@@FlyMeToThePhilippinesPlease excuse me for butting into your conversation. I want my msg to address you, Rob, so I'm hoping to reach you directly via this avenue. You can delete this Comment, of course, but this will reach you. Several years ago, I signed up with Christian Filipina dating service. After about a week, one of their Reps contacted me. She and I talked on the phone for a while. I discovered she was in Texas, whereas I was (and still am) in Arizona. She had lots of questions to ask me. I answered them, but felt she was looking for some reason to reject me. Eventually, she got to the financial part of the "interrogation." I related all my $ standings, which included that my net worth was about $450,000.00 USD. Because I am retired, my net yearly income was about $1.8k to about $1.9k per month. Remember, this was several years ago, not 2024. She then informed me that she did not think that would be adequate enough to qualify me for further participation in the CF dating service. I was dumbfounded. So, ever since then, I have been left with a BAD taste for dating services. You stated you met Chrissy on Filipina Cupid, so maybe I should try them, although I AM older, now. Angry Americano, Bob (Xavier Koolat)
All things as you saying is absolutely true , you forget to say : " most of the time The chosen lady's parents are CONTROL the situation about Demanding money truth to lady to foreigner to get money , you need to helping us we raise you up " !!! Great topics
There's an old Filipina saying "feed your stomach first, love comes later". What's better than a Foreigner for a Filipina? 2 or more foreigners sending money.
Chatted up about 30 on CF. Moved 3 to WhatsApp. many ended up asking for money right off. Hit the jackpot with one and still going strong. Spent 10 days with her in CDO 10-21 Feb. Moving next year to CDO. I was moving before I met her, so my relocation is not based on meeting a woman.
I started on CF 16 years ago. Chatted with about 100 Filipinas that I thought might have possibilities for two weeks. Quickly narrowed it down to 15 Filipinas, another 2 weeks passed and had it down to 4 Filipinas, another 2 weeks had it whittled down to 2, and 3 weeks later I was confident with my final choice. We have been happily married for 14 years, and I could not have asked for a better wife, best friend, lover and companion. She has never displayed any form of tampo, which was high on my list of behavioral traits I was not willing to tolerate. We communicate our feelings well and discuss everything with open minds and wisdom. Honestly, it is difficult to find a Filipina similar to mine, because mine is humble, highly educated, raised with Christian moral values and ethics, has a willingness to learn, has a strong work ethic, excellent reasoning and logic skills, and possesses an extremely pleasant personality and loving nature. She speaks, reads and writes English fluently and can cook and clean properly. She also plays piano and guitar, but was not blessed with a good singing voice. LOL! 🤭 She is not perfect and has her flaws like I do. She does tend to overcommit herself in volunteer roles trying to please everyone, and as a result creates stress for herself, by running behind schedule and showing up 10-20 minutes late. She is finally learning to prioritize and lessen her commitments to more manageable amounts. My advice is take your time and seek out Filipinas when you're there and vet them out with a fine tooth comb, because they can hide a lot and be sweetly conniving. Don't immediately settle for the young pretty Filipinas, instead date different age groupings and social classes to get a feel for the differences and what best suits your standards. Remember, you will have to assimilate into their culture to some degree to fit in and get along. Be careful of overly friendly Filipinos that you don't know well, they will typically have an agenda and will gossip about you behind your back. They are extremely capable of spreading some tall tales that could harm you. Keep your personal business to yourself, wallet and passport in a man cross body sling bag that is non cutting and slicing when out and about. Only drink store bought bottled water or from water processing hydration stations and use ice cubes from the same source. Be careful of street food vendors offerings as they are not that hygienic. Other than that, enjoy and good luck.
This was an excellent video agree with interview hard. Now that I found where I want to live and I am over a bad experience in Dumaguete I am ready to interview hard. I am enjoying the common sense advice. Enjoying life in Roxas City.
The universe sent me to this online dating site and i met a filipina there. She's really sweet. She has health concerns that bother her and I'm the one pushing her to let me send her money to go see a doctor. I'm planning to go visit her later this year. She says we're exclusive and she's not talking to any other guy but i still get paranoid.
