Yeah, and I love how they "persuade" someone to go with their demands by being hostile and insulting. Great strategy! Also, Ryan: "victim". You keep using that word. I don't think it means what you think it means.
Ryan certainly Had one heck of a great mom, so glad she was on to him and warned her DIL about Ryan's cheating before the divorce. Sad that she passed away. Congratulations to Joanne and Kayla for getting away from that toxic cheating husband and father, making a new life for themselves thanks to a wonderful mil and grandma. 💝
Return to court and file to have them garnish his wages directly to get the court ordered alimony and child support. Just because Joanne is receiving money from his late mother's estate that doesn't negate his legal responsibility to pay.
I think the point was she doesnt need it and if getting it requires having contact, then she'd rather not. Must be nice to have that kind of money. But the ex can find out her address, because he has a right to know the whereabouts of his child. Not wise of her legally to withold her.
She made the right decision because a desperate man could act crazy and he will not have any reason to say she squeezed him for money; in any event, he was soon to lose his job.
Comparing a diamond to a speck of dust lol, I love Joanne :). To think this guy actually thought he was a victim, after kicking out his wife and child, how messed up can any one person really be?
At the 25:05 mark "...and she was 10 years younger than I was." There we have it. He was chasing a hot young thang. Props to MIL for discerning her son's true character and taking care of DIL and granddaughter.
Adulterous men used to get the living crap kicked out of them by friends, neighbors, and the wives family. It wasn't just an offense to the wife, but the very community. Pity that's gone out of style.
OP: "Who's got two thumbs and gives no effs about her cheating ex? THIS gal!" 🤣 I like the narrative bits in this one. It's interesting! It's good to break format, on ocassion.
“We’d return things to how they used to be….” Like she would go back to a life with Ryan! How stupid can these guys be? Grass is always greener on the other side of the fence until you realize they have a drought over there.
Let me get this straight. The reason Ryan was so desperately pleading for his ex to come back was because he needed...basic household chores done?? Wow, I can't imagine anything more pathetic. Even a 10 year old can do basic laundry and washing.
There would be only 2 reasons that i would need a woman to be with me, 1: Family, 2: Sex, the basic household chores are something both parties should be able to do and effectively take turns taking care ofand should never be religated to a single person unless the other is prevented from doing so due to injury or illness. Expecting the ex to come back just to do that, is as you said, pathetic. While i am not a supporter of Allimony, in this day and age, women can work, the only thing that is non-negotiable is child support, but the funny thing is, when the guy tries to avoid responsibility, he is a bad guy, but when the woman wants to do the same, she just kills the baby growing in her womb....what a way to avoid responsibility for the women. eh? But anyway, as you said, he should know basic responsibility and should never demand or expect the spouse to do it all.
For the wife to see her husbands plans for a change was brilliant 😂and she cut him off at every turn I so enjoyed this one he got what he deserved 😂😂😂😂
"When are you coming back???" "When the Oceans turn to fire. When the sun rises in the West and sets in the East. When Mars has forests? Take your pick."
RYAN ONCE YOU DIVORCE YOUR WIFE JOANNE AND KICK YOUR DAUGHTER KAYLA OUT TOO THERE IS NO GOING BACK FROM THIS FOREVER AND EVER AND FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE TOO
In America a judge would find out he's not paying child support and would throw him in prison, and he would spend YEARS there paying off his debt for child support and alimony.
Tbh over here they don’t stop a parent from seeing their child whether they’re paying child support. However when the child is a teen, the child can say if they want to see the non custodial parent .
Interesting. Where I'm from if the wife can work she'll probably not get alimony - plus since she has the money from the mil she'd not get support from the father!
After I got divorced, my new Wife was 5 years older than me. She was awesome. We were together for 27 years. She had a heart attack 25 years ago. I still miss her.
