The American Dream is and has always been a nightmare… those who want it should be afraid. When I was a young lady, I changed jobs just because. People would say … I was unstable. Guess what at 50 plus, I have a house, I have excellent transportation, had children, had a husband (deceased). Did not follow the script and I feel fantastic.
Same. Quit my career at 45, spent half my net worth while I was young enough to enjoy it and am happily working again at 54 and want to work till I'm 70. Was burned out after 25 years of work and needed a break.
Yeeeeeeeeeees! Same here! I realized I don't need nearly as much as I thought I needed to live in the way that brings me joy. AND I can be super generous. It makes me SO HAPPY! Much love and joy to you! 😊💛🌺
I’ve come to realize that we have been conditioned to fear self governing. Imagine if you were the true captains of your own ships? That comes with great responsibility and I believe it removes the “they!” I study indigenous cultures and I realize that they really do self govern and outside of the elders and spirit or spirits they don’t really answer to anyone or anything outside of “self!” I often mourn the fact that so much of our natural way of being has been stripped and oppressed. I watched “the last forest” last night on Netflix and something about seeing the women just naked and weaving baskets and communing with nature just made my heart hurt. I wish we had that depth of freedom without judgement and without intrusion. Nothing about this place is natural/organic! We have literally succumb to the dream world of the inorganic ones…
I feel like I’ve been here for a while, since 2015 after my aunt died 2 years before retirement after so many career sacrifices. Her death is what inspired my debt free journey because I recognized that I didn’t want to have to work until society says I don’t have to. Now that there is much more conversations about opting out, I’m much more comfortable talking about it. I’d be so reluctant to announce or talk aloud about feeling like this because it was “abnormal” I really appreciate your content
Me too! I’m there with you sis. I’m opting out of the “Oh you have to work til you drop dead or have 2 toes in the grave” club. That membership does not work (no pun intended) for me. 😂 I came across a post that says: “You were born to do more than work, pay bills and die.” That did it for me! It changed my whole perspective on things. I only wish I knew this many many many years ago. Do what is best for you. Wishing you all the best. God bless😘
Awwwww! Thank you so much! That's so sweet! And yes! Letting that go and being open to what life will bring is life changing. Much love and joy to you! ☺️🌻💛
I have evolved into this mindset during COVID. It's great to see other black women like myself who wants what's best for me, not what society, friends and relatives 'feel' as though I should have or be. Thank you for sharing your perspective. It's so refreshing.
I think the true issue is for everyone to define what the “American dream” means for you individually. We all know that the American dream says for women (for example) to go to school, make good grades, graduate, and get a nice and comfy desk job. Then, eventually settle down, get married, and have children with a white picket fence. But YOUR individual “American dream” may be to never get married and freely travel the world, or to never have kids but to solely take care of the elderly, or to ditch college and be a business owner, go to the military, etc. I think everyone needs to find their level of comfort in life, be happy with that, and live peacefully in who they are!!! 🤷🏽♀️
I have been bingeing on your videos, just, speaking to my soul. Opting out as much as possible with letting my whole life revolve around working (which isn't even making that big of an impact in the world) and remember what really counts. Thank you for your self-expression
This video was so affirming, especially the part about being multifaceted and people asking what you do. That question has always made me feel smaller than I really am! Yes to being 3-D 👏🏾
I love your energy. Your thoughts on being “ Revolutionary “ remind me of Sister Sonia Sanchez . I was introduced to her writing by Professor Karen Hunter and Dr. Greg Carr. Now I ask myself when pondering over something, “ so how does this free me”. Love you videos!!
You hit the nail on the head: people do not ask “why” enough, if at all. “Why” do you want Gucci or Louie? Because those brands actually speak to you or because people are always yelling about how important they’re ‘supposed’ to be to you?
I have always lived my life at my own pace..partly due to special circumstances and because my body and mind just cannot handle stress. I tried it and my body and mind broke down and I became ill. So consequently I never became financially successful in this society's view...BUT in my own eyes I am successful..as I am less stressed, more at peace.. "freer" and being myself. I'm 68 years old and still living independently. I honestly think had I lived "their" American Dream I would not be still be here, or I would be so very physically ill or mentally ill(on drugs or an alcoholic). Thank you so much for this video and for all your wonderful thoughts and ideas on living a life of joy and more ease... one on your own terms and much as you possibly can. I am enjoying all of your videos!
