Her Husband DIED But Left Her With THIS...
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Regarding the woman whose deceased husband left gifts, they’re saying it was HIS house, but neither she or BIL seemed to acknowledge that since hubby is deceased, it’s now HER house, as they were married. My house, my property, my rules. Don’t touch. Kick BIL out.
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He really used “they were curious” as an excuse. If they were in her husband’s closet, WHY WERE THE NEPHEWS IN THERE? It’s not only her house, but HER BEDROOM. This story makes me *so angry!* 😭
@@psyche_therainsilk I usually do not let these stories get to me with emotions, this story had my blood boiling. Not sure how the property issues will be resolved but for now KICK THEM OUT. When he gets upset just say, "Was curious what would happen if I kicked you out."
The MIL probably never accepted that OP married her son-and thinks that only she/MIL should get her son's things
Even allowing them to live there was an act of extreme kindness, it's infuriating to see people would dare to just roam around in your VERY PERSONAL stuff. The fact there is no possibility to replace the incredible thoughtfulness of the deceased husband's gifts is absolutely heartbreaking. That's literally shitting on someone's last wish and those people claim to be family... HELL NO cut them off
I agree w/ kickin the BIL out, she didn't even want him there. The family talked her in2 it n he's clearly been th@ advantage of her kindness since. No kind BIL would treat his grieve SIL like th@, if he had any respect 4 his brother.
In the third story - he didn't even apologize for the nephews opening the gifts! He went straight to blaming her. Also it's clear he has no sense of privacy, no wonder the nephews didn't either.
not only privacy but also respect for the deceased husband's last wish, that dude is lower than trash for allowing to let a widow's gifts get ruined...
I wonder how they would react if someone from their family died, left them gifts, only to find them ruined?
I agree
They are egoistic. If this is them, there are a problem. If this is other, there are no problems.
They would yell and get everyone to disown that person I bet. Or worse
nah HIS KIDS should REPLACE EVERY gift HER deceased hubby left for her and he could have at least read the note , ITS her house ,her rules . BIL and MIL need a punch in the face
That second story is.. whew. Brother & husband were wrong. I really wanna ask them if they'd get mad if a family with a baby used their trash to throw away a diaper. Not that it's the same but I feel like it'd point out some hypocrisy.
What was the alternative besides the trash? "Throw it outside" so littering? Keeping it in a pocket isn't exactly more sanitary than throwing it away. Waiting until she got home and risk bleeding everywhere?
I also feel like if the husband knew she didn't get along with the brother, then he shouldn't put her in a situation like that- he should've known an argument would strike eventually. That was the first red flag I saw in the story. And the husband is immature & ignorant at best. For both of them to be grossed out by that as full grown adults is laughable
agreeeed!! Also as a woman with a period, it’s a very natural thing. It’s inconsiderate of him to expect her to continually bleed if she needed to change her sanitary product out for a new one. I can see why his brother is single. He can’t handle normal womanly prospects
Yeah 100% agree. Even if he was uncomfortable, why can't he just simply ask her not to throw it away in his trash instead of throwing a hissy fit. Gees some people...
Or give her a separate bag to put it in to dispose of it elsewhere. Also, a used pad in the pocket would smell up the room [and her] entirely.
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Exactly! The guy asking if he was wrong is ridiculous because it's so obvious. I mean i guess it's his place, he makes the rules. But he is still a jerk for lacking basic human decency and so is her husband for not standing up for his wife when she wasn't in the wrong.
I'd be worried about how well equipped a 28yo is to take care of the needs of a child if they can't even balance job hunting with ordering takeout...
The last one really upset me how manipulative he is when this whole time he's been invading peoples boundaries like damn do you not have your own laptop, razor, colonge and clothes and it really doesn't seem like the MIL place to get involved and say that BIL is "grieving" when we know you went in there saw it and let your kids open it up having them think it's for them because you and MIL don't like her
I hate when people take the side of someone that wrong or just because that's their friend, kid or partner
My dad always takes my mom's side when she's in the wrong
0:05: I can't blame him for leaving. She values her friends more than him. I would consider kicking her to the curb.
