Why Are Older British Woman Seeking Young Gambian Men? | Absolute Documentaries

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  • Reporter Seyi Rhodes visits The Gambia in West Africa, to find out the truth behind the headlines about older British women seeking out younger, Gambian men for sex and relationships.
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  • @January.
    @January. ปีที่แล้ว +2717

    Those who have never experienced poverty cannot understand that being poor and hungry causes people to be in love with having food and shelter. Period.

    • @woodsandcreek7589
      @woodsandcreek7589 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      So very true!

    • @djsaintmusic7819
      @djsaintmusic7819 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      That hits home

    • @patriciahowes7130
      @patriciahowes7130 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      So true! I lived in a third world country in the tourist business. I saw the same type of romances as part of day to day life. For some, love is having food and shelter!

    • @omari6349
      @omari6349 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      No cap. In 3rd world countries, you can get women as long as you are loaded. Ain't the same in many other rich nations

    • @Lareina_513
      @Lareina_513 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Very well said!

  • @marigoldbeam5475
    @marigoldbeam5475 ปีที่แล้ว +4612

    These are the same people who cry a river when they are scammed online or otherwise. If you treat people like commodities and tools, don't be surprised when they treat you the same. Imagine the situation in reverse, old Gambian men going to England and exploiting young English women. This documentary would have an entirely different slant.

    • @temiladealamudun5063
      @temiladealamudun5063 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      Aptly on 💯

    • @Jaythecook
      @Jaythecook ปีที่แล้ว +171

      So much truth in this

    • @ChristinaFromYoutube
      @ChristinaFromYoutube ปีที่แล้ว

      It literally wouldn't even make the news for years and years if foreign men abused our children.
      See Rotherham. 1400 CHILDREN sexually exploited before anything was done.

    • @litespeedway6538
      @litespeedway6538 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@ChristinaFromTH-cam Liverpool Riots this weekend? The police force [majority wht.] wrote those children off in Rotherham & threw them away.💔

    • @fredajordan5704
      @fredajordan5704 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      marigold beam : This is why I don`t feel for these old and wrinkled "ladies"....They`ll wake up one day realizing what`s up, sooner or later....

  • @bethtrautmann6901
    @bethtrautmann6901 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +152

    I have an African friend who lives here in America. All day and night, his family, relatives and friends are calling him begging for money. No matter what he tells them they are desperate and continue calling. The real tragedy is the poverty and corruption of most African countries. The women have choices. Africans have few opportunities.

    • @puritymaritim9712
      @puritymaritim9712 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @tshenolomahlatsi3411
      @tshenolomahlatsi3411 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@puritymaritim9712😂😂😂😂❤

    • @tshenolomahlatsi3411
      @tshenolomahlatsi3411 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@puritymaritim9712😂😂😂😂❤

    • @alisjordan9206
      @alisjordan9206 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sad..

    • @sportlive-bz2wl
      @sportlive-bz2wl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      africa is continent that is only west african

  • @ndm8039
    @ndm8039 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    The interviewer is a very intelligent man, because he uses a very sensitive way to describe the situations and circumstances. I think this is really not easy and needs a lot of empathy and other psychological skills.

    • @betsylynnvedrine3784
      @betsylynnvedrine3784 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I would love a skill such as this .. and I will.

  • @poupee9564
    @poupee9564 ปีที่แล้ว +3375

    Extreme poverty in Gambia and extreme loneliness in the UK

    • @n.m6249
      @n.m6249 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      Great combination

    • @MsValiG
      @MsValiG ปีที่แล้ว +148

      and gros people on both sides

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@MsValiG Agree - how pathetic can you get!🤦🏽‍♂

    • @Bhebe40
      @Bhebe40 ปีที่แล้ว +204

      ​@Vali C The British are the gross ones, they travelled to the Gambia, not the other way round

    • @ukuduku
      @ukuduku ปีที่แล้ว +54

      How does an American man get in on this. In looking for a older woman

  • @desic3274
    @desic3274 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1263

    This young man is the most compassionate interviewer I've ever see. Excellent work.

    • @TheYasmineFlower
      @TheYasmineFlower 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      Agreed! He's such a sweetheart. I hope his career goes far.

    • @d.e.p.5624
      @d.e.p.5624 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      He seems a lovely guy indeed

    • @isabelsilva62023
      @isabelsilva62023 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      I have rarely seen this subject being aprroached in this way, no sensacionalism not for clicks the facts and people's views, this guy deserves to go places.

    • @garibayakubu1783
      @garibayakubu1783 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@d.e.p.5624sure👍👍👍

    • @grandmaster6215
      @grandmaster6215 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@d.e.p.5624white old british woman seeking for black young dudes 😂

  • @Kv2024feb5
    @Kv2024feb5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    The Anchor of this documentary is so compassionate and empathetic... Respect for him and the team ..👍🏻🙏🏻

  • @millinutz
    @millinutz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Seyi Rhodes has a really good way of presenting this Documentary, very moving, you fell you can rely on every one of his words.
    One can really feel the warmth from his heart, and concern for all involved. I hope I find more from him. I would especially like to see a Part 2 of Seyi going back to The Gambia, 3 years after recording this one.

    • @carlhorowitz5916
      @carlhorowitz5916 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I don't mind Seyi going back to Gambia for another documentary. I do mind, however, British women going back for sloppy seconds.

  • @pgikiru
    @pgikiru ปีที่แล้ว +1755

    It happens in Kenya too. Brits, Germans and Italians come here for holiday, and pursue younger men/women, and even (unfortunately) underage girls. It's a sad sight to behold, but if it involves consenting adults it's their business. When it involves minors, that's just unacceptable.