Being in a LDR can be extremely difficult the sooner you can come and be together in person easier life will be going forward and put your concerns to rest
I've been dating a lady for 1.6 months it been mostly good. I visited her & her family for 19 days.. I had a great time when I was there. I was planning to return in the next 3-4 months. She a 50 year old teacher.. I'm 65 years old she has one child who is 16 years old. Things are going well, at times we have our issue miscommunicationing. I realized that 19 days doesn't make a relationship and we might not work out. It's the gamble all of us expat are taking hoping. that we are blessed to find the right Pinoy. I'm optimistic that things will work out with her or someone else.
You read a lot of good comments. I am 74 and my plane arrives April 19 for an 8 week adventure. I was on Filipino Cupid and now Christian Filipina since January. The scammers like to get you offsite and avoid video calls. A CF adviser said to try those that been on the site for at least 7 days and have at least 3 pictures. It is not a perfect solution, but it helps. The legit ones sound like men in America (including me) " Hi, but you don't want me." I think they are province girls who have been isolated and ignored. The surprising part is I am on video chatting with two 32 good looking women that don't know my income is 5,200 USD per month.
Expats chat with more Filipinas than one and Filipinas chat with more than one Expats, that is the way it is for dating anywhere. When you get to the point of meeting, that is the turning point. It is what it is
thanks for the vid Rob, as usual. you provide a great consulting service. im interested in knowing what percentage of your viewers will never move to the Phils to live. also, what percentage of viewers will not meet and partner with a Filipina. i totally understand your consulting market consists of those people. however, many of us retired guys do not want to relocate to the Phils. we are happy and set up well here in the good ole USA. i am one of those. i suspect that most of your viewers are older dudes like me who enjoy watching the travels and experiences of you and Chrissy. we enjoy the reality tv. the best vids for me are the ones involving you taking us places and showing us things. the people, places, activities, etc are things i enjoy watching. i would bet most of your viewer-subscribers are more like me. is that true? if it is, do you want to spend the time and effort to be more of a travel vlogger? you and Chrissy are very good at it. i tend not to watch your monologue consulting vids as much as the ones showing people, places, experiences with Chrissy, friends, local engagement for fun and business.
So interesting to hear your thoughts… we built our channel being the “teacher”, however we aspire to become the heroes… we are struggling to make a hybrid approach. Our teaching videos do better, however we are weaving more and more of our fabric of life content- although it is harder to produce and we are often disappointed with the views. Thanks for sharing
Rob, thanks for a more realistic video. Chrissy is a beautiful, thoughfully measured Filipina. i think thats why men see her and think they can have that as well. I am on your channel to gather information about moving to the Philippines. My comment on the culture being based on Lie and Deny sounds harsh but is really accurate. When you look at the criminal law you see almost non existent plea deals. So you think the Philippines is tough on crime. But reality is plea deals comes with accepting guilt and if you stick to Lie and Deny then you are innocent. If you have bad behavior never acknowledge it and it never happened. If you loan money never mention it again because loan means give and you will bring shame to the person you gave it to. Dont cross a Filipino even if you are right because you will pay the price. With that said I met my wife in 2008 online. I turned her down many times only because she is 14 years my junior and I felt the age gap was to big. She is college educated, was a single mom and before I brought her to the US I told her not to come if she expected to send money back. She agreed and I have been sending hundreds per month since 2010 .Say what you mean and do what you say. Now she wants to go home and see grandkids so I am shopping cost of living in PI so I know what I am up against .By the way I brought both her kids here with her and tried to show them the ways of the world. Filipinos live in their own reality and thats the way it is. I dont want divorce so PI here we come.
You are echoing the disparity I too have found as I compare my values here in the USA with those values found elsewhere in the world. Asian people, including the P.I., are many times all about "saving face." Problem is, whose face, and which direction one is facing or looking, as in the mirror (where everything is reversed) or looking outward. Buddhism is the same way. Their philosophy, either P.I. or Buddhism, defines things as fitting one's own interpretation. One of my school friends from decades ago married a Filipina. (He is of white European ancestry Swedish-English.) After about 15 or 20 years of marriage here in the USA, she moved back to the P.I. (temporarily). At last contact with him, she is still there and he is still alone here in the USA. They (Filipinas) define things as fitting their intent. It's a double standard. You and I have to do what is logical and right, whereas they get to do whatever they decide is acceptable for them. Hence, the double standard. It's no wonder men of the world are angry.