This has been my belief and what I practice going on 3 decades. Excited n happy to see all the momentum this way of life has widely garnered thus far. Here's to a brighter future🥂💗
I honestly think most people don’t even truly KNOW who they are or what they like because someone else has told them who they “should be” or what they “should like or want or do” As an RN I have worked with a few doctors who didn’t even want to be doctors 😳 So when I’d ask “then why did you become a doctor?” The overwhelming response would be “because my father and grandfather was or my mother said I should. In some cases most of their family members were doctors so everyone just followed suit. I often thought for many it was the title, the prestige or the money. Side note: Many doctors are just as broke as other folk. They just have nicer “things” because they make more money but they also spend more money to look the part. Nevertheless, I think that most people’s focus is typically just on working and paying the bills and/or keeping up with the Joneses so they don’t have time to know who they are and what they like. You’d be amazed at how many people don’t even have a hobby or just something they enjoy outside of work other than drinking and partying on the weekends to numb the reality of having to go to work come Monday morning. Been there. Done that! And I’m done. There’s so much more to life but we often don’t have “the time” to live. Many people are just existing, not living. There’s a difference. I’m all about time freedom now. That’s the essence of true wealth to me. It’s about holistic living…mind, body and spirit not just a car or a purse or brand name clothing. I’m a believer now that I am my own “brand” so I have to define that for myself. Many people don’t have or make the time to tend to their own health and I’m often so so confused why retired folks say “they are bored” and so go back to work. That’s like escaping slavery and not even being caught then deciding to voluntarily return to the plantation. I’m sorry that may be a grim analogy and no disrespect to my ancestors but there is the phenomenon of “the corporate plantation.”
I hear you about that plantation mentality. I'm 68 and have recently started receiving my Social Security. It is not nearly enough for me to live on but I'm determined to find another way to supplement my income rather than go back to that plantation. I love being free...to be me!
This is so true. I’ve never said this out loud but I’m 58 and still don’t know who I am and what I want. I feel comfortable in this space expressing myself because I didn’t realize so many people are just like me😢
I love that you want choice… in America we have the illusion of choice, and by re defining what each of us want, will create our choices. It’s a better solution than masking our horrible feelings about society. Great video. I love the you don’t use music or talk super fast and loud. As someone who is highly sensitive I can’t listen to most TH-camrs
Gurl!! Im soaking up EVERYTHING from this America Dream series. This resonates with me soooo much, friend. What you talk about is why we moved from the DMV to NC. But it hasn't been easy at all, so much so that I was just recently questioning everything after being out of the cities for 4 years. I've asked myslef "Should I just go ahead a go back to an unfulfilling 9-5 job and give up this homesteading dream?" "How can I ever save enough for retirement as a homeschooling mom?" Anyway - your vids popped up right on time reminding me of my "why" and challenging me to really think outside the box to make this alternative, fulfilling path work!!!!
Hey Soul Sista! I don't have much words today just showing love 💕. Alright back to the video and most importantly my ice cream chyl 🥴🥴😹😹. PS: You look great in orange 🍊. Alright bye 😹😹
Omg I needed this. This came on my feed and I very much relate to this. I’ve especially found it difficult my whole life to pick one thing. I’m always looking for one career and how to fit in the rules of this system of work. I like so many things but find it hard to choose which has created so much anxiety and stress since high school and now in my 30s. So Amen to all you said ❤
Thank you for your message. It felt like a lot of weight was lifted off my chest. And I love your travel ideas. I plan on traveling and trying all those wonderful restaurants I’ve seen on the food network.
Got you. My education pointed me towards a management role, but I sucked at it. I was not happy, but more important, my team was not happy. No matter where I worked, what training and approach I took, it stayed the same. So I quit my job and found work in my profession (which I love) and looked for a position I work in a team and with people but do not have to manage and I love it. Gives me energy. Living in Europe we have more vacation days then we use a year so I take every last Friday of the mont as a vacation day and this allows me time for myself.
You have a natural gift for speaking. I’ve watched a couple of your videos on this subject and I truly enjoy it. Thank you for bringing this conversation to TH-cam. I saw you for the first time on Stephanie Perry’s video. These conversations are important.
