I would because i have no choice. I’m bisexual man and i’m in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years, I cheat on her somtimes because i need to be with a guy, I know this is horrible but I have no choice but I don’t want to break up with her because I love her so much. I already tried to talk to her about it but she don’t wanna hear about it, i’m kinda lost somtimes. I don’t know what to do
I was expecting Blake and Hina to be slightly immature cause of their age. These guys blew me away with their transparency, maturity and deep self awareness...it was really refreshing
Not to over analyze their relationship but here is what I gather (this is mostly focused on what she’s doing wrong, since it seems like she doesn’t hold herself accountable for anything while he does). She answer the questions first and he somehow agreed on a lot of them, I don’t think he would if he answered first. She lowkey got him wrapped around her finger and I think she ended up lacking respect for him (and might be with him out of pity), like he called her crying to get back with her because of his family and friend’s racism, and she said she didn’t take him back instantly (so that vulnerability he had didn’t meant too much to her). She made him stop watching porn and all that (which is good, but idk I’m getting a vibe that she was judgey about it). He seems like he’s trying so hard not to offend her, like she kinda smiled when he said he is a jealous person. And at the end of the video I feel her her saying “I’m shy” was a hint for him to kiss her right there on camera but he didn’t catch on cuz he wanted to respect her, but that “respect” might make her take advantage of him. She doesn’t seem to take him seriously and probably doesn’t have enough respect for him. Like her face expression when he said one day he’s gonna marry her, I don’t think she agrees. He also stayed up to talk to her until 6 am when he was tired, he’s doing too much for her and is making all of these sacrifices that she might end up taking advantage/not appreciating. She did say that she hopes not to put her trauma on her kids, I don’t want her to do that to him either. I’m hoping she doesn’t look down on him for these things, he seems very considerate and nice and I really hope she is as well (cuz she didn’t really say anything she did for him). He probably just feels lucky that he is with such a pretty girl, and she might feel like she’s doing him a favor for being with him which I don’t think is right. But lemme stop assuming stuff here, ion think they should break up but I think he should just be mindful to himself and how she views him
@@mannygene5545 you said not to overanalyse but then that's exactly what you did, you cant really judge a relationship by a 20 min video, and who knows, maybe blake is just a quiet person
@@ladida1587 I tend to do that a lot, I be like, “to keep this short and simple” then be type a whole essay🙈, and you’re probably right, idk nothing about these people to make all these claims
Seriously, I feel like a person would have to have extremely low self worth in order to go back into a relationship where the partner cheated on them, leaving them even more susceptible to being hurt again. No matter how much you love someone, there is a time to let go.
I’m so glad that they talked about not having children because they don’t want their mental trauma to rub off on them and because of their race, ethnicity and religion, because that’s how I feel and that is smth that is not talked about enough.
@@AmalSaidi123 they didn't say that come on, it's exaggerated. They have their story they do whatever they want, a lot of other people will have kids don't worry humans won't go instinct
Societal pressure to have kids is strong and when it comes to 1 topic over the other, 1 side is acceptable to talk about and the other isn't. Taboos of not having kids or parents regret having them should be less taboo.
im really curious about Hina and Blake and their families. He could be incredibly supportive of her beliefs and be more liberal but if his family don't respect her, they're in for a whole lot of conflict.
This legit happened to me. I’m mixed white and Salvadoran but raised by my white republican father who bags on my Salvadoran mother My ex is Mexican and very liberal like myself. He straight up told me he didn’t want to be apart of my family because of their political beliefs and their racist comments (even if they are unaware it’s racist). I don’t blame him. I love my family but I don’t like who they are. This conflict was too much in the end and it’s part of the reason why I lost him
@@mirilazure3775 i don't see how you could agree MORE with the married couples like they've even signed a contract and made vows not to cheat or be intimate with somebody else?
@@abi-kv9zz exactly they’ve signed contracts and made vows to each other meaning that no matter what they should at least try to work it out bc you promise to be there for each other no matter what
@@abi-kv9zz yes cheating is bad no matter what but at the same time if you love someone you should try to make it work and nobody is perfect some ppl cheat but that doesn’t make it right either yo I should always try to stay loyal
hina is so stunning . i can tell that blake really loves her because who would go against their family and friends opinion so strongly for just anyone . they’re such an attractive couple and i wish the best for all of them
@@g6gubu55ryhi3 yeah i strongly agree with that , but i didn’t want to send any hate towards the family of blake but just look at the positives and that’s that they’re happy
@Ben Dover rude as hell lmao. she's in a relationship with him not his friends and family. he stood up to them for her. he clearly loves her to pieces and that's all that matters.
@@annablabka8653 yeah it was hard to listen to him.. it felt like he was being way too dramatic and his partner was getting awkward for him like "really.. you gonna do this infront of everyone.." I hate second hand embarrassment.
@@tossapixeltoyournoelle I think Amber is pretty proud of him ! I would to if my partner speaks with so much emotion and passion. But everyone has a different taste I guess
His way of speaking is dramatic, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. Everyone has different quirks... I wish people were more tolerant with different personalities and demeanors. Idk, he seems like a good guy. What's wrong with being passionate and honest?
Exactly I especially felt really happy when I saw the sapphic couple since it was my first time seeing a genuine sapphic couple on screen since I was a bisexual enby living in a very conservative leaning family household. Feels good to be represented you know
@Football God a lot of people care :) thats what Jubilee is.. it’s a place where many different people can come to converse. They use the term “all couples” in the title not because they had every couple share their opinion but because they had couples from different places with different beliefs/povs come together to share their opinions. It does matter if videos like this are diverse because without the diversity it would basically be the same opinion over and over again.. and a lot of ppl feel represented when they see couples who r like them. For example, the lgbtq couple or the religious couples.
When they were asked about cheating and most of them are agreeing, I was like "wait wait.. hold up- what?" and then Blake and Hina both answered disagree i somehow sighed a relief.
I feel like it depends. In Marriage, it shouldn't be tolerated no matter what since you already made vows. But if your just dating, there is some room for mistakes. Plus not every couple thinks of cheating as the same. online cheating vs sleeping with someone else for example. Calling someone cute vs having a whole relationship kind of thing.
@@kva5751 cheating is not a mistake, its a choice you make 🙄🙄 if you're not sure you can stay with one partner then maybe you shouldn't be in monogamous relationship, but to cheat and cause pain and possibly trust issues in your partner bc you don't see anything wrong with going around and f... ing countless times with many people, no sis, no mistakes made there
@@daria8950 Cheating can be a mistake yes. Cheating often times has way more to do with the person than the relationship itself. No one is perfect, and if that couple decides to work on the relationship after, that's their business and your judgement isn't needed. I never said I don't see anything wrong with cheating, I said it depends. A lot of people cheat, and you can't speak for every one of them like they are the same.
@@kva5751 Lol as someone who was a cheater in their younger years, do not stay with someone who's cheated on you. Idc if it is online flirting or in person. This person doesn't have respect for you, nor do they see you as someone that will be there forever. You are simply there for comfort until someone better comes along. People push through and try to make it work after cheating, but it's only benefitting the cheater. Because once the person of their dreams come along, they will drop you like a fly. Good luck with that
@@kva5751 Cheating is a conscious choice. Unless you have an abusive/disrespectful partner, I don’t see any reason that could justify cheating. If your relationship is not great anymore or you are attracted to someone else, you should work on it if you want to or break up with your partner bc that shows that you respect them. Don’t play your partner. People can change after cheating, but I wouldn’t want to stick around if I was cheated on. That type of growth takes time.
Surprised about the cheating question. If my boyfriend were to ever cheat on me that’s an instant break up and I’ll never take him back. No matter how much I love him, he broke the trust I had and there is no way to regain that trust for me.
In a dating relationship I definitely agree. But when you are married and with someone for a long time and they are obviously all torn up about it and if you have kids, I feel like it is important to try to save the marriage if possible. But if there is 0 remorse and it happened over and over, that's different
@@hailey5672 i don’t think so at all, my dad cheated on my mum and she tried to keep it together for me and my sister when we were kids and it didn’t work, she was sacrificing her happiness for the sake of everyone else and she was miserable. there’s no point being miserable because we all knew she wasn’t happy which made us not happy, there was no trust, less love and it wasn’t a good situation, so from a child’s perspective yeah it might be nice for your parents to stay together but no matter what, it’s not the same so in the long run it’s a much better idea for the person who was cheated on is happy aswell as the kids rather than the other way around
@@jasminebevan3785 I'm sure it is different for every situation. The same thing happened to my family as yours except opposite and my dad was able to forgive my mom and they are happy and they worked through it. It was hard for a few years but it is now 9 years since and they grew from the situation. I'm sorry though about what happened with your family. And sometimes it isn't able to work out or one spouse would be sacrificing their own sanity and that's different. I view marriage as a covenant between two people and if forgiveness and healing is possible then I dont think people should give up but if its purely unhealthy for one of the partners then that's important too
truth so gross anyone would willingly say they’d allow their significant other to cheat.. people have no boundaries/ morals / values.. emotionless blobs of people willing to morph into whatever someone else tells them to
I hate the whole narrative of forgiving cheating because of kids. As a parent, you are the model for what they will look for in life and love. If you decide to let someone disrespect you and your whole relationship, you are showing your kids it's okay to be treated that way. There is no excuse for cheating. If you can't stay with one person, don't enter a monogamous relationship. If you decide to be unfaithful, you deserve all the consequences.
