I left out a few hair coverings such as hats and turbans, choosing to focus on the most popular hair coverings in my community and among other Orthodox Jews that I know. I will say that it is not uncommon for hats to be worn with a wig or a fall, often a beanie or a ball cap. As always, Thank you for watching!
@@mastljn great questions! Check out this video: th-cam.com/video/7M59cGjrcpY/w-d-xo.html As for why don’t all wear one, Jews vary in their religious observance so that’s why :) Hope all this answers your questions!
I'm Jewish and didn't grow up in a Jewish home..my mom loved wearing wigs and head scarves. I never understood why because we were " closet" Jews. My dad was a Baptist and mom was Jewish and Native American. I'm learning about my Jewish heritage and how much my mom was practicing Judaism without knowing it.
I’m not Jewish, actually I’m a Christian. I’m so sorry you are experiencing any discrimination at all. I can’t imagine as a Mom going through that. My heart breaks for y’all & your family will definitely be in my prayers.
Shalom; people of ME when they see your head cover would make you their friend right away. Or maybe buy you lunch if you get alone with that friend; specially women.
Christians, Jews, and Muslims are all the children of Abraham. Hating each other makes no sense. I see you cousin. You are in my heart and my prayers. Be well.
@@kitty-mp6cx and Jar of Fireflies Something compels me to point out that it's always the women who plan the family reunions. It is such a massive task it's hard to know where to begin. Maybe it's as simple as this.
Hi Channa ! I’m a Muslim Moroccan woman. I don’t wear Hijab and I love your channel… so informative about your Jewish community in America. I’ ve seen many Jewish women wearing wigs in Brooklyn and honestly I love your looks with the wig on, it looks so natural and I can tell that you enjoy wearing it 😉 your Moroccan cooking looks tasty too !
Hello!!! Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m so glad you’re here! Thanks about the cooking :) I’m so lucky to be married to a Moroccan man who loves to cook!
You seem like you must have the best, kindest heart. You have such a sweet smile too. I am Catholic but feel so blessed by your videos and love learning from them.
What I feel I am learning is that the hair covering as well as dressing modesty is all about dressing for God. As well as having men and women spaces. I think I used to believe it was oppressive and misogyny. But I’m realizing I was wrong . I’m learning so much from your videos . Thank you 🙏
I’m so glad you’re seeing it in a different way! Men and women can be equal but still have different obligations and inclinations. For example, women are generally more intuitive than men. It doesn’t mean we are greater than or less than, we are just different:)
@@jaroffireflies BT WHY IS IT ONLY FOR A WOEN TO COVER P HOW DO EN COVER P LIKE THE SLI RELIGION Y HEART BREAKS FOR THOSE WOEN THEY ARE NOTHING HAVE TO DRESS IN COPLETE BLACK FRO HEAD TO TOE WITH HONLY THEIR EYES PEEKING OT SORRY BT THAT IS A SAD LIFE.......AGAIN ST TRLY TRYING TO NDERSTAND YOR RELIGION. GOD BLESS
Such an amazing video- and as a Christian, it’s hard to hear that you’ve had issues with something this innocent and sweet in public. Much love from us! 💕💖
I really loved them all. The fall and the headband are the most like how I wear my hair. I want to say how sorry/angry I am that anti-Semitism is causing you to have to adapt your look. May we all pray and work for a world devoid of anti-Semitism. 💜
Thank you Theresa 💜 I’m always out with my kids so I can’t be too careful 💜 It’s sad for me though of course that I would even have to think about things like that. But amen to a world without hate!
@@jaroffireflies It will be a paradise on earth when there will be no more hate in the world. I loved the full wig and the fall best of all. I'm new to your channel and enjoyed this video but I wonder why Orthodox Jews (the women) have to cover their hair?
I am a Christian and have started wearing some head coverings when I am home and working. My head also burns easily in the summer, my hair is white. Love your videos.
Thank you for your kind words! I find hair covering around the house Incredibly comfortable. Keeps my hair out of my face and out of my way without the harsh pulling it back of a ponytail or bun :)
This is very nice, I'm not Jewish but I realy like the idea of covering my hair. I wore alot of bandanas growing up, looking for a nicer way to do it now as an adult.
Thank you for bringing jewish life closer to me and for telling and explaining all these interesting things. Wishing all the best to you and your family 💕
You saying that you want to put grey in you're wig makes me appreciate you even more. You are so authentic and genuine, I wish I knew more ppl like you!!
It was so interesting to see the variety of hair coverings that Jewish woman wear. Your looks were fun and beautiful and I enjoyed watching the different ways you prefer. Your style and personality are just stunning 💜
I love your transparency with all this. I mean, just about what feels good to you on your head and in your ordinary life. I don't understand the need to cover your hair but I fully respect it. Your genuineness is so special. Thanks. Great with video quality too. I know that's hard. At first I was just confused like ..why is fake hair ok but real hair not? But then I thought about there are tropical cultures where women go topless. And I can't remotely go around without a shirt on. So why is it my business if you want to cover your hair. You touched me. Thank you. By they way my kids are grown but we homeschooled. You're amazing.
Yay! I do cover my hair at Mass and anytime I enter the church. Thanks for all the tips! 😁 Also... I am so sorry for you feeling the need to wear a wig because of all the antisemitism lately. Praying for my Jewish brothers and sisters. ❤
Thank you so much for your prayers! I appreciate it so much as do all the Jewish people ❤️❤️❤️ I love that you cover your hair at Mass and when entering a church :) Had I remained Catholic I think I would have adopted that as well. Though I don’t remember anyone who did it.
@@jaroffireflies It is more common in parishes that do Latin Mass. It's much more "orthodox" (best word I can think of) than the regular Catholic Churches and still in union with the Pope. I didn't learn about these types of parishes until I was an adult. So glad I found them.
Thank you for your prayers for the Jewish people. It’s been a tough time with the anti semitism going on. There was a Jewish cemetery desecrated with anti Semitic graffiti this week in Maryland. I am very thankful that my state government has stood up and said that anti semitism will not be tolerated and that they stand with us especially after this latest anti Semitic attack.
Omg, I love that you want to add gray to your wig! You’re a woman after my own heart. I stopped dyeing my naturally red hair several years ago, and it was a great decision.