I agree. I found my perfect philippina gf by little less then 1000€ monthly. It’s a province girl and we do have a daughter together. We do know 5 years till now and we will get married next time I am there
A relationship with a foreigner starts off transactional. Filipina women are attractive they have plenty of local men to pick from so you have to provide something the local men can't give, and thats $$$. Now can a relationship evolve to love yes. But thats over time
i like what u said about money,people think most from the west are low income,not so,u just don't see them wasting time making vids,they are having fun living life,6 grand a month in the west will go a long way in the philly willy.
Hi Enjoying your show. Ive been in a relationship now for 6 months, it's exclusive and we enjoy each other's company every time I visit. But I have not met the parents yet, just one or two family members and her lovely 13 yo daughter a couple of times. I also send 22k monthly support. Thoughts?
My GF was receiving money from one other man from the US. I found out about it and spoke with the gentleman. I had already gone to Manila and spent two weeks with her. We had a great time and we spent each night together. He also had gone to Manila to meet her a week after I had been there. She did not spend alone time with him. She brought her 2 kids each time they met. The other gentleman confirmed this. I asked her to be exclusive to me and as far as I know we are. We’ve spent 2 additional 1 month visits, 1 with the kids and 1 without. I agreed to a set budget but it never is the only amount I send. Call me a simp but I’m ok with the arrangement. I consider it a charitable contribution and I can afford it.
Filipina saying, "whomever the foreigner is who will marry me first, is the one I will be with, until a better opportunity arises". I sincerely believe this GF of yours has already been deceptive with you, and I would search for another Filipina. Preferably one that does not have children. She does not appear to be trustworthy, so why would you settle, when there are millions of better candidates in the Philippines? Knowing how the majority of foreigners are, you likely will not heed wise advice. And that is ok, because it is your life to either choose wisely or choose what seems easiest and quickest, which typically spells a miserable relationship. Good luck.
I agree, but when I talked to a Christian Filipina dating service Rep, she told me that was inadequate, even though I stated a bit more per month and that my net worth was then at about $450,000.00 USD. Go figure.
I've stopped with LDRs. You really don't know who's on the other end. Go to the Philippines serveral times before you are able to move there and use that time to build a network of contacts. Befriend the parish priest, the barangay captain, the chief of police or even the mayor, but don't ignore the taxi driver, the waiter, the sales lady. Keep these people close! The strength of a network lies in the second degree!
It's sort of a "catch-22." If you live elsewhere, other than say the P.I. or Thailand, etc., and you want to consider getting involved with a Filipina or a Thai woman, then you cannot rely on an LDR, period. You may possibly be texting or messaging with some guy who makes a living scamming others while he's living in Nigeria or Romania. You really need to be in the country of your intent and meet the perspective woman face-to-face. But then, you may very likely waste a lot of time meeting with women unlike what your intent was from the beginning. Meeting someone to accept as qualified for your expectations as a lifelong mate is a crap shoot at best, even under ideal circumstances. Expecting it to happen online is a bit ludicrous. Even expecting to find that ideal mate in a foreign country with different values from your own could result in failure. So, you're sort of doomed if you do, and you're doomed if you don't. A life mate needs to agree with your own values for a future relationship to succeed. That person may be within your own town or city.
Hi...excuse my ignorance on using whats app etc. but when they say lets chat on whats app and google chat...is it safe to give phone number (security wise)and video chat etc on there?.....I ve just joined CF and got 90 percent requests....I dont care if its just that they want to entice money...I can handle that scenario...I m guessing it is as you state that video chatting is part of the process...just weeding out the money grabbers??...cheers
You have to find satisfaction and happiness within yourself, not in a relationship. With a relationship with a woman from a relatively poor country you only have obligations and woman have poor general education. The view of many men who are looking for great love happiness in the philippines is blinded
The one woman who really loves (or loved) you will always be your mother. The others who may say they love you really intend to say that they love what you do or can do for them. So, the man works to earn money to pay for his family to enjoy a better life. He does so because he loves them. His wife appreciates that money and loves their children. The kids appreciate the accouterments of the home and meals, etc., and they love the dog and cat.