2:34: This sounds like it's a big to-do over nothing. She properly disposed of the pad; he overracted. It's not like she flushed it down the toilet (in which case his anger would be justified).
6:00: Her boyfriend couldn't take a few minutes out of his day job hunting to satisfy the cravings of his pregnant girlfriend? He must not care about her as much as he says he does.
8:43: What an absoulutely classless act her BIL did. I get that he's grieving the loss of his brother as well, but those gifts were intended for her, not anyone else. Plus, wouldn't possession of the house transfer to her after Adam's passing (thus making it HER house)?
And how does OP even know if BF is really job-hunting?
@@nancyomalley6286 thing is she probably doesnt and just is weighing it all on his word that he is
She’s working two jobs and he’s working NONE. Day labor is hiring every day. JS.
So when/if brother gets a girlfriend, exactly what does he expect her to do with her pads then?
I got the impression that the brother was gay or ace, but that impression could be totally off.
@@tintinismybelgian ...just because a guy doesn't like something a woman does doesn't make him gay.. wtf... the guy in the story is just an ass not gay
@@tacobell1299 Did my comment give you the impression I was labelling him definitively as someone not interested in ladies, or did it merely express the vibes I was subjectively experiencing from how the story was told?
@@tintinismybelgian There are a LOT of men who are interested in women, yet refuse to understand periods. There is no bigger % among gay or ace people doing something like this. Your comment is insulting normal ace and gay people by implying they would be more likely to be this kind of assholes.
@@Sienisota I was thinking along the lines of some in gay and ace circles feeling repulsion toward the idea of intercourse with females (and thus, a tangential repulsion toward female anatomy/physiology).
The BIL of the last story doesn't deserve anything nice at all.
I sincerely hope that karma comes for him & he is made to truly suffer for his thoughtlessness.
That bil at the end sounded like he moved in to lay claim on the deceased house. As the wife it's her house now, unless there's a will that says differently. And even then, if the will was before they got married it can be contested and she'd get the house anyway.
The second story is so confusing! I thought she left it laying around somewhere until the end of the story. The girl did nothing wrong, she put it in the trash?
This is why some men suck about these things. She should’ve wrapped it in toilet paper to avoid unnecessary conflict with these idiots.
Exactly what I thought too L brother
I think it’s a guy who’s either never been around women or just hasn’t been around them enough to know how things work? I’m also confused 😂
exactly the fact that both the husband and the brother are misogynistic Is embarrassing 💀🤡
I wouldn't be surprised if the brother is just trying to cause problems in OP's marriage, he doesn't like the wife, so he uses an excuse hoping OP will be on his side and OP stupidly goes for it, honestly the brother sounds like he has some issues going on to cause an argument over that, hopefully the wife never goes back because she doesn't deserve that type of treatment and OP's brother is for him to deal with not her.
For the pregnant lady, I agree with you Ellen. Like, literally, she's the only one actually doing shit and also is pregnant, like, I get its overwhelming to search for a job but considering the place his girlfriend is in you should do better
None of my guy friends have a problem with us who have periods properly disposing our menstrual products in their trash when we are over. That brother is honestly probably single for a reason.
And there is issues with having used pads in pockets since I definitely would forget it there.
I once bought a hoodie from a thrift shop and in its pocket was a used pad. It was properly rolled and in a wrapper (and seemingly also toilet paper but I didn't open the wrapper for obvious reasons) so it didn't smell but who knows how long that was there and it was gross af. I washed that hoodie twice before using it.
They BF couldn't make the timely order for his GF's burger? Has he really been job hunting all day, every day? I have doubts.
