11 THINGS MEN DO THAT MAKE WOMEN MELT! 😍

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  • 11 THINGS MEN DO THAT MAKE WOMEN MELT! 😍 // If you want to know how to attract a woman, you need to know the things men do to make girls melt! Women can feel terribly confusing if you don’t understand female psychology and what women really want in a man. Once you learn what women really want you’ll also be able to unlock the secrets of how to impress a woman and how to attract women correctly. As a Christian Dating Coach, I’m here to make finding and attracting the love of your life simple! Ready to finally know the things guys do to make girls melt? Let’s dive into 11 Things Men Do That Make Women Melt!
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  • @CoachMelannie
    @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Thanks so much for watching! Here's the link to my free masterclass that I promised you: coachmelannie.com/masterclass I can't wait to help you find the love you deserve! 😊
    P.S. If you'd like more videos like this one, remember to comment SPECIAL to let me know!

    • @theprolificnetwork4670
      @theprolificnetwork4670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Men are very intellectual you have to say what you mean by listening to her. My woman says I do not listen but she does not speak clearly. Men don't read between the lines they are very intellectual and instructional oriented. I feel hurt that my woman says I don't listen to her because I do. Thing I notice is that she does not listen to me. If we listened to each other we would actually be doing the things that we asked of each other.

    • @Dreamstate96
      @Dreamstate96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Melannie, my wife of 20 years is not intimate with me anymore. I'm 47 and she's 41, we have 3 children together. I love her dearly but she shows no interest in me anymore. I'm at a loss, please help

    • @AC-mp7cx
      @AC-mp7cx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      While these things help, women truly just want high value men foremost.

    • @johnkreese4706
      @johnkreese4706 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Heyyy coach Melanie, so this woman I like who I been texting/calling and got a date planned this week. She recently revealed yesterday that she is feminist and before we meet up she wants to know if I’m a feminist. Would you say that’s a red flag? I learned something new about her that’s for sure

    • @davidwells2312
      @davidwells2312 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think you are “special” :) I love that you are making videos with the conviction that you have with the Lord. It is not only what you say but it’s how you say it and your facial expressions and your body language! I have to say that I really love the video and everything you had to say. It helps me so much! Thank you

  • @thatdudekyle5690
    @thatdudekyle5690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    In my opinion, being a man means being calm, but firm. Knowing your boundaries, being a kind individual..but at the same time, not letting people walk all over you.

    • @BenThe-nx3le
      @BenThe-nx3le 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Sounds like my definition of a woman, also!

    • @oscarvanwalstijn6902
      @oscarvanwalstijn6902 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Being a man is about self control.
      Goals, ambitions, health and focus !

  • @Newgrist
    @Newgrist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    You yourself have perfected the art of smiling with your eyes, Coach.

  • @saskatchewan1913
    @saskatchewan1913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Just got up and watched your video with a cup of coffee. Your positive attidude always lifts my mood and gives me confidence to one day start dating again.Thank you, and keep smiling Melannie.

  • @klewis4377
    @klewis4377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Excellent topic! Thanks Coach!

  • @mr.goodwrench8273
    @mr.goodwrench8273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    SPECIAL. I like how you mentioned setting boundaries. That's important for both. I'm a big believer of courting. Thank you for another good video. I hope your Thanksgiving was great. God bless. 🙏

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your comment! Courting can certainly be a good thing! God bless! 😀

  • @whanatu6306
    @whanatu6306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is awesome. I was doing most these things and wasn't aware of it .

  • @ninjaMaxxor
    @ninjaMaxxor 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Special! Thank you for these points. The boundaries one is pretty helpful as well as the smiling one

  • @SaleemKhan-ce7gt
    @SaleemKhan-ce7gt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks a million Melannie for the spectacular stips you mentioned, I really appreciate you for making such an amazing video, keep it up.

  • @emen862
    @emen862 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are definitely a good motivational person, bless you more and more 🙏 ❤

  • @brentonmoore7344
    @brentonmoore7344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I honestly think you may be 1 of the best relationship advice coaches!!! No lie!! Everything I've listen to u say is 100% accurate.. Glad I came across your channel.. Definitely new subscriber!!!!