Maybe she's into your money but also you're getting a young girlfriend exchange so it's even😊😊😊 You won't get a girlfriend back in north america it's impossible
Rob, A philippina sounds somewhat similar to girls in the west. If you or I were multimillionaires in the US, we would have young beautiful girls lusting after us. Would some of those be sincere, kind, and empathetic, a few would be but not many. if a guy has a $50,000.00-a-year pension in the Philippines it sounds like there are, young, beautiful girls lusting after him. The difference is with my limited experience around people from the Philippines, 21 years ago I went through a bout of cancer. I was hospitalized on several occasions. The nicest, kindest, most empathetic 3 nurses who cared for me, one was a pretty young lady, the second was a male nurse, the third was a gay male nurse. What did they all have in common, they were all from the Philippines!!!
@@FlyMeToThePhilippinesIn the East (including the P.I.), if you take away the money, all you have is poverty. Sounds like success. What do THEY say? No money, no honey. So, money IS important. What you're trying to say is that money, along with other things, like fidelity, etc., is (and are) important, also. Trying to talk out of both sides of your mouth is deceptive. Do not speak with forked tongue. Snakes have forked tongues.
True. Well, he "loves" the idea of getting a younger woman who looks "good" to him; and she "loves" the idea of getting an older man who looks "good" to her. The definition of "good" is up to each participant. One may define "good" as youthful, slim, perhaps physically perky and not sagging, and without a double chin. Whereas the other may define "good" as being able to afford holiday excursions, weekend trips to exciting resorts, weeknight dinners at expensive restaurants, or giving gifts monthly for no reason whatsoever. "Love" is like art: It's all in the eye of the beholder.
@@xavierkoolat6926 A young woman is fantastic for men over 50, unbeatable and you can have that in a brothel. And love has many faces. BUT: the number of men that underestimate the costs of "hiring" and are left alone brutally dying (!) once their money runs out, these numbers are high, rrarely told on YT.
We were in a long distance relationship with were videos calling each other we did not meet each other for 3 years until last Christmas and I was there for 2 months and she lived in the province in the Philippines and I say with her in the province and had a great time I am going back in September for 6 months and I will am going to buy a plot of land and buy a house for us I own my own house and I rent out 20 property I own and she does not know anything about wot I own and wen I was there she never ask me for any money wen I was there I bought all of the foods and I bought clothes but she never asked me for anything apart from loving her
So, she never asked, but you paid for all the other things. Sounds like you tipped your hand. She read between the lines and has you pegged. Welcome to the world. Be careful and cautious, my friend.
You are so right, EXCELLENT ADVISE, i hope the guys out there are listening. Headed your way March 24 in CDO.
Hey Andre we will keep the lights on
@@FlyMeToThePhilippinesPlease excuse me for butting into your conversation.
I want my msg to address you, Rob, so I'm hoping to reach you directly via this avenue.
You can delete this Comment, of course, but this will reach you.
Several years ago, I signed up with Christian Filipina dating service. After about a week, one of their Reps contacted me. She and I talked on the phone for a while. I discovered she was in Texas, whereas I was (and still am) in Arizona.
She had lots of questions to ask me. I answered them, but felt she was looking for some reason to reject me.
Eventually, she got to the financial part of the "interrogation."
I related all my $ standings, which included that my net worth was about $450,000.00 USD. Because I am retired, my net yearly income was about $1.8k to about $1.9k per month. Remember, this was several years ago, not 2024.
She then informed me that she did not think that would be adequate enough to qualify me for further participation in the CF dating service.
I was dumbfounded.
So, ever since then, I have been left with a BAD taste for dating services.
You stated you met Chrissy on Filipina Cupid, so maybe I should try them, although I AM older, now.
Angry Americano,
Bob
(Xavier Koolat)
These two make a great couple, and Chrissy really has an intelligent way of speaking and i am convinced she is genuine too.
Thanks Rory
All things as you saying is absolutely true , you forget to say : " most of the time The chosen lady's parents are CONTROL the situation about Demanding money truth to lady to foreigner to get money , you need to helping us we raise you up " !!!
Great topics
Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment
There's an old Filipina saying "feed your stomach first, love comes later". What's better than a Foreigner for a Filipina? 2 or more foreigners sending money.