Girl I am a big fan of yours. Your music is so amazing. Hopefully one day, you can check out one of my wife's songs. But for now I want to say u are a star. My wife and I love your music.
The American dream is meant to keep us being working wage slaves and give all our time and energy into dead end jobs and only realizing close to old age we spent much of our life doing things we didn't want to do for a false dream that could never be more valuable then spending time doing what you enjoy.
Your words are like the aroma of flowers in the spring time. And like stepping out of a stuffy room after being in there for so very long and inhaling fresh air. So refreshing! I appreciate your words my beautiful sister. They are rich and very inspiring. They confirm some of my thoughts. I'm happy to know you. Thank you for being the mouth piece to how some people feel already and just didn't know how to express it. Thank you thank you! Hope to be in touch with you soon 🙂💐🌼🌺🌸🌹💐
Your words are what we need to hear...you're a blessing! I understand and believe in your message 💯%. A lot of people are programed by the system THEM/THEY...not realizing who really has the upper hand or control. Without us being apart if THEIR machine...they system wouldn't work...it's time for people to start thinking for themselves. Thank you again...I love your channel!💙
Love this!! What you are sharing is TRUTH. Over years of observation and experimenting with my life - the journey to get there is such a profound evolving process. One thing I know for SURE - once we allow ourselves to experience those 'little' freedoms, to really deeply experience them, no amount of money can make you go back. Keep spreading the good word❤.
This video spoke so deeply to the season I'm in right now. Everything you said resonated with me and I've been feeling discouraged bc there is a lot of pressure around me in various areas to be or get to certain ways in a strict and defined path. Thats never been my story. And I've been feeling like I'm not enough. Thank you for this video. I can let go of others pressures on me. I can pursue the life that allows for my growth and healing without feeling behind. Thank you for encouraging me. I can tell you have achieved a freedom I desire to have. It gave me hope for me to get there too someday.
Yes! Yes Yessssssssssss Sis. Keep on keeping on! You ARE successful because YOU determine what that looks like for YOU. It’s different for different people. At the end of the day we are all individuals and must operate from a place of our higher selves. What that looks like for me will undoubtedly look different for someone else and that’s ok. Society does not dictate my worth. God does! Love ❤️ your content. God bless you.
Amazing and well put togther it flows. its a much needed truth for many americans across the Map...I like how Sis gave basically gave us the secrect sauce on how to find your own true happiness not to follow societies guidlines on happiness is suppose to look like...this is very hard for people.....Tripple thumbs-up 👍👍👍❤❤❤Thanks for sharing this amazing 😊
I like what you say I slowed down the day I turned age 70 I stopped and looked at everybody. I knew how much money I had how many friends I had and I decided I need to travel before I’m dead….. and now I’m traveling around the US ,,,inexpensively. Simplify simplify.
Thank you so much...i really needed to hear this it clarifies that...THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ME.📿🕉👁🔮😌THANK YOU SO MUCH GODDESS...MAY YOU ALWAYS BE BLESSED.
This relates so much to the books I’ve been reading about Zen Buddhism and mindfulness. I appreciate when content from various places all align. Also, always nice to be reminded of things my therapist has said to me.
I like what you say I slowed down the day I turned age 70 I stopped and looked at everybody. I knew how much money I had how many friends I had and I decided I need to travel before I’m dead….. and now I’m traveling around the US ,,,inexpensively.
Love yah!!!! Great that you know what you know at this point in your life; in your youth. "Tenderness, kindness and love". To live life in this way is what it's all about. Some of us learn this later, hopefully not too late. The constant striving and being "hard-working" is killing us!!!! Time to know when enough is enough........Time to slow down and cut out the "struggle".
I am so happy I found your channel. I’ve been binge watching and so much has just been speaking to my spirit. Thank you for existing and sharing such awesome content. 💕 God bless.
I just subscribed to your channel. You've communicated beautifully how I've been feeling. Lately I've been asking myself questions about who & why I do what I do. Thanks, for sharing your story and I'm glad to have randomly came across your channel. Keep inspiring & challenging us.