Cheating on an unemployed housewife that had to quit her job to take care of your mother means alimony having the child means child support you may want to look for a second job buddy
More then likely he wouldn’t pay alimony. Because she has the ability and experience to obtain gainful employment. Alimony is not a punishment! That’s not how it works, or what it’s was for. It was designed for the early 20th century housewife that was stay at home and had no job skills that could get a viable job to live. Think Mrs Cunningham of happy days, or leave it to beavers mom. That was what it was for. Usually today it gotten by wealthy people. Like Ivana trump, Gates wife ect. It takes a boatload of money to get it, and it’s not guaranteed. Ask Johnny Depp ex. That’s why most wealthy people have prenuptial contracts to avoid that. Child support Yep, but that’s based on his income set by the courts. For either party to change the amount you have to go before a judge and PROVE why it should be changed. If it were me I’d stop my employment and work flipping burgers for a year. Dragging it in the courts. Then when the judge sets the child support amount it will be based on the income made that last year. These stories are so far from reality of things it’s a joke. A third party NEVER will pay alimony. Only a spouse possibly. Alienation of affection is expensive and very hard to prove. The accuser MUST prove 3 things in court. Easy to defend, and extremely hard to prove. Only 6 US states even have that on the books now, most are no-fault states. The stories are fun. It’s fun the bad guys always get raked over the coals, but far from reality. My ex-wife cheated, left, took the kids, and I had to pay child support to her. She was given 75% custody because she was a female. The courts still flavor the woman, and look how many FREE places and things she can get help with EVERYTHING! Men have ZERO free resources. Sure glad equal rights is now in effect between the sexes. Then again a female only has to lift 20 pounds at work but I’m required much more for the same wages. Really fair huh?
@@paulredinger5830 that won't work because there is a provision for intentionally lowering your pay and they will charge what you USED to make. That's why they ask for up to FIVE YEARS of tax records to determine the proper average.
It's astounding how he thought that she would roll over and show her belly in submission to him. Glad her departed mil made sure that her son wouldn't get away from what he did without consequences. Divorce means the end to all of the obligations the woman to take care of any of his affairs. He's really an idiot.
I would never have told the ex the name of the man I was thinking of marrying. He would find him and then he would find me. Too dangerous in my opinion.
ex-husband you were so callous kicking your wife out immediately and not even showing any appreciate for all her care of your mother...then when things don't work out with your mistress...you want to go back with her
He was looking for a thrill..... He's the type of person who wants you to cry and beg..... He takes pleasure in misery...... But she was too smart to know what he is!!!!!
Ryan wants to have a house wife to take care of him & the house chores, so he can fool with other girls around. She does not seem to understand that, but keeps on blabbering about his behaviour.
You can leave your money and estate to whoever and whatever you want. I mean, there’s a woman who left her $13 million estate to her cat. So, no, just because you’re related to someone does not mean you are entitled to anything of theirs. 🤷🏽♀️
It all depends on the state you live in. I would bet that the mother had her will written such that she left her estate to Joanne and Kayla for her granddaughter's benefit. This is a generational skip on the inheritance.
The abrahamic gods description always came off to me as a petty child afraid of anyone else getting attention even when at another kids birthday party.
He lived with Mommie! To be absolutely honest, I did not know how to wash clothes. I know now, but when I got divorced, I would take them to a laundry and have them do it. I know------I was pathetic!
Ryan's mother's will has no bearing on his responsibilities to pay his Child Support or Alimony. All Joanne had to do, was print the chat logs and show them to the lawyers, and let them deal with him. His mom could have structured any clause she wanted into the will like if Ryan Cheated, he forfeited all claims and it transferred to Joanne automatically. She should have just blocked him and been done with it.
Ryan is, without doubt, one of the dumbest, delusional, self-absorbed pieces of crap the AT Universe has ever spawned. But the AT Universe also spawned Kaptain Karma and the Karma Korps, who make sure that karmic justice is always swift and fair...and, in severe cases like Ryan's, quite terrible, too. I just wish our universe worked the same way 😁 Great jobs by the writers and voice actors, as usual 🤗
I can’t believe how dumb these men are in regards to the free maid services they expect from ex wives. Once those papers are filed clean your own damn house.
I ABSOLUTELY HATE RYAN. HOW A WONDERFUL MOTHER (MOTHER INLAW) COULD PRODUCE SUCH AN EVIL,CRUEL,CHEATING SHITY NO GOOD PIECE OF BOY KAREN TRASH. SO HAPPY FOR JOANNE THAT SHE HAD A SECOND CHANCE WITH MILES IT WOULD B NICE TO GET AN UPDATE ON THIS STORY.
