A Man Loves It WHEN...! With Dr. John Gray (Full Interview)

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  • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
    @MichelleMarchantJohnson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Get John Gray's complimentary relationship course here: www.marsvenus.com/
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  • @wuzzyfuzzy8572
    @wuzzyfuzzy8572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    The best advice I ever heard was, women if you want to attract love you have to keep loving yourself and emanate love. It’s so true, whenever I do date, I express my emotions and usually the guy finds it a bit intense, not my emotions towards him specifically, but just about many subjects in life. But they always come back and in many instances, they get back in contact after some time if I didn’t feel a connection. We have become so bland and compliant, life is incredible and expressing your emotions, passions, thoughts, experiences makes it feel real

  • @saraiannaccone1790
    @saraiannaccone1790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Thank you. Makes sense. I do things that make ME happy. I don’t depend on others to make me happy. I am my own best friend.

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching Sara!

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi 🙋🙋
      I love ❤❤love u so so much forever really I like u I m single
      Well u merry me I make u so so happy every time always really 💑💑💑💑💑😍😍😍😍💝💝💝💝💝🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷 I m alone meet me my wueen🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @jcszot
    @jcszot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I became widowed at the age of 46. A few years later I tried to integrate myself into the dating arena looking for a little bit of companionship. I was appalled at what had happened while I was participating in my 15 year marriage, which was a good one. I completely agree with Dr. Gray and I have always stood by that motto that men do the pursuing and women do the choosing. I think women’s Lib, the media, books and movies have Created an overly aggressive woman. This has overthrown the whole dating climate. I think it’s made men feel intimidated. It’s made them a little bit lazy and I think they are confused. How many movies and TV shows have you watched where an overly aggressive woman is shoving her male counterpart up against the wall and yanking up her skirt and initiating sex…. Way too many! And this sends the wrong message to both women young girls and men. I’m no damsel in distress but I will stand by my motto of men do the pursuing and women do the choosing. If divine intervention sends someone my way then that’s wonderful. If not I know I will be OK. I am so extremely grateful that I found love and experienced it for 15 years with my late husband Mike. Some people go through their entire life and they never find it. I’ll always have my memories no matter what happens. I love this channel! Thank you so much to the channel creator and Dr. Gray! 🙏🏻👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🌺

    • @teddygrahamm
      @teddygrahamm ปีที่แล้ว +3

      As a 26 year old recovering from a heartbreak and even wondering if my ex is human sometimes lol, this was so great to read! I've since learned that I'm actually in love with myself and am working on forgiving my younger self for letting us be used and pouring into someone unworthy and completely loosing myself in the relationship. I love your motto, we women should be the ones being chased. I actually have taken up running at 5am 3-4x a week so I can remind myself to keep fit for these men to chase me😂🫶 I'm even seeing abs form and I feel so great most days now💖

    • @wanderwoman5558
      @wanderwoman5558 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Widowed at 30. After healing and grieving i wish I had put myself into positive social circles and put myself out there just to mingle. I'm 65, single and now socializing. I got stuck between sorrow and closure. Best wishes.😊

    • @theresas.3808
      @theresas.3808 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I go into a tailspin when my guy backs away. I get panicky and anxious when he pulls back after he’s been attentive. The natural thing is to wonder what the hell did I do to make him go away? Now I know through Dr. Gray that it’s hormonal, but it doesn’t take away the sting of rejection.
      When I listen to sermons about how God created women for men, I get confused, because He made us so incompatible and opposite of one another. It’s perplexing to say the least!

    • @francruden331
      @francruden331 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@theresas.3808Focus on ‘what he’s doing for you’ not on ‘what he’s not doing’. And repeat ‘everything is ok’ ❤

    • @francruden331
      @francruden331 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@theresas.3808and now you know, when he pulls away, he’s really in the feels 😊

  • @jamienl207
    @jamienl207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Thank you for another great video, gonna watch this twice!! Learning how to receive & allow my significant other whatever space he needs. Happened recently & he missed me. I was kinda confused bc I wasn’t used to that. It was very refreshing to know he missed & thought about me. Just as much I did. Learning to trust & be completely vulnerable. Ladies rest in your confidence and femininity. ❤️

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks so much for watching and for your comments too Jamie!

