My Mohamed Is Different: An Age-Gap Romance Story | Real Stories Full-Length Documentary
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- In the fascinating ancient Egyptian city of Luxor, marriage blossoms on the banks of the Nile where mature foreign women find love and companionship with local younger men. Could this be love ?
Sarannah feels she was given a new shot at life and can now re-live her youth. Moving to Luxor she met and married Hamdy, 30 years her junior. Madly and happily in love with Hamdy, all she wants to do is spend time with him and enjoy life. Her friend Nerchia met and married Khaled and it was joyous…for a while. Khaled felt he wanted children which the older Nerchia was not able to have, and he found a much younger 2nd Egyptian wife. Of course, this has led Nerchia to make some tough decisions. Abdel-Rahim, a local tour guide married with 2 kids, wants to connect with a foreign woman to help secure his future. Abdel, like many others, meets women online, and hopes to convince them to move to Luxor. It is through an online platform that he connects with an older German / American woman, Monica. After a few months of online romance, she falls for him, moves to Luxor and promises to take care of him. The film follows these three women as they leave their lives behind to travel to a mysterious new world; one that blurs the boundaries between business and romance.
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Cannot understand the mindset of these women who in what should the best time of their life think they need a man. After my husband died when I was in my 50s I have enjoyed the most wonderful life travelling the world solo and at home living as I want and not having to answer to anyone. Absolute bliss.
You are very emotionally healthy! Good on you!
They are being used or it's a tradeoff.
Why don’t they get a dog ? Dogs love you unconditionally. And it would cost less.
Everybody is not you! My sister likes to travel solo me i dont like it to travel solo i get very quick bored and i need somebody around me to talk too! And this is normal that a woman is looking for a man to fell his body vicinity,smell etc,,we are not robots we are humans!
Yuck, I hate your loneliness.
After watching this I thank God I’m single and alone. I rather be single and alone than to spend my life with these players.
These women are playing the social game just fine I think. To each their own.
TERESA, YR DOING THE RIGHT THING & I'D RATHER DO THE SAME THAN TO WHAT THESE HARLOTS ARE DOING.
IT'S JUST SICKENING.
These guys are not even very good at it. She will walk away. I have been to many different countries - same story same ending.
@@oceanchicns That is right...that is every woman's goal! To be used and living a lie...they pray to God everyday to thank Him for numbing their brains to the delusional "playing"! SMH!!
Theresa, I feel exactly the same....I am happy and single with no one by my side.
No way would I put myself in a situation like that. I feel bad for these women who think these men actually care about them.
They only care about going to the west
Old men hooking up with young women do it all the time. They know it's not for love.
If the two are happy. What's wrong??????
And why wouldn’t they care for them? Age is just a number! People are always judgmental and it shouldn’t be that way! No one ever says anything about two young people getting married and getting divorced all the time, but yet they judge a couple with a big age difference, maybe these judgmental people need to be in a real loving relationship or get a life and stop putting people down!
@@gloriaa.garcia3985and that’s miserable and sad just like this is.
Maria is the wife providing the income to keep her husband and his first wife, and children in a degree of comfort. She in exchange gets to see him for short periods of time, as and when he feels like it. Just a straight forward business arrangement dressed up as love. Thats all there is to it.
He Will Milk Her Until All Her Savings Is Gone. He Will Be Tired Of Her. Young Wife Number 3 Is Coming
Niemals ein Moslem heiraten.
15:32 15:32 15:32 von mir würden diese Männer nicht ein Cent bekommen.
Did she tell you about it? Lol 😅
I thought she cut him, got a divorce and now has her own shop in another area. She totally realised what he was all about and moved on.
I visited Egypt and was heartbroken seeing how animals are mistreated, neglected, exploited, and abused. Men there do not see women as equals. For these reasons I could never live there under any circumstances.
not only animals ...dont you know that 97% of egyptian women are sexually mutilate,cut off their s.organs,exactly in barber shops,not even by doctors.lovely country.
I agree. But these insensitive self centred old women don't care.
Whole place was filthy and all live in dark ages
You are true. For me its the country of the devil.
Same! 😔 Barbaric religion and culture.
The biggest lies are the lies we tell ourselves.
right 👍
Absolutely 💯
Yes! 👍
True
No kidding! We Humans Beings are Fascinating!
as a person that lived in Egypt for several years, i can tell you that the conversations that they have about these women are very disgusting and if they knew how Egyptian men really feel about them, they'd stay at home. but i've seen how desperate these desert princesses are for love so maybe they wouldn't care.
I beleive you.
Yeah exactly! ..Women to them are nothing..but a western woman who'll take care of them financially (women of a certain age) these men will tell them what they want to hear !! ..
These women have largely been ignored and overlooked by men in their own home country most of their lives and so, just the illusion of being desired much like a drug may give them that euphoric high they so crave.
"princess" come on they are ALL DESPERATE AND WELL PAST SELL BY DATE UF IT WASN'T SO 😂😂😂😂 IT WOULD BE 😢
@@SonyaOutThere There is a good reason no one in the western world wants these Karens.
It is sad that the woman had no feelings about his first wife and family...and then went on to say that she wanted him to get another job to spend more time with her (ol' selfish self). He has a whole family to take care of and she is worried about him spending time only with her...what did she expect? I hope she can remember those feelings when he finds his next wife!
Yes, incredibly selfish.
Exactly 👌👌
She’s helping support his first wife and family, different rules there,
He probably likes the job that keeps him less available to her.
Soooo...the dude explaining about the lady he was seeing for four years and she couldn't meet his price so he told her she should find someone cheaper basically just described himself and the other men as male prostitutes or escorts. Woooow. Well at least he's honest.
It's a living
Crazy! And real
A few weeks ago stayed in Egypt. One man told me to marry him fast, he want me fast in bed ... I felt to have to go... His eyes, straight cold eyes. I felt uncomfortable. He has not this empathy or not able to hear what I have said... We wrote, because I needed the photos from trip. But the same slang and mind. He said he's single. And at home I found out, he is married... No Reaktion, no sorry no emathathy as I wrote that I found it out. Very sad this men. Better free and selfcalm as with such a men married and his wife and children under one roof. They are walking prostitutes, these men. Sorry❤so proud no going to bed with him😊
My thoughts exactly
My message to every lonely old lady reading this is this: Please just go home to your children, grandchildren, other family members, and friends. Leave these men right where they are and DO NOT look back. They DO NOT love you and never will. You are just a ticket to the west for them and they even are disgusted at the thought of having to sleep with you for this.