The head covering and the many ways to wear head covering. It looks nice . I am fascinated with Jewish faith and traditions. I always learn and new way to think .
I finally subscribed to your channel because of your authenticity. The grey hair dye comment was (by far) the best‼️ Thank you for sharing the day in your life as an Orthodox Jewish Mom. You're a lot of fun to watch and I learn a lot too.
LOVE that you are proud of your grays and graying gracefully!❤ So many women hate it and fight it. I'm of the same belief as you concerning graying. This was so great!🙂
It breaks my heart to hear you say you don't wear your head scarfs in certain areas because the rise in anti semitism. As a woman of color in a interracial marriage with biracial child I understand how the rise in racism and intolerance can effect or daily lives. Praying that things get better and people see we are all on family regardless of religion,race or origin we are all one family the human family.
Hating a religion is not racism. It’s not liking an ideology that another person prescribes to. It’s like how many people hate Trumpers who wear the MAGA hat like some religious covering. It’s because the hat means something just as the scarf does, and people could not agree with the idea behind it. Now, that doesn’t mean that they should be rude but it’s not racism or any other oppression. It’s a difference in opinion.
@@Breathefreemylove “Jewishness” is a cultural identity, an ethnicity, and a religion. Many Jews don’t practice Judaism. If it was just about a “difference in opinion,” then all someone had to do to avoid all the persecution and pogroms and well, the Holocaust, would be to stop practicing their faith.
As a Muslim I think you’re absolutely adorable! I also loved your home schooling video. In uk they making changes and laws and it seems to better home educate your children these days.
Fair play for showing how you wrap your hair, wear what you want, everyone else does. Women all over the world cover their hair in many ways and I find it really interesting. ☮️🇬🇧
My friend’s two daughters-in-law both do their head wraps the same way. Thanks to you I now know how. I thought that there was a “filler” beneath the scarf but I was embarrassed and didn’t want to ask them. I think you are adorable, have a gut g’bentched yohr. Good Moed 🥰
I'm so sorry that you have to "blend in" so you dont get hate. Eveyone should be able to live their life the way they choose without receiving judgements.
It made me incredibly sad when you mentioned that you felt you needed to wear wigs more to avoid anti-Semitism. On the subject of wigs, if your wig is synthetic, dying it is problematic. Even if it's real hair dying it lighter is a project. It will be an adventure either way. Since the original color is light it may take the gray dye but it will come out a different shade than what's on the box unless you bleach it white first. Try the hair on the underside first to see how it looks.
Many Christians practice the covering of their hair. It’s not exclusive to Judaism or Islam. I live in the south with all kinds of different cultures and religious practices. In our area we don’t pay much attention to head coverings or dress.
@@brvndxxxn it is sad. I have too much going on in my life to worry about something that has nothing to do with that persons heart and personality. The thing I notice most is Chana’s beautiful eyes and smile. We’re a melting pot of so many things in America, you’d think people would just go on with their lives and hope the best for others.
As a catholic girl who veils, I would love a tutorial on how to style some of these headscarves. Loved the tip about the velvet headband 💚 I always have to use like 5-6 bobbypins to keep it from slipping back
You should totally try to velvet headband! And good on ya with the veil! I know it’s not a super popular tradition in Catholicism, but I think it’s so beautiful 💖
Hey, I'm also catholic and I'd love to veil full time. I actually used to veil quite a lot (and still do) but not always and often (funnily enough) rather at home then in public, because especially here where I live (Poland) it's totally not a thing among Catholics (or anyone) and I don't want to confuse anyone. So I wanted to ask you - do you veil just in church or full time? And how do you explain it to people who ask you ( 1Cor 11 + modesty in general, I presume) 😉 Plus do you know more head-covering Catholics where you live or are you more alone in this :-) ?
@@waleria2586 Hi there! I know many Catholic ladies who veil! My hometown is near Mexico and it's a more common practice among Mexican Catholics. Now I live near Korea and it seems even more common amongst Korean ladies, nearly all of them are veiled in mass. For myself, I only veil in church, especially in the presence of the tabernacle or the eucharist. When I get asked about it, I give a few different answers. One is that all the women I admire the most are veiled (the Blessed Virgin, Saint Thérèse, etc.). Another is that veiling is a symbol of something precious and holy, as shown by how we veil the alter. Lastly, my favorite explanation is that it makes me feel humble and puts me in the right space mentally for worship.
I loved this video! I find it fascinating how covering your hair is so important. I love to see all of the different options you have. Beautiful. Just beautiful.
Do Jewish women have to cover their heads all the time, whether they are indoors or outdoors? Your channel is so enlightening. Here I am able to learn and understand the Jewish way of life. Thank you.
Hi! New sub here, I’ve just discovered your channel and this is the first of your videos that I watch, I love the way you explain things! I converted to Islam a couple years ago but my ancestors on my dad’s side are all Jews from Poland, I love learning about Jewish traditions and channels like yours really help as my dad is not religious himself and never really mentioned anything about his family’s religion to my sister and I, I’m glad I found your channel so I can get to know more on your beliefs and way of life! I hope anti semitism is not too out of control in the US and that you can still feel safe while outside, I hate how something so simple as the faith in God can make you a target of violence, what a crazy world we live in…
Interesting. Thanks. I grew up not far from a Jewish centered community and always wondered about many of these topics but was always told it was not nice to ask. Thank you for enlightening those of us who respect all cultural ways and religious beliefs And maybe even those who are open minded enough to care. Ha ha ha I hear ya about the wig…I wore a couple when I went thru Chemo therapy years ago and wearing them could be a challenge in their self! Especially in the Winter against coats and scarves! Namaste. 🙌🏻
I am always happy to answer questions! And yes you totally get it with the wigs! Things like hoodies are weird to wear with not my hair lol random things like that!
I’m also in Texas and I’m happy my family has grown up in a blended community and schools and my heart just broke a little when you said you face anti semitism. I am sad that we are still here but I pray we keep moving forward and your light and spirit will show others how we are all one.
Shalom, I know the feeling about wearing a head covering. I live in OK near the Amish so it's a little less then normal. I love how you explain all of your way of head coverings.
