What would settling mean to you?
I will never be like Jesus Christ (come on, I can do more than him like he said but that’s enough) and i will alwayS following his commands. He made me as an unique woman and anointed by Holy Spirit. To be like him is a non-sens and very dangerous to say that as well. He never said « Be like me » that’s why I have left church and christianity a lot of you don’t read really well the Scriptures and it shows. That’s never miss and yeah that’s sad.
These feminine energy agenda is not for everyone tho’ and not really centered on men. In Bible we can see a lot of energy femine being well turned as well energy masculinity.
Ask God more indication and perspective about youR feminine energy and the gift he puts on you perfectly. Stay blessed beautiful !
The entire Bible is Jesus though, He has exalted His Word, above all things. He is the Word. Proverbs 31 apply, Jesus the Son of God is the ideal model, but we can learn from Ruth and Esther.
Anyway, I will keep listening.
I have a few questions:
You said an issue with the feminine energy content is it centres women around marriage & relationships but that God made women(independence connotation here). How do you reconcile the fact that all the other female creatures were created independently and only women were created from a component of a man, his rib and were called men's helper?
You also said God created men and women as equals and are not less than men. How do you reconcile your statement with 1 Peter 3:7 "Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel..."
Hey! I would say that although this was how women were created originally, this does not to suggest that being a helper is our only purpose. Men are also called to submit to their wives too, it is meant to be mutual (Ephesians 5:21-33)
on 1 Peter 3:7 from what I know Women are described as the weaker vessel in terms of their physical capabilities not that they are of less value. hope this helps :)
@@Estee894hey Estee. The first point; that was the only purpose mentioned by the Creator she said we are supposed to reference. Are there any other or people add what they want?
Yeah that physical weakness means we are not equal with men doesn't it?
@@TheVimbiso Hi!! the purpose we are to follow, given by God our creator is Mark 12:30-31 as this is the greatest command and is not reserved for just men but all followers of christ, alongside that are many other indicators of what our purpose is, some examples are - Ephesians 5:1, Matthew 28:19-20 and John 14:6. Being a helper can be a part of a woman's purpose, but that verse in Genesis definitely isn't the only verse to reference or look to in order to understand our purpose as women
1 Corithians 7: 34-38
@@Estee894Hey, I hadn’t realized you responded, thank you.
Here we are talking of the purpose of a woman and not human beings in general. That then changes the narrative because there is a collective purpose and gender based purposes.
Spiritually, yes we are equal and even referred to as sons collectively in some cases and the bride of Christ in some but when it comes to earthly matters, there is a hierarchy on 1 Corinthians 11:3
Learn from Jesus! Be like Jesus
I was truly so touched by this episode, Courtney 🩷 it was THE reminder I needed to fix my gaze back on Jesus and to stop seeking worldly knowledge because it will never fulfill like Jesus does and will. The world will require a million and one things, but Jesus only requires one thing: our commitment to Him. 🤍 And it is true that it applies to femininity as well. Thank you once again.
I have learnt so much from this video. It is my second time watching it. Thank you so much for sharing. 🤍🙏🏻
If I could like this video a thousand times, I would.