The boys do not love You
acajudi100 youTube
Singaporean laws.
Prayers for the world
Send all criminals to Ukraine and Sudan.
Thank you.
God is in charge.
Fentanyl .
Some.people are never fooled.
My great grandparents schooled me
R. I. P everyone everywhere.
All lives matter. Do not kill , unless self defense.
All rapists and killers should have organs removed asap. No life in prison.
Greed is worldwide
God is in charge.
Karma never loses an address
We reap what we sow
Not worried, for God is 6in control. Happy I moved to Queretaro in _2021 at79.
Solutions:
Keep your people in their own country and put the military on all borders to keep them out.
Send all criminals to war zones.
Traitors. Inside traders, ay for play kickbacks are criminals also
I prepped for 6 months, and gave away preps when I left the USA for
Querétaro,and I have my 6 months back from home delivery. USA is too deadly and expensive. $100k should be direct deposited in USA bank accounts age 18 and up tax free.
I left the USA at 79 for Querétaro.
Direct deposit of 100K to all USA citizens, so you can move where you can afford and it is safe
Move to Mexico.
R. I. P everyone everywhere.
All lives matter. Do not kill , unless self defense.
All rapists and killers should have organs removed asap. No life in prison.
Greed is worldwide
God is in charge.
Karma never loses an address
We reap what we sow
Not worried, for God is 6in control. Happy I moved to Queretaro in _2021 at79.
Solutions:
Keep your people in their own country and put the military on all borders to keep them out.
Send all criminals to war zones.
Traitors. Inside traders, ay for play kickbacks are criminals also
I prepped for 6 months, and gave away preps when I left the USA for
Querétaro,and I have my 6 months back from home delivery. USA is too deadly and expensive. $100k should be direct deposited in USA bank accounts age 18 and up tax free.
I left the USA at 79 for Querétaro.
Direct deposit of 100K to all USA citizens, so you can move where you can afford and it is safe
Thank you. I left the USA at 79 for Queretaro in 2021.
acajudi100 for my YT videos from age 70-75. I am 80 now.
Thank you. I left the USA at 79 for Queretaro in 2021.
acajudi100 for my YT videos from age 70-75. I am 80 now.
Exactly. These stupid lonely old women are making a mockery of their whole lives and tarumatizing their families, societies and culture. I see this as a crisis of spirituality.
Welll said sister👍🏽
I couldn’t agree with you more ❤
Have you not stopped to think that not everybody has a close family/friends support in their lives?
My friend got played by an Egyptian man. She was 72 and he was 27. I tried to tell her but she thought he was different, too. In the end he used her to get his Greek citizenship and took off. Happens a lot.
I lived next door to a woman in her 60s, she got married to an Egyptian man in his 20s. 2 years or so later she found out he was having an affair with a woman in a block of flats in the next street and she was pregnant with his kid!
I can’t feel pity for her. How on earth an elderly lady thought that a man in the prime of his life would be attracted to her?
I read quite a lot of the comments and I realized that this otherwise very well-done documentary is confusing for most people, because the stories are intertwined, and we are shown each story chopped in little pieces, and probably not even in chronological order.
The description is also confusing because it mentions Nerchia as Khalid's wife, when in the documentary the Dutch lady is called Maria (please correct this!).
So the three couples are:
1. Scottish lady Sarannah, married to Hamdi some months ago. She's the one who doesn't give any money, her husband does have a job, and he spends the night with his other family downstairs.
2. Dutch lady Mariam, who left an unsuccessful marriage 35 years ago, was married to Khaled for 2,5-3 years. He married a younger wife to have kids and that's when she saw that he isn't the persone she thought he was, because he treated his Egyptian wife differently. He also sought to make changes to her shop and told her 'If you don't like it, you can leave". That's when she dumped and created a new shop.
3. German-American lady Monika (the one whose face was blurred). Victim of an online scam.
Now what is not clear is that the man called Khaled (Maria's ex husband) is very similar to the one who is with Monika. The one who is with Monika is the one talking in the car about his marriage to an Egyptian wife who he thought would give him "a crypt with a treasure" and instead only gave him 10 children. I think he's a different person, but his name is either not given or I haven't caught it. His face is thinner than Khaled's and his beard-line is different.
It would be nice to put some captions on who is speaking every time. Maybe not all of the times, but at least at the beginning.
Thanks for adding this. It was indeed not always very clear, although the documentary was otherwise very well done.
I agree.
The relationship of Sarannah and Hamdi seemed rather OK to me, as it wasn't mainly about money, they are not lying to each other. Hamdi said he can discuss with her about "deeper" topics, she is kind of a soulmate to him.... On the other hand she says she feels young with him, you can see that she feels like a woman and she enjoys it...
The other relationships described here, seem kind of wrong and delusional to me...
Someone stated Sarannah does not give money but you heard Hamdi tell about becoming more well known, living in that lovely home obviously in a great section of the city, driving a good car, etc. Where did he come by these luxuries if not from Sarannah?
I think you're confusing Hamdi with the younger, suffocating scammer.
Thank you for the clarification. To your point #1, does Hamdi support Sarannah? To me, it just doesn't make sense and I don't think Sarannah is being very honest. It seems like Hamdi has enough people to support and she seems demanding of his time. Also, find it strange that she has absolutely no connection with anyone else in the house, even his children.
These men are not looking for Love. They are after Money. The women are making fool of themselves.
Oh yeah. 😢💔🙏🧕
🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅😅😆😆😆😁😁😄😄. ABSOLUTELY CORRECT PERIOD!!🤭🤭🤭🤭🤫🤫🤫🤫
@@shawnprime5085 😄😁👍🥰😘
But both side men / women knows that it's like a business deal
1000% foolish women
I can’t imagine being so desperate for a man that they accept having to basically buy affection….men annoy the crap out of me 😂
why is it the mans fault???
