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    Hey there, it's Charlotte Dobre, and in today's video, we're going to be talking about worst first dates that got exposed on TikTok.
    Let's face it, we've all been on bad dates before. Whether it's the person being rude, showing up late, or just being a plain old weirdo, bad dates are unfortunately a common occurrence.
    But what happens when these bad dates get exposed on social media for the world to see? That's exactly what we're going to be discussing today.
    We'll be taking a look at some of the most cringe-worthy dates that were shared on TikTok. From people being ghosted mid-date to others getting stood up completely, these are the stories that will make you want to cringe and laugh at the same time.
    But it's not just about the bad dates themselves, it's about the aftermath. We'll be exploring how these videos went viral and what the reactions were like from both the public and the people involved.
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  • @CharlotteDobre
    @CharlotteDobre  ปีที่แล้ว +3014

    Just a note here since many of you are getting a bit heated: I do recognize most fake videos and I ask the editors to cut them out-y’all just don’t see that because they don’t make the Final Cut that gets posted to TH-cam. I didn’t catch that the first one in this video was fake and neither did my content producer or my editor. My content producers find me thousands of videos to react to every single month. Out of those thousands, it’s extremely possible that some will be staged, and that’s okay. The message is still relevant and so is my commentary.

    • @aimeehaimowitz2240
      @aimeehaimowitz2240 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      I love you charlotte

    • @fabialvarez13
      @fabialvarez13 ปีที่แล้ว +215

      It is just entertainment. Aint that deep. Love your content

    • @kayleighandhercat1351
      @kayleighandhercat1351 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      People just want to find something to whine about! Love you and your content, it keeps me sane.

    • @InteriorDesignStudent
      @InteriorDesignStudent ปีที่แล้ว +121

      I did spot the ring on her finger that looks like an engagement ring but only when I looked for it. It didn't scream "fake" to me, so people need to lay off the criticism.

    • @Omgits7ito
      @Omgits7ito ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Charlotte never apologize! You’re so real with your reactions I don’t even care sometimes a fake video slips through cuz you’re still always so genuine and real 🙌🏽 love your channel !! I always look forward to your uploads 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @jimmywait74
    @jimmywait74 ปีที่แล้ว +1497

    I met someone on a tinder date. There was no attraction, but we became somewhat good friends. A year after hanging out with this person on a regular basis I finally met a group of his friends and they asked me why I was calling him Dan. I was like "because that's his name?" He got all flusterd and pulled me aside and told me he used a fake name on dating sites and after we became friends he didn't know how to tell me that wasn't his real name. I called him the wrong name for a freaking year.

    • @goodbher9244
      @goodbher9244 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      🤣. I used to also use a fake name after running into one stalker on a dating app, but I'd tell people after a few days of knowing them once I was more secure that they weren't an obsessed crazy stalker. Most people were pretty understanding, but some were upset that I lied to them, before I even knew them. 😂

    • @ThatGuy-vi8ch
      @ThatGuy-vi8ch ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I find fake names on dating apps to be a red flag. Either the person is in a relationship, attracts creeps, or is just a liar for funsies. All of those for me are normally a quick pass. I get it's for your safety, but to violate trust right off the bat when trying to find someone to trust you wholeheartedly seems like not my cup of tea.

    • @jmev.4732
      @jmev.4732 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I've used variations of my name before. I will tell guys I want to talk to my name as soon as possible though.

    • @Ariel-uj3kk
      @Ariel-uj3kk ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I use to use my middle name on the apps and only told ppl I like my first name. Also I have two middle names so I had options.

    • @iratakeuchi3031
      @iratakeuchi3031 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I went on a few dates but ultimately am just friends with someone who uses fake names (different ones on each app he’s on) and idk. It’s not really a red flag if you think about internet safety.

  • @phoenixgarcia-martin8203
    @phoenixgarcia-martin8203 ปีที่แล้ว +1787

    The second one is a cute story 😂😂 I got to drunk on my first date and he stayed with me until I was ok. I couldn’t walk and I kept throwing up. The next day I woke up to him seating on the couch. He said “you okay? I made breakfast for you.” I was drunk but I knew what was going on around me. He cured my handover which was until evening. We’ve been together for 20 years. 😊

    • @Greenteabook
      @Greenteabook ปีที่แล้ว +114

      That's the sign of a genuine guy, either a keeper or a lifelong friend. Sounds like you got both!

    • @Shining_Nikki_Lover
      @Shining_Nikki_Lover ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Are you still together

    • @yurioroku6983
      @yurioroku6983 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Aww, that's so cute!

    • @phoenixgarcia-martin8203
      @phoenixgarcia-martin8203 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@Shining_Nikki_Lover yeah, we’ve been together for 20 years now and going on 21 years. ☺️

    • @theAussie01
      @theAussie01 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ​@@phoenixgarcia-martin8203 great for both of you yeah😊

  • @Seldarius
    @Seldarius 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

    Love the cabin story. If someone’s that chill and supportive if absolutely everything goes wrong, he’s a keeper.

    • @judyjudy158
      @judyjudy158 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The cabin girl looks so familiar but I can't place her. Was she on a reality TV show?? 🤔 🖥

    • @galaxytrashbag475
      @galaxytrashbag475 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@judyjudy158She made an appearance in a previous Charlotte video where she was talking about being late for work and getting fired (or something like that).

    • @LizBoschert
      @LizBoschert 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ⁠@@judyjudy158I think she was on a dating show, I remember watching her too.

  • @edwardcurl2136
    @edwardcurl2136 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    I never went on a date until I was 22. I had just returned from an overseas assignment in the Air Force. I was set up on blind date. She was avery beautiful lady. She made laugh so much on the date I was crying. We've been married for 47 years ane she's the only lady I've dated. So that's my best and worse first date.

    • @autumn1734
      @autumn1734 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Awww congratulations 👏🎉👏

    • @Katharina14031982
      @Katharina14031982 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That is really sweet!

    • @jenniferwintz2514
      @jenniferwintz2514 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That's a beautiful story!

    • @HoneyQuint
      @HoneyQuint ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You are one lucky man ❤

    • @jikook7457
      @jikook7457 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      What a beautiful story. ❤ Thank u for sharing it. Congrats to u both!

  • @SherryEllesson
    @SherryEllesson ปีที่แล้ว +703

    Speaking of di queries...a friend of mine was in Mexico and didn't speak any Spanish (at all). He went into a pharmacy looking for mosquito repellant and went through a whole, hysterical pantomime flapping his arms, buzzing and holding up a protruding finger like he had this big extended nose that could poke people. The folks who worked at the drug store didn't have the heart to tell him that mosquito is a Spanish word and they knew what he was looking for. They watched him swat his own face several times before they handed him a bottle of repellant and sent him on his way.

    • @d4ever649
      @d4ever649 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      💀🤣

    • @ammie886
      @ammie886 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂

    • @argrette
      @argrette ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂🤣💀

    • @yukikursosaki200
      @yukikursosaki200 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Well, thanks to that story I know NOT to make that mistake lol

    • @dubblebubbletoilandtrouble6646
      @dubblebubbletoilandtrouble6646 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Prior to this, the most humbling "I don't speak Spanish" story I'd ever heard was when a guy I know who was visiting Mexico on a missions trip said he was "embarazado" while trying to say that he was embarrassed, but I think that this is somehow worse.

