People Who COULD NOT Stand It Anymore
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- People Who COULD NOT Stand It Anymore
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Just because you’re partner buys you lots of gifts, that doesn’t mean you’re a gold digger. Maybe their love language is gift giving???
Yeah! It's one thing to purposefully make them buy everything for you including gifts, it's another thing for them to CHOOSE to give you a lot of gifts WITHOUT anything to prompt it but their own kindess and love for you.
THIS!!!
Mhm. When I have a boyfriend, I’m gonna give him lots of stuff because I love giving people things. Usually it’s the other way around but nope. The guys have to do the hard part (asking the girl out/to marry him) so the least I could do is spoil him, because otherwise I probably wouldn’t have said anything to him to be together due to shyness.
EXACTLY
@@So-Many-Orphans_.Husky. lol why cant u ask ur man out tho,,,,
There’s no such thing as an “innocent bystander” when you have the ability to do something about bullying, harassment, etc. without putting yourself in danger. The first story, for example, has the fiancé watching his mother all but outright claim that Op is a gold digger, literally grabbing her without permission so she could shame Op for a birthday gift, and he watched things of a similar nature happen time and time again without correcting his mom/defending his fiancée. The fact that for 4 months he’s been living off of Op’s dime makes this even worse(and it was already pretty bad).
Which means something dont it. Yall never see the bigger picture dont you? Men are constantly told to shut up after they say anything and shit yall act like its easy for people to speak up. He probably had been conditioned as a child to never go against his mother. Even i dont speak up because when i was a kid i got abused everytime i opened my mouth so stop fucking seeing only one fucking side
@@hannahroque4910 I have two anxiety disorders and depression. I’m terrified of people yelling at me, especially in anger, and as a kid(and this something I’m still trying to get over), I had the irrational fear that I’d be beaten if I spoke ill of or in contradiction to any of my family. I’m coming from the side of someone who struggles deeply to speak up. You defend the people you love if you want them in your life.
@@hannahroque4910lmao I’m that person and I’d rather speak up and defend my partner rather than see them get humiliated that’s how love works if u ain’t ready to fight for the people u love then simply don’t be in a relationship that’s not an excuse
@@Nova-club true no excuse it feels like it was fine for him her fiance to be humiliated as long as his safe w/out finding that he is 4months unemployed... it's a good thing that happened to him. He will now know how his family and friends treat him, who really cares for him after knowing his unemployed and doesn't have money. that's why I hated stupid w/out common sense guy.
Gotta love the thought process "let me not tell my girlfriend about this weird family rule and then get mad at her when she rightly feels frustrated about being called rude for trying not to be rude"
Story #1, break up with boyfriend NOW. Boyfriend is not on your side and his family is not on your side. Get away. You'll do better.
0:05: Her fiance's family has already prejudged her as a gold digger; her fiance did nothing to stick up for her, and he has the audacity to rake her over the coals for exposing him as being unemployed, thus embarrassing him in front of his family. Another man-child who doesn't have the marbles to stand up to his parents. Hope that he's her ex-fiance now.
4:20: Sometimes family transcends bloodlines (just ask anyone who's been adopted). It's a shame her parents can't see this. They don't deserve to be their grandparents if this is their attitude.
8:23: I get family traditions and whatnot, but yeah, maybe the BF should have told her about his family's table silence ahead of time, instead of blindsiding her with that when dinner arrived. That would have prevented an awkward and embarrassing situation.
You're spitting facts about all of them.
Also kudos to the brother's wife in the second story for at least trying to diffuse the situation by saying their first 'grandbaby' and not 'grandchild.'
Third story, totally agree with you. A warning would have been the proper thing to do,, smh
You know the original saying "Blood is thicker than water" is not the full saying? It's actually "The blood of battle is thicker than the water of the womb," as in blood isn't the only factor that determines who your family really is. Those grandparents are so wrong to do that, and that mom of the stepkids deserves an award for being a great parent.
Finally! Someone who speaks English! I don’t literally mean as in English but as in someone who understands that line!
cool - I didn't know that.
We have a similar saying in my language (similar to the abridged version) so I never looked into it. super interesting.
the one i know is the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.
That's untrue. The saying "blood is thicker than water" dates back to the 12th century while "the blood of the convenant is thicker than the water of the womb" appeared only at the end of the 20th century. It has no historical precedent whatsoever.
