TABLE MANNERS/ETIQUETTES - 10 THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T DO AT A DINNER OR DINING TABLE - ZEELICIOUS FOODS
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- The rules I share in this video on proper table etiquette will guide you on your next date or formal/informal dinner event. These rules will help you feel more comfortable and confident on the dinner table.
Use them to create a lasting impression and a successful dinner date.
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These etiquette rules were excellent! I have a few exceptions: 1) When ready to order, you should NOT get up and get the waiter. Remain seated until they arrive or you can signal another waiter to please get your waiter to order; 2) When you are about to sneeze, you should quickly cover your mouth with your napkin and turn away from the table. When you cough, it's in your elbow and slightly turn away, as well. Thanks!👍✌
Same things she already mentioned
Thank you for keeping me on my dear
I was choking from a dry throat and had already asked for water. Time passed and I couldn't stop coughing. Finally I had to stop a waiter to help me as it was becoming quite serious. Health comes before everything!
Thank you for the knowledge❤
Where do you place your bags, for example when you are in the church or in an occasion where nothing is provided for you to place your bags?
1.)Wait until everyone is served before eating. ...
2.)Chew with your mouth closed. ...
3.)Refrain from criticizing the food.
4.)Avoid stuffing your mouth. ...
5.)Ask someone to pass items to you instead of reaching.
6.)Use utensils and napkins. Avoid using your fingers to eat.
7.) At someone else’s house, offer to help
8.)Avoid interrupting when someone else is talking.
9.)Watch the host to see when you should unfold your napkin.
Thanks mam
Please ma can you teach me how to make a food time table for a Nigerian man who is up to 45years
Thank you.
I don't agree with point 6. Some food is best eaten with fingers
Ty for the additional tips. This is good.
It's never too late to learn and improve upon proper etiquette. THANK YOU. It means so much! ADDITION: If your nose begins to run/drip while at the table due to spicy food, hot soup, etc., DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT blow your nose at the table into your paper napkin and then put the napkin on the table. Excuse yourself and go blow your nose in the washroom and wash your hands. I've seen this done by male coworkers and think it is so nasty, unrefined and rude. Ruined the vibe. Why would anyone put a snot-filled napkin on the dining table?!
In these days of personal awareness, yes it's right but getting up leaving food and drink unattended..is that right
@@waleolabowale9825 I thought about it too. people poison all the time. one has to be conscious.
Yall need to stop. Why would you have dinner with someone whom you can't trust around your food or think they're gonna poison you? That DOES NOT make sense! Simply, say no thank you to the invite rather than worrying the entire time if you can or can not trust this person around your food or drinks. Now that
@@whizcleaningpros4218 exactly
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The Holy Spirit brought me here. This is so timely. Thanks
That's a good one even me the holy spirit brought me here.....
Thank you so much, I have learned a lot
Same here...
Me too mmmh
Same here
1.Don't place your bag on the table.
2.sit on the upright posture (spills more confidence)
3.do not shout at the waiter(establish eye contact with the waiter then signal)
4.close the menu and drop it on the table after selecting the food for the menu(the waiter will respond to you after that and take you order)
5.put the phone away(its shows class & respect)
6.do not apply make-up on the table
7.do not say your going to the toilet(just say "excuse me, I'll be right back" and go ...)
8.do not yawn or sneeze on the table(but if so do it in a class way)
9.do not show your teeth when using the toothpick(😆)
10.be polite the waiter /the one saving you (say "please"and "thank you")
11.do not give the tip to the waiter in public(say thank you )
*ps:Thanks for the tips*
Very educational. I said please to the waiter, sent a message to the chef for an excellent meal and as i was about to leave the waiter carried a meal in a container complements of the chef.
Nice! Really love it. The one I learnt from just watching is that if a lady on the table stands up, every guy on the table stands in respect. I do it all the time to the shock of people. I like the look on their faces. LOL
Lol I can imagine 😅
Nice. This is super cool. I would like this kind of experience too. Thanks for sharing.
Sweet
I like this one. Good gesture.
