Why Beta Male Behaviors Are Hard For Men To Break
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ก.ย. 2024
- Why beta male behaviors are hard for men to break and they often revert back to acting weak and overly emotional.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email update from a former coaching client of mine who needed help after a breakup last year. He was acting too soft and weak and got dumped. He read 3% Man, 12 times and started doing really well with other women. Then his ex came back into the picture and he slowly dropped the other women to focus on her again. He can tell that despite the fact she does all of the calling, texting and pursuing, she’s not deeply passionately in love with him and it’s more of a casual friends with benefits type of relationship with no strings attached for her. He wants to know what he can do to make her really desire and want him. He’s obviously reverted back to his old beta male ways without realizing it and is seeking her attention, validation and approval. He’s also communicating that he can’t emotionally handle being with her again which is disgusting and a huge turnoff for her.
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Dude that part where you were barking like a seal and clapping saying mommy I almost had to pull my truck over was laughing so fucken hard.
I nearly choked on my food 😭
Like the scene in Tom and Jerry...
My sister dated a guy who was "in touch with his feelings". She gushed about how attractive and romantic she thought this was. I laughed and told her that I'd give it 3 months before she would feel the exact opposite.
3 months exactly! It went from attractive to "he treats me like I'm his mommy" and I jokingly responded "who would've thought" lol.... they're no longer together
Our father wasn't a strong male figure in our lives growing up. Though I love him, he presented an example of beta Male behaviors and would run/ignore his problems instead of dealing with them head on. Fortunately, I decided earlier in life that I wanted to break that cycle and stumbled upon Corey's work soon after.
@@samuelcox5301 Thank you! So far things have been going phenomenal! Wishing nothing but the best for you as well
Hell yeah me too brother. My goal is to become better than my father. He picked up alot of bad habits from his. I will not pass on the same.
Funny thing is, I told him about Corey's work. He listened to it once. It cause some change. Then he fell off, thus reverted back to his old ways. Tried to get him read it again but tells me "I'm good son". Nothing can be further from the truth.🤦♂️
My father was a beta bitch too. Studied medicine but didn’t practice and gave up on his life’s dream/family because the entrance exam to practice in the UK was “too hard”. I’m sure if he stuck with it he’d be practicing by now. Instead what is he doing now? Sleeping on strange women’s sofas and getting kicked out all the time. I found the red pill/self improvement space pretty late at about 25 and now I’m 30. So the beta male programming and my Dad’s piss poor example have been baked in pretty hard. I’m doing everything I can to fight back against The Matrix programming but at times it feels like life is kicking my ass. Still I will play with the hand I’ve been dealt till my final breath. I wish every man in this space the best of luck in taking on the challenge that is life.
LMAOOOOO The Ball-Bustin was on a whole other level today Coach! Just hilarious. I cried laughing in this video. And you still made some very important points for men to keep in mind as far as mindset. Keep up the great work. I am currently on the 14th read of 3% man. Thank you for all you do.
My favorite scene in The Godfather is when Johnny Fontaine laments, "Oh, Godfather, I don't know what to do, I don't know what to do" and Vito smacks him across the face and says, "YOU CAN ACT LIKE A MAN!"
It takes years to undo this behaviour it’s just the way it is.
This is the only area I don’t 100 percent agree with Corey, to no fault of his own as I love his work. How you talk about your emotions as a man is what matters. Are you coming from a place of self introspect, honesty and authenticity without asking her to be his mommy? Or are your feelings a place of neediness?
I own my insecurities and triggers and my fiancé respects me and loves me even more because of healthy communication. How you say it matters. I actually use feelings as a vetting tool as well. I adore my fiancé because we both can feel safe and open. Anytime I didn’t feel safe being vulnerable, I moved on
It helps if you actually listen to what i was saying about his behavior instead of trying to stroke your ego in the comment’s with a diatribe that has nothing to do with his situation mr expert.
@@CoachCoreyWayne I watched the entirety and have been a long follower who has read the book 10 times and now have the love of my life, thanks to your work. You literally took my compliment and turned it around as if I need some validation. Anyone who has followed your work, myself included have seen a repeated theme about not showing weakness. It’s 100 percent important but also a trap that can make people robotic in relationships if they’re too fixated on that. You’ve even commented on this in your videos. You talk about success stories and I’m one of them. But I think a willingness to have a cogent discussion is necessary. I have issues with the red pill and I think people going down that route fall into this trap
That's well put. I agree, it's all about the delivery and tonality of how you're expressing the feelings. It's about taking ownership of what you feel, not placing them upon another
@@chickenfactory1010 that’s exactly what I’m trying to say, though I would agree with Coach 9/10 that a man expressing his feelings usually comes from a weak stance since he’s fearful and can’t coregulate his emotions.