I just found your channel last night after I got hold from work and I’m really enjoying it so far! I grew up in a very strictly orthodox (Ashkenazi) family/community, so learning and seeing how things work in a Sephardi home are so interesting to me. I personally find the topic of Tznius very interesting because of how stringent it was in my family and how diverse it’s interpretation can be. For example, my mother had her head shaved after the Chasuna and wears a sheitel with a beret/small hat or a kertchif for the most part, whereas my friends wife wears a fallback sheitel with a headband like you do sometimes! I’m now part of a “regular” orthodox /modern orthodox Shul and again the level of modesty changes again.. Its so amazing that many woman enjoy and find empowerment in covering their hair. Thank you for the content! From Scotland (Yes there’s Jews in Scotland!)
Thank you for sharing part of your story! I’m so glad you found a place in Judaism that is working for you! Ps I have Scottish ancestry on both sides (so two tartans but I’m not sure how that really works out lol). I have always wanted to visit there :)
@@jaroffireflies you should come holiday here with your family if you are ever able to! I would be so happy to help you with that and would hope you visit us in Aberdeen! We’re the most northern community in the UK. Ps: there’s an official Scottish Jewish tartan now as of 2008!
@@evanbeker-sorski8074 so now I have 3 tartans? 🤣 I love it lol Thank you so much for your generous offer! I will absolutely be thrilled to take you up on that if we can ever make it over there!!!!
I do like your wigs. The longer one that is thicker makes you look younger and I like that one the best. You do not have to place gray hair in your wig. Unless you get older. The hair color looks great with your complexion. 😊
I really apppreciate your candor. Personally, i have such a challenge with my big head, finding "a good scarf", getting a good fit, wearing something that feels right and good to my scalp. Lately though, i've been very excited to get " my Rosie the Rivitor" on!! Just love tying a square scarf up front and center and tucking in the loose ends. It helps to fold my arm infront or bend them in the classic fashion! Let's get this done Rosie!!📣💋💙
Agreed snood is reliable and comfortable, I like my ears secure but not tight and for me doesn't slip or get in the way with ties, knots or tails when it comes to taking care of kids or housework or gardening
I have enjoyed your video. I so enjoy learning about cultural differences, beliefs and heritages. My heart hurts to hear about your struggles in being who you are. Love is the highest and strongest of energies. Many prayers for you your family and community. 🌹
I just started covering my hair daily a few weeks ago, I've primarily been wearing 20x20 bandanas, theyre the most comfortable thing I've tried so far. If/when my hair gets a little longer i think im going to try your method with bigger square scarves, I love that look!
I have no idea how or why this popped up on my suggested videos but it did. I thoroughly enjoyed this video and it was informative. I am not Jewish but it’s so nice to learn about some of the things I’ve seen but would be rude to ask a total stranger. I subscribed and liked the video. I wish you and yours much happiness. It was serendipitous to stumble across the video but glad I did!!!!
i am so greatfull for to see introduction of the Jewish culture and costumes So happy that is now possible due to some of you. I learned so much of Sonyas coocking as well and so many practical things... keep up Jar of Fireflies.
Love the headcoverings! Also, I think its fun that you can match the scarves to your outfit - I do that with my masks 2021 :) I am sorry you have to worry about peoples opinions...
Hello, I just found your channel and am loving it. Thank you so much. I find you extremely pleasant and happy with your family life. Looking forward to learning more about you and your family. Blessings to you all.🙏✡️💕
I just discovered your channel. I prefer covering my hair with tichels and volumizers. I have not had any issues where I work (in Brooklyn, no less) from any employer. I even wear them to weddings, layering metallic scarves with plain. I've had Chasidic ladies ask me where I get them for their daughters. I also love preties - my newest ones even have a strip of velvet in front now. It's the friction that keeps them on. I love it. When I travel (back when traveling was a thing), I cover my hair with berets. This helps me fit in better on the road, and is very useful for flying because they're usually happy to search my head with the beret on, and they're very comfortable on planes. As you can probably tell, I don't wear sheitels at all. My husband doesn't like them and I keep thinking of better ways to spend the money. Also, every time I come close to buying one, something happens. So I'm married over 30 years and been covering out of my house for most of it, and the only wigs I've ever owned were novelties for Purim. But if I did, I'd totally add some gray as well. Unless I decided to wear a burgundy one.
I love my head scarf and I have them in mind different colors and patterns. Being a mom to 3 they are a life saver when on the rare occasion that I don't have time to brush my hair.
I love this video! Exactly the step I'm at in this journey. Thank you for your referral to the Scarf Bar! I ordered some. You should contact them to see if you can get some promotional advertising.
I have worn scarves in a headband kind of style for years... mostly because I have a big head and commercial headbands give me a headache! 🤪 But if I were to do a full head covering... I think I would do the turban style and add embellishments to further accessorize! I love the variety of options and I especially like your scarves that are shiny! 💖
Very awesome video. I have been wearing wigs for many years along with clip ins to manage the cost of hair care which I do by myself and protect my hair. It's interesting to see another woman trying them out. They look lovely.
Your kindness and education about Jewish culture is interesting. Though I have been from here it may be good to get back on. As it can help pull me out for a a bit. Going through a very difficult time as a woman in physical health. The word Relationship in itself right now implies a struggling place in my life in lots of ways. Prayers appreciated. Thank you🇮🇱
I have no religious reason to cover my hair, but I wear a snood allllll winter. A warm hat that is warm on the back of the neck that isn’t itchy hair on the neck, I love it.
Thank you, very interesting video! I was raised reform Jewish although I was born conservative so I do have a Hebrew name. I saw someone comment earlier that reform Jews typically don’t have Hebrew names and I had no idea! Also interesting as reform and conservative Jewish women don’t wear head coverings. I have to say I don’t understand, but respect, the practice. ❤️
My father is a Reform Rabbi and I have never heard that Reform Jews don’t have Hebrew Names … at the Bris the boy’s Hebrew name is used and the girl’s Hebrew name is given at her baby naming ceremony and the Hebrew Names are used when they are called up for Aaliyah for their Bar or Bat Mitzvah. I was not given a “Hebrew Name” as my name is Hebrew as are my sisters but that was my parents choice. As a Conservative Jew I do not cover my hair except for in the synagogue, and the long standing joke amongst the other Teachers and Youth Directors was that all the single Men knew who was single based on what girls/woman had their hair covered during services lol
Here in South Florida we wear snoods all the time outside the house. In stores. Shul. Parties . work I think snoods are very attractive and comfortable There are a lot of pretty ones
Umm... not nearly, from what I've heard. One of my uni friends/colleagues had the complaint that after a day in her headscarf or wig, her hair was all matted and it took quite some effort to make it properly nice for her husband (one being exhorted to always be at one's physical best for one's husband)...
