Do you want lasting love with YOUR dream girl? You'll LOVE my all-new FREE masterclass because lays it all out for you! 🔥 Watch it here now 👉 coachmelannie.com/masterclass/ 💭 P.S. Which sign surprised you the most? Tell me in the comments!
Coach, I will give you a video idea. So I live in a multifamily building and there is this girl living with her family in the house next door. When I am out smoking sometimes she and her sisters and mom always say HI when passing through, but noticed she has been checking me out more than the rest of the family. I honestly like her and think she is very pretty and there is some sort of mysterious attraction towards her. On the other side, I am confused and not sure if she really wants me to make a move or just her being kind. One day, she was with her mom and sisters (4 sis all of them pretty) and she said Hi loudly. This was surprising and I didn't react in a way to be a little more flirty because I am not sure weather she is just being nice or she is really expecting me make a move.. How to approach a girl when she is with a family member coach? 😁😃
I haven’t felt attractive for the last year. And I’ve started to not even care about looking at women in public and has made it less motivating to go to the gym or out in public. Each day I’ve continuously gotten more stagnant and less confident and I am starting to gain more weight and care less everyday about myself and my life
Women want average looking, tall men with 6 figure incomes. Reason? She feels safe in every aspect. Safe from danger, safe from homelessness, and safe from you cheating because she knows that she doesn't have to worry about you being tempted all the time.
Not even sure why I watched this, maybe it was to say this. First nothing I will say is new. Pump the brakes now. Start caring about yourself. If you don’t then don’t expect others to End your weight concerns now. Not binge diet or whatever, but don’t make things worse that will make you feel worse about yourself, and even more overwhelming to get back to your “normal”. The past years have been rough on everyone. Be a survivor. People will notice and respect efforts you make to recenter yourself, whether they say it or not. Your situation as described is not hopeless. Turn around and be hopeful. Good luck, and may God bless you, my friend.
I feel more attractive now that I have been working out for the last 6 months and grew my beard and mustache out. I can tell the difference in female attention and smiles.
You just reminded me that that when I was 17 the gal down the street actually told me that she thought I was hot. I had completely forgotten about that. That was in 1983. Ty.
I've always said I'd rather be liked for my intellect and personality, rather than looks...But a nice outside helps you to appreciate someone's inside....
Coach Melanie: nice to meet you soon ❤️🔜,I am so happy with you, I think you are elder sister than me or may be we are in same age older but sharing your experience with me a great pleasure for me ❤️❤️🔜, " HOW TO ATTRACT THE PEOPLE" is in my opinion your service or business that's good news for me, So we have a vast difference in many things including culture nature, atmosphere environment, place country religion beliefs and much more in human nature, that's you know very well, I have been gotten from you soon right 💯▶️ now is new experience for me ❤️🙈 thanks again for your guidance for life lessons.
Melani, my name is Joel as you say, I am blind, but I love the Lord with all my heart and you know I think I just found the woman that I need for the rest of my life and she and I connect so well thank you thank you thank you thank you!
I really love your bright genuine energy 🥰 I feel like growth mindset and encouraging others go together... I am willing to evolve and when I see someone growing I am really glad and inspired 🤩 many thanks to you for making me feel this way too 🏆💜
I thought it was kind of ironic when you were talking about something and you mentioned to like if you work out like your arms and at that very moment I was
I'm having a nightmare in the dating world at the moment, just can't get a break at the moment. I'm really starting to doubt myself now, I am trying to improve myself now though
Hi Coach Melannie!! Kind of difficult to be an 'encouraging person' sometimes I discouraged a girl to do two things from five, and I was not seen as somebody who want to build her up, I was seen as somebody who want to control her or stop her to reach her happiness and after that she was not as talkative as before. Probably because she was doing the five things and she do not want to talk about that. And that was hurtful in many ways. ---------- I like a lot your 'Truth statment'.