It's more about where someone wants to be. Cheating is usually a manifestation of a larger issue. If the couple can identify the issue and agree on working things out, then the cheater will likely want to stay, and if not, they have more incentive to look elsewhere.
100% agree - that’s such a wack excuse. You’re showing your children first hand that they shouldn’t expect accountability and respect from their partner when they eventually have one. People underestimate how much even just seeing behaviors perpetuated by adults can manifest and shape kids’ minds.
Outta curiosity, do you have kids and/or a romantic partner? Cause not everything is so black and white. And while I don’t think kids should be the sole reason to stay with a cheating partner, I do think kids should be a reason to take a more in-depth evaluation of the situation.
@@reallyunamused7834 we don't have kids yet, but one of the reasons why I am with my partner is that we have the same opinion on cheating. If I cheat, I would fully expect him to leave me. I was actually the kid in that situation - my parents stayed together, they are still together in fact - but the cheating always hangs there. Their relationship never fully repaired, and in a way I think they both secretly blamed me for 'keeping them together' which impacted me in so many ways. I had to get therapy for commitment issues, I was so terrified to end up like them. If my partner betrayed me, I would put the kids first - we'd split and try to find a relationship elsewhere, so we can model to them that it is possible to be with someone who respects you and doesn't fuck other people.
Charlie talks like a Christian-rapper. It's so funny, but in an endearing way. Haha He seems like a cool dude, very passionate. Also, Amber seems like a sensitive sweetheart and has a beautiful smile, she's so cute!
@@pristineinvestments1462 What? Constantly calling someone every day only for them to never pick up doesn't seem like a very good way to learn how to handle a relationship 😂😂.
@@riedanienur4016 Hes simpin so hard u just know shes gonna leave him. Then if their married you can be sure shell be takin the kids and house. Charlies a chump
@@poocrayon4588 What the f is wrong with your toxic masculinity ass. There's something seriously wrong in you think hyping your partner up or showing love is bad....smh
@@poocrayon4588 oh honey who hurt your like this :') if u dont value your girl any ways closed to what he's doing, then it's nothing wrong to keep your nonsense to yourself. he's doing good thats why ure mad right??! hihihiiiiiii
When Amber was starting to talk about her past abusive relationship and Charlie started holding her arm because he knew she would get emotional is just ugh, SO CUTE!
Porn isnt cheating lol. Sometimes a man just needs to bang a quick one out. Its no different from getting a bite to eat or taking a dump. Its just gotta b done
@The Pursuit "Colour" doesn't just mean physical colour... it means anyone who isn't white. Hina is still middle eastern so that kid will still have middle eastern features, culture, dialect, etc. People aren't discriminated solely because of their skin colour, features and culture play into that too. Kid might be light-skinned but they are still a Person of Colour by definition! :)
@@AndreaRam wasn’t she talking abt the child? she looks white passing to you but she still carries the asian genes,, you never know which genes would get passed down to the child yk
@Taehyung doesn't like being shipped Why do you assume that being mixed means she's half white? She's half Pakistani and half Filipino. Her kids would be POC.
@@gardenguster5271 I just said what I feel mate. Don't really wanna know why people care so much about diversity. As long as they are good people why does it matter? Why do people feel guilty that they like people their own kind better than people that aren't their own kind? It's human nature.
@@moistorphan me too sis. i don’t ever wanna be the girl crying on the bathroom floor and keep going back to a guy who can hurt me that way lolll. hina got burned once and said no more!!
Me too, that would be amazing to see. It’s so sad that the divorce rate has gone up so much. People don’t take marriage seriously anymore. They give up so easily or don’t treat their partner as they should because they just don’t get it. Don’t rush into things, take your time and be serious about the commitment. Divorce is way too easy to get nowadays :( Would love to see all these couples again in a few years!
I'm muslim but OH MY GOSH the relationship between Charlie and Amber is gold! I want it to be like that with my future husband. Ameen! I hope everyone has or will have a healthy and loving relationship with their partner/spouse until the end of their time.
Omg the fact that the older generation said "don't worry about the world, ask yourself if YOU want a kid" was so telling. Their generation was told to see having kids as a personal goal rather than literally making the decision to bring someone into the world- you have to make the choice for your kid. They don't get to choose if they want to be here or not. That's a BIG decision that isn't just influenced by if you *want* them or not
That’s what i thought exactly!!!!!! Hina had such a responsible answer and im SO glad nailah spoke up to part of what Hina said cos some people are legit NOT suited and ready to have children
Actually, I think there is value in seeing that point of view as well. Things are not getting better for us from here on out but are we not supposed to fulfill our desires because of that? The world is and has always been bad. I do however agree with you that millennials and younger have a lot of apprehension towards having children based on the world we live in.
I don't think he really meant just have children just because without making any considerations. I think he was referring more to the part where she said the world is a bad place and she's not sure she wants to bring more people into it. You definitely shouldn't let the fact that the world is a "bad place" stop you from bringing joy into the world if that's truly what you want. Just because the world is bad doesn't mean your children will have a bad life. Joy can still exist no matter how bad the world looks
I mean in that age of 18 years. We tend to make mistakes due to our insecurities . So it is pretty common. But, you rarely find someone who is trustworthy and secure (confidence).
Yeah fr, they were all pretty much agreeing with their partners (especially Blake with Hina). Not to over analyze Hina and Blake’s relationship but here is what I gathered (this is mostly focused on what she’s doing wrong, since it seems like she doesn’t hold herself accountable for anything while he does). She answer the questions first and he somehow agreed on a lot of them, I don’t think he would if he answered first. She lowkey got him wrapped around her finger and I think she ended up lacking respect for him (and might be with him out of pity), like he called her crying to get back with her because of his family and friend’s racism, and she said she didn’t take him back instantly (so that vulnerability he had didn’t meant too much to her). She made him stop watching porn and all that (which is good, but idk I’m getting a vibe that she was judgey about it). He seems like he’s trying so hard not to offend her, like she kinda smiled when he said he is a jealous person. And at the end of the video I feel her her saying “I’m shy” was a hint for him to kiss her right there on camera but he didn’t catch on cuz he wanted to respect her, but that “respect” might make her take advantage of him. She doesn’t seem to take him seriously and probably doesn’t have enough respect for him. Like her face expression when he said one day he’s gonna marry her, I don’t think she agrees. He also stayed up to talk to her until 6 am when he was tired, he’s doing too much for her and is making all of these sacrifices that she might end up taking advantage/not appreciating. She did say that she hopes not to put her trauma on her kids, I don’t want her to do that to him either. I’m hoping she doesn’t look down on him for these things, he seems very considerate and nice and I really hope she is as well (cuz she didn’t really say anything she did for him). He probably just feels lucky that he is with such a pretty girl, and she might feel like she’s doing him a favor for being with him which I don’t think is right. But lemme stop assuming stuff here, ion think they should break up but I think he should just be mindful to himself and how she views him
me too. but i guess it has to do with commitment and understanding i guess? if i were with someone for lets say 10 years and they cheated, i would at least try and work it out to not throw all those years away. but truthfully for me i dont think even if we tried it would ever be the same.
That quote doesn’t work in this context. It’s actually ironic as becoming a parent is to a great extent deciding a life for another human being. I’m not antinatalist but people should consider the moral implications of creating another being.
@@roxxydesign4424 Many cases people cheat because of the alcohol. Even the most loyal partner can cheat on you because of it. Better to stay off the alcohol and if they still cheated, I'd cut him off no questions asked. If he cheated while he was drunk, I might give him a 2nd chance but if it happened again then there aren't anymore chances
kinda reminds me of the youtube couple rose and rosie. or anne and ann from the show 'gentleman jack'. it's just gonna be part of lesbian culture now 🤣
I'm honestly surprised that most answered in the agree area to the question asking if they would remain in a relationship after being cheeted on. I wasn't expecting it!! It's very interesting
I think after a certain point the relationship grows bigger than sexual or emotional fidelity. The goodness of friendship and care. But yah, no one likes being cheated on its not easy at all.