Wit the last one, it almost seemed like the BIL was trying to replace the husband in the beginning
bruh
Just because the brother in law is grieving, doesn't mean the wife isn't! That is just cruel. The mother in law supporting brother in law is just being biased. She doesn't care about the fact that the wife is grieving too.
"Would Adam want you to treat me like that?"
Would Adam want him to treat his wife like that?
the widow should've kicked the BIL and his kids as well as the MIL out for not having any issues with opening up her deceased husband's gifts for her. how would they feel if someone came to their house and opened the gifts that were for the living relatives?? the kids should've known better than to open gifts that weren't for them. smh
If I was her, (the pad girl), I'd be happy to never go to his house again.
Same!
Ditto and her husband seems like a real douche bag!!!!
for the second story, this guy must have intentionally gone out of his way to open the friking trash can and look for a friking pad in there like wtf???
The last story made me so angry. I can’t believe how heartless people can be. I would’ve immediately got violent and then kicked them out. They totally deserved it. One of their family members died but they care about gifts more. That is so fcked up. I really hope those people get karma
Hello people that exist. (I think.)
First story: Why would you bring your boyfriend if you’re just going to ignore him? Like, if you are going to do that just tell him you want to go with only your friends.
Second story: OMG. I can’t. Women have periods? We have to throw our used pads in trash cans? Omg. The world is going to end. Like, seriously? We can’t control wether we have to change a pad or not. But like, what was she supposed to do? Hold on to it? Not change it? Like? And wtf is “It was a sign of disrespect.” Like, it’s a pad. Chill. How is it disrespectful to throw away a pad? But this makes me laugh because like “You could’ve thrown it outside but not in his bathroom.” Like his bathroom isn’t some sacred place. It’s a bathroom. That kind of stuff happens in a bathroom. But like, oh no! One used pad, it’s going to kill you! Like.....
Third story: Okay, don’t tell someone you are going to do something and not do it. You can’t be mad at her for expecting a burger when you told her you’d get her one. And I get he’s looking for a job, but I think he can spare 20 minutes to go get his girlfriend a burger. Like, come on.
Fourth story: Good for her for kicking him out. But the fact that he started using all his brothers things when there not even his things. Like, come on. And then he’s like. “You should’ve moved your stuff so my kids wouldn’t destroy them.” Okay, first of all how is it her fault that YOUR kids decided to wreck the gifts. And second, you should teach your kid to, I don’t know, NOT DESTROY STUFF WHEN THEY SEE IT. Like, she shouldn’t have to move her own things in HER own room because your kids like destroying things. And then he’s like, “Yeah, but this is my brothers house.” Exactly, it’s your brothers house. Not yours. I don’t think your brother would like the fact that your kids destroyed all the gifts he bought for her. But NOOOOO.
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That last story is really fishy, unless op left out how the brother was feeling/grieving, it seems like the brother doesn’t care and just wants adams stuff
I always wrap my pads, and tampons. I just learned to do that by mom bc some public toilet don't have a seperate tiny trash can for just those stuff and some people don't like seeing blood.
I see no problem doing this or not.
But it's none of your concerns if you don't do it. People just have to suck it in and not make a big deal about it like the second story. 😂
About story 2:
If it had been a piece of tissue with blood on it from some kind of nosebleed in his bin, he wouldn't have been so grossed out. But just because it was period blood - something we CANNOT CONTROL IN THE SLIGHTEST, even less than other things bleeding - he was disturbed. That's such vile behaviour from him. He couldn't have at least brought it up to her one on one? And her own husband says it's wrong, when all other alternatives are unsanitary? The lengths to which some people's stupidity reaches is baffling to me. Some people really have no consideration for others' needs.
The proper way of disposing a used pad in someone’s house is to fold the pad and wrap it well with toilet paper.
For the pregnant woman with the boyfriend who waited until she got home to order dinner and used up all the hot water so she couldn’t shower because he beat her to it, he had all day to do those things. She has every right to be frustrated, pregnant or not.