As a traditional Catholic, I wear whatever I please. We’re required to veil for Mass, but I sometimes like to veil for everyday use. That way, if I pop into Church or have reason to hear Mass unplanned, I’m set to go with matching head covering. So far as people staring or name-calling, that’s their problem! If they don’t like how I’m dressed, they can look somewhere else! Living in a large city with people of all religions and cultures, it’s rarely a problem.
Hey great video I have been starting to wear hair covering I like the puff idea it will keep all of my curls in place. Also if wear a lace front wig it will stay in place better. Oh and if wash your wig with shampoo and a few drops of fabric softener it will help it keep it shape for more years.
This may sound odd but am here because I am starting Chemo in a few weeks and I am looking for ways to still feel pretty and these scarves and how you style them are lovely!!! I am not Jewish nor do I mean ANY disrespect in my use of your tips. I truly am grateful for your breakdown as I plan on using these tools for my purposes. THANK YOU...very informative and now I know the items to search for...
You talked about getting out of the car and I laughed! That would totally be me rolling up with my wig on sideways. It amazes me how much you do that really is a talent, but you do it every day, so you probably don't think so. :) I have never tried to wear one and all the combs and clips would just get tangled up and I would be a total mess. I would probably be about the scarves and velvet insurance headbands. LOL! I agree, I like the tails.
Oh yes! And there are customs for different styles too, for example some Jews will wear a small hat (a fascinator) with their wig every time they wear their wig. That's not a custom in my community though. Hair covering is such a fascinating topic!
I left out a few hair coverings such as hats and turbans, choosing to focus on the most popular hair coverings in my community and among other Orthodox Jews that I know. I will say that it is not uncommon for hats to be worn with a wig or a fall, often a beanie or a ball cap. As always, Thank you for watching!
What is the reason for a head covering and why do some Jewish women not wear them?
@@mastljn great questions! Check out this video: th-cam.com/video/7M59cGjrcpY/w-d-xo.html As for why don’t all wear one, Jews vary in their religious observance so that’s why :) Hope all this answers your questions!
Where do you buy the scarves they are so beautiful. I can never find the right size to tie my hair up.
Hi, I new round here... From 🇮🇳 .... I like your second wig....covers your forehead...tone down your cheeks...
May I ask what is the significance of covering your hair? And from what law or command is this derived from?
I'm Jewish and didn't grow up in a Jewish home..my mom loved wearing wigs and head scarves. I never understood why because we were " closet" Jews. My dad was a Baptist and mom was Jewish and Native American. I'm learning about my Jewish heritage and how much my mom was practicing Judaism without knowing it.
Maybe she knew, but you didn't? lol
I’m not Jewish, actually I’m a Christian. I’m so sorry you are experiencing any discrimination at all. I can’t imagine as a Mom going through that. My heart breaks for y’all & your family will definitely be in my prayers.
Thank you 💜 Most people are amazing and accepting
Shalom; people of ME when they see your head cover would make you their friend right away. Or maybe buy you lunch if you get alone with that friend; specially women.
Christians, Jews, and Muslims are all the children of Abraham. Hating each other makes no sense. I see you cousin. You are in my heart and my prayers. Be well.
Thanks friend!
Ameen! Blessings and peace to all!
@@kitty-mp6cx amen! Thank you!
@@kitty-mp6cx and Jar of Fireflies
Something compels me to point out that it's always the women who plan the family reunions. It is such a massive task it's hard to know where to begin. Maybe it's as simple as this.
Beautifully phrased. Thank you. 🤗❤
Hi Channa ! I’m a Muslim Moroccan woman. I don’t wear Hijab and I love your channel… so informative about your Jewish community in America. I’ ve seen many Jewish women wearing wigs in Brooklyn and honestly I love your looks with the wig on, it looks so natural and I can tell that you enjoy wearing it 😉 your Moroccan cooking looks tasty too !
Hello!!! Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m so glad you’re here! Thanks about the cooking :) I’m so lucky to be married to a Moroccan man who loves to cook!
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You seem like you must have the best, kindest heart. You have such a sweet smile too. I am Catholic but feel so blessed by your videos and love learning from them.
Thank you so much! I really appreciate that 💜
What I feel I am learning is that the hair covering as well as dressing modesty is all about dressing for God. As well as having men and women spaces. I think I used to believe it was oppressive and misogyny. But I’m realizing I was wrong . I’m learning so much from your videos . Thank you 🙏
I’m so glad you’re seeing it in a different way! Men and women can be equal but still have different obligations and inclinations. For example, women are generally more intuitive than men. It doesn’t mean we are greater than or less than, we are just different:)
@@jaroffireflies BT WHY IS IT ONLY FOR A WOEN TO COVER P HOW DO EN COVER P LIKE THE SLI RELIGION Y HEART BREAKS FOR THOSE WOEN THEY ARE NOTHING HAVE TO DRESS IN COPLETE BLACK FRO HEAD TO TOE WITH HONLY THEIR EYES PEEKING OT SORRY BT THAT IS A SAD LIFE.......AGAIN ST TRLY TRYING TO NDERSTAND YOR RELIGION. GOD BLESS
@@catherinefabian8578 that was entirely incomprehensible and nobody wants to converse with someone who's screaming at them.