    • @Enabu1
      @Enabu1 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Yap I saw this in Kenya mombasa, the minors, it was disturbing for me, this is happening in the whole of Africa but I am just thankful Uganda has less tourism and a little bit of a strong culture settings that make some people shy of doing this,

    • @dorothyclangat9840
      @dorothyclangat9840 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Hamtatuharibia jina nyii watu

    • @gretakaveny4407
      @gretakaveny4407 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      True

    • @matsieserwale5768
      @matsieserwale5768 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      It doesn’t happen in South Africa

    • @marilynmutindi7007
      @marilynmutindi7007 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@matsieserwale5768 😀do not start this war

  • @nickp4961
    @nickp4961 ปีที่แล้ว +1979

    “I don’t know who to feel sorry for anymore.” Those are my sentiments exactly. I truly enjoyed this documentary. Well done.

    • @marjnussby8305
      @marjnussby8305 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Likewise.

    • @bubblybubbles4023
      @bubblybubbles4023 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Bob the builder has been breaking them down.

    • @deborahlaranjo3267
      @deborahlaranjo3267 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Sad TRUTH! That’s why I never had a Relationship again after my bf pass away, I feel like EVERYONE JUST LOVE MONEY , no pride no RESPECT >>>>>LOVE sorry to say my point of view . But I understand HUMAN BEHAVIOR

    • @nickp4961
      @nickp4961 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@deborahlaranjo3267 Never give up! Shine your light. Wishing you peace and blessings wherever your journey takes you.

    • @deborahlaranjo3267
      @deborahlaranjo3267 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nickp4961 thank you

  • @badmusoyebola4116
    @badmusoyebola4116 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    The level of STDs will surely be alarming

  • @Crispercas9
    @Crispercas9 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Nice documentary, would like to see more from Seyi.

  • @marthaoschwald1277
    @marthaoschwald1277 ปีที่แล้ว +1022

    I was married to a Gambian man and horrified to see an older topless European woman on the beach waiting for men to approach. It felt very exploitative to me. This is no better than men who seek out young women for prostitution.

    • @klopcodez
      @klopcodez ปีที่แล้ว +29

      That should be illegal if its not about love

    • @wendyshoowaiching4161
      @wendyshoowaiching4161 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Come on don't degrade elderly women. Everyone deserves a happy relationship at all age. They are looking for genuine romantic relationship that at least last.

    • @breezluize3282
      @breezluize3282 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're not much different than that topless woman. You've got some nerve passing judgment. Why were YOU in Gambia?

    • @suezcontours6653
      @suezcontours6653 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wendyshoowaiching4161 Besides, we need more Passport Bros to go for the older white women to stop them from exploiting young girls in Third World countries

    • @thetruthwillsetyoufree2631
      @thetruthwillsetyoufree2631 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      The english and germán woman are many times more exploitative than foreign men . They also pay peanuts for their very high quality product . Gambian men must charge 100 dollars a hour minimum to spend time with these spoiled goods

  • @lizvillegas6603
    @lizvillegas6603 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +539

    This reporter has such a gift. He comes across as someone with a genuine curiosity and desire to understand a person's point of view. No wonder the interviewees open up to him with such ease.

    • @BarakaGaspar
      @BarakaGaspar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I like the way you comment

    • @Dhuxul9
      @Dhuxul9 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah obviously he wasn’t asking real questions to these disgusting old crows

    • @davyreignstheking3173
      @davyreignstheking3173 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      and he is not judge type

    • @marysergiu20
      @marysergiu20 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He very judging! Ask people why they love and blabla...@@davyreignstheking3173

    • @belle3055
      @belle3055 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same thing happening in Philippines , white old man with really young girls

  • @Panda-cn5jk
    @Panda-cn5jk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Older man from UK goes to Thailand to find a 20 year old girl, old women goes to Gambia!

  • @john.a.gonsalves3731
    @john.a.gonsalves3731 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Seyi, great reporting......respect.

  • @LaRhondaTurner
    @LaRhondaTurner ปีที่แล้ว +158

    A couple of observations: 1. Michelle's man seems like he's kinda high whenever he's being interviewed. 2. The fact that Michelle nor her man can get his age straight is a red flag. 3. Michelle was stammering a lot when trying to explain that for rent sign. 4. When the lady at the end was crying about her pain that she's in when she gets back to the UK, it was the presenter who rushed to console her, not the man who claims to love her. That was interesting for me.

    • @donna-sheamcgee-boyce4973
      @donna-sheamcgee-boyce4973 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I agree with your observations!

    • @kevinfowler8712
      @kevinfowler8712 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I felt most sorry for the lady at the end because she's aunty to me and I was thinking in the back of her mind she knows that this is probably not genuine love but it feels to good to get out now that she's had a taste of what she's been missing.

    • @LaRhondaTurner
      @LaRhondaTurner ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kevinfowler8712 I definitely hear you. She wants love so bad, even if it's maybe transactional. I hope she finds real love.

    • @LaRhondaTurner
      @LaRhondaTurner ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rebeccarambo2893 I totally agree. I definitely think it's gonna be her best bet to try to move there if she can swing it. I'm wondering though if because of free Healthcare, etc., whether that's an option for her since she is in pain a lot...but sometime I think warm weather can help with pain. And maybe a little (true) love too!

    • @templekanu6740
      @templekanu6740 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because he is not her man, just fooling around

  • @hayat3428
    @hayat3428 ปีที่แล้ว +2152

    This is sad. Each side is looking for something different from the other. One is desperately seeking love, the other is desperate to escape poverty. The same thing happens in places like the Philippines but with old men going after poor young girls.

    • @jacquelynn2051
      @jacquelynn2051 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      This is great exchange imho with all due respect. The business of the WORLD is recognizing a need, and filling it.

    • @janellrr7395
      @janellrr7395 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      This is true but those Filipino ladies takes care of their man until the man mistreats them, then some ladies change, but not all of them. They still feel thankful and still serve their men. Feed them and takes care of them.