I thought it was "blood of the 'covenant' is thicker than the water of the womb"?
1st Story: The woman should dump her fiancé. 2nd Story: OP made the right decision when she chose to not invite her parents to Thanksgiving at her and her wife's house. People don't have to be blood related to be family. 3rd Story: OP didn't do anything wrong.
Actually he should dump her. She wanst understanding at all. I was abused as a kid and never was able to stand up for anyone and myself maybe she should have asked him why he didn't say anything.
@@hannahroque4910 he's a grown ass adult now and can and should have stood up for his fiancee. Even if he did experience some truama as a child that's no excuse for his actions or lack thereof. And the fact that he was living off of her money yet he was letting them call her (indirectly)a gold-digger. He wasn't expected to fight with his family but at least say something like "hey you're being rude, she's not a gold digger she does so much for me and I bought that bracelet as a gift for her birthday" or something like that.
@@Angel-ej4ui
Just because he's a grown man doesn't mean he can't be afraid of his abusers??? And maybe he would've been on her side had she talked to him about it or spoken up about it in a reasonable way, and not in a completely petty and unnecessary way that directed the ire toward him. Even if he wasn't abused, it was made clear in the story that his unemployment was a pretty big deal to him, to bring that up instead of just saying "I am not a gold digger, please stop implying I am one or else I'm leaving" is completely uncalled for.
@@QuokkaWaka
Dude, OP said that she has defended herself on multiple occasions against her fiancé’s family like the way you described you would “politely” do it. He chose not to stand up for her. Even if he was that terrified of saying something, he could’ve at least made sure they had some kind of understanding that he didn’t appreciate what his family were saying, didn’t agree with them, etc. Abuse isn’t an excuse for a blatant disregard for someone’s feelings, especially if you’re romantically involved with them. To say that abuse is an excuse is just trashy. Abuse is real, but a blatant disregard for someone isn’t a result of abuse, it’s the result of being an ass who hides behind trauma. Need I remind you, OP would’ve known if her fiancé had trauma, and probably would’ve put that in there so people could come to a reasonable conclusion with all of the facts. She didn’t though. So most likely, he didn’t care that his family was saying that. She may not have been right to straight up out him like that, but he definitely could’ve prevented that easily by just saying she wasn’t a gold digger and that they loved each other.
@@hannahroque4910 If he is unable to stand up for his wife when she is literally being emotionally targeted what about after marriage, if the fiance under emotional distress gets angry and it is excused then why is it when OP is blowing up under stress she is not entitled to it. It would be bold to assume that she also was not abused in any way before this which caused her to behave this way. She was being derogated by them for a long time and she definitely was not accustomed to this, you don't know the way she was trained to deal with such situations neither do you know how it felt to her, the anger she had was enough to just shut them down, she was terribly angry like anyone would be. I don't know where his stance is but he was not behaving as a future husband should and this is just a preview of the abuse he would subject her to in the future.
Tell me does she deserve the same abuse he gets or has gotten because she loves him and wants to be with him.
Bruh, why would they call that first woman a gold digger? That is so rude! She’s working and paying for everything like she said, so she doesn’t deserve that kind of treatment. And that, “Well, if the shoe fits” comment from that family member makes my blood boil for the woman. I would’ve been like, “I’ve been paying for everything, so how about you shut your damn mouth?” I hope she leaves that dude because screw him and his family.😡
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If you are a bystander when your partner gets insulted by your parents/people you know, instead of defending your partner, then that is where your position is, as a bystander, and not this person's partner.
First story: He's not a bystander. She should think very carefully about her future with this man (and his family).
I lived with my dad and stepmom from the end of first grade until I was 28 years old. My stepmom's grandparents would give gifts to my little sisters (stepmom & dad's kids), but my brothers and I didn't get any presents (or birthday cards or a "happy graduation") because we weren't family.
Wow! Sorry to hear that!
We all have those days where something just tips us over the edge and these are just some examples of that!