A few years ago I never would've understood it until my long-term boyfriend cheated on me. It wasn't malicious or out of feelings for another person, it was the result of him bottling up his emotions for so long and self destructive behavior- not that that's an excuse, he still could've not done it. But after talking through it together and taking some time apart, I realized that the fact that he told me right away, talked to a therapist, and put in visible effort to our relationship after that I was willing to give him a second chance. It's really all about how strongly connected you are, and as the other reply said- your friendship.
@@fandomkid1952 I’d say if the person takes accountability for their actions, if it’s not in their nature, and if they’re willing to do whatever work it takes to mend the trust then there’s a fighting chance. However I feel like cheating multiple times and just doing whatever one likes to is normalized and that’s what’s scary. Let’s not normalize people constantly behaving badly without a care in the world.
@@DanielleSkye yeah definitely I straight up was like this is the only chance you get if it happens again we're done regardless of the reason it happened
I really appreciate the couples that spoke out against pornography, although it was not the popular opinion. I think sometimes things like this get normalized, when in truth they are quite damaging.
Porn is not a factual or realistic medium of what sex is, but I will admit to having watched it. I don't judge myself for watching porn because let's be honest; we're all primitive/sexual beings. I just feel as if porn can be consumed if you're within a healthy mindset.
There is so much research and data on how damaging pornography can be and ever since I found it all of my interactions with men , specifically in regard of intimacy, have clear connections with what researches have found on how it effects someone’s intimacy.
I do think there is always someone for everyone, but that doesn’t mean everyone will be able to find that someone. Plus there’s still that freedom of choice we have as human beings.
I thought Blake would have very different answers if Hina wasn't there. Felt like he had a really tight leash on his neck, atleast tighter than what my dog has around his !
Yes this, even though porn might not be considered “cheating” in some relationships. Overconsumption of porn is still really bad for people’s health and perception of sex.
@@jarricah7920 it’s not dependency that’s the only problem. It’s the unrealistic standards, and many of the kinks can be bad for your mental health. There’s scientific evidence that it’s damaging for you and leads to unhealthy relationships
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I'm muslim but OH MY GOSH the relationship between Charlie and Amber is gold! They are literally relationship goals. I want it to be like that with my future husband. Ameen! I hope everyone has or will have a healthy and loving relationship with their partner/spouse until the end of their time.
I felt Blake’s honesty. Knowing what my relationships were like back then, porn was a HARD topic. They clearly truly care about each other. Some beautiful couple on this one. 👏
Not to over analyze their relationship but here is what I gather (this is mostly focused on what she’s doing wrong, since it seems like she doesn’t hold herself accountable for anything while he does). She answer the questions first and he somehow agreed on a lot of them, I don’t think he would if he answered first. She lowkey got him wrapped around her finger and I think she ended up lacking respect for him (and might be with him out of pity), like he called her crying to get back with her because of his family and friend’s racism, and she said she didn’t take him back instantly (so that vulnerability he had didn’t meant too much to her). She made him stop watching porn and all that (which is good, but idk I’m getting a vibe that she was judgey about it). He seems like he’s trying so hard not to offend her, like she kinda smiled when he said he is a jealous person. And at the end of the video I feel her her saying “I’m shy” was a hint for him to kiss her right there on camera but he didn’t catch on cuz he wanted to respect her, but that “respect” might make her take advantage of him. She doesn’t seem to take him seriously and probably doesn’t have enough respect for him. Like her face expression when he said one day he’s gonna marry her, I don’t think she agrees. He also stayed up to talk to her until 6 am when he was tired, he’s doing too much for her and is making all of these sacrifices that she might end up taking advantage/not appreciating. She did say that she hopes not to put her trauma on her kids, I don’t want her to do that to him either. I’m hoping she doesn’t look down on him for these things, he seems very considerate and nice and I really hope she is as well (cuz she didn’t really say anything she did for him). He probably just feels lucky that he is with such a pretty girl, and she might feel like she’s doing him a favor for being with him which I don’t think is right. But lemme stop assuming stuff here, ion think they should break up but I think he should just be mindful to himself and how she views him
@@mannygene5545 Spot on! Ignore the dude hating on your analysis. I agree and I'm surprised more people aren't catching on when looking at the comments.
@@phobobayum theyre copying & pasting that under multiple comments tho. it’s weird an obsessive. damn i can tell quarantine is getting to some of you ..
For people who are worried about other folks looking at/flirting with their partner strictly on the basis of "cause she's so pretty/he's so handsome", just keep in mind that the responsibility is on your partner to not milk the attention. If that happens THEN you should worry.
I’ve heard of the saying, “you can window shop but don’t go to the checkout” I think it really depends on what people consider as cheating as we all have different boundaries :)
@@poocrayon4588 So ur saying women who wear hijabs aren't beautiful? Cuz that's so wrong. And you know even if their hair is covered, a lot of them still wear makeup
@@Fan-nr9zp That's not what they were saying at all. I didn't get that when I read their comment. I think they were saying how it seems like that's why Muslim men have Muslim women cover they're hair and maybe even their faces BECAUSE of their beauty. Which I understand, but I personally think it probably goes deeper than that - like their religion and beliefs and maybe other things I'm not aware of. Plus, I don't think it's the men "making" the women do anything. But more about when they believe they should do as individuals bc of their religion/beliefs.
Once I heard someone say « If you dont want your partner to know about what you’re doing - you’re cheating » and I definitely agree with this, if you feel like you need to hide, something isnt right🤷🏻♀️
It's kinda surprising to me how most of them believed in soulmates. Also, the ones who *knew* they loved the other person after three days. Couldn't be me
I actually liked this discussion quite a bit. Would love to see this discussion in full again because these are interesting and deep topics to explore.
OMG OMG HANDS DOWN ONE OF MY FAVORITE JUBILEE EPISODES. First off the diversity, it really showed all different, ages, races, sexual orientations in this short episode to understand from multiple perspectives. Second, everyone explained their pieces while remaining respectful regardless if they had an opposing view. Thank you to the participants for even sharing and being vulnerable with us viewers, I enjoyed listening very much. I wish them all the best and this is the content I love.
I loved ALL these couples, obviously I don’t know their relationships inside out but from this video, I really like them. They are compatible and I love the range of couples-ethnicities, different ages, sexualities. Great video!!
@@Makasituation ahh chemistry or respect from the one with Hina (muslim girl)? Yeah they didn't seem like that had such a good bond. It really must be tough for the guy's family to not accept her though. It must have put a n extra strain on the relationship
Charlie just seems like a genuinely happy and awesome guy, I would love to sit down and have a chat with the dude about life, really feel like I could learn a lot from him.
i feel like the couples would've been more honest if they didn't hear their partners answer first...
It's always like that
Of course, just watch the episode about men, they re-do the first answer and it changes radically
I feel like they were pretty honest regardless!
@@hyperdarktoonlink which one
@@melissamartinez599 i feel like the older couples were more honest than the younger ones. they didn't seem to be scared of disagreeing imo
The way Charlie was speaking made me think he was going to break into a monologue or a song
Its so funny 😭 I love it
classic youth pastor, they often do break out into song lol
He sounds like a black old head lol
charlie seems like a real one
He is very passionate
This is one of the most peaceful discussions in Jubilee’s history
i think hijabi vs non-hijabi is also a lot peaceful
That's bad
@@kurapika4741 True
Ikr
Asian Masculinity why? I might get ratioed
The way Charlie was speaking I just know he's youth pastor
I wouldn't trust him around my kids
@@frogsinthesnow1926 why?.....
@@frogsinthesnow1926 what the ?
Lmaoo same
Lmao, i was waiting for the motivational background music
Can we just talk about all the couples matching outfits??
they came on pointt
I especially loved the mint colored hoodie on the filipino guy!😍
They probably asked them to dress like that
frrrr
Yes
if you told me charlie was a youth pastor i would NOT be surprised
I loved it though
He's so creepy.
@@Zaurkax14 how..
@@Zaurkax14 how is he creepy? He's legit a real one and speaks nothing but the truth
@@Zaurkax14 Seems like a nice guy to me. Creepy seems like a super bizarre way to describe him lmao.
I wonder what the results would be if the partners didn't hear each other's answers
more honest maybe.
Lol maybe Blake would have a opinion then
Thats what they should have done
Look at you giving them suggestions lol they need to do one like that
BLAKE WASNt TAKING A RISK AHAHAHA
Charlie got hyped talking about his future babies lol
sounded like he was delivering a sermon
@@faiali2895 I literally said out loud “ why is is speaking like a preacher
@@jo-deerussell8607 ikr 😭🙏
@@faiali2895 lol he got loud and I couldn’t help but laugh he seems like a really great guy
ikr and it was so cute, hes a keeper
When amber mentioned her past relationship and Charlie IMMEDIATELY put his arm around her knowing she would be upset was so perfect
Makes me want that
right my heart melted 🥺
you can tell he really cares about her. 🥺🥺
15:40
I agree ! 🥰🥰🥰
As a chronically single person, I'm not quite sure why I'm here.
feel u
😂😂😂
Gang
Maybe to check on different perspectives about how couples think
@@vinslungur Nah, they're alone.