    • @hayat3428
      @hayat3428 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      @@janellrr7395 Yes, some of them are appreciative and okay with the relationship, and depending on how big or small the age gap is, it works sometimes. However, many of them are doing it out of desperation to get out of poverty, often sacrificing their true happiness because it's not only about them, they have expectations from their families to get them out of poverty as well.
      There's a reason these tourists go to the poorest Asian and African countries for these sorts of relationships. It's because they know these desperate people will do anything for the promise of a better life. At least the "cougars" seem to go after 28-40 year old men. From what I've seen, the male tourists often go after 18-20 year old girls whose brains haven't fully developed, sometimes even younger than that.

    • @LeoInterHyenaem
      @LeoInterHyenaem ปีที่แล้ว

      Not entirely. While the flockers may, indeed, be on a desperate quest for love by those incapable of loving - their protohuman counter-party is looking for: 1. Shag objects; 2. White shag objects; 3. An opportunity to dupe their white shag objects; 4. Cool factor. That's a lot more things they're after than just an opportunity to dupe the desperate hags.

    • @RiversBliss
      @RiversBliss ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah okay, one is looking for love.

  • @brendabatts5546
    @brendabatts5546 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Great documentary and work! This is sad on both ends, but it's been going on forever. Let's just try to protect the children--boys and girls, please.

  • @jameyross7915
    @jameyross7915 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This young man is very insightful ( Seyi). I really enjoyed this documentary.

  • @look_in_the_mirror_first7598
    @look_in_the_mirror_first7598 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    I wish you could have spoken to the local women about the British women coming in and pursuing the Gambian men.

    • @lql1094
      @lql1094 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      If those women benefit from that relationship, my guess is they don't have a problem with it.

    • @leahmoonbeamflower333
      @leahmoonbeamflower333 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      They probably don’t really care. They prob get the women, too. 😂.

    • @jacobr2058
      @jacobr2058 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s not part of the agenda. You can tell he probably dates white women back in the UK. I find it funny how he paints the black men in Gambia as criminals but the UK women as victims.

    • @seanskeete8785
      @seanskeete8785 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too 😂😊😂😊!!!!

    • @OriginalGaPeach
      @OriginalGaPeach ปีที่แล้ว

      Many know their husband is gaming those old bitties for money. They don't complain because the family reaps the benefits.

  • @gentleeyes
    @gentleeyes 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +168

    Seyi Rhodes is a great presenter. I would love to watch more with him. He asks good questions, but also isn't rude or too judgemental. Also, Alka's 85 yr old mother is absolutely beautiful. What a vision.

  • @rekoawa5732
    @rekoawa5732 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great doco bro. well presented.!!!

  • @lamins.jammeh2538
    @lamins.jammeh2538 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best presentation ❤.

  • @kenkabugi2515
    @kenkabugi2515 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    These guys look so Jamaican,we truly are brothers and sisters despite the separation and distance

    • @eeeeeek2514
      @eeeeeek2514 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Agreed. I think Bob the Builder and Alka look a bit like Kranium

    • @sketelgyal
      @sketelgyal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@eeeeeek2514 i was saying the same thing

    • @alisjordan9206
      @alisjordan9206 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bc they look "black". We all look like brothers and sisters...bc we ARE. simple ❤

    • @Obrbob1948
      @Obrbob1948 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Black Jamaicans were brought from Africa to Jamaica - as slaves
      So of course you’re going to resemble AFRICANS
      FACTS

    • @GtTrader67
      @GtTrader67 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alisjordan9206 So anyone who has a black looking skin is your brother and sister?

  • @KatM272
    @KatM272 ปีที่แล้ว +480

    The host of this documentary is a lovely individual very likable! I really love how everything was handled with care and grace for both sides

    • @tK-kv4lh
      @tK-kv4lh ปีที่แล้ว +14

      He is brilliant, loved it

    • @guleseraydin996
      @guleseraydin996 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly I thought the same ❤

    • @bernardtagoe310
      @bernardtagoe310 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@guleseraydin996 there are more gentle guys like us also honey

    • @adesoyeadeboye1036
      @adesoyeadeboye1036 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I noticed that also in the way he approaches everyone and the situations...he tries to create a balanced view

    • @Northsmen
      @Northsmen ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is how to get the older women as well🤣

  • @SuzanneDeniseB
    @SuzanneDeniseB 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It's just heartbreaking all the way around. Sighs. Thank you for sharing.

    • @gafaradedapo4800
      @gafaradedapo4800 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello , how are you? Are you single

  • @arcangeloarcangeloagatonet8308
    @arcangeloarcangeloagatonet8308 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    awesome video. well done, TY, never imagined anything like that!!! wow

    • @mrmillennium2697
      @mrmillennium2697 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      the man who made this seems a little curious and interested in the men there himself

  • @danielkemp868
    @danielkemp868 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    This reminds me of the magazines my Mum would read when I was a kid. "65 yr old Gran heartbroken when her 21 yr old Greek lover scams her of life savings. 42 yr old son says he'll get revenge!". Funny how when it's older men going to S.E Asia or Latin countries though, they're creeps according to the media but when older women do it, they're lonely and seeking love.

    • @11eve
      @11eve ปีที่แล้ว +52

      They are just as creepy to me. No PC way to put it.

    • @danielkemp868
      @danielkemp868 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@11eve For sure. Both examples of predatory behaviour. That older woman literally licking her lips at her NYE was gross.

    • @Jensth
      @Jensth ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Exactly. Gross double standards.