You are literally AMAZING! I love your mind and the way you think. Deep, intricate, well thought out, and easy to understand. I can’t believe I’m barely finding your videos! Thank you for sharing 💕
Niche market consultation has had me at a stall like you i want to talk about more than one topic. I will do just that from here on out. #pushback #icreatethesystem4me
Glad I found your Channel👭🏾. I'm going through this with my channel as well. You can diversify your interest on other platforms that's what I'm considering. I've also recently started an Instagram page called cuddletherapynyc to address the social disconnection problem. And how the culture is so anti life and I refuse to participate in it also bc I KNOW HOW EXPENSIVE THOS "NICE" THINGS ARE. I'm also a cuddle therapist. 🦄
you're the type of woman I've always wanted. I couldn't make enough for my ex. She could break Bill Gates. Im free looking for commonly sensed,self love partner, someone llike... YOU!
The American Dream is and has always been a nightmare… those who want it should be afraid. When I was a young lady, I changed jobs just because. People would say … I was unstable. Guess what at 50 plus, I have a house, I have excellent transportation, had children, had a husband (deceased). Did not follow the script and I feel fantastic.
Firstly, I'm so sorry for your loss. 💛 And I love ALL of this. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us! Much love and joy to you!
@@AleciaRenece Thank you!
Same. Quit my career at 45, spent half my net worth while I was young enough to enjoy it and am happily working again at 54 and want to work till I'm 70. Was burned out after 25 years of work and needed a break.
Pure quality. Your channel is a blessing!❤️💫
Oh wow! Thank you so much! 💛🌺☺️ I'm so happy this is helpful to you! Much love and joy to you!
U got right mindset! Going slow or at it pace allows universe is to work in your favor
Deciding what is enough to me is so huge! Thank you so much for your content.
Yeeeeeeeeeees! Same here! I realized I don't need nearly as much as I thought I needed to live in the way that brings me joy. AND I can be super generous. It makes me SO HAPPY! Much love and joy to you! 😊💛🌺
I’ve come to realize that we have been conditioned to fear self governing. Imagine if you were the true captains of your own ships? That comes with great responsibility and I believe it removes the “they!” I study indigenous cultures and I realize that they really do self govern and outside of the elders and spirit or spirits they don’t really answer to anyone or anything outside of “self!” I often mourn the fact that so much of our natural way of being has been stripped and oppressed. I watched “the last forest” last night on Netflix and something about seeing the women just naked and weaving baskets and communing with nature just made my heart hurt. I wish we had that depth of freedom without judgement and without intrusion. Nothing about this place is natural/organic! We have literally succumb to the dream world of the inorganic ones…
I feel like I’ve been here for a while, since 2015 after my aunt died 2 years before retirement after so many career sacrifices. Her death is what inspired my debt free journey because I recognized that I didn’t want to have to work until society says I don’t have to. Now that there is much more conversations about opting out, I’m much more comfortable talking about it. I’d be so reluctant to announce or talk aloud about feeling like this because it was “abnormal” I really appreciate your content
Me too! I’m there with you sis. I’m opting out of the “Oh you have to work til you drop dead or have 2 toes in the grave” club.
That membership does not work (no pun intended) for me. 😂
I came across a post that says:
“You were born to do more than work, pay bills and die.”
That did it for me!
It changed my whole perspective on things. I only wish I knew this many many many years ago.
Do what is best for you. Wishing you all the best. God bless😘
You have a great personality. I resonate with letting go of hard deadlines.
Awwwww! Thank you so much! That's so sweet! And yes! Letting that go and being open to what life will bring is life changing. Much love and joy to you! ☺️🌻💛
I have evolved into this mindset during COVID. It's great to see other black women like myself who wants what's best for me, not what society, friends and relatives 'feel' as though I should have or be. Thank you for sharing your perspective. It's so refreshing.
I think the true issue is for everyone to define what the “American dream” means for you individually. We all know that the American dream says for women (for example) to go to school, make good grades, graduate, and get a nice and comfy desk job. Then, eventually settle down, get married, and have children with a white picket fence. But YOUR individual “American dream” may be to never get married and freely travel the world, or to never have kids but to solely take care of the elderly, or to ditch college and be a business owner, go to the military, etc. I think everyone needs to find their level of comfort in life, be happy with that, and live peacefully in who they are!!! 🤷🏽♀️
I have been bingeing on your videos, just, speaking to my soul. Opting out as much as possible with letting my whole life revolve around working (which isn't even making that big of an impact in the world) and remember what really counts. Thank you for your self-expression
Pure wisdom...Thanks for sharing!