Cheating is one of the most horrible things you can do to someone
Please don’t give anybody that pain
I would never
I would because i have no choice. I’m bisexual man and i’m in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years, I cheat on her somtimes because i need to be with a guy, I know this is horrible but I have no choice but I don’t want to break up with her because I love her so much. I already tried to talk to her about it but she don’t wanna hear about it, i’m kinda lost somtimes. I don’t know what to do
@@annarr1021 I clearly don't love her that much if you cheat on her.
@@annarr1021 I am bi and dating a man I have never needed to date a women so I think you are alone with needing to be with the same gender while bi
you*
I was expecting Blake and Hina to be slightly immature cause of their age. These guys blew me away with their transparency, maturity and deep self awareness...it was really refreshing
Not to over analyze their relationship but here is what I gather (this is mostly focused on what she’s doing wrong, since it seems like she doesn’t hold herself accountable for anything while he does). She answer the questions first and he somehow agreed on a lot of them, I don’t think he would if he answered first. She lowkey got him wrapped around her finger and I think she ended up lacking respect for him (and might be with him out of pity), like he called her crying to get back with her because of his family and friend’s racism, and she said she didn’t take him back instantly (so that vulnerability he had didn’t meant too much to her). She made him stop watching porn and all that (which is good, but idk I’m getting a vibe that she was judgey about it). He seems like he’s trying so hard not to offend her, like she kinda smiled when he said he is a jealous person. And at the end of the video I feel her her saying “I’m shy” was a hint for him to kiss her right there on camera but he didn’t catch on cuz he wanted to respect her, but that “respect” might make her take advantage of him. She doesn’t seem to take him seriously and probably doesn’t have enough respect for him. Like her face expression when he said one day he’s gonna marry her, I don’t think she agrees. He also stayed up to talk to her until 6 am when he was tired, he’s doing too much for her and is making all of these sacrifices that she might end up taking advantage/not appreciating. She did say that she hopes not to put her trauma on her kids, I don’t want her to do that to him either. I’m hoping she doesn’t look down on him for these things, he seems very considerate and nice and I really hope she is as well (cuz she didn’t really say anything she did for him). He probably just feels lucky that he is with such a pretty girl, and she might feel like she’s doing him a favor for being with him which I don’t think is right. But lemme stop assuming stuff here, ion think they should break up but I think he should just be mindful to himself and how she views him
@@mannygene5545 you said not to overanalyse but then that's exactly what you did, you cant really judge a relationship by a 20 min video, and who knows, maybe blake is just a quiet person
@@mannygene5545 you're overthinking it my man
@@ladida1587 I tend to do that a lot, I be like, “to keep this short and simple” then be type a whole essay🙈, and you’re probably right, idk nothing about these people to make all these claims
@@mannygene5545 Overthinking or not, i was thinking the same thing!
There's absolutely no good reason to cheat on your partner.
Fr like just break up if u want to b w someone else
I just feel like there wouldn’t be anymore trust in that relationship after someone’s cheated.
Seriously, I feel like a person would have to have extremely low self worth in order to go back into a relationship where the partner cheated on them, leaving them even more susceptible to being hurt again.
No matter how much you love someone, there is a time to let go.
Unless a baddie wants you
i can probably only think if a relationship has been arranged or there is an abusive relationship you can't leave
_"We broke up"_
_"Oh."_
The hell are these people🤣🤣
i died-
@@hoboerenisbestwifuinaot4927 I didnt know ghosts could type
@@xatiter yooo
@@vanessalucas8051 gaba gaba
@@xatiter you really have all the jokes huh
Charlie was deep in conversation. If he is not a youth pastor, you are lying to me.
Edit: thank you for the thumbs up...
Yea he was intense
🤣🤣🤣
@star luv About your second sentence, why?
He does Christian spoken word or something they have youtube
@@livinlikeGG that’s awesome. I will have to find them
Charlie should be a christian rapper. Dude rapped every comment like poetry
😂😂😂😂
I can’t un hear that now lmao 😂
FRRRR
😂😂😂😅😅TRUE!!!!!!
At some point I thought he was singing
I’m so glad that they talked about not having children because they don’t want their mental trauma to rub off on them and because of their race, ethnicity and religion, because that’s how I feel and that is smth that is not talked about enough.
So you want your race or ethnicity to go extinct?
@@AmalSaidi123 they didn't say that come on, it's exaggerated. They have their story they do whatever they want, a lot of other people will have kids don't worry humans won't go instinct
I strongly agree!
@@AmalSaidi123 nobody going extinct damn
Societal pressure to have kids is strong and when it comes to 1 topic over the other, 1 side is acceptable to talk about and the other isn't.
Taboos of not having kids or parents regret having them should be less taboo.
Someone: *says anything*
Latasha and Norris: *nod*
They're probably meant for eachother 😂
Ikr! their reactions are so funny lmao 😂
Hahahahahaha yeah
Does anyone want some ASMR?
Help me?
@@midnightfoxasmr2965 yes
im really curious about Hina and Blake and their families. He could be incredibly supportive of her beliefs and be more liberal but if his family don't respect her, they're in for a whole lot of conflict.
Facts
Depends how close he is to his family and how much they see him
Yea welcome to my world
This legit happened to me.
I’m mixed white and Salvadoran but raised by my white republican father who bags on my Salvadoran mother
My ex is Mexican and very liberal like myself.
He straight up told me he didn’t want to be apart of my family because of their political beliefs and their racist comments (even if they are unaware it’s racist). I don’t blame him. I love my family but I don’t like who they are.
This conflict was too much in the end and it’s part of the reason why I lost him
The fact that he let his friends talk about her that way tells me she's probably in for a lot of pain...
“it was three days until we met and i said ‘i love you’” HERE WE GO LESBIANS
LETS GO LESBIANS LETS GO
And bi/pansexuals but yesssss
😂
🤣🤣🤣hell ya
u haul
question: "i've considered breaking up with my partner"
jamal: strongly disagree
nailah: "strongly agree we actually did break up"
jamal: "oh"
He just thought they were on a break.
@@aisyaabdulhalim6854 actually, he said he thought the question was referring to whether they RECENTLY thought about breaking up
@@rachellotus5137 thanks Laura, very insightful
@@aisyaabdulhalim6854 WE WERE ON A B R E A K
Im not Sherlock Holmes but if you look at Jamal's Instagram....he definitely aint cozying up to Nailah lmao
i love how latasha and norris repsect eachothers different opinions and are still happy
Samee
They look like such a power couple
it's because of the time, experience and more mature love that they feel for each other
Yeah, these 2 and the girls seem the most realistic out if the bunch. Very adult... but that's because they are adults. Not a fan of child marriage
lol i dont find them compatible in the long term
Can't believe most of them would stay with their partner after they cheated. That couldn't fly with me, it's an instant break up.
I understand the married couples but if you’re just in a regular relationship then I wouldn’t 😬
@@mirilazure3775 yup, I agree with you
@@mirilazure3775 i don't see how you could agree MORE with the married couples like they've even signed a contract and made vows not to cheat or be intimate with somebody else?
@@abi-kv9zz exactly they’ve signed contracts and made vows to each other meaning that no matter what they should at least try to work it out bc you promise to be there for each other no matter what
@@abi-kv9zz yes cheating is bad no matter what but at the same time if you love someone you should try to make it work and nobody is perfect some ppl cheat but that doesn’t make it right either yo I should always try to stay loyal
hina is so stunning . i can tell that blake really loves her because who would go against their family and friends opinion so strongly for just anyone . they’re such an attractive couple and i wish the best for all of them
Yeahh I totally agree they make a great couple but calling people terrorists is not an opinion for sure
@@g6gubu55ryhi3 yeah i strongly agree with that , but i didn’t want to send any hate towards the family of blake but just look at the positives and that’s that they’re happy
@Ben Dover rude as hell lmao. she's in a relationship with him not his friends and family. he stood up to them for her. he clearly loves her to pieces and that's all that matters.
Honestly, I feel like Blake loves Hina way more than Hina loves Blake. It seems like very one sided relationship imo.
@Ben Dover So Republicans are all racist now?
What are the odds one person in this call has cheated lol
Nobody will admit it, but around 20% of people do it.....