As to point 3, building up and encouraging people, and to point 4 being a kind person, you need to be extremely careful about this, because "Being A Mr. Nice Guy" (which incorporates points 3 and 4) is an ENORMOUS turnoff to women across the board. Perhaps, instead of trying too hard to be attractive, you should work on improving yourself (point 2 personal growth) with specific focus on BOUNDARIES. STOP SIMPING, it is a sign of weakness, not an attractive trait.
I live in an area where they judge you a lot material things matter. Any advice on that cause god made my heart the way it is I shouldn’t have to change
I’m a big teddy bear type of man and to be honest I never had confidence i never thought I would attract anyone..until I attacked one of the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. And I’m not just saying that..she could be a model. To any other big men/woman out there that feel unattractive…you are worthy! Just be yourself and you will attract the right one!
That might be true if we were talking about fish. But we are not. We are talking about humans. Living, breathing women with emotions, feelings and needs. It's more realistic to think of it like moving to a new country. A country where they speak a different language than you and have different traditions and cultures. If you were going into this situation I'm sure you would agree that having a guide would be an asset. Someone who knows the language and culture and can teach it to you. That is the power of a woman coach. BUT you have to remember you are trying to attract a woman not a fish. Have a nice day!
I will say this much, you can be hella attractive to women all you want. All the women are gonna do is look at you when you're not looking and when you look at them, they will turn their heads like they don't notice you.
She's most likely sending signs and hoping you'll pick up on it and pursue. These videos will help. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html And these. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-UMVqc5Y0QDhYxWRW-2yKT8.html
Hello Melannie. This Keith Thompson from Atlanta, Georgia . I never been married and never have no kids.. I never been no relationship before.. I never been on any no dating.
I was talking to a friend of mine the other day group chat she said I was good-looking granted she said it in relation to the other guy as well but I will take it
Hello and thank you for your comment! My methods work for anyone looking to have their dream girl and a happy/healthy relationship. I am Christian so I teach from that perspective but these skills will benefit everyone. Thanks for watching! 😀
I used to be shy and standoffish in grade school, high school and college. Now that I've been through a number of relationships and through meningitis and a near fatal car accident, I've learned how to find and keep a girlfriend. It has taken me close to 43 years but I've survived through what might have put others 6 feet under. If you know what I mean by that.
I am happily in a relationship with a female who is from a different state. We met online. We haven't seen each other in person but we have seen each other in pictures. She wants to come visit me and possibly move here because her husband died a few years ago. Now, she found me and is willing to relocate with her kids to marry me one day.
I heard about that growth mindset & victim mindset growth is you take every chance to learn and grow from any situation and want to learn Victim is where you play the blame game
I haven't done one on age difference. It mostly depends on the couple. It's really important to make sure both are mature so one doesn't end up taking care of the other. I hope that helps. God bless! 😀
@@CoachMelannie Coach I have a crush on a 19 year old I'm 28. People would say she's young n not matured but she has a full time job, car, phone but still lives with her parents.is she still young for me, Im working on getting her name been seen her at least once a week for the last 6 months.
If i am Attractive, but still only face rejection, how can i keep my confidence up that i am actually wanted somewhere somehow? I really don't get it. Apparently i do all the right things, i am attractive, i am so good, bla bla bla. But then if all that is true, why can i never get anywhere in my search for a relationship? Six out of seven Points seemingly apply to me, but as much as i try to do change things, nothing changes in the result. And i don't want to become dishonest to who i am just to attract someone. (The one missing is Confident Habits, which, idk how to change at this point because i am getting so much purely negative feedback.) How do i learn more confidence when nothing i try works is basically the question?
I'm sorry you're going through this. I have helped many men in this situation. If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
Thank you for the master class! I have learned some much about myself. I am slowly putting what you have taught me into practice. This video is a great addition. Best wishes always
It's matching your inner strength to your outside. Match your inside to outside. Life is great. Why be limited. There are no limits. I think people put limits on themselves. You have a great mindset and I love your videos. I like teaching others as well.
I'm definitely a toxic person. When i see this video, i just think about women's rights and how it was the worst thing to happen to this country. I want to work on myself. I think I'll work out and get stronger than i already am. I'll pay off my house while my wife is a stay at home mother. I'll learn to train with my guns. I still believe women's rights were a mistake.