  • @michaelorloff4635
    @michaelorloff4635 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can tell you were very good at what you are talking about it is good to hear how down to earth your voice is for people to recognize how to keep a new relationship with somebody love it 🌈💛💯

  • @septimuswilliams5336
    @septimuswilliams5336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, so much for your advice and support much appreciated, have a wonderful weekend coming 😊 ❣

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your kind words! I'm so happy you like my videos 🙏

  • @andrewmckinley6571
    @andrewmckinley6571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Special, thanks for another wonderful video. It is amazing how much I am learning about myself.

  • @warrenvollaro2529
    @warrenvollaro2529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love coach Melanie, as a man, men really need this it's great, listen to her fellas she's 100% correct and she's pretty too !!!

  • @joebuckplanes3686
    @joebuckplanes3686 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is fantastic thank you. I’m totally gonna check out the master class right now. Love it.

  • @claytonhall4908
    @claytonhall4908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your videos. Please keep them coming 😍

  • @max2art
    @max2art ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Melannie, your kind of principle based coaching is truely SPECIAL. Thank you for all the great videos. Love to see keep them popping up with cool facts and a heart warming presentation. You are wonderful!

  • @notoriousd2473
    @notoriousd2473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Holy cow this melts my heart 😍

  • @marcuslopez1529
    @marcuslopez1529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very Insightful Video Coach Melanie.

  • @chrismcevoy2503
    @chrismcevoy2503 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would say your free master class is life-changing.

  • @chrisvolsicka1405
    @chrisvolsicka1405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Really like your videos Melannie! I have been married for going on 22 years and I do 95% of the things you are telling your subscribers to do. I have been fortunate to be with this same beautiful woman for all those years glad to see. Have a blessed day and thank you for the great videos

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for sharing!!

    • @quinnritiqal819
      @quinnritiqal819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've been married for 27 years and I think the last time my wife did something considerate for me was about 20 years ago.
      So remind me why I should worry about doing to something for her at this point?
      Keep in mind that I try to be considerate and think about making her life better and easier on a daily basis.

    • @quinnritiqal819
      @quinnritiqal819 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @J King There's no point. She's 52 and she's not going to change. It's not like she'll wake up one morning and think, "You know what? My life IS good enough for me! My husband IS good enough for me! I CAN be a nice person!"

    • @Juggernaut1972
      @Juggernaut1972 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @J King I did that. I grew mine back and now she's saying please when she asked me to do something. Usually it sounded like orders. I wasn't trying to show who was boss in this case. I just want to be treated as an equal. I am now. I'm much more receptive to her requests with doing things and I get treated with more respect. A win win.

    • @Juggernaut1972
      @Juggernaut1972 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @J King I simply told her that I'm not her servant, and that we are equals. Granted, I had to tell her in a tone that I meant it. I didn't yell. I rarely do. I think it's a waste of energy and you get better results with a firm tone. It's been beneficial for both of us.

  • @wewerjonathan2
    @wewerjonathan2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you are amazing and really help us guys who have no clue!!!!!!! Thanks :)

  • @joemorris3165
    @joemorris3165 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video!!! Need to see more like this!

  • @Marknyarko
    @Marknyarko ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very simple and practical. Thanks for these great insights

  • @jtorres5381
    @jtorres5381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is all great for the beginning, the fire eventually wears off, and the honeymoon ends in 3-6 months maybe sooner. Nobody makes videos on keeping that spark going or ways to keep it interesting.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm actually working a project right now that will help with that!

  • @sidlove5798
    @sidlove5798 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    thank you melanie so much!! happy holidays!! blessings peace to you and your family

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏

    • @sidlove5798
      @sidlove5798 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CoachMelannie welcome have a great weekend

  • @isaacmakokabonkanya8678
    @isaacmakokabonkanya8678 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good morning miss coach Melannie, thanx for the video it is a very beautiful one !

  • @BaronBoar
    @BaronBoar ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like how you approach finding an actual loving, lasting relationship, not just finding randoms to sleep with. I want love not nothing.

  • @MrYuvrajssingh
    @MrYuvrajssingh ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you Mel! It’s been a huge challenge really. It’s so complicated I use to think being tough,rough etc attracts but it actually can be a huge repellent for them. It’s important to know how much we will do for this whole process.. it’s important to build at every stage.