@@pokemongurlz that's 2 ppl in this video oop
@@jen6294 oop
@@jen6294 that's if it were a random sample, not couples chosen by Jubilee
Everyone there who agreed to forgive cheating has probably cheated
charlie deff a pastor. he speaks with so passion i feel like hes gonna cry/i wanna cry
Yeah,I cringe too.
@@annablabka8653 yeah it was hard to listen to him.. it felt like he was being way too dramatic and his partner was getting awkward for him like "really.. you gonna do this infront of everyone.."
I hate second hand embarrassment.
@@tossapixeltoyournoelle I think Amber is pretty proud of him ! I would to if my partner speaks with so much emotion and passion. But everyone has a different taste I guess
His way of speaking is dramatic, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. Everyone has different quirks... I wish people were more tolerant with different personalities and demeanors. Idk, he seems like a good guy. What's wrong with being passionate and honest?
@@lobaetoile8440 exactly what i was thinking
"The Lord brought me to my Filipina queen"
*Norris cracking up in the corner*
😂😂😂😂😂😖😭
That was the cutest thing ever 💜😌🤚
Whats the timestamp?
THIS! I started rollin 😩😂
They're so wholesome XD
Lea saying she's an ugly crier, she's so beautiful i bet she's not ugly when she cries
Just Stunning
How do you know? She went off screen
I bet she is
@@milosjanic1038 Key word, "bet". 🙂
Ya
I love how diverse all of these couples are there’s poc couples, lgbtq, religious, ect. This is why I love jubilee
FACTSSS
@Maria Zyka Yamog true!!
Exactly I especially felt really happy when I saw the sapphic couple since it was my first time seeing a genuine sapphic couple on screen since I was a bisexual enby living in a very conservative leaning family household. Feels good to be represented you know
@Football God a lot of people care :) thats what Jubilee is.. it’s a place where many different people can come to converse. They use the term “all couples” in the title not because they had every couple share their opinion but because they had couples from different places with different beliefs/povs come together to share their opinions. It does matter if videos like this are diverse because without the diversity it would basically be the same opinion over and over again.. and a lot of ppl feel represented when they see couples who r like them. For example, the lgbtq couple or the religious couples.
@ basically wlw and sometimes nblw if they feel comfortable ^^
Happy Valentine’s Day to my single people. We’re all in this together
Single lives matter
were all in this together 🎶
@@twizy14twice48 ofcoz we single also matter
Cuz we know who we are we’re all stars and we see that
Not gonna lie, I am a little lonely, but I know that one day my true love will come for me.
When they were asked about cheating and most of them are agreeing, I was like "wait wait.. hold up- what?" and then Blake and Hina both answered disagree i somehow sighed a relief.
I feel like it depends. In Marriage, it shouldn't be tolerated no matter what since you already made vows. But if your just dating, there is some room for mistakes. Plus not every couple thinks of cheating as the same. online cheating vs sleeping with someone else for example. Calling someone cute vs having a whole relationship kind of thing.
@@kva5751 cheating is not a mistake, its a choice you make 🙄🙄 if you're not sure you can stay with one partner then maybe you shouldn't be in monogamous relationship, but to cheat and cause pain and possibly trust issues in your partner bc you don't see anything wrong with going around and f... ing countless times with many people, no sis, no mistakes made there
@@daria8950 Cheating can be a mistake yes. Cheating often times has way more to do with the person than the relationship itself. No one is perfect, and if that couple decides to work on the relationship after, that's their business and your judgement isn't needed. I never said I don't see anything wrong with cheating, I said it depends. A lot of people cheat, and you can't speak for every one of them like they are the same.
@@kva5751 Lol as someone who was a cheater in their younger years, do not stay with someone who's cheated on you. Idc if it is online flirting or in person. This person doesn't have respect for you, nor do they see you as someone that will be there forever. You are simply there for comfort until someone better comes along. People push through and try to make it work after cheating, but it's only benefitting the cheater. Because once the person of their dreams come along, they will drop you like a fly. Good luck with that
@@kva5751 Cheating is a conscious choice. Unless you have an abusive/disrespectful partner, I don’t see any reason that could justify cheating. If your relationship is not great anymore or you are attracted to someone else, you should work on it if you want to or break up with your partner bc that shows that you respect them. Don’t play your partner. People can change after cheating, but I wouldn’t want to stick around if I was cheated on. That type of growth takes time.
Surprised about the cheating question. If my boyfriend were to ever cheat on me that’s an instant break up and I’ll never take him back. No matter how much I love him, he broke the trust I had and there is no way to regain that trust for me.
Same
Agree!!
In a dating relationship I definitely agree. But when you are married and with someone for a long time and they are obviously all torn up about it and if you have kids, I feel like it is important to try to save the marriage if possible. But if there is 0 remorse and it happened over and over, that's different
@@hailey5672 i don’t think so at all, my dad cheated on my mum and she tried to keep it together for me and my sister when we were kids and it didn’t work, she was sacrificing her happiness for the sake of everyone else and she was miserable. there’s no point being miserable because we all knew she wasn’t happy which made us not happy, there was no trust, less love and it wasn’t a good situation, so from a child’s perspective yeah it might be nice for your parents to stay together but no matter what, it’s not the same so in the long run it’s a much better idea for the person who was cheated on is happy aswell as the kids rather than the other way around
@@jasminebevan3785 I'm sure it is different for every situation. The same thing happened to my family as yours except opposite and my dad was able to forgive my mom and they are happy and they worked through it. It was hard for a few years but it is now 9 years since and they grew from the situation. I'm sorry though about what happened with your family. And sometimes it isn't able to work out or one spouse would be sacrificing their own sanity and that's different. I view marriage as a covenant between two people and if forgiveness and healing is possible then I dont think people should give up but if its purely unhealthy for one of the partners then that's important too
hina: "but I'm shyyyyy"
lea: straight up jumps her partner
« Straight » lol lol
Lol
@@bibabia2332 so funny😐
*gay up jumps her partner
okay imma leave 😫
when lea jumper on her partner i thought it was SO ccute
cheating is never ok. loyalty is the bare minimum for a relationship and if you can’t even do that, no way i’m staying with you.
That's a great way to put. It's the very least someone can do is be faithful.
nicely put
Your profile pic nearly gave me a heart attack.
Preach!
truth so gross anyone would willingly say they’d allow their significant other to cheat.. people have no boundaries/ morals / values.. emotionless blobs of people willing to morph into whatever someone else tells them to
I hate the whole narrative of forgiving cheating because of kids. As a parent, you are the model for what they will look for in life and love. If you decide to let someone disrespect you and your whole relationship, you are showing your kids it's okay to be treated that way. There is no excuse for cheating. If you can't stay with one person, don't enter a monogamous relationship. If you decide to be unfaithful, you deserve all the consequences.
It's more about where someone wants to be. Cheating is usually a manifestation of a larger issue. If the couple can identify the issue and agree on working things out, then the cheater will likely want to stay, and if not, they have more incentive to look elsewhere.
Parents need to fuck off saying they’re doing it for the kids. Sincerely, someone who grew up with parents that should have got a divorce
100% agree - that’s such a wack excuse. You’re showing your children first hand that they shouldn’t expect accountability and respect from their partner when they eventually have one. People underestimate how much even just seeing behaviors perpetuated by adults can manifest and shape kids’ minds.
Outta curiosity, do you have kids and/or a romantic partner? Cause not everything is so black and white. And while I don’t think kids should be the sole reason to stay with a cheating partner, I do think kids should be a reason to take a more in-depth evaluation of the situation.
@@reallyunamused7834 we don't have kids yet, but one of the reasons why I am with my partner is that we have the same opinion on cheating. If I cheat, I would fully expect him to leave me.
I was actually the kid in that situation - my parents stayed together, they are still together in fact - but the cheating always hangs there. Their relationship never fully repaired, and in a way I think they both secretly blamed me for 'keeping them together' which impacted me in so many ways. I had to get therapy for commitment issues, I was so terrified to end up like them. If my partner betrayed me, I would put the kids first - we'd split and try to find a relationship elsewhere, so we can model to them that it is possible to be with someone who respects you and doesn't fuck other people.
This video is so strong, the title doesn't even do half justice to it.
Agreed
Yes
it was such a pleasant surprise!
Ik
Leanna and Lea are sooo strong for going through this
Yeah, they reminds me of Jessica and Claudia or Rose and Rosie- basically, any lesbian couple on TH-cam that has been trying to get pregnant
🤍🤍🤍
Charlie talks like a Christian-rapper. It's so funny, but in an endearing way. Haha He seems like a cool dude, very passionate. Also, Amber seems like a sensitive sweetheart and has a beautiful smile, she's so cute!
