Is this fate worse than death? If not, then what is? PS: I was wondering, I was thinking about it. There have been thousands of examples and millions of failures, but they still do it. I don't know why, but they keep trying. Is there any example of this phenomenon working?
Also it's normal for older married men to have fun with younger women, and the wife just agrees on it. Older men have their needs and only young women can satisfy it
Whenever your spouse suggests having an open relationship, it's just an excuse to support their infidelity. Don't be a part of it, dump them and walk out.
Anyone who suggests an open relationship is either already cheating or wants to cheat without the guilty conscience. Just break up and move on to someone who will be loyal to you.
@@adrianmizen5070if you can prove that she cheated on you, you have an advantage in court also: don't marry one after knowing them for just a year - yeah cheating can even occur in decade long relationships but you are much more likely to see early signals of infidelity or lack of loyalty
I had a girlfriend suggest an open relationship. I told her I was all for it. She tried to call it off when I invited her younger sister out. I dumped her and kept seeing the sister.
I used to sleep with a girl that told me her and her husband were divorced. Came to find out 3 months into fooling around she was not divorced and not seperated. I was in the shower after i just got done clapping her out and I had over heard her husband crying on the phone with her in the other room. She thought i couldnt hear all that and tried playing it off like he was the manipulative monster. Never talked to her again but what a animal cnt.
When really she was being the actual manipulative bitch, for she lied to you and made you partake into her adultery unbeknownst to you, and she must've hid it from her husband until the truth came out or something. So not only did she cause harm to her partner, but she even made someone else unrelated, you in that case, become an accomplice in causing said harm without their (your) knowledge/consent. Simply revolting. Did you perhaps ever get in touch with the husband at some point or not at all?
Open relationships are such cancer. It is preferrable to stay single and alone than to willingly allow people to wreck your home. Some men are so tired of being alone that they would rather put up with this, when in reality this being accepted by them is part of the reason most men are alone in the first place.
This is an example of a relationship dynamic that was doomed to fail anyway and is to do with the Woman not being that into him and the guy having low self esteem. Some people like open relationships because it allows for intimacy and connection as well as freedom
yeah but what if the guy initiates it first and is into it? sure the ones that just settle for it are pretty sad but you gotta remember, there's plenty of dudes who are really into it and often try to convince their lovers to play around with others.
First 30 secs literally my job. Except I just tell them straight the VGA was loose. If you start saying things like "something was wrong with the code and I fixed it", they remember that, and every little issue they cause they start blaming on the code and demanding the code is fixed permanently, blame you for not doing a good job of fixing the code, complaining to their superiors that you wont fix their code, and so on. Better to tell em straight, the cable was not plugged in.
Exactly. I used to tell nothing about the reasons of error when I was new in company. This way you can become nice guy who can solve any problem. It makes you more popular. But you'll have to run over the office all day to fix people stupidity. Now I'm telling the truth and trying to educate people in basic things about computers. It's really useful for those who actually want to do their job. And I can play WoW more during the day :)
This is an example of a relationship dynamic that was doomed to fail anyway and is to do with the Woman not being that into him and the guy having low self esteem. Some people like open relationships because it allows for intimacy and connection as well as freedom
The real horror is that the guy did nothing about it. He didn't even leave - he just sat down and cried. That's horrifying. Imagine being so powerless in your own life, as a man, that you can't even get up and leave because you're just that weak and frail. Imagine what his parents were like.
Got wrapped up in the story and was feeling awful, then I paused it, took a deep breath and realized I don’t have to worry about any of this. The feeling of relief was akin to waking up “late for school” only to realize you graduated 10 years ago and it’s your day off.
godly response. only if you werent foolish enough to marry though, if you are then you can only blame yourself when she takes you to the "cleaners" as they like to say
@@tangi2538Idubbbz is a TH-camr who was hated when it was revealed that he wasn't a fascist edgelord but rather a very open minded progressive; something that his core fanbase opposes.
I had a gay roommate who was actually really down to earth, and I started hanging out with him and his boyfriend and mutual straight friends. Then his boyfriend invited another guy into the picture. There was something creepy about this 3rd Man. I could see how much of a rip off open relationships are. Eventually the bf married the new guy. I think of the quote from Jesus "He who serves two masters will despise one and love the other"
yeah, except for the fact that this quote refers to the division between living your life as God wants you to and living a life based on earning money and things. Actually the bible condemns being homosexual but still... yeah
@@gatosetzo yeah, I know I didn't quote it exactly in the context, Jesus being asked if he's a trick but Satan, but I feel like his wisdom applies to other situations as well. A second job I had kept asking me more of me, while making me feel guilty about past mistakes. It was a tough decision if I should leave or not, but I was thinking of the "two masters" quote
@@vico_dinner there's the TH-camr Destiny. It wouldn't have been as bad if it were an experiment he tried and failed, but he was telling other young men to do this, and I imagine, calling people who disagree closed minded
@@vico_dinner there's the TH-camr Destiny. It wouldn't have been as bad if it were an experiment he tried and failed, but he was telling other young men to do this, and I imagine, calling people who disagree closed minded
An open relationship is solely for a woman’s benefit. When she asks for one, it’s a not so subtle way of telling you she’s no longer sexually interested in you but doesn’t want to lose the financial benefits of having you around. That bit at the end where the dude is streaming while his “girlfriend” is making out with another man is so painful to watch, the real world version of that was just sad.
I get it, kinda, I was in a poly situation Buuuut we both agreed ahead of time on girl #2, and that girl was my friend 😊 The key is both knowing and being ok with who you bring in
I was 150 KG single (never dated anyone ), was lonely, had chaotic life, illiterated, uneducate, stuttered alot, and ect. At 23 i stopped listening to people specialy parents ( even thou they loved me alot ), and paid attention to good painful toughts that requies rely on self rather others. Im 98kg bodybuilder now ( 25Y ) And actually so happy and satisfied that i've never dated anyone. This month 2Times girls tried to hit on me and yet i decided to remain single and enjoy improving. ( therefore i could focus on self-educating and disicpline ). Now i am able to talk Persian without stutter and fluently ( my own langauge ), i also can speak english and almost Germany. Guys please listen to warning voice, let the fear of failing leads you to darkest moment, thereby you'll find unexpected light and notice it's been there you just had to see with different perspective. But only If you are honest and Open-minded enough.