14.36 "My mother in law arranged to have her property bequeathed to me" 19.56 "In her will, your mother left everything except her house to me" Which one is it? Why didn't you write that Joanne went back to court to enforce the alimony and child support payments? Rookie mistake.
Is this California or somewhere else that doesn't care about child support or alimony mandatory? Since alternatively would see this man in jail or heavily fined.
RYAN LET HIS EGO GET THE BEST OF HIM TOO AND RYAN KNOW THAT TOO AND RYAN IS VERY FUNNY AND A JOKE AND A COWARD TOO RYAN WILL BE EATING THOSE WORDS NOW TOO RYAN IS VERY ANNOYING TOO
I like the narration and the addressing of why OP didn't block. And the cheater STILL has to pay child support. What a bum!
Nice little story. I’m glad MIL understood that her son was trash and made arrangements to help her DIL and granddaughter. 😊
I loved his mother! It's so nice to see a good mother-in-law for a change.
why do cheating people actually expect their ex to get back with them!! like they have self respect!
yes they do now have self respect and do not need cheaters back at all
Yeah, and I love how they "persuade" someone to go with their demands by being hostile and insulting. Great strategy!
Also, Ryan: "victim". You keep using that word. I don't think it means what you think it means.
AND have the nerve to call the ex partner a cheater when they find someone else after the divorce.
@@jgw5491 "Pathetic" is the word that describes dear old Ryan. Maybe add "clueless" too.
@@Rat-Builder Good words! 💯
Ryan certainly Had one heck of a great mom, so glad she was on to him and warned her DIL about Ryan's cheating before the divorce. Sad that she passed away. Congratulations to Joanne and Kayla for getting away from that toxic cheating husband and father, making a new life for themselves thanks to a wonderful mil and grandma. 💝
Wow .. this was great change in the format and story telling. I really like how they are evolving the stories and the way they are telling them.
I thoroughly enjoyed this new format
@@HrLBolle 💀
I love this format. It gives a bit of extra context that might be missing in other videos. Please do the behind the scenes bits more often!
Interesting that he chucked wife AND daughter out in the streets without a care. And then he was suddenly all concerned about Kayla's education.
Return to court and file to have them garnish his wages directly to get the court ordered alimony and child support. Just because Joanne is receiving money from his late mother's estate that doesn't negate his legal responsibility to pay.
let it build up a bit, that way he will not have enough to live any kind of life with what is left.
I think the point was she doesnt need it and if getting it requires having contact, then she'd rather not. Must be nice to have that kind of money. But the ex can find out her address, because he has a right to know the whereabouts of his child. Not wise of her legally to withold her.
She made the right decision because a desperate man could act crazy and he will not have any reason to say she squeezed him for money; in any event, he was soon to lose his job.
At about 15:00, Ryan wants to talk to Joanne. She is smart to only communicate via texts. Written communication can be used legally.
Refreshing to have a story where the MIL is wise, perceptive, responsible and good to her DIL.
Tells Joanne to leave and take Kayla, but yet is surprised that his daughter hates being around him?
Comparing a diamond to a speck of dust lol, I love Joanne :). To think this guy actually thought he was a victim, after kicking out his wife and child, how messed up can any one person really be?
If you could "buy" Ryan for what he was worth, and then sell Ryan for what he "thinks" that he is worth, would make you a very wealthy person!!!
At the 25:05 mark "...and she was 10 years younger than I was." There we have it. He was chasing a hot young thang. Props to MIL for discerning her son's true character and taking care of DIL and granddaughter.
I really enjoyed the way this story was written and done amazing thank you
I love the change in format for this one. I love how it was longer and had “chapters”.
Once you break the trust of someone who loves you, you're done.
People have forgotten that just because they need something from someone doesn’t mean that person need to provide it to them.
The narration in between about what's happening in between the months it's actually a pretty good concept to put in.
Adulterous men used to get the living crap kicked out of them by friends, neighbors, and the wives family. It wasn't just an offense to the wife, but the very community. Pity that's gone out of style.
One of the best stories I have heard on any of these sites. Great job.
OP: "Who's got two thumbs and gives no effs about her cheating ex? THIS gal!" 🤣
I like the narrative bits in this one. It's interesting! It's good to break format, on ocassion.