I love your gesture. You the man!
TH-cam has recommended me this video
I guess I'll be dining in a classy restaurant this Valentine's 😎
Am delighted by the way she speaks and her teachings
Am just glued to your way of talking. Even the talking alone has alot of etiquette!! 👌👌👌✌
Yes 😄me too..love the way she talks
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Exactly
This makes me smile. When I was about 13, my mom gave me a vintage book about etiquette! I fell in love with it and couldn’t put it down. This video is so refreshing!
Please @Ms. Meechie,can you share the name please,thanks
@@gloriaojunaigbo5892 Lol! I’ve been looking for it for years! I can’t find it. But, it was a huge book. Maybe, “10x15”! There was a drawing on the front, of ladies at a table I think. If you find one similar, please leave the name here. I think it was published in the 50s or 60s!
@@mscupcakedreamson36 Etiquette in society in business in politics and at home : Emily post
@@kirankikla9795 Thank you so much. I’m going to try to find it
@@mscupcakedreamson36 i m not sure .. bt d way u mentioned d cover seems this could b book .. if u get .. let me know .. i will b happy to learn tht it helped
I love your content this is excellent. You did a great job and you look amazing. If I could add a few tips:
#1. Chew your food with your mouth closed.....
#2. The napkin laying on the plate is for your lap, not your shoulder or to wipe your silverware or teeth off with.
#3. Use appropriate language at the dinner table, no swearing no arguing.
#4. Never be rude to the person that is preparing your food or taking your order.
#5. Always say please and thank you.
#6. Never belch at the table, or smack your food or floss your teeth....
#7. Never ask the waiter or waitress how much a dish is always refer to the menu...
#8. You never ask the restaurant for a discount on a meal. If you’re dissatisfied with a meal give a reference to the waiter earlier rather than later.
#9. If you are paying with a debit or credit card make sure you are comfortable with the restaurant you’re dining at or just carry cash.
#10.If the gratuity is not added into the bill the tip should always be 15 to 20% but always feel at leisure to Tip what you desire.
.......Last but not least, always dress appropriate for the environment that you’re in.
Happy 2021 every one and God bless.
please start a feminine and elegance series i love the way you teach, I also love the way you carry yourself
Thank you!!❤️❤️
@@ZeeliciousFoods yes pls
Yes please... You're so classy😍😍
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Yes please please start a feminine series
Information is power💯... This is evergreen, watching this 2023
Hi Winnie Congratulations, I just noticed your ring has moved from the engagement finger to the married finger I am so happy for you ma, and thanks for this enlightened tutorial, I learnt alot ma.
In your culture the engagement ring finger and marriage ring finger are different?
@@spiritandtruth194 dear take it easy. Her observation was correct.
@@spiritandtruth194 yes they are different.
@@estherbeamsforaballad3342 Thank you! 💕
@@spiritandtruth194 A legit question. I never knew.
God’s time is the best 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👌🏾👌🏾 thank You for this♥️♥️
Am Veronica from 🇬🇭am 22 years and I like listening and watching ur menu's aunty I want to be like you.
Thanks so very much..... Now I have learned good table manners
Do you know how long I have been looking for a Black Etiquette coach online and here you are. Man the universe is hearing my thoughts and delivering. It is scary.
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Thanks Winnie. Most of us put our bags on the table for fear of it being stolen lols. Some people are very inquisitive. When you excuse yourself without telling them where you're going, they will ask till you eventually say ' toilet' lols. Everyone needs to watch this for real. Thanks again dear and God bless.
I dey tell you...I just feel she should be more realistic.. Especially in the aspect of sneezing. What will people that sneeze aloud or continuously do?because I have met with a lot of them
When they ask just say the ladies' room or powder room
@@dumebigiwa7565 They will eat alone by themselves. If you can’t follow these etiquettes then you need to face reality that you need to eat alone or practice excusing yourself from the table and go to the bathroom or eat at home alone.
It never to late to learn , This will help me a lot this year 2021, for my wedding, and hosting ,plus dinning with my husband and family,or co, worker.