This video was so affirming, especially the part about being multifaceted and people asking what you do. That question has always made me feel smaller than I really am! Yes to being 3-D 👏🏾
I love your energy. Your thoughts on being “ Revolutionary “ remind me of Sister Sonia Sanchez . I was introduced to her writing by Professor Karen Hunter and Dr. Greg Carr. Now I ask myself when pondering over something, “ so how does this free me”. Love you videos!!
You hit the nail on the head: people do not ask “why” enough, if at all. “Why” do you want Gucci or Louie? Because those brands actually speak to you or because people are always yelling about how important they’re ‘supposed’ to be to you?
I have always lived my life at my own pace..partly due to special circumstances and because my body and mind just cannot handle stress. I tried it and my body and mind broke down and I became ill. So consequently I never became financially successful in this society's view...BUT in my own eyes I am successful..as I am less stressed, more at peace.. "freer" and being myself. I'm 68 years old and still living independently. I honestly think had I lived "their" American Dream I would not be still be here, or I would be so very physically ill or mentally ill(on drugs or an alcoholic). Thank you so much for this video and for all your wonderful thoughts and ideas on living a life of joy and more ease... one on your own terms and much as you possibly can. I am enjoying all of your videos!
man...... as someone who works in the medical field... i am feeling this video so hard
This has been my belief and what I practice going on 3 decades. Excited n happy to see all the momentum this way of life has widely garnered thus far. Here's to a brighter future🥂💗
Yeeeeeeeeeees! I'm trying to get like YOU! Much love and joy to you! Here's to a brighter future for sure!
I honestly think most people don’t even truly KNOW who they are or what they like because someone else has told them who they “should be” or what they “should like or want or do”
As an RN I have worked with a few doctors who didn’t even want to be doctors 😳
So when I’d ask “then why did you become a doctor?” The overwhelming response would be “because my father and grandfather was or my mother said I should. In some cases most of their family members were doctors so everyone just followed suit.
I often thought for many it was the title, the prestige or the money.
Side note: Many doctors are just as broke as other folk. They just have nicer “things” because they make more money but they also spend more money to look the part.
Nevertheless, I think that most people’s focus is typically just on working and paying the bills and/or keeping up with the Joneses so they don’t have time to know who they are and what they like.
You’d be amazed at how many people don’t even have a hobby or just something they enjoy outside of work other than drinking and partying on the weekends to numb the reality of having to go to work come Monday morning.
Been there. Done that! And I’m done. There’s so much more to life but we often don’t have “the time” to live.
Many people are just existing, not living. There’s a difference.
I’m all about time freedom now. That’s the essence of true wealth to me. It’s about holistic living…mind, body and spirit not just a car or a purse or brand name clothing.
I’m a believer now that I am
my own “brand” so I have to define that for myself.
Many people don’t have or make the time to tend to their own health and I’m often so so confused why retired folks say “they are bored” and so go back to work. That’s like escaping slavery and not even being caught then deciding to voluntarily return to the plantation. I’m sorry that may be a grim analogy and no disrespect to my ancestors but there is the phenomenon of “the corporate plantation.”
I hear you about that plantation mentality. I'm 68 and have recently started receiving my Social Security. It is not nearly enough for me to live on but I'm determined to find another way to supplement my income rather than go back to that plantation. I love being free...to be me!
This is so true. I’ve never said this out loud but I’m 58 and still don’t know who I am and what I want. I feel comfortable in this space expressing myself because I didn’t realize so many people are just like me😢
Your channel is so soothing.
Awwww Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay! That makes me SO HAPPY! 💛☺️🌻
I love that you want choice… in America we have the illusion of choice, and by re defining what each of us want, will create our choices. It’s a better solution than masking our horrible feelings about society. Great video. I love the you don’t use music or talk super fast and loud. As someone who is highly sensitive I can’t listen to most TH-camrs
Gurl!! Im soaking up EVERYTHING from this America Dream series. This resonates with me soooo much, friend. What you talk about is why we moved from the DMV to NC. But it hasn't been easy at all, so much so that I was just recently questioning everything after being out of the cities for 4 years. I've asked myslef "Should I just go ahead a go back to an unfulfilling 9-5 job and give up this homesteading dream?" "How can I ever save enough for retirement as a homeschooling mom?" Anyway - your vids popped up right on time reminding me of my "why" and challenging me to really think outside the box to make this alternative, fulfilling path work!!!!