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The one about the "real grandchild" really got to me !! My little family is a blended family (both me and my partner has children from previous relationships and also together) both our families see them all as their grandchildren nephew's nieces cousins ect - if you can't take on the step child into your family then you don't deserve to be in their lives !! I'd have done the same
Story 3: Boyfriend shouldn't have been upset because she didn't know about that rule but if I was in the situation, after finding out I wasn't supposed to speak, I would've stayed quiet. It's better than giving a rude first impression because it did seem disrespectful. The family is at fault as well because obviously the girl had no idea they were supposed to be quiet. They could've explained the situation to her before calling her disrespectful
she laughed from being nervous to be fair though, not that she didn't want to keep quiet but for some people when things gets too awkward to help relieve the stress in the situation they laugh or chuckle. Again it's a nervous reaction, I would know since my sister is like this and I had to explain this multiple times to people. In my opinion she didn't come off as disrespectful, after all how can you expect someone to follow your rules when it was never explained to them? Especially since many households have different variations.
In a sense I feel like boyfriend and the parents could've handled this better and actually communicate rather than let her figure it out, ridicule her and treat her as if she is a little kid.
The last story - the boyfriend was the AH, not the girlfriend. He really should have given her a heads up about the family mealtime ritual.
I guess, but I can see his side too. It was a normal thing at his house, so why would he tell her if he thought it was normal. I also think that her just leaving was a jerk move. They set up a nice meal and although they shouldn't have banished her to the kitchen, she shouldn't have left. If she truly wanted to get to know them better than she would have stayed. Maybe she could have asked after dinner why they do that in order to better understand them, but what she did was really disrespectful.
@@Kal-213 Staying completely quiet at dinner is not normal. So yes he should told her about his family's tradition.
@@Kal-213 I agree. She was weirded out so she never tried to understand it. That’s on her.
@@Kal-213 Lol he had one year worth of dinners together with her where i guess they did talk, so how is it possible for him not to understand that not talking is not usual and he should tell her? Absolutely not, thats just a cop-out.
@@Kal-213 yeah no, if someone is being rude to you and that’s what they were being was rude. You have the right to leave, y’all kill me with the fact y’all think people should take rudeness and suck it up.
The first story his family is rude and he's spineless. He'll never take up for you ever no matter what. And to add you see the way he's treated by his own family, that means they will be even worse to you. Break up. You deserve better!
it infuriates me when people do something completely justified and then ask if they are in the wrong
First story the guy needs to grow a spine and a pair or the girl should leave because he doesn't deserve someone as amazing as her who supported him even though she was being treated like trash by his toxic a** 'family'. Second story those 'grandparents' and 'brother' need to get a reality check because being a family simply means loving someone who you view as family like a pet, a friend you've known for years and trust, and in this instance your adopted kids. That blood is thicker than water bs never stopped biological parents from treating their kids like crap and yet so many unrelated people treat adopted kids as their own. Third story I'm kind of torn because while I can understand that it's really awkward to not talk while at the dinner table, in some cultures that's just their tradition to keep quiet at meal times. I heard that some do this because someone might say something that may affect everyone else's appetite like politics and such and that wouldn't be good for their digestion. I do believe she should have just kept quiet though just to be respectful of their traditions.
On the third one: I feel like he should have told her about it in advance, it have to even registered to her what was happening until the third hush
3:30
That to a point is understandable.
Their oh so hyped up golden child and favorite son blatantly lied to their faces.
I feel that disinviting a person that misused their trust is perfectly normal.
*That* it came to that point is totally his fault as well.
He insisted on going despite knowing his own mother would try to berate OP again. And he was hell bent on not defending OP. Again.
He literally could not bring himself to defend OP against his mother so OP stopped defending him against his mother.
Quid Pro Quo.
@story 3 I kinda think that the OP was being disrespectful as well. I'd understand if they instinctively apologised and then got told off but maybe laughing was what set it off for the family. They were invited to the dinner so ig it's necessary to follow the family's traditions unless its something problematic.
It seems like a big misunderstanding. She said that prayer was a common thing in her area, so I imagine they expected her to know about it already, but obviously she didn't and accidentally ended up offending them.
@@QuokkaWaka exactly. There's different ways each family prays and has their meals so I think the OP should have read the room and respected their way.
@@Sienisota I think the OP knew about praying as they mentioned it themselves that people in the area pray before meals etc. Each family has different ways of praying and if OP didn't know it maybe they should just have read the room and stayed quiet during meals. The family told them twice to not speak during meals yet they continued talking and making noises. Also the getting up and leaving the house that too during a dinner seems like an overreaction to me.