  • @TheTewjr
    @TheTewjr ปีที่แล้ว +607

    My worst first date story: I was set up on a blind date for the freshman class party in college. The guy was cute and we had good conversation. But for some reason he kept leaving the room for a few minutes and then coming back without an explanation. Eventually his friend told me that my date had eaten something that morning that didn't agree with him, and he kept leaving the room to go throw up. But he didn't want to embarrass me by leaving me in the middle of the party, so he was sticking it out.
    That was when my date and I were 18 and 19. We have now been married 32 years. :-)

    • @bo2720
      @bo2720 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Soooo did u Kiss on the first date😂

    • @zukostryder
      @zukostryder ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Ah damn that poor guy Thats sooo cute

    • @Rae777
      @Rae777 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      That’s so cute! He really didn’t want to cancel on you. That’s dedication from the beginning. I can see why y’all got married and have stayed together ❤❤

    • @brittany.harden
      @brittany.harden 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      He was definitely a trooper

    • @MadameClaudette
      @MadameClaudette 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      worst first date 🤦

  • @kimberlywilson3163
    @kimberlywilson3163 ปีที่แล้ว +1037

    I’m already yelling “HOW ARE YOU NOT EMBARRASSED!“ in Charlotte Dobre

    • @yonpark6245
      @yonpark6245 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I one hundo percent deadpan ABSOLUTELY NOT in Charlotte Dobre now. She's a dialect.

    • @meganchambers8108
      @meganchambers8108 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      And on the flip side "YESSS WE LOVE IT!"

    • @melindal.614
      @melindal.614 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      SAME! LOL

    • @123bimmies123
      @123bimmies123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha I was gonna post this😂

    • @toysanas
      @toysanas ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same I watch so many videos now that I've just started to talk like her.

  • @babycherrypie87
    @babycherrypie87 ปีที่แล้ว +514

    For the guy who saw the wrong girl, I have a similar story:
    I met a guy "Andy" who was a friend of a friend at their show. Musician, brown eyes, long beard, cute smile; you get it. We swapped numbers and agreed to meet a few days later.
    Later comes along, I happened to go to my 10 year high school reunion earlier in the night, and it was very very cheap drinks.
    By the time I got to the bar to meet him, it was pretty packed. Looking around I turned and smiled seeing him on the other end of the bar. Long beard, cute smile, brown eyes, check, check, check.
    He smiled back, so I walked up to him all familiar and said, "hey how are you?"
    He looked like a combination of surprised and delighted and said, "Um hey, I'm "Jack" nice to meet you". I panicked internally, ended up introducing myself and befriending him because I was equally embarrassed and had tons of liquid courage. We continued to hang out, and he invited me to get something to eat. He drove us to what used to be a 24 hour diner, but changed hours and was closed. I very politely asked him to pull over anyway and opened my door to throw up in the gutter while apologizing profusely.
    He takes me to his house, and while I half sit/ half sprawl across his bed, he politely helps me take my shoes off, as I answer my phone - finally Andy calling to let me know he had gone home cause he couldn't find me. Jack was a gentleman, and the next morning after asprin and coffee consumed, we hit it off, meeting a few times after.
    While not together, Jack and I are friends to this day. Andy turned out to have had a girlfriend and figured I was "cool to be discreet" - massive bullet dodged.

    • @MykkiOnTheCusp
      @MykkiOnTheCusp ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Jack sounds like a consummate gentleman!

    • @jenniferwilliams9548
      @jenniferwilliams9548 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Great story, Love that you two became friends!!

    • @babycherrypie87
      @babycherrypie87 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      It was over a year that I buckled and told Jack; he thought it was hilarious

    • @kimsawford9283
      @kimsawford9283 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Jack, in that moment was a guardian angel in disguise 🙏 thrilled to hear you became friends, everyone needs a Jack 💚🙏

    • @izzyt1626
      @izzyt1626 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No kidding 😂 oml 😩

  • @mysam4504
    @mysam4504 ปีที่แล้ว +555

    "My friends are here." I have literal TEARS rolling down my face from the second story. I had to pause the video to regain my composure. 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Ivy94F
      @Ivy94F ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That poor girl!!! Lol! That was the kind of stuff you see on sitcoms, not real life. 😂😂😂

    • @mysam4504
      @mysam4504 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      ​@@Ivy94FI know, right?! I was laughing throughout the whole story, but I lost it at, "My friends are here."

    • @unicorndreamer8361
      @unicorndreamer8361 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same! I was rolling 😂😂

    • @RentalMileHighExoticMotors
      @RentalMileHighExoticMotors 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      i snorted laughing....oh by the way did i mention im at work with a headset on!!!

    • @christianaverettjr8980
      @christianaverettjr8980 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Does anyone know who she is? She's hilarious 😂

  • @ellenasaldana3931
    @ellenasaldana3931 ปีที่แล้ว +450

    I met my husband when my daughter was having a bad allergic reaction to my laundry detergent. Down to my last dollar freaking out at the laundry mat. He walked up and gave me $20. Randomly, told me he's a single dad and knows what it's like. We wound up staying up till 2am with all 3 of kids on a school night in a McDonald's parking lot. Best date ever!!!!
    Our joke is he bought me for $20 and now his refund policy is I'll and void. Lol😂😂😂

  • @JustHereForCats
    @JustHereForCats ปีที่แล้ว +104

    This girl who kept mispronouncing daiquiri for her entire video was killing me 😂😂😂
    If that was our first date, I’d have adored every second of her time. She seems amazing

    • @jazbails1888
      @jazbails1888 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      SAME🤣 I’m from Nola and I was like BABE😭 I love her

    • @marzipanchuwu1488
      @marzipanchuwu1488 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It's pretty funny because, as far as I know as a Spanish speaker myself (native), they are pronounced like die kitty if an accent at the last i

    • @Salazuki
      @Salazuki 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marzipanchuwu1488Exactly lol, had me wondering if she really even spoke Spanish . 😂

  • @byronic0967
    @byronic0967 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    On my second date with a guy, he put me in a chokehold because he wanted to show off his martial arts skills. Then he threw me to the ground and started "fake punching" me, all the while I just looked at him in shock, totally speechless. The chokehold actually hurt. But the worst thing is, he didnt even ask if he could show me some moves, but rather just grabbed me without warning. Needless to say, I never saw that guy again 😅

    • @jilysmiles3320
      @jilysmiles3320 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      That happened to me too!!! Major red flag

    • @venomoose4333
      @venomoose4333 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      💀💀bruh where are you people finding these men

    • @jilysmiles3320
      @jilysmiles3320 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @venomoose4333 they're everywhere. Unfortunately hard to spot until it's not

    • @williamnicholson8133
      @williamnicholson8133 ปีที่แล้ว

      A d started a new kink .lol

    • @anadubar4819
      @anadubar4819 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Un-be-liev-able.
      He probably never has had any girlfriend. Girls just avoid him and he doesn't understand why.

  • @amymattaliano7634
    @amymattaliano7634 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Every time someone says they want for a hike or to a cabin on a first (or within the first few) date, all I think of is, "This is how people die in movies." I think the character Trisha in Jeepers Creepers said it best, "You know that part in scary movies when someone does something really stupid and everyone hates them for it? This is it."