  • @rogershadrach2705
    @rogershadrach2705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Melannie, after watching this vedio, you've given me immeasurable confidence that I needed to know about the core of a female's heart. What a blessing!!! Keep coaching us guys--we need it, for sure!

  • @louisrutter6982
    @louisrutter6982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really enjoyed it, thank you

  • @Saritawaikhom
    @Saritawaikhom 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Special! Thank You So Much Coach! Keep Going ✨❤️💞!

  • @lemuelmadelo8517
    @lemuelmadelo8517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Falling in love is one of the best things in life, coach. Thanks for these videos. Looking forward to more videos!

  • @mimiloula4723
    @mimiloula4723 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Everything u said about us is amazingly true may God bless u 🌹

  • @dancole550
    @dancole550 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks. I really enjoy your videos. Please make more of them. Love your voice and your presentations have really helped me.

  • @pappamike6231
    @pappamike6231 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach Melanie, all of your tips are just common sense about the way you should treat anybody you care about.

  • @NickT1023
    @NickT1023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I like the one about the smile. I am always aware of that and to make sure that my smile is warm and inviting. As you said Melanie, it is more than just the mouth, it is also the eyes. I'd go on to say a smile with parted lips, showing the teeth, is extremely important. I've seen too many "smiles" where the lips are not parted and it looks more like a smirk, or that the person is angry.
    I've noticed that you've got a great smile where your cheeks are a part of it, scrunching up your nose. I just watched this video for the second time, this time with the sound off and you're facial expressions enhance the positive attitude of your message.
    We need more smiling people on this planet. Don't you think?

    • @johnnyquist8362
      @johnnyquist8362 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Smiling is null and void. People wear masks all the time.

  • @jonathanlangerman3100
    @jonathanlangerman3100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Melannie I was in a fog not too sure where I stood, watching a number of your videos because I'm filled with butterflies and my emotions are all over the place over a lady. I've been interested for the longest time and have decided to make the move to the next level. I want to say to you, thank you for passing on your knowledge professionally, in a natural way, and by the way, you have a beautiful smile 😁

  • @warrenlange6106
    @warrenlange6106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the great advice. Just getting back into dating and needed some coaching. Cheers

  • @deanraffington1017
    @deanraffington1017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ok my teacher thank u will start attending ur class more regularly. 👍👍

  • @aishteaishte7266
    @aishteaishte7266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is 100% accurate for me.

  • @jayh2730
    @jayh2730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Special! Miss Melanie, thank you. I just discovered you and this is the first video of yours that I've watched and you make so much sense. Thank you.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are so welcome! I'm happy you're here!

  • @rexdv8
    @rexdv8 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are absolutely right about men being confident enough to be kind to others, but also be stern when need be. Anytime I was in a relationship, nothing turned her on more than when I did favors for others, like carrying out groceries for someone who is elderly, or offering emotional support for someone else who needed it. Also, women find a man attractive who is good with children.

  • @abdulbakry9034
    @abdulbakry9034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are the best of creating confidence. Thanks a lot.

  • @brentonmoore7344
    @brentonmoore7344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Once again thank you for all your advice Melanie!!! I've been watching you for a few months now and finally landed my date with this high quality girl!!! Stay tuned for updates!!!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God bless! 😀

    • @dagaffer2269
      @dagaffer2269 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did it go? Did you bang it HARD?

  • @redbull1146
    @redbull1146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes you should))). I’ve been doing some of these compliments to a special pearl pursing her but in a way for wanting to marry her)))). Thanks for your wisdom ♥️

    • @redbull1146
      @redbull1146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love you soo much 💓more than life itself but not over our life giver which is Christ the lord ❤

  • @mauricemutabazi5956
    @mauricemutabazi5956 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Real talk. Educative indeed

  • @matthewlepak2878
    @matthewlepak2878 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your social skills are beyond great!

  • @ronkrueger-capt_koron6112
    @ronkrueger-capt_koron6112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Special! Melannie, I have been watching your videos for a good while now, over a year, and I love your advise. I'm an older guy, considered a senior citizen, and honestly with the pandemic, getting out and mixing with people has been extremely difficult and potentially dangerous for someone like myself. However, I recently went on one of those online dating services that is aimed at the older community, and I was matched with a lady that is a little younger than myself, and that has a lot of common interests and background. She has had matches that threw out red flags left and right and frankly she realizes she was burned by them. We've been in communication now for a little while, and I feel ok with her, and from what I've been able to get from our conversations, she is ok with me. I've looked back at our interactions, and because of the things you've told us about how to wow someone of the opposite sex, I've built up that confidence to not only talk to her on the phone, which we've been doing regularly now, but to meet in person. That will happen tomorrow, and we are both looking forward to it. Thank you for all the things you've taught us. Please keep up your wonderful videos. 🌹😊

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so happy for you!