Hey Soul Sista! I don't have much words today just showing love 💕. Alright back to the video and most importantly my ice cream chyl 🥴🥴😹😹.
PS: You look great in orange 🍊. Alright bye 😹😹
Love this! I’m moving towards freelancing and considering living outside the country once again.
Such amazing content and very thought provoking…. Ppl are lazy!!! And they rather die trying than to go against the grain of “society’s norm”.
Omg I needed this. This came on my feed and I very much relate to this. I’ve especially found it difficult my whole life to pick one thing. I’m always looking for one career and how to fit in the rules of this system of work. I like so many things but find it hard to choose which has created so much anxiety and stress since high school and now in my 30s. So Amen to all you said ❤
Thank you for your message. It felt like a lot of weight was lifted off my chest. And I love your travel ideas. I plan on traveling and trying all those wonderful restaurants I’ve seen on the food network.
I love this so much! That sounds so cool! Thank you so much for sharing this! ☺️🌺
I'm over the American't dream/system and also over The place itself.
Got you. My education pointed me towards a management role, but I sucked at it. I was not happy, but more important, my team was not happy. No matter where I worked, what training and approach I took, it stayed the same.
So I quit my job and found work in my profession (which I love) and looked for a position I work in a team and with people but do not have to manage and I love it. Gives me energy.
Living in Europe we have more vacation days then we use a year so I take every last Friday of the mont as a vacation day and this allows me time for myself.
You have a natural gift for speaking. I’ve watched a couple of your videos on this subject and I truly enjoy it. Thank you for bringing this conversation to TH-cam. I saw you for the first time on Stephanie Perry’s video. These conversations are important.
Girl I am a big fan of yours. Your music is so amazing. Hopefully one day, you can check out one of my wife's songs. But for now I want to say u are a star. My wife and I love your music.
Your channel is blessing me right now. Thank you🦋
Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay! That makes me happy! You are so welcome! It is my absolute pleasure. 😊💛
I love this mindset and I speak it over my life. Thank you for your videos. You're helping someone out here ☺️👏🏽👏🏽❤️
The American dream is meant to keep us being working wage slaves and give all our time and energy into dead end jobs and only realizing close to old age we spent much of our life doing things we didn't want to do for a false dream that could never be more valuable then spending time doing what you enjoy.
Your words are like the aroma of flowers in the spring time. And like stepping out of a stuffy room after being in there for so very long and inhaling fresh air. So refreshing! I appreciate your words my beautiful sister. They are rich and very inspiring. They confirm some of my thoughts. I'm happy to know you. Thank you for being the mouth piece to how some people feel already and just didn't know how to express it. Thank you thank you! Hope to be in touch with you soon 🙂💐🌼🌺🌸🌹💐
Your words are what we need to hear...you're a blessing! I understand and believe in your message 💯%. A lot of people are programed by the system THEM/THEY...not realizing who really has the upper hand or control. Without us being apart if THEIR machine...they system wouldn't work...it's time for people to start thinking for themselves. Thank you again...I love your channel!💙
I thanked God for your videos. I finally realized that I am beautiful, and wonderfully made by God. May God richly bless you.
Yes you are! This is absolutely WONDERFUL! Thank you so much for sharing this!
I thoroughly enjoyed this video! It really made me look at myself and my situation. Thank you!
Thanks for this!!! ❤️
It was my absolute pleasure to be able to share! 💛☺️
Love this!! What you are sharing is TRUTH. Over years of observation and experimenting with my life - the journey to get there is such a profound evolving process. One thing I know for SURE - once we allow ourselves to experience those 'little' freedoms, to really deeply experience them, no amount of money can make you go back. Keep spreading the good word❤.
I feel like you are in my head because your saying everything’s I’ve thought and wanted to say but just didn’t know how to express…
This video spoke so deeply to the season I'm in right now. Everything you said resonated with me and I've been feeling discouraged bc there is a lot of pressure around me in various areas to be or get to certain ways in a strict and defined path. Thats never been my story. And I've been feeling like I'm not enough. Thank you for this video. I can let go of others pressures on me. I can pursue the life that allows for my growth and healing without feeling behind. Thank you for encouraging me. I can tell you have achieved a freedom I desire to have. It gave me hope for me to get there too someday.
you’re on fire. clear, direct, and kind. thank you for sharing
Yes creating your own success
Thank you, never stop teaching us.