The excuse of “you’re overreacting” is most used in instances of “you’re actually reacting when I expected you to ignore the issue I don’t want to deal with”
It wasn’t “just because of a burger” she was working all day while he looked at ads for jobs and tried to make it sound like he somehow had just as much reason to be tired as she does.
1st story: Not in the wrong, but not in the right. He could've called his gf or had a conversation in person before leaving, and texting an ultimatimum just before leaving sounds like an invitation for drama to me
2nd story: 31, lives alone and checks his trashcan everytime someone uses his restroom? Sounds like he'll be staying single for a long time, just don't get how the husband agrees with him
3rd story: The burger is just a surface issue, the woman is probably actually upset because she's about to have a baby with someone who's not responsible enough to order food on time, let alone raise a kid, whereas she's working 2 jobs while pregnant - and he's nearly 30 while she's closer to 20
4th story: Her husband, her house, BIL can GTFO
Unless BIL is paying the bills then he needs to leave since he disrespected his SIL and in a way his own brother. Sound like to me BIL is used to getting away with everything or blaming things on other people. SIL is grieving as well. If anyone ever did that in my house they would be gone in that day. and their things would be used to repay anything they had broken
The third story about the pregnant lady, I have to see where she was coming from. I had 3 kids. I had lots of weird or odd cravings.
Adam would prolly be mad at his brother for being such a jerk. 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏼♂️
4:11 Throw it OUTSIDE? Hopefully he means the curb side trash can, right? And if it was wrapped and in the trash, its perfectly sanitary. If he's hemophobic I could understand, but he was just mildly annoyed. He's mad over nothing.
What does "hemophobic" means?
@@user-guigui01 the phobia of blood
The husband is an asshole too in the 2nd one. If used pad in trashcan makes a guy uncomfortable, he is always the problem
Do you mean uncomfortable?
@@eleanora1623 Both. Unless this person has a phobia about blood, menstruation blood is just menstruation blood, the same way neck blood is neck blood when someone is beheaded.
@@eleanora1623 yes that's exactly what I meant, thanks for correcting
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That last story, I think BIL is going to try to insinuate himself into OP's life and is eventually going to try to take his dead brother's place.
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I also thought she let the pad lying somewhere visible, but no that man looked in the trashcan to find it 💀
The last story absolutely upsets me. The late husband bought those gifts for a reason, and for the brother and mother to just dismiss what the nephews did with not even an "I'm sorry" is f***ing infuriating. They said she is acting unhinged? I would come completely unhinged if my in-laws did something like that to me. They would have hell to pay.
And regarding the thing about the house belonging to the husband. Since they were married, the house now belongs to the wife.
1) NTA - I can vaguely imagine what went through her head and what would have offended her but you can't be called an AH just because she is like that.
If you want to try and salvage the relationship tell her exactly how her behaviour made you feel - she'll get defensive so just tell her you don't want to fight, just tell her for the future. If she wants a ride you can help but if she wants to stay with her friends it's totally fine but you can stay at home. If she is feeling any guilt at all it will work out even if she gets really defensive (she will keep telling everyone she is right but act the way you ask). otherwise better to know now than later.
2) he overreacted for the pad - I mean that was a trash can - but it's also his home and she could have just said "I think he is overreacting I didn't know he would get that offended by something like that but I won't do it again" I mean they hate each other, how many times is that situation going to happen?
3) won't be able to tell untill I'm pregnant but if the hormones are anything like when I have my period the boyfriend is lucky he isn't dead over that burger.
Also the shower was a low blow
4) Just kill the whole family - if they miss your husband so much they'll be happy to see him sooner.
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@@shriyauchihapotter4074 do you disagree? I am being merciful here but I can understand if you don't want to forgive them
For the second one she absolutely should not say she “won’t do it again.” She can’t control her period. Taking a dirty pad with you just cause you don’t like trash in your trash? She said she rolled and covered it and did all the polite things to do with period trash. She just shouldn’t go over there anymore for her own sake
@@katelynderbidge3166 nah - I wouldn't want a fight to ensue just because of a dinner that happens once a year or something.