    • @ronkrueger-capt_koron6112
      @ronkrueger-capt_koron6112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CoachMelannie The meet up went well, and we will definitely see each other again. We laugh and kid each other and had a great time together. Again, thank you for your videos. Also I always love those out takes that you have. They make me laugh. You have a great sense of humor.

    • @entertainmentworld4148
      @entertainmentworld4148 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you please tell me the name of the dating site you are talking about

    • @ronkrueger-capt_koron6112
      @ronkrueger-capt_koron6112 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@entertainmentworld4148The site is called Silver Singles. The lady I mentioned above didn't have any feelings for me, and vice versa. We've become good friends in spite of it. I've since met a different lady that I've been seeing weekly for the past month and a half or two months. She has shown a lot of care and we've become close. We aren't rushing into anything, and we enjoy each others company. I like this lady, and judging from her actions, I'm pretty sure she likes me. I've seen a lot of the signs that Melannie has mentioned in her videos. The body language is there. Now I have to admit, that for me this is a good thing as in spite of my physical challenges, I'm wheelchair bound, and have other health issues, she still is interested and they haven't scared her away. Only time will tell as to where this will go in the future. I might add, that this lady is only a year younger than myself.

    • @rthecomp423
      @rthecomp423 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How has it been going good sir?

  • @edm9704
    @edm9704 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Dear Coach Melannie, Thank you for your guidance in furthering relationships by treating the other person well and sincerely. I am working to make one partiular lady know she is deeply wanted and appreciated. I will watch your material, take more notes and put them into action. I am pursuing a woman who is 1,500 miles from me, and in Canada, but I am willing to travel, even to move. Thank you again.

  • @kenkrausse3624
    @kenkrausse3624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the excellent refresher course,

  • @wrongplanet1957
    @wrongplanet1957 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great to see you !

  • @robogreek3157
    @robogreek3157 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The name thing actually applies both ways... Your So right. I love when girls im attracted to says my name.... HEY ROBO! I love it

  • @frankcrawford416
    @frankcrawford416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think out of all the things you mentioned is to pursue her is the best one, but all are important. Out of all the things not to do is not to fail to protect her. She will remember that any maybe cause you and her to break up. But you have to do it with measure. God can teach you with appropriateness.

  • @michaelschaffer5984
    @michaelschaffer5984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the simple advice.

  • @speeklenetwork1366
    @speeklenetwork1366 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach Melannie, excellent content and training as usual! Roy Wade / International Life Academy

  • @georgerodriguez2987
    @georgerodriguez2987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    There’s nobody that melts my heart as a man I can care less about any women

    • @andydetweiler766
      @andydetweiler766 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can love women, or understand them, not both. They aren't long term anyway, so what's the point

    • @danm8004
      @danm8004 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hi incels!

    • @emmanuelmwamukonda6373
      @emmanuelmwamukonda6373 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Real talk from a Tyrone

  • @kingkanoworldmedia4389
    @kingkanoworldmedia4389 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think you keep our attention longer, not lose us at the next corner, and you put it all together, like a friend who really cares how we think.

  • @sunnymathais3506
    @sunnymathais3506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Superb and brilliant it is well explained by you and easy to learn

  • @jamesmarchetti3286
    @jamesmarchetti3286 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ! Seriously! Another second comment! In true humility you described my personality rather well! Most likely the way I was raised! Alot that you explained is great if you're already in a relationship which I do but I have never been good at initiating a Relationship or asking for a Date!