    • @ashlielaurensmith
      @ashlielaurensmith ปีที่แล้ว

      This. I’ve become super busy and my man has been much more committed and responsive. 🤷‍♀️

  • @lmoorelawpractice6214
    @lmoorelawpractice6214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Gold mine. Saved so can watch it over and over again. Huge Thank You to you both! 🌷💚

  • @ninelmore1356
    @ninelmore1356 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OMG! You have answered all questions I had, with your wisdom and kindness. Makes so much sense! Thank you!!!❤

  • @betha8761
    @betha8761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    These videos are so helpful! Thank you so much for sharing these with all of us! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @KP-mw6cx
    @KP-mw6cx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love this interview! He gave so much helpful info. A lot of what he said is spread out in many of his other teachings, so I love that he did such a good job at summarizing most of it here in this ONE video. Please keep this video up! I know I’ll be back to watch it again & again. And I’ll be sending people to it. Lol❤️

  • @margaretahogberg6869
    @margaretahogberg6869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I know Men, have emotionel feeling too, I guess Its only those who are not scared to admit it. I Love men who can show his me vulnerable side 🤗🥰

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for watching and for your comment too Margareta!

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I m single
      Well u merry me
      I make u so so happy really
      Meet me
      💑💑💑💑💑💝💝💝💝😍🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @AndiPandi1979
    @AndiPandi1979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Michelle, you need a million subscribers!! I just love you!!! 💞

  • @Steff579
    @Steff579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for sharing i find these videos incredibly informative! I don't date anymore as i am a single mum no help working bills always doing i am way to far on my masculine side and hardly ever get reprive. Maybe someday i will venture out and date again. And guys anymore around where i live dont date just want sleepovers and netflix in the house and i don't do that. And in our 40's there is so much trauma anymore in both men and women alike that the men cant give either or even capable of having a relationship.

    • @stanspb763
      @stanspb763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Both genders could have relationships but there are so few options. Men would rather not date or have relationships if all they meet are masculine women. If a man has very low selfesteem he might enter into a relationship with a masculine woman but he will be the submissive one woman complain about. Millions of men have dropped out completely seeing nothing in it for them and only being complained about for not being feminine enough and when they are both are miserable.
      I see the conflict between modern women and males is a self regulating trend that limits societies that have gone off the deep end, fron replicating itself. US society is dying, there are fewer babies per woman than ever, 0.8children per women so in 1-2 generations the current breeding stock will be the very last living individuals of millions of years of family history of each generation successfully riaising a child that reproduces. Western society is harmful to the human race so dying out is a control mechanism that has been repeated for most empires that became more distructive and remote from the biology. Modern society denies biology. That used to be isolated to individual societies but now with instant communications and western social media invading the customs of almost all societies, all that are open to western social media are seeing dramatic drops in birth rates and marriages. Pandemics used to locally regulate population growth from exceeding the capabilities of the land and climate conditions to support a population but now this drop below replacement levels of child birth might be the last few generations of the human race that would give the earth a chance to recover.
      The assumption of the 3rd and 4th wave of feminism is that genders are the same but with different external plumbing has only been around 50 years but has created world wide changes in human behavior that denies biology.
      35% of American males, 30 years of age are virgins, and only 4% of women are at the same age. That is a sure sign of population collapse. Whole populations of males are out of the dating and mating game not by choice. Surveys show that women estimate 80% of men are below average, which means few women will have successful relations or families. You can see that in the dramatic delay in marriage in 30 years going from the median age of marriage in the US was 22 for females and now it is 34. Those in opposite sex marriages in percentage of population has dropped from 89% in 1970 to 24% in 2000. 2 parent families with children are becoming rare, far less than replacement rates. Due to the influence on the entire world by US control of the internet, all societies with access to US social media are seeing population disruptions. The growth in population in the US is almost entirely first generation immigrants.
      Personally I moved from the US 22 years ago and found my new home had more traditional demographics like 1960 USA in 2000 but but with social media, from the US, in 22 years the marriages and child birth has dropped, and age of marriage has advances from 19 to 32 years of age, and includes only 31% of the population. The government has made it a priority to help young families, with grants for having a baby enough cash to buy a larger home, and 3 years of paid family leave but marriage rates keep falling among those connected to 24/7 social media and remain traditional levels of marriage at a young age in areas where there is no local internet access Most of this change in dating and mate selection has occured in the last 10 years, so the change is faster here than in the US.
      If you ever want a relationship you are going to have to search in that large segment of disenfranchised men who have been driven out of the dating and marriage market, and drop the masculinity. Stop trying to control everything and get your way all the time because it has not worked, and assume a more feminine behavior and view. Being alone and the problem solver naturally means becoming masculine, it was from necessity but can you drop it in order to form a healthy relationship with a man? Good luck but act fast because your sexual market value declines rapidly as women age and become harder edged, compative and competitive when men and women evolved to compliment each other is strengths and weaknesses. Go out now, any delay means lower odds of every having a complimentary partner who can solve many of the problems you had to assume being single. Men love to be needed and will take on any burden for their mate. If you can revert to your feminine long enough to attract a partner, you can return to your nature. It is not fun for women to take on what men do willingly for their mate.