Thank you For your kind reply. So much of what you teach is in me. I Just thank God daily for Blessings Me. I couldn’t have an relationship with Mind games cheating and all the rest of the carnal way of life.Speak more about why we should respect and honour a girl/women who Just don’t want to give herself before marriage. A lot of men and women have never learned that. They are looking for Love and they think,that’s what Love is. How you explained it in just a few sentences was beautiful and enlightening. God Bless you 🌹❤️🌈🙏
Everyone is turning it into a game that's why there are so many single people out there. Plus covid 19 isn't helping anyone it's just not the same out there anymore. Hopefully people get back to the way it used to be 🙏
Hi Coach, the lady I want told me after 3 dates she wants to move to Mexico after an opportunity came up. We are coworkers from 6 years ago that we recently reconnected and I knew when I learned she was single I needed to reach out! She said her leaving will go pretty quick over the next few weeks, is the there anything I can do?
Do you want lasting love with YOUR dream girl? You'll LOVE my all-new FREE masterclass because lays it all out for you! 🔥 Watch it here now 👉 coachmelannie.com/masterclass/
💭 P.S. Which sign surprised you the most? Tell me in the comments!
Have you done a video on age difference? What do you think a maximum age gap should be.
@@chefdave1157 10-15 years
None. (☉｡☉)!
Coach, I will give you a video idea. So I live in a multifamily building and there is this girl living with her family in the house next door. When I am out smoking sometimes she and her sisters and mom always say HI when passing through, but noticed she has been checking me out more than the rest of the family. I honestly like her and think she is very pretty and there is some sort of mysterious attraction towards her. On the other side, I am confused and not sure if she really wants me to make a move or just her being kind. One day, she was with her mom and sisters (4 sis all of them pretty) and she said Hi loudly. This was surprising and I didn't react in a way to be a little more flirty because I am not sure weather she is just being nice or she is really expecting me make a move.. How to approach a girl when she is with a family member coach? 😁😃
I will walk into a lion damn pork chops
I haven’t felt attractive for the last year. And I’ve started to not even care about looking at women in public and has made it less motivating to go to the gym or out in public. Each day I’ve continuously gotten more stagnant and less confident and I am starting to gain more weight and care less everyday about myself and my life
I'm sorry to hear that. Let me know if you'd like my help!
Women want average looking, tall men with 6 figure incomes. Reason? She feels safe in every aspect. Safe from danger, safe from homelessness, and safe from you cheating because she knows that she doesn't have to worry about you being tempted all the time.
Not even sure why I watched this, maybe it was to say this.
First nothing I will say is new.
Pump the brakes now.
Start caring about yourself. If you don’t then don’t expect others to
End your weight concerns now. Not binge diet or whatever, but don’t make things worse that will make you feel worse about yourself, and even more overwhelming to get back to your “normal”.
The past years have been rough on everyone. Be a survivor. People will notice and respect efforts you make to recenter yourself, whether they say it or not.
Your situation as described is not hopeless. Turn around and be hopeful.
Good luck, and may God bless you, my friend.
I feel more attractive now that I have been working out for the last 6 months and grew my beard and mustache out. I can tell the difference in female attention and smiles.
@@anthonygrant694 Good deal, Brother. 👍🏼
I did not expect that voce to come from that doll face you sound so wise
You just reminded me that that when I was 17 the gal down the street actually told me that she thought I was hot. I had completely forgotten about that. That was in 1983. Ty.
I was feeling a bit down today but you have boosted my confidence, thank you Melanie.
I'm so glad!
I think you're attractive
Your voice when you speak on that mic really comfort’s me 🥱
I've always said I'd rather be liked for my intellect and personality, rather than looks...But a nice outside helps you to appreciate someone's inside....
Why are the vibes here so good?????