Thanks for watching and for sharing that
I love hire hard, manage easy. Easy to remember, but there is more to that than meets the eye. Still, it is a place to start.
Thanks for watching and taking time to share your thoughts
Chatted up about 30 on CF. Moved 3 to WhatsApp. many ended up asking for money right off. Hit the jackpot with one and still going strong. Spent 10 days with her in CDO 10-21 Feb. Moving next year to CDO. I was moving before I met her, so my relocation is not based on meeting a woman.
Ripley thats great news
I started on CF 16 years ago. Chatted with about 100 Filipinas that I thought might have possibilities for two weeks. Quickly narrowed it down to 15 Filipinas, another 2 weeks passed and had it down to 4 Filipinas, another 2 weeks had it whittled down to 2, and 3 weeks later I was confident with my final choice. We have been happily married for 14 years, and I could not have asked for a better wife, best friend, lover and companion. She has never displayed any form of tampo, which was high on my list of behavioral traits I was not willing to tolerate. We communicate our feelings well and discuss everything with open minds and wisdom. Honestly, it is difficult to find a Filipina similar to mine, because mine is humble, highly educated, raised with Christian moral values and ethics, has a willingness to learn, has a strong work ethic, excellent reasoning and logic skills, and possesses an extremely pleasant personality and loving nature. She speaks, reads and writes English fluently and can cook and clean properly. She also plays piano and guitar, but was not blessed with a good singing voice. LOL! 🤭 She is not perfect and has her flaws like I do. She does tend to overcommit herself in volunteer roles trying to please everyone, and as a result creates stress for herself, by running behind schedule and showing up 10-20 minutes late. She is finally learning to prioritize and lessen her commitments to more manageable amounts. My advice is take your time and seek out Filipinas when you're there and vet them out with a fine tooth comb, because they can hide a lot and be sweetly conniving. Don't immediately settle for the young pretty Filipinas, instead date different age groupings and social classes to get a feel for the differences and what best suits your standards. Remember, you will have to assimilate into their culture to some degree to fit in and get along. Be careful of overly friendly Filipinos that you don't know well, they will typically have an agenda and will gossip about you behind your back. They are extremely capable of spreading some tall tales that could harm you. Keep your personal business to yourself, wallet and passport in a man cross body sling bag that is non cutting and slicing when out and about. Only drink store bought bottled water or from water processing hydration stations and use ice cubes from the same source. Be careful of street food vendors offerings as they are not that hygienic. Other than that, enjoy and good luck.
Good advise 😊
Thanks Denis
Rob, that was an excellent summary of the online proposition (pun intended). Salamat. Peace and Love, B Goat
As always a pleasure to hear from you B Goat
Hire hard manage easy, great advice.
🙏❤️👍
Great stuff. You are a very dynamic salesman.
I appreciate that!
Really like your advice and really makes sense…thank you…Tony
Anthony, thanks for watching and for sharing your comment. It helps the channel so much. Thanks again.
You give alot good advice mate
Thanks Roger for watching and sharing
Another great topic with expert advice.
Thanks Jeff
Thank you for the great advice.
Anytime Mello
This was an excellent video agree with interview hard. Now that I found where I want to live and I am over a bad experience in Dumaguete I am ready to interview hard. I am enjoying the common sense advice.
Enjoying life in Roxas City.
Glad it was helpful Tom
Hey Rob 🙌thank you brother 🕉️
Sure thing Michael
You got the Bingo on Chrissy! Congrats on your new found love!
Yes! Thank you Marc!
The universe sent me to this online dating site and i met a filipina there. She's really sweet. She has health concerns that bother her and I'm the one pushing her to let me send her money to go see a doctor. I'm planning to go visit her later this year. She says we're exclusive and she's not talking to any other guy but i still get paranoid.
Being in a LDR can be extremely difficult the sooner you can come and be together in person easier life will be going forward and put your concerns to rest
I've been dating a lady for 1.6 months it been mostly good. I visited her & her family for 19 days.. I had a great time when I was there. I was planning to return in the next 3-4 months. She a
50 year old teacher.. I'm 65 years old
she has one child who is 16 years old.
Things are going well, at times we
have our issue miscommunicationing.
I realized that 19 days doesn't make a
relationship and we might not work out.