    • @mistermistyeye9218
      @mistermistyeye9218 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@11eve nah they’re all equally creepy

    • @hardeepsingh-sg2kz
      @hardeepsingh-sg2kz ปีที่แล้ว

      Older men are always termed a perverts. Old women are lonely souls. Wtf

  • @sheilagadde5975
    @sheilagadde5975 ปีที่แล้ว +502

    Excellent report. Poverty steals a person's future. Prayers for all. Kindness for each other.

    • @gritsNgravy-fn5ic
      @gritsNgravy-fn5ic ปีที่แล้ว

      And, Education is the way out. Obviously, these "men" prefer the easy way out !!

    • @caramelkisses8396
      @caramelkisses8396 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes!

    • @mikea5205
      @mikea5205 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Poverty steals a person's future. Damn that one got me right in the gut! So incredibly true.

    • @lambertmkz
      @lambertmkz ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Some of these young men are just looking for a short cut to a good life without having to toil for it

    • @Uber1937
      @Uber1937 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cierto. La pobreza no te permite elegir.

  • @henduby
    @henduby 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is on another level

  • @paulbrown5082
    @paulbrown5082 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    To every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. The British exploited Gambia and left it impoverished, today we have young Gambian men seizing the opportunity to exploit British women to realize their dreams.

  • @user-er1dc1ww3l
    @user-er1dc1ww3l ปีที่แล้ว +469

    It's just disgusting , when you take advantage of someone's poverty

    • @gloriaa.garcia3985
      @gloriaa.garcia3985 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

      It's sad but it always happens. It's like older men going to Vietnam & the Philippines to find a bride. The mail bride thing will never go out of business.

    • @zipinha
      @zipinha 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      Aren't the men also taking advantage of them?

    • @wsol80
      @wsol80 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@zipinhaNot really. The men are prostitutes with no guarantee of getting paid. The women doing this are hypocrites who don't want to accept that this is purely transactional.

    • @popularopinion2181
      @popularopinion2181 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

      Both sides are taking advantage of each other

    • @ColtraneTaylor
      @ColtraneTaylor 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@@zipinha Yeah. Like the Filipino women in that situation?

  • @beatapogorzelska1241
    @beatapogorzelska1241 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    A very soft, human approach to the topic. The presenter is outstanding.

    • @Jensth
      @Jensth ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Can you imagine someone doing such a "soft" take on sexual exploitation in South East Asia?

    • @ladiiyb
      @ladiiyb ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right, I was thinking the same

    • @Mutiny960
      @Mutiny960 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only because it women doing it. Go watch the documentary on Russian brides. People are praising the fact that the guys are all mocked and treated as a joke by the host film crew. Double-Standards much?

    • @betsylynnvedrine3784
      @betsylynnvedrine3784 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh I Will obtain this skill.

  • @lauraferreyra8489
    @lauraferreyra8489 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Excellent on every level. Thanks for this respectful point of view on such a tangled subject!

  • @katemortell5605
    @katemortell5605 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great documentary. Thanks!

  • @bettingbig777
    @bettingbig777 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    Kudos to the host for dealing with this subject with such sensitivity and compassion. No judgment, just seeking to understand ...

    • @buttergurls6401
      @buttergurls6401 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Lol😂😭yeah right!! He had judgment ALL OVER his face and even in how would say, " REALLY??!" 😂

    • @bettingbig777
      @bettingbig777 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@buttergurls6401 I didn't catch that. But maybe it's a cultural thing too.

    • @Dhuxul9
      @Dhuxul9 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yeah he was judging them! An old granny preying on poor boys 🤢🤮

    • @bettingbig777
      @bettingbig777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Dhuxul9 He might have been, but it didn't come off that way to me.

  • @foxylee58
    @foxylee58 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    A 12-year difference is nothing - he is 48; she is 56; I see that as OK! However, the 30-year-old with the 85-year-old girlfriend, well..as long as the lady knows and accepts what type of relationship it is, then no harm done. We have a saying "fair exchange is no robbery!!
    Update: The woman is 68, not 85!

    • @birikunzira7183
      @birikunzira7183 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Her husband or boyfriend just said she's 85 ..

    • @londoncovington2312
      @londoncovington2312 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yeah she looked nothing like 85. 68 seems more like it.

    • @anns9688
      @anns9688 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The diff bt 56 and 48 is 8 years.

    • @coolieward3255
      @coolieward3255 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She looks 90 he was being nice u know yall age bad

    • @quaithom3138
      @quaithom3138 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@coolieward3255 This woman does not look 90. Your comment is very ignorant and rude.

  • @JulietTheGirl
    @JulietTheGirl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Interesting documentary! Thank you!

    • @GUTEITASAMMI-G
      @GUTEITASAMMI-G 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      hi juliet tjhis sam from kenya east africa

  • @Twinkie989
    @Twinkie989 ปีที่แล้ว +657

    I married a narcissist who is 15 years older than me, who used my young age and innocence against me. As much as I feel I was cheated out of my youth by his manipulation and abuse, I would never think to try to recapture my lost youth by stealing that from a young Gambian man. How horrible. There is no excuse for being a predator.

    • @Lynn.B.
      @Lynn.B. ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Bravo. Beautifully said. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @d.kj.n1392
      @d.kj.n1392 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Lol... I find it interesting.... Over the last 5 years, that's all I hear being used; narcissist. Nowadays, anytime a woman doesn't get her way, the other person is a narcissist lol

    • @GreatValueChocolateMilk
      @GreatValueChocolateMilk ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You damn right

    • @GreatValueChocolateMilk
      @GreatValueChocolateMilk ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A sad truth

    • @sightsandsounds5354
      @sightsandsounds5354 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Men are supposed to marry women younger than them because young women are easier to edify. You obviously picked the wrong man but relationships are reflective, were you the perfect wife? I think people need to stop blaming others for their misfortunes and start being more introspective.