2nd story: So "IF" OP was their adoptive daughter, I bet they'd treat her as their own. But when she has adopted kids, they aren't their grandchildren. I say this as an adopted kid myself. I've sensed slightly different behavior towards me from certain relatives. From my mom's side they treat me as their own. From my dad's side they're a bit more cold. It's probably this combined with the fact that they've had some bad encounters with my mom before I was adopted and it just left some bad blood between them, and the fact that their growing up environment was pretty different from my mom's and her side of the family, it wasn't that tight-knit so they also grew up that way. Cuz I can see it in my dad as well, he's the same. My mom is very emotional and extroverted while my dad is more reclusive and introverted. I'm something in between but leaning a bit more towards looking like dad.
The 2nd one got to me. My entire family is blended! my mom met my stepdad when i was 5 and got married when i was 9. In fact my family has more "step-grandchildren" than "bio-grandchildren" and my grandparents (stepdad parents) love all of us to death.
I do agree that he should have told her that they don't talk while eating but when she had been told to keep quite once she should have respected them and ate her food in silence. Also in alot of cultures people don't talk while eating so I think it was much more disrepectful of her to continue speaking and even laughing.
The boyfriend should’ve atleast told her about the rule
I would have left him sooner as he never came to her defence if he loved or cared about her at all. Break off the engagement n the wedding she deserves better.
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Obviously first story is a straight up NTA, but who on earth disinvites their own son to Thanksgiving because he's unemployed? Like, WHAT?
Next story: as a person with a dad not blood related, can confirm blood means nothing.
My dad work odd jobs for over a year to put food on the table while trying to find a solid job. He would never stand for this type of BS about a man going 4 month without looking for getting a job. Dad had no issue picking blueberry with the migrate workers and refused to be on the tractors in any shape or form as to him that is not picking blueberry's plus make more money picking them being on a tractor.
My cousin's dad wasn't even his real father but he calls him dad and the grandparents see him as their own grandchild even though he is no blood between them and has 2 younger half siblings.
I can’t imagine sitting around a table quietly
My family would die.
in the story with the grandparents the fact the the fiance of the op's brother spoke up speaks volumes
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For the third story I don't necessarily think anyone was wrong. I do think the boyfriend should've warned her, but I have mixed feelings about this one bc its a cultural thing.
For people who can't see beyond blood it means that their love is conditional and honestly that's just sad.
Agreed, the boy friend should of told her before dinner. Different strokes for different folks😉
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You just know OP’s niece is going to be the golden grandchild who the grandparents obviously favour over OP’s children. Also niece is too young to even know what’s going on at Thanksgiving, so brother needs to explain why OP should allow her children to be emotionally abused so he can have a perfect Thanksgiving.
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First story, his entire family (including mum and wife) are incredibly bad people. They looked at their husband and in the post confirmed that he dissagreed with what his mum said, and yet threw him under the bus to alleeiviate their pain. Like ????
Well maybe he should have voiced his disagreement?
@@rain01250
Maybe he found it difficuot to disagree or complain to his family. That's really common. You cant make reasoning why he's wrong when it could go either way. Yes, he could've done something. Unless he feels uncomfortaboe around his family anyway. If they're this over the top about a silly rule like this, it's likely he waa emotionally abused theoughout his childhood
@@bookmarkobjectanimations123 Silly rule? I am talking about the gold digger story, not the stay quiet at dinner one.
@@rain01250 sorry, i got it wrong, my bad. I get your point but the possible emotional absue causing him to be unable to go against them still stands
@@bookmarkobjectanimations123Honestly I don't buy the emotional abuse thing considering he called himself an 'innocent bystander' which just shows how uncaring and inconsiderate he is of his gf.And even if this assumption is true,he should explain that to his partner and get therapy instead of shouting at her when she finally speaks out against the degrading comments.
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First story: Why is she supporting him like he's a child? He has no reason to get a job because she is providing for him. Who is going to pay for the wedding? Will there be a wedding? Something is wrong with that whole family. I hope she dumps him and moves out. He can continue to be a bum by himself or move back into his parents' house. He was fine with his family bullying his fiancée, but he gets mad when she stands up for herself. Who talks to their child's partner like that.