Joanne should've blocked him after the divorce and had a lawyer take care if everything
Thus is one of the best one's I've sat and listened to, please do more like this more of a story
good evening omg shame on u Ryan no good husband
The dialog between conversations helps explain the story better. 👍
That was definitely a fun read.
This was indeed a feelgood story. Thank you.
I liked this formula - the description of the events a little outside of the texts. And the blue texter was GREAT.
Here in the States, Ryan would be held in contempt of court for not complying with court ordered alimony payments.
Isn't it possible to seize on his salary ?
They could pull his license too.
Not just alimony, he had to paid child support to his ex wife.
@Baron Geoffrey Yes. The court could issue a Writ Of Garnishment for the amount owed.
@@RubidouxFalcon1988 If he got too far into back child support, he could wind up in jail.
“We’d return things to how they used to be….” Like she would go back to a life with Ryan! How stupid can these guys be? Grass is always greener on the other side of the fence until you realize they have a drought over there.
The mother could do anything she wanted with her money. She left it to the one that took the best care of her.
Let me get this straight. The reason Ryan was so desperately pleading for his ex to come back was because he needed...basic household chores done?? Wow, I can't imagine anything more pathetic. Even a 10 year old can do basic laundry and washing.
I'm sure he can ..he just doesn't want to ..
Ryan either cannot do household chores or he doing what is called "Intentional incompetence (or something like that).
@@laurenmentink7401 weaponized imcompetance
@@judyjohnson9610 Good way of putting it.
There would be only 2 reasons that i would need a woman to be with me, 1: Family, 2: Sex, the basic household chores are something both parties should be able to do and effectively take turns taking care ofand should never be religated to a single person unless the other is prevented from doing so due to injury or illness. Expecting the ex to come back just to do that, is as you said, pathetic.
While i am not a supporter of Allimony, in this day and age, women can work, the only thing that is non-negotiable is child support, but the funny thing is, when the guy tries to avoid responsibility, he is a bad guy, but when the woman wants to do the same, she just kills the baby growing in her womb....what a way to avoid responsibility for the women. eh?
But anyway, as you said, he should know basic responsibility and should never demand or expect the spouse to do it all.
For the wife to see her husbands plans for a change was brilliant 😂and she cut him off at every turn I so enjoyed this one he got what he deserved 😂😂😂😂
I *love* these more recent ones with the antagonist's name changed to more and more angry snarky euphemisms
I love reading these tales as the numnuts in them give me my daily dose of laughter at their arrogance and stupidity. Thank you.
I love the timing of the video in the background showing a man cleaning! When she said "Yessssss aaand" PERFECT
Dude is something...😒
Have a great day, folks.
"When are you coming back???"
"When the Oceans turn to fire. When the sun rises in the West and sets in the East. When Mars has forests? Take your pick."
The Mother leaving all that to her has no effect on the law; he still legally owes her alimony and child support.
That’s true. It just means he can’t manipulate his ex-wife over money.
RYAN ONCE YOU DIVORCE YOUR WIFE JOANNE AND KICK YOUR DAUGHTER KAYLA OUT TOO THERE IS NO GOING BACK FROM THIS FOREVER AND EVER AND FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE TOO
Maybe she's just waiting the long game. Making his payments soar sky high before suing him for the full amount just for the sheer pettiness
Her mother-in-law was such a good, caring person and knew her son so well. Good head on her shoulders.
And yet my no show of a father managed to get out of paying for any child support for me and my twin sister!!!
Good evening yall, hope you are having a great weekend 😊 😀
Good evening everyone from Kentucky. I'm late to the party but I hope everyone's Saturday was wonderful
OMG. When Ryan talks, it is so stupid that I have been grinning and shaking my head. Not sure if my face hurts or neck hurts the most.
wow!!!!!! i cannot believe i am second!!! love theses stories!!!
In America a judge would find out he's not paying child support and would throw him in prison, and he would spend YEARS there paying off his debt for child support and alimony.
Tbh over here they don’t stop a parent from seeing their child whether they’re paying child support. However when the child is a teen, the child can say if they want to see the non custodial parent .
Interesting. Where I'm from if the wife can work she'll probably not get alimony - plus since she has the money from the mil she'd not get support from the father!