You are unironically the ubermensch. You did it anon. You found your way up the fucking mountain! Don't ever let that fire inside of you sputter or smolder, let nobody take it from you.
@@H-S-M you need to build a concret Confidence to youself with logical and inevitable proof ( basicly you cant tell yourself you are smart or handsome if you argue with people about that rather keeping it to yourself. You cant just basicly love life without accepting its pain to reach entlightment, i would personaly suggest you to read book even one page a day ( Not E-Books not PDf not freaking podcasts with prominent faces anywhere ) only Texts and google translation. Rely on self toughts and imagination with help of words within each sentence of a book.
Open relationships will never be balanced. A woman can find a man much easier than a man finding a woman. I'd dump anyone that suggests an open relationship
@@delfi7077 It is infinitely easier to meet women as a man. The bar is below sea level right now. The problem is young men aren't even shooting their shot.
@@MrLavajetIts funny as fuck too, because both Destiny and Aba mentioned moments before it that people would likely clip it out of context and it would go viral
Great point. I get that there's a lot of evil women out there, but there are also loyal, kind and beautiful women out there. Nothing is over, nothing. There's still hope.
Whoever is weak enough to accept an open relationship (having more than one person having bedroom fun with whomever you’re with) gets exactly what’s expected to happen. You don’t love yourself if you allow that whatsoever.
I remember watching that documentary on polyamorous relationships who tried to paint it as that perfect lifestyle… and ended with the main couple officially separating at the end to move with their side pieces 😅 so yeah… don’t be dumb, cheaters only deserve to be dumped.
I really wish the internet wasn't a thing. Although it's amazing to connect with people across the world, the damage it has done far outweighs the benefits. Before the internet, you just lived...
@@l__l2328if weren’t for the internet I wouldn’t have be able keep a relationship with my bf when he had to move. We have been living together now since 2020. Open relationships have been a thing for awhile. Especially like the 1950s and 1960s where there were “swingers”. Though I got to admit at the Internet made people a little too “open-minded” in some sense.
Social media and online dating has ruined relationships because anyone and everyone thinks they have tons of great options so instead of working on keeping a relationship good when things get tough people look for a “better option” but reality is no relationship is perfect. At the same time I’m not saying stay in an abusive or toxic relationship either. Also people don’t take time between relationships and keep monkey branching to a new person. It’s not just women but men who are not actually single also use online dating always looking for the next best thing.
Having lived it, I can say that open relationships are a slow rot that eats away at every fiber of your being. Watching your partner drift from person to person, their attention constantly dedicated to someone new, someone to whom you will be consistently compared. Meanwhile, you have no grounds to complain. Despite everything, you agreed to be in it, after all.
@@Gyatttmunch Oh yeah, plenty better. It's not an experience I'd recommend anyone else, outside of phenomenally specific circumstance, so it's a warning I'll readily give out.
Hope you're doing better! I was wondering, why'd you say yes? Were you afraid of losing your partner? You dont have to respond if you don't feel comfortable. I just want my second relationship to last, and I'd hate for it to end up like this because I was afraid of being alone.
It's not love if ur relationship starts and ends with only one of you, only one of you matter for both of you and only one of you gets all the support. If u think that person you are with gets all you can give them but they doesn't give you anything back then you are nothing more than a slave to that person and that relationship. There's no disgrace in living alone, and it is better than living in relationship in which your feelings doesn't matter. There's plenty fish in the sea, you don't have to stick to that toxic one.
Thanks for this very important video! Ngl im getting triggered and God tiered red pill rage just watching this, ive been through this circle MANY times and young men need to avoid these situations altogether!
God loves us and has better, Therefore Turn to Jesus Christ (God), He is the only way to salvation. Read the NKJV Bible, the new testament very important and get baptised. ✝️✝️ ♥️ ♥ ♥️ ✝️✝️
@@kacperkwiatek8063 No. I don't think so. But, a partner who can go around and be with other people thinks you're not enough for them. Best to depart with your dignity intact.
@@qq84 yeah, most of the calls are user error. We had a guy who would leave himself signed into the classroom computer and fly into a rage if someone signed him out. He taught public speaking, ironically. College is a joke. I never went, just worked there. I worked with small business owners before that and they were infinitely more intelligent.
All right, Story time: there's this girl in my college who's a junior, and she approached me in the library, initially because she needed some help for her studies. We eventually started hanging out more and more, and she eventually confessed to me that she liked me and wanted to date me. But I was still my old introverted self deep down, and this was my final year (internship) So I told her that we'll just stick to being friends for now because I had to focus on my exams for post graduation and I believed in having a long term relationship over just casual relationships. We still hung out, and she even treated me on my birthday. But eventually, she reached her second year and she got busy with studies and other college related work, or so I thought. We started hanging out less and less. And unfortunately for me, I slowly started catching feelings for her and started thinking that she was beautiful, the more time we spent apart. A lot of my guy friends were also egging me on to just go for it and make our relationship official, but I still hesitated, because of my exams and introvertedness deep down. Finally, we got the news (just very recently) that our exams got postponed by several months. This was a huge deal for everyone because we actually got time to study after our internship ended. I just said "fuck it" and decided to finally take the next step on Valentine's day. So I asked her if she was free, and she said that she was busy with college stuff, and she was also busy on this weekend....yeah that was a lie. Apparently, she started getting cozy with this other guy, and a couple of my friends had seen her hanging out with this dude earlier. They warned me about it but I didn't listen, thinking that she was just a mutual friend. And she was actually free on Valentine's day, apparently hanging out with that same Guy, holding hands and doing God knows what behind my back. I just became numb after hearing about it. My friends consoled me, and advised me to just block her number and insta and cut her off. I've done that, and I got a few missed calls from her. But I don't know what to feel now, I just feel...blank. Not even sad or anything like that. I just hope I can move on.
Let the past be the past, ignore her and move on with your life. Hang out with your friends, respect and love yourself and maybe one day God will bless you with a woman who's actually worth your time. Don't settle for disrespect, ever.
From her point of view it looks like you rejected her "nicely" and if she would doubt that maybe you had some interest in her you solidified that rejection with being busy and unavailable for her until she moved on. Did you expect her to waste her life and wait for guy who clearly from her point of view looked like have no interest in her? Nobody no matter how much they loved or cared for someone will wait forever for "no chance" who clearly shows disinterest. There was no bullets to dodge, you never even had anything and that was your choice because she was willing but you rejected her at first time she asked. Women rarely asks first and if they do they will do only once, the ones who "chase" men have ulterior motives or are dangerous. Move on and next time think before you speak/act so you don't have to spend life regretting your own decisions.