  • @hemeoncfellow
    @hemeoncfellow ปีที่แล้ว +308

    Old woman has money and no partner. Young person has energy and no money. It fits!

    • @atthesunyousee
      @atthesunyousee ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Like butter.

    • @goodcatfilms4276
      @goodcatfilms4276 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      And neither have moral standards

    • @kirstiehiorns618
      @kirstiehiorns618 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yerbut

    • @mollotuka8946
      @mollotuka8946 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@goodcatfilms4276 they're all grown up. There's no coercion or duress. She'll probably end up leaving all her money to her dog or cat.
      So why isn't it morally right for her to enjoy what little is left of her life and give some of her money to someone who give her a bit happiness even if it's fake ?🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸💯👍🏿

    • @shaspearman8647
      @shaspearman8647 ปีที่แล้ว

      It doesn’t fit! Africa has poverty BECAUSE of Europe. This is just an extension of that.

  • @kuldeepjoshi8010
    @kuldeepjoshi8010 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great documentary

  • @elisabethstrazzanti2312
    @elisabethstrazzanti2312 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Seydi- super super super Berichterstattung!!
    Respekt!🙂

  • @fatoukinnehcorr7240
    @fatoukinnehcorr7240 ปีที่แล้ว +660

    As a Gambian watching this, it’s truly disappointing. I knew this was going on but I didn’t realise just how bad it’s gotten. I truly hope things get better man

    • @benender7021
      @benender7021 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is also disappointing for the British to slave our people so nothing is wrong with it

    • @idkwhybut...
      @idkwhybut... 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      That's the crazy thing, man. We, Gambians, have our suspicions but we're never ready to believe it

    • @ducatidarren3516
      @ducatidarren3516 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      That’s sad, people there seem pretty cool to brother.

    • @fatoukinnehcorr7240
      @fatoukinnehcorr7240 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@Nmdgiig lol I’m a girl please
      Too young to even think about going near it

    • @imhereforitall9218
      @imhereforitall9218 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      As long as poverty exists it won't.

  • @kathymullins6358
    @kathymullins6358 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    The young man from Britain doing the interview is so sweet Would love to see him do more documentaries

  • @hoaxadventures
    @hoaxadventures 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What a documentary, Credible!

  • @sugargold4126
    @sugargold4126 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Who needs this headache? I will stay at home and live vicariously thru TH-cam and not worry about STD's, losing $ and gaining a broken heart.

  • @monalisatselane5093
    @monalisatselane5093 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I like your conduct towards all these people. You are gentle and non judgemental. keep up the good work😘

    • @PrinceoMsc
      @PrinceoMsc ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HI QUEEN

    • @MissStVincent13
      @MissStVincent13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree, I've watched other documentary he did, and that is what stood out to me.

  • @lauriepearce
    @lauriepearce 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    May I just say...Seyi Rhodes, you are born to be a reporter!!! Naturally gifted all the way round!! I wish you nothing but the best within your life!!! Please follow-up within this Gambian venture and more throughout the years..as we cannot get enough of you!!! BLESS YOU ALWAYS SWEET MAN!!!

  • @pleasegetajob
    @pleasegetajob 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    not gonna lie, Auntie lookin AMAZING in the gambia with that blonde natural hair!!!! she needs to MOVE there.
    prayin for her!

  • @tyrajenkins9665
    @tyrajenkins9665 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice interviews

  • @tafimutekwe2855
    @tafimutekwe2855 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    This is one of the best documentary ever made. In sociology they say for you to do a more scientific research you have to observe with indifference and not show your feelings to the subject under research. You did just that Seyi Rhodes. Well done.

    • @zoram671
      @zoram671 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Very good comment

    • @bambinaforever1402
      @bambinaforever1402 ปีที่แล้ว

      Was quite useless. The knegrow was just jealous

    • @ZedGirl
      @ZedGirl ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No, he showed how he felt at 28:00. Like, I didn't think that the man would be with the older woman realistically.

    • @organicforlife597
      @organicforlife597 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@bambinaforever1402how could he be jealous when he can get himself a sugar mummy in the UK?

    • @angelinemuriuki7384
      @angelinemuriuki7384 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      The interviewer wasn't indifferent at all. He was more concerned about the British women being financially exploited than the young Gambian men being sexually exploited.

  • @brnizzz
    @brnizzz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +352

    This is a very fascinating documentary. I witnessed my MIL at 78 years old, lonely, get scammed from romance scammers for over $50k. It was heartbreaking to know she thought a real person was going to marry her. Shows how desperate people are for love 😢

    • @hannashawn5772
      @hannashawn5772 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      😢😢that’s bad

    • @carlhorowitz5916
      @carlhorowitz5916 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      The scammer is almost up there with the kidnapper as the lowest of the low.

    • @jaws978
      @jaws978 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      not gonna allow this to happen to my MIL i am currently looking for a nice Gambian youngman to set up house with her over there.

    • @rachelabee128
      @rachelabee128 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What is mean MIL?

    • @carlhorowitz5916
      @carlhorowitz5916 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@rachelabee128 Mother-in-law.

  • @tttuu3309
    @tttuu3309 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good reporting

  • @williamtendo7835
    @williamtendo7835 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    P is so warm and fun.. and feels alive 😊

  • @margaretnorvell9555
    @margaretnorvell9555 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    The interviewer has such a kind spirit.

    • @hirainawhaanga6253
      @hirainawhaanga6253 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do you think.?

    • @margaretnorvell9555
      @margaretnorvell9555 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@hirainawhaanga6253 I think he tried to see the situation from every perspective and was fair in his reporting. Did you find his style likeable?