Coach Melanie: nice to meet you soon ❤️🔜,I am so happy with you, I think you are elder sister than me or may be we are in same age older but sharing your experience with me a great pleasure for me ❤️❤️🔜, " HOW TO ATTRACT THE PEOPLE" is in my opinion your service or business that's good news for me, So we have a vast difference in many things including culture nature, atmosphere environment, place country religion beliefs and much more in human nature, that's you know very well, I have been gotten from you soon right 💯▶️ now is new experience for me ❤️🙈 thanks again for your guidance for life lessons.
Melani, my name is Joel as you say, I am blind, but I love the Lord with all my heart and you know I think I just found the woman that I need for the rest of my life and she and I connect so well thank you thank you thank you thank you!
I'm so very happy for you!
So cool how a blind person made this comment
I really love your bright genuine energy 🥰 I feel like growth mindset and encouraging others go together... I am willing to evolve and when I see someone growing I am really glad and inspired 🤩 many thanks to you for making me feel this way too 🏆💜
My pleasure! Thanks for your comment!🙏
I thought it was kind of ironic when you were talking about something and you mentioned to like if you work out like your arms and at that very moment I was
i was feeling down to i like how you talked about the teddy bear type thats me im just down cause i hate my hair loss im always wearing hats
This woman has a spectacular voice. First time visitor. Very thought provoking content.
So helpfully and more interesting
I" don't feel attractive at any time!!Age does that!I"m 67!
Sorry I’m writing so much you make this very interesting.
People are very close minded where I live
So exciting to learn these things !
I'm an empath so my thought process is different than most men. I'm not condition by the norms of society
Attraction. It was a nice surprise what you said in this video.
So many creative variations on that lip bite for the thumbnail.
...respect 😎 ✌️
Growth mindset openness and willingness to grow & learn from anything or anyone victim blame others take no responsibility
I'm having a nightmare in the dating world at the moment, just can't get a break at the moment. I'm really starting to doubt myself now, I am trying to improve myself now though
I found your channel helpfull to me coach
Fascinating concepts!
Awesome advice, thank you!
I like your nice and enjoyed videos. Coch Melannie I wish you and family members merry Christmas and a happy new year 2022. Enjoy your holidays. AMEN.
Hi Coach Melannie!!
Kind of difficult to be an 'encouraging person' sometimes I discouraged a girl to do two things from five, and I was not seen as somebody who want to build her up, I was seen as somebody who want to control her or stop her to reach her happiness and after that she was not as talkative as before. Probably because she was doing the five things and she do not want to talk about that.
And that was hurtful in many ways.
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I like a lot your 'Truth statment'.
I thought I was hot. Turns out I stood too close to a space heater, and my pants caught on fire! LOL!
As to point 3, building up and encouraging people, and to point 4 being a kind person, you need to be extremely careful about this, because "Being A Mr. Nice Guy" (which incorporates points 3 and 4) is an ENORMOUS turnoff to women across the board. Perhaps, instead of trying too hard to be attractive, you should work on improving yourself (point 2 personal growth) with specific focus on BOUNDARIES. STOP SIMPING, it is a sign of weakness, not an attractive trait.
Very good!
0:21 none of those are my situation. My situation is that people call me ugly and that I’ve never had any relationships.
I'm so very sorry. Let me know if you'd like help to change that!
I live in an area where they judge you a lot material things matter. Any advice on that cause god made my heart the way it is I shouldn’t have to change
Attraction!
hey melannie this is great happy thursday
You’re attractive tbh!
You have an amazing aura and outlook on life! Thank you for your advice 🙏🏽
I’m a big teddy bear type of man and to be honest I never had confidence i never thought I would attract anyone..until I attacked one of the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. And I’m not just saying that..she could be a model. To any other big men/woman out there that feel unattractive…you are worthy! Just be yourself and you will attract the right one!
You attacked a woman?
Don’t ask a fish for advice on catching fish. Ask a fisherman. 🎣
That might be true if we were talking about fish. But we are not. We are talking about humans. Living, breathing women with emotions, feelings and needs. It's more realistic to think of it like moving to a new country. A country where they speak a different language than you and have different traditions and cultures. If you were going into this situation I'm sure you would agree that having a guide would be an asset. Someone who knows the language and culture and can teach it to you. That is the power of a woman coach. BUT you have to remember you are trying to attract a woman not a fish. Have a nice day!