The whole point of a relationship is the exclusivity part. If you partner is sleeping around, then what's even the point? Open Relationships are like "Relationship Breaks". When it has come this far, it's already over.
Rozwala mnie to, że gdyby świadomie ktoś mnie zapytał jak były ubrane te laski z filmu w tej scenie to w życiu bym nie odpowiedział, ale okazuje się, że gdzieś głęboko jednak człowiek pamięta.
@@CriticalEnjoyermost of these ‘experts’ learned everything they know from books written by other ‘experts’, who were taught by experts who read everything they know. Ask yourself just how much of their knowledge comes from outside the walls of an academy.
Just remember not every person is the same, and cataloging people is not a good idea, as every person is different one way or another, if you wish to stay single because you simply aren't interested in a relationship that's fine, but don't get demotivated cuz of a video portraying a problem regarding relationship, after all, most of us probably wouldn't tolerate cheating
If she likes the 13% enough to sleep with them she isn't wife material or gf material. That's a huge red flag in a person. It shows they do not have a good moral compass and can't make choices for the best if their lives and their families
4:50 that poke at Destiny 😂😂. So true!! Excellent video as always. It’s like you’re a fly on the wall of all these different lives! Banger video as always!
millennia asks "is this worse than death?" but one man gave an answer to this thousands of years ago "worse than death is an evil woman in the house" king Solomon
I'd rather not even bother falling in love. Knowing that at any given moment, my significant other can just arbitrarily do something like this shows me how insignificant they think I am while to me, any other person was null and void compared to them. If they want to do that stuff, they can go right ahead *without me being a part of it. I refuse to stick around for that garbage; we're through at that point.* For me, I'd rather just cut out the middle man and not even bother, which is not good at all but damn; the pain of being alone pales in comparison to the pain of such a betrayal.
OpenAI is working on AGI, and soon we’ll have android waifus that’ll never cheat, lie, manipulate and being a tyrant. Let the open market buying and selling eggs be as common as spermbanks. The artificial wombs will gestate the babies. If women weren’t delusional, they’d snapped out of their power fantasy a long time ago. Alas, we’re where we are now and will need to find solutions to this social Great Civilizational Filter. Maybe we’ll pull through after all, and not end with the same fate as ‘Mouse Utopia’. 🤷
Hey, I hear you, and I get why you're feeling this way. But let me tell you, playing it safe by avoiding love altogether isn't really winning. It's more like losing by default, you know? You might think you're protecting yourself, but you're also missing out on all the good stuff that comes with being in a loving relationship. You don't have to rely on someone else for your happiness. You can learn to be in a loving relationship without losing yourself in it. And if you find yourself in a relationship that's not serving you, it's okay to walk away. It takes guts and building up your own sense of self-worth, but that's how you win at this game.
If you don't feel OK with this, better don't concede and end the "relationship". For some supposedly this works, but is not everyone. If you really want to keep jumping from one person to other, better don't have formal partner, don't be a shitty person just to have something secure that can pay your bills or support you just when you want.
An avrage man has to work hard to get a partner, an average woman can have almost anyone by just flirting once. As long as things will be this way, open relationships will always be a bad idea. The only thing that makes sense is a friendship with benefits, but nothing more.
You obviously are not woman but also have no mother, sister, women friends, daughters, any woman near you if you think it is so easy for women. To get bed stuff maybe is easy and flirting (once) could work on some thirsty incel but effort (even when it's near 0), risk to get unalived because so many men are crazy and hate women, risk of diseases and unwanted pregnancy, time wasted to get far less than what woman can do herself is not worth it at all. Even relationships are not worth with large % of men because they think relationship/marriage is finish line after which they need to stop trying to do anything useful even basic stuff like shower but start demanding, whining, cheating, drain women's energy and other things no woman wants from man. Simple math, no man is worth women's time if total balance he brings in her life is negative and so many men today are doing exactly that. Be positive or at least neutral addition in her life, if you think it is hard work then you need to take a critical look at your own life and reasons why you want to (trap) have relationship with women. Far too many men with this mindset are working out, cleaning, cooking and "working hard" by pretending to be who they are not just to trap women into relationship/marriage after which they release true ugly self and then they act surprised why women divorces them.
@@rengurenge You are a very damaged, traumatized, defective individual… bitter and projecting your inadequacies and insecurities upon others. You have my pity.
This is actually sad to see how relationships and role of men and women changed in the western culture. It is so disgusting but painful to see at the same time. Feeling so bad for people in the west.
@@somkhandagumbi Sure they will, because other people they get involved with can still lie, and they do it all the time. A lengthy filtering process is needed before doing that kind of stuff with anyone, if you really want something that lasts.
"You can be with anyone so can I" Says the part of the relationship who can have sex everytime it wants. Women choose when they have sex, man choose if marriage happens. Propose open relationship after marriage isn't just disgusting, is unfair.
Open relationships presuppose that men and women are the same psychologically, physiologically and hormonally. What's good for the goose isn't necessarily good for the gander.
@@elitedima9672 nope ....usa is not center of the world , like you people think....everyone has different culture which these western countries...so no way these are corrupting anytime soon
what a great video, the feeling you get while watching this perfectly shown psychological masterpiece, toped with a great background music that fit perfect in this dark topic. i love it
but Destiny liked being in a open relationship since he could get laid due to his fame. It was his wife that hated it and that's why she left him for the mono relationship twink
An Open relationship can work, but only when it is truly double sided open, and also both partners are not dependent on each other financially. Then it works, because it is equal on both sides. If it is not equal, then the opening is abusive, like with any other abuse in the relationship.
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Is this fate worse than death? If not, then what is?
PS: I was wondering, I was thinking about it. There have been thousands of examples and millions of failures, but they still do it. I don't know why, but they keep trying. Is there any example of this phenomenon working?
Yes this fate is worse because at the end of the day you can still die an honorable death.