Congratulations on your approaching wedding. I think good table manners should be thought in school
Same here
@@somethingbettercoming but I wonder why it's not being taught in school
@@okoyelinda7104 I think the curriculum is too full with false history and other things that there are no room for it
@@somethingbettercoming yea
U are on point
I must confess that u are well cultured lady , please keep it up. Bible says out of abundant of heart mouth speaks . Love you loads girl.... Keep winning...💞
I'm so good at table manners which I haven't learnt from anybody lol 😂. I see myself when I look at this lady, super classy and elegant. 🙌
Thanks another for this. God bless you. We will take corrections on table manners.
Thank you for taking time to educate those who want to receive knowledge!!
Very nice video from a classy and beautiful lady! One more important thing: the man should ALWAYS be seated where he is facing the door/entrance. This is so he is able to watch the comings and goings and is aware of the atmosphere for safety reasons. His back should NEVER be toward the door.
That red top is just so Christmassy. Suitable for the season. Okay, let's continue with the table etiquettes 😘
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There has been several rules learnt. Thank you.
So classy thanks dear.
Your look elegant
@@kaijukaelizabeth1678 ...
@@ZeeliciousFoods thanks for sharing these rules.
The truth in this... Thank you so much for the insight
Winnie, you are professional, elegant and informative. You have the most beautiful smile that draws one to watch. You video is excellent! Greetings from South Africa.
Nothing speaks class like having incredible table etiquette.
Thanks for d tutorial 🤩💯👏
So true
Hear, hear!
This is so sweet & needed. I recently attended a birthday dinner with friends of a friend. I was mortified at the behavior of some of the attendees. Phones out, photos being taken 🤦🏽♀️. The way the waitress was treated was so poor. It is also necessary in this day to wash your hands before eating. You can do this after you've placed your order. And also touch up make up there as well. Omgness applying make up at the table 😥. Thank you for this video! Class is inherit & it can be taught. I enjoyed watching and you are beautiful sister ☺️.
Such A Beautiful Presentation! Thank You
It’s the tenth one for me...I used to work in a restaurant and a lot of customers didn’t know basic respect. People feel like it just the workers who are supposed to be respectful and “cheerful” but we are humans it goes both ways🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
thank u for dat
The highest physiological need of every man is the need to feel valued, loved, appreciated and celebrated. We all deserve to be appreciated. I celebrate you. Thank you for being you and doing your job well.
I'm certainly gonna subscribe to this channel we as Nigerians really need this
You don't "drop" your menu on the table BUT you "place" your menu on the table.😍
Wow....I really love this and you look elegant as well.Fantastic Miss Classy
Thanks so much for the master class
So many people have lost business partners, employment opportunities, life partners because of basic ettiquettes in life.
Every opportunity you have with people is an opportunity to sell yourself and these are some of the things our African culture doesn't really embrace.
Even the tone, body movements, talking over people, being too critical about the place, menu, etc are some of the reasons we loose it daily.
All I know is it's never too late to unlearn certain habits and learn the write ones.
My humble opinion
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Interesting and quite educative. Im 74 n have never learnt any étiquette. Somehow I manage on every situation. A lady who was in royalties sphere told me once: just be yourself. The way you are, you will never do thing wrong (?). In the restaurant I put my handback on the table because I don't want to forget it when I leave. !!
Jeannette,😂😂😂😂
You can teach cooking and etiquette, this girl na double threat!
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@@ZeeliciousFoods 😻😻❤❤
That the kind you want to introduce to your mama
Thank you, very educative. Just to add on when when you walk into a restaurant tell person eating next to you "please enjoy your meal or have good appetite"
Am enjoying the class, you are not just a good cook, but a good teacher too
To think that I have seen or heard enough of your sweet,stylish,colourful, mouth watering videos....my son even enjoys watching with me hahhaha....you really inspire me girl...Thanks so much for your contents
Very educative. I already knew most of these rules but hearing them again make it all better.