Latasha and Norris have the BEST camera wth, like their background is literally blurred
Autofocus (:
I believe she a social media manaher and been on YT for years. She has to have the best equipment lol
It's a pre-set filter on zoom lol.
@@littlefrog9553 True, thats not fancy at all 😂
@@littlefrog9553 is it really that crisp lookin though? My webcam w that filter is ass compared to theirs
That Philippino dude sound like he finna cry everytime he talk
LMFAOO TRUE
LMFAOOOOOOOOOO!!!!
His volume is on 120% 😂
He also sound like he finna start rapping at any moment
OMGGGG YESS YESSS BAHAHSHSYAH
There is something in Charlie that just amazes me... The way he speaks with such a passion, the way he treats Amber is just.. *WOW*
@@pristineinvestments1462 true
@@pristineinvestments1462 What? Constantly calling someone every day only for them to never pick up doesn't seem like a very good way to learn how to handle a relationship 😂😂.
@@meltedsnowman9637 Bruh 😂
Right, you can tell by the way she talks that he treats her like she should be treated and that he values her!
I know 🥺❤
Not Charlie talkin about “the lord brought me to my Filipina queen!” LOLOL 😂😂 I dieddd
I heard him saying it right when I was reading your comment lol
I WHEEZED SO HARD YES
When Jamal said that's fire 💀💀💀
yall i just know Charlie is the type who would hype his girl to his homies no matter what. Now i want one Charlie, anyone here?
A p**sy you mean?
@@poocrayon4588 a man who knows how to respect and value his girl or any girls on this planet. this what i meant.
@@riedanienur4016 Hes simpin so hard u just know shes gonna leave him. Then if their married you can be sure shell be takin the kids and house. Charlies a chump
@@poocrayon4588 What the f is wrong with your toxic masculinity ass. There's something seriously wrong in you think hyping your partner up or showing love is bad....smh
@@poocrayon4588 oh honey who hurt your like this :') if u dont value your girl any ways closed to what he's doing, then it's nothing wrong to keep your nonsense to yourself. he's doing good thats why ure mad right??! hihihiiiiiii
When Amber was starting to talk about her past abusive relationship and Charlie started holding her arm because he knew she would get emotional is just ugh, SO CUTE!
there's never an excuse to cheat. non-negotionable.
I don't have to like the reason for folks to cheat, but there's a reason.
@@charbelalam2648 ???? what was the point of this comment??
Well there is a few excuses but it’s 99.999999% it is not excusable (like to get out of a toxic or abusive relationship that is excusable))
Fax
@@Sarah-tg4wu Or an arranged marriage where the couples had no love for one another to begin with.
Blake's honesty about the porn though, that's deep. Respect it.
Porn isnt cheating lol. Sometimes a man just needs to bang a quick one out. Its no different from getting a bite to eat or taking a dump. Its just gotta b done
@@poocrayon4588 he changed a lot for her he must really like her
@@GlAsseshalf Yeah. What a simp 😂
@@poocrayon4588 ion know why he would quit porn just cause she said like he didn’t have a say
@@GlAsseshalf porn is poison, you should quit too
Blake is right.
Hina is stunning to an extent I can't even comprehend!
@The Pursuit "Colour" doesn't just mean physical colour... it means anyone who isn't white. Hina is still middle eastern so that kid will still have middle eastern features, culture, dialect, etc. People aren't discriminated solely because of their skin colour, features and culture play into that too. Kid might be light-skinned but they are still a Person of Colour by definition! :)
@The Pursuit I was thinking that too. She looks white passing
@@AndreaRam wasn’t she talking abt the child? she looks white passing to you but she still carries the asian genes,, you never know which genes would get passed down to the child yk
@Taehyung doesn't like being shipped Why do you assume that being mixed means she's half white? She's half Pakistani and half Filipino. Her kids would be POC.
@@AndreaRam She's not white passing. These days everyone's white passing apparently 🙄
Love the diversity in couples :)
Why
amyyyy i luv uuuu
What's up with diversity these days? Why do you want so many races to be in a place? Stick to your own kind
@@arpitabrahmachari7649 wow
@@gardenguster5271 I just said what I feel mate. Don't really wanna know why people care so much about diversity. As long as they are good people why does it matter? Why do people feel guilty that they like people their own kind better than people that aren't their own kind? It's human nature.
Bruh Blake looked dead inside when hina was talking about when they broke Up
😂
@Ben Dover that's how i aspire to be with my future bf if i ever get one
@@moistorphan wtf dude
@@moistorphan me too sis. i don’t ever wanna be the girl crying on the bathroom floor and keep going back to a guy who can hurt me that way lolll. hina got burned once and said no more!!
@@blkbarbie2671 yes cause making your boyfriend the vulnerable one and not you is sooo healthy
I honestly was so effin shook when everyone started agreeing to the cheating question
same! i always thought the general consensus would be disagree especially for people that don’t have children...
Same-
I would immediately break up, I don’t have time for a partner who doesn’t love me
People watching this like:
- in bed
- not in a full screen
- reading comments.
oh... don't forget : freezing with no power & water in Texas😁
And with the stomach bug ( with the Texas ~mix~) it’s been a fantastic week!😃
Thank you mr. obvious
😳
you just described me to the T. i feel like im being watched
With the divorce rates at 50%, I would love to see a 10 year update on these couples.
i need that!! or even just 5 pls
Don’t let the divorce rate scare you here are good relationships that last a lifetime
@@cheesychildhooddancescool3378 Divorce rate is above 50% now. Real relationships definitely exist but healthy ones are exceptionally rare these days.
@@rroselandd agreed
Me too, that would be amazing to see. It’s so sad that the divorce rate has gone up so much. People don’t take marriage seriously anymore. They give up so easily or don’t treat their partner as they should because they just don’t get it. Don’t rush into things, take your time and be serious about the commitment. Divorce is way too easy to get nowadays :( Would love to see all these couples again in a few years!
I really like Charlie and Amber, they're gonna make it
They’re already engaged haha
@@orlandoblooom i think he meant last forever
I'm muslim but OH MY GOSH the relationship between Charlie and Amber is gold! I want it to be like that with my future husband. Ameen! I hope everyone has or will have a healthy and loving relationship with their partner/spouse until the end of their time.
@@orlandoblooom theyre married
I can’t stand them. Amber really irritates me
Omg the fact that the older generation said "don't worry about the world, ask yourself if YOU want a kid" was so telling. Their generation was told to see having kids as a personal goal rather than literally making the decision to bring someone into the world- you have to make the choice for your kid. They don't get to choose if they want to be here or not. That's a BIG decision that isn't just influenced by if you *want* them or not
For real, that’s such an irresponsible mentality to have.
Fr
That’s what i thought exactly!!!!!! Hina had such a responsible answer and im SO glad nailah spoke up to part of what Hina said cos some people are legit NOT suited and ready to have children
Actually, I think there is value in seeing that point of view as well. Things are not getting better for us from here on out but are we not supposed to fulfill our desires because of that? The world is and has always been bad. I do however agree with you that millennials and younger have a lot of apprehension towards having children based on the world we live in.
I don't think he really meant just have children just because without making any considerations. I think he was referring more to the part where she said the world is a bad place and she's not sure she wants to bring more people into it. You definitely shouldn't let the fact that the world is a "bad place" stop you from bringing joy into the world if that's truly what you want. Just because the world is bad doesn't mean your children will have a bad life. Joy can still exist no matter how bad the world looks
Hina is so gorgeous, I’m sure he does get jealous
I mean in that age of 18 years. We tend to make mistakes due to our insecurities . So it is pretty common. But, you rarely find someone who is trustworthy and secure (confidence).
@semi FOLLOW HER ON INSTAGRAM!! @hinaamarie she’s one of my best friends she’s taught me everything I know about makeup and taking care of myself
@@misfitrory3207 I’m muslim myself and I’m curious if she is as well or just her family?
@@misfitrory3207 looks like there's a Hina stan in the comments akjdhdkjf 😳😳
@@orlandoblooom why do you want to know that tho?
should've asked for their agree/disagree responses separately before the video and revealed them during.