Yeah. Women should be allowed to have fun. Also why do you care? It's not your relationship, worry about yourself lol
Also it's normal for older married men to have fun with younger women, and the wife just agrees on it. Older men have their needs and only young women can satisfy it
Get side chicks. The envy will keep the main either in check or you break up and be finally free from the wench.
this isn't worse than death, but suffering threw it is.
Whenever your spouse suggests having an open relationship, it's just an excuse to support their infidelity. Don't be a part of it, dump them and walk out.
facts its just a scam she wants to play the field and use you as a safety net
mag dump*
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And if you want it to…just be single. I don’t get it.
You've posted 3 separate comments on this video so far. Take a break.
An open relationship is like having two kids and taking one to disney while the other stays home to do house-shores
Chores
being a Cinderella
How?
@@fenrir834 because it simply doesn't work to kill off the intimacy so someone else can fill in that roll, leaving you off with the leftovers
@@ahhtism3386 Is intimacy all there is to a relationship? Or is it that you view sex and making love as the same thing?
Anyone who suggests an open relationship is either already cheating or wants to cheat without the guilty conscience. Just break up and move on to someone who will be loyal to you.
if you leave, she gets half your assets plus child support and alimony, because the divorce laws think it's 1850 and women can't get jobs.
@@adrianmizen5070i think he meant like if you have gf
And she starts doing this
@@adrianmizen5070that's why my ass isn't getting married.
@@adrianmizen5070if you can prove that she cheated on you, you have an advantage in court
also: don't marry one after knowing them for just a year - yeah cheating can even occur in decade long relationships but you are much more likely to see early signals of infidelity or lack of loyalty
get revenge*
I had a girlfriend suggest an open relationship. I told her I was all for it. She tried to call it off when I invited her younger sister out. I dumped her and kept seeing the sister.
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I used to sleep with a girl that told me her and her husband were divorced. Came to find out 3 months into fooling around she was not divorced and not seperated. I was in the shower after i just got done clapping her out and I had over heard her husband crying on the phone with her in the other room. She thought i couldnt hear all that and tried playing it off like he was the manipulative monster. Never talked to her again but what a animal cnt.
When really she was being the actual manipulative bitch, for she lied to you and made you partake into her adultery unbeknownst to you, and she must've hid it from her husband until the truth came out or something. So not only did she cause harm to her partner, but she even made someone else unrelated, you in that case, become an accomplice in causing said harm without their (your) knowledge/consent. Simply revolting.
Did you perhaps ever get in touch with the husband at some point or not at all?
Open relationships are such cancer. It is preferrable to stay single and alone than to willingly allow people to wreck your home. Some men are so tired of being alone that they would rather put up with this, when in reality this being accepted by them is part of the reason most men are alone in the first place.
This is an example of a relationship dynamic that was doomed to fail anyway and is to do with the Woman not being that into him and the guy having low self esteem. Some people like open relationships because it allows for intimacy and connection as well as freedom
@@theogillan5510actual cope holy moly
No, the reason most men are alone is because they aren't desirable and do not know how to interact with women.
yeah but what if the guy initiates it first and is into it? sure the ones that just settle for it are pretty sad but you gotta remember, there's plenty of dudes who are really into it and often try to convince their lovers to play around with others.
@@theogillan5510 So another apology for a godless society that has abandoned any semblance of morality?
this is kind of depressing not because it's showing sad situations, but because these type of things happen in real life
These things that are happening in real life are a sad situation in itself.
True @@sierra6280
Sometimes it needs to happen
You basically describe the idea of this hole channel...
The men who willingly choose this life deserve no respect at all. They should be ashamed to even show their face outside.
If you willingly get into an open relationship, you deserve what's coming.
how do you unwillingly get into one lmao
@@gnoomlord by being a cuck and liking it lmao
@@gnoomlord The video's case
@@jorgitoislamico4224 in that case the unwilling participants deserve worse than the willing ones
Its cool if you're keeping it casual and nothing that serious
But when you are living with that person its completely foul lmao
First 30 secs literally my job. Except I just tell them straight the VGA was loose. If you start saying things like "something was wrong with the code and I fixed it", they remember that, and every little issue they cause they start blaming on the code and demanding the code is fixed permanently, blame you for not doing a good job of fixing the code, complaining to their superiors that you wont fix their code, and so on. Better to tell em straight, the cable was not plugged in.
😂
Calm down nerd
Truee, 99 percent of the time a simple restart or plug out plug in fixes these kinds of issues
Computer science moment ❤
Exactly. I used to tell nothing about the reasons of error when I was new in company. This way you can become nice guy who can solve any problem. It makes you more popular. But you'll have to run over the office all day to fix people stupidity.
Now I'm telling the truth and trying to educate people in basic things about computers. It's really useful for those who actually want to do their job. And I can play WoW more during the day :)
If she suggests an "open relationship", just know she already cheated and no longer wants to go through the effort of hiding it.
Open relationship is like leaving your house door open on purpose. Only you are to blame for anyone who enters.
Indeed, and the people who actively try to convince everyone that leaving your door open is good definitely shouldn't be mentioned or anything.
This is an example of a relationship dynamic that was doomed to fail anyway and is to do with the Woman not being that into him and the guy having low self esteem. Some people like open relationships because it allows for intimacy and connection as well as freedom
So basically your admitting to cheat on your partner without any consequences
In this case the house opened its own door
I know people who have an open relationship and always leave the door to their house open.
LOL, she opened up the relationship all on her own without even discussing it with the guy until AFTER the fact. Ahhh that's horror.
The real horror is that the guy did nothing about it. He didn't even leave - he just sat down and cried. That's horrifying. Imagine being so powerless in your own life, as a man, that you can't even get up and leave because you're just that weak and frail.
Imagine what his parents were like.
@@MNAHN-T.GOF-NN Jesus Christ, NTR is supposed to be fiction, not an instruction manual.
@@Zennishiable reality surpasses fiction
She probably never would have, had she not been caught red handed.
There's a saying in my country. "It's best to be alone than in poor company".
Edit:
I'm Portuguese so I guess it's Latin thing.
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Mejor solo que mal acompañado 😁😏
Meglio soli che mal accompagnati
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Got wrapped up in the story and was feeling awful, then I paused it, took a deep breath and realized I don’t have to worry about any of this. The feeling of relief was akin to waking up “late for school” only to realize you graduated 10 years ago and it’s your day off.
omfg you're right, THANK YOU JESUS!!