@@pansprayers I understood it
N obviously the poster doesn’t know all caps is yelling
It’s a non native English speaker for petes sake
@@pansprayers you hear the caps? lol
Such an amazing video- and as a Christian, it’s hard to hear that you’ve had issues with something this innocent and sweet in public. Much love from us! 💕💖
Thank you 💜
I really loved them all. The fall and the headband are the most like how I wear my hair. I want to say how sorry/angry I am that anti-Semitism is causing you to have to adapt your look. May we all pray and work for a world devoid of anti-Semitism. 💜
Thank you Theresa 💜 I’m always out with my kids so I can’t be too careful 💜 It’s sad for me though of course that I would even have to think about things like that. But amen to a world without hate!
@@jaroffireflies It will be a paradise on earth when there will be no more hate in the world. I loved the full wig and the fall best of all. I'm new to your channel and enjoyed this video but I wonder why Orthodox Jews (the women) have to cover their hair?
@@whitegirl1442 Orthodox Jews cover their hair after they get married because they are obligated by Jewish law. It is from the Torah and the Gemara.
I am a Christian and have started wearing some head coverings when I am home and working. My head also burns easily in the summer, my hair is white. Love your videos.
Thank you for your kind words! I find hair covering around the house Incredibly comfortable. Keeps my hair out of my face and out of my way without the harsh pulling it back of a ponytail or bun :)
This is very nice, I'm not Jewish but I realy like the idea of covering my hair. I wore alot of bandanas growing up, looking for a nicer way to do it now as an adult.
Thank you for bringing jewish life closer to me and for telling and explaining all these interesting things.
Wishing all the best to you and your family 💕
Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words! 💜
I don't think there in anything wrong, with showing head hair. Old, old beliefs.
You saying that you want to put grey in you're wig makes me appreciate you even more. You are so authentic and genuine, I wish I knew more ppl like you!!
Aw thank you!!! Your comment made my day!
It was so interesting to see the variety of hair coverings that Jewish woman wear. Your looks were fun and beautiful and I enjoyed watching the different ways you prefer. Your style and personality are just stunning 💜
😊😊😊💜💜💜 Thank you 💜💜💜😊😊😊
I love your transparency with all this. I mean, just about what feels good to you on your head and in your ordinary life. I don't understand the need to cover your hair but I fully respect it. Your genuineness is so special. Thanks. Great with video quality too. I know that's hard. At first I was just confused like ..why is fake hair ok but real hair not? But then I thought about there are tropical cultures where women go topless. And I can't remotely go around without a shirt on. So why is it my business if you want to cover your hair. You touched me. Thank you. By they way my kids are grown but we homeschooled. You're amazing.
Thank you so much! I am so happy to read your words! Thank you!
Yay! I do cover my hair at Mass and anytime I enter the church. Thanks for all the tips! 😁
Also... I am so sorry for you feeling the need to wear a wig because of all the antisemitism lately. Praying for my Jewish brothers and sisters. ❤
Thank you so much for your prayers! I appreciate it so much as do all the Jewish people ❤️❤️❤️ I love that you cover your hair at Mass and when entering a church :) Had I remained Catholic I think I would have adopted that as well. Though I don’t remember anyone who did it.
@@jaroffireflies It is more common in parishes that do Latin Mass. It's much more "orthodox" (best word I can think of) than the regular Catholic Churches and still in union with the Pope. I didn't learn about these types of parishes until I was an adult. So glad I found them.
@@jessramirez5721 that totally makes sense! I appreciate the further explanation:) I love learning new things!
Thank you for your prayers for the Jewish people. It’s been a tough time with the anti semitism going on. There was a Jewish cemetery desecrated with anti Semitic graffiti this week in Maryland. I am very thankful that my state government has stood up and said that anti semitism will not be tolerated and that they stand with us especially after this latest anti Semitic attack.
Omg, I love that you want to add gray to your wig! You’re a woman after my own heart. I stopped dyeing my naturally red hair several years ago, and it was a great decision.
Oh I love that!!! I always wanted to grey gracefully but the wig makes that a little more complicated 🤣
The head covering and the many ways to wear head covering. It looks nice . I am fascinated with Jewish faith and traditions. I always learn and new way to think .
I could never do this, but power to you sis! 10/10 for creativity ❤
Thank you! 🤗
I finally subscribed to your channel because of your authenticity. The grey hair dye comment was (by far) the best‼️ Thank you for sharing the day in your life as an Orthodox Jewish Mom. You're a lot of fun to watch and I learn a lot too.
Thank you! ❤️ I really appreciate that
LOVE that you are proud of your grays and graying gracefully!❤ So many women hate it and fight it. I'm of the same belief as you concerning graying. This was so great!🙂
😊😊😊
It breaks my heart to hear you say you don't wear your head scarfs in certain areas because the rise in anti semitism.
As a woman of color in a interracial marriage with biracial child I understand how the rise in racism and intolerance can effect or daily lives.
Praying that things get better and people see we are all on family regardless of religion,race or origin we are all one family the human family.
Thank you 💜 Luckily most people are amazing :) But there are some not so good folks out there too unfortunately.
Hating a religion is not racism. It’s not liking an ideology that another person prescribes to. It’s like how many people hate Trumpers who wear the MAGA hat like some religious covering. It’s because the hat means something just as the scarf does, and people could not agree with the idea behind it. Now, that doesn’t mean that they should be rude but it’s not racism or any other oppression. It’s a difference in opinion.
@@Breathefreemylove
Jewish people are a race
@@Breathefreemylove not the same whatsoever
@@Breathefreemylove “Jewishness” is a cultural identity, an ethnicity, and a religion. Many Jews don’t practice Judaism. If it was just about a “difference in opinion,” then all someone had to do to avoid all the persecution and pogroms and well, the Holocaust, would be to stop practicing their faith.
I’m not married but I tried covering a bit before I converted to make sure I was fine with it. I love them all!
Such fun! Thank you :)
As a Muslim I think you’re absolutely adorable! I also loved your home schooling video. In uk they making changes and laws and it seems to better home educate your children these days.
Thank you for your kind words! I’m so glad you’re enjoying! I’ve heard homeschooling is not super common in the UK.
Fair play for showing how you wrap your hair, wear what you want, everyone else does. Women all over the world cover their hair in many ways and I find it really interesting. ☮️🇬🇧
My friend’s two daughters-in-law both do their head wraps the same way. Thanks to you I now know how. I thought that there was a “filler” beneath the scarf but I was embarrassed and didn’t want to ask them. I think you are adorable, have a gut g’bentched yohr. Good Moed 🥰
So glad that helped you understand:)
The second hair is so beautiful
I'm so sorry that you have to "blend in" so you dont get hate. Eveyone should be able to live their life the way they choose without receiving judgements.