    • @phillyphan1225
      @phillyphan1225 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same..or better yet, going up on a random cliff (while being a klutz) and wanting to sit over the side. I picture getting pushed off the ledge - too much true crime I guess!

    • @amymattaliano7634
      @amymattaliano7634 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@phillyphan1225 true. I actually tested an ex boyfriend like that once to see if he was a psychopath. I had reason to believe he was heading in that direction. If he pushed me I would know the truth. He didn't touch me

    • @chelsealynn996
      @chelsealynn996 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@amymattaliano7634 if he pushed you!? Would you have made it through the fall to even know that he was a psychopath!? 🤨

    • @amymattaliano7634
      @amymattaliano7634 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chelsealynn996 the truth is that I knew he wouldn't push me. Either way, it was years ago.

    • @Starry_Skye22
      @Starry_Skye22 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hate to be that guyyyy but unfortunately Jeepers Creepers was made by a convicted sex offender. Victor Salvo. You can look it up. It sucks bc that movie gives me the absolute creeps and to know the guy is a CONVICTED offender makes the movie scarier, but also made me not want to watch it ever again.

  • @tylajo.moonflower
    @tylajo.moonflower 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    I give props to people who keep trying dating throughout their lives. I’m 23, just started dating this year and I’ve already given up after 7 dates, at least for now. And it’s going great and peaceful, just learning to appreciate myself more so I never have to settle for these terrible experiences. These videos remind me that it’s okay to be single.
    Also, I was expecting the hiking girl’s story to end with her getting shoved off the cliff by her date, but I was relieved that it was still lighthearted and she and the guy continued dating after. 💕

    • @slenderforgood
      @slenderforgood 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I also feared her date was going to push her off the cliff, lol!

  • @ayabeth5176
    @ayabeth5176 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    My worst date ever is my first date with my now husband of 9 years.
    I'm a over weight non active person. He says we're going to hang time which is a athletic trampoline place, I said yes because I didn't know what is was and it was our first date going outside.
    We get there, I'm terrified so I go safe while he is jumping up and down on the trampoline.
    I see a kid, around 12 yo, yelling at his friends "Hey Adam! Do a triple!" and Adam says ok! and does a triple twist jumping on the trampoline.
    I see this, thought "If a kid can do that, maybe I can give it a try....." (Worst decision of my life)
    I get in line, jump on the tramp, twist my ankle and goes to the corner with chairs to sit down.
    The worker starts talking to me, I'm just watching my guy thinking why isn't he noticing me? Then, I start to black out.
    The worker is still talking to me, my guy finally noticed me and came over, but me being stubborn and stupid tells him I'm ok, go have fun. Then I pass out.
    The worker is trying to wake me up, my guy is in panic thinking I have a bad asthma attack, runs to the car to get my inhaler than runs back (almost got ran over while running) then gives me the inhaler saying "I don't know how to use this! HOW DO YOU USE THIS!"
    I wake up while he's giving me my inhaler, uses it, than barf all over the worker, and almost on my date.
    We than leave the place to get clothes to change into for me, he's being a gentleman and tries yo buy me new clothes and asked me my clothes size.
    Me, have had enough embarrassments for the day tells him NO, ILL GO because I didn't want to tell him my dress size. I ran inside, grabbed the first set of clothes I found and bought them. It was the fastest clothes shopping I have ever done and ever will (it costed me a lot more than what I would usually pay).
    Still surprised we dated after that and got married.

  • @MindiB
    @MindiB ปีที่แล้ว +380

    The guy who greeted the wrong girl on a first date seems like a sweetheart to me. I hope he finds someone who appreciates him.

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig ปีที่แล้ว +26

      When I used to be on dating sites, there were so many profiles where the main/all pics would be of 2 or more women. So I don't really fault him for not knowing.
      I too wish him the best.

    • @kaluca
      @kaluca ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I got bad vibes from him

  • @kenmasugarbaby1946
    @kenmasugarbaby1946 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    the second date was sooo funny and so sweet of her date to stay with her until the very end, considering the amount of eventful stuff he witnessed and experienced from the girl haha. he's a real one.

  • @woodpigeon7776
    @woodpigeon7776 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Bawled out laughing at the girl who fainted/pooped. She told that story really well

  • @cj030400
    @cj030400 ปีที่แล้ว +572

    my boyfriend walked into a pole on our first date because he was too busy looking at me and i just knew he was the one

    • @christinamann3640
      @christinamann3640 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Love at first concussion 💞

    • @gratitude3673
      @gratitude3673 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      ​@@christinamann3640😂😂😂😂😂

    • @janineblaze3417
      @janineblaze3417 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Awww now that’s sweet 🥰

    • @erzsieke
      @erzsieke ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@christinamann3640😂😂😂

    • @spaceparrot8702
      @spaceparrot8702 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I mean, what better sign could one ask for? :D

  • @MiracleCEde
    @MiracleCEde ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “It was a 5 7” blonde girl, they all look the same”😂😂
    Dudeee

  • @rebeckacalkins1616
    @rebeckacalkins1616 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    The girl with all the mishaps on her first date and the guy who stuck around, that was awesome! If you can make it through something like that in the early stages, you are long term material. It's interesting to see who is willing to stick around in crisis. If he's there for you getting sick on the first date, then keep him around!

    • @angelicaarteaga9311
      @angelicaarteaga9311 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That story reminded me of when I was in the begging stages of my relationship and my bf asked to use my bathroom. After some time I got concerned and asked if he needed anything. He clogged my toilet so bad the plunger wasn’t doing anything. It was so bad my mom ended up checking on us and had to help 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.

  • @TheNyteScrybe
    @TheNyteScrybe ปีที่แล้ว +71

    One of my inlaws has significant IBS. From what I remember from the story, on her first date with this guy she went to grade school with (they had crushes on one another back then), he took her on his fancy , expensive fishing boat. Only a few minutes after they set off, she had intense stomach pain and told her date she had to go to the bathroom...pronto. He thought she was kidding . She wasn't...and the worst happened. She had to carry her soiled jeans in a plastic bag and he had to clean up his boat when they got back to the riverbank and obviously, ended the date early. Not only did he ask her out again...but they will be celebrating their third wedding anniversary in October. Now, THAT is true love.

  • @elizabethnorris1298
    @elizabethnorris1298 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I never went on dates assuming I would be paid for. My now husband of 17 years took me to a very expensive restaurant on our first date and I was broke. I looked at the menu and had a mini heart attack so I told him I wasn’t that hungry and ordered just a side Caesar salad.😂
    I just admitted to him like five years ago why that was my first date meal😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kyndread71
    @kyndread71 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    The diarrhea chick -- I hope she and the guy got married.
    That story was fkn epic.

  • @breevans5219
    @breevans5219 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    UPDATE: HE PROPOSED TODAY!☺️💍
    My boyfriend and I didn't have our first actual date until we had already been going out for about 3 months and realized we hadn't been on a proper date🤣First time we meet, we were just meeting as potential friends. Ended up spending about 11 and a half hours together just drinking and talking (yay UK culture) and I didn't have intentions of dating anyone at the time. Fast forward and we're still together 2 years today 😊

    • @pastelrave7432
      @pastelrave7432 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Congratulations

    • @thebosshouse
      @thebosshouse ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Congratulations!!