Yeah, like 99% percent of this stuff is just hyperbolic misery porn
Whenever I feel like i am a failure, milleniathinker makes sure to remind me I could fall *alot* further
Women benefit more in an open relationship.
So, if she asks for an open relationship, you're screwed
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If she asks for an open relationship, well, just ask Will Smith how that's working out for him
If she ask that just run, disappear is one of the only skills a man could use in this type of situations
Dont replay, dont get mad (you are powerless)
Just tell her yes and then get lost, never give your name or other info
If she asks for an open relationship, leave her
Her: "I want to open our relationship."
Him: "Relationship, over."
Correct response
godly response. only if you werent foolish enough to marry though, if you are then you can only blame yourself when she takes you to the "cleaners" as they like to say
The fall of Idubbbz is something to be studied
Denial Denial Denial
I didn't understand. Could you explain?
@@tangi2538 he is a cuck.
@@tangi2538Idubbbz is a TH-camr who was hated when it was revealed that he wasn't a fascist edgelord but rather a very open minded progressive; something that his core fanbase opposes.
@@tangi2538pretty sure is about idubbz gf having an onlyfans
I had a gay roommate who was actually really down to earth, and I started hanging out with him and his boyfriend and mutual straight friends. Then his boyfriend invited another guy into the picture. There was something creepy about this 3rd Man. I could see how much of a rip off open relationships are. Eventually the bf married the new guy. I think of the quote from Jesus "He who serves two masters will despise one and love the other"
yeah, except for the fact that this quote refers to the division between living your life as God wants you to and living a life based on earning money and things.
Actually the bible condemns being homosexual but still... yeah
Well those people are just predisposed to infidelity 1000 percent compared to hetero couples, so it's a mix of open relationships and the orientation
@@gatosetzo yeah, I know I didn't quote it exactly in the context, Jesus being asked if he's a trick but Satan, but I feel like his wisdom applies to other situations as well. A second job I had kept asking me more of me, while making me feel guilty about past mistakes. It was a tough decision if I should leave or not, but I was thinking of the "two masters" quote
@@vico_dinner there's the TH-camr Destiny. It wouldn't have been as bad if it were an experiment he tried and failed, but he was telling other young men to do this, and I imagine, calling people who disagree closed minded
@@vico_dinner there's the TH-camr Destiny. It wouldn't have been as bad if it were an experiment he tried and failed, but he was telling other young men to do this, and I imagine, calling people who disagree closed minded
An open relationship is solely for a woman’s benefit.
When she asks for one, it’s a not so subtle way of telling you she’s no longer sexually interested in you but doesn’t want to lose the financial benefits of having you around.
That bit at the end where the dude is streaming while his “girlfriend” is making out with another man is so painful to watch, the real world version of that was just sad.
itll never cease to amaze me how many go down this path, myself included. Stay strong and find people who are worth your time and effort.
Ayo what???
WTF, did you say what I think you said?
Why yourself? How you doing today?
Lemme tell ya, it's the jews man. Stop watching fucking spooks banging white chicks on the internet, get some forest air, you'll be fine.
I get it, kinda, I was in a poly situation
Buuuut we both agreed ahead of time on girl #2, and that girl was my friend 😊
The key is both knowing and being ok with who you bring in
I was 150 KG single (never dated anyone ), was lonely, had chaotic life, illiterated, uneducate, stuttered alot, and ect.
At 23 i stopped listening to people specialy parents ( even thou they loved me alot ), and paid attention to good painful toughts that requies rely on self rather others.
Im 98kg bodybuilder now ( 25Y ) And actually so happy and satisfied that i've never dated anyone. This month 2Times girls tried to hit on me and yet i decided to remain single and enjoy improving. ( therefore i could focus on self-educating and disicpline ). Now i am able to talk Persian without stutter and fluently ( my own langauge ), i also can speak english and almost Germany.
Guys please listen to warning voice, let the fear of failing leads you to darkest moment, thereby you'll find unexpected light and notice it's been there you just had to see with different perspective. But only If you are honest and Open-minded enough.
You are unironically the ubermensch. You did it anon. You found your way up the fucking mountain! Don't ever let that fire inside of you sputter or smolder, let nobody take it from you.
تبریک میگم داداش من خودم ۱۶ سالمه ولی نمیدونم چی کار کنم با زندگیم واقعا وعظم خرابه امیدوارم یک روز مثل تو از زندگیم راضی باشم
@@H-S-M❤❤ never give up
@@H-S-M you need to build a concret Confidence to youself with logical and inevitable proof ( basicly you cant tell yourself you are smart or handsome if you argue with people about that rather keeping it to yourself. You cant just basicly love life without accepting its pain to reach entlightment, i would personaly suggest you to read book even one page a day ( Not E-Books not PDf not freaking podcasts with prominent faces anywhere ) only Texts and google translation. Rely on self toughts and imagination with help of words within each sentence of a book.
Yeah no girls dont hit on guys at the gym thats bullshit 😂
Open relationships will never be balanced. A woman can find a man much easier than a man finding a woman. I'd dump anyone that suggests an open relationship
Lmao!
@@ClubQRoundDeuxyou don't think it's true?
@@delfi7077 It is infinitely easier to meet women as a man. The bar is below sea level right now. The problem is young men aren't even shooting their shot.
@@ClubQRoundDeuxyou're delusional and statistically wrong.
@FangYuan8 Stats are fake and manipulated. Observe reality.
4:39 Destiny reference lmaoooo
The moment he named the cgaracter Steven I was like fuck. 😂😂😂
I thought it was a hatred reference?
the guy is literally named Steven lol
I don't know whether to feel contempt or pity for Aba (from Aba n Preach) forever being associated with this.
@@MrLavajetIts funny as fuck too, because both Destiny and Aba mentioned moments before it that people would likely clip it out of context and it would go viral
Bro, there are too many cheating videos lately and there are no happy videos or tomboy videos that you used to like to do. Is something wrong?
Great point. I get that there's a lot of evil women out there, but there are also loyal, kind and beautiful women out there. Nothing is over, nothing. There's still hope.
Just checking the pulse of society really
It's never a bad time to expose modern women
he gets clicks for depressing coomer content. he's actually a beta irl who give no damn.
@@Pwn3540and modern men.