It's the gamble all of us expat are taking
hoping. that we are blessed to find the right Pinoy. I'm optimistic that things
will work out with her or someone else.
It sounds like you’re on a path to discover your way forward. I wish you the best, David.
You read a lot of good comments. I am 74 and my plane arrives April 19 for an 8 week adventure. I was on Filipino Cupid and now Christian Filipina since January. The scammers like to get you offsite and avoid video calls. A CF adviser said to try those that been on the site for at least 7 days and have at least 3 pictures. It is not a perfect solution, but it helps. The legit ones sound like men in America (including me) " Hi, but you don't want me." I think they are province girls who have been isolated and ignored. The surprising part is I am on video chatting with two 32 good looking women that don't know my income is 5,200 USD per month.
Keep at it, Randy I see success around the corner. Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment.
Expats chat with more Filipinas than one and Filipinas chat with more than one Expats, that is the way it is for dating anywhere. When you get to the point of meeting, that is the turning point. It is what it is
Thanks for watching and taking the time to come in Albert
thanks for the vid Rob, as usual. you provide a great consulting service. im interested in knowing what percentage of your viewers will never move to the Phils to live. also, what percentage of viewers will not meet and partner with a Filipina. i totally understand your consulting market consists of those people. however, many of us retired guys do not want to relocate to the Phils. we are happy and set up well here in the good ole USA. i am one of those. i suspect that most of your viewers are older dudes like me who enjoy watching the travels and experiences of you and Chrissy. we enjoy the reality tv. the best vids for me are the ones involving you taking us places and showing us things. the people, places, activities, etc are things i enjoy watching. i would bet most of your viewer-subscribers are more like me. is that true? if it is, do you want to spend the time and effort to be more of a travel vlogger? you and Chrissy are very good at it. i tend not to watch your monologue consulting vids as much as the ones showing people, places, experiences with Chrissy, friends, local engagement for fun and business.
So interesting to hear your thoughts… we built our channel being the “teacher”, however we aspire to become the heroes… we are struggling to make a hybrid approach. Our teaching videos do better, however we are weaving more and more of our fabric of life content- although it is harder to produce and we are often disappointed with the views. Thanks for sharing
Rob, thanks for a more realistic video. Chrissy is a beautiful, thoughfully measured Filipina. i think thats why men see her and think they can have that as well. I am on your channel to gather information about moving to the Philippines. My comment on the culture being based on Lie and Deny sounds harsh but is really accurate. When you look at the criminal law you see almost non existent plea deals. So you think the Philippines is tough on crime. But reality is plea deals comes with accepting guilt and if you stick to Lie and Deny then you are innocent. If you have bad behavior never acknowledge it and it never happened. If you loan money never mention it again because loan means give and you will bring shame to the person you gave it to. Dont cross a Filipino even if you are right because you will pay the price. With that said I met my wife in 2008 online. I turned her down many times only because she is 14 years my junior and I felt the age gap was to big. She is college educated, was a single mom and before I brought her to the US I told her not to come if she expected to send money back. She agreed and I have been sending hundreds per month since 2010 .Say what you mean and do what you say. Now she wants to go home and see grandkids so I am shopping cost of living in PI so I know what I am up against .By the way I brought both her kids here with her and tried to show them the ways of the world. Filipinos live in their own reality and thats the way it is. I dont want divorce so PI here we come.
You are echoing the disparity I too have found as I compare my values here in the USA with those values found elsewhere in the world.
Asian people, including the P.I., are many times all about "saving face."
Problem is, whose face, and which direction one is facing or looking, as in the mirror (where everything is reversed) or looking outward.
Buddhism is the same way.
Their philosophy, either P.I. or Buddhism, defines things as fitting one's own interpretation.
One of my school friends from decades ago married a Filipina. (He is of white European ancestry Swedish-English.)
After about 15 or 20 years of marriage here in the USA, she moved back to the P.I. (temporarily). At last contact with him, she is still there and he is still alone here in the USA.
They (Filipinas) define things as fitting their intent.
It's a double standard. You and I have to do what is logical and right, whereas they get to do whatever they decide is acceptable for them. Hence, the double standard.
It's no wonder men of the world are angry.
Thanks for sharing your story
Excellent advice, thank you 😅👍
Glad it was helpful!