Literally been praying to find my tribe. I’m in the DMV too ❤ keep posting!
I’ve opted out too! Happy for you.
Yes! Yes Yessssssssssss
Sis. Keep on keeping on! You ARE successful because YOU determine what that looks like for YOU. It’s different for different people. At the end of the day we are all individuals and must operate from a place of our higher selves. What that looks like for me will undoubtedly look different for someone else and that’s ok.
Society does not dictate my worth. God does!
Love ❤️ your content.
God bless you.
This right here is what I needed, thanks 🙏🏽
you are so beautiful inside and out! Thank you for sharing your gift!
Amazing and well put togther it flows. its a much needed truth for many americans across the Map...I like how Sis gave basically gave us the secrect sauce on how to find your own true happiness not to follow societies guidlines on happiness is suppose to look like...this is very hard for people.....Tripple thumbs-up 👍👍👍❤❤❤Thanks for sharing this amazing 😊
I like what you say I slowed down the day I turned age 70 I stopped and looked at everybody. I knew how much money I had how many friends I had and I decided I need to travel before I’m dead….. and now I’m traveling around the US ,,,inexpensively. Simplify simplify.
Your channel has quickly become one of my favorites! ✨
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This really made my day! Much love and joy to you!
Thank you so much...i really needed to hear this it clarifies that...THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ME.📿🕉👁🔮😌THANK YOU SO MUCH GODDESS...MAY YOU ALWAYS BE BLESSED.
You got excellent common-sense and you telling the truth
This relates so much to the books I’ve been reading about Zen Buddhism and mindfulness. I appreciate when content from various places all align. Also, always nice to be reminded of things my therapist has said to me.
I am so thankful I found your channel truly a blessing!! 💎🙏🏾💖
Wow new subscriber!!! I love your commentary!
Thank You 😇
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I like what you say I slowed down the day I turned age 70 I stopped and looked at everybody. I knew how much money I had how many friends I had and I decided I need to travel before I’m dead….. and now I’m traveling around the US ,,,inexpensively.
Love yah!!!! Great that you know what you know at this point in your life; in your youth. "Tenderness, kindness and love". To live life in this way is what it's all about. Some of us learn this later, hopefully not too late. The constant striving and being "hard-working" is killing us!!!! Time to know when enough is enough........Time to slow down and cut out the "struggle".
Thank you so much 🌸😍😍
I am so happy I found your channel. I’ve been binge watching and so much has just been speaking to my spirit. Thank you for existing and sharing such awesome content. 💕 God bless.
I just subscribed to your channel. You've communicated beautifully how I've been feeling. Lately I've been asking myself questions about who & why I do what I do. Thanks, for sharing your story and I'm glad to have randomly came across your channel. Keep inspiring & challenging us.
Love this...
Deciding what is enough for me! I have to sit on that one a little while. Keep up your message because you are part of a mini revolution.
Thank you so much for your content. I feel the same about what you say.👏🏽
Sis, I LOVE your channel! Keep putting out this greatest, setting the people FREE!
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I'm so happy you enjoy! ☺️💛🌻 Thank you so much!
I am so glad I found your channel!!! It is so refreshing!!! 🥰
You are literally AMAZING! I love your mind and the way you think. Deep, intricate, well thought out, and easy to understand. I can’t believe I’m barely finding your videos! Thank you for sharing 💕
Thanks for sharing! I definitely needed to hear this :)
Niche market consultation has had me at a stall like you i want to talk about more than one topic. I will do just that from here on out. #pushback #icreatethesystem4me
Your videos are amazing!
This is so true!!!
I LOVE all of this!!
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Glad I found your Channel👭🏾. I'm going through this with my channel as well. You can diversify your interest on other platforms that's what I'm considering. I've also recently started an Instagram page called cuddletherapynyc to address the social disconnection problem. And how the culture is so anti life and I refuse to participate in it also bc I KNOW HOW EXPENSIVE THOS "NICE" THINGS ARE.
I'm also a cuddle therapist. 🦄
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Is it sad, ironic, or funny that I watched this video at 2X the speed?
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