  • @chrischan3297
    @chrischan3297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’ve been in a 3.5 year relationship at the age of 2021, I definitely would love more help on healing and saving existing relationships :)

  • @Greg5711999
    @Greg5711999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I watched this video this morning and I thought about it and I have a few things I'd like to say about it. I think I do almost every one of them and it's a part of my personality. I believe that men and women should do these things for each other in every relationship (replace masculinity with Femininity) . Sadly that has not been my experience. A couple of years ago I realized that Every women I've ever known has used these points as a signal that she can use me for her needs and when she got everything she could get she tossed me aside for the next guy. Every one of them. Now I'm not going to change but I am not nearly as interested in dealing with the chaos these events cause me. Some might say "well you're dating the wrong women". The problem there has to do with barriers of entry to the relationship zone. 80% of women don't even consider me because I'm average height. And yes I've been told "oh, you're only 5'9"? Too bad. I liked you too. Good luck" so inafter 45 years of dating including 10 of marriage I've about had it with this kind of advice.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m sorry that happened! If you’d like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ God bless 🙏

    • @reiniermuntjewerff874
      @reiniermuntjewerff874 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Im 6'6" but never felt it was an advantage. Because maybe I am also a thinner person (78kg) .... If I had been 5'9" I would have felt much more confident!! 🙂🙂 I am too much aware of my hight 😞 Not prouwd of it eigther..

  • @judoforlife
    @judoforlife ปีที่แล้ว

    You really the best out there to give advice period . thank you

  • @Crapsshooter711
    @Crapsshooter711 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanx Ms Melannie, big time!

  • @michaelh7527
    @michaelh7527 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Been with my wife over 16 years and married just over 14. I am very much an introvert and she is an extrovert. I am that guy minding his business with a drink at the bar and she is firing up the crowd with karaoke and talking to her friends.
    I have always joked that she is way out of my league and bombshell gorgeous to me. She says I am like her rock and provide the stability and emotional support she needs. She also breaks me out of my shell from time to time and gets me to do new things..... It's hard to believe, but it's like Mr Rogers and Rihanna getting in a relationship 🤣🤣
    But I enjoy videos like this. I am always looking for ways to make her happy and keep us strong. I honestly don't want anyone else nor could I imagine being with anyone else.

    • @chaapu1784
      @chaapu1784 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did you two get together then? Would love to know it.

    • @michaelh7527
      @michaelh7527 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chaapu1784 We actually met back when Yahoo personals was a thing. I signed up for there service and wasn't having much luck. On the last day of membership, I sent her an icebreaker and she replied. We talked to each other on Yahoo messenger for almost two weeks before agreeing on a date. She lived with her mom about 30 minutes away. I was so nervous and excited 😊. I met her and her mom. We all talked for a while and finally headed out. We went to an OCharleys restaurant, saw a movie, went to mall and talked at her place for a while. I was on cloud 9 the entire date. I wasn't sure if she wanted a second date or not. She told me at the end that she wanted to go out again soon.
      As we got to know each other over the weeks, her extroverted self really come out. She just broke up with a guy about 6 months earlier who cheated on her. She said she really liked how calm and level I am. But we grew stronger and married just a little over 2 years after meeting. I will admit that it has caused a little rift here and there with us being opposites. She has stated I wish you would liven up a bit more during some occasions. But we are overall extremely happy together and have a daughter that started high school this year.....I feel extremely lucky to have her and can't imagine being with anyone else. She lets me enjoy my hobbies and free time as I do the same for her. If you are into astrology, I am a Libra and she is an Aries.

  • @jimtheauctioneer4891
    @jimtheauctioneer4891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great advice. There is a fine line between pursuing a woman and other pursuing. When do you give up the chase ?

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀

    • @eddykohlmann471
      @eddykohlmann471 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      When she isn't responding. There's always a reason when men get 'ghosted' for example. It took me a long time to work that out. I used to wait for an explanation. Not any more 😎

  • @michaelrodriguez3329
    @michaelrodriguez3329 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one of the best videos I've ever seen

  • @maxameddeeqaxmed6530
    @maxameddeeqaxmed6530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks so much.you are one of the best teacher in the emotions of the love keep going teacher

  • @GEORGIOARCADE
    @GEORGIOARCADE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Hope your Thanksgiving was lovely Melannie 😊🙌🧡 I'm beyone thankful for your life changing coaching videos that make soo much sense. I appreciate you sharing these 11 things that can help change our dating experiences. I do think it's important for women to put in the same effort to win a guy heart too. Cool enough that i bewn naturally doing some of these and i never realized they had this kinda impact. Anyways, God Bless

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope your Thanksgiving was a good one! I’m happy my videos are helping! 😀 It is important to find a gal who is also working on being her best self!