Second story: What is wrong with these grandparents? They are immature for their age.
Third story: I just read this story the other day. The commenters said the same thing. The boyfriend should have said something.
Innocent bystander??? What
The “blood family” annoyed me so much! I’m adopted, so according to the parents I’m not my parents child?
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unpopular opinion : even if she didn't know prior to the meal, she should have respected their tradition and chose to eat alone or silently
For the 2nd story it got me thinking. If she's a lesbian, imagine she never got a girlfriend or a wife or she had but they wanted to adopt. Would the parents feel the same about their daughters adopted children?
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Story 1 - OP should just ditch the wastrel of a boyfriend because he will never defend her for *anything*! That will proverbially kill two birds with one stone because it will get rid of his horrible parents too. Does she really want to marry into that horribly toxic family?
Story 2 - I can sort of see both sides of this. The grandparents wanted blood Grandchildren and OP's parents absolutely SHOULD NOT have said what they did in front of their step grandkids. Some people from older generations believe that blood is everything but it doesn't make what they said in front of everyone any better.
Story 3 - So much for being such "lovely" Christians. Aren't they supposed to teach forgiveness and kindness? Just shows what hypocrites they are.
In the first story: I guess that was the way his family acted for his whole life and after years and years of being raised like this, he might have ended up giving in to it.
And I think what he needed to be shown, is that not everyone will tolerate being walked over, like they did to the girlfriend in this case.
And she was right about it too. He was just sitting there letting them walk over her the way they do to him, so of course the girl is at some point gonna be like "This isn't right. This is toxic as fuck!". She told them the truth that he was wrong about hiding form them. Because it's a wrong thing having to hide your problems from those who are supposed to support you.
She was the one that had to break the bubble at some point. You can't live in such a toxic bubble full of tension, at some point it must pop.
my last boyfriend (Jerry) and I (Jamie) had stayed together for almost a year. He was my first everything, first kiss, first time, everything. About a month before our anniversary this year he wanted me to meet his mum (Shelly), I didn’t see an issue with it since I had been dying to meet her, he told me she’s sorta crude mouthed but overall a good person. I didn’t think anything of it. I got there and was immediately dumbfounded. She was drunk as hell and stuck like weed. We walked in and she looked my up and down before spitting right on my shoes, for context it was raining so my heels had some dirt on the top. She then proceeded to look at my disgusted face and says “who’s the bitch shithead?” She asked my boyfriend. He said “ my girlfriend.” Didn’t comment on the spit that was dripping on my foot. I look at her and calmly say “ do you have a napkin of some kind?” She then grabbed my wrist and pulled my arm to the floor, so there I am crouched onto the floor staring at my spit on shoe as she just spoke to my boyfriend as I sat there. “Don’t speak out of turn. Your under me!” He looked down at me and said,” don’t mind my mum she’s odd isn’t she?” I promptly stood up and told that woman off, “ you shove me onto the floor and insult me to my face while spitting on my shoe and expect me to think ur just quirky? I think I’d rather die than consider myself below you. And btw you have weed stuck in your crooked front tooth you twit.” I spun around and walked away as politely as I could and in almost a whisper my boyfriend slaps me and slams the door in my face after saying “ what the fuck you moron? My mums just joking with you!” as I hear his mum cackling saying “ oh nooo she’s going to call you an abuserrrr” as she slurred off. I was so disgusted and texted him it was over because he shouldn’t have put his hands on me and if spitting was considered a joke then I’d spit on his hag of a mothers face next time I see her. Then I called my mum while sobbing in my car about the whole thing and how random it was. Guess it takes the parent to really see the child. I vowed to myself I would never speak to someone how she spoke to me. And for good reason too.
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Honestly, i think that the guy shouldve told her ab not talking at the table, BUT i also think that once she realized what was up, she should've been respectful and not have talked. You can catch up and say whatever you wanna say after dinner yk... dinner isnt the only time to talk. Everyone has different traditions and we all need to respect them... but the boyfriend is wrong for not giving a heads up.
1:55 Uh, the mom literally called the OP a gold digger when she rhetorically said "if the shoe fits"...
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okay so the first story obviously has a lot of problems but the thing that got me the most is that the bracelet was a birthday gift, not a random gift given just because. she really started a problem because one partner bought another partner something expensive for their BIRTHDAY🤡🤡
edited to add: that's 100% the boyfriend's fault. he should've explained his family's views prior to the dinner. they'd been together for a year and they didn't appear to do the same when they were together. idiot.