When you get to a certain age and you want to have the fairytale you never had.... this is an option. The alternative is cold miserable loneliness in their own country.
@@paulo7507 Because they are con artists. They internationally lie and use these women.
It's exactly the same with younger women who date older western men in Thailand or the Philippines. It's not something that's exclusive to men or women.
same.., im happy being single
What a crazy mixed up world. For all Hamdy’s declarations of love, I never once saw him look into Sarranah’s eyes. I feel very sorry for the Egyptian wives, although maybe they are better off having their wife-beating husbands away for months at a time.
These men are extremely patient and are just waiting for people like her to die.
In the US, a story I know of a man of Lebanese descent who worked for a wealthy man also of Lebanese descent. This caretaker took care of everything on the property, grounds, maintenence etc., and he got very close to his employers wife.
His employer died years later and just a few months afterwards married the wealthy widow. The former caretaker later went to the cemetery where his employer is buried at, got on his knees and touched the grave and said "Thank You, thank you for everything and now everything you once owned is mine". This was not a hearted thank you, this was his way of telling the deceased he won the game and never liked the guy although the employer thought of him like family and trusted him.
These men are crooked, even when they become westernized you can NEVER trust them. The thieving mindset goes on in perpetuity. They will always see the westerner as submissive and weak even if you get along with them.
HATS off to the filmmakers ..a remarkable job of simply telling each character's story - no judgement, criticism, condemnation - the viewer is given the possibility of reaching their own conclusion .. 🙏🏽 ❤ 🇨🇦
Agree remarkable job 👍👍
These strong gorgeous ladies are marching to their own drum. They are calling the shots & have their own plans from what I can see. Enjoying the beautiful ancient culture then back to their other homes in Europe for the Egyptian hot summer.
YOU CAN'T BECAUSE YOU ARE ONE OF THEM
@@fahemakhatun4450 you can’t what Ms fahema khatun?
@@fahemakhatun4450 - haven't visited Egypt, no plans to ..don't tend to visit places where animals are treated better than women - no Saudi Arabia, Afghanistan, Iran etc. for me.
Ironic there’s a man singing about dignity when these men have none.
I was laughing when I read the lyrics and thought the same.
@@eugeniababyqueenmascheroni4257 Me too....like I saw everything in this documentary except dignity, on both the men and the women involved..
Oh yeah! Noticed that too! My goodness 😳 oldest tactics in poverty stricken countries. I'm sure you'll see this on the female side too! Old men buying young girls! This time the ladies seem to believe they're finding love. Wish them all the best.
All lies to make others fool.
For men in many cultures, dignity comes from making a living. They are doing that.
All i have to say is WHY??? As a woman, why on earth would you degrade yourself in this way???? It makes me sick to watch these elderly women delude themselves, reality check, why would young, virile men want to be with women older than their mothers. It literally makes me cringe and want to vomit n i am 52 so not discriminating 😊😮❤
Perfect comment, I think the same 👍
Why this woman wear no more western clothes after they have fast married... Where is their soul an mind from the western world? Also their religion they have to change. For what? Love is, that a woman after marriage could be as she was bevor... ❤
unfortunately you dont want to vomit listening to what one of those men says about "how to seduce them and leave them". quite disgusting
also " obeys me even when i beat her", talking about his "wonderful" egyptian woman....... this is truthfully disgusting
Old men have been degrading themselves for years. Why can't old women?
Interesting documentary. I don't understand how Maria can think that her partner was rude when she should have clearly been able to see the motive behind his wanting to be with her. And these women certainly know that these much younger men want to have children! There's really nothing you can have in common with a man 40 when you're 80 because he's literally young enough to be your grandson. It is as distasteful to me as 80 year old men with 40 year old women or even 65 year old man with 40 year old women. There is really nothing in common. And the driving force is obviously money.
The other woman, Savannah, was much more down to earth. There was no money involved in her relationship with him, his wife and kids live downstairs, he has the young wife, but he also has the interesting conversations, companionship etc. with her. She knows what the situation is, he also knows, they enjoy each other's presence in their lives and seem happy. She is even reconciled with the possibility that it won't last. She seems to me a very aware person.
@@davidmatthet4 you're saying this to several people here. Sounds fishy to me
@@allysonf419 I really apologize for that. I'm just looking for someone to talk to.
@@irmar When it ends, she will be devastated. If you are still young, you get over it. But the older you ge the more it affects you even if you lie to yourself and others about it being okay. These situations end badly.
@@allysonf419Yep, he’s a creep.
If the women who go to Egypt to search for love would partner up with the men who go to Thailand to search for love, there would be far less misunderstandings and heartbreak. Of course, this will never happen as the majority wants to be with a young and attractive partner even if (in most cases) the love is fake and they have to pay for it.
FACTS.
Thoroughly dishonest representation and uneven treatment in these kinds of documentaries. Men always portrayed as sinister and exploitative while females shown going abroad with selfless, pure, thoroughly justified motives (and then being "tricked" by sinister, exploitative young males)
Women: change the f'ing record!
But it's money and prestige they want, without having to work for it. Muslims are in a great position they can have as many wives/children as they like. He does nothing.
Men who go to Asia want very young girls
@@JennyEkberg the Muslims have the sari law which means their religion allows them to have more wives at the same time (polygamy), I assume you’re with a Muslim together 😜why aren’t you ask him?🧐😇
@@edwright480 4 not as many as they want
You don't have to go to Egypt to get a relationship like this, English men can see a vulnerable women a mile off.
Yea but they come home drunk 🥴🍺
Literally any man in any part of the world😂
The main difference is that a young English man will NOT marry or even go out with a 79 year old woman.
@@JennyEkberg Jenny are you under 40?
@@Madjidchabha your damn right my friend.
Every day is a school day, eh ?
If you want true love, rescue an animal or support a sanctuary. Stop being a fool for a man…..
Get a cat.
I lost my husband 2 years ago and I’m 49 years old, I’m good to be alone and I like it like that!!! I do not understand these women, they know that these men are with them for one reason and I don’t feel sorry for them!!!