You are so kind. I agree, there should be a lot less judgement and hate. Fortunately, there are mostly wonderful people in the world :)
It made me incredibly sad when you mentioned that you felt you needed to wear wigs more to avoid anti-Semitism.
On the subject of wigs, if your wig is synthetic, dying it is problematic. Even if it's real hair dying it lighter is a project. It will be an adventure either way.
Since the original color is light it may take the gray dye but it will come out a different shade than what's on the box unless you bleach it white first.
Try the hair on the underside first to see how it looks.
Many Christians practice the covering of their hair. It’s not exclusive to Judaism or Islam. I live in the south with all kinds of different cultures and religious practices. In our area we don’t pay much attention to head coverings or dress.
Yeah, it’s sad how a lot of people judge and hate for no reason
@@brvndxxxn it is sad. I have too much going on in my life to worry about something that has nothing to do with that persons heart and personality. The thing I notice most is Chana’s beautiful eyes and smile. We’re a melting pot of so many things in America, you’d think people would just go on with their lives and hope the best for others.
As a catholic girl who veils, I would love a tutorial on how to style some of these headscarves. Loved the tip about the velvet headband 💚 I always have to use like 5-6 bobbypins to keep it from slipping back
You should totally try to velvet headband! And good on ya with the veil! I know it’s not a super popular tradition in Catholicism, but I think it’s so beautiful 💖
Try looking up Wrapunzel videos. Lots of tutorials. (Note: I do not represent Wrapunzel in any way. Just a long time happy customer)
Hey, I'm also catholic and I'd love to veil full time. I actually used to veil quite a lot (and still do) but not always and often (funnily enough) rather at home then in public, because especially here where I live (Poland) it's totally not a thing among Catholics (or anyone) and I don't want to confuse anyone. So I wanted to ask you - do you veil just in church or full time? And how do you explain it to people who ask you ( 1Cor 11 + modesty in general, I presume) 😉 Plus do you know more head-covering Catholics where you live or are you more alone in this :-) ?
@@waleria2586 Hi there! I know many Catholic ladies who veil! My hometown is near Mexico and it's a more common practice among Mexican Catholics. Now I live near Korea and it seems even more common amongst Korean ladies, nearly all of them are veiled in mass. For myself, I only veil in church, especially in the presence of the tabernacle or the eucharist. When I get asked about it, I give a few different answers. One is that all the women I admire the most are veiled (the Blessed Virgin, Saint Thérèse, etc.). Another is that veiling is a symbol of something precious and holy, as shown by how we veil the alter. Lastly, my favorite explanation is that it makes me feel humble and puts me in the right space mentally for worship.
@@annelynn7266 I came here to make the same suggestion! 💜💜
I loved this video! I find it fascinating how covering your hair is so important. I love to see all of the different options you have. Beautiful. Just beautiful.
So glad you enjoyed!
This is a great video showing the different hair covers! I certainly want to see how the gray turns out!
I am so glad that you enjoyed this video! I'll be filming the adding grey to my wig :) Probably not for a couple weeks though, but stay tuned!
Oh my goodness when u tucked and tied your second covering(purple shiney) and tied up and then u def, that is my favorite way to wear!
Just like your profile picture here! I think it’s a gorgeous way to wear, I just prefer the tails 😁
I absolutely adore the full wig on you, it is very flattering !
Thank you so much 😊
I love your personality, it is so contagious! Very genuine, happy, and approachable. Thank you for the great video, so interesting!
Thank you and you’re welcome
Do Jewish women have to cover their heads all the time, whether they are indoors or outdoors? Your channel is so enlightening. Here I am able to learn and understand the Jewish way of life. Thank you.
Hello Juliana! Yes, we cover our hair indoors and outdoors :) thank you for your kind words!
Hi! New sub here, I’ve just discovered your channel and this is the first of your videos that I watch, I love the way you explain things!
I converted to Islam a couple years ago but my ancestors on my dad’s side are all Jews from Poland, I love learning about Jewish traditions and channels like yours really help as my dad is not religious himself and never really mentioned anything about his family’s religion to my sister and I, I’m glad I found your channel so I can get to know more on your beliefs and way of life!
I hope anti semitism is not too out of control in the US and that you can still feel safe while outside, I hate how something so simple as the faith in God can make you a target of violence, what a crazy world we live in…
Hello and welcome! I’m so glad that you are here! Thank you for your introduction and kind words :)
mashalla sis
When you are ready for a new sheiteil....yes, definitely go for a lace top! So much more comfortable and natural!
I’m looking forward to that day! I’m so sure I will love it!
Interesting. Thanks. I grew up not far from a Jewish centered community and always wondered about many of these topics but was always told it was not nice to ask. Thank you for enlightening those of us who respect all cultural ways and religious beliefs And maybe even those who are open minded enough to care. Ha ha ha I hear ya about the wig…I wore a couple when I went thru Chemo therapy years ago and wearing them could be a challenge in their self! Especially in the Winter against coats and scarves! Namaste. 🙌🏻
I am always happy to answer questions! And yes you totally get it with the wigs! Things like hoodies are weird to wear with not my hair lol random things like that!
I have learned so much from you! Bless you
I’m also in Texas and I’m happy my family has grown up in a blended community and schools and my heart just broke a little when you said you face anti semitism. I am sad that we are still here but I pray we keep moving forward and your light and spirit will show others how we are all one.
The vast majority of people are amazing and wonderful :) I am very grateful to live where I do where there is very little antisemitism.
I used to wear falls with headbands and scarves back in the 60s 🎈🇺🇸🎈
Shalom, I know the feeling about wearing a head covering. I live in OK near the Amish so it's a little less then normal. I love how you explain all of your way of head coverings.
Thank you :) Very cool that you live near Amish! I’ve always wanted to visit Amish country :)
I cover my hair with scarves mostly. In the winter I tend to wear cute close fitting hats like slouchy beanies, berets, and similar types.