    • @GEORGIOARCADE
      @GEORGIOARCADE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Obscure Production Facts! Dating is a two way street, equal effort on both ends even in the early dating/talking stage.

  • @d.b.6788
    @d.b.6788 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We men are works in progress, well done!

  • @VictorRVND
    @VictorRVND 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I certainly don't have any idea of how did I ended watching this video. But omg Melannie you have a beautiful voice! Loved it, also thanks for the info, there where a couple of things I wasn't aware of. Ty.

  • @krnlakingsfan
    @krnlakingsfan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Melannie: loving your content. Can you do a video on whether or not you are a rebound bf? Thanks.

  • @TheSoulCrisis
    @TheSoulCrisis ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your videos are awesome and a gift to mankind!

  • @Heartford
    @Heartford 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, this was most helpful, great insight!

  • @joedufek2810
    @joedufek2810 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative. Thank you 😊

  • @indoripassport
    @indoripassport 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm a guy and i would love it if a girl treats me this way. So this works both ways. Guys also like it when girls treat them this way.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True! I would not suggest getting involved with a woman who doesn't treat you this way. A high quality woman will always treat you right!

    • @indoripassport
      @indoripassport 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CoachMelannie You are right. I already have a high quality woman in my life

  • @PRdude
    @PRdude 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I was able to show that I remembered a friend's dog's name twice, and I was happy about that. So if you know a woman who has a pet, refer to it by its name as much a possible.

  • @randyoliver2486
    @randyoliver2486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you. I guess I do most of this naturally but it's good to know what helps.

  • @JamesCarrierSHY.
    @JamesCarrierSHY. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your personality Mel and the way you think. Happy new years

  • @mattsimpson1351
    @mattsimpson1351 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Special! 🌞🌟
    You have Listening at the correct placement for #1 spot!! That is the most important trait someone can do for another person! If I want to attract her I must listen to her, learn more about her and show my respect and create a bond. If I pay attention to her more....the more she will open up to me! Plus I want to be remembered too, so if I don't listen to her......why would she want to listen to me??
    The gift of giving! This reminds me of my thesis....."Every day is a gift!.....Step #1 is to be present! 🎁 If the guy is attracting her he has the main gift completed. (Shouldn't have to buy her) Once in awhile gifts are needed to show her she's extra special and/or which leads to Romancing her!
    Eye contact is important for me! I want to "light up" everytime I see her! Vise versa with her as well! I have been practicing smiling more! Smiling with my eyes so I "light up" her world!
    Thank you for your encouragement!! 🙏

  • @prajibn8912
    @prajibn8912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ma sha Allah! I can learn so much about how to communicate well ...from this professional coach. Thanks so much, Coach Melannie.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad it was helpful!

    • @thesocialvoice1100
      @thesocialvoice1100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Masha Allah ???? ☹️ Wtf bro ????

    • @alianimator4126
      @alianimator4126 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@thesocialvoice1100 it s a way of saying thank you , fyi

    • @Idkmyusername_xd
      @Idkmyusername_xd ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@thesocialvoice1100it means thank you in another language dummy

    • @MyFootYourFace
      @MyFootYourFace 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thesocialvoice1100what you mean wtf bro?

  • @josedosanjos2200
    @josedosanjos2200 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This channel is nice ! Thanks for sharing this.

  • @joeldunn2850
    @joeldunn2850 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your advice.. I wish I could find that special lady to apply it !!

  • @kayskala7640
    @kayskala7640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My wife passed away. I have been talking to a younger lady. Amazing how you are correct about the steps to win her. I done it. I will be meeting her are as she tells me our daughter can't wait. She does want marriage 💑

  • @tomb.7582
    @tomb.7582 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Well done once again! Your possitive approach with a sence of humor is beyond inspiring. I am a a dedicated Christian man who works to inspire others to be all they can be! Faced many challenges in life including major health issues & fought to come back to be even stronger at 69 years of age. Very fit for my age & been told look years younger than my age. It takes a big effort & it works. Also know how to dress up simple & look classy on a limited buget. You are one of the best motivators out there. Found out about you on you-tube. Thanks you for what you do to make a big difference in a very positive way. Sincerely, Tom. (Fellow Christian Brother & huge supporter) 😇🇺🇸🎹💒

  • @agostinhomaiadossantos9018
    @agostinhomaiadossantos9018 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Melannie, You're just amazing, I love this video, I like your smiling explanation is powerful, dear Coach Melannie. Great one. Looking forward to watch more.