In the second story, the grandparents telling that the kids are not their grandchildren in front of them is actually a dick move. They should have just told her in private.
But I don't think considering them not your grandchildren is bad. You took the decision to be the children's parent, so you should treat them as your children. You don't have any right to force your children as their grandchildren because they are not. If they accept the children, great. If they don't, you should respect it.
But as a consequence of it, the grandparents should never complain about not getting invited to the kid's birthday parties, wedding, graduation or any other important events.
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I disagree. Grandparents don't get to pick and choose what children's children they consider as their grandchildren and what ones they don't. Since they are all children of the parent then they are also all grandchildren of the grandparents. If the grandparents wants to exclude one or two of them then it is within the parents right to keep all of their children away from them.
highly disagree especially since they treated them as if they were their grandchildren before another was born.
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The second story feels like a dig at the daughter for being gay. If she wasn't gay she could've given them grandchildren years ago.
I don’t think so. It feels more like they don’t consider aspired children as blood and therefore are not family. They didn’t reject her wife and still say they love the kids but for whatever reason the adoption to them still doesn’t make them blood related. Horrible thought process but is more common than you would think.
@@hollybrooke322 I know my family is out of my life for that bull, since I can only adopt.
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1st story: he’s kinda in the right tho. It’s one thing if he’s not standing up to his family without losing his job, but it’s another because she’s taking advantage of the financial situation.
Agreed, she should've gone about it differently.
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In the last story, I think that the narrator should have just respected the rules. It’s great to talk at dinner but leaving because you don’t like the silence shows that she doesn’t truly respect her boyfriend’s family, as she is unwilling to follow rules aren’t unethical. That girl is just entitled.
EXACTLY! I was waiting to find a response like this. You’re in their house, respect their rules
I understand what that family is coming from, but it wasn’t her fault to begin with and plus the bf should’ve told her before dinner so technically it’s the bf fault actually
Yes. I was looking through to see if anyone talk about this. It's not hard to respect how people do things in their own household. Even if it's weird. Everyone have their own quirk. It's just for during meals right. She kept stating she understood but it's like saying "i get it but bend to my rules anyway"
@@Theefashionkilla this opinion makes sense too. Yeah she could've been informed beforehand.
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3rd story situation is not cultural. I know really Christian people and they talk with us at dinner.
I don’t think they meant Christianity was the cultural part. I think the entire family background may have been culturally different.
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For 2nd story, they shouldn't have said it infront of the children. But they have the right to say it since they feel niece is their first biological child. Also she can't bore a children. So can understand why they feel like it. People want to respect their feelings but won't respect the others feelings. What kinda world we are in
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1) girl you should have left him the first time he didn't defend you. sounds like a perpetual victim of circumstances. give him back his stuff and send him on his way
2) it's not that I don't understand where the grandparents are coming from. Just like I want to have children that are really mine they probably wanted a grandchild that was really theirs. But that's one thing and talking about it is another. It's not the kind of thing you say even if you think it. But what was really inexcusable was doing so in front of the children (and reiterating it once they had been offered such a good escape route). I don't care about what they think and even if it is insensitive they might have wanted to tell their daughter - even just so that she knows that her niece will be getting preferential treatment. But really saying anything like that in front of a kid is a deal-breaker. She didn't overreact: she just reacted like anyone would if you insult his kids' intelligence and sensibility.
3) sounds like an asshole to me. I get having traditions but he would have known that she didn't have the same habits. He could have told her.
And what the hell is he insisting she could eat in the kitchen for? I get the parents but he should have just shut up. I hope he's really good in bed because otherwise it's definitely not worth it.
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How are you doing my friend? How are you feeling? The mom is just so rude for putting her down like that thinking that she can't afford to buy a bracelet. She seriously needs to call of the engagement to her fiance because he is just truly pathetic. The grandparents are so heartless, but unfortunately their right. It happened to me because back when I was a child I was extremely close to my stepdad and his mom, but when I was around 19 my mom and stepdad got a divorce and just like that communication came to a complete halt from both my ex stepdad and his mom. I loved these stories!! Stay safe!! I love you!!