    • @jeanams07
      @jeanams07 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Awwww! I am so happy for you guys! 💗

    • @breevans5219
      @breevans5219 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@pastelrave7432 thank you! 🤗

    • @breevans5219
      @breevans5219 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@harvestgoddess709 thank you! 🤗

  • @abnmp7865
    @abnmp7865 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Worst first date- Picked a Mexican girl up at her house. There was a family reunion. She wanted to introduce me to her entire family. FML. Wait there’s more. Everyone, except her sister, spoke the same amount of English as I did Spanish- none. After introductions that were mainly head nods and smiles she sat me down in the living room and went to mingle. I sat staring and smiling at everyone else. Her sister stopped to talk to me was it. Her sister did tell her I was bored and she needed to spend time with me, but she wanted to see her relatives. I couldn’t even drink since I was driving. After an hour and a half I made an excuse and left. So much for the date. 😂😂😂 What’s really funny is my wife is Korean and meeting her family was exactly the same thing. 😂😂😂

  • @flrrb
    @flrrb ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I was at a bar with my WIFE, and I went out for a smoke. I came back in and kissed her on the cheek, saying, "Hey baby, I'm back."
    Then I looked at this woman and her guy. My first comment was, "I'm so sorry, I thought you were my wife."
    At this same time, my wife came out of the restroom to see me kissing another woman on the cheek.
    It's funny now... but that was not a good night for me. 😂

    • @SourPickles8
      @SourPickles8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dang ouch

    • @RedK5
      @RedK5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @prnc96
      @prnc96 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How did you not get punched lol

    • @polkadots2823
      @polkadots2823 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you not recognizing your own wife? Or you just someone that likes to kiss some random women and call it a day

    • @flrrb
      @flrrb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @polkadots2823 this woman looked just like my wife, and she was during in the same spot that my wife was when I went outside.

  • @leika67
    @leika67 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    I had a first date that seemed like everything kept going wrong. I gave him wrong directions on accident and he showed up like 30 mins late. We were almost late for the movie and he seemed really shy. I felt so bad that he ghosted me… for a year! Texted me out of the blue (yes a year later) we ended up trying a second date and been together ever since. Been married 7 years now.

    • @veesuzu
      @veesuzu ปีที่แล้ว +10

      did he say why he texted you after a year??

    • @HoneyQuint
      @HoneyQuint ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes! Why did he ghost you for one year???

    • @meowtiger5964
      @meowtiger5964 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We’re all wondering the same thing here 😂 why did he message you a year later?

    • @leika67
      @leika67 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He had to go out of country for his best friends wedding. When he got back he started a new job on nights and was afraid he waited too long to text me back. He finally texted me back a year later as a Hail Mary when he was ready to try dating again(probably with the help of some liquid courage). He was really shy the first few months we dated and has always had a high work ethic so time just kinda got away from him. It work out, we were both working nights at the time and I think both over the “dating” scene.

  • @LivingAsAGhost
    @LivingAsAGhost 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Dude i have IBS-D and travel anxiety that makes that worse but that one girls story gives me hope theres someone out there that will deal with my stomach issues :(

  • @nom-nomnami1743
    @nom-nomnami1743 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I love the "cabin in the woods" story! Practically every date story I've heard, where one or the other of the couple has something terrible and/or mortifyingly embarrassing happen to them. They almost always go on to be long-term.

  • @gatita1974
    @gatita1974 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    The girl in the daiquiri story was basically saying the word correctly if we are going along with the fact that it is actually a Spanish word. The drink is Cuban and phonetically it is pronounced die-keer-ree. She took the Spanish pronunciation and just said it like a non-Spanish speaker. 😊

    • @MarisolFerreiraMarysoul
      @MarisolFerreiraMarysoul ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That 👆

    • @bexyr
      @bexyr ปีที่แล้ว +38

      As an Italian I didn't understand what the problem was, to me she was clearly saying it right. On the other hand if I had listened to the English pronunciation I would not have understood. It makes my skin crawl like when they say paella or jalapenos to stay in theme

    • @prnc96
      @prnc96 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She said daiqueeree not daikiri tho

    • @SumireIsrafel
      @SumireIsrafel ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bexyr How do you pronounce paella? I hadn't heard of it until I worked in sk funnily enough, there they called it like "pie-eh-ya/paiehya"

    • @PropertyOfK
      @PropertyOfK ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@SumireIsrafel double L in spanish is pronounced Y - in european spanish I would say pa-ey-a : )

  • @kipaustin8765
    @kipaustin8765 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love what you said about not letting him pay if you don’t see it going anywhere…so mature and kind you are a real lady!

  • @jessiealexander3515
    @jessiealexander3515 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    For me, it wasn’t so much the first date, but the after-ness. We were at a Super Bowl party and had a great time, but my best friend was looking at him really uncomfortably and kept shrinking away from him. I brushed it off, figuring she just didn’t like him. After he left, she told me he went to her school and HE HAD STALKED HER. He even followed her right onto her bus and straight to her house 😱😱😱😱😱

    • @noyesbonne
      @noyesbonne ปีที่แล้ว +38

      There's a local creep who rides the bus. He's had a history of trying to force his way into homes of girls he's bothering.
      Every time he sits by me, on the bus, he tries his pitch. I remind him every time I know what he's up to, I've seen him before, and give him my version of "Oh, Hell no, psycho!!"
      He's finally in jail for some of this, but it was a long time coming.

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yikes!

  • @louisejohnson6057
    @louisejohnson6057 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    About 40ish years ago, my friend make the drunken move of giving my phone number to a guy she worked with. He called me and for some stupid reason I agreed to go out with him. Charlotte, this was in your old university stomping ground of Victoria. There was this bar that was the biggest dive in town, filled with some real degenerates and not considered to be very safe at all. I'd only been there once before when my friend and I were getting off-sales, and the stripper was quite visibly pregnant. And this was where this guy chose to take me, on a first date. He then proceeded to sit and talk to his friends, and ignore me. After about 20 minutes I went to the bathroom, but instead asked the bartender to call me a taxi, and I left. I found out later that he was married, not separated, actively married. He then had the gall to bitch to my friend about how I embarrassed him in front of his friends. I hated dating, and avoided it until I met my husband. We were together for 22 years and we split almost 6 years ago, although we're still good friends. I moved to Winnipeg after the split and I haven't dated at all here. I don't care if I'm single for my "golden" years, I'm happy with my cat Chewie, and my friends. If I meet somebody, fine, but I'm not interested in searching someone out.

    • @jenniferwintz2514
      @jenniferwintz2514 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You just be Golden, Girl! You're just living your best life now. There's a huge difference between alone and lonely. I think you are the former. You are a complete person, regardless of who else may or may not be in your life. Cheers!

    • @seanothepop4638
      @seanothepop4638 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What a story! And an adventure and a life! 22 years is no joke, I'm 55, the longest relationship I've been in was a year, dated a few times befor and after that but naw, I got my cats, weed and the youtube. I'm fine! You can go golden anytime!

    • @louisejohnson6057
      @louisejohnson6057 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@seanothepop4638 , that's me too, my cat Chewbella(Chewie for short), weed and TH-cam, and I'm not complaining about that, lol!
      What's your fur-face named?