Had a buddy like this. His relationship with his 1st girlfriend ended and while in a relationship with his 2nd girlfriend he got on his knees crying and begging for his 1st girlfriend back in public. It was all over social media that I do not have, but still the photo/video was circulated and shared so much to the point I got texted by friends saying “You need to come get your buddy because he’s crying like a little b***h and humiliating himself in public”. I caught such bad case of second hand embarrassment from that. (Another reason why I’ll never get Snapchat) Even his 2nd girlfriend saw all of this and the messages he sent to his 1st girlfriend begging for her back. This resulted in his 2nd girlfriend cheating on him. Such displays of beta male energy were so pitiful to watch. Couldn’t tell that guy anything.
Oof
Ouch, sounded like he crashed and burned man.
That’s beyond beta male behavior. That’s deep neurosis.
The new voices coach does 😂😂
Dam feel bad for that friend you're explaining at 8:00
Fuck. This email is literally me. Years of being relationship focused and becoming dopey and unglued and acting weak and overly emotional. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck.
This was the funniest one ever 😂impressions on point
I miss when corey referred to the emailers as a "neurotic jackass"
CCW's reactions to part of the e-mail are definitely the best I've heard in a while YET still gets the message across
His old videos were brutal to the emailers, some funny times man.
You are right Corey. I’m a life coach and I have to say the media has changed our perception. For God sake people call themselves a breadbox
As a 24-year-old who found this out by the therapist. It opened my mind to how relationships work. I felt really glad I knew this early. However comparing this to other relationships video they are their giving small bits with long watch time.
They likely didn't develop overnight, so overcoming them will take some time/intentional effort...
🎶 Feelings... nothing
more than feelings 🎶
Wow, Corey really went all out today! Very amusing.
Please do more voices 😂 they are so effing funny
I think the main issue for these men is an inability to truly be themselves & totally gave up on pursuing a passion. I think many of them lived their formative years - in fear that the real them - will not be loved or able to be accepted. These are the guys that end up wasting time working at jobs they don't want to be at - watching porn - and addicted to chasing women/thirst traps on social media . These guys are totally brain washed into thinking that this is normal. Usually very conventionally beautiful women can tell if they are dating/seeing this kind of guy - & come to decide if they want to: friend zone, ignore, or indulge them for company & free attention.
There is a fine line between a man who expresses and shares his emotions and a man who is emotional. It’s fine to feel certain ways about certain things. Women don’t want a robot, but they don’t want a beta-bitch either. Say how you feel, move on. Burying your feelings is unrealistic and unhealthy. However, spewing them all over is equally so. You can say how you feel without being a simp about it.
hey Corey thanks man, i needed to watch this, because the guy in this email is my actual dad. needless to say my dating life has been ridiculous so I bought your book. I have a lot to catch up on. Again just thanks, incredibly insightful.
Lol i thought Robot corey was great but this dopey corey is lit🔥
18:31 I knew the moment I heard those words Coach was gonna immediately gonna roast him dry and I wasn't disappointed 💀
Awesome analysis, Coach. 💪🏾💪🏾
After reading your book 10-15 times and hearing these stories, man I’m laughing so hard 😂 but at the same time like you said coach in your book, who am I to judge?? I use to be just like that
One of your recent best videos. I laughed so hard.
I miss when you used to tell guys like this, “Why don’t you take your right hand, put it across your neck, and choke yourself…”
The emailer thought this was a success story and then CCW says not so fast young padawan.
he SUCCESSFULLY showed that girl that he's more feminine that she is lol
Coach Corey,
This was a great video, I appreciate it.
@CoachCoreyWayne: Whoa!!! 😲😲😂😅 Not the $5000 Jacket & $2000 Pants!!! You had my head hurting from laughing so hard when you said the toe jam line!!!! Oh Man!!!! The roasting is on a whole new level, Brother!!! I’m enjoying it!!! Keep going!!! 🙌🏾 💪🏾 😅😅😅😅
You're on fire corey. The chad thundercock blocking her toilet and the feet kissing / soy boy comments made me spat out my tea 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Be a CHAD not a VAG😂😂😂😂
"I'M come'n unglued"😂😂😂
Hilarious.
After watching dozens of these videos, one of my favorite parts is when Corey mocks the dude in the beta voice. He has a smirk while doing it, which adds to the funny.
Haha oh man, this is one of your best videos for a while, and SO funny too! Brutal yet honest.
Keep em coming Corey, these videos where you answer emails are the BEST! You're a very funny guy 😂
Never knew Corey was such a savage lmao! Nearly chocked whilst eating spicy wings 3 times! 😭
Damn! Coach went OFF! 🤣 great analysis 👏
The Six Million Dollar Man was awesome! I've been watching that late night TV
Hahaha Corey’s voices lately have had me dying.
If you want a good laugh just skip right to 10:55-11:15 😆😆🤣🤣
if you can't handle her, it's your fault.
2:27 “jump up and down so your balls finally drop” legend
This guy's gotten funnier as he's gotten older. Stay gold coach!
WAKE UP LOL, Had SOD and Rage against the machine popping in my head.
9:16 this goes to show, even with every cheat code enabled, if we can’t figure out how to become our own first priority then our lives become meaningless
11:39 most guys have absolutely no idea how to navigate or tolerate tension/stress so it makes sense that they panic
20:42 most “Nice Guys” have a fundamental belief that who they are at their core is unacceptable, unlovable, worthless, burdensome, etc. so it’s going to keep emanating out until a new paradigm is installed. Band aids will only work temporarily
Lol man, you nailed the beta bob voice!