8:38 Listening to him explain his methods of courting women and all his "masks" he wears is like a Sociopath's handbook instructional guide. He checks all the boxes and these desperate lonely women eat it up with a spoon.
Pity those who need to know don't want to see it
I want to know how he paid for that big house, did I miss something.
These men are desperate, the country is bankrupt with no source of employment for most men.
You can see clearly their culture, and that they will never accept westerners, but are fully willing to go to any length to get the money they need to support their families, and even other wives. VERY SAD!
Meghan Markle, Amber Heard ….
He is an absolutely callous creep!!
This lady is a fool for thinking he loves her. He's using her to provide for his real family. Its embarrassing really! It makes these older women look stupid.
Stuped but sad.
@@amysands8925 yes very sad.
I'll be a happy stupid older woman. 🙂
@@madamebutterfly6470 you will? You’re planning on being stupid?
Men have been doing the same thing for decades.
A warning to everyone on my tour of Morocco one of the things the tour guide advised against was just this.
This reminds me of loads of girls I used to know in Dubai in the 80's. They used to say the same thing until they got beaten up, sexually abused and he ran off and got married to a local woman without them knowing. And if they had kids, they went to his mother. Lovely chaps!
It reminds me of those Nigerian dating site scams where lonely old people get fleeced for every penny.
HE HAS AN EGYPTIAN WIFE & CHILDREN, I KNEW IT, BUT TO LIVE LITERALLY ABOVE THEM & TO BE WITH ANOTHER WOMAN'S HUSBAND IS JUST SICKENING TO ME.
HOW CAN YOU TAKE THIS MAN & LIVE IMMORALLY WITH HIM IN FRONT OF HIS CHILDREN & HIS WIFE, HOW DISRESPECTFUL CAN YOU BE?
SHAME!
It's all for the 💸 money.
The wife and kids knows she's there ATM.
Money machine.
when the children are grown, she will apply for; her country's passport, and assist in sending them abroad.
Its very normal in Islam. As long as the husband provides and treats up to 4 wives equally. A Muslim man wouldn't take money off a wife to run a home, the problem here is his European wife doesn't understand these fundamental rules.
Totally agree with you....
Yep!!! Morals have taken a back seat to selfish self-delusion...
@@pradipamahadeva8051 So true.
What a great documentary! Very interesting and open-minded. It"s not always easy to understand why these women make these choices but we shouldn't judge. We all looking for something in this world. Let's just hope that they don't fall into thiinking that this is love..
I don't know why people think this is so innovative and ground breaking LOL it's just prostitution. It's been around for a long time. Men prostitute themselves all the time. It's just more common in these countries cause they're poor.
Of course the women think this is love. And it's very easy to understand why these women make these choices. They're lonely. And yes, we are judging because these are romance scams.
Petra: exactly! I was suprised what the men admitted to when interviewed alone. And the lady “all these men coming up to me don’t know what it is about me, but I think some are looking for $$!” 🤦♀️ yes ALL of them including the one you are with now, are doing this for money, it’s a known thing, he even talked about it when alone with the interviewer
Never been married and allergic to children. Now i'd marry my cat he's such a gentleman.
Great comment! 🤣
😂😂😂
I don't like the bald guy at all. He seems evil.
I agree. not nice at all.
Yes, I have a gut feeling about him and it isn't a good guy feeling
@@donnareis520 ..Same here. It wouldn't surprise me if he kills someone.
@@amysands8925 yeah saying love me if I beat my wife
I thought the bald guy was hot... which is why I will remain single. I'm attracted to the evil ones 😈
These guys are broke. They want your $$$. Go adopt a dog. They’re loyal and good company.
In Islam dogs aren’t liked … cats 🐈 are ok 😁 just saying 🤷🏻♀️
@@samanthajones4 interesting. I agree. Dogs are gross. Smelly slobbery and loud. Annoying
@@zoiefinnian3540 Not true at all. They are loyal, intelligent and affectionate.
@@joli395 Everything I said is true, and everything you said is true
A dog, you need to TRAIN it. Just loose on the streets it will not learn, much manners. And you need to have it surgically sterilize it, so it doesnt make dozens of puppies a year,, and be aggressive to others.
I think both of these women are beautiful, brilliant and brave. I think they both know what they’ve let themselves in for and stand their ground if they don’t like how the men treat their other wives. I couldn’t move to another country let alone a country with such cultural differences. Hamid put it perfectly. They marry their cousin, they don’t have anything in common and he loved his older wife( who I thought for 79 is a stunning woman!) due to communicating and talking, he never did this with his younger wife, which was sad. I just thought it showed two women( forget their ages) living life the way they want to and I can only praise them for doing what makes them happy. As for the user with the house and car, he will never find happiness. Good documentary!!
My thoughts exactly. 👍
I've watched this multiple times and it never gets old ! Wow ! I wish they did these around the world !
I just don't understand how you can have a relationship with a man and knows he treats his other wife like a prisoner. I don't care if it's a cultural thing.
True, although one did say she was changing her husband to be nicer to his Egyptian wife.
Yes that is bad she is disrespecting his wife and children. part of me didnt feel sorry for her. she as bad as he is.
@@janesmith9024 Is that a favour she's doing to the WIFE? She's as good as ruined her life. She clearly knows this isn't for good, she's in for as long as the fun lasts and then move on, just like the man. And yet she goes on to ruin a marriage and doesn't even bat an eyelid when she inflicts mental cruelty on the wife. I wonder, how incredibly selfish, how low on self-esteem one must be to resort to such base actions.
She knows that is her privilege and for him is a business if doesn´t treat her well no money, it is all about thinking with cold mind, not emotionally but i understand the point of equality and sorority among women wanted to be treated good. But she knows never will be equal to a native wife from any country, the freedom, the education, the culture much factors not only being white.
@@amysands8925 it is an arrangement all are aware of it the wife wish he treat her well but he will put money on the table to feed the kids that is enough for her. Granny is paying future university studies of kids.