What are the probabilities that she will go back there (to dine with someone she hates) and have her period?
And in case it happened again she can just roll it up and bring it back to the table and politely ask where can she throw it out since apparently the trash can in the toilet is off limits.
(now _that_ would be something worth having a fight about).
And if she has to bring it outside she can just give it to her husband - she is so sorry but her purse is full. He has pockets anyway so can't he bring it out himself? she rolled it up and everything so he shouldn't worry. After all if she had to put it in her purse what's the problem with him putting it in his pocket?
Oh noooo a girl left a basic hygeine product out of sight in the trash. I... I can't. :( The bad thing is, I know so many guys that act like this.
I would have kicked him out too. This story made me soo mad. What an Ahole.
First story: Now he knows about her and her friends. What he does is up to him. Second story: She could have wrapped it up and taken it to dispose of elsewhere. But the brother was a bigger jerk for mentioning it. What a bunch of idiots. Third story: Boyfriend is a lazy @$$. Just wait until the baby is born and she'll see what she got herself into. Fourth story: This is a perfect example of why you should not let family talk you into things that you know were bad; also, a perfect example of why you prepare a will. If you die without a will your survivors are in for a world of trouble.
I disagree for the second story, she shouldn’t have to because it’s a natural thing for all women to go through and it’s only blood, they both need to grow up, if the brother ever gets a girlfriend she won’t put up with that shit, I would divorce someone like that, yet again I would of never married someone who is that childish about periods
But the girl is right for making him sleep in a car over a burger, even though he offered to make up for it and go to burger King instead?
@@stephensingh2365 I mean I think she overreacted but she is very hormonal. And all she wanted was an apology. Technically he snapped at her first. She’s literally the one working while he’s ‘job hunting.’ He knew she wanted it… can’t blame her for being mad
@@lunarialoonatic yes but he did offer to make up for it so u can't say he wasn't even trying.
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last story: since the gifts were labelled and there was a letter couldn't she legally do something? I mean even if you are my guest (not the situation but taking it to an extreme) shouldn't I get in trouble if I ruin your things (even when there is no emotional value attached)?
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The brother and the pad thing, I feel like he went looking for it honestly. What will he do when he gets a girlfriend and she had her period. No wonder he's single
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Ellen on the second story somebody did comment exactly that about the mirror ......... And on the burger story......he should have been more compassionate knowing that at 6 mo. her hormones are all over the place
I hate to be crude but brother in law and mother in law need to be told that when dear husband passed everything that was his became his wife's. Dear husband doesn't have a house anymore.
Adam’s wife better kick the brother out
My wife cried over a pickle once when she was pregnant lol.
On the pad in the trash: LOL how the actual fook does an adult male not know about menstrual cycles?
I'm a bachelor, been one for years. If I found a bloody pad in my bathroom trashcan, I would find it gross like everyone does, and then dump it in the rest of the trash like usual. No grudges, no thought that the woman who left it there was doing anything wrong.
IF that guy ever gets a girlfriend I wonder what she'll have to do with her pads🤔
I thought at first she left it on the ring of the tub or something but bro your mad at her for using the trash can for what its supposed to be.
Last story- its her house now not the bil. She has every right to kick them out and if he invaded the space the first time she should of told him not to go in her bedroom
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Maybe I'm old (actually, I am), but the pad story annoyed me a little. When I was still needing them, if I was not at home, I would fold the pad, and wrap it in toilet paper so that no one else would happen upon it and be grossed out. It was simply being considerate of others' feelings. This woman, in my opinion, is acting like an entitled brat.
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Last story: throw the whole family away!
Anyone else disturbed by the BIL in the last story walking into her bedroom Willy nilly and helping himself to stuff? Creepy and weird behaviour IMO…
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Did she roll it up and wrapped up.