I’ve seen and heard stories like these and that helped me realize younger women aren’t always the best influence.
After I got divorced, my new Wife was 5 years older than me. She was awesome. We were together for 27 years. She had a heart attack 25 years ago. I still miss her.
She should get his wages garnished for the back payments of child support and alimony.
Wow. If she goes back to living with him, he would have no reason to pay alimony or child support.
At 6:32 That "Oh, is that so?" can only mean that she was able to process it swiftly and thought that it wasn't worth fighting over it. LOL!
Cheating on an unemployed housewife that had to quit her job to take care of your mother means alimony having the child means child support you may want to look for a second job buddy
True. But the best choice would have been Not to cheat on your spouse. Especially when they are such a good person who has sacrificed so much for you.
The she scammed me meaning she wouldn't clean up after me then throwing the mistress out.
@@theoneeyedartist3253 in the real world that would be true, but sometimes evil idiot people do bad things to good people....
More then likely he wouldn’t pay alimony. Because she has the ability and experience to obtain gainful employment. Alimony is not a punishment! That’s not how it works, or what it’s was for. It was designed for the early 20th century housewife that was stay at home and had no job skills that could get a viable job to live. Think Mrs Cunningham of happy days, or leave it to beavers mom. That was what it was for. Usually today it gotten by wealthy people. Like Ivana trump, Gates wife ect. It takes a boatload of money to get it, and it’s not guaranteed. Ask Johnny Depp ex. That’s why most wealthy people have prenuptial contracts to avoid that. Child support Yep, but that’s based on his income set by the courts. For either party to change the amount you have to go before a judge and PROVE why it should be changed. If it were me I’d stop my employment and work flipping burgers for a year. Dragging it in the courts. Then when the judge sets the child support amount it will be based on the income made that last year. These stories are so far from reality of things it’s a joke. A third party NEVER will pay alimony. Only a spouse possibly. Alienation of affection is expensive and very hard to prove. The accuser MUST prove 3 things in court. Easy to defend, and extremely hard to prove. Only 6 US states even have that on the books now, most are no-fault states. The stories are fun. It’s fun the bad guys always get raked over the coals, but far from reality. My ex-wife cheated, left, took the kids, and I had to pay child support to her. She was given 75% custody because she was a female. The courts still flavor the woman, and look how many FREE places and things she can get help with EVERYTHING! Men have ZERO free resources. Sure glad equal rights is now in effect between the sexes. Then again a female only has to lift 20 pounds at work but I’m required much more for the same wages. Really fair huh?
@@paulredinger5830 that won't work because there is a provision for intentionally lowering your pay and they will charge what you USED to make. That's why they ask for up to FIVE YEARS of tax records to determine the proper average.
Hello, everyone from Clarksville Tennessee
It's astounding how he thought that she would roll over and show her belly in submission to him. Glad her departed mil made sure that her son wouldn't get away from what he did without consequences. Divorce means the end to all of the obligations the woman to take care of any of his affairs. He's really an idiot.
I would never have told the ex the name of the man I was thinking of marrying. He would find him and then he would find me. Too dangerous in my opinion.
Good evening and have a good night everyone 🤗
Going to miss the next one 🌌
He's certainly clueless
ex-husband you were so callous kicking your wife out immediately and not even showing any appreciate for all her care of your mother...then when things don't work out with your mistress...you want to go back with her
I got a kick out of the people cleaning already clean houses and enjoying it so much!
MIL in Heaven: (Gendo pose) All according to plan...
"I thought that she was an amazing, family-oriented woman..... She was also 10 years younger than I was....."
Ok *FULL STOP,* block him 🚫💢
He was looking for a thrill..... He's the type of person who wants you to cry and beg..... He takes pleasure in misery...... But she was too smart to know what he is!!!!!
Hi everyone
Hello guys from Chilliwack BC Canada 🇨🇦. Wet and miserable 😖
Ryan wants to have a house wife to take care of him & the house chores, so he can fool with other girls around. She does not seem to understand that, but keeps on blabbering about his behaviour.