As someone who’s ex “husband” pretended to be in love with her so he could leave China and took off once he got his permanent residency this lady needs to RUN. For the record I was 19
This happens all the time once they get their Green Card.
@@sonogabri1 glad you think it’s funny
@@RachelXKnight666 report him . This canada i presume ?
@@samoday2992 Australia. Unfortunately because he waited for his permanent residency to come through before taking off he could no longer be deported. When I got my divorce papers from him it said he was an Australian citizen
Happened like clockwork once they get their permanent green card. This end up leaving too bad for these woman but they should know better. If young man in their countries don’t want them what makes them think other poor young man in third-world countries would want them.
one of my ex colleagues was married to a lady from the Netherlands 25 years older than him. He came to the Netherlands, started his own business and once he hit the 5 years of marriage (that's when you get Dutch passport), he left her so brutally. Then we found out that he actually got married to a younger lady in Egypt meanwhile being married to a Dutch lady. Most of the times these guys are either looking for money or residence permissions abroad.
So sad that these women are so emotionally immature at their age. You're supposed to be wiser when aging but they're becoming more naive and irrational. This is madness !! You have to be BLIND not to see that those men have NO LOVE for them you can see the evil in their eyes just looking at them.
Exactly !!
The men prostitute for money. Egypt is a poor country
And you don’t see how judgmental you are, you don’t even know these people to make this assumption, maybe you should go and do something that truly makes you happy, then you wouldn’t be so jugemental because if these people were the same age you wouldn’t say that, and yet there are people who are the same age and are used and one of them is unfaithful and leaves, but you never hear the naysayers say anything about that!
@@lilydiallo594 one of them actually confessed that he puts a mask of kind man for them. Is just minute 10 and the story is creepy enough. Why you keep their side? Just to be politically correct? Some people are evil.
@@lilydiallo594
Plain and simple: it is not natural for a younger man to desire and old wrinkly woman who is menopausal and barren.
We are not wrong in pointing out the obvious truth.
To hear his Egyptian wife accepts being beaten is so sad to me.😢
I know. As a Muslim woman this is a cultural thing. Shameful
@@blueblue5427 sadly, I think it’s rampant around the world; why we don’t all teach our girls to run away if someone treats you badly, I don’t know.
I read somewhere it takes on average 6-8 years to leave an abusive relationship. Difficult 😞 when in many religious cultures the woman is “supposed” to subjugate herself.
@@l.w.4701 it’s very sad . I live in the USA and there are shelters for domestic abuse everywhere yet they said only 1 in 10 women leave abusive marriage.
Sadly even if there are resources women still stay or some are killed .
In some African cultures too...some wives if not beaten for a while complain their husbands don't love them anymore...
@@lynnkesh254 😲
This makes 90 day fiance look like a dream
Loneliness and old age can drive some people crazy!
They know they are just a pocket book, and they don't mind it!
Apart from that delusional guy who sent money for 7 yrs without meeting the gal...Atleast these ladies are getting some action...
I hope help me orphans l need medicine until insurance healthy Cut off about him
Please help
Syrian refugee Jordan
إخواني وأخواتي بالله يأهل الخير ياعباد الله الصالحين نحنا بنات أيتام 2اولادضغار 2مع أمي مريضه محتاجه دواء حتى تأمين صحي قطعو عنها اناشدك بالله محمد رسول الله ترئفو وصغنا والله مهجرين من بلدنا مالنا معين من الله اناشدكم بالله ساعدوني بحسنة الأيتام والله اعلم بحالنا أقسم بالله العظيم مرقت ظروف مايعلم فيها غير الله اناشدك أولادك ذكاتهم أنك ترئف حالنا ماتردني كرمال الأيتام قاصدتك الأيام الفضيلة أنك ترئف وضعنا عندي تقرير طبي يثبت كلامي طالبي العون منكم وجه الله تعالى،
HAHAHHAA i saw ousssama in here
What happens if these women get sick?
Amazing documentary… wow. No judgement here, adults are free to do what they feel as long as they’re not harming others… this is their life’s path.
I would never entertain these ideas of dating/marrying men half my age, but whatever floats your boat.
I used to work for Saudi Arabian Airlines. Once a passenger asked me my age and I truthfully told him 24. He said I was a very old woman!!!!!!
Unfortunately, in those parts they do see a 24 year old woman as "old".
Did he just say the woman he adored the most "that he gave her so much, he doesn't mean gifts, he means health, she would come for 2 weeks and we had se* 3 or 4 times a daily. And because others were moving up, if you can't provide for me (money) next time it's over" 😂 these men are hilarious. It's all about money and pride. They care for no one but themselves
Walking prostitute men made by the poverty of this land. Better they should change things in this land - Then it will get better. Living as a prostitute men, every day of live... What a horrible imagination.
I was thinking he should be ashamed of himself. I mean for a Muslim man especially, the man is supposed to be the provider yet he wants an easy way out and find a woman with money so he doesn’t need to live up to his responsibilities. Sorry but I could never respect a man like that. But that’s just me.
Don’t generalise, not all Egyptian men are like him. Im sure he will be bullied after this documentary
@@IloveCamels335 These men don't see the women as women or wives. To these men, the women are a source of income - just like people in the West make money off animals they keep in a zoo or otherwise for entertainment.
@@Leenalast90 On the contrary, he will be much admired by his buddies.
I feel sorry for these lonely women who make fools of themselves by believing that these con men actually love them.
It's how the world is, there are men who do the same, far more I'd suggest, mail order brides, 2 years to get residency and half their assets, but men seem more delusional in general than women about their level of attractiveness and believing that women want them for just who they are. It's transactional.
Ah yes, the poor frail white unsuspecting woman. Perhaps she’s the predator. These women know what they are doing, they want young, “exotic” peen. It’s indeed a transaction. No victims here!
They are too old to be that stupid
Or even fancy them let alone love them, it’s sad really, can’t believe anyone could be so gullible
@@debrarow1933 Ikr??😳 Don’t they have ANY self respect???🤦🏼♀
When you call a failable human being the light of your life you are singing for trouble - no one is the light of your life but your OWN inner light - don't you ever forget that.