Just a note on the pad and bin: If I go to someone's house and I know there aren't menstruating people in the home, then I collect my used pads in a nappy bag in my rucksack (I carry those bags everywhere) and throw them away when I get home. Other people shouldn't have to deal with your bodily fluids and the BIL is going to have to take the bin out (I have OCD and the thought of someone putting blood somewhere in my home that I can't see terrifies me). It would be the same if she was injured and put bloody tissues in the bin, as it should be her or her husband who takes the bin out.
I agree. I would never leave my pad in someone else's home. Wrap it up and take it home with you.
Yeah but like who tf would want to put a bloody pad in their bag? Like I know you can just wrap it up in toilet paper but I wouldn’t want to put it in my bag still. Also isn’t that what trash cans are for? I just don’t understand why he got so mad. She put it in the trash can. 😐
God forbid someone dispose of bathroom related trash in the bathroom trash can. He WAY overreacted. He could have just asked her to take the trash out if it was that big a deal.
On top of that, BILis a full grown adult. What’s he going to do if he ends up with a spouse who menstruates? Is he going to yell at them for taking care of garbage? It’s childish.
I guess that’s true but I think you should tell the person then if you have a problem. That way it doesn’t get blown out of proportion like it did in the story. Be honest. The guy did over react here. How could the woman know if he had ocd (unlike he did in the story anyway but just saying what if). Maybe this is bad, but my first thought if I have to change my pad in public or at someone’s house is to not wrap it up and keep it in my hand- however ofc if I knew the person would have an issue I would dispose of it as needed
So the brother should've communicated like a mature adult. How was she supposed to know he's uncomfortable or possibly OCD? She didn't leave the pad visible and she didn't flush it, she disposed of it properly. She couldn't have kept the pad on or it would leak. This isn't some strangers house, this is her brother-in-law's house, she should feel comfortable enough to take care of her business. What's gonna happen if the brother gets into a relationship and his wife or girlfriend has to dispose of her personal products? He needs to grow up, menstruation is natural and shouldn't be viewed as a disgusting thing. She didn't leave it on the floor, it was in the trash. And if he's so grossed out that he truly can't handle it, he doesn't have to be angry about it. He could pull his brother aside and tell him, "Hey, I know this is an uncomfortable topic, but your wife left a sanitary pad in my trash. I understand she has to get rid of it, but I would appreciate it if in the future, she would remove it from the bathroom herself in a bag." Simple. No attitude, just a grown man making a request for his house. At my best friends house, if I have to get rid of a pad I don't put it in my bag, we just put it in a trash bag and take it outside. He could've suggested they do that, not acting like a teenage boy that just learned females have three holes and not two.
LOL..oh no b/f needed to be kicked out over that burger, because even when you have your period you have cravings, being pregnant is more so LOL. And job hunting, was he OUT all day long or was he online doing this job hunting. Cravings are real and intense. He's overwhelmed, oh please. I don't have sympathy for him really. It's funny but not funny.
1st story, I hope he broke up with her. She was so inconsiderate of his feelings. She is not good for him!!!etc etc etc.........
(first story) I think he had a problem with it bc she didn't cover it, like she just tossed it in there. I can see a problem with that bc I was taught to wrap up the pad + cover it with tp so if that's the reason then he was right to say something to the brother
She should've wrapped the pad with bathroom paper.
If she had done that (and we don't know if she did or didn't) she wouldn't be an AH. The basic courtesy is to cover the evidence like to flush a toilet. You don't leave an unflushed toilet even though it isn't that hard for the next user to flush it, it is definitely rude. If he complained about a discretely rolled pad in the trash can, he's the butt hole.
She probably did. Usually I see pads wrapped, either in toilet paper or in the other pad's bag (assuming you know how it is). The only thing that announced there was someone bleeding, was the toilet paper with blood.
Duh.
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But did she wrap the pad, because it's not her bathroom
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S1- I think the bf needs 2 rethink if this relationship is worth it. If nt then dump the girl who ditch u 4 her friends.