    • @louisejohnson6057
      @louisejohnson6057 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jenniferwintz2514 , exactly, I'm often alone, but I'm very rarely lonely. It helps that I'm what's known as an extroverted introvert. I prefer to simply hang out with my cat, but when I go out to the store, or to meet someone for coffee, I'm very chit-chatty. Thank you for your encouraging words Jennifer, that was lovely!

  • @justcallmeangeleyes
    @justcallmeangeleyes ปีที่แล้ว +7

    8:45 You better have graciously thanked that random man who offered to grab your phone for you and pay it forward

  • @highflowerfairy2554
    @highflowerfairy2554 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    The chick laughing her ass off as she told the story of her first date with her dude restored my faith in true romance.
    I agree, hopefully they share bodily fluids for life. Too cute.

  • @davidguidry657
    @davidguidry657 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Girl: “I’m a bit of a thrill seeker and want to dangle my feet over the edge.”
    Also girl: “I’m a bit of a klutz.”
    Me thinking that these two things should not be embodied in the same person. Know your limits girl! 😂🤣

    • @davidguidry657
      @davidguidry657 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@UnExcited42 fully agree that ya first gotta learn your limits but if she already knows she’s a klutz then why tempt fate was my point.

    • @RedK5
      @RedK5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@davidguidry657bad combination but it happens

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch ปีที่แล้ว +4

      RIGHT?!! I know I'm a klutz, so I never go near the edge of anything!
      I live on a mountain and most of my 20 acre property is not flat. My house sits on the top of the highest point, and there are two deep ravines on either side but a few dozen feet away. There's even a ridge that has a cliff drop of @ 60 feet, straight down that I don't go near. When I'm outside I use a walking pole, but I still fall frequently.
      A month ago, I wasn't watching my feet and tripped over the tire in my goat pen that holds their rubber food dish. I went flying, fell face first in goat poop that got in my mouth! Worst of all, I fractured my nose and had black eyes for over a week. The next day I was very dizzy, and while trying to sweep the floor in my kitchen I passed out and hit the floor, hard. My metal rimmed glasses dug deep into the side of my forehead and blood was everywhere from the gash it left. I should have gotten stitches because that gash hasn't healed very nicely.
      My son came back from a hike, saw copious amounts of blood on the kitchen floor and found me lying down in my room, not making much sense. I wouldn't let him call for help, he told me later, but now I think that was a mistake. I must have had a concussion because I don't remember anything that day after I felt myself losing consciousness.

    • @RedK5
      @RedK5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LazyIRanch I’m a klutz but I like looking down. I perfected the art of having a death grip on my things so I won’t lose them to gravity

    • @RedK5
      @RedK5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LazyIRanch also I’m glad you’re alive

  • @agphotographyis
    @agphotographyis 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The girl that dropped her phone & kept mentioning her dad not knowing. Totally thought the dad was going to show up and go crazy on the guy, tracking her phone to a ledge thinking the date harmed her 😂😂

  • @amberlightrunner4696
    @amberlightrunner4696 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    I love our first date story, it supports Charlotte's point. It was Very eventful.
    We had been talking for a while, and decided to meet up at this cute riverside gazebo for a romantic and cute dinner picnick. He had me bring drinks and said he'd bring the food. When we pulled up, it started pouring. We called each other from our respective cars, and agreed to make a run for the gazebo and just enjoy the storm over some dinner. However, the gazebo had other plans for us. It had so many holes with water pouring through it, it was almost worse than being in the rain. So we dashed back and hopped in his car and dried off. We decided to go for broke and just try to eat in the car and chat, and then replan a dinner date later in the week.
    So we start opening up the food, and this man brought ribs. Racks of ribs. I'm game, let's eat car ribs on a first date in the rain. Bonus fact, they sent one napkin. One. And it wasn't a good napkin, no, it was those cheap, thin, brown ones fast food places use. 😅 So needless to say that was destroyed after the first use.
    The conversation thread was going well as we ate, and we ended up just laughing and rolling down the windows so we could rinse our hands in the rain. (It was very late, nothing was open at this point) and now being cleaned up and full, we just kept chatting. We shared our whole lives in that car, and when I tell you this man got out of the car and hopped around in the rain to wake himself up so he could keep talking to me rather than go home and go to bed I do not lie. At the end of the date, which was around 3am at this point he pulled out a rose out of nowhere and asked if I'd go on a second date officially with him. Man was so confident it was going to go well that he had a rose locked and loaded. Then before I could answer he pulls out a Reeses and says, "ya know, to sweeten the deal." 😂
    When we drove away that night I looked at him from my car and knew I was going to marry that man.
    It's been 6 years, we're getting married in October. ❤
    Eventful first dates are a good sign it's going to go fantastic.

    • @kristinw2600
      @kristinw2600 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      OMG that story is the COOLEST. I love this for you!

    • @jsharik2466
      @jsharik2466 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What a beautiful story! ❤

    • @ellielou52
      @ellielou52 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Omg love is REAL

    • @amberlightrunner4696
      @amberlightrunner4696 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @ellielou52 lol it is and it feels amazing every day.

    • @eliza_lynn_moonmaiden
      @eliza_lynn_moonmaiden ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That's the most badass, beautiful first date story I've read. I'm kinda tearing up, no lie. I wish you many more beautiful and lovely years together ❤️ 💕

  • @therelocatednewyorker9664
    @therelocatednewyorker9664 ปีที่แล้ว +2907

    The first video seems fake. She’s wearing an engagement ring. I think it’s her actual fiancé and staged.

    • @LauraAM1010
      @LauraAM1010 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      Same.

    • @IronMaiden756
      @IronMaiden756 ปีที่แล้ว +312

      I came here to say this. People are so social media desperate for any attention these days.

    • @Liltretre75
      @Liltretre75 ปีที่แล้ว +283

      I love Charlotte but she has the habit of reacting to fake videos😂

    • @ethelcipollone
      @ethelcipollone ปีที่แล้ว +289

      It is fake, also she doesn't pick the videos so it's not her fault

    • @ElizabethTheUnicorn829
      @ElizabethTheUnicorn829 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      100%

  • @lara-chan7482
    @lara-chan7482 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My biggest issue with the two dates i got so far is,that it was boring. We never got over the basic funny part. I never saw much unique personality shine through.
    But i think if some crap like this goes down,you learn a lot more about that person, you're friends just because you got a story together

  • @elleanorjinner6965
    @elleanorjinner6965 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    My very first date ever was one for the books. It was a blind date set up by my friend who said that I should give the guy a chance, he was a coworker of hers at the time. We reserved a table at Mcgrath's Fish house for 6pm on Valentine's Day, I paid for half, he paid for half. HOWEVER! When the day came to meet each other in person, I dolled myself up a little I looked alright and pretty good. I come to find out he was there already, I go to check myself in, only to be told my reservation was already taken by "me" already. Yep, my blind date stole my half the reservation I PAID FOR to bring someone else.
    I told my friend about it and she was mortified, she could not stop apologizing to me for her mistake that night and brought over a bottle of vodka to share with me. Of course I forgave her knowing she probably didn't know this guy would do that. Oof, I tell you the event put me off love for awhile.

    • @lissieloveskitties
      @lissieloveskitties ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You totally should have gone to the table and asked the woman for your money back in front of him 😂

    • @salamanda11
      @salamanda11 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve never heard of a place where you pay ahead like that. What a shitty dude.