I just found your channel last night after I got hold from work and I’m really enjoying it so far! I grew up in a very strictly orthodox (Ashkenazi) family/community, so learning and seeing how things work in a Sephardi home are so interesting to me. I personally find the topic of Tznius very interesting because of how stringent it was in my family and how diverse it’s interpretation can be. For example, my mother had her head shaved after the Chasuna and wears a sheitel with a beret/small hat or a kertchif for the most part, whereas my friends wife wears a fallback sheitel with a headband like you do sometimes! I’m now part of a “regular” orthodox /modern orthodox Shul and again the level of modesty changes again.. Its so amazing that many woman enjoy and find empowerment in covering their hair. Thank you for the content!
From Scotland (Yes there’s Jews in Scotland!)
Thank you for sharing part of your story! I’m so glad you found a place in Judaism that is working for you! Ps I have Scottish ancestry on both sides (so two tartans but I’m not sure how that really works out lol). I have always wanted to visit there :)
@@jaroffireflies you should come holiday here with your family if you are ever able to! I would be so happy to help you with that and would hope you visit us in Aberdeen! We’re the most northern community in the UK. Ps: there’s an official Scottish Jewish tartan now as of 2008!
@@evanbeker-sorski8074 so now I have 3 tartans? 🤣 I love it lol Thank you so much for your generous offer! I will absolutely be thrilled to take you up on that if we can ever make it over there!!!!
I do like your wigs. The longer one that is thicker makes you look younger and I like that one the best. You do not have to place gray hair in your wig. Unless you get older. The hair color looks great with your complexion. 😊
Thank you so much :)
I really apppreciate your candor. Personally, i have such a challenge with my big head, finding "a good scarf", getting a good fit, wearing something that feels right and good to my scalp. Lately though, i've been very excited to get " my Rosie the Rivitor" on!! Just love tying a square scarf up front and center and tucking in the loose ends. It helps to fold my arm infront or bend them in the classic fashion! Let's get this done Rosie!!📣💋💙
Love that! I also have a larger head which makes hats super hard, I’ll have to try the Rosie style! That sounds perfect for outdoor days!
It is so strange seeing you with hair! It is nice to see all the options. ❤
Agreed snood is reliable and comfortable, I like my ears secure but not tight and for me doesn't slip or get in the way with ties, knots or tails when it comes to taking care of kids or housework or gardening
Totally agree!
I have enjoyed your video. I so enjoy learning about cultural differences, beliefs and heritages. My heart hurts to hear about your struggles in being who you are. Love is the highest and strongest of energies. Many prayers for you your family and community. 🌹
Fall/half wigs age awesome, if you match it correctly. Love the video.
Thank you!
I just started covering my hair daily a few weeks ago, I've primarily been wearing 20x20 bandanas, theyre the most comfortable thing I've tried so far. If/when my hair gets a little longer i think im going to try your method with bigger square scarves, I love that look!
I have no idea how or why this popped up on my suggested videos but it did. I thoroughly enjoyed this video and it was informative. I am not Jewish but it’s so nice to learn about some of the things I’ve seen but would be rude to ask a total stranger. I subscribed and liked the video. I wish you and yours much happiness. It was serendipitous to stumble across the video but glad I did!!!!
Hello and welcome! I am so glad that you enjoyed this video and I am so glad that you are here :)
Thanks for sharing God bless you and protect you always dear sister
Thank you 💜
The Snood was very popular with Ladies in general in the 1940's
I'm totally ok with that :)
i am so greatfull for to see introduction of the Jewish culture and costumes
So happy that is now possible due to some of you.
I learned so much of Sonyas coocking as well and so many practical things... keep up Jar of Fireflies.
Thank you! So glad you are enjoying and learning!
I like the head scarf with the tails hanging down the best
Me too :)
Love the headcoverings! Also, I think its fun that you can match the scarves to your outfit - I do that with my masks 2021 :) I am sorry you have to worry about peoples opinions...
Thank you! 💜💜💜
I like the wig and the head band!
Thank you so much 😊
Hello, I just found your channel and am loving it. Thank you so much. I find you extremely pleasant and happy with your family life. Looking forward to learning more about you and your family. Blessings to you all.🙏✡️💕
Thank you so much for your kind words! I really appreciate you!
I love the scarves. I remember my mom wearing those all the time when I was a kid doing housework and even outside.
They are very fun :)
I love the tichels and shapers. Totally my favorite. My current fav tichel style is turban.
Such a great look!
Your turban looks pretty. Fabulous aqua color.
That wig looks good on you 😍.
Thank you!
I just discovered your channel. I prefer covering my hair with tichels and volumizers. I have not had any issues where I work (in Brooklyn, no less) from any employer. I even wear them to weddings, layering metallic scarves with plain. I've had Chasidic ladies ask me where I get them for their daughters. I also love preties - my newest ones even have a strip of velvet in front now. It's the friction that keeps them on. I love it.
When I travel (back when traveling was a thing), I cover my hair with berets. This helps me fit in better on the road, and is very useful for flying because they're usually happy to search my head with the beret on, and they're very comfortable on planes. As you can probably tell, I don't wear sheitels at all. My husband doesn't like them and I keep thinking of better ways to spend the money. Also, every time I come close to buying one, something happens. So I'm married over 30 years and been covering out of my house for most of it, and the only wigs I've ever owned were novelties for Purim. But if I did, I'd totally add some gray as well. Unless I decided to wear a burgundy one.
Thank you so much for sharing!
I love my head scarf and I have them in mind different colors and patterns. Being a mom to 3 they are a life saver when on the rare occasion that I don't have time to brush my hair.
Yes! Totally agree with you! :)
I love this video! Exactly the step I'm at in this journey. Thank you for your referral to the Scarf Bar! I ordered some. You should contact them to see if you can get some promotional advertising.
Thank you so much!
Love the head scarves , so pretty you also look so good in these as well :)
Thank you 😊
I have always had trouble keeping my scarves on so I appreciate the tips.
I hope this helps! Those velvet headbands have been life changing:)
Wow, you look completely different wearing a wig.❤
You are such a beautiful person, thank you for sharing
Thank you so very much!