Open relationship is basically telling your child you love him and then take some other kid to Disney World
Whoever is weak enough to accept an open relationship (having more than one person having bedroom fun with whomever you’re with) gets exactly what’s expected to happen. You don’t love yourself if you allow that whatsoever.
I remember watching that documentary on polyamorous relationships who tried to paint it as that perfect lifestyle… and ended with the main couple officially separating at the end to move with their side pieces 😅 so yeah… don’t be dumb, cheaters only deserve to be dumped.
My grandpa can't understand why is so hard get a good relationship today
I really wish the internet wasn't a thing. Although it's amazing to connect with people across the world, the damage it has done far outweighs the benefits.
Before the internet, you just lived...
@@l__l2328if weren’t for the internet I wouldn’t have be able keep a relationship with my bf when he had to move. We have been living together now since 2020.
Open relationships have been a thing for awhile. Especially like the 1950s and 1960s where there were “swingers”.
Though I got to admit at the Internet made people a little too “open-minded” in some sense.
@@l__l2328 it's not just the internet. guys who got married in the 1950s were destroyed by no fault divorce becoming legal in the 1970s
Your grandma however most likely paid for HIS "good relationship" with wasting her life and suffering.
Social media and online dating has ruined relationships because anyone and everyone thinks they have tons of great options so instead of working on keeping a relationship good when things get tough people look for a “better option” but reality is no relationship is perfect. At the same time I’m not saying stay in an abusive or toxic relationship either. Also people don’t take time between relationships and keep monkey branching to a new person. It’s not just women but men who are not actually single also use online dating always looking for the next best thing.
Having lived it, I can say that open relationships are a slow rot that eats away at every fiber of your being.
Watching your partner drift from person to person, their attention constantly dedicated to someone new, someone to whom you will be consistently compared. Meanwhile, you have no grounds to complain. Despite everything, you agreed to be in it, after all.
Sorry to hear that man. You doing better?
@@Gyatttmunch Oh yeah, plenty better. It's not an experience I'd recommend anyone else, outside of phenomenally specific circumstance, so it's a warning I'll readily give out.
Hope you're doing better! I was wondering, why'd you say yes? Were you afraid of losing your partner?
You dont have to respond if you don't feel comfortable.
I just want my second relationship to last, and I'd hate for it to end up like this because I was afraid of being alone.
Sorry for asking but why did you agree?
I'd rather die than agree to something like that, no honor in it , and so disgusting
It's not love if ur relationship starts and ends with only one of you, only one of you matter for both of you and only one of you gets all the support. If u think that person you are with gets all you can give them but they doesn't give you anything back then you are nothing more than a slave to that person and that relationship.
There's no disgrace in living alone, and it is better than living in relationship in which your feelings doesn't matter. There's plenty fish in the sea, you don't have to stick to that toxic one.
Thanks for this very important video! Ngl im getting triggered and God tiered red pill rage just watching this, ive been through this circle MANY times and young men need to avoid these situations altogether!
God loves us and has better, Therefore Turn to Jesus Christ (God), He is the only way to salvation. Read the NKJV Bible, the new testament very important and get baptised. ✝️✝️ ♥️ ♥ ♥️ ✝️✝️
i agree actually
Being in an open relationship is like buying a bench at the park but everyone still sits on it.
sad if you think relationship is just about sex like bench is about sitting.
@@kacperkwiatek8063 No. I don't think so. But, a partner who can go around and be with other people thinks you're not enough for them. Best to depart with your dignity intact.
An open relationship ?! sounds like a losing game to me.
Ah yes. Relatationship, not relationship.
Edit: he fixed the title, lol
Hes ESL lol
Now's ralationship
God help my bro. He's Polish. 😢
@@FictionHubZA hope he's okay
@@kyrohowe3156 Theory of special relatationship.
My boy Destiny 😂😭
The end of the video 😂😂😂😂
kek
That reference on streamer Destiny is just perfect
As someone who worked IT at a college, that scene with the insanely obese, stupid teacher is so accurate.
I had that scene with a projector that "doesn't work" because she switched it off instead of on.
@@qq84 yeah, most of the calls are user error. We had a guy who would leave himself signed into the classroom computer and fly into a rage if someone signed him out. He taught public speaking, ironically. College is a joke. I never went, just worked there. I worked with small business owners before that and they were infinitely more intelligent.
All right, Story time: there's this girl in my college who's a junior, and she approached me in the library, initially because she needed some help for her studies. We eventually started hanging out more and more, and she eventually confessed to me that she liked me and wanted to date me. But I was still my old introverted self deep down, and this was my final year (internship) So I told her that we'll just stick to being friends for now because I had to focus on my exams for post graduation and I believed in having a long term relationship over just casual relationships. We still hung out, and she even treated me on my birthday.
But eventually, she reached her second year and she got busy with studies and other college related work, or so I thought. We started hanging out less and less. And unfortunately for me, I slowly started catching feelings for her and started thinking that she was beautiful, the more time we spent apart. A lot of my guy friends were also egging me on to just go for it and make our relationship official, but I still hesitated, because of my exams and introvertedness deep down.
Finally, we got the news (just very recently) that our exams got postponed by several months. This was a huge deal for everyone because we actually got time to study after our internship ended. I just said "fuck it" and decided to finally take the next step on Valentine's day. So I asked her if she was free, and she said that she was busy with college stuff, and she was also busy on this weekend....yeah that was a lie.
Apparently, she started getting cozy with this other guy, and a couple of my friends had seen her hanging out with this dude earlier. They warned me about it but I didn't listen, thinking that she was just a mutual friend. And she was actually free on Valentine's day, apparently hanging out with that same Guy, holding hands and doing God knows what behind my back. I just became numb after hearing about it. My friends consoled me, and advised me to just block her number and insta and cut her off. I've done that, and I got a few missed calls from her. But I don't know what to feel now, I just feel...blank. Not even sad or anything like that. I just hope I can move on.
Let the past be the past, ignore her and move on with your life. Hang out with your friends, respect and love yourself and maybe one day God will bless you with a woman who's actually worth your time. Don't settle for disrespect, ever.
@@Mr.MReturns thanks man, I'll try
dodged a bullet there man, if she really cared about you she would wait.