    • @maevecooper3404
      @maevecooper3404 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@margaretnorvell9555 , I do. He seems like a very kind, understanding person. I wouldn’t mind a Gambian holiday with him🤣🤣🤣

    • @siegridthomas9674
      @siegridthomas9674 ปีที่แล้ว

      I DO also and even BETTER if he gets a HAIRCUT ! Nice voice thought

    • @elomenaodhigbo9643
      @elomenaodhigbo9643 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love your comments

  • @marieblyden7512
    @marieblyden7512 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    So the 85-year-old woman who is footing the money to build his dream home, will not live too many years to enjoy the house, and as he said, she will die in his arms, from old age. Then he can continue his life as he wants to because he is much younger.

    • @loftydofty2721
      @loftydofty2721 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you want him to die with her? Alternatively, she could take her money and give it to the one of those places for the old and live a depressed life but eitherway she would leave her wealth behind. Didn't you hear her say she is living a second life?

    • @theisisreincarnate
      @theisisreincarnate ปีที่แล้ว +34

      As long as she's happy alternatively many elderly die unhappy in nursing homes & donate their money to corporate charities.... its the same thing here she's making a difference in another person's life however she wants .

    • @internationalpaperdollsociety
      @internationalpaperdollsociety ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We love our grandparents when we are kids, they do not look too good, its possible all of these people differ....

    • @abuyousefali
      @abuyousefali ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She turned out to be 65, so she got some years to enjoy life there

    • @onetime7408
      @onetime7408 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Fair exchange....

  • @innocentvwalika3838
    @innocentvwalika3838 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    what a beautiful documentary I have ever come across

  • @johnblythe7025
    @johnblythe7025 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a great video and really lovely man.😊

  • @sugababekiller
    @sugababekiller 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +264

    I am a Gambian and this is a daily sight... Older tourists with very young Gambians. I see it as a transactional relationship with both parties knowing what the other wants. However, it is not only due to poverty but motivated by greed. People like showing off.

    • @perliva
      @perliva 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Would that be the same as older British guys having a _transactional relationship_ with young girls in Thailand?

    • @flyingnutrition6199
      @flyingnutrition6199 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      @@perliva not really ...those men pay way less than woman pay this man.... and this man are treated way better than those girls in Thailand... Patriarchy is still on man side...even when man have relation with older woman.... Man always win

    • @CarlosAlberto-ii1li
      @CarlosAlberto-ii1li 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      and something warm and wet to slip in to, very transactional.

    • @perliva
      @perliva 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@flyingnutrition6199 Men _always_ win? I want to hop on your planet mate! How can I join?

    • @jaylucas8352
      @jaylucas8352 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Or rich men that go and finds young Russia. Bride

  • @ZZZabella
    @ZZZabella ปีที่แล้ว +375

    Excellent documentary with so many perspectives. Seyi Rhodes is a very caring and intelligent reporter.

  • @shannon2003
    @shannon2003 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a wonderful young man presenting This program.

  • @the.surrenderedlife
    @the.surrenderedlife 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The reporter is good at what he does...Kudos

    • @Dhuxul9
      @Dhuxul9 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes he didn’t show his disgust towards these old crows 😂

  • @thatsjarrod1965
    @thatsjarrod1965 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +175

    As a 50 year old guy, I'm glad they consider 49 and 50 year old men "young"

    • @vrunner6793
      @vrunner6793 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Is that the point really? Feel better when a 85 year old says you are young? She could be your mom that’s why do the math 😤

    • @thatsjarrod1965
      @thatsjarrod1965 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@vrunner6793 you must be fun at parties

    • @hasepsut011
      @hasepsut011 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh you are young. You could pay for another 30+ years instead of only 10 lets say. Have you thought of that.

    • @LadyBug1967
      @LadyBug1967 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I actually think he began with a fifty-year-old middle-aged Gambian men and a 58 year-old middle-aged British white woman just to shake it up so that one wouldn't put on moral glasses, not that one shouldn't but he wanted to be able to begin this documentary without initiating a bias from the get-go due to age disparity. I think it was achieved this by showing us two middle-aged people who loved each other & who got married and their families were involved in the marriage, the family of the man who lived in that country was involved which is usually what they say marriage is about, although with older people it is less so.

    • @wallaceblaks8877
      @wallaceblaks8877 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂

  • @amclean9jallow45
    @amclean9jallow45 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    I like the documentary it’s really shows the exact story. I am a Gambian I grew up around this, it’s heartbreaking but it’s the reality

    • @rachelabee128
      @rachelabee128 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      What the family and neighbours say about this kind of relationship?

    • @ajioleysamba4984
      @ajioleysamba4984 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@rachelabee128 It’s not very welcomed …Usually people who are engaged in such relationships rarely live with their parents or a close to them
      Some families accept and some don’t ….
      In my family, I dare not think about it

    • @SueP-D
      @SueP-D 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      People do what they need to do for their own survival I guess. It’s common for a power imbalance

  • @Mr08victor08
    @Mr08victor08 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really enjoyed your documentary you are quite the Diplomat.

  • @user-wp7yc1bs6f
    @user-wp7yc1bs6f 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I lived in The Gambia for a year and used to visit the beachfront stretch around the Bungalow Beach Hotel and The Kairaba Hotel in 1995. This issue of old women coming from Europe to sexually "feast" on desperately poor locals (aka bumsters), is not a recent matter. Kudos to Seyi Rhodes for doing a decent and balanced reportage on this ongoing subject. By and large, The Gambia is a great tourist destination for people who are desirous of escaping from the cold wintry days of Europe and the rest of the world.

    • @ITHINKDAFUCKNOTYOUTRICKASSBITC
      @ITHINKDAFUCKNOTYOUTRICKASSBITC 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      well it look to me like this desperately poor locals feast on the european women purse. MMHMM WUZ GUD MILEY?

  • @mommam.6101
    @mommam.6101 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    The host of this documentary is just a sweetheart, so friendly and natural.