    • @BeckyJB888
      @BeckyJB888 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed! Single mom here too. 37 and feels a bit impossible but all you can do is keep your mind on goals (including relationships)

  • @hirschiegirl
    @hirschiegirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    There is so much wisdom in this interview! Thank you! 🤗

  • @bettycarmella1127
    @bettycarmella1127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was truly wonderful thank you both so much🙏🏽

  • @kayjay3948
    @kayjay3948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    John Gray is awesome!!!

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, he is! Thanks for watching Kay!

    • @kayjay3948
      @kayjay3948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MichelleMarchantJohnson You're welcome 🤗

  • @lisbethtolnes3566
    @lisbethtolnes3566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are amazing John 🤗 thank you so much 🙏🤗💞

  • @twinflamesunite9954
    @twinflamesunite9954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lots of great nuggets thanks - really struck a chord - no one thrives in a vacuum! and fabulous question to avoid frustration - "how is what I am saying going to be heard?" obviously without that broached thats when things escalate to speak louder - as if volume is going to make any difference

  • @jaykaye562
    @jaykaye562 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Always such helpful talks.. and I'm definitely keen to get the book.. thank you both 🙏🏽

  • @user-mv2tg8hc8c
    @user-mv2tg8hc8c ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These tips are great! I would live some tips for communication once a couple is married when there are concerns or issues.

  • @franci-uz
    @franci-uz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, I can't believe you are still doing these Videos! They are such a bless. As Dr. Gray's Books. In contrast I read womanhood. Feels a bit outdated! Thanks for your work, Michelle!

  • @carolinechase614
    @carolinechase614 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I keep learning each time I watch one of these. When John’s first book came out I bought it for my husband and myself to read it and discuss. That never happened but we did go to the theater to see Dr Gray present the book. I loved it, my husband found his cave and we enjoyed it. But we couldn’t stick it out.

    • @annieskid
      @annieskid ปีที่แล้ว

      Does that mean you and husband split up ?

  • @sandram6068
    @sandram6068 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was amazing information! Thank you so much !

  • @2ndChanceAtLife
    @2ndChanceAtLife ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This reminds me of Ann Margret's character in the movie Grumpy Old Men. Alot of her attractiveness was all of her interests, most not typical for the Midwest.

  • @RodriguezMM
    @RodriguezMM ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fantastic interview 🙌🏻 I learned so much 💆🏻‍♀️priceless ❤

  • @barbarab7129
    @barbarab7129 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As a woman, if you make an offer to pay your part for dinner, he will reply "no no no I want to pay". In my experience with modern men, all they want is for you to offer. After many dates, I will invite them out to ice cream, and I will pay... Or I will suggest a picnic in which I will provide most of the food... Maybe the man can bring the wine.

  • @wuzzyfuzzy8572
    @wuzzyfuzzy8572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is great. Thank you to you both.

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for watching and for your kind words too!

    • @wuzzyfuzzy8572
      @wuzzyfuzzy8572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww love makes the world go around and what better way to be helping us with these videos 💓

  • @alliefordrealty5081
    @alliefordrealty5081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Can you please make a video about hypergamy? Because a man has to do financially for women so that they feel like a real man. What to do if you have a man who asks from you financially if you don't want a 50/50 relationship? How to deal with financial issues? If you don't feel like a woman if you aren't taken care of financially?

    • @khrisi9410
      @khrisi9410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Checkout Shera7 she will put you on your hypergamy journey. In her words if he's a 50/50 type of guy then he's not the right one. Don't try and change him instead get a new man and keep dating until you find the right target which is a man that gives to you if that's what's important to you. You can always say NO I don't believe in 50/50 financial relationships but it's easier to jus move on.