  • @persephonessong
    @persephonessong ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I love that girl who fainted so much. That whole story was crazy, hilarious, and it had the best ending ❤ I can't wait for their wedding! 🎉

  • @dawnpalmby5100
    @dawnpalmby5100 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    1:56 the whole "sure u dont want a salad instead" knowing he had no intention of paying is soo messed up

  • @Sarah_D.
    @Sarah_D. ปีที่แล้ว +65

    My friend's ex-husband was from Turkey, so English was his second language. But, he had lived here in the US for over a decade before they started dating, so he was very fluent. Honestly, if it wasn't for his accent, you'd probably never know it wasn't his first language. However, there was one phrase he kept messing up. Instead of saying, "that sucks," he'd say, "that is suck." Honestly, we all thought it was kind of cute, so I don't think we ever corrected him. Actually, we even used it ourselves on occasion. ☺

    • @giggle_snort
      @giggle_snort ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Little things like that are just endearing. Was about to say he sounds like a lovely person, but you did say "EX-husband," so... 🤷‍♀ lol

    • @jonelfilipek7848
      @jonelfilipek7848 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m using it from now on!

    • @AlexandraR92
      @AlexandraR92 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have an Israeli friend who also says the same thing 😂

  • @brittanyt9787
    @brittanyt9787 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I had the daiquiri issue but with the word hors d'oeuvres. I pronounced it "horse divorce". My parents later on told me that they thought I was mentally challenged and never corrected me

    • @Darth_H8er
      @Darth_H8er ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I may pronounce it the same way 😭😭😂😂

    • @PattyAdams-s3v
      @PattyAdams-s3v ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂

    • @JoCamp696
      @JoCamp696 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have no idea why this got me so bad but it did 😂😂😂

    • @VodkaMutini413
      @VodkaMutini413 ปีที่แล้ว

      I literally just found out how hors d'oeuvres was spelled. I have never seen it written before in my 31 years of living. I was so confused😣

    • @brittanyt9787
      @brittanyt9787 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @VodkaMutini413 if it makes you feel better I had to google how to spell it to make the original comment.

  • @katinabianca
    @katinabianca ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Honestly the second story sounds like the start of a perfect relationship. If you can make it through THAT together you might as well just get married 😂

  • @Nina-rj4nu
    @Nina-rj4nu ปีที่แล้ว +51

    OMG GIRLS!!!! If a man 'forgets his wallet' or is 'waiting for a cheque to clear' (that's a good one), just pay for YOUR meal and leave. It is not illegal and will serve him right.

    • @sarahijordan8047
      @sarahijordan8047 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🙌🏼 YES!!

    • @Reub3
      @Reub3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have to inform young people of this. You'd be surprised how my youngster don't know these types of simple things.

    • @Nina-rj4nu
      @Nina-rj4nu ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OneCatShortOfCrazy Super fake!!!! I mean, a BABY!!! Yeah right.

    • @sarahstanton6483
      @sarahstanton6483 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Neither had placed an order yet, I would have just left and gone to eat elsewhere alone. (Not coz he wasn’t going to pay, but because the guy was trying to con the girl into paying. He was prob on his phone arranging tomorrows meal being paid for with another girl. He didn’t forget his wallet either, he was trying to minimise cost and when he realised it wasn’t working he said he had no way of paying)
      I like to pay for my own meal and maybe the guys meal if I liked them but def not if they expected it on a date.

  • @vgverog
    @vgverog ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Seeing how people react to the unexpected allows you to know them a lot better than a conversation. That's probably why eventful dates bring you to the "make it or break it" phase on the spot. It's the same with vacations, you get a taste of that person's everyday's behavior.

  • @RandomAng3l
    @RandomAng3l ปีที่แล้ว +1

    An eventful date can show how you deal with issues. Working together though the issues is a keeper.

  • @catinthechat01
    @catinthechat01 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Met a guy through an extended friend group at a party back in 2011. Everyone was largely conservative while I was liberal. He got in touch and we met for dinner. He said I'd mentioned RuPaul's Drag Race at the party (season 3 had ended) and found me open minded. Then he confessed to being a closeted cross dresser. It wasn't a date, it was more him finding someone to confide in and I was OK with it. However, within days he talked about all the heavy BDSM he wanted to try with me as his mistress. I said no. He was really put out and said I wasn't nearly as open minded as I thought I was. 🤔

    • @alexiswilliamsinc
      @alexiswilliamsinc ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Well THAT took a turn. 😅😅😅

    • @MaditzMonday
      @MaditzMonday ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That sounds very similar to my ex-husband.

    • @amandajettie7486
      @amandajettie7486 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dang, that escalated quickly.

    • @catinthechat01
      @catinthechat01 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​@@OneCatShortOfCrazy There was actually a gap between proposing the mistress idea and me saying no. I was curious about what he'd want me to do. He wanted to be controlled and disciplined. Given a task and it not being to my liking. The more he talked, he had this whole set up in his head and I was to follow along. Umm, aren't I supposed to be the mistress? I tell you what to do, not the other way around?
      Being a mistress entails work: giving up my time, coming up with scenes, costumes, so was he planning on compensating me to indulge his fantasies? He just had to show up and assumed the experience would be mutually satisfying. I was going to say no all along, but it was too tempting to hear the mind of someone really wanting to be in that scene. As I suspected, me asking for money killed it for him. We never spoke again.

    • @kl9045
      @kl9045 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@AlexisWilliamsinc definitely a left turn

  • @witherdrive
    @witherdrive ปีที่แล้ว +10

    mans at 9:41 shouldve just made it a date with that security guy, what a bro

  • @zukostryder
    @zukostryder ปีที่แล้ว +2

    5:03 my husband will literally sit and watch me go to the bathroom... it's honestly kinda cute tbh

  • @nonotlikethatxoxo9509
    @nonotlikethatxoxo9509 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    First date should always be COFFEE! If it's horrible you can bounce after 15 minutes. If it's good it can turn in to a lunch and the next date can be dinner. Take notes!

    • @user-bd9uo8dw3j
      @user-bd9uo8dw3j ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Only coffee date is walking with a coffee in hand (beach, park and other outdoor places). Sitting down and having coffee dates are boring.

    • @bm-ww8kb
      @bm-ww8kb ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i literally despise a coffee date... i want to get to know you, not feel like im at an interview

    • @Birdbike719
      @Birdbike719 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@user-bd9uo8dw3jalso safer. I'm not going wandering around alone outdoors with someone I just met and I don't know unless it's a group activity.

    • @user-bd9uo8dw3j
      @user-bd9uo8dw3j ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bm-ww8kb 💯

  • @EvenWhenImFalling
    @EvenWhenImFalling ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I was so anxious/nervous on my first date. When he leaned in to kiss me, I ended up almost throwing up on him because I'd worked myself up so much! I managed to turn around and run to the bathroom. I was so embarrassed and I was seriously debating on living in that bathroom for the rest of my life lol 12 years later and he's still the best person I've ever met ❤️❤

  • @arieljade1291
    @arieljade1291 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Who ever did the asking out or said, “let’s go on a date” must pay. Whoever’s idea the date was is the one who should pay.