S2 - brother n wife need 2 sit down n hash out their issues w/, bcoz this is silly.
S3- I think u, don't need 2 shoulder the responsibility of actually baby n manchild.
S4- Sounds like a BIL th@ advantage of u n takin over. Kick BIL n family out.
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I always used tampons but... I did combine them with like, everyday type light pads for -just in case- moments. Both men are Seemingly being ridiculous... BUT by the sounds of it she just tossed her bloody pad into his bachelor brother's garbage can. That is disgusting. I wouldn't even do that at home.
What I did with the lighter ones, is fold them over and wrap them in toilet paper before throwing them out... BUT because *it is my bachelor brother-in-law's house and I'm aware there's already bad blood between us, which must negatively affect the relationship between the brothers, I would wrap it in tissue and ask if he had a paper or plastic bag/baggie and I would put that effer in my purse. She obviously made ZERO effort!!
Garbage cans have Garbage bags in them....
Honeslty I feel like you are just being gross and too much. Like from the story it sounds like she tried to hide it and put it away into his garbage that probably has a garbage bag in it. And like honestly the fact that you think asking her brother in law for something like that while carrying the pad is not worse for you is so interesting.
Well, you bring up a good point: But we don't know.
The brother didn't specify if she wrapped it or not (since wrapping pads is what I consider basic period decency.) We don't know if he was just starting a fight with her over something stupid, or if she intentionally left it unwrapped to get at him. He didn't specify, so it's hard to say. And the wife didn't think to clarify.
To me it just seems like all parties involved are a bunch of petty jerks who need to chill TF out
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About the pad in the bathroom trashcan? I'm a woman and it would gross me out too to see someone else's bloody pad in my trash. Chances are she didn't even fold it up and wrap it with toilet tissue and bloody pads stink. She should have made sure she has a plastic bag with her to dispose of later. I'm assuming she had her purse to have a fresh pad in. No one should have to deal with someone's personal waste.
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okay for anyone who has there period...i have a suggestion. doggy bags. their small and discrete. it can be a issue because the brother is a man and it is his place. say he didnt take the trash out for a while and didnt know about it. period blood actually will turn into a smell like dead fish. like it can smell really bad. but i get the doggy bags and just tie it up.
For the first story: I get where they’re both coming from. The boyfriend felt shut out because girlfriend was spending time with her friends.
Here’s the thing, though.
OP claimed he was okay with her friends, but then admitted he was trying to get her alone. Then, when he couldn’t naturally insert himself into their group, instead of mentioning he was feeling a bit left out, he DITCHED HER AND WENT TO A GAME BECAUSE SHE DIDN’T TEXT BACK WITHIN FIVE MINUTES. Yeah, no shit it took her an hour to figure out he was gone, she probably went to try and find him because she assumed her BOYFRIEND who she CAME THERE WITH would do more than send a single text before ditching her!
The boyfriend then, rather than consider the fact that he chose to go with her that night and decided to ditch her for a ball game or some shit at home because he didn’t mention he was feeling left out, told her to call a fucking Uber.
He was absolutely an asshole. He had no right to be pissed about spending gas money because they “didn’t get to spend time together” when he decided to go home on his own. God forbid he try and communicate his frustrations while he was with them all. Which he mentioned he WAS. God forbid he try and make friends with her friends. And GOD FORBID he reflect on what he could have done differently.
Nah… sorry as a woman I’m against the other woman. If you treat other people like crap expect to get it back. If someone feels left out after attempting to be included then obviously they are going to leave thinking they aren’t welcomed. It’s not the fact that she was spending time with friends. He literally said he was trying to talk to her but he couldn’t get one moment of alone time. Then if she wanted to hang out with friends why tf would she bring him along? If she only brought him along for the ride that’s f’d up. She’s using him and I very much doubt by her entitled attitude that she would do the same for him. And yeah, maybe she didn’t see the text because SHE WAS HAVING TOO MUCH FUN WITH HER FRIENDS. Hence, she didn’t notice. Don’t use people and invite them somewhere if you’re not going to include them. From someone whose been in a similar situation, it’s not a fun feeling. At least she could have been honest with him and say she just needed a ride if that’s the case but she straight up USED him. And he made an effort, it’s not like he isolated himself. Nope. You don’t do that. Idc if you’re a woman or male.