I agree. I found my perfect philippina gf by little less then 1000€ monthly. It’s a province girl and we do have a daughter together. We do know 5 years till now and we will get married next time I am there
Thanks for sharing Jens
A relationship with a foreigner starts off transactional. Filipina women are attractive they have plenty of local men to pick from so you have to provide something the local men can't give, and thats $$$. Now can a relationship evolve to love yes. But thats over time
Tony, you’re speaking truth to power
The advice you give if a man doesn't know that in the 50s, than he is incapable of having a relatioship anyway
Perhaps
Well, he is certainly open to deception.
i like what u said about money,people think most from the west are low income,not so,u just don't see them wasting time making vids,they are having fun living life,6 grand a month in the west will go a long way in the philly willy.
Good point
Hi
Enjoying your show.
Ive been in a relationship now for 6 months, it's exclusive and we enjoy each other's company every time I visit.
But I have not met the parents yet, just one or two family members and her lovely 13 yo daughter a couple of times. I also send 22k monthly support.
Thoughts?
To many questions for me to offer an opinion. Reasons why you have not met her parents first question.
I am available for private consultation..
👍👍👍
Thanks Michael
My GF was receiving money from one other man from the US. I found out about it and spoke with the gentleman. I had already gone to Manila and spent two weeks with her. We had a great time and we spent each night together. He also had gone to Manila to meet her a week after I had been there. She did not spend alone time with him. She brought her 2 kids each time they met. The other gentleman confirmed this. I asked her to be exclusive to me and as far as I know we are. We’ve spent 2 additional 1 month visits, 1 with the kids and 1 without. I agreed to a set budget but it never is the only amount I send. Call me a simp but I’m ok with the arrangement. I consider it a charitable contribution and I can afford it.
PapaDoug, thanks for sharing
There is a saying in the Philippines - “man to man guarding”.
Filipina saying, "whomever the foreigner is who will marry me first, is the one I will be with, until a better opportunity arises". I sincerely believe this GF of yours has already been deceptive with you, and I would search for another Filipina. Preferably one that does not have children. She does not appear to be trustworthy, so why would you settle, when there are millions of better candidates in the Philippines? Knowing how the majority of foreigners are, you likely will not heed wise advice. And that is ok, because it is your life to either choose wisely or choose what seems easiest and quickest, which typically spells a miserable relationship. Good luck.
For me a budget is about 1700 a month
I agree, but when I talked to a Christian Filipina dating service Rep, she told me that was inadequate, even though I stated a bit more per month and that my net worth was then at about $450,000.00 USD.
Go figure.
That is feasible Toby
@xavierkoolat6926 isnt christianfilipina a scam?
I've stopped with LDRs. You really don't know who's on the other end. Go to the Philippines serveral times before you are able to move there and use that time to build a network of contacts. Befriend the parish priest, the barangay captain, the chief of police or even the mayor, but don't ignore the taxi driver, the waiter, the sales lady. Keep these people close! The strength of a network lies in the second degree!
It's sort of a "catch-22."
If you live elsewhere, other than say the P.I. or Thailand, etc., and you want to consider getting involved with a Filipina or a Thai woman, then you cannot rely on an LDR, period.
You may possibly be texting or messaging with some guy who makes a living scamming others while he's living in Nigeria or Romania.
You really need to be in the country of your intent and meet the perspective woman face-to-face.
But then, you may very likely waste a lot of time meeting with women unlike what your intent was from the beginning.
Meeting someone to accept as qualified for your expectations as a lifelong mate is a crap shoot at best, even under ideal circumstances. Expecting it to happen online is a bit ludicrous.
Even expecting to find that ideal mate in a foreign country with different values from your own could result in failure.
So, you're sort of doomed if you do, and you're doomed if you don't.
A life mate needs to agree with your own values for a future relationship to succeed. That person may be within your own town or city.
Good advice Belgium
Maybe half and half
Probably right
so true . hiring hard want her for life . make sure she has a college are own her business.
Thanks for watching and commenting hillbillyInasia
Hi...excuse my ignorance on using whats app etc. but when they say lets chat on whats app and google chat...is it safe to give phone number (security wise)and video chat etc on there?.....I ve just joined CF and got 90 percent requests....I dont care if its just that they want to entice money...I can handle that scenario...I m guessing it is as you state that video chatting is part of the process...just weeding out the money grabbers??...cheers
Whats app is associated with a cellular number so scammers don’t like it…avoid google chat rooms and others were only an email address is needed.