Was going to say you are so beautiful. Then I went thru the comments and so many people had said b4 me. You are beauteeeeful!
Thank you!!!❤️❤️❤️
@@ZeeliciousFoods Thanks for your teachings
You nailed it my darling . Thank you so much for this wonderful teaching , I really learnt a lot .
She is not only beautiful but amazing. Beauty with brains b🥰😘
Where are you reporting from
God bless for this.you were so articulate and full off life lessons as far as I'm concerned. I love the point you made about being polite to ths waiter and also tipping them after they're done serving you.its not an easy task to attend to an individual/group of individuals it takes alot of emotional intelligence coming from an experienced waitress like me.
I agree to everyone of the etiquettes especially "the NO PHONES on the table". Apart from it been a sign of respect, it will also help to build a better or lasting relationship with one another. Nice one Winnie
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Some guys you're dating wouldn't think this way tho.. They might feel you're trying to hide something by not picking the call then..
Worse still if he asks and you say I'll call back later !🤷
Talk to people with dignity
I absolutely love this video. I have 2 sons entering corporate America and I am sharing this video with them. I also have a few more guidelines to add. Love this!
What are your additions?
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Few more guidelines to share with her sons i guess..she is sending her sons this video..?
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Ooh I learnt a lot from this, kindly make the video of proper eating etiquette as you promised in this video I really want to know.
Thanks so much for this one
I am working on it already.
Guilty on the Phone part🤥
Winnie, you're unbelievably Beautiful, well put, talented... God was really showing off with you😍
This worth more than my data,thank you.
Thank you (with a smile on my face)
I am glad that I find this video. Thank you for reminding me the table manners and for sharing your knowledge with us. Good job. Stay safe.
This is very interesting, enlightening and engaging.You are so classy indeed. Love the red and compliments of the season.
Thank you so very much for the tips. I'd love another one where you can practically show us how to eat and drink and with what cutleries and wares. Much love!❤️
Same...want to take up the challenge on cutleries
I've gained some knowledge today
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This is superb! I just love it I've learnt alot here
I just love you Winnie and what you do on this channel. God bless you greatly,I have learnt a lot from you.
This is really informative 🥰. They are things that we sometimes take for granted not knowing how important they are as some have lost suitors on a very first date doing them unknowingly. This is a MUST WATCH! for everyone honestly. Let me add the last but not the list rule😁 DON’’T FORGET TO SAY THANK YOU I ENJOYED MY MEAL TO YOUR DINER😁 that will go long way. Before I go I want to say you look absolutely gorgeous in this red beautiful dinner gown🥰 I can feel Christmas all around you and thanks for sharing🥰🥰
That tip is brilliant! Thanks for sharing! And thanks for the compliment.❤️❤️❤️
Thanks holy spirit to locate me to this lady 🙏
Wow thanks for this! I was talking to a friend about this just yesterday. A lot of people need to know these tips!
You are absolutely welcome!!❤️❤️
Thanks for sharing this amazing content. I hope I learn how to keep my phone away while dining😔.... I know it won't be easy for me, but I'll start practicing it
Thank you so much for this tutorial! I've learnt a lot. Winnie you're really amazing and talented. I really appreciate all you do may God bless you.
Amen!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Waw! Thank you so much! I REALLY enjoyed this video and I learned so much!... You're a life saver lol.. Please do more of these things where you teach us values like this... GREAT JOB PRETTY LADY!
Thank you! I really enjoyed and appreciated this. God bless you.
Thank you very much for this and I can't wait for the next video on when the meal arrives. I love you
Great points. Etiquette indeed. Behaviors that scream class...
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This is the best video ever vey educative and l will like to watch it over and over again. Thanks to you my dear sister .
This is really educative... dunno why I’m just seeing this and I’ve been embarrassing myself since😭😫
Hahaha were many
Faith Ipeh A dwl
Lol. We are in this together. It is still a privilege we are learning it now. I celebrate you.