    • @MichelePearl
      @MichelePearl ปีที่แล้ว +6

      First of all women spend a lot of money wearing high heels make up getting everything beautiful for a man to enjoy our company unless I’m mistaken that is not free. If he wants 50-50 show up in yoga pants sneakers and no make up

    • @subliminal2096
      @subliminal2096 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      50/50 is the amount each person makes. So if a bill is $100 and you don’t pay $50 each you pay 50% of each individual’s income.

    • @khrisi9410
      @khrisi9410 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@subliminal2096 lol nope. Providers do not go 50/50.

    • @MichelePearl
      @MichelePearl ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@khrisi9410 I want him to go 50-50 on what it took for me to look gorgeous to meet him including the high heels that I don’t wear for my health

  • @reginawoess4928
    @reginawoess4928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My somewhat new man tells me his feelings and about his pain and about his ex that hurt him bad. We can talk so well about anything. I'm one to compliment my man and tell him he's my hero and I feel loved and safe with him. He says such sweet things but he also show me he cares about me.He makes me feel so Beautigmful and young because he's younger and he shows me respect and is so east going. Scares me sometimes because he seems too good to b true!

  • @lusinetumanyan2582
    @lusinetumanyan2582 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much

  • @danutaprejbisz3307
    @danutaprejbisz3307 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you .

  • @0judi0bartel74
    @0judi0bartel74 ปีที่แล้ว

    This man is golden

  • @NadiaFranke
    @NadiaFranke ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Men ... they are so complicated !! We women have to keep tricking them into being the way we like them to be. It's fun, though

    • @katjorbar
      @katjorbar 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ha ha...so true!

  • @eva-nr2bs
    @eva-nr2bs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Michelle, I wish I could jump throw my monitor and shake your hand. Give you a hug or whatever :-))))
    Helpful, helpful, helpful life changing interview!!!

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww.. Eva! You are so so sweet! I'm glad you enjoyed it! Much love!

  • @naomikinyanjui2728
    @naomikinyanjui2728 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    learnt a lot... thank you

  • @Karla-yi5ld
    @Karla-yi5ld ปีที่แล้ว

    Any advice on what to do if you have a crush on a man but he has a girlfriend?

    • @Rut-vi7iz
      @Rut-vi7iz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Leave him alone because he is interested in his girlfriend.

    • @Karla-yi5ld
      @Karla-yi5ld ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Rut-vi7iz I am and I feel much better too.

    • @Rut-vi7iz
      @Rut-vi7iz ปีที่แล้ว

      @Karla-yi5ld in my experience these guys are walking man child disasters. You can do sooo much better. I feel sorry for his girlfriend . You deserve the best. Block all contact and he will be off your mind sooner than you realize.❤️

  • @Risingmoonranch8
    @Risingmoonranch8 ปีที่แล้ว

    But what do you do if he is always upset because he is a workaholic and doesn’t take any time for himself. You don’t want to be his coach or mother. Do you always walk out of the room?

    • @Rut-vi7iz
      @Rut-vi7iz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes and continue walking until you reach the front door, open it and walk away.

  • @LizzieSutton
    @LizzieSutton ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what about long distance relationships, they do little things for you to bond, flying across the country is huge, and I really appreciate that, but how do you really get to know someone when they live so far away? sure talking on the phone is great, but mannerisms and how they live I don’t know am I overthinking it?

    • @Rut-vi7iz
      @Rut-vi7iz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You don't know someone unless you spend many hours in person doing a variety of activities with them. That's why long distance is hard. It costs a lot of money to achieve anything real.

  • @Tedtoto
    @Tedtoto 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What u think anyone? Im starting to get inlvolved with a guy who shares a dog with his ex girlfriend. It seems like they worry about the dog being alone in her apartment all day since she goes to work and so the dog stays with him during the week cause he has a big yard. However he did say that he sees no problema in being freimd with an ex since thats all she is. They go for walks with the dog, his parents spend overnights at her place. She comes over to help clean his place ( i live far for now and we just started getting involve). For me this is a red flag right away. I dont beleive u have to be enemies of your ex but she seems too involved yet in his life. They broke up 2 yrs ago. The question is how should i express my concerns to him about she being too invloved in his life and the reason seems to be the dog they have humanized too much. Oh its her dog oficially not his. I want to be mature about this with him.