Idk what to say here but good thing u dodged a bullet there
From her point of view it looks like you rejected her "nicely" and if she would doubt that maybe you had some interest in her you solidified that rejection with being busy and unavailable for her until she moved on. Did you expect her to waste her life and wait for guy who clearly from her point of view looked like have no interest in her? Nobody no matter how much they loved or cared for someone will wait forever for "no chance" who clearly shows disinterest. There was no bullets to dodge, you never even had anything and that was your choice because she was willing but you rejected her at first time she asked. Women rarely asks first and if they do they will do only once, the ones who "chase" men have ulterior motives or are dangerous. Move on and next time think before you speak/act so you don't have to spend life regretting your own decisions.
3:33 I too love "Dzień Świra" ;)
I was just going to comment that it's a MF'ing Dzień Świra reference
@@kubakijak1824 i co i co? nieeeeeee
@@kkr600Żona...wodzirejka głupia p##da
Bo tio Polak robi chyba, content zloto
Aba dancing with the dude's wife at the end, lol. I remember seeing that happen in real time.
not Preach that was Aba
@@virtuesoath9130 Thanks for catching that. I'll edit the comment. I called Aba Preach for those wondering what was edited.
MAIL TIME
lol 😂😂
Yup, I won't ever forget that. LULW
The whole point of a relationship is the exclusivity part. If you partner is sleeping around, then what's even the point? Open Relationships are like "Relationship Breaks". When it has come this far, it's already over.
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yep. besides, it means that person values sex way too much. I mean, if you're looking for just that, relationships aren't the thing for you anyways.
@@lukashenrique4295 Oh! What a grand and intoxicating ignorance!
@@Moe_Posting_Chad found the hoe
@@lukashenrique4295fr
3:32 szacun za nawiązanie do Dnia Świra!
Rozwala mnie to, że gdyby świadomie ktoś mnie zapytał jak były ubrane te laski z filmu w tej scenie to w życiu bym nie odpowiedział, ale okazuje się, że gdzieś głęboko jednak człowiek pamięta.
Me: Are you guys having relationships?
Me: grammar?
Of course they aren't.
😂
nothing wrong with a brojob
That VGA connector lol.
There are way too many "experts" spouting nonsense in this world.
Reminder that these "experts" are always baffled about everything.
@@CriticalEnjoyermost of these ‘experts’ learned everything they know from books written by other ‘experts’, who were taught by experts who read everything they know. Ask yourself just how much of their knowledge comes from outside the walls of an academy.
Too many "journalists" with German surnames posting sh *tty articles online 😂😂
Because they're told to do that by the people above, it's all planned and has an obvious pattern.
(((Experts)))
If she suggested it, it had already happened.
Or had already planned on acting on it
4:50 Damn I love how you sprinkle some God tier references here and there.
This is another reminder for me, that I'm better off being a single man.
Wise approach bro
Why? Actually, you're better off being a wise man in a relationship with a wise women. Men belong with women.
@@redgrengrumbholdt2671 With the way society currently is, finding a wise woman especially in the West - will be difficult to put it politely.
Just remember not every person is the same, and cataloging people is not a good idea, as every person is different one way or another, if you wish to stay single because you simply aren't interested in a relationship that's fine, but don't get demotivated cuz of a video portraying a problem regarding relationship, after all, most of us probably wouldn't tolerate cheating
west fo what?@@theimperialist2686
A great message and dose of reality to young men and women or even adults with little dating experience that this is wrong.
If she likes the 13% enough to sleep with them she isn't wife material or gf material. That's a huge red flag in a person. It shows they do not have a good moral compass and can't make choices for the best if their lives and their families
Pathological out-group preference. Many such cases. Sad!
liking the 13% isn't bad lol wut. Cheating on someone with the 13% or anyone else is.
If she indulges in that, she faces the wall.
4:50 that poke at Destiny 😂😂. So true!! Excellent video as always. It’s like you’re a fly on the wall of all these different lives! Banger video as always!
If your partner asks for an open relationship and it isnt soemthign that was bought up early, theyre definitely cheating and just want you to cosign.
I don't think there's anything worse than an open relationship.
Have you played fallout 76 on release week?
the ending screen was A+. Poor Tiny
Stage 6: Playing tetris with the body parts in your freezer💀
Stage 7. Wake up and realizes it was a nightmare. You breathe out in relief, you’re still single.
@@NorseGraphic Good Ending unlocked!
Based endings
millennia asks "is this worse than death?" but one man gave an answer to this thousands of years ago "worse than death is an evil woman in the house" king Solomon
I'd rather not even bother falling in love. Knowing that at any given moment, my significant other can just arbitrarily do something like this shows me how insignificant they think I am while to me, any other person was null and void compared to them. If they want to do that stuff, they can go right ahead *without me being a part of it. I refuse to stick around for that garbage; we're through at that point.*
For me, I'd rather just cut out the middle man and not even bother, which is not good at all but damn; the pain of being alone pales in comparison to the pain of such a betrayal.
OpenAI is working on AGI, and soon we’ll have android waifus that’ll never cheat, lie, manipulate and being a tyrant. Let the open market buying and selling eggs be as common as spermbanks. The artificial wombs will gestate the babies. If women weren’t delusional, they’d snapped out of their power fantasy a long time ago. Alas, we’re where we are now and will need to find solutions to this social Great Civilizational Filter. Maybe we’ll pull through after all, and not end with the same fate as ‘Mouse Utopia’. 🤷
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Hey, I hear you, and I get why you're feeling this way. But let me tell you, playing it safe by avoiding love altogether isn't really winning. It's more like losing by default, you know? You might think you're protecting yourself, but you're also missing out on all the good stuff that comes with being in a loving relationship.
You don't have to rely on someone else for your happiness. You can learn to be in a loving relationship without losing yourself in it. And if you find yourself in a relationship that's not serving you, it's okay to walk away. It takes guts and building up your own sense of self-worth, but that's how you win at this game.
If you don't feel OK with this, better don't concede and end the "relationship". For some supposedly this works, but is not everyone. If you really want to keep jumping from one person to other, better don't have formal partner, don't be a shitty person just to have something secure that can pay your bills or support you just when you want.
At the second my girlfriend say "i think we sh-", i'm already gone and single.
“I think we should delete our social medias”
I think we should get married
"I think we should explore your turn ons in the bedroom"
”I think we should start building our life togheter. Just you, me and our kids”
I think we should settle with each other
Is this supposed to be Destiny xD?