  • @gina-leecooper7561
    @gina-leecooper7561 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +284

    I really wish they had included the perspective of local Gambian women. Do they feel like the dating pool has been severely restricted or do they feel lucky that it now excludes a very specific type of man that they may not be interested in? In what other ways does this phenomenon impact the local dating pool?
    So interesting.

    • @emmanuelblez3356
      @emmanuelblez3356 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Gina how are you

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      They probably accept that that is how their husbands & boyfriend earn money to support them. Some must also feel resentment.

    • @Bamifun
      @Bamifun 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The women are benefitting. These dudes probably have a wife or two and a passel of children…children are such and important part of the culture. few if any Gambian men will forgo children to marry a post menopausal, overweight, lonely crone…but I guess everyone is getting what he or she is seeking.

    • @miclazy-5m
      @miclazy-5m 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      they are probably the second wife and also benefit from it

    • @whenindoubtmutemyownmouth5180
      @whenindoubtmutemyownmouth5180 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I would imagine all the younger good looking ones are probably out looking for sugar mommas rather than date a broke local woman like that one guy said in the intro.

  • @theconsciousearthangel
    @theconsciousearthangel 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for a great video. Very eye-opening. Nice to see this as so many women are degraded this way. I saw this in Costa Rica.

  • @kimberleeratzlaff4802
    @kimberleeratzlaff4802 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Well done

  • @mrttamara
    @mrttamara ปีที่แล้ว +121

    This narrator is hilarious!!!😂 His facial expressions!

    • @kevinfowler8712
      @kevinfowler8712 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Wasn't he tho 😫😂😂🤣 He was looking at them couples like y'all need to stop lying.

    • @mrttamara
      @mrttamara ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@kevinfowler8712 Exactly!!😂then I cried laughing when I saw that old lady with the crutches standing outside the bar trying to get her some!😅😂😂😂

  • @saltypretzel5582
    @saltypretzel5582 ปีที่แล้ว +453

    I find this disgusting but at the same time sad for both the men and the women. The women are lonely and the men poor. They are both using each other. On the other hand Seyi is an amazing reporter!

    • @mariatunstall7508
      @mariatunstall7508 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I's your life perfect

    • @Misskwu
      @Misskwu 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Shameful mehn. This behavior is disgusting and disturbing

    • @msunje9862
      @msunje9862 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Are those men or women complaining ? They are helping each other. Those men now have money and those women have company

    • @msunje9862
      @msunje9862 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@Misskwuwhat have you done to help those men ? Are you paying for their food and shelter? Y’all shame this but will watch without helping them

    • @BilliondollarmeDestiny
      @BilliondollarmeDestiny 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@msunje9862Those men are being exploited BECAUSE they are poor and they feel dirty inside for having to lower themselves.

  • @marlenecesarotti8468
    @marlenecesarotti8468 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    great video

  • @harryhayfron-benjamin27
    @harryhayfron-benjamin27 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ms P, if you are reading any of the comments, which I hope you are, I want you to know that you are an amazing woman. Bless you and I wish you all the happiness you deserve.

  • @Animalsandwildlife.7527
    @Animalsandwildlife.7527 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    This is better than being in a nursing home in Europe for these ladies. Gambia is less stressful.

    • @maevecooper3404
      @maevecooper3404 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Less stressful indeed. One might even say, a stress reliever!

    • @mariegomez389
      @mariegomez389 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I agree with you, why be alone & lonely!

    • @thetruthwillsetyoufree2631
      @thetruthwillsetyoufree2631 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maevecooper3404 i feel great pity for the men who have to perform for these smelly bio hazards from europe . They exploit these men for their huge packages paying pittances

    • @pedward323
      @pedward323 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      What that they are preying on poor people in their own country and you do know it involves young women and children also in The Gambia.

    • @jillybe1873
      @jillybe1873 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh they will soon be alone in a nursing home once the guys have scammed them

  • @onestarabove7027
    @onestarabove7027 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    The presenter just made this show! He was such a shocked proper English gentleman. I had never heard of any of this. Great show!

    • @gritsNgravy-fn5ic
      @gritsNgravy-fn5ic ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I feel this way also. He CERTAINLY was a properly shocked British gentleman !! Which I found very refreshing. As for the vulgar guy (Alqe?) at 11:55, he was gross !! You can tell the presenter seemed a little put off just by the language. I would NEVER allow a younger guy take advantage of me, EVER !! I've had my chances, but ABSOLUTELY NO FREAKING WAY !! I hate to hear these of older ladies being taken advantage of. As for myself, I would rather be alone than have to "BUY" someone's B.S.

    • @Sky-pt6lc
      @Sky-pt6lc ปีที่แล้ว +8

      British not English

    • @litespeedway6538
      @litespeedway6538 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Sky-pt6lc His accent was not Scots, Welsh, Irish etc.... He sounded English and most likely is English. Unless you feel something excludes him?

    • @Sky-pt6lc
      @Sky-pt6lc ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@litespeedway6538 duh not his accent. I don’t consider non whites as English. Nor whites not originally from England.

    • @FreeSpirit47
      @FreeSpirit47 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@Sky-pt6lc That is such an ignorant & racist point of view.

  • @gtmugadza
    @gtmugadza 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    you need to come and do a similar video in Victoria Falls in Zimbabwe

  • @erikt1713
    @erikt1713 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    The same is common with old Western men and young Thai women. Still, I have never heard that much understanding for the male tourists. It is literally the same and many of the male tourists are losing their life savings, too, while also having fun.

    • @MrFreeman0179
      @MrFreeman0179 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because men are viewed as perpetrators.

    • @idiedhere
      @idiedhere 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Both gross and predators hope they get scammed and leached off

  • @jenmdawg
    @jenmdawg ปีที่แล้ว +452

    This documentary goes deeper in a kinder way than all the others who mimic the tabloids.
    It’s actually worth watching.
    This young man is remarkable and I hope we see more of him.
    And P. I hope she goes back and is happy.