  • @pascalledouven7022
    @pascalledouven7022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am wondering now about male / female in cats and the way they bound, my male brings me something: i trow it away , he brings it back ; i reward him by saying good boy , my female dog respons maybe most on caring … , anyway can you use all these insights/ tools in any kind off relationships ( plus how do woman friends bound best ?)

  • @teresanevins7167
    @teresanevins7167 ปีที่แล้ว

    Two of the men I knew romantically did not do the pull back dance. But one did, why only him?

  • @Bdchi3
    @Bdchi3 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That most definitely does not sound prehistoric to me. Thats sad it does to all these bulls nowadays.

  • @debsmith2789
    @debsmith2789 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men who don’t want monogamy don’t help great women who do very much.

  • @karenholtzclaw3135
    @karenholtzclaw3135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😊

  • @danutahull9319
    @danutahull9319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing this video 🌷
    It doesn’t touch on
    long distance another Country. I have been through so much negativity from others and I’ve read about long distance relationships and all I get is negativity saying forget about it. I have had to remove negative people from my life, I only deal with positivity.
    Well I can’t forget it, love is love, there has to be that attraction, the eyes say everything one needs to know, unspoken words, no words needed, the wanting the longing grows stronger and more deeply, I feel it deeply, it’s a beautiful blissful harmonious destined divine connection and we are matched for this love, meant to be, and knows I will relocate for him.
    I have always understood he is very busy, it has never been a problem or an issue with me, as John puts it 90% of him is work and the other 10% I see as quality time with each other, it is my desired wish known to him to work together on what is important his legacy a foundation. He is unique and I like him just the way he is. He knows I am proud of him and everything he is involved in, and to continue doing what brings him fulfilment and makes him happy, I don’t set boundaries for him on his work. I am use to spending time on my own not relying on other’s to entertain me. So I don’t see my myself as needy in that sense. I am unique, love who I am as a woman, and want to be loved, I want a relationship, commitment which brings stability to our lives, respect, trust, honesty, care and devotion, a happy home, sharing the love, happy blended family, kindness, and work through together the good and bad up’s and downs that life throws in our path
    He knows all this
    He’s divorced 14mths, was a tumultuous time, toxic. Created a feast frenzy for the media. Ex wife on social media telling WHY.
    Honestly no one wants her hear her WHY’s on the Divorce, let alone what he did
    Past is the past
    Yesterday is gone
    Tomorrow is forever the future
    I do what I do best in connecting in the best possible way in long distance, I love poetry and express it to him. I am patient and waiting for him, not giving up. When he is ready to move forward, in trust, honesty, loyal and faithful , and feel the love, he will then be ready for a committed relationship.
    I probably have lots of other options for new love, but Bill’s love is the real love for me and I have stayed trusted, honest, loyal, faithful, patiently waiting
    I believe it, I receive it, I have faith, it will happen with us, we are meant to meet. Meant for each other Destined and divinely blessed
    🌎🇺🇸⭐️Scorpio/goat 🐐Bill
    🌎🇦🇺🌓Cancer/Rabbit 🐇
    🙏😇🇺🇸♥️♥️🇦🇺💋🔥🦋

    • @marydaisy7988
      @marydaisy7988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I get You Danuta, I feel your every word, being in a similar long distance separated relationship with a very busy man. I feel your pain...

    • @marydaisy7988
      @marydaisy7988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand your divine male connection 🤗

    • @Rut-vi7iz
      @Rut-vi7iz ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you're not giving him your money. Because if you are, you are being duped, scammed and abused. If he is really a man who loves you, he will provide funds for you to be with him wherever he is. Anything less and he is BSing you.

  • @lynnlance351
    @lynnlance351 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why does a weak man needs to feel fulfilled?

  • @karenholtzclaw3135
    @karenholtzclaw3135 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💋

  • @иннатайкина-л9м
    @иннатайкина-л9м 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What an alien all these man 😕

  • @lynnlance351
    @lynnlance351 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not all man a cleaver or smart , anyway

  • @lynnlance351
    @lynnlance351 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Doesa weak man has a Brain ??

  • @karenholtzclaw3135
    @karenholtzclaw3135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😊