  • @ashleychristopher7793
    @ashleychristopher7793 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The cabin in the woods story reminded me of a friend's 1st date. She was nervous and got heartburn. But instead of taking Maalox, she downed Miralax and got explosive diarrhea. He still married her and they had a set of twins :)

    • @KitKat10281
      @KitKat10281 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh god, not miralax! 😂 It was meant to be, I guess! ❤

  • @WickedSk8rGrl
    @WickedSk8rGrl ปีที่แล้ว +59

    First video is a joke, that’s her kid and they’re a couple. Charlotte is so cute. She falls for these all the time

    • @anicoleww
      @anicoleww ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Charlotte has now noticed that too, in another comment thread 😂

    • @raylinemueller3120
      @raylinemueller3120 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I saw the engagement ring and thought "Yeah those two are definitely married or engaged." haha

    • @bmljenny
      @bmljenny ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@raylinemueller3120 I figured the video was flipped like a lot of phone videos are, so didn't put it together as an engagement ring.

    • @ashleystrand997
      @ashleystrand997 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They pretty much are all jokes lol

    • @anicoleww
      @anicoleww ปีที่แล้ว

      @hollowlunax I agree lol I'm just here for laughs

  • @rikkblack
    @rikkblack ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the third video about the HS couple hiking would definitely not be considered the bad first date! that was such an adventure lol! probably the most excitement they’d ever had including the guy that helped them out. true it was just a phone but imagine telling that story later on it’ll be something that sticks with you forever. probably one of the most adrenaline pumped thing that could’ve happened at the same time for 3 strangers!!! 😂

  • @Jassiepoohbear
    @Jassiepoohbear ปีที่แล้ว +31

    The second video was a terrible date but a damn good story and cherry on top that they're still together! Good for them 😂😂😂

    • @cosmicrae
      @cosmicrae ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so happy for her!

  • @Ktakahashi18
    @Ktakahashi18 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    This is what I needed to not get on dating apps again. Thanks much appreciated.

  • @kayaa5359
    @kayaa5359 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ngl
    The girl with the daiquiri story is freaking adorable

  • @tbriggs5097
    @tbriggs5097 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Awful date was with a semi pro football player who got drunk, made a scene in the restaurant because he was drunk and sobbing, and when the server asked how we would like our check (they were trying to get us out), he stopped sobbing for a moment and said “separate checks”. NEVER IN MY LIFE!!

  • @HappyHaddy
    @HappyHaddy ปีที่แล้ว +74

    The one where she had explosive diarrhoea on their 3rd date, along with everything else, was hilarious. I expected her to say they were married but still together is awesome, I'd say them wedding bells be ringing one day.
    Blessings from Australia 🌻💛🌻

  • @davinahorton4999
    @davinahorton4999 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol the second one made me laugh so hard my face hurt and my sides too.

  • @halleyangel1706
    @halleyangel1706 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    My second date with my now husband was bad. We went to a movie, we saw Suicide Squad, we were driving back to my house and my date hit the bumper of another car. No one got hurt, but his car was broken, and he lived 2 hours away.
    He was embarrassed and kept apologizing, but as my parents said. "Shit happens."
    We hitched his car to a trailer and drove him home.
    Now we're engaged to be married.
    Stranger things have happened

    • @HoneyQuint
      @HoneyQuint ปีที่แล้ว

      Tell us tell us! Congratulations btw

    • @halleyangel1706
      @halleyangel1706 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HoneyQuint Thank you

  • @ashalyce421
    @ashalyce421 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The diquiries story reminds me of my similar story. I was 16 and selling things on Facebook marketplace in my town. A woman was meeting me at the coffee shop with my friends and she typed out "I'm in a silver suv". I read it and said out loud "what's a soov?" 😅 it was in all lowercase so I didn't realize it was SUV and I have never lived it down.

  • @yehleenphotography
    @yehleenphotography ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am Filipino and lives now in New Orleans. First time I ordered Beignets, I said can I order a “Big Nets” and people were laughing 😂

  • @charliebear6325
    @charliebear6325 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Can I just say I so appreciate his Charlotte and her editors go out of their way to post every. single. day. That takes commitment. Thank you Charlotte and crew and I love your videos! ❤❤❤

  • @TheBronzedEmpress
    @TheBronzedEmpress ปีที่แล้ว +15

    For me when I was dating, first dates were always at Starbucks, a simple coffee, not a full dinner. It had nothing to do with money and who would pay, but if I didn't like him I didn't want to be stuck having a full dinner with someone I didn't like. I always had my own money and I drove myself to the location. Coffee dates will save you money and your precious time! 😅

    • @eugeniaskelley5194
      @eugeniaskelley5194 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Plus going on a coffee date means no one is drinking and driving. Smart call.

    • @beatrixbrennan1545
      @beatrixbrennan1545 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's what I do!

  • @RozaneBeyMcCurdy
    @RozaneBeyMcCurdy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    To the concussed, grumbly tummy, sleep talker -- you can tell you found a winner! I wish you many happy years together!

  • @amberowen2004
    @amberowen2004 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Yes I agree, ladies stop going to cabins and on hikes for first dates 😳 ya’ll just got lucky you didn’t end up on dateline lol. The cabin one was hilarious and cute but goodness that’s scary. Also the first one I call BS on she is wearing a wedding ring.

  • @jackiewarner2120
    @jackiewarner2120 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Awww I really like the guy who got rejected…he’s such a worthwhile guy. He’s honest and not afraid to be vulnerable. I like the flow of his conversation style. He will def find the rt one!

  • @shandajames5444
    @shandajames5444 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The cabin date is adorable!!! She's so cute and he knew she was a keeper!!!!

  • @annetunstall967
    @annetunstall967 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I was 14 when I met my future husband at a fair where I fell off a ride called a speedway and he came to my rescue. That was in Southsea in Hampshire in UK. he had just finished training for the Royal Navy . We got married 5 years later and have been married now for 51 years.🥰

  • @Blech-h9z
    @Blech-h9z ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Back in the day, the person doing the inviting did the paying. Of course, back in the day you actually knew the person inviting you.

  • @bp5276
    @bp5276 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was in tears over the diarrhoea story … beautiful 😊

  • @songxixi2243
    @songxixi2243 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Even me and my friends fight for paying the bill when we go out... Idk how people don't feel shy or embarrassed asking others to pay on their first meeting....
    It's not like I'm very rich or financially very stable but it's like you gotta pay for your shit....
    Don't expect others to pay it for you ...

    • @tanyastacy-haws993
      @tanyastacy-haws993 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This, I would never assume the other person will pay. Especially the first time we meet. It’s just rude

  • @yule42
    @yule42 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I used to online date and this guy just started talking to me at like 10am, by 12pm he'd invited me to the lake, and i was like NO. I am not going all the way to an unknown location for our first date. These girls are braver than me

  • @lilahholly2627
    @lilahholly2627 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My uncle had an Otter Box phone incident too! He was recording at a lake with his family, in the middle of the water and dropped his phone. They couldn't find it that day and figured they would come back the following day when it was daylight and search then. Not only did they find, but it was completely fine. It literally recorded until the phone died. He showed us all the video 😂

  • @cjandauntieyaya1446
    @cjandauntieyaya1446 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    The last story felt like the kind of story we girls would tell each other while drinking and lounging in house. Ending is so anti-climatic, but felt like it was complete. Like you know, justice served, balance in the universe, yada yada. Then we'd all toast to Sheldon and his torn shirt and drink another glass of wine.