Very nice documentary, not at all what I expected to see. Well directed, the emotions of the characters come through.
Before I saw this film I thought these women were naiive to think these young men were genuine
After watching the film it became clear that the con was mutual.
"His Egyptian wife and I don't have Anything, in common." Well..., Actually Lady, I think, you Do. Just Saying.
I think Karma may have something to say about what she's doing
@@LynASullivan , I just mentioned her quote because to say that the two women have 'nothing' in common is an understatement, to say the least. I'm not worried about the moral side of things because they're all adults who take their own risks and make their own beds. Literally.
This is male prostitution on another level. Sickening
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Men and women who pursue younger mates should stop being delusional in believing that it's about love ! It's about the money, honey ! 😂
I dont think thats always true. I know a gorgeous 59 year old cougar who attracts many young men and they want her for her sexy appeal. Now for men , on the other hand, it's usually about money, but even there there are exceptions
The scottish lady at 79 looks better than alot of 35 year olds on saturday night. She must have been stunning in her younger years. Wish her best of luck hope its genuine.
I prefer to be alone: keeping up appearances is just too much!!! And I will keep my money for myself.
I’m with you! I don’t mind being single at all, even for the rest of my life. I am content and happy to live with my animals.
Sick men!!! They are not men!!! As a Muslim female my heart hurts at this brazen exploitation of these women. Shameful!!!!
The women are also exploitive. They would never meet similar men in their own countries.
In Islam marriage is a contract. Love has no place in it as woman has no say in keeping it or leaving it. Individuals can be different though.
Agreed. They both know they're using each other and what they're getting into. She's desperate for his body, he's desperate for her passport. When he gets the citizenship, it's bye bye.
@@vellabella1 they maybe think. but yes the fake romantic attention they will not meet. thats true. but this kind of woman are for a part realy stupid in this way. and another part knows about this and choose for. i also think it are dominant woman who like attention. and there is the sun the 'hoockers' there have no work so have all the time to eat your wallit where you worked for. and pay fake attention. but if you are both happy with why not. i understand also because man in europa have no time for
Women exploit too.
If you feel lonely, this is an internal inner child wound issue, nothing from outside can heal that. You need to go within and find the root, and be fulfilled by yourself first. Exploiting those in poverty to cure your loneliness is very unfair and often backfires. You can make good friends and help people in need to heal yourself also. You don't have to sleep with them and demand love, which is something you can't even find within yourself so you can't expect if from others. Heal your inner child by going within first and all the neediness will dissipate.
wonderful documentary!
Diese Liebe ist nicht echt. Geschaeftsbeziehung. Es geht um versorgung der maenner. Oft soziale unterschicht.
" I don`t know why I got so many marriage proposals" Really !!! It`s called an easy way to get a passport . The stupidity of these people who can`t see the wood for the trees is mind boggling.
I agree! I'm Black American and when i went to Egypt, i got many marriage proposals. Even at my young age, i knew they just wanted a green card or a way out.
@@khalilahthompson7065 Ikr? When she said “I assume they were looking for money”🤪💰, I choked on my Diet Coke!🤯 YA THINK???
it is a transaction. Both sides get what they want. It was ever thus
@@khalilahthompson7065 Exactly. Even as a young girl, they try it. If a guy wants to marry quickly and his foreign, I will know he is up to something. I don’t even consider them 😂
@@naemasufi7588 The women aren’t actually getting anything. These guys have no financial stability to offer and We don’t value looks highly like men do. Most old ladies aren’t even interested in meeting men. They are content. These ladies are very rare indeed 😂
I've just got back from Luxor and I met Khaled while I was there, at his shop - Sandouk. I have to say, he comes across as charming, educated and funny - not like most of the other Egyptian men you meet. I am surprised to find out about the things revealed in this film!
This documentary is really interesting and I think it should be mandatory viewing for all the older ladies out there looking to find love in Egypt!!
That’s their job, be charming and get old ladie$.
@@dinteague4456 in the Philippines, Thailand it's the retired men who get the poverty stricken girl. Same story different roles. Who are we to judge?
@@sandrabentley8111 I know, I’ve seen it on documentaries and real life. I’m not judging! If they have the stomach good enough to be with some old people like the ones on documentaries, go for it! I don’t care! It’s a FACT that they do it for 💰 and old people are desperate for “love”. 🙄
Gross
@@fionanicholson246 who are you talking to? What's "gross"?
They are all grown ups. No one is forcing anyone. Beautiful documentary. They are only looking for true love. Good luck ladies & gents. 🙏🏽🌎🇪🇨
Did you watch the same thing I did? For some it had nothing to do with love, bit was about getting money.
I was 50 and he was 24. Both European and white. He pursued me relentlessly. He was well off, I was broke. I finally said " OK, ONE DATE ONLY". and there began the happiest 10 years of my life. Nobody, I realized. Had ever really loved me before.....it was just about my looks for them.....arm candy. I left the love of my life because I wanted him to be with someone who could give him children. It was VERY hard, and had to be done very gently. That was 9 years ago. We still love each other deeply. We are both happy. He has three children now, he finally understands why I had to leave him, we keep in touch. I knew then and I still know that there will never be any other man for me. That kind of love comes once only, and I am still basking in the love we shared.....always will, so there is no feeling of loneliness or anything.
is this real?
Awwww🥰🥰🥰
I cannot find proper words to describe this insanity 😵
To me, marriage is divine bond between two people with high level of spiritual, emotional, and intellectual proximity.
Not in islam.
@@taliyahs1918 - & your source is?! that some muslims engage in something (for any of thousand reasons, eg economic survival) doesnt mean it's from islam ....
"To me"!!! dear the world doesn't revolve around you and your views
@Taliyah S are you Muslim? Because what you said is so far off
@@AA-mg3xr many muslim men have multiple wives so they do not understand the nature of honouring a woman/wife. Also women are a reward in their idea of heaven or "paradise" so good morality does not exist in islam. Allah and the quran does not teach about the heart of a man or give a definition of what true love is or what honouring a woman means.
when she said I need a man to be my lover, my friend ,my SON ,my everything..I knew something's wrong with her..👀😵😒let her pay..