“C’mon man what’re you thinking saying some shit like that?” 😂😂
This hit home. I had to stop listening. Brutal but true.
This guy needs to spend the weekend with david goggins and jaco haha
One of my favorite CW videos
🤣🤣🤣 I don’t know why I’m laughing, I’ve acted like this in the past but those days are gone , I’m 007 now , licensed to chill and thrill , WOOF WOOF
6:28 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This video was hilarious 😂 🤣
Lee Majors would love this ;)
He behaves a lot like Peter Keating from "The Fountainhead" haha
I don't like it when men like this guy doesn't have any self-respect for himself. One day, they are going to have to learn the hard way. And I really hope they wake the hell up!!
I'm the good looking guy that's a bitch and im codependant. Damnit...
Do something about it!
Like what ??
@juanlaoss1063 man ip snd stop being a co dependent bitch. Develop indifference. Not hard
6:30 This story never gets old 😂
19:40 You want her trying to lock you down to a commitment, because that’s feminine energy.
19:50 Act like a man consistently. When you vacillate back and forth between being the leader / being masculine and being feminine - her attraction goes up and down, and is enough to keep her interested and sleep with you, but not enough to develop deep feelings for you where she respects you as a man. You just act like an immature little boy “man baby.”
Seal( voice) corey vs robot (voice) corey . Who u got ??
My Moneys on robot cory 😂😂
If u ain't alfa male u ain't poop.
Alfa males don't look back they just keep on going forward . This way no drama for your mama.
Hahaha this one was hilarious 😂
Harry Honda!!!!!
Corey is so funny lmao
Phenomenal tongue lashing!
Set up sexual situations and match her energy... excellent
i cant handle it emotionally lolololol
everything he says sounds like it was written by a girl, all about feelings and emotions it's just sad
Wait I really don't get the email, does he want a long term thing with her or not? 😂
Yes! The six million dollar man! Haha
Why?
Question; I watch a ton of your videos, did No Contact for quite a while, and she started reaching out, and set up a time to meet last week. She kind of flaked but then set up a time to meet again cpl days after and fell through. But she instigated both. I accidentally saw her on the street next day and was visually annoyed and a bit perterbed I think, I didn't mean to be but I was short and a bit mean/rude. I was caught off guard and was wanting to go in at a scheduled time all positive and fun in the moment. I fucked it up by being indifferent/rude cause it was unexpected run in and I allowed myself to get upset she flaked. Should I say I was upset at something else, ignore and not mention it, or reach out (she hasn't again reached out since) and she was prior. Everything was perfect till this accidental run-in. At a loss cause did no contact for month
I really didn’t hear anything about how he should have acted. You just said how he was doing all wrong. What should he have done just walked away.
At a higher abstract level, women will experience less attraction when a guy does anything that the woman's social instinct interprets to be one of the following:
-Neediness
-Insecurity
-Approval Seeking Behavior
So, don't BS yourself if you want a woman and make sure all your behavior does not fall in those categories.
For some men, being beta is the only option we have. If we were to try doing the "alpha" behaviors, it comes off as an act or that we're pretending. If you're not an alpha male, trying to act like an alpha male just looks silly and no woman is attracted to it.
@@junosynth Because I, and most men, aren't 6'2" millionaires.
@@junosynth He went over that in the video.
To be an alpha u gotta hv money , n good dick ...Just acting alpha will get u nothing
From what I gathered in this video, he never said you had to be an alpha male. He said you should more effectively manage your emotions, self validate, and find something productive to do rather than worry about why she does or does not like you
Chad Thundercock 😂
Where can I buy your book??
Amazon
@zocuad6710 thanks heaps 👍
Little love plane lmao
Toe jam? Eeewwwwwww!
Come on man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (face palm)
In 2023, a lot of men just can't be helped. Lol!!
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Lol chain smoking cigarettes
No me rio del tipo, pues, estoy peor que él. Perdedor, vida aburrida de 💩 en la que me encuentro.
Bata ....
Anybody who disagrees with the coaches wisdom will ALWAYS end up playing hide the salami with a hot apple pie.
hahahahhahhahahhahahhahhahahhahah!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hahahahaa coray Damn hahahahaa
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I once had a friend who told me his parents where very active when he was a kid. And he didn't mean Exercise or Extreme Sports. They where both Socialists and his mother was a feminist. The outcome is an overweight divorced, Middle-Class Male feminist whos wife is now living with another woman who is a Police Sargeant. He is also an alcoholic who often calls me a mysoginist for saying stuff that gives him hurty feelings.
Been a while I laughed so hard, literally crying sometimes.
HOLY SHIT LOL. This dude is chronic. COREY DONT MISSSSS.
Glad to be back after a couple of years, I found the book more than 10 years ago and I’ve only read it three times. 😅
I’m still acting like a little bitch too. 🥹