Yes
I said it once I'll say it again
I'd rather be alone than be in an open relationship
For a typical couple, an open relationship seems like a win for the woman. Because a woman can get sex easily and a typical man will struggle.
Why can't the guy just go prostitutes or escorts?
@@boslyporshy6553man always has to buy cex, while female get resources by giving cex. Net winner is female , be it gf or pros t tute
An avrage man has to work hard to get a partner, an average woman can have almost anyone by just flirting once. As long as things will be this way, open relationships will always be a bad idea. The only thing that makes sense is a friendship with benefits, but nothing more.
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If she ever comes back, we're not together anymore. She's my sexfriend and that's all.
@@spartanghost9713goat shit
You obviously are not woman but also have no mother, sister, women friends, daughters, any woman near you if you think it is so easy for women. To get bed stuff maybe is easy and flirting (once) could work on some thirsty incel but effort (even when it's near 0), risk to get unalived because so many men are crazy and hate women, risk of diseases and unwanted pregnancy, time wasted to get far less than what woman can do herself is not worth it at all. Even relationships are not worth with large % of men because they think relationship/marriage is finish line after which they need to stop trying to do anything useful even basic stuff like shower but start demanding, whining, cheating, drain women's energy and other things no woman wants from man. Simple math, no man is worth women's time if total balance he brings in her life is negative and so many men today are doing exactly that. Be positive or at least neutral addition in her life, if you think it is hard work then you need to take a critical look at your own life and reasons why you want to (trap) have relationship with women. Far too many men with this mindset are working out, cleaning, cooking and "working hard" by pretending to be who they are not just to trap women into relationship/marriage after which they release true ugly self and then they act surprised why women divorces them.
@@rengurenge You are a very damaged, traumatized, defective individual… bitter and projecting your inadequacies and insecurities upon others. You have my pity.
0:18 Hippo 🦛🦛🦛🦛🦛🦛🦛🦛
That Indian guy saying Saaaaar in every sentence....got me...🤣🤣🤣
I love how the beginning is called “The epilogue”
"Consent accident", I guarantee we'll see that phrase in the real world with the next 10 years.
Lol this is a shot at Destiny xD, the guy is called Steven
This is actually sad to see how relationships and role of men and women changed in the western culture. It is so disgusting but painful to see at the same time. Feeling so bad for people in the west.
At least it's no situationship/textationship...
@@LilReezy_1437 If people were upfront with what they want; you aren't likely to run into these problems.
You gave too much freedom to your women instead of keeping them in check
@@somkhandagumbi Sure they will, because other people they get involved with can still lie, and they do it all the time. A lengthy filtering process is needed before doing that kind of stuff with anyone, if you really want something that lasts.
@@morsayxdI would rather have these problems than live in the Middle East. It’s also not really prevalent.
"You can be with anyone so can I"
Says the part of the relationship who can have sex everytime it wants. Women choose when they have sex, man choose if marriage happens. Propose open relationship after marriage isn't just disgusting, is unfair.
Open relationships presuppose that men and women are the same psychologically, physiologically and hormonally. What's good for the goose isn't necessarily good for the gander.
Casual sex isn't good for anybody. Not in the course of a lifetime, which matters, not the 20 minutes of disgusting sex with a stranger.
In an open relationship the woman will easily be getting waaaaaay more on the side.
At least this isn't common in second and third world countries.
No sarcasm.
Once this becomes a normal thing in USA and europe, the rest of the world will follow
@@elitedima9672 nope ....usa is not center of the world , like you people think....everyone has different culture which these western countries...so no way these are corrupting anytime soon
@@akshlo879 I live in 2rd world country, and feminism and lgbtq activism has already began to plague my country
@@akshlo879 Hopefully.
Lol @ naming him "Steven".
Edit: the last scene 😂
Nice Destiny Cameo, well done.
Open relationship isn't a relationship.
The sky is blue.
@@neverangel24officialytchan87every 60 seconds in africa a minute passes 🙄
@@sdfrasvxc2913 Together we can stop this!
The underground is under the ground
Bloody Destiny at the end hahahaha
Piękne nawiązanie do Dzień Świra :3
Open your relationship and close the door from other side.
what a great video, the feeling you get while watching this perfectly shown psychological masterpiece, toped with a great background music that fit perfect in this dark topic.
i love it
what the hell, what is that. What is that gross thing in your comment. How'd you do it. WHAT IS IT
@@dimitar4y
@@IcePike good lord since when is this garbage allowed on youtube, I've never seen these
@@dimitar4y
That destiny reference.😂
4:41 is a reference to a clip of a TH-cam named Destiny and his(ex) wife.
3:58 The detail when he says "you b1tch" he only thinks that, and dosnt open his mouth
Ooww truth bro
I hope averyone enjoyed this documentary on the average millennial male
This is the most dystopian thing I‘ve seen in a long time and I just watched a movie recap of „they live“. Time to convert to nihilism.
*destiny has left the chat*
Exactly i was like wait a minute I've seen this before
but Destiny liked being in a open relationship since he could get laid due to his fame. It was his wife that hated it and that's why she left him for the mono relationship twink
The fact that he's using his real name makes it so funny
the last scene is literally from a destiny live stream lol.
@@blazer6708 yo is that the aba dancing with the girl scene? hahahaha it's not even something sexual dude, redpilled ppl are insane
I will never understand why even opening a relationship, just leave eachother, this is no way of living
4:45 did you copy this scene from destiny ? When his ex was dancing with aba
It’s an exact copy of it🤣🤣🤣genius
Remeber kids, always sign a prenup before marriage.
I'm gonna imagine that the guy here is Destiny.
This made me sad. Fantastic job 👏
Nawiązanie do dnia świra? Genialny smaczek
4:35 LOL DESTINY!
I don't get it
@@Fosten12 Google Destiny gets cucked
@@armorofgod1430 holy hell i googled everything and watched everything.
DAAMN
0:29 why is he looking at his phone here? I don't get it.
The fat teacher used to be hot but then she had sex with a 16 year old student.
beating his meat it seems
This is a masterpiece!
An Open relationship can work, but only when it is truly double sided open, and also both partners are not dependent on each other financially. Then it works, because it is equal on both sides. If it is not equal, then the opening is abusive, like with any other abuse in the relationship.
Thinking in all that young men who died in normandy and stalingrad for this…it’s sad😢😢😢
LAST PART IS JUST THAT DESTINY CLIP