    • @niccipearson5097
      @niccipearson5097 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly 😂

    • @suonatar1
      @suonatar1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I didn't hear the ending, I don't understand. He ripped his shirt or hers?

  • @solereflection9284
    @solereflection9284 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Thought the second story would go differently after the start of it.
    It’s honestly great that when you find the right person, even the worst dates end up with the greatest results. Good on anyone who end up on terrible dates with amazing people and continue the relationship.

  • @VanessaDownen
    @VanessaDownen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not gonna lie, the hiking date sounds like an amazing first date. Its got action, adventure, an NPC, there's treachery involved, and a prize. Thats pretty dope.

  • @ashliplewa3674
    @ashliplewa3674 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    the girl in the first video LITERALLY has an engagement ring on 👀🤣

    • @skyt3265
      @skyt3265 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      yeah that shit was so fake

    • @hsquires92
      @hsquires92 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Haven't even got past the first clip yet, came straight to the comments to say this 😂
      100% they're engaged and that was either a joke or for the likes

    • @catinthechat01
      @catinthechat01 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes! I was also thinking it was too perfectly awful. It was probably her husband and kid and they thought they'd make a fake video.

    • @joelsantiago9148
      @joelsantiago9148 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      it looks like some (most fake) tiktok videos where the girl went "hey bae, lets go on a date, and pretend its the first time we meet, you are on your phone the whole time and lets bring our baby, well order food and pretend you have no money, and I will forget to take my engagement ring off"

    • @anicoleww
      @anicoleww ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Charlotte has now noticed that too, in another comment thread 😂

  • @MetamorphosisRox
    @MetamorphosisRox ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Mine was not even a date. This was a long time ago, which means the boy had to ask dad to go out on a date with the girl. So this boy I liked decided to ask me to go out with him, his cousin and cousin's girlfriend. Unfortunately, my father had a huge argument with a boy that wanted to propose to my sister. He was furious....so we were pretty sure he was going to say no... he didn't. That was about 38 years ago. We dated for 2 and 1/2 years and got married after that...35 years and 1/2 ago. LMAO

    • @cheesecakemousetrap
      @cheesecakemousetrap ปีที่แล้ว

      You dated and married your dad? You probably meant to say it was the boy that asked your dad’s permission was the one you dated and married.

  • @logangreene3051
    @logangreene3051 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm in love with the hot spring girl 😂 the My Hero shirt, the hilarious story, the sleep talking 😅 girl saaaame

  • @QueenWendyLu
    @QueenWendyLu ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Tell the waiter “ I will have the rack of ribs, to go.” Separate checks.

  • @nikkinoodlesoup
    @nikkinoodlesoup ปีที่แล้ว +15

    If my husband couldn’t handle me clogging up cabin toilets, I don’t think we could be together. And yes we laugh about it every time 😂❤️

  • @cltransler
    @cltransler ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Before we were married, my husband and I went to get breakfast when he ordered his eggs "Sunny Delight." The waitress and I burst into laughter. He was a good sport about it. Whenever we go there, she will say, "You want those eggs 'sunny delight?' Even when he says 'sunny side up', she still says 'sunny delight.'

  • @melodymetherel5723
    @melodymetherel5723 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I agree with the "if I don't like him ill pay for myself" but I've also had guys ask me out to dinner and offered to pay even when I made it very clear I didn't have that kind of interest, they still offered to take me as a friend. I have never been made uncomfortable by them expecting anything, but I could have just gotten lucky. If they're okay with going as just friends and offer to pay thats OK in my book. I would never expect them too, and I've always brought my purse and wallet just in case though.

  • @SeaWitchUSN
    @SeaWitchUSN ปีที่แล้ว +51

    First video: I insist on Dutch on first dates. I don’t believe someone I’m just meeting for the first time should pay for me.

    • @SlayAddict
      @SlayAddict ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean with Dutch?

    • @SeaWitchUSN
      @SeaWitchUSN ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@SlayAddict means that I pay for myself and he pays for himself.

    • @phillyphan1225
      @phillyphan1225 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s what you took out of that video??

    • @SlayAddict
      @SlayAddict ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SeaWitchUSN Thanks. I am Dutch and find it always funny where other country's use the word Dutch for.

    • @SeaWitchUSN
      @SeaWitchUSN ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SlayAddict I don’t know why we use it that way 😅

  • @abbie67801
    @abbie67801 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That’s second was awesome lol I love how they’re still together!! 🤣

  • @jessA516
    @jessA516 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think the general rule of thumb is that if the person is good, but the environment around you and the events are shit, at least you can still talk and form a bond during that experience. But if the person themself is shit, then there is just no connection and you end up awkwardly waiting to GTFO. Like "the world is chaos around us, but at least we have each other", vs "I would rather sleep in a haunted cabin and have the shits than be on a date with you."

  • @_LunarDragon
    @_LunarDragon ปีที่แล้ว +10

    8:50 Here’s a possible reason that boy kept seeing you:
    - clumsy
    - reckless
    + a guy who know how & is capable of retrieving the phone _just happens_ to be there
    ++ that guy _happens_ to be nice enough to agree to retrieve the phone
    +++ phone miraculously is completely intact and fully functional after falling off a cliff
    = this girl has luck to spare
    That boy did the math and said he wants some of that😂.

  • @makaylinmoon
    @makaylinmoon ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The one story about the cabin had me dying laughing because before she even got to the end I was like either he loves her for the rest of her life or he is going to hate her and never contact her again and then immediately she ended by saying she still dating him like girl that's your husband what are you talkin about he's here for life he is a 4 lifer

  • @alyssagibson6016
    @alyssagibson6016 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I've had a similar date as the first one..I "went to the bathroom," found the waitress and told her to stop the food order and left. Absolutely MORTIFYING!

  • @karmagal78
    @karmagal78 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The last story. The guy that she’s describing has the same vibe as one of my cousins. He texts the gals that gets a date with in the same way. If they don’t respond right away, then they’re not interested in him. He does this sober and he’s serious about the gal right from the jump. I’ve tried to talk to him about it, his sisters have and my mom has. Really tempted to send him the triple dog dare and make him talk to our aunt, his dad and my mom’s oldest sibling (who is also a redhead. Let’s see him try to not take her seriously. No one in the family goes against her)

  • @billnye69
    @billnye69 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The dating pool is a sewer. I'm glad I haven't ever been in it.
    I can also 100% relate to the Spanish girls story. My wife's first language is Spanish (Mexican) and I was at her parents house with her entire family and we were all going to go out and eat. Everyone is naming places and we try to pick out where we are going. My wife than says, why not go to the "boo-fet" and her whole family says, yeah lets go to the "boo-fet." Her entire family is pronouncing it this way.
    I then ask......What's a Boo-fet? They look at me like I'm an idiot and my wife is like "You've never been to a boo-fet before? The place where you just grab a plate and get whatever you want." I started laughing uncontrollably. I said......"You mean buffet?" She starts arguing with me about the spelling and I had to explain it to her. White guy teaching his Mexican family how to pronounce words never looks good. >.

  • @martinaasandersen3775
    @martinaasandersen3775 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    4:50 I would take a date like that over a random boring dinner date any day of the week. You get to see their real/genuine personality (versus the often curated personality of a dinner date) and whether they are able to laugh it off when things go wrong or blow up.