  • @eldonengbino1064
    @eldonengbino1064 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a wonderful topic for all!
    New viewer and subscriber - thank you for the work do!
    God bless you!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks and welcome! I'm so happy you're here!

  • @innerpeacefindings671
    @innerpeacefindings671 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Being a good man, kind man, gentlemen always get Friendzone first because women always chase tha badboy first. I cannot understand how women mind work.

  • @chrismcevoy2503
    @chrismcevoy2503 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A girl I knew in 9th grade named Angela Foster just made my heart melt and gave me butterflies.

  • @davethompson6201
    @davethompson6201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes, I do believe I'm learning about myself & my Sherfy. Ya see I do that almost daily. Yep I call her my Sweet Sherry. Or sometimes just watching her @ dinner or @ an event. Keep the good work. This my 1st response & only my second viewing your site. I will be seeing you again. We are both Christians & she goes to my church also. Be Blessed! Dave the Buggyman

  • @nathnaielnigatu9462
    @nathnaielnigatu9462 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is good ! good job

  • @JonnyJungle77
    @JonnyJungle77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Very good points for sure. Thank you Melannie.
    Learn everyone's name, man or woman. I have a goal to learn everyone's name where I work for some reason.
    I used to be extremely shy, but I've found ways to kind of open up. I'll always be shy and reserved to some degree.
    Take a moment to learn to pronounce foreign names properly. Especially Hispanic ones if you're in the US. It's very easy to learn Spanish pronunciation.

  • @Nikolebichon
    @Nikolebichon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How about more coaches advising women about what men like?

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm working on a channel for women. It should be up soon.

    • @claudegalipeau4886
      @claudegalipeau4886 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CoachMelannie I sense that men have done decades of work of learning about what women like/want/desire... I truly believe the main obstacle in forming long lasting happy relationships right now are that women are extremely resistant (due to divisive feminist programming) to consider what men like/want/desire and how important this information is for both sides of the relationship.

  • @vannilian2023
    @vannilian2023 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it! God bless you coach

  • @billybreeden3551
    @billybreeden3551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey my name is Billy and I've been watching the videos that you make and thank you so much I'm learning a lot

  • @t.o.o.smooth5870
    @t.o.o.smooth5870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love the positivity and optimism, but it's hard to put these things into play when dealing with most modern woman. Online dating and Sexual Revolution 2.0 has really changed the dating dynamic between men and women. Women have become much more choosey, entitled, and are only going after the top 20% of men.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀

    • @hafizshah2219
      @hafizshah2219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are absolutely right I also feel there is something wrong somewhere. She might help somehow?

    • @hafizshah2219
      @hafizshah2219 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CoachMelannie Dear This matter belongs to the nature of species. Nothing can be done ! But write us something impressive can you?

    • @pisomark
      @pisomark 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you are a chad and she is wet for you, whatever you do will melt her "heart".
      If you are not, whatever you do is probable sexual harassment.
      If you are her beta provider by long ago, aka hubby/boyfriend, she will fake good response at all this useless trickery, or she gets irritated.. Ask every nagging wife's husband.
      But men lives to lie to theirself about the nature of the dinamics between sexes... I guess a goofd lie is better than an ugly truth

  • @michaellegrand3892
    @michaellegrand3892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nothing I do is making them melt. They are rather like dry ice. Going from solid to gas and then floating away.

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well, are you working to improve yourself?

    • @michaellegrand3892
      @michaellegrand3892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GUITARTIME2024 Yes, but I admit I could do more. regards ML.

  • @mathewdsouza3397
    @mathewdsouza3397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have a joyful, positive attitude that makes you so attractive. And a killer smile! God Bless.

  • @troyhayes6425
    @troyhayes6425 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have just started watching your videos on TH-cam today and i can tell that you know a lot of important information with Men and Women and I do appreciate you for sharing what you know to the public on TH-cam Facebook and continue to keep up the great work I will keep watching your videos and thank you and have a great special day