Mine is worse
Wow! This is so educative, imagine learning from someone with a beautiful face & a beautiful smile
Thanks Winnie 4 d vital information u shared
I subscribe because you deserve it a lot of people need to watch a video like this 👍👍👍👍👍👍
I love your kitchen. Yes this video is different but very important, thanks
You are welcome!!❤️❤️❤️
Everything you have said is so classy so educative. Thank you winifred Emmanuel. Much love 😍
In Thailand where I live, the ladies are obsessed with makeup and looking beautiful all the time even at dining table lol so I began to think it's a normal, glad you mentioned it. Great video ZeeZee 💗 happy New year nwaoma with brains.
It’s irritating the perpetual and gradual degeneration of women’s self esteem because of the advent of makeups, Brazilian hair and social media!
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You are totally on point and i love your spirit. Really learnt a whole lot today, thank you!
I also want to add😊
When eating,do not blow air into your food if it is hot,wait for it to get cool or simply stir your food gently
Ooppsss,okay this was meant for the other video
And eat small portions!
@@SoAnesu yess
Presentation was so educational : Thank you
Thank u so much I really enjoy this and I really learnt a lot ❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️
Your video is very professional and so much educative. I really enjoyed this one. I like the humor as well. Please I’m waiting for more.
The issue about a phone 📱 is critical 😊... when you put it away, it shows class.
Those that run Eatery and restaurants need to update their Waiters too.
A lot of them don't understand these things and others can be very rude.😣
Thank you Winnie.❤
True. You can spend 1 hour making eyes contact
Wow. This is so so so helpful. Many thanks to you. I am enlightened and ready to explore. Once again, thanks for sharing.
I love this, something a little different from the actual cooking series, please do more of this.
Well noted!
What’s up with those 350 people who don’t like? 🤣🤣🤣. Some people are just impossible. What’s not to like?
I think though that you should clean your mouth properly in the washroom. That way you can clean really well so you don’t end up with veges on your teeth and you can touch up your lipstick especially.
Oooooh, so so elegant and classy
Great content lady. I will send this video to all this close to me. Knowledge is power.
Merry Christmas 💗💗💗
This was a good one, I learnt a couple of things. Thanks for sharing.
You are welcome!❤️❤️
Thank so much! I have learned a lot.
Thank you Winifred, you are all round classy... I love you 😍
Next, we will need your beauty secret. Loving every part of this.
Yes!!!!
Kitchen prowess plus beauty, this is awesome. The smiles on point and the rules educating.
Why is beauty important?
@@leesteal4458 I accept your look first then, your food. That's why beautiful and well cultured ladies serve food in events. Beauty is not all about the look. It's more of the way you present yourself; how you carry your personality and feminine grace.
Thank you very much for this wonderful education.. 🥰🥰
Wow 🥰 it's my first time here, I really enjoyed and learnt a lot
Thank you so much ❤️ can't wait for the next video 🙂
Don't forget to subscribe and click on the notification box for more of this. Thank you.
Thanks. Your teaching has changed a lot of things in my life.
😄 😄 😄 😄 😄 The toothpick part got my laughing out loud!
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The toilet n loo😂
Can i like this video a thousand times? I absolutely love this. Well done Winne
You are so pretty. I enjoyed learning from this video. Thank you!!
You are doing a wonderful job !
Wow thank you so much for your teachings I love the way you look like, I want to be like you 💖
Very importan Mam. People are loosing these common practice. Thank you n God bless.
Thank you my dear God bless you for sharing
Amen!! Thank you!❤️❤️
Thanks for your reminder again ❤.
Oh my goodness, this is so beautiful
Thanks honey I just learned a lot from you 🥰💞
After picking a table for themselves it's important to carry the chair smartly and not drag the chair when they want to sit and also return the chair by carrying it also when they are done with the seat before leaving the dinning too😊
Please, make another video for the waiters. They also need to know the etiquette. Unfortunately they are not trained well nowadays. It so very often spoils a dining experience.
Thank you so much for this. I knew a lot of the rules already but learned a few new ones as well. You speak with so much sophistication and eloquence, it's so beautiful. And oh, you're one very beautiful woman!