Yeah fr, they were all pretty much agreeing with their partners (especially Blake with Hina). Not to over analyze Hina and Blake’s relationship but here is what I gathered (this is mostly focused on what she’s doing wrong, since it seems like she doesn’t hold herself accountable for anything while he does). She answer the questions first and he somehow agreed on a lot of them, I don’t think he would if he answered first. She lowkey got him wrapped around her finger and I think she ended up lacking respect for him (and might be with him out of pity), like he called her crying to get back with her because of his family and friend’s racism, and she said she didn’t take him back instantly (so that vulnerability he had didn’t meant too much to her). She made him stop watching porn and all that (which is good, but idk I’m getting a vibe that she was judgey about it). He seems like he’s trying so hard not to offend her, like she kinda smiled when he said he is a jealous person. And at the end of the video I feel her her saying “I’m shy” was a hint for him to kiss her right there on camera but he didn’t catch on cuz he wanted to respect her, but that “respect” might make her take advantage of him. She doesn’t seem to take him seriously and probably doesn’t have enough respect for him. Like her face expression when he said one day he’s gonna marry her, I don’t think she agrees. He also stayed up to talk to her until 6 am when he was tired, he’s doing too much for her and is making all of these sacrifices that she might end up taking advantage/not appreciating. She did say that she hopes not to put her trauma on her kids, I don’t want her to do that to him either. I’m hoping she doesn’t look down on him for these things, he seems very considerate and nice and I really hope she is as well (cuz she didn’t really say anything she did for him). He probably just feels lucky that he is with such a pretty girl, and she might feel like she’s doing him a favor for being with him which I don’t think is right. But lemme stop assuming stuff here, ion think they should break up but I think he should just be mindful to himself and how she views him
@@mannygene5545 very true but damn...you sound way too obsessed on their relationship
@@mannygene5545 You got all that from a 17 minute video??
Everytime Blake would talk there was always something laughing at him 😂
@@mannygene5545 this was fun to read lol would love to see your analysis of the other couples
I like Norris. I don't know why but I like him.
He has a great smile
He’s calm
i pick up his vibe
I’m so surprised at how many of them are okay with their partner cheating lol
same
me too. but i guess it has to do with commitment and understanding i guess? if i were with someone for lets say 10 years and they cheated, i would at least try and work it out to not throw all those years away. but truthfully for me i dont think even if we tried it would ever be the same.
@@gillian3510 they’ve been playing you for ten years, if they truly loved you betraying you in such a way wouldn’t even pop up in their mind.
None of them said they were okay with cheating though.
Wasn’t the question would you stay with THIS partner if they cheated. I don’t think that’s them saying I’m okay with cheating.
“Don’t let the World determine what you want.” - _Jamal 2021_
Full metal alchemist
stfu
@@neard34th ?
@@AmalSaidi123 srry
That quote doesn’t work in this context. It’s actually ironic as becoming a parent is to a great extent deciding a life for another human being. I’m not antinatalist but people should consider the moral implications of creating another being.
I'm sorry but how I see it, cheating=disrespect. I wouldn't ever stay after being cheated on✌🏽
🙌🙌🙌Exactly
fr like why would you stay
@@roxxydesign4424 Many cases people cheat because of the alcohol. Even the most loyal partner can cheat on you because of it. Better to stay off the alcohol and if they still cheated, I'd cut him off no questions asked. If he cheated while he was drunk, I might give him a 2nd chance but if it happened again then there aren't anymore chances
Never say never
@@naylisyazwina6836 ya'll blame alcohol for everything. It's sickening
Lea and Leanna what are the odds of simmilar names
They’re like twin names lol
kinda reminds me of the youtube couple rose and rosie. or anne and ann from the show 'gentleman jack'. it's just gonna be part of lesbian culture now 🤣
I know a Katherine and Kathryn who are married
What if someone mistaken them to be sisters and saw them kiss and they're like "...sweet home Alabama" 😃💀
It's like Rose and Rosie the TH-cam couple (check out their channel they're so awesome lol)
Hina is so compassionate and wise for her age, very admirable.
Why did she say their baby would be a poc tho
@@Felixuser i’m pretty sure she’s not white, their baby will be mixed with another race
@@Felixuser she’s brown
@@Felixuser because she’s a person of color????
She's exactly like those teenage girls that think they know everything but really she's just a child
It's crazy how these couples look so similar to each other
They’re wearing matching outfits
I think that there are very studies about that. Think that couples grow similar aswell.
They say you are what you eat
yeah like when i see 2 people who are both on the chubby side or 2 on the muscular side etc.
@@thaisbehaghel8322 good lord I spit my tea out 😂
Y’all can’t tell me nailah and Jamal aren’t crab restaurant owners💀
WHAT!?
LMFAAAOOOOO
💀💀💀💀😭😭😭😭
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
Hina may be only 18 years old, but she has some really mature views on the responsibilities coming with having children.
To be honest that's the bare minimum, everyone should be at least that mature by the time they turn 18.
@@nikolatheme5572 Yeah, let’s not praise people for being the bare minimum, but it’s good to see she is mature unlike some adults when they have kids
@@nikolatheme5572 there's always this one pooper like you in every comment lol 😂
@@deepstariaenigmatica2601 they’re not a pooper. They’re just pointing out how low the bar for what we consider “mature” to be
@@fcplop98 why are you putting mature on sarcastic quotes. She wasn't mature enough for you? I don't know much 18 year olds that have views like her.
I'm honestly surprised that most answered in the agree area to the question asking if they would remain in a relationship after being cheeted on. I wasn't expecting it!! It's very interesting
I think after a certain point the relationship grows bigger than sexual or emotional fidelity. The goodness of friendship and care. But yah, no one likes being cheated on its not easy at all.
A few years ago I never would've understood it until my long-term boyfriend cheated on me. It wasn't malicious or out of feelings for another person, it was the result of him bottling up his emotions for so long and self destructive behavior- not that that's an excuse, he still could've not done it. But after talking through it together and taking some time apart, I realized that the fact that he told me right away, talked to a therapist, and put in visible effort to our relationship after that I was willing to give him a second chance. It's really all about how strongly connected you are, and as the other reply said- your friendship.
@@fandomkid1952 I’d say if the person takes accountability for their actions, if it’s not in their nature, and if they’re willing to do whatever work it takes to mend the trust then there’s a fighting chance. However I feel like cheating multiple times and just doing whatever one likes to is normalized and that’s what’s scary. Let’s not normalize people constantly behaving badly without a care in the world.
same but I think it's because most of them have been together for years now so it's harder and also especially hard if ur married or with kids
@@DanielleSkye yeah definitely I straight up was like this is the only chance you get if it happens again we're done regardless of the reason it happened
Charlie goes hard for his Filipina frfr 😩
MY FILIPINA QUEENRKJGBKGJ
LMAO I love it 😭
Fr fr, not to mention she's gorgeous.
I thought she was white
I really appreciate the couples that spoke out against pornography, although it was not the popular opinion. I think sometimes things like this get normalized, when in truth they are quite damaging.
Ive always Been on the fence about pornography
Porn is not a factual or realistic medium of what sex is, but I will admit to having watched it. I don't judge myself for watching porn because let's be honest; we're all primitive/sexual beings. I just feel as if porn can be consumed if you're within a healthy mindset.
Yes so true
There is so much research and data on how damaging pornography can be and ever since I found it all of my interactions with men , specifically in regard of intimacy, have clear connections with what researches have found on how it effects someone’s intimacy.
I think it's like alcohol. Some people can have it and not affect their lives. Some people shouldn't.
i like how these couples are very communication based couples, they communicate and understand where the other stands. communication is very vitial
I do think there is always someone for everyone, but that doesn’t mean everyone will be able to find that someone. Plus there’s still that freedom of choice we have as human beings.
The idea of a soulmate feels a little spiritual tbh.
What about aromantic people? There isn't someone romantic for them
Yeah. People often choose to stay in relationships that are not right for the longest time!
@@a.whisper4153 good point, this is why in my opinion a soulmate can be platonic or romantic
It’s because it’s not true lol. We all know the truth, it’s just harder to accept
Hina is literally one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen 😍
oh boi, you probably don't use instagram
@@deepstariaenigmatica2601 ? She super pretty though.
@@noodleman4500 Are you in disagreement with the sky or the air? 🙄
@@deepstariaenigmatica2601With water
@@noodleman4500 then you need anti psychotic medication
Hina sounds like such a sweet and educated girl. She’s also soo pretty!! I’m rooting for her and blake’s relationship 🥺
I thought Blake would have very different answers if Hina wasn't there. Felt like he had a really tight leash on his neck, atleast tighter than what my dog has around his !
She sound brainwashed to me tho
@@anaaa8437 Yup !
@@anaaa8437 what makes you think that?
@@Rudi_Mentary723 How is she brainwashed? Cause she doesn't tolerate racism?
everything blake said abt porn is 100% true. if you’re young i would not recommend watching it even though it is normalized
I’m really trying. It’s literally insane. I’ll tell myself I won’t watch it ever again... every single time.
@@Daelen i downloaded the app “i am sober” and it helped a lot because it sends daily reminders. also i associated porn with something i didn’t like
Yes this, even though porn might not be considered “cheating” in some relationships. Overconsumption of porn is still really bad for people’s health and perception of sex.