Something's definitely wrong, but there's something at least as wrong with the man who'd be with her.
Mmmmm same here. And i do believe she said my FATHER!!!!! AS WELL
It was Sun she meant not son
Each to their own. I found this series very informative and interesting. It was lovely seeing these strong women living their lives the way they chose to. Not for me but hey who am i to judge???
Remind me never to go to Egypt! I'm also single and like it this way. 😊
It’s amazing! Petra too!
Well, I'm sure there is much more to visiting Egypt than this!
This is really sad, I am a muslim from same continent and I'll never ever trust these men, these elderly ladies are vulnerable they need a help. God knows what will happen when they reach 90 or above, no kids, no relative and no government to protect them.
Family and the government are not necessarily there to protect you! You've got to learn how to protect yourself.
@@SkyePhoenix Unfortunately, when you get old and your physical and cognitive skills start fading then you will need family or the government to protect you. When you are young you can be independent and invincible, that changes rapidly in old age for most.
"My Mohammed is different" Where have I heard that phrase before?
LMFAO...TLC 90 day fiance
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There's a video on TH-cam "I'm 82, He's 36 - And He's Not Scamming Me", his name is also Mohamed and he's from Egypt...
I was racking my brain as well 🤯
Really well-made film. Any way you slice it, these relationships don't leave a good taste in one's mouth. These woman might have been better off forming a community business which advances struggling Egyptian families. Maria is the wisest - let's hope she doesn't get caught again
Love can be business but at times it can be genuine... Genuine love is rare...In life all one needs is someone who can shower love respect and value our emotions
What poverty does to people’s dignity, this is really sad.
No faiza this is not about poverty,. I am sure there is sociology behind it. And now these men want to make easy money.
@@bhavnacorner6394 but if they have money or ways to make money other then sleeping with grandmothers won’t they do it? The whole situation is sad, and the shamelessness of the old women looking for pleasure from young men in different lands tells you a lot how people shift away from decency.
@@faizasaid3803 the fact they are young they have lots of possibilities being a woman I believe these women come for comfort and care. These men are standing in the market to be sold because it's easy money. Women in Islam must stand against this money they get rather than ignore it. Besides poverty in Zambia in African nations is immense so this argument of yours falls flat here.
Poverty it is understandable. But look at these dumb old women? There is such a lack of spiritual force and human maturity in these foolish old women. They are jokes.
Young women marry old men marry for the money all the time. 🤷🏼♀️
For a Muslim man to wait for a woman to provide for him is simply a shame!!
Well said. He has no values as a Muslim man
No three of you are simply shaming the Muslim culture... Crazy self claim muslim
🤣🤣🤣 True
It's ashame for any man regardless of religion and culture. How can you be the "King of the castle" or "head of the family" if you don't do the number one thing you as a man are suppose to do, which is provide for your family?
With that said, it's different if you happen to lose your job and you end up having to rely on the woman's income until you find another job. It's also different if the woman makes more money than you but you too have to contribute to the financial running of the house.
Didnt Mohammad marry old rich women who sponsored his mission of spreading islam
INTERESTING PERSPECTIVE WHEN THE ROLES BECOME REVERSED.
The raw sincerity of the Egyptian guy blew my mind, it is very misogynistic and he doesn't try to hide it
The Scottish woman is stunning... and 79 years old!
Was thinking exactly the same thing!
I can only imagine what she looked like when she was younger.
@@petestreet7535 they showed us, she was/is pretty/
She looks just great, not made up as 25,just decent beauty. 👍
I'm surprised she hasn't had cosmetic procedures to make herself look younger. Or maybe she has.
YOU are not harming others??? The Egyptian wife is the 1st wife and the Scottish woman is basically paying for this man to be her stud and so called husband.
This film was really interesting. I am really happy for them, who they are actually happy. At that age to search for love , need to be brave and need to have lot’s of money. Man made the whole life to be a business. I wish real happiness to all and to every single person.❤ ❤
Sometimes I don’t understand why a man or a woman can not live without a woman or a man? After my husband left me for another woman young enough to be his daughter, I never desire for another man again in my life, because my family and friends complete me. But we were all created differently, so I should not judge, because our life is a journey to the end of our life. Some can not stand being alone in this life, while others are happy not having a man in their life, and it’s been 25 years and I am very happy, I can sleep, eat, whatever time I want, and decides for myself. Independence is happiness.
So sad i can tell she is in love with him but looking at all his gestures doesn't seems like he loves her at all so sad. It is better to be single no headaches. Stay single and be happy
I agree.
She is not blind and she is also not in love. But living a better life than dying all alone in home country and providing him with money too.
@@soulmate1960 also sarranah and her man seem to have an intellectual connection, i guess thats more than the rest
Agreed!
@@soulmate1960 We all die alone, no matter what.
She said she has big box of experiences and wisdom…. Lol is this the result of that wisdom??? 😅😆👍
Exactly no dignity they deserve what they get they cant be that green too old
The differences between these two individuals life experiences is opposite in what they chose to weigh in their box. Which i don't believe has anything to do with wisdom. In this time and age period people are being deceived by narcissistic thinking/ers.
In the Book of Solomon in the old testament of the Bible teaches everything one needs to learn about the differences between "Wise vs Fool".
Hamdi seems to truely value Sarranah for what she as a person adds to his life.
though i noticed some interesting body language when she laid her head on his shoulder in the restaurant @ 22:20, as if he was repelled ?
He felt embarrassed because of the camera @@peacerebelgirl
In Arabic culture people are not expressing love and intimacy publicly so that's just shyness and embarassement on his part@@peacerebelgirl
@@NourChoukrani sure, i can see that
There is time in life for everything, for passionate love when young, but as you age there is love for your grandchildren, or you pets .
Not everyone has or will have grandchildren. Everyone should have passionate love and have someone love them passionately in return whatever their age. You can buy that passionate love however.
Did she really say she wanted someone to be "her lover and her son" thats just nasty!
Yeah, that seemed yukky, but sometimes we express ourselves in unfortunate ways. I think maybe she just meant she wants him to be her everything, like to have a full, rich, whole relationship.