I like to think I’m average,like a little in the middle. It’s a very healthy mindset
I will say this much, you can be hella attractive to women all you want. All the women are gonna do is look at you when you're not looking and when you look at them, they will turn their heads like they don't notice you.
She's most likely sending signs and hoping you'll pick up on it and pursue. These videos will help. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html And these. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-UMVqc5Y0QDhYxWRW-2yKT8.html
This is an important comment tbh
Hello Melannie. This Keith Thompson from Atlanta, Georgia .
I never been married and never have no kids.. I never been no relationship before.. I never been on any no dating.
If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
Coach Melannie we love you
I was talking to a friend of mine the other day group chat she said I was good-looking granted she said it in relation to the other guy as well but I will take it
Lol okay take it! Not eveon gets compliments.
Great video! Thanks!
You're welcome!
I'm not religious or anything but still watch your videos. Can this still help me overall?
Hello and thank you for your comment! My methods work for anyone looking to have their dream girl and a happy/healthy relationship. I am Christian so I teach from that perspective but these skills will benefit everyone. Thanks for watching! 😀
ATTRACTION
Thank you so much
I used to be shy and standoffish in grade school, high school and college. Now that I've been through a number of relationships and through meningitis and a near fatal car accident, I've learned how to find and keep a girlfriend. It has taken me close to 43 years but I've survived through what might have put others 6 feet under. If you know what I mean by that.
I am happily in a relationship with a female who is from a different state. We met online. We haven't seen each other in person but we have seen each other in pictures. She wants to come visit me and possibly move here because her husband died a few years ago. Now, she found me and is willing to relocate with her kids to marry me one day.
@@michaelflusche Careful if you still haven’t met. My friend got taken for thousands of dollars by a woman in another state.
You are awesome. Love the videos!
Glad you like them!
I look like a raccoon, smell like a skunk, and cry like a wolf! What should i do to become more attractive?😳🤔
These videos will help. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-X_ynv6PY785bErqiZoqbSk.html
I heard about that growth mindset & victim mindset growth is you take every chance to learn and grow from any situation and want to learn
Victim is where you play the blame game
I got 7 out of 7! I must be the sexiest man alive!!!
I'm so happy it was helpful!
And yet you are single. You forgot to complete the sentence. 😂
Coach have you done a video on age difference? What do you think the maximum age difference should be.
I haven't done one on age difference. It mostly depends on the couple. It's really important to make sure both are mature so one doesn't end up taking care of the other. I hope that helps. God bless! 😀
@@CoachMelannie Coach I have a crush on a 19 year old I'm 28. People would say she's young n not matured but she has a full time job, car, phone but still lives with her parents.is she still young for me, Im working on getting her name been seen her at least once a week for the last 6 months.
Be nice to find the real deal.
Be nice but dont be a doormat.
Have boundaries
And if she makes you feel unsafe or afraid
Run away
Been rough 6 days begining to think she doesn't exist.
If i am Attractive, but still only face rejection, how can i keep my confidence up that i am actually wanted somewhere somehow?
I really don't get it. Apparently i do all the right things, i am attractive, i am so good, bla bla bla. But then if all that is true, why can i never get anywhere in my search for a relationship?
Six out of seven Points seemingly apply to me, but as much as i try to do change things, nothing changes in the result. And i don't want to become dishonest to who i am just to attract someone.
(The one missing is Confident Habits, which, idk how to change at this point because i am getting so much purely negative feedback.)
How do i learn more confidence when nothing i try works is basically the question?
I'm sorry you're going through this. I have helped many men in this situation. If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
Yes make more please !!! They're beneficial and encouraging Melanie
Perfect! I’ll keep them coming!💪
You're fine as hell Melanie!
im all seven signs 😎💯
You are very beautiful and your eyes are proof that you are beautiful inside too
Healthy lifestyle: nowadays that means WEIGHING food just before cooking and eating
That's one way to do it I guess! Have a great day!