I'm gona have to disagree ^^;; LunAria LoonAtic above me said it better than I could. There's bad vibes there, yk?
@@lunarialoonatic I’m not saying it’s got anything to do with gender.
The issue is that he didn’t communicate that he was feeling left out. He just assumed they were purposely left him out and ditched them.
@@Justyouraveragechaosenjoyer as I mentioned, I can understand where they’re both coming from. But consider that we’ve only heard his side of things
@@squidmom3162 I didn’t say that it had to do with gender I just wanted you emphasize the behavior was wrong anyway. Also… he did. He maybe didn’t say it directly but she’s gotta be blind to not notice. He literally tried to join her conversations multiple times (not isolating her, just trying to get involved which you would expect him to do if she invited him) and asked her if she wanted to do anything (confirming if she was just going to be with her girlfriends all night and she didn’t bother communicating with him). She said no word to him so you can’t really blame him for assuming she just didn’t want to spend time with him. Again, feeling unwanted is not a fun feeling. Neither is feeling like a creep that he said he felt like. She could have at least talked to him seeing his efforts. Not just give him the cold shoulder. Like, she couldn’t possibly think that he would continue to sit and mope around by himself since he was being shamed out of conversations. Now, do I think maybe he should have gone to pick her up at least and talk it through there? Maybe. But I can’t blame him for being petty. He probably didn’t expect her to spend all of her time with him but he did expect for some guys to be there or for her to at least talk to him. It’s just the principal. You wouldn’t invite your boyfriend if you just wanted to spend the day with your girlfriends, right?
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In the Second Story I agree with the husband and the brother-in-law yes you had nowhere else to put it but you could have at least taken the bag out as you left but just leaving it there for him to deal with is very disrespectful especially cuz no other women live in that house so he knows it's you, you didn't even try to cover up or hide it either
the story doesnt mention what how she left it and its a natural thing that women deal with im sure he would know and if there was a problem they could have handled it better no arguing needed
With the pregnancy one, i really disagree. She was way out of line. She does indeed have more stress and pressure, but that doesn't mean she gets to invalidate the stress he's under. It's a burger. Chill the hell out.
Okay but hormones are crazy. He should also have apologized. She didn’t say he forgot, he didn’t order it. As in neglected to. And if she was talking about it a lot he should have known. He rily blew up over her over one request. Maybe she was out of line but she’s allowed to be a little unreasonable. He didn’t have to blow it out of proportion either. Legit all he had to do was say sorry and move on. She’s stressed from literally carrying the house
For the pad story, though she’s not wrong for disposing of something’s natural, she knows she’s on her period so… I feel that she should have a lady pouch to have the old pad in. She can secure it in the wrapper after changing it. I was taught this because disposing of a pad in someone’s house is actually seen to be disrespectful (why? Because pads will smell after a while), especially if it (the can) has no lid. So.. I dunno I’m kinda neutral about it..🥲
...she put it into the garbage where it should go... Wtf do you mean you're neutral? Do you want it in her purse where everyone will smell it if they even go near her???
Don't get me wrong, our creation is different.
Here in my town I don't see people getting out of bathrooms (it doesn't matter the place) and saying they saw a pad and it's disgusting. Also I guess it's because we take the trash three times a week.
I guess it depends on your experience. But in America we def don’t have lady pouches. At least, most of us don’t carry those to do that. Even if he was disgusted then yeah I guess she can know for next time but to make that big of a deal of a natural process women go through and that she can’t control is f’d up