I have worn scarves in a headband kind of style for years... mostly because I have a big head and commercial headbands give me a headache! 🤪 But if I were to do a full head covering... I think I would do the turban style and add embellishments to further accessorize! I love the variety of options and I especially like your scarves that are shiny! 💖
The velvet headband is great! I didn't know about it.
It’s wonderful!
Very awesome video. I have been wearing wigs for many years along with clip ins to manage the cost of hair care which I do by myself and protect my hair. It's interesting to see another woman trying them out. They look lovely.
Thank you!
The fall is gorgeous!
Thank you so much! I really love it!
Gracias por este video
Denada
Love your hair coverings, quite feminine and makes you look prettier👌💕❤️🌹🌹🌹
Thank you 😊
My heart sank when you mentioned the need to fit in more due to antisemitism... ❤️🙏💞
Your kindness and education about Jewish culture is interesting. Though I have been from here it may be good to get back on. As it can help pull me out for a a bit. Going through a very difficult time as a woman in physical health. The word Relationship in itself right now implies a struggling place in my life in lots of ways. Prayers appreciated. Thank you🇮🇱
Sending prayers!
I like the large scarves
I have no religious reason to cover my hair, but I wear a snood allllll winter. A warm hat that is warm on the back of the neck that isn’t itchy hair on the neck, I love it.
They are so comfortable right?!
This should be a mandatory part of kallah class
Wow that is such a compliment! :)
You look beautiful in all types of hair coverings. Blessings.
Love the head covers, gave me ideas thanks ❤
Thank you! You’re so welcome!
I love the snood (sp) and I think it is very elegant looking
Thank you, very interesting video! I was raised reform Jewish although I was born conservative so I do have a Hebrew name. I saw someone comment earlier that reform Jews typically don’t have Hebrew names and I had no idea! Also interesting as reform and conservative Jewish women don’t wear head coverings. I have to say I don’t understand, but respect, the practice. ❤️
You are so welcome! Fwiw I had a Hebrew name as a Reform Jew. I hadn’t heard that most don’t 🤷🏼♀️
My father is a Reform Rabbi and I have never heard that Reform Jews don’t have Hebrew Names … at the Bris the boy’s Hebrew name is used and the girl’s Hebrew name is given at her baby naming ceremony and the Hebrew Names are used when they are called up for Aaliyah for their Bar or Bat Mitzvah. I was not given a “Hebrew Name” as my name is Hebrew as are my sisters but that was my parents choice. As a Conservative Jew I do not cover my hair except for in the synagogue, and the long standing joke amongst the other Teachers and Youth Directors was that all the single Men knew who was single based on what girls/woman had their hair covered during services lol
Never mind! Well made fall!!👵
Thank you! :)
Loved the video, very informative and enjoyable. Thank you 💐😊
You are so welcome!
Very interesting. Thank you for sharing and educating. And, it's interesting how much it changes your face. Especially the wigs!
So glad you enjoyed:)
Here in South Florida we wear snoods all the time outside the house. In stores. Shul. Parties . work
I think snoods are very attractive and comfortable
There are a lot of pretty ones
Where do you buy yours? I have so much trouble finding them online! I’d love some tips 💜
Just found you and I'm so interested in learning so much about you and your community! You are so sweet and interesting, love your channel!!!
Thank you so much!! Welcome! I am so glad you are here!
My mom wears a wig for non-religious reasons. She bought one with wisps of gray. It looks great!
That’s awesome! I haven’t put my grey in yet, but I have the dye and I plan on doing it as soon as I find the time :)
No more bad hair days! I'm jealous
Lol there are still days when I feel like nothing looks right on me! But for the most part, ya, it’s a good hair day every day :)
Umm... not nearly, from what I've heard. One of my uni friends/colleagues had the complaint that after a day in her headscarf or wig, her hair was all matted and it took quite some effort to make it properly nice for her husband (one being exhorted to always be at one's physical best for one's husband)...
As a traditional Catholic, I wear whatever I please. We’re required to veil for Mass, but I sometimes like to veil for everyday use. That way, if I pop into Church or have reason to hear Mass unplanned, I’m set to go with matching head covering. So far as people staring or name-calling, that’s their problem! If they don’t like how I’m dressed, they can look somewhere else! Living in a large city with people of all religions and cultures, it’s rarely a problem.
So interesting! I didn’t realize some Catholics wore a veil outside of mass!
Hey great video I have been starting to wear hair covering I like the puff idea it will keep all of my curls in place. Also if wear a lace front wig it will stay in place better. Oh and if wash your wig with shampoo and a few drops of fabric softener it will help it keep it shape for more years.
Thank you for the tips! I appreciate it!
This may sound odd but am here because I am starting Chemo in a few weeks and I am looking for ways to still feel pretty and these scarves and how you style them are lovely!!! I am not Jewish nor do I mean ANY disrespect in my use of your tips. I truly am grateful for your breakdown as I plan on using these tools for my purposes. THANK YOU...very informative and now I know the items to search for...
I’m so very glad this was helpful! Wishing you all the best and a full recovery with no complications ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so very much for this wonderful information!!! Super interesting!!
Thank you so much for watching! I’m so glad you enjoyed this :)
You talked about getting out of the car and I laughed! That would totally be me rolling up with my wig on sideways. It amazes me how much you do that really is a talent, but you do it every day, so you probably don't think so. :) I have never tried to wear one and all the combs and clips would just get tangled up and I would be a total mess. I would probably be about the scarves and velvet insurance headbands. LOL! I agree, I like the tails.
Hi chana such an interesting video to watch I didn’t realise there were so many different design and ideas for covering hair..
Oh yes! And there are customs for different styles too, for example some Jews will wear a small hat (a fascinator) with their wig every time they wear their wig. That's not a custom in my community though. Hair covering is such a fascinating topic!
I really like your videos 💖
TFS your culture with us ☺️
A big hug from Spain 🙏🏻
Thank you!!!
Loved this video!! Snoods are comfy!! You have some beautiful scarves!! Love your fall! Wonderful color!
Thank you 😊
@@jaroffireflies you are welcome!
Basically, the snood is the hair equivalent of a house dress.
Yes! Leggings, sweatpants, house dress… love it