I have all of these things plus top tier looks and I’m jacked but no girl will even give me a chance simply based on the fact that I am 5’2
I understand. This will be a huge help! th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VXtLqIbHAk4PrfGsZ63ADh.html
I'm constantly being stared at.... can't even eat lunch at work!
“Life is always about the little things.” Isaac S. Williams. Thank you Melanie, I know those eyes and cheekbones.
Ah the comedic value
Attraction
Thank you for the master class! I have learned some much about myself. I am slowly putting what you have taught me into practice. This video is a great addition. Best wishes always
I’m so happy to hear that!👍
It's matching your inner strength to your outside. Match your inside to outside. Life is great. Why be limited. There are no limits. I think people put limits on themselves. You have a great mindset and I love your videos. I like teaching others as well.
Is it a problem that I'd rather take a nap than do anything
Great video. Thank you . For all your help. Attraction. My issue was confidence
Glad it helped!
I'm definitely a toxic person. When i see this video, i just think about women's rights and how it was the worst thing to happen to this country.
I want to work on myself. I think I'll work out and get stronger than i already am. I'll pay off my house while my wife is a stay at home mother. I'll learn to train with my guns.
I still believe women's rights were a mistake.
Why do you think that’s the case?
You took this the wrong way 💀
Attraction.
This girl has a voice for radio
melannie is learned 👍
Thanks, “Attraction”
Attraction. Bless
Thank you For your kind reply. So much of what you teach is in me. I Just thank God daily for Blessings Me. I couldn’t have an relationship with Mind games cheating and all the rest of the carnal way of life.Speak more about why we should respect and honour a girl/women who Just don’t want to give herself before marriage. A lot of men and women have never learned that. They are looking for Love and they think,that’s what Love is. How you explained it in just a few sentences was beautiful and enlightening. God Bless you 🌹❤️🌈🙏
I like women who are humble and meek
You make me happy
yes maam I enjoy your videos
Everyone is turning it into a game that's why there are so many single people out there. Plus covid 19 isn't helping anyone it's just not the same out there anymore. Hopefully people get back to the way it used to be 🙏
God bless my friend 🙏 thank you for your compassion. It does my heart good knowing you're out there. Makes me have a little faith in humankind.
Thank you, Coach Melannie. Can you consider a video on how we can make our partners feel more attractive? Thank you.
That's a great idea! Thanks! God bless! 😀
Sign me up
Usually the women who find me attractive and their type are not attractive to me and not my type.
Sorry to hear that. What if you could attract the ones you're attracted to?
Continue to keep it real. That's the most attractive part about a woman to me is realness. Especially a real kindness.
@Coach Melanie
For me, my ideal woman not just in her physic but to have inner beauty alongside outer beauty since inner beauty is worth a pot of gold
Inner beauty is so important!
@@CoachMelannie
Very
Thank you, Thank you, for this very encouraging video!!!
My pleasure! Thanks for your comment!🙏
Attraction... Apparently I'm attracted to you and your advice videos. I watch them allll the time.
That's kind of creepy
“We have moments in our life where we just don’t feel attractive” me being a narcissist haha liar
What are the confidence habits? Ik confidence is something women are very attracted too.
I'm just scared to even talk to her or even approach her and look at her
These videos will be a big help with this. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-W_e1sSY8-UDYrC3VBdGUNS.html
Attraction🤗
You have about the most attractive voice for a gal I think ive herd mellone
I cant be any more discuraged as the last 10 women I have met all wanted money and all try to put a guilt trip on me.
You are the best
ATTRACTION!!!
Only believe the word of God
Attraction!!!
I love your videos Coach Melanie ❤️
And I absolutely LOVE that you are sharing un materialistic assets that people have to offer. It’s not always about the looks and Money!
Hi Coach, the lady I want told me after 3 dates she wants to move to Mexico after an opportunity came up. We are coworkers from 6 years ago that we recently reconnected and I knew when I learned she was single I needed to reach out! She said her leaving will go pretty quick over the next few weeks, is the there anything I can do?
If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
I've been told this :)