You can leave your money and estate to whoever and whatever you want. I mean, there’s a woman who left her $13 million estate to her cat. So, no, just because you’re related to someone does not mean you are entitled to anything of theirs. 🤷🏽♀️
It all depends on the state you live in. I would bet that the mother had her will written such that she left her estate to Joanne and Kayla for her granddaughter's benefit. This is a generational skip on the inheritance.
The abrahamic gods description always came off to me as a petty child afraid of anyone else getting attention even when at another kids birthday party.
Very well done
What’s up with people not being able to clean up?? What we’re doing BEFORE they got married?? I’d like to know!💯💯
He lived with Mommie! To be absolutely honest, I did not know how to wash clothes. I know now, but when I got divorced, I would take them to a laundry and have them do it. I know------I was pathetic!
The ex husband is so ate up with stupidity it is almost funny. He got what was coming to him.
yes he did get karma, which hit him as a 2 by4
Ryan's mother's will has no bearing on his responsibilities to pay his Child Support or Alimony. All Joanne had to do, was print the chat logs and show them to the lawyers, and let them deal with him. His mom could have structured any clause she wanted into the will like if Ryan Cheated, he forfeited all claims and it transferred to Joanne automatically. She should have just blocked him and been done with it.
Nice video of cute guy doing housework.
Ryan got outwitted by everyone, op got it good ..., still has to go to court for child support !
Love how they always use two past tense in these things. Had gone, had purchased, how about just went and purchased? Geez 😂😂😂
Ryan is, without doubt, one of the dumbest, delusional, self-absorbed pieces of crap the AT Universe has ever spawned. But the AT Universe also spawned Kaptain Karma and the Karma Korps, who make sure that karmic justice is always swift and fair...and, in severe cases like Ryan's, quite terrible, too. I just wish our universe worked the same way 😁 Great jobs by the writers and voice actors, as usual 🤗
Wait! I thought the mother put the house in the DIL’s name??
No the house is the only thing not in dil name
Evening everyone
Man, this weirdo was persistent
I like the new narrative style
I liked the new format with moments added in for flavah but that guy has to be the BIGGEST moron of them all. XD
How dare you not be upset that I’m being mean to you !
I can’t believe how dumb these men are in regards to the free maid services they expect from ex wives. Once those papers are filed clean your own damn house.
"Heh. I'm pretty pathetic, huh?" Yes. Yes, you are.
Good afternoon and evening, hope everyone is doing well. 😊💝
I ABSOLUTELY HATE RYAN. HOW
A WONDERFUL MOTHER
(MOTHER INLAW) COULD
PRODUCE SUCH AN EVIL,CRUEL,CHEATING SHITY
NO GOOD PIECE OF BOY KAREN
TRASH. SO HAPPY FOR JOANNE
THAT SHE HAD A SECOND CHANCE
WITH MILES IT WOULD B NICE
TO GET AN UPDATE ON THIS
STORY.
Child support and visitation are 2 separate legal issues.
Here's my advice for Ryan -
HIRE SOMEONE TO CLEAN
There. Problem solved.
Cheating spouses always try to turn the blame around, hopefully she got her share of the property
14.36 "My mother in law arranged to have her property bequeathed to me"
19.56 "In her will, your mother left everything except her house to me"
Which one is it?
Why didn't you write that Joanne went back to court to enforce the alimony and child support payments? Rookie mistake.
Unfortunately, not paying child support is NOT a reason to deny visitation
Ryan only wants their money is stands out plain and simple
Good evening everyone. Another great video
Is this California or somewhere else that doesn't care about child support or alimony mandatory? Since alternatively would see this man in jail or heavily fined.
I liked the story
A really poor set up by the ex-husband. The word idiot comes to mind
Now, this is a good story 👏🏼👏🏼
15:42 excuse me?! 😂🤣
Glad she's on her toes and see right though his manipulation and lies. He's only wants what his mother left her and the baby.
Ryan truly is the King of his own mound of ants, huh?
RYAN LET HIS EGO GET THE BEST OF HIM TOO AND RYAN KNOW THAT TOO AND RYAN IS VERY FUNNY AND A JOKE AND A COWARD TOO RYAN WILL BE EATING THOSE WORDS NOW TOO RYAN IS VERY ANNOYING TOO
I really enjoyed this store…especially her total, determined revenge❤
Do you know how much common sense you lack to sell your house instead of hiring a cleaning company......?