@@Daelen long as your not dependant on it I don't see the problem with it
@@jarricah7920 it’s not dependency that’s the only problem. It’s the unrealistic standards, and many of the kinks can be bad for your mental health. There’s scientific evidence that it’s damaging for you and leads to unhealthy relationships
why do i feel like hina and norris would make such great friends
Same at 5:34 i felt a connection😂
Huh
Lmao
it’s so interesting to me to see so many perspectives on this i kinda never consider that some ppl think cheating isn’t just the end of a relationship
Cause it's not it depends
Everyone makes mistakes once in a while
@@david91lvb hurting and breaking the trust of someone you claimed to love is not a mistake lol
Things are different if your married with children than if your simply just dating someone.
She's not yours it's just you're turn redpill MIG-TOW for life
Am I the only one who was amazed by just how healthy and strong all of the relationships in this video seemed
1- not true
2- would u bet you are the only one? If not maybe even u don't believe in that
Lmao do you really think lea and leanas would last!? Low IQ
@@swegboii6447 why would their relationship not last?
This video called me single in 78 languages😭
this video personally attacked me for 17 minutes straight, I need a therapist
@@christiana5453 same😭😂
@@christiana5453 No, what you need is Something called Rogaine. Look it up. Get foam version for short hair, liquid version for long. Also get a derma roller (use once a week 6 hours apart from rogaine), then also get biotin pills. Use shampoo every other day, make sure it's not some weird ass brand. DONT USE FINASTERIDE. If you use fin, you're pretty much gambling to make your dong stop working. If you have a cat make sure it doesnt come into contact with your head after applying rogaine, but you dont have to be too worried just dont rub your head on your cat. Have a balanced diet, get some sun (or take vitamin D pills during the winter), stay hydrated, and work out. The good thing about rogaine and biotin is they're actually healthy and have no bad health effects, so why not take them anyways. Wait like a year, and make sure to take pictures every month to mark progress. If you dont see any changes think about a transplant, or if ur broke then maybe just shave it. Goodluck
You can't tell me Charlie's not a Christan rapper lol I love his energy!
That Christian couple is so adorable. God bless all of the couples.
Yeah
I'm muslim but OH MY GOSH the relationship between Charlie and Amber is gold! They are literally relationship goals. I want it to be like that with my future husband. Ameen! I hope everyone has or will have a healthy and loving relationship with their partner/spouse until the end of their time.
@@naylisyazwina6836 ameen 🥰 I hope the best is coming your way (and everyone else's ofc)
I know I love them 🥺
@Ben Dover lemme guess, you're an atheist who is bitter about every religion. They're just passionate about their faith, leave them be.
I felt Blake’s honesty. Knowing what my relationships were like back then, porn was a HARD topic. They clearly truly care about each other. Some beautiful couple on this one. 👏
I like how all of the couples are rocking a matching fit. ;-;
They're pulling my heartstrings
i feel like hina and blake are soo so mature for their age and i really loved that about this video
Not to over analyze their relationship but here is what I gather (this is mostly focused on what she’s doing wrong, since it seems like she doesn’t hold herself accountable for anything while he does). She answer the questions first and he somehow agreed on a lot of them, I don’t think he would if he answered first. She lowkey got him wrapped around her finger and I think she ended up lacking respect for him (and might be with him out of pity), like he called her crying to get back with her because of his family and friend’s racism, and she said she didn’t take him back instantly (so that vulnerability he had didn’t meant too much to her). She made him stop watching porn and all that (which is good, but idk I’m getting a vibe that she was judgey about it). He seems like he’s trying so hard not to offend her, like she kinda smiled when he said he is a jealous person. And at the end of the video I feel her her saying “I’m shy” was a hint for him to kiss her right there on camera but he didn’t catch on cuz he wanted to respect her, but that “respect” might make her take advantage of him. She doesn’t seem to take him seriously and probably doesn’t have enough respect for him. Like her face expression when he said one day he’s gonna marry her, I don’t think she agrees. He also stayed up to talk to her until 6 am when he was tired, he’s doing too much for her and is making all of these sacrifices that she might end up taking advantage/not appreciating. She did say that she hopes not to put her trauma on her kids, I don’t want her to do that to him either. I’m hoping she doesn’t look down on him for these things, he seems very considerate and nice and I really hope she is as well (cuz she didn’t really say anything she did for him). He probably just feels lucky that he is with such a pretty girl, and she might feel like she’s doing him a favor for being with him which I don’t think is right. But lemme stop assuming stuff here, ion think they should break up but I think he should just be mindful to himself and how she views him
@Ben Dover its not that there point is bad, I'm just lazy.
@@mannygene5545 Spot on! Ignore the dude hating on your analysis. I agree and I'm surprised more people aren't catching on when looking at the comments.
@@phobobayum theyre copying & pasting that under multiple comments tho. it’s weird an obsessive. damn i can tell quarantine is getting to some of you ..
@@mannygene5545 I kind of agree but then again we might just be over analysing
For people who are worried about other folks looking at/flirting with their partner strictly on the basis of "cause she's so pretty/he's so handsome", just keep in mind that the responsibility is on your partner to not milk the attention. If that happens THEN you should worry.
So true, like those people can look but a song as your partner is loyal that won't affect you two.
I’ve heard of the saying, “you can window shop but don’t go to the checkout” I think it really depends on what people consider as cheating as we all have different boundaries :)
I guess that kind of insecurity is why Muslims make/convince their women wear Hijabs
@@poocrayon4588
So ur saying women who wear hijabs aren't beautiful? Cuz that's so wrong. And you know even if their hair is covered, a lot of them still wear makeup
@@Fan-nr9zp That's not what they were saying at all. I didn't get that when I read their comment. I think they were saying how it seems like that's why Muslim men have Muslim women cover they're hair and maybe even their faces BECAUSE of their beauty. Which I understand, but I personally think it probably goes deeper than that - like their religion and beliefs and maybe other things I'm not aware of. Plus, I don't think it's the men "making" the women do anything. But more about when they believe they should do as individuals bc of their religion/beliefs.
Blake was super honest. Mad respect
I think you meant to say *Hina.
I'm 100% percent sure that Charlie is a young minister, him saying he's a half-filipino gave it away
Lmfao
how does that give it away lmao
@@lissr.5073 Filipinos are very religious xD
Once I heard someone say « If you dont want your partner to know about what you’re doing - you’re cheating » and I definitely agree with this, if you feel like you need to hide, something isnt right🤷🏻♀️
Cheating? STRONGLY Disagree
It's kinda surprising to me how most of them believed in soulmates. Also, the ones who *knew* they loved the other person after three days. Couldn't be me
lesbians move fast leave us alone
@@kelley9949 U-haul
My husband literally told me he loved me on the 3rd date🥺😂
@@kelley9949 YEP
@@kelley9949 dont bring me on this
Charlie is either a youth pastor or spoken word poet and I'm here for it
Can we talk about the extremely good quality of the webcams these people are using? :P I need one too haha
Probably just iPhones near a window 😌☝🏼
Jubilee could have sent them a video set
I know, mine is a potato
I actually liked this discussion quite a bit. Would love to see this discussion in full again because these are interesting and deep topics to explore.
OMG OMG HANDS DOWN ONE OF MY FAVORITE JUBILEE EPISODES. First off the diversity, it really showed all different, ages, races, sexual orientations in this short episode to understand from multiple perspectives. Second, everyone explained their pieces while remaining respectful regardless if they had an opposing view. Thank you to the participants for even sharing and being vulnerable with us viewers, I enjoyed listening very much. I wish them all the best and this is the content I love.
I loved ALL these couples, obviously I don’t know their relationships inside out but from this video, I really like them. They are compatible and I love the range of couples-ethnicities, different ages, sexualities. Great video!!
If somehow you fall in love with another person, PLEASE at least has the courtesy to break up with your partner.
Charlie and Amber makin me wanna cry. You can see how much they love each other that’s what I want
I'm muslim but OH MY GOSH the relationship between Charlie and Amber is gold! I want it to be like that with my future husband. Ameen!
As a muslim u shouldnt glorify haram relationships (not sure if they are married),but may Allah bless you with a great husband
@@Lockeditin they are married. Ameen
@Jennetteish - hm? From who?
@Jennetteish - yeah same, kinda felt like they just wanted to say the right words
@@Makasituation ahh chemistry or respect from the one with Hina (muslim girl)? Yeah they didn't seem like that had such a good bond. It really must be tough for the guy's family to not accept her though. It must have put a n extra strain on the relationship
If you cheat on me there is no way I'm sticking with you.
"it was three days into we met and i said i love you" if this isn’t the most lesbian thing ever
With Charlie's voice, he could make my lazy ass clean my room and exercise istg
Charlie just seems like a genuinely happy and awesome guy, I would love to sit down and have a chat with the dude about life, really feel like I could learn a lot from him.