Think the equation is half your age plus 8 for the youngest women to look for. Not sure if that is true, but it is what I have heard.
Dr I heard half plus 7. 😀7.5
You have to find satisfaction and happiness within yourself, not in a relationship.
With a relationship with a woman from a relatively poor country you only have obligations
and woman have poor general education.
The view of many men who are looking for great love happiness in the philippines is blinded
Thanks for sharing Rudolf
The one woman who really loves (or loved) you will always be your mother. The others who may say they love you really intend to say that they love what you do or can do for them.
So, the man works to earn money to pay for his family to enjoy a better life. He does so because he loves them.
His wife appreciates that money and loves their children.
The kids appreciate the accouterments of the home and meals, etc., and they love the dog and cat.
Maybe she's into your money but also you're getting a young girlfriend exchange so it's even😊😊😊 You won't get a girlfriend back in north america it's impossible
No money, no honey.
Thanks Doug
Rob, A philippina sounds somewhat similar to girls in the west. If you or I were multimillionaires in the US, we would have young beautiful girls lusting after us. Would some of those be sincere, kind, and empathetic, a few would be but not many. if a guy has a $50,000.00-a-year pension in the Philippines it sounds like there are, young, beautiful girls lusting after him. The difference is with my limited experience around people from the Philippines, 21 years ago I went through a bout of cancer. I was hospitalized on several occasions. The nicest, kindest, most empathetic 3 nurses who cared for me, one was a pretty young lady, the second was a male nurse, the third was a gay male nurse. What did they all have in common, they were all from the Philippines!!!
Michael, thanks for sharing your story. I hope you’re 100% over your health issues and are living your best life.
Good advice, I had to cut three Filipinas lose because they were too "hard to manage." I had wasted a month on each of them.
Thanks for watching Tim and sharing your comment
Dude you answered your own questions. It's all about the MONEY! Take away the money and what do you have?
In the west, if you take it away the money what do you have?
@@FlyMeToThePhilippinesIn the East (including the P.I.), if you take away the money, all you have is poverty.
Sounds like success.
What do THEY say?
No money, no honey.
So, money IS important.
What you're trying to say is that money, along with other things, like fidelity, etc., is (and are) important, also.
Trying to talk out of both sides of your mouth is deceptive.
Do not speak with forked tongue.
Snakes have forked tongues.
The word "hire" is pretty precise. Just do me one favor and don't call it "love". Thank you.
True. Well, he "loves" the idea of getting a younger woman who looks "good" to him; and she "loves" the idea of getting an older man who looks "good" to her.
The definition of "good" is up to each participant.
One may define "good" as youthful, slim, perhaps physically perky and not sagging, and without a double chin.
Whereas the other may define "good" as being able to afford holiday excursions, weekend trips to exciting resorts, weeknight dinners at expensive restaurants, or giving gifts monthly for no reason whatsoever.
"Love" is like art: It's all in the eye of the beholder.
Well said Xavier
@@xavierkoolat6926 A young woman is fantastic for men over 50, unbeatable and you can have that in a brothel. And love has many faces. BUT: the number of men that underestimate the costs of "hiring" and are left alone brutally dying (!) once their money runs out, these numbers are high, rrarely told on YT.
We were in a long distance relationship with were videos calling each other we did not meet each other for 3 years until last Christmas and I was there for 2 months and she lived in the province in the Philippines and I say with her in the province and had a great time I am going back in September for 6 months and I will am going to buy a plot of land and buy a house for us I own my own house and I rent out 20 property I own and she does not know anything about wot I own and wen I was there she never ask me for any money wen I was there I bought all of the foods and I bought clothes but she never asked me for anything apart from loving her
Thats awesome
So, she never asked, but you paid for all the other things.
Sounds like you tipped your hand. She read between the lines and has you pegged. Welcome to the world.
Be careful and cautious, my friend.
Great video as always.North america women are just awful😊
Thanks for watching and offering that positive feedback
Get to the point
Thanks for the feedback
He's unaware of it, yet.