    • @jonhay75
      @jonhay75 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      'Goes deeper'...I see what you did there.....

  • @gouloune1
    @gouloune1 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Who said "Slavery has been abolished?"

    • @rootsy7038
      @rootsy7038 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right on!!

    • @Mhel2023
      @Mhel2023 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙄

    • @MrJm323
      @MrJm323 ปีที่แล้ว

      The British -- against the resistance of many African kings, indeed. (Including the "woman king".)

  • @butameremortal9424
    @butameremortal9424 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    We needed an hour long documentary to figure it out 😅😂😂

  • @ChristelSilvers
    @ChristelSilvers หลายเดือนก่อน

    😀Thank you for the good advice . 😅🤩😃!!!

  • @beewest5704
    @beewest5704 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Met a 30 year old Gambian while in Texas. I asked him what his occupation was & he said he had 4 older British ladies taking care of him, why would he work. He was visiting his 20 year old girlfriend in Houston. I thought he was full of it. Gosh he was probably telling the truth.

    • @edithwilson9174
      @edithwilson9174 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He is a scammer

    • @beastmotoz
      @beastmotoz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@edithwilson9174they are all bunch of scammers

    • @mouradel6432
      @mouradel6432 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Only donkeys who work, he is a smart man and topping it with a 20 years old hand picked strawberry i applaud him

    • @ITHINKDAFUCKNOTYOUTRICKASSBITC
      @ITHINKDAFUCKNOTYOUTRICKASSBITC 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mouradel6432 sure he's winnah and so are you... 🤣

    • @wysefavor
      @wysefavor 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@edithwilson9174 95% of african men are...beware of Nigerians too...

  • @bubblybubbles4023
    @bubblybubbles4023 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Men have been traveling to and doing this for decades in Latin American and Asian countries.

    • @Sky-pt6lc
      @Sky-pt6lc ปีที่แล้ว

      True but they don’t going looking for old females. There’s no future with them. They can’t have children. Also the older they are the more health problems they will have.

    • @thetruthwillsetyoufree2631
      @thetruthwillsetyoufree2631 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Woman are the biggest exploiters for sexual relations. How many female teachers who abuse their male students for gratificación. For every 5 cases involving woman only one ínvolves men . Shame Shame on this shameless woman

    • @Earthbound369
      @Earthbound369 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

    • @bubblybubbles4023
      @bubblybubbles4023 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Michelle Yes, the most popular places men go for that kind of stuff is the Dominican Republic, Colombia, and Brazil.

    • @Speedy300
      @Speedy300 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Equal right 😂😂😂😂

  • @oliveryt7168
    @oliveryt7168 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Many older women dream of a fit, younger lover.. Like many older men dream if a fit, younger lover.
    Youth is attractive.

    • @reirei4510
      @reirei4510 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      100% this. The much older women are meeting older men not 18 or 20 year olds.

  • @timoth4529
    @timoth4529 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Came here from Gattsus videos on the topic.

  • @charlieangel9705
    @charlieangel9705 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    That's why being comfortable alone is a gift.

  • @danechristmas6570
    @danechristmas6570 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Very informative, well done documentary without the unnecessary fluff.
    Must commend the presenter also for being very balanced in his presentation.

  • @tesssavanessa2312
    @tesssavanessa2312 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I'm half German, half Gambian and I know a girl that got older white men to pay for her medical bills….. She was underage at that time….And people are saying she’s the exploiter….she’s a survivor in any sense

  • @JoMelv
    @JoMelv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Very intriguing documentary. Well done.

  • @ojdivino1568
    @ojdivino1568 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    awesome documentary.. well done.. loved how detailed and well presented all the stories are

  • @nelly_kamau
    @nelly_kamau 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    The plumber part is hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @lsalmon907
    @lsalmon907 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The world is really an AWESOME and interesting place. FASCINATING STORY! 😊

  • @theaveragejoe5781
    @theaveragejoe5781 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Geography King brought me here. Very interesting video

  • @Bueller.Bueller.Bueller.
    @Bueller.Bueller.Bueller. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Everyone seems older in these relationships, which seems fine to me. Grown adults making decisions. We have seen way worse when older people go after really young people barely becoming adults. That's when it's completely wrong.

  • @fleurelise997
    @fleurelise997 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Seyi is such a caring and relatable host. I felt his pain when he realised that he revealed Alka's info to his mom. Awesome work on the exploration of the subject matter with a human touch.

  • @tillsstro2327
    @tillsstro2327 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thx..for showing the other side of the story......

  • @abba11_official
    @abba11_official 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am deeply saddened by this documentary as a Gambian and as a person who knows Ebrima very well who claims to build the 6million dalasis house.
    Both parties are not being honest with Seyi because what the lady said about Ebrima's age is not true and Ebrima's story of building the house is not true.

    • @ericac5807
      @ericac5807 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I mean the story isn’t believable but if she wants to believe it that’s it.

  • @internationalpaperdollsociety
    @internationalpaperdollsociety ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Judge not and ye be not judged. There are all types of people in this world. Very kind young interviewer.

    • @FairUseMotherWit
      @FairUseMotherWit ปีที่แล้ว

      Just buying people one at a time
      I mean what else did our ancestors slave for ?
      Except to make them rich so they can buy them a personal Mandingo

    • @leahmoonbeamflower333
      @leahmoonbeamflower333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly. Humans come in all different species.

    • @cwmackey5466
      @cwmackey5466 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Astounding, but, you're right. These men do not need to be judged, they need to be helped. They need education, training...jobs that foster dignity and self-worth or is that to much to ask for Africans who are yes, being exploited for their equipment !