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I think she meant an all-encompassing love like you love your family
And father....yuk!!
Nothing like that. From the point of view of her age, she has love for him in every respect, an all encompassing love.
I believe these women are fully aware what the men are after but choose to accept it as its all about companionship. Its consensual.
do you condone (male) prostitution?
Agree.
I agree. And of course there's some degree of naivety involved
Totally correct
Absolutely, I do not feel sorry for them - this is give AND take whether they realise it or not!
Maria is very honest and insightful - she seems like a great person. She was still taken in by Khaled though...our need for connection and romance usually blinds us
I have an Eerie feeling watching this! 😢
I’ve had a lot of men in my life. I’m 67 now and I prefer to be alone. I’ve never found a man who cares deeply about me and my dreams. I have my pets and that’s enough. Men are manipulative until they get what they want then they show their true colours.
I’m sorry you didn’t find a good man.
@@dinteague4456 that’s kind of you to say. I’m just not lucky with men so I’d rather be alone. Too much heartache from them. Thank you though. I’m sure there are some good men left but I’ve never found any.
@@vickimarlene4905 they sure are a pain you know where, luckily I found one. Happy holidays.
Women also can be manipulative, very. If they are poor, this is their way out of the poverty.
@@vickimarlene4905 I agree with you Vicki. I’ve been alone for three years and I’m finally learning to enjoy being on my own without the heartache and drama of manipulative men. once they get what they want, their personality changes.
What I took after watching this is that even strong women can be broken inside, and vulnerable, no matter how much they say they are not.
This is an interesting documentary which makes me ask myself: Is it better to have an obviously bought or pretended love than to have none? Doesn't everybody in such a situation, men and women alike, loose their dignity?
Anyway, for me the gap between cultures is even bigger than the one of age.
There's no fool like an old fool.
It doesn't happen only with old women!! They cheat everyone ,Search for a page named egyptian man that loved you wrong,and you will read terrible stories.
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Snap..lol
@@elisavetkolimitra4969 it's an old saying.
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The fact that those women disregard the “Egyptian wife “ suffering and just treat her like a thing that gives kids not like a soul who like them needs attention, love , care and most of all respect is sad and racist ! Egyptian women are not only oppressed by Egyptian men but also the old white women that come to Egypt looking for “love”
Poor Egyptian lady s 💜💜💋😢
Exactly.. absolutely ture.
You would be surprised how his family (parents, sisters, wife) don't oppose this "agreement " because they all benefit from it.
It's a business for all the people involved.
It applies to older men who go to poor East Asian countries looking for young women, and who ends up supporting her whole family.
The bad thing is, most of these elderly people really think they have found "true love" until they get sick or run out of money.
Those are not the real Egyptian’s those a half breed Egyptian’s
But the Egyptian wife may have a better life materially and for the children due to the money from the European.
Be kind to each other, have a chat with your neighbor - they might need it more than you think. Loneliness is hard on people.
What we see in this film happens a lot. Some women do not have to go to Egypt, some go to Cuba, lika a friend of mine, 58 years old. She went there to take salsa lessons and got madly in love with her salsa teacher, a good looking man of 28. They had a torrid relationship. She arranged and payed a lot of money for him to come to Europe. But he never came, he had met another woman and he is living now in Denmark.
These Men are not stupid at all🤔, no jobs no money they aim to involve themselves with these older lonely women..let’s be honest💯🤦♀️There’s no love involved, just money, If these women know the set up then good for them, but morally having sexual relationships with a man young enough to be your Grandchild is pretty sick…🤢🤮🤮
I agree 100%
Egyptian govt are billionaires so many times over. Maybe start with electing a decent govt
This has been widely reported about in Swedish media for many years. Women in their 60s and 70s who travel to Gambia to marry men in their thirties. Then there's Swedish men (Scandinavian men overall) who travel to South east Asia and bring home a wife half their age.
I'm normally not judgemental, but in these cases the power imbalance is often too obvious since the young woman/man from a developmental country is normally impoverished and 30-50 years younger than the Western man/woman, whom they hope can provide them with advantage, be it money, a ticket to a better life in the West, etc.
English men go to Thailand and Bali looking for women half their age to marry and bring back to the UK.
@@Woodman-Spare-that-tree That’s normal because white men are more privileged 🙄😂😂
The Gambian men are poor as are the Egyptian men and it appears to be a fair trade and consensual.
Excellent ...........
To judge other peoples private life doesn't define who she or he is but it defines who u are...and that's soooo true....
If ever one day, I denigrate to becomes one of these women in my old age, I ask that someone please put me down. This is mortifying.
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Hahaha, I'm sorry, but I had to laugh
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I am with you in this 💯.
I don’t agree! They seem very happy so what’s the problem?
He doesn't seem to reciprocate her feelings - look at the body language.
exactly.. think he has a conscious and if split.
Which couple?
@@kualabear the main couple, he says he loves her, but his body says different
@@lizinawe I thought so too. When he hugged her, it was more like how a son would hug his mother.
Yes. He is not attracted to her in a physical sense, but she is a lot
Thank you. I appreciate my single life even more now.
The best life is have your own place, your own car your own life and meet someone who has the same ... but they are there to help you and look after you when you are ill and they love you and you behave the same to them this is my life for 19 years since I was 24 and they came from Poland when he was 21
Music, songs and natural environment is beautiful, the stories on both sides, men and women are pure illusions! mixed with lies.
These are transactional relationships. They are both getting what they want. It’s okay as long as they both are making their needs known and are truthful of their expectations 😊
I don't think that this kind of need should ever be met through a transaction that involves money. some things are sacred and that is desecration. my two cents
You are wrong in my opinion. İf I pay someone to kill another person based on making our needs known and clarifying our expectations from each other doesn't make the transaction ok.
What you are talking about is a Machiavellian, immoral deed.
@Judit Szabo very clever to compare killing and marriage LOL yes, can't see any difference 😂😂
No,is not okay at all.When this young man cries at night under blanket because he didn't see his children for 6 months,is very wrong.The old,sugar grandmas are predators! Dirty old women.
